Santa Was The Daddy Ft. Ken The Man

Summary

Pour Minds Podcast

Episode: "Santa Was The Daddy" Ft. Ken The Man

Air Date: December 26, 2025
Hosts: Drea Nicole & Lex P
Special Guest: Ken The Man (Rapper/Songwriter)

Overview

This festive episode blends holiday chaos, girl talk, and real-life advice as Houston's own Ken The Man joins Drea and Lex for an unfiltered wine-soaked chat. Together, they swap stories on dating, car mishaps, friendship, body image, and surprising “Santa” secrets. Laughter, raw honesty, and a heavy dose of Houston culture make this a lively, comforting listen.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Catch-up & Car Confessions

• Segment Start: [03:05]
• The trio opens with stories of being deceived by men (trips with “birthday balloons”), glitter vases at an ex’s house, and meeting “the other woman.”
• They plunge into a storytelling circle about old cars:
  • Lex rides around in her “beat up” but beloved older car.
  • The group reminisces about memories made, defending why not every car needs to be perfect.
• Memorable Exchange:
  • “Your car have it—you a bad bitch but you gotta have something that humble you.” – Drea [13:01]
• Ken shares drunk driving near-misses, and how a poorly-timed “accidental location share” nearly brought her ex to her house.
• Car window tint experiences: Drea gets ticketed for her too-dark tint, debates with a stern Black officer, and reflects on police encounters in Atlanta.

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2. Ken The Man’s Career, Independence & Fanbase

• Segment Start: [05:11]
• Lex and Drea hype Ken’s sold-out tours as an independent rapper. Ken is proud of her fans, though reluctant to call them “Ken Folks”:
  • “They want to be called Ken Folks so bad... it’s country as fuck, not sexy.” – Ken The Man [06:29]
• They joke about what makes a good fanbase name: “Crew”/“Mannequins” and self-made identities.

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3. Poor Decisions Circle

• Segment Start: [10:09]
• Each woman recounts her recent “poor decision”:
  • Lex & Drea: Risky car maintenance avoidance and the perils of delaying tire repairs.
  • Ken: Drunkenly tracked an ex (location share mishap), and a close call with a Kroger semi-truck—“Squeezed by my whole ass…”
• The group bonds over the universal embarrassment of car accidents and dings, then riff on window tints and being pulled over by cops.

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4. Reindeer, Animal Look-Alikes & Holiday Shenanigans

• Segment Start: [22:40]
• Drea asks: “Does anyone know what noise reindeers make?”
  • They descend into animal comparisons, assigning each other creatures—turtle, koala, ostrich.
• This launches fun debate on what animals people resemble.
  • Ken: “Every human look like an animal.” [26:40]

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5. Star Wars, Pop Culture & Cruising

• Segment Start: [30:50]
• Lex reveals she just watched Star Wars for the first time, pokes fun at the old graphics and stilted fight scenes: “Han Solo’s best move was he tapped the bad guy on the shoulder and ran!” [33:12]
• The crew talks Alaskan cruises (“Why would anybody go? It’s cold!”), geography lessons about driving to Alaska, and why not everyone is welcome in Hawaii now.
• Cruises with Family & Friends:
  • Hesitations about cruises (lack of cell service, kid-friendly vs. adult-only), and the need for a group vacation.
  • “Y’all, we have to take a trip—not a Carnival cruise!” – Ken [42:03]

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6. Christmas Traditions & “Santa Was The Daddy” Realization

• Segment Start: [44:33]
• Discussion of the song “I Saw Mama Kissing Santa Claus”—childhood misinterpretations vs. adult realization (“Santa was the daddy!”).
  • “I always thought mama was a hoe! Me too… why is Santa fuckin’ with her?” – Drea & Lex [45:04]
• Humor about growing up without a dad and why “Santa never came for my mama…”

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7. Morbid Humor: Cremation, Legacy, and Carrying Family

• Segment Start: [48:34]
• Lighthearted but real talk about their preferences for burial versus cremation.
  • Lex: “I want to be cremated—take me on set, in Dre’s necklace!” [50:35]
  • They note how being able to have your loved one’s remains with you can bring comfort through big life changes and moves.
  • “If we buried my mom, she’d be far away. But we packed her up and moved!” – Lex [51:13]

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8. Love Bombing vs. Real Love Game

• Segment Start: [53:47]
• A lively game on discerning love bombing from real affection with Christmas-themed scenarios.
• The crew debates whether matching pajamas, Christmas trips, and lavish gifts in early relationships are sincere or manipulative:
  • “If he buys matching pajamas before even defining the relationship—that’s a love bomb!” – Lex [73:04]
  • “If a man buys luxury gifts after a few weeks but won’t commit, he’s trapping you.” [76:10]
• Deeper dive into dynamics—how women “love bomb” men (good sex, performing wifey duties, or withholding/“dangling” sex).
  • “I think sometimes women pretend to be ‘pick me’s just like men.” – Lex [80:06]

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9. Threesomes, Sexual Double-Standards & Definitions

• Segment Start: [92:12]
• Open, candid dialogue about women’s desires vs. pressures around threesomes
  • Ken: “I never met a man that stimulated me enough to fuck him with another girl.” [92:27]
  • Lex: “Men don’t have enough dick for two women!”
• Discuss the difference between a "train" and a "threesome":
  • Drea: “I changed my mind. It’s all a threesome if everybody’s participating!” [96:00]
  • Lex: “Stop having threesomes for your man if you don’t really want to—stand on what YOU want.” [94:59]
• Conversation on society’s double standards & homophobia, how language shapes perception.

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10. Freestyling & Bop of the Week

• Segment Start: [107:24]
• The group does a Houston-style freestyle, trading bars and showing off Southern rap flavor.
• Bops of the Week: Both Drea and Lex pick Ken’s songs, celebrating Houston women in rap:
  • “Big Shit Talking” & “Crazy About Me”
  • Ken spits: “Still the same bitch, but the bag bigger. I’m the rich nigga, ain’t got time to be a gold digger…” [104:06]
• Discussion of Ken’s process as an independent artist—she writes her own lyrics, builds beats with her producer, and values authenticity.
• Shout-outs to other Houston artists: Monaleo, Megan Thee Stallion, Beyonce.

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11. Pour Your Heart Out: Listener Advice

• Segment Start: [119:17]
• Listener Question: “My girl of 4 years and I barely have sex, argue a lot, and I think she’s cheating. Lost communication, what should I do?”
  • Ken: “You gotta stimulate your partner, even after 4 years. Pour into her—but if she won’t communicate, it might be done.” [121:25]
  • Lex: “If you’re confused and unhappy for months, that’s the answer right there—let it go.” [126:49]
  • Consensus: Communication is crucial; no trust, no relationship.

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12. Bottled Up: Young Entrepreneur's Doubt

• Segment Start: [130:44]
• A 20-year-old licensed nail tech wonders if she should stick with her slow-growing business.
  • Lex: “If you quit, you’ll regret it… every small business owner has slow seasons. Don’t stop.” [131:48]
  • Ken: “It only takes one set, one post, one client… you can always work a job for bills, but keep your passion alive.” [133:19]
  • The group encourages “side hustles” while building your business.

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On Independence in Music:

  • “Wall to wall, singing everything word for word… I just shout out to y’all, my fans always show up!” – Ken The Man [06:11]

• On Embracing Imperfect Cars:

  • “Everybody got those things to humble you. Career funny, home beautiful, but that car…” – Lex & Drea [13:20]

• On Self-Improvement & Surgery:

  • “I love my body…but it’s working out. My genetics ain’t snapped me back, I gotta go work for it.” – Ken The Man [68:09]

• On Outgrowing Relationships:

  • “If you’re confused for months, that’s the answer—being confused is the literal solution.” – Lex P [126:49]

• On Female Rap & Houston:

  • "I make music for women; it's dominant, masculine music for women. The man is just my alter ego..." – Ken The Man [139:30]

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Fun & Festive Timestamps

• Car Mishaps & Gifts: [10:09]
• Star Wars Roast: [30:50]
• Santa-Kissing Debate: [44:33]
• Body Image/Surgery Realness: [66:29]
• Love Bomb or Real Love Game: [53:47]
• Sex & Threesomes: [92:12]
• Houston Freestyle: [107:24]
• Listener Advice: [119:17]
• Bottled Up Business Pep Talk: [130:44]

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Tone & Language

The episode is rowdy, honest, and comedically vulnerable. The language is unfiltered: plenty of cussing, Black Southern vernacular, and inside jokes. The women riff off each other with quick wit, warmth, and Houston pride. Ken The Man brings both humor and wisdom, fitting right in with the candid “drunk therapy” vibe.

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Conclusion

“Santa Was The Daddy” is a signature Pour Minds “holiday hangout”—equal parts hilarious, genuine, and empowering. Whether debating if matching pajamas mean love or a ploy, reminiscing on old cars, or hyping Houston rap, Drea, Lex, and Ken offer both laughter and real talk—pull up with a glass and prepare for a ride.

Transcript

[Ken the Man]

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[Ken the Man]

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[Lex P]

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[Ken the Man]

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[Drea Nicole]

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[Drea Nicole]

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[Lex P]

Lenovo she was talking to this guy and he was like oh i'm going on a weekend trip with the guys and blah blah blah and he like posted on his story but she could see some pink birthday balloons in the bag she was like you're on a birthday trip with a bitch yeah cause who got pink birthday a birthday bitch.

[Drea Nicole]

Remember when i was dating that nigga and he invited me over to his house and he had them glitter vases.

[Lex P]

No i don't oh yes i do.

[Drea Nicole]

And it was it was the girl he was dating mama house that he.

[Ken the Man]

Was dating all time that was fucking.

[Drea Nicole]

Crazy it was crazy it was crazy.

[Ken the Man]

As wait a minute yes y' all want to hear mine one time i was at this i was with house a girl walked in that nigga said that that was his sister i mean his brother's baby mama or something they was together i said well why she.

[Courtney]

Ain'T say nothing to me who was.

[Ken the Man]

I guess who i was uber dr.

[Lex P]

What'S up y' all it's your girl.

[Drea Nicole]

Lex p and it's your girl drea nicole and you are tuned in to.

[Lex P]

Another episode of poor mind where a.

[Drea Nicole]

Drunk mind speaks sober thoughts we got a guest we got a guest today.

[Courtney]

Okay this time i'm not lying why did you get so lie i'm not lying because they always be like lex.

[Lex P]

You said that we asked for this guest and we never said that you remember the boy he said hey boo.

[Courtney]

He said hey boo yeah he got.

[Lex P]

On our ass but y' all have been requesting that she come back y' all have been and the people who weren't fans and didn't watch us then and just joined the they have been asking for my girl like crazy okay we have rapper songwriter beat your nigga.

[Courtney]

Up in the club beat your nigga.

[Lex P]

Up in the clubber yeah my girl.

[Courtney]

Kidnape.

[Ken the Man]

No they really asked cause i watched the comment yes they really do.

[Lex P]

So we just made a comment and we were like you know who do y' all want to see on the couch it was so many people that.

[Ken the Man]

Was like that's the one i started.

[Courtney]

Saying it i said knew it period.

[Drea Nicole]

Exactly the taste jumped out i mean.

[Lex P]

For real because i honestly like you know we've been friends and fans of you for a very long time but i think that it's so amazing like you being an independent artist and you're able to like tour like that and not just tour like in small venues like they be packed sold out wall to wall i'm telling you if y' all have never been to a ken the man concert baby wall to wall singing everything word for word like i.

[Ken the Man]

Just shout out to y' all cause y' all always come to all my tour styles oh yeah y' all do y' all really show up for me.

[Courtney]

Baby girl we be having a ball.

[Drea Nicole]

We so turn at that atlanta show at the stage like we was having.

[Ken the Man]

A time it was lit i was happy i was able to come do.

[Lex P]

You have a name for your your.

[Ken the Man]

Supporters well they want to be called ken folks so bad well that's cute.

[Courtney]

I knew y' all was gonna like.

[Ken the Man]

That shit no i do i like it not happening you don train rolled.

[Drea Nicole]

Out the station but tell me why you don't like it cause i think.

[Ken the Man]

Country is fuck it's not sexy what's.

[Courtney]

You country i want something i want.

[Ken the Man]

Something sexy like i want something like sexy i don't want to be the.

[Courtney]

Fucking kim folk what's up ken fo i'm ready i'm ready out of my alley i do it that's what i.

[Ken the Man]

Ain'T want to tell you that's right.

[Courtney]

Up lexi well i'm a kim what.

[Drea Nicole]

Is something that you what is something more along the lines of what you think they should be called well that's.

[Ken the Man]

The problem i don't fucking know y' all could probably help me by the end of the episode and it ain't the kim fault the ken camp the ken crew the ken i don't know the ken somebody said the mannequins but i don't like that that's not sexy that's too deep that's too deep now.

[Courtney]

You right too deep that's like a.

[Lex P]

Mannequin is when you stand there and you just praise the kin when she.

[Ken the Man]

Walks out but i like it because.

[Drea Nicole]

It'S a play like not a play on words but it's like it has man and kin in the word but.

[Ken the Man]

That'S why i said it's too deep.

[Courtney]

A word yes you have to explain.

[Drea Nicole]

That to my slow just like pin the man but then like rearrange then the neck is like nigga okay no.

[Lex P]

What.

[Courtney]

Bitch i was thinking man nick.

[Drea Nicole]

You always gotta you know we be right there i had it in there.

[Ken the Man]

That was good you know what i'm saying that made it deeper we gonna.

[Lex P]

Help you think of a nap but in the meantime i'm a kin folk.

[Courtney]

In the meantime we like family at.

[Ken the Man]

This point yeah i just couldn't imagine you gotta like put a mic to your mouth and be like what's up kin folks yeah that don't eat it do though only way you can imagine.

[Lex P]

It well i think it's because when you say that though it doesn't come.

[Ken the Man]

Off sexy it come off cutting who.

[Lex P]

El that's how it come off but.

[Drea Nicole]

I mean to be fair we was real lazy with coming up with the name for our listeners we didn't come.

[Lex P]

Up with that they did we just.

[Drea Nicole]

Called them the poor crew that is lazy and that sounds bad but it's.

[Courtney]

It'S they did that they did that.

[Ken the Man]

But it's it's the crew it's the.

[Courtney]

Crew like you needed to the poor crew i mean they like it they.

[Lex P]

Started calling themselves that y' all could.

[Ken the Man]

Have went so deeper came up with.

[Drea Nicole]

It what you would have named them.

[Courtney]

Deeper you just said you didn't like mannequin and she said she couldn't come.

[Drea Nicole]

Up with a name what you would.

[Courtney]

No but i'm saying like y' all.

[Ken the Man]

Could have called them the drunks the.

[Courtney]

Drunks the auntie the poorable the poor.

[Lex P]

The aas the deplorables anything like the rehab oh my gosh but you know what i think that when you have like a simple name i think when you overthink it it gets a little corny you know what i'm saying yeah.

[Ken the Man]

See that's what i feel about kim.

[Lex P]

Folk yeah but i think it's simple.

[Ken the Man]

No it's like it's not happening everybody that's ran across me like courtney like.

[Drea Nicole]

You too she over there shaking her.

[Ken the Man]

That country as hell i'm already kind.

[Lex P]

Of fault yeah and you could put.

[Ken the Man]

Out some merch yes i definitely don't.

[Lex P]

Want that on a shirt like this.

[Drea Nicole]

And then you should make a song called family reunion oh it's getting deeper.

[Courtney]

And deeper sing at the end family reunion yeah let's see on the intro.

[Lex P]

What is it called the coreys family.

[Courtney]

Re hero i can't stand y' all oh dad as y' all know this.

[Lex P]

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[Drea Nicole]

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[Lex P]

Y' all know we always like to talk about you know just to kick it off before we get to getting chatty a poor decision you know that you have made not even necessarily this week maybe in general something that you've done that's just like not a good decision poor decision what's yours dre oh.

[Drea Nicole]

I got to go first i wasn't.

[Lex P]

Ready okay just think about it think.

[Drea Nicole]

About it let me think what has been my poor decision i'll tell you.

[Lex P]

Mine like you think now i wasn't prepared it's all right i'm always prepared because i'm always doing some you always.

[Drea Nicole]

Making a poor decision oh i'm just.

[Lex P]

A girl baby i knew i knew my my tire was bad and i just kept riding on that i said i can make it one more you.

[Drea Nicole]

Know we are like tethered souls cause i was about to say something about my tire i swear to god that.

[Lex P]

Tire baby balder than moist chestnut on.

[Drea Nicole]

A tuesday afternoon bitch that's crazy leaks.

[Courtney]

That was bombarded that's dangerous i know i almost lost my life i was.

[Lex P]

Swerving in the bourbon on the way home i was swinging on accident baby.

[Ken the Man]

So what happened cause i'm really concerned.

[Lex P]

Well nothing happened i just had to pay a lot of money to get everything all fixed and stuff but i just shouldn't have waited you know get tires rotated get your alignment done cause when i brought my car in i brought it in to get the tire patched up i was like maybe i'll just hit a nail bitch they found sixty things wrong with that motherfucker you know that goddamn thing old as fuck that shit old it started squeaking i.

[Courtney]

Was cold outside all the holes do they mind when they hear me coming what it do i heard that noise i said shut up girl but that's.

[Lex P]

All right it's cold outside you know how your knee hurt when it get cold outside yeah my car sweet my car knee hurt yeah that knee hurt on that but you know what it's paid off people be seeing me they do riding around yeah the listeners they'd.

[Courtney]

Be like hey lex i'll be like hey girl yeah i i ain't shame.

[Drea Nicole]

But but the thing about it though you always y' all if y' all seen lick's car you'll be making it sound like it's like a put pig right like you be making it sound like it's raggedy that's what you gotta do but it's not ragged when they.

[Lex P]

See it they have low expectations so when they see you they're like.

[Courtney]

It'S.

[Drea Nicole]

Not as bad as she make it seem it's not raggedy it's just an older car but it's not like it's like beat up oh it's beat up that bitch beat up no it's not.

[Ken the Man]

Yes it is in the back it's.

[Courtney]

Not i got that dent in the back but you can't even see that.

[Lex P]

Oh you can see that that thing looked like it was throwing that ass on something and that got beat up.

[Drea Nicole]

Your car have it you know man.

[Lex P]

It'S carrying you know how it's like.

[Drea Nicole]

You a bad but like you gotta have something that's like they humble you.

[Courtney]

Every time i get in there i.

[Drea Nicole]

Feel like everybody got those things it's like you got all of these great great things yeah and then you gotta.

[Lex P]

Have that one career funny fine beautiful home but that bitch car and then.

[Courtney]

It got ooh and it's something that.

[Drea Nicole]

You could the funniest thing about it is it's something that if you really.

[Courtney]

Wanted to change the car but she don't want i don't want it i like my car i like your car it has character you take it i gotta see it windows not tinted it's outside nothing gemma it's outside windows ain't when they see me they be like hey girl y' all ain't even got.

[Lex P]

To roll down the window bitch lex.

[Drea Nicole]

Have had that car the whole time i've known her we so many memories in that car remember when we went to when we drove to lake to go to golden nugy yes it's got.

[Lex P]

Me through some times we done got.

[Drea Nicole]

We done been through a lot of.

[Lex P]

Times good old car ken what's your.

[Ken the Man]

Poor decision okay y' all talking about cars i got drunk and called i got drunk twice one time i got drunk i did not get behind the wheel but unfortunately i was behind the wheel okay but i wasn't behind the wheel what you mean like in the like need a dd type oh okay okay okay not like you can harm somebody in the process it was like a cup of wine okay a couple wines martini you know martine okay and i was to get my dad some balloons and it made me regret getting him them damn balloons cause it was a eighteen wheeler just sitting in the back of kroger's i squeezed by my.

[Courtney]

Whole up no but i got two i got drunk the other day again.

[Drea Nicole]

And you messed up the other car.

[Ken the Man]

I was in the uber ken i didn't want to drive that it's so deep i'm embarrassed paint chipping off no but the second poor decision that i made i called my ex that's normal yeah but i ain't talked to him in like two years called him seen him was fine ooh called him amen.

[Courtney]

Share my location on accident whoa did.

[Ken the Man]

Too much then i didn't ignored him because i was like this nigga ain't coming over i ignored him he was like on the way i said oh he don't know where to go i looked location shared i unshared i said i'm not home yet but i got.

[Lex P]

I fixed it okay so he didn't come over but hell no i don't.

[Ken the Man]

Want him to come over cause you.

[Drea Nicole]

Gotta go through so many things i.

[Ken the Man]

Shared it on purpose but i tried i didn't know it was still sharing like i tried i didn't share it at my house i shared it on the way to my house forgetting that this tracking me so then i was there so hope you don't know where.

[Lex P]

It'S at yeah that was a poor.

[Ken the Man]

That was so poor.

[Lex P]

Mama don't like.

[Ken the Man]

That yeah that was bad but the car one is more the focal point because we talked about cars you can't.

[Lex P]

Squeeze by no eighteen wheeler now i.

[Courtney]

Thought i could see it you know.

[Drea Nicole]

But i will say that those are the worst decisions that i think we make when we're drinking and then you in your car and you think you you could do certain that's how my car got hit that time when i had that dent on my door what.

[Lex P]

Dent oh on my on my other range rover oh my other range rover.

[Ken the Man]

She had to laugh at her.

[Lex P]

The.

[Drea Nicole]

Old one the one that i got rid of but yes remember i had that big ass dent on the door and it was because i was driving and i wasn't paying attention and then i turned and then this car ended.

[Lex P]

Up hitting me oh yeah i remember that that was a big old dick.

[Drea Nicole]

It was a big old thing that's why i said when you was talking about that little thing on your car you ain't seen nothing i hide mine.

[Lex P]

That'S why i backed my car in so they can't see you can pluck.

[Ken the Man]

That out though you can they got.

[Drea Nicole]

Those things maybe i need to do.

[Ken the Man]

That mine i need both doors probably took it out oh my god it's so deep it's not just a dent it's deep then i have my car wrapped so now i gotta get it.

[Lex P]

Re wrapped yeah that's a lot man.

[Drea Nicole]

Well since we going with the theme of cars i'll give a poor decision on my car and this isn't something recent but when i first got my new car earlier this year i had got my windows tennis speaking of ten yeah and i've never been a person to get my windows ten it's super dark but i was like it little razzle dazzle why not i don't want them to see me coming right so i got my windows tenant dark i think i got like fifteen what that.

[Ken the Man]

Exists yeah oh i think i want to twenty so fifteen i think i.

[Drea Nicole]

Got like fifteen on the side you.

[Ken the Man]

Do but that's illegal oh so that's.

[Drea Nicole]

The darkest yeah five percent is the darkest and it's illegal so if you.

[Ken the Man]

Got twenty and i i mean if you got fifteen i got twenty i.

[Courtney]

Can'T see what's all sixteen thousand.

[Lex P]

Legs.

[Drea Nicole]

In a fishbowl but no so i found this out so i think twenty five is the lowest you can go in most states anything lower than that is illegal so i ended up getting a ticket so you got to get it taken off because of my window t and then i got into it with a police officer i was i don't know what i was on why.

[Ken the Man]

Y' all be fussing with them i.

[Drea Nicole]

Definitely had fuss i'm sorry stop if you happen to watch four mine.

[Lex P]

It.

[Drea Nicole]

Was a man he was black and.

[Lex P]

He was a man yeah they they.

[Courtney]

Don'T but they be kind of being a little stained they do everybody black.

[Ken the Man]

In atlanta for one i will say.

[Lex P]

And i'm not on the police's side i know y' all gonna be like this the feds because i always i'm i'm a law abiding citizen but i will say i think it's because a lot of time with black police officers you know how we get we be like oh my brother you gonna let me go come on we can folk let me go yeah so a lot of times i think they have to be a little more stern because it's like okay i know but i still gotta do my job so i think that's sometimes why they are a little more stern than usual they don't have.

[Ken the Man]

To do all of that he was.

[Drea Nicole]

Doing a lot and mind you that's why he pulled me over so i feel like he was finding a reason to pull me over because mind you it's night time i wasn't speeding or nothing you know it would be different if he was like oh you wasn't going to speed limit or oh you were switching lanes you didn't put your turn signal on he literally pulled me over because of my tent and it was night time and he was just sitting in the parking lot give me.

[Lex P]

A kiss and i'll let you go.

[Ken the Man]

I was thinking i feel like he probably was just like that little cute face ain't getting you out of this.

[Courtney]

Yeah i feel like he tried to.

[Ken the Man]

Prove a point yeah and i don't like that now that's i don't like.

[Drea Nicole]

That that and i have got out of a few little situations when i be getting pulled over but that night crying you getting this ticket are you going to change them yeah i'm a i'm a lightning because to be fair.

[Ken the Man]

Too it is dark you can't see.

[Drea Nicole]

Well i can see because i well because i got the tint on my front window and my back window lighter than the tint on my side windows.

[Ken the Man]

Mine too but i still can't see.

[Drea Nicole]

Really i can see but i will say to me it doesn't help when it comes to to like the sun beaming in your car the sun still be in my eyes and i still be like and be having to put down my visor so i can see.

[Ken the Man]

Real good y got good i got y' all got good vision yeah i.

[Lex P]

Do i eat a lot of carrots.

[Ken the Man]

Naturally do you wear contact i did.

[Drea Nicole]

For years really what did you say.

[Ken the Man]

No i think that works somebody else said that i think it works this girl told me that the carrots were they do say the milk might not strengthen them bones but them carrots i'm.

[Lex P]

Telling you i never had had a problem with my vision that's a food.

[Drea Nicole]

That i like now as an adult but when i was a kid i used to hate them kids they used to come to school with them carrots.

[Ken the Man]

In the bag that was attention seeking.

[Courtney]

Yeah cause where's your fruit that i.

[Lex P]

Love i've always you used to do.

[Drea Nicole]

That with a little celery too i.

[Lex P]

Don'T like celery now i like celery i like to cook it down a little bit but i don't eat celery.

[Drea Nicole]

And like peanut butter stringy it is string it has a weird yeah weird.

[Ken the Man]

Weird but i can eat them with.

[Drea Nicole]

Some wings me too now you're talking.

[Lex P]

With a little blue cheese that more.

[Ken the Man]

Of a ranch no but blue cheese and beans no blue cheese and beans is her thing i know i was.

[Lex P]

Trying to relate wait ty what's your poor decision what's your poor decision well.

[Ken the Man]

I think putting my personal number on my business cards like it's good for like actual business but sometimes if i give it to men or weirdos in the street thinking that it's going to be productive for business they don't know they're not reading the the room yeah so then they're just texting me like i had this one guy recently he's just texting me after hours on switch i had to block him oh my.

[Drea Nicole]

God saying what just weird like trying.

[Ken the Man]

To take me out just being inappropriate that i'm never giving that energy he.

[Drea Nicole]

Said i ain't know you was fine.

[Ken the Man]

Like that block right here no james.

[Lex P]

Stop it trying to get mixy with.

[Courtney]

Some i know that's okay because you.

[Ken the Man]

Can just you could just make it like fake business phone you need to send a you need to write up a little message in your notes and say this phone is not connected during oh yeah now they don't know that's not a poor decision that was a decision decision and they start being poor with the damn decision you made yeah.

[Lex P]

I like that i like that i like that thank you so let's talk.

[Drea Nicole]

About y' all antlers cause we was just talking about this off camera okay and do anyone know what noise reindeer make i thought they nade but i.

[Ken the Man]

Think obviously why would they neck they.

[Drea Nicole]

Look like they part of the horse family so i just assume they all.

[Lex P]

Name reindeers look like a horse they.

[Ken the Man]

Look more like like deers do do.

[Drea Nicole]

Horses moose deers do they all not look camels they all mooses look like.

[Ken the Man]

Big deers camels look like humpback deers and then giraffes look like camels long.

[Courtney]

Necks horses look like finding no they.

[Lex P]

Look like zebras what yeah zebras and.

[Ken the Man]

Horses yeah that's the family here they look more like theirs like bambi like.

[Drea Nicole]

Horses are like the most attractive animal in my opinion i think deers are.

[Ken the Man]

Really yeah like giselle's gazelles whatever yeah.

[Lex P]

I like that yeah oh do y'.

[Ken the Man]

All know that every human look like.

[Drea Nicole]

An animal really so what you think we look like what you think i.

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[Lex P]

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[Lex P]

I like that yeah oh do y'.

[Ken the Man]

All know that every human look like.

[Drea Nicole]

An animal really so what you think we look like what you think i look like.

[Courtney]

Okay don't fight me on.

[Ken the Man]

This but a turtle you think why.

[Courtney]

Are you thinking that see i swear all my he's gonna be a turtle a turtle a false eater yes he.

[Ken the Man]

Looks like a turtle i'm trying to.

[Courtney]

Think lex franklin lex is like your house a collab i'm a koala mixed with like a deer or something i don't know i like a koala but maybe it's the antlers i can take a koala now i feel like you're.

[Ken the Man]

Giving koala a little bit why do.

[Drea Nicole]

I look like a turtle there's something.

[Courtney]

About it i don't know what it is it's not a bad but it's.

[Ken the Man]

Like it's not a bad thing it's like something about it it's just if you thought it and i thought it that's what i'm saying usually it does.

[Lex P]

Give turtles yeah now listen i'm not being funny because i'm not saying cause for ken i'm not saying that you look like it in a bad way cause i don't even know what the.

[Courtney]

Name of the fuck is you about to say i'm saying because you have.

[Ken the Man]

Like the eyes you know you have big pretty eyes that's what everybody say.

[Lex P]

What is it sid from ice age.

[Courtney]

I know you fuck the eyes no.

[Ken the Man]

Somebody said i look like a lemur.

[Courtney]

Before but not no goddamn shit what is he like some kind of sloth.

[Ken the Man]

That'S in there he's a slide he's.

[Courtney]

A slide i don't know but it's.

[Ken the Man]

Cute i don't look at that fucking slide nobody agrees with that right i'm.

[Courtney]

Just saying from here up two agreeances it don't count just right here just right here i think it's cause you.

[Ken the Man]

Got my side profile look at me.

[Courtney]

From the front and give me mine yep yep i'm trying to think what.

[Drea Nicole]

Do i think licks look like i.

[Ken the Man]

Think it's a pan i'm in a.

[Courtney]

Koala licks i think i look like.

[Lex P]

What'S the i think you look like an ostrich i like that i see.

[Courtney]

Do i got a long neck i.

[Drea Nicole]

Think your neck is kind of long but then it's also like this you.

[Courtney]

Know my mama used to call me.

[Drea Nicole]

Long neck you tall and you like you're tall and like elegant no elegant.

[Lex P]

Is a lie bitch no maybe more.

[Ken the Man]

Like a but i think like a.

[Drea Nicole]

Yes you have a very you have a long beautiful neck no it's i.

[Ken the Man]

Think i look like rafiki the monkey.

[Courtney]

Yeah you don't you don't act like.

[Lex P]

No damn my booty is red or.

[Ken the Man]

Is it blue your booty no i think it's more of a like a like it's like something that's like got a cute adorable face yeah something puffy.

[Lex P]

Because i got fat cheeks fat cheeks.

[Courtney]

Ostriches they be having kind of like.

[Lex P]

You just made that up no they don't stuff licks look a little aggressive.

[Ken the Man]

No but everybody really do look like.

[Courtney]

A little too much well you h said i look like a turtle turtles are cute they are nice they are.

[Lex P]

And some of them are fast they.

[Drea Nicole]

Are fast now it's about the athletic.

[Lex P]

Turtles she's an athletic turtle franklin was.

[Drea Nicole]

Cute but he was a cartoon character.

[Lex P]

The real turtles yeah i think real turtles are cute i think they're cute the ninja turtles yes the turtles are.

[Drea Nicole]

Cute michelangelo was not cute why did.

[Courtney]

A live action one that's the only name i michelangelo was not cute the.

[Lex P]

Live action one they were kind of cute yeah raphael raphael was the one.

[Ken the Man]

With the red i think michelangelo was i think the blue one and what.

[Drea Nicole]

Was the other one what was the.

[Courtney]

Other one red orange it was orange.

[Ken the Man]

Excuse me what was the other one.

[Drea Nicole]

Name oh leonardo leonardo and then master.

[Lex P]

Splinter was the daddy yeah he was.

[Ken the Man]

Like a raccoon or something he was.

[Lex P]

A rat we don't know no goddamn.

[Ken the Man]

But we suck right as we go.

[Drea Nicole]

Get off topic oops what what does the deer do the writing.

[Courtney]

I just don't i just watched star wars for the first time oh fuck man cause where the fuck did that come from.

[Drea Nicole]

Chewbacca chewbacca oh y yeah i just.

[Lex P]

Watched star wars for the first time in my life i watched all three of the first movies and i did not know darth vader was knock kneed.

[Ken the Man]

He cannot fight he's fucking knock kneed.

[Lex P]

And of course i grew up on lion king and i was thinking about mufasa the whole time he was talking because the guy who did the voice.

[Ken the Man]

It'S the same man james earl jones.

[Lex P]

Yes so i'm like damn luke skywalker daddy is a black man yeah the whole movie i'm like this is a nigga yeah han solo is a nigga princess leia gonna say i love you he said i know i said that's just that's yes the movie is really crazy and messy but yeah it's you.

[Drea Nicole]

At thirty six watching star wars for the first time i've never seen it.

[Ken the Man]

Never like a lot of them too.

[Lex P]

Yeah i watched the first three like.

[Ken the Man]

Like seven of them ain't they like three hours long nine of them it's.

[Lex P]

Nine it's nine of them and i watched the first well no i watched episode four five and six cuz that's the order that came out those came out in the late seventies early eighties and then one two and three came out in like the early two thousands and then they had the the last three that came out in like twenty.

[Drea Nicole]

Sixteen when you finish watching the movies are you gonna go watch the show my dad used to watch the show.

[Lex P]

There'S a show yes the tv show.

[Ken the Man]

Absolutely i thought it was a show all along it's a show all them.

[Lex P]

Damn episodes it's a show but then.

[Drea Nicole]

They also have a movie but yes it's a show i don't know how many seasons it is but girl was.

[Ken the Man]

You watching seasons and thinking you was watching oh yeah yeah you talking about.

[Lex P]

Star trek i'm not watching same thing no it ain't no it ain't it's.

[Ken the Man]

Similar and then like is it not.

[Lex P]

Similar i didn't know obi wan kenobi was a dead ghost the entire time.

[Ken the Man]

It'S just a lie i never seen none of it yeah it's a lie.

[Lex P]

I mean it's good don't get it twisted it's good but it's hard to watch it obviously now because the graphics and things have changed and them niggas.

[Ken the Man]

Cannot fight yeah the power rangers can't fight either oh my god all they do is flip flip flip flip you is not doing that flip around everywhere.

[Drea Nicole]

But when you think about a lot of the shows from back in the day it's because they didn't have the shit down packed like when they used to fight it used to look fake like you could tell they wasn't really.

[Lex P]

Touching dog i swear to god one scene han solo snuck up behind the bad guy tapped his shoulder he looked and he said gotcha and ran serious ways i swear to god that was his move like that was his move and they captured the bad guy cause he tapped him on the shoulder now.

[Drea Nicole]

You got me wanting to go watch.

[Lex P]

Star wars i mean it's not bad.

[Drea Nicole]

The storyline i feel like the ones in the seventies was probably bad i.

[Lex P]

Mean i think it's because like i said the storyline is good it's just the graphics and it was shot in the seventies and it's crazy because they said george lucas did them out of order because that was the most complete story and that's what he could afford at the time to produce so it's so crazy that he ended up selling it to disney for billions and billions of dollars but i mean a good storyline is a good storyline hun it's.

[Drea Nicole]

Messy so back to the reindeer okay.

[Ken the Man]

So i did look it up they grunt so they grunt they look like ricky want me to play it yeah that sounds sexual.

[Drea Nicole]

That'S a lie.

[Courtney]

Somebody.

[Lex P]

Doing that that is not from a.

[Ken the Man]

Real reindeer reindeers being real is crazy.

[Drea Nicole]

Well cause we've never seen one i.

[Ken the Man]

Have where you're looking at one apparently apparently they told me earlier that they.

[Drea Nicole]

Only live at the north pole.

[Lex P]

It'S.

[Ken the Man]

I mean never mind that's what i.

[Courtney]

Heard i don't i think that i.

[Lex P]

Think that reindeer are real but i think they're just like somewhere in the.

[Drea Nicole]

North pole like somewhere you would never.

[Ken the Man]

Be can you just see if they're in the north pole they're native to the arctic subarctic regions of north america europe and asia oh okay so like in the tundra like alaska alaska very very north north so that is considered.

[Drea Nicole]

Like the north pole yeah and that's why we've never seen them because why why i was watching tv the other day y' all and they said they had a special on a cruise going to alaska i was like well why the would anybody want to go on a cruise to alaska i heard it's.

[Ken the Man]

Really cold as a cruise i feel.

[Courtney]

Like a cruise is supposed to be.

[Drea Nicole]

Like hot i feel like you're supposed to be going somewhere tropical it is cheap as i said that's why they.

[Ken the Man]

Shoot so icebergs yeah forget the big house it's like y' all setting them.

[Drea Nicole]

People up i don't want to go on no cruise now i have heard that alaska is beautiful so i do think it's a place that i would love to go one day my uncle actually drove from houston him and my aunt drove from houston to alaska last.

[Lex P]

Year i didn't know you could drive to alaska yeah it's north america oh i didn't think that was connected every.

[Courtney]

Time i see a map it ain't.

[Ken the Man]

Connected to shit cause like it's connected like this at the top oh yeah it is and i actually just learned this and i forgot i'm like yeah what the i ain't driving up you.

[Drea Nicole]

Can'T drive to hawaii now i knew.

[Lex P]

That cuz you flew there i did.

[Drea Nicole]

Fly there and i won't again it's a long flight to be still in north america i flew ten hours it take less time than that to get.

[Lex P]

To europe yeah yeah it does that's crazy but they don't want y' all ditching in hawaii anyway who don't the natives of hawaii why because the spikes up cost of living there like it makes everything really really expensive and like people be going there and disrupting shit it's like a big thing like people like who are native are they just hawaiians they get mad pick it up pick it up you ain't supposed to.

[Drea Nicole]

Go there oh you know i don't.

[Lex P]

Know what y' all want for christmas.

[Drea Nicole]

Are you asking cause you're gonna buy.

[Lex P]

Me something fuck no.

[Ken the Man]

You didn't give.

[Drea Nicole]

Me a birthday gift so now oh.

[Lex P]

My soul how many times did i ask you draya what do you want for your birthday what do you want.

[Courtney]

That don't mean don't get her nothing.

[Ken the Man]

That means just fucking wing it yeah exactly get her some ph because if.

[Lex P]

I would have got her i said do you want a coach purse she.

[Ken the Man]

Said leg.

[Courtney]

Why would you buy because.

[Drea Nicole]

This is my thing with people though why would you buy me something you don't have why don't you have a.

[Lex P]

Coach purse because i can't splurge on myself like that but i will splurge.

[Courtney]

On you like legs you're a liar you have wise you made that up.

[Drea Nicole]

Cause she have more expensive purses than she splurged on louis vuitton dawn i.

[Lex P]

Didn'T buy none of them purses yes you did i bought that little one that very tiny one that one was.

[Ken the Man]

Like one thousand dollars i bought it on the real real nine hundred thirty.

[Lex P]

Eight the real real be having some.

[Drea Nicole]

Cute stuff that's what i'm saying that thing was cheap but yeah so i feel like since i didn't get a birthday gift i can send you a little something for christmas okay ma' am.

[Courtney]

Not too bad about it i shouldn't.

[Lex P]

Have asked the goddamn shoes i don't.

[Ken the Man]

Know i like i'm just a simple girl what do you want i'm thinking like maybe some little earrings okay that's a good gift i love earrings a little james avery ring you know texas girl i like that a little heel.

[Lex P]

A little heel we love a boob.

[Ken the Man]

I love a nasty nasty real nice and simple for the friend okay like.

[Drea Nicole]

A nasty boo okay i'mma send you something within reason that you want for christmas yeah okay i think i want like some mew mew glasses i can.

[Ken the Man]

Do a kind of expensive yeah expensive.

[Lex P]

Hold on what let me google me.

[Courtney]

Yeah i look cheap i think i.

[Drea Nicole]

Want some of like the black frames.

[Ken the Man]

I can get that that hot but.

[Drea Nicole]

I want them to be like blue light because you know we all be on our phone scrolling so much so i've been wanting to get some blue light glasses cuz i feel like i'm always on flashing over but oh a.

[Courtney]

Mew mew oh no no it sounds reasonable don't it yes i get it.

[Ken the Man]

It sounds reasonable that name they switch it that's catfish ken do not be.

[Drea Nicole]

Fooled this lady done bought me some really extravagant stuff for my birthday them glasses is like dollar three hundred yeah.

[Lex P]

She'S fake cheese ain't nothing fake about.

[Courtney]

It dad go outside look at my car think who fake shit hey she.

[Drea Nicole]

Play okay so now we know we're reindeers alone y' all look so so cute though y' all some cute little.

[Ken the Man]

Reindeer you look so cute it's like.

[Drea Nicole]

Standing a cute little turkey i should.

[Lex P]

Have put my nose red but i can't put nothing on my face ty what you want for why do this keep splashing in my face i actually.

[Ken the Man]

Don'T know maybe like a trip okay i don't have to plan anything yeah just arrive that's a good gift that's a really good i'mma tell people that.

[Drea Nicole]

Next i like that not to alaska.

[Ken the Man]

Not to alaska i don't like i don't want to be surrounded by water that long but i heard virgin voyages.

[Lex P]

Is really good maybe i need to try that one because kiki went on.

[Drea Nicole]

She just went on virgin voyages and i'm actually gonna take my mom on a cruise in january oh i want.

[Ken the Man]

To come come yeah with us yeah yeah y' all seen that one that was leaning and all the was sliding oh my god i knew i didn't want to go on a cruise but that super made me know and did.

[Lex P]

Y' all see it was a documentary on netflix where like all the toilets backed up and everybody had everywhere cruise.

[Drea Nicole]

Or something oh no and you stuck on that beach too yeah people was.

[Lex P]

Like like in bags and throwing it over the balcony and stuff oh and sometimes the wind will blow and blow it back on the boat that was unfortunate and unlucky i'm serious i'm serious but i will say i went on a carnival cruise before and the food is good the food i went on a carnival cruise i will say that the food is good but i just i don't like being stuck carnival cruises it has a lot of children on.

[Drea Nicole]

There i mean and to be fair when i went on a cruise i think i was like twenty one i was still in college and i went with my friend and her mom and back then you know like the wi fi wasn't really that great oh yeah on the cruise ship so i think for me that's probably why i didn't really just have the greatest time because i didn't have no service for like.

[Ken the Man]

Seven days that was my other thing that i was thinking about yeah service.

[Drea Nicole]

But now they say the wi fi is way better i'm not going i.

[Ken the Man]

Don'T got to convince me and they.

[Drea Nicole]

Do have like ones that are you know adult only like lex was saying so so virgin voyages they only do adult only cruising yeah that's what carnival is like with the kids and then i think royal caribbean is like kids can come too but do tom jordan.

[Lex P]

Still have his cruises i don't know that's a good question the old folks love i'm in that age range now.

[Drea Nicole]

Bitch oh you know yes that's like forty you know actually they do big.

[Lex P]

Sugar daddy they do have all white.

[Ken the Man]

Linen it was just in october tom joined her fantastic yeah.

[Courtney]

But no i.

[Drea Nicole]

Do i feel like we should go on a cruise as like adults that would be really really fun well i.

[Lex P]

Was talking to cooley i was saying we all need to take a trip.

[Ken the Man]

For real though no we really do.

[Lex P]

Like we have to take a but.

[Ken the Man]

Not a carnival fucking cruise not a.

[Courtney]

Cruise no we should i think we should go on a cruise and if.

[Drea Nicole]

We don't we never gotta do it.

[Ken the Man]

Again but then we gonna be stuck.

[Courtney]

For like seven days and i like.

[Lex P]

Can everybody swim you know i do.

[Ken the Man]

But not in no ocean i can.

[Drea Nicole]

Swim in the ocean i just prefer not to to you can't i got in the ocean a few times and something like touched the bottom of my feet and that just be creeping me.

[Ken the Man]

Out legs no but like i'm not saying where you can feel the sand.

[Lex P]

Monster you ain't ain't nothing f to.

[Ken the Man]

Hurt you you don't know that sitting.

[Courtney]

There that can hurt you shark attacks.

[Lex P]

Are real i know they are but i'm saying like it's not that bad so was ariel all you have to.

[Drea Nicole]

Do is call on you that's what i don't like about the ocean i don't like like not knowing what's under.

[Lex P]

Me that's why you got to go places where the water is clear because.

[Ken the Man]

I jumps in the ocean but you not telling me we going on no carnival cruise and the get go down and we surviving in cold ass choppy.

[Courtney]

Water we ain't going to alaska but.

[Lex P]

In the middle of the ocean it.

[Courtney]

Is cold jack did he come i don't give a damn about jack he did all that for nothing but no.

[Lex P]

I do say like cause turks the water we could see we could see.

[Ken the Man]

Everything they got a lot of sand fleas what's a sand fleas we got towed up by them sand fleas and turks what my tiktok what month did we go was it for my birthday.

[Drea Nicole]

June we went in april we went.

[Courtney]

In april it wasn't a flea tick.

[Ken the Man]

Bit up one of them times i.

[Lex P]

Got bit up yeah we didn't get.

[Ken the Man]

Bit by nothing no the bumps stay for like months and months oh my god i looked it up because i was just like did they give me something over here that's terrifying but no.

[Drea Nicole]

I mean i don't know i be scared to take my mom on a cruise though because i be like if something happened i have to save her.

[Lex P]

Yeah because she can't swim well on.

[Ken the Man]

A cruise i don't no we just we going to cabo yeah we'll go.

[Lex P]

To cabo miami yeah a little miami i love a little miami trip we.

[Ken the Man]

Could even go to hawaii but we're not going but they no that's too.

[Drea Nicole]

Long oh yeah that flight is like ten hours and i took my mom to hawaii and like she was on a flight she was like are we.

[Lex P]

Almost oh you know she be tired she be over it now she be over it she be ready to go you know what's crazy speaking of christmas i was just thinking cause i was playing this song yesterday when i was little and i was listening to i saw mama kissing santa claus i didn't realize i think i talked about this on the episode before i didn't realize that she was talking about the little kid was saying she's kissing my daddy but he was dressed up like santa i always like thought that the mama was a hoe me too and i.

[Ken the Man]

Was like why santa fuck with her.

[Courtney]

Out of all the bitches yeah like why is this hoe special i ain't.

[Lex P]

Got no fucking daddy come fuck my mama.

[Courtney]

That shit used to piss me.

[Lex P]

Off why is santa claus choosing you.

[Ken the Man]

Bitch yeah what was so special about.

[Lex P]

Y' all i had no daddy around when i was growing up that smile give a fuck merry christmas y' all okay fuck my mama yes i didn't have no daddy around ty get your girl please cause what the fuck i'm.

[Courtney]

Just saying that song used to make.

[Lex P]

Me so mad i know people people.

[Drea Nicole]

Be like these have the most morbid humor ever because i just know our parents be rolling in our in their i said no i agree they be rolling in they grave you mean rolling in her arms oh yes she is in her do you ever be scared that you gonna knock it over whoa.

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[Lex P]

Reserved silent night.

[Drea Nicole]

Trying to open your.

[Lex P]

Mama earned i did i was watching.

[Drea Nicole]

Openable though yeah off because they don't want you to spill it and like it's toxic waste too right because it's.

[Ken the Man]

Like a dead body yeah you're not.

[Drea Nicole]

Supposed to like you have to dispose of that specifically.

[Lex P]

Y' all know what i say when people get cremated too like it's they're like if you're like spiritual like be careful cremating your loved ones because they're like a lot of times the funeral homes don't clean them out real good so you probably got their ashes mixed up with somebody else oh so i probably got my mama oh little nae dae from now you gotta go yeah yeah oh no don't open that she end up having a club just giving it at i wanna.

[Drea Nicole]

Be cremated for a reason keep me.

[Courtney]

Preserved oh shit.

[Ken the Man]

Put my shit in a glass keep me preserved i am.

[Drea Nicole]

Weak i don't want to be intact until i perish for real you know like eventually i'm gonna disintegrate they don't.

[Ken the Man]

Even want my organs so much damn.

[Courtney]

East side on sunday booster bottle liver lungs fucked twigs boobs stomach all fucked nobody want nothing i got heart clogged heart clogged in a motherfucker arteries clogged they don't want that lungs black as hell leave me intact do y' all they hit me and be like girl who the hell what we supposed to do with this shit girl say your ass a science lab to show kids what they should be doing they gonna use your lungs to say this is.

[Lex P]

What you do when you smoke hookah.

[Courtney]

But no i know this is a.

[Drea Nicole]

Little morbid but have y' all thought about that like do y' all know if y' all wanna be cremated or.

[Ken the Man]

Buried i kind of feel like berry vibes cause i want people to come.

[Lex P]

Visit me i definitely want cremated you wanna be cremated yes cause you want.

[Ken the Man]

People to wear you you cocky pieces.

[Lex P]

I need to be i need to come on set be in dre's necklace see what's tea oh my god don't.

[Ken the Man]

Say that that's so young dre gonn.

[Courtney]

Okay i'll say the show the reason i say that still be doing poor.

[Drea Nicole]

Minds with a lace necklace on well.

[Courtney]

Listen and i'm coming as a fucking visitor is she gonna slap you right todd gonna have a necklace too we.

[Drea Nicole]

Gonna be up here like well.

[Lex P]

Shout.

[Courtney]

Out to my dog oh but listen.

[Lex P]

No i say that because my family members that are buried are so far like when people move life happens i.

[Courtney]

Just packed when i moved i packed my mama up with me let's go.

[Lex P]

Baby we got a house i like.

[Courtney]

That i take her with me i.

[Lex P]

Like that though that's what i'm saying i take her with me imagine if we would have buried my mom she would have wanted to have been buried probably like where my family is way in louisiana i never go to louisiana so i would have to go all the way to louisiana see my mom's gravesite yeah burn her up split that bitch up my auntie got some uncle got some you want some i can.

[Courtney]

Give it to you no i am.

[Drea Nicole]

Gonna want some all right i'll give i'm gonna want my little portion all.

[Courtney]

Right i'll give it to you but.

[Drea Nicole]

Like however for me i just want to be in a space that they know they can come find me okay i'm here if you would like to.

[Ken the Man]

Come busy i now kind of feel like i want to be spread around.

[Courtney]

Now and i'm like i don't want.

[Ken the Man]

To come see me but your your.

[Drea Nicole]

Spirit is going to travel and houston.

[Lex P]

I don't want to be there i.

[Ken the Man]

Don'T want to go i go let's going to hawaii i'm in hoover that's what i'm saying we going to the tyler port establishment building come on now.

[Courtney]

Hey right with it i'm just saying.

[Lex P]

But i will say when my mom passed i had to get my urn shipped to me in atlanta and you know how sometimes it'll say delivered and they'll just check it off when they're like on the way and like i was like checking it every two seconds and it said delivered and i opened my door and it wasn't there i.

[Courtney]

Was like mom like she was gonna answer me mom the fuck outta here.

[Drea Nicole]

I know where to go find my dad i ain't never went though to.

[Courtney]

Be fair see exactly i never went.

[Drea Nicole]

Back to my dad's grave site since.

[Lex P]

He died that's what i'm saying i mean since the funeral i think it's so much better to be cremated i do i do find comfort in it now it's so crazy because this girl made a video on tiktok and she was like oh nothing me and my dad just finna watch poor minds and then she turned the camera and it was his ear and then i responded to i was like you know what it we f to watch it too.

[Courtney]

I seen it you know what i'm.

[Lex P]

Saying like so i just feel like having the earn is like it's a little more comforting you know what i'm.

[Ken the Man]

Saying i think i like that too.

[Drea Nicole]

My granddaddy was cremated and i don't know where the hell he at i got now see i will say sometimes.

[Lex P]

People do lose their ears i'mma ask.

[Drea Nicole]

My mom cuz i don't think well i don't think they wanted him in the house.

[Lex P]

He was giving papa leg.

[Drea Nicole]

I don't know i don't know if they wanted to keep the mashes around.

[Courtney]

Oh but y' all you know what's.

[Drea Nicole]

Really crazy we ain't even got into.

[Courtney]

The first topic oh we ain't got.

[Ken the Man]

Into the first no get into the.

[Drea Nicole]

First topic just go to topic number.

[Lex P]

Two okay let me see let's play a game okay yeah let's let's do a game because we got chatty today.

[Ken the Man]

We it's christmas and this is and.

[Lex P]

His family homegirl so all right so.

[Drea Nicole]

Let'S do topic number two we gonna play a game called love bomb or real love real love i knew you.

[Lex P]

Was about to do that i'm searching him i'm auditioning that sounded good do that again i'm searching for a real.

[Ken the Man]

Girl they said some come from the.

[Courtney]

Back of deep down in there yeah like that's get they can sell i'm telling you i'm getting better somebody sent.

[Lex P]

Me a message today talking about lex can you just sing for us one time for real real i do that.

[Courtney]

Is for real somebody had left a.

[Drea Nicole]

Comment on the last episode well maybe not the last one one of the episodes recently and they said that you need to audition for broadway i don't.

[Lex P]

Need to audition for they need she.

[Ken the Man]

Too thick for broadway is me i'm too thick yeah petite i can.

[Courtney]

The she petite i can't sit on the.

[Drea Nicole]

Girl it could be somebody thick auntie.

[Ken the Man]

Like that southern mama oh yeah no you too thick not thick i can sit on the probe mm mm right.

[Drea Nicole]

My mas do be big legs ain't.

[Courtney]

That big you ain't i can do.

[Ken the Man]

Dream girls too thick to dream girly.

[Drea Nicole]

No j hood was thick yeah she.

[Ken the Man]

Was thick huh nobody on that set.

[Lex P]

Had all that ass legs you need to sit down on it pissing me.

[Courtney]

Off broadway i see this thick ass bitch i'm going on they gonna sell the tickets even more we gonna be like damn you got thick ass stick out in that show she can't sing but she thick she can't sing but she thick as fun oh y' all ain't right sold out every night now she can't sing but she thick as fuck you know i'm being dramatic they like why she do jimmy lorraine loves jimmy you remember that scene i can't.

[Drea Nicole]

Wait i'mma be there front row i'm.

[Ken the Man]

Coming soon we gonna have our pantses.

[Drea Nicole]

On like how beyonce had kelly rolling i mean not kelly rowling that was the monica no that was brie and monica kelly rowling is part of it.

[Lex P]

Too but i will say i think that's on my bucket list just to do it yeah.

[Ken the Man]

Good luck.

[Courtney]

You don't think lexing too thick i don't she too thick too thick alphabet you ain't never seen no bitch staggering like maybe.

[Lex P]

In the color purple who was thick.

[Ken the Man]

Oprah well they going to have you.

[Courtney]

In gowns anyway bitch that's what i'm.

[Ken the Man]

Saying that'll be perfect you know the.

[Drea Nicole]

List of people who never come in on poor minds gets longer and longer.

[Lex P]

Every episode cuz oprah being thick is good oprah thick as hell oprah was not thick she thick and fine that's a stallion for real shout out to.

[Drea Nicole]

Nowaday oprah would want us calling her thick that is a that's our elder so we have to be respectful miss.

[Lex P]

Barbara thick too my mama is not.

[Courtney]

Thick she thick and fine she thick.

[Lex P]

And fine she thick and fine get.

[Courtney]

You the game yeah let's play the game shay told my mama the other.

[Drea Nicole]

Day that she was a bad bitch i'm sorry miss barbara but you a.

[Lex P]

Bad bitch she is miss barbara has like beautiful skin like she does not look her age at all she don't she doesn't she is a bad i.

[Drea Nicole]

Don'T know if i'm an age like that all this champagne and tequila i'll.

[Ken the Man]

Be drinking eyes gonna be deep have stretch lines around be deep wrinkles gonna.

[Lex P]

Be stretch lines all right here i am why oh that peen what love.

[Courtney]

Bar my real love.

[Drea Nicole]

The guest gets scenarios and have to decide if it's genuine love or affection or straight up.

[Lex P]

Love bombing okay have you been love bombed or are you the love bomber.

[Ken the Man]

I'Ve been called a couple things in.

[Lex P]

My day like what elaborate lb love.

[Ken the Man]

Mama you're the lover that's fair no no but i think everybody love bomb everybody in life you always have your pick of a love bum cuz it feels so deep and sincere in the moment so is it really a love bomb because i really feel it yeah but i don't think i've ever been love bombed cuz i be bombing back we just two bombs just bouncing around.

[Lex P]

No bombs over bad bombs over bad dad but i think it's not considered love bomb bombing if you continue to do it and that's who you are you love that person but like if you do it to get them and you get them and you stop that's.

[Ken the Man]

Oh yeah o i'm a love bomber.

[Courtney]

For real hell yeah can you stop.

[Lex P]

Once you get like like you get.

[Drea Nicole]

Comfortable i think that i be enamored with people in the beginning me too and then it wears off really quickly.

[Ken the Man]

Cuz you you take it too fast yeah now we cooking wednesdays and now.

[Drea Nicole]

We ain't doing cuz i decided you know what i don't want to cook.

[Ken the Man]

With you no more i don't even like your food i don't even like how you wear your hair i get icks really fast me too sometimes i make them up up i be like i'm dating somebody right now and i was like don't make it up don't make it up don't make it up cuz i sometimes i could that's the.

[Lex P]

Type of people y' all the type of people that'll be like with somebody then one day you just wake up.

[Ken the Man]

Be like i don't i don't want.

[Drea Nicole]

This anymore i've done that actually i filed for divorce can you sign it.

[Lex P]

Yeah literally like that that's why i'm.

[Ken the Man]

Funny about marriage pop the balloon popping the balloon on staying husband yeah that's.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah lex be in real love i.

[Lex P]

Be in real love and i like every time not every every time for the most part i like them a lot but like i'll say like i don't just wait like if i get to the point that i like you a lot i've i've gotten past the x i've gotten past all that stuff and i'm like okay i'm in this.

[Ken the Man]

But it don't never wear off no.

[Lex P]

Like when i like somebody i like.

[Ken the Man]

You that's a good wire to have my wires are up and then it's.

[Lex P]

Like but once you really do something and that it gets turned off you know it's no really coming back yeah.

[Ken the Man]

It be yeah yeah but i keep.

[Lex P]

That same energy when you meet me that excitement that i have i'm going to give you that for our entire relationship but you i don't even know.

[Drea Nicole]

People like that exist lex is a combination combination what you mean like just like with the animal she said you was a combination i feel like you a combination with these two though why because i think that you do be in real love but then you so smart and like you know how to play like you know how to play.

[Ken the Man]

The game if that makes sense so.

[Drea Nicole]

I feel like sometimes you thank you ty i think sometimes you be over it but you still be in it.

[Lex P]

To win it yeah you don't want.

[Drea Nicole]

To be the one to end it so you'll let them end it does.

[Courtney]

That mean that well yeah it's not.

[Lex P]

Even that i just be like okay like let's still try and i still.

[Ken the Man]

Try to show up as unconditional it's.

[Lex P]

Unconditional i do unconditionally love people so even when sometimes i do be over because i know in a relationship you gonna have your ups and downs so it's like even when i'm like this i'm like you know what cause guess what in a month you're gonna love.

[Ken the Man]

Him again but what makes a up a up and what make a down a down that be my confusion exactly cause it's like is this too dare.

[Lex P]

You right now i have learned to decipher that because one down i had with my ex that shit was so down bitch i met satan yeah it.

[Drea Nicole]

Was so down you mean who satan.

[Lex P]

That'S how down he turned into brandy bitch do you wanna be down and that's when i was like okay this is too down bitch this is too fucking down embarrassing that's what i be.

[Ken the Man]

Like like what's the but like i.

[Lex P]

Think like the downs the ups and downs that i have in my situation now it's like we can get through that this we can you know we have our ups and downs like this is we can work through it yeah.

[Ken the Man]

Yeah stuff can be get throughable but.

[Lex P]

I don't be trying to get through.

[Ken the Man]

It though some stuff is not get.

[Lex P]

Through yeah i'm i'm not feel i have never felt like i'm a ride or die and i'm holding him down this relationship i've never felt like that like oh i'm holding it down cuz i don't ride i'm not pop yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah and one we still ain't do.

[Ken the Man]

The question we ain't even did the.

[Courtney]

Question damn damn we should have just went to love like we don't care we going we going to get there we going to get there i promise.

[Lex P]

But what was i about to say.

[Drea Nicole]

I was about to say this is probably the last relationship i was in was probably the first relationship where i felt like i tried to work through things with somebody prior to that it was always like all right goodbye cuz but i don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing i be feeling like it's good because you have so much faith in self that you feel like if this does not align with what i want if it's misalignment here i have enough faith in myself that i know i'm going to find what's for me i never have a lack mindset when it comes to dating like i never feel like oh i'm getting because i know especially with us being in our thirties now yeah a lot of the time women be feeling like oh i'm getting older i don't know if i'm going to be able to find my person and i.

[Ken the Man]

Think i'm not about to be miserable every day right the person that i think i found and i agree with.

[Lex P]

You on that because one thing about me like i'll stick around a relationship but you also know me when a out the door another one is right there but i always i'm always like i know i'mma find a man but.

[Drea Nicole]

What i've always admired about you as my friend and like knowing you since we was what twenty three and twenty five until now is i feel like you try to work through things with.

[Lex P]

Me oh yeah i don't have and.

[Ken the Man]

That'S good you should yeah i don't.

[Drea Nicole]

Have patience like i break up with people for the smallest things it's like okay cool because i know it's someone else out there i always feel like it's something better so one thing i.

[Ken the Man]

Will say that that that that not little things but like if it's like a plethora of little things but if it's just like a couple little things because it's like nobody perfect then you're gonna be sitting down with your ten cats dre and you gonna be like come on girl i'm ready dre gonna be there in the house the t cat's time out but you know what.

[Drea Nicole]

I'Ve always said on the show too.

[Courtney]

All that nigga did was put the fries in the air fryer and burnt them all he forgot to take out the foil afterwards but y' all know.

[Drea Nicole]

What i always say i think that if i don't become a mom i would be devastated if i don't get married i think it's so cool that.

[Ken the Man]

Y' all don't have no kids why i love that i didn't want kids.

[Drea Nicole]

Maybe that's that's maybe i only have.

[Ken the Man]

One i do yeah no i love my son i'm happy that i'm a mom but i was i think that's so cool that y' all like are thugging it out so good in life.

[Lex P]

Well you know what i'm not gonna lie i don't know a lot of women who have kids and have a great relationship with the baby daddy or a great rela so that's what scared me the motherhood part don't scare me i just don't want to be stuck with a man you don't have to.

[Ken the Man]

Be stuck with him but it is like broken huh dealing with him and.

[Drea Nicole]

I'Ve always wanted to be for me i always wanted to be like like financially stable to where if it is that then me and my kid going to still be straight and i feel like when you're younger you still have to make a way but that's where a lot of the stress comes in because it's like no matter what i got to figure this out because i have this person depending on me but the beautiful thing about like your situation is that sometime i think it's like one of those type of things where it's like the grass always greener because.

[Ken the Man]

Your shoulders and like soon you going.

[Drea Nicole]

To be an empty nester like once.

[Ken the Man]

You forty and then i'm sad because he be kind of like teening yeah like i don't with you mom yeah we can't make no tik toks and so it just be like damn do i want another i need to like.

[Courtney]

Maybe i this one up my first go run let me try no no no let me try again and me.

[Drea Nicole]

And lex going to be forty with a five year old but that's cool.

[Ken the Man]

Because y' all lived while y' all was sick sex height body booty titties.

[Lex P]

Thickness i'm still going to be there if i have a kid too definitely going to be oh he going to.

[Drea Nicole]

Pay for my mommy makeover i ain't.

[Ken the Man]

Going to even hold you i'm twelve years in his body still ain't snap.

[Courtney]

Back no you have a nice body.

[Lex P]

Yeah you have a nice y' all.

[Courtney]

Liars no we're not why would you.

[Ken the Man]

Think we lying cuz well ken let.

[Drea Nicole]

Me give you your flowers though because i really do feel like your body is te and i love the fact that you advocate so much for women with natural bodies saying i just had.

[Ken the Man]

This conversation last night i said what y' all trying to say no no.

[Drea Nicole]

That'S a really good thing because being somebody who got surgery so i got surgery the first time when i was twenty three i got my breasts done and then i got lipo and then i ended up getting surgery again i think what right before when i was twenty nine right before i turned thirty i got lipo again and then i got like a little fat transfer to like my hair hips like to fill in my hip dips at twenty three what are you doing getting surgery but it was society that kind of made me feel like and i always had like a nice shape but i don't know i just felt like i wanted my waist to be even smaller my breasts were small and i feel like oh i need i already got a butt i need titty too yeah but.

[Ken the Man]

My biggest thing was really like fear with it it was kind of like i was in fear a little bit because i don't like being put down yeah but then i was just kind of like i i just fell in love with like you know you look.

[Lex P]

Good though and i'm not i'm a.

[Ken the Man]

Work in progress but i and i.

[Drea Nicole]

Know people hate to hear that from us cuz we've got surgeries no it's.

[Ken the Man]

Not even that it's like y' all sexy as i'm not going to lie.

[Lex P]

I don't regret my surgeries at all but i do wish i just i would have waited a little bit but.

[Ken the Man]

I feel like if the body not bots it eat so it don't matter it's like i feel like the surgery regret is with the body watched yeah it's kind of like y' all look good as so it's like that's y' all are the people that make me be like maybe a little nip and.

[Lex P]

Suck won't hurt but the reason i say i think that you look amazing and i think that you don't need surgery because honestly now i like i've gotten my i had to get a breast reduction twice because the first time they grew back i've gotten two bbls and honestly now that i'm in my grown grown final form don't get me wrong i do love my body but i feel like i could have probably done one round and just like been done you know what i'm saying i.

[Ken the Man]

Look good so it's just like stop here yes like i don't know what.

[Drea Nicole]

That is that's the problem but i.

[Lex P]

Also think like you really don't need it and that's me being truly honest.

[Ken the Man]

No i don't want it like i'm buying to like get my body done or nothing that's nothing i love my body yeah but i'm saying it's a lot of working out it is that's the problem because i was just like my genetics ain't my genetics ain't snapped me back i got to go work for this month yeah because i'm not.

[Lex P]

Gonna lie i i wasn't bad bill but i really didn't have no shape i was very up and down like boxy and then i had big breasts so it made me just look off so it everything was just kind of like i wasn't bad built it's just it wasn't looking like like you know what i'm saying so i had to do a little one two and rearrange.

[Ken the Man]

It i agree with that you actually.

[Lex P]

Have a nice shape though i didn't have a nice shape i think you.

[Drea Nicole]

Have very nice legs like your legs.

[Ken the Man]

That'S all thick legs no ass titties.

[Lex P]

You got a little bump back there.

[Ken the Man]

And i don't have no ass that be my one thing i be like i just want a little bit of.

[Courtney]

Ass it'll make this stress you do.

[Drea Nicole]

You have all the mug be sitting.

[Lex P]

And that's what i'm telling you i'm telling you but i also think that society somebody had the nerve to make a tiktok the other day because they was like you know trina used to call herself the thickest back in the day and she's so thick where is trina thick at trina was thick as.

[Ken the Man]

Fuck she was for them for them.

[Lex P]

Times but what i'm saying is even to me now when i look at pictures of trina back then she was thick but now we seeing all these blown up big old so people are like like that's a big butt but no a big butt is on a spectrum it looks like a lot of.

[Ken the Man]

Even like when are like hippie that's like that's thick thighs are thick that's what i'm saying a little bit yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

Cuz d sent me somebody was they used to say beyonce was thick back in the day her and jlo and.

[Ken the Man]

Back and it's crazy jlo still thick.

[Courtney]

Right to me that still happened back.

[Lex P]

Then she had ass to me and.

[Courtney]

Now still got ass she got ass.

[Ken the Man]

Like i still like her little you know what i'm saying it's a cute.

[Lex P]

Little petite ass cause draya sent me a video of this girl we used to know oh yeah and it's not even funny it really broke my heart to see what she did to her body and i think like i said as somebody who has laid on that table and look courtney over there looking.

[Drea Nicole]

Like who what's her instagram excuse me.

[Lex P]

It is a point to where it's like okay we gotta stop a little bit it's been taken too far it's.

[Ken the Man]

Like a tattoo sometimes like you know when you get one tattoo you wanna keep going back keep going back i just think it's very dangerous so that's why i'm like it's dangerous but i will say i like the way y' all look like i just i like the way every girl looked at when it looked good but you know i had this one friend and she told me i was just like you need to stop or whatever because i was like you got what you wanted she was like no i like the fake look yeah some of them do some people like the the look of kind of like that hippie like i want it to look seamless yes i mean i just feel like women should do whatever they want to do with their.

[Drea Nicole]

Bodies i think so too i agree.

[Ken the Man]

With that whatever make you happy just be safe about it that's the only.

[Drea Nicole]

Thing i'm big on the natural look though lex know i've always said like i've always kind of just been like i because i knew it wasn't going to age well yeah i i feel like i knew that like where we are now as a society and people be feeling like it's too much i knew we were going to get here and i knew that if i did too much or if you did too much we would have probably regretted it now you know yeah and like i said i've always had like a naturally p not pear shape hourglass shape so i just knew i wanted my body to still look like that but just a little bit more polished enhanced as.

[Ken the Man]

You should queen you cook with that.

[Drea Nicole]

Y' all cook you friend so question.

[Courtney]

Number one i'm about to get back.

[Ken the Man]

Into it again yeah question number one.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh so we about to play the game finally and this is a scenario he buys matching pajamas for christmas photo shoots before you even define the relationship love mom or real love that could.

[Ken the Man]

Be real love only because he got potential what's up with potential maybe he felt like i like this i like where this is headed i be in love day one me too i do.

[Lex P]

Too but i think that's a love bomb move because i feel like if it was real love the relationship would have been defined but what if it.

[Ken the Man]

Just happened we just met yeah we just met december first now what honestly.

[Lex P]

I don't think it takes that long to realize like hey i'm gonna i.

[Ken the Man]

Like this one yeah it does take a little long cause i learned you gotta get to know people yeah you.

[Lex P]

Do but i also feel like okay and if it don't work out we can break up but if you really wanna vibe with me and get it how we get it and live how we live cut them holes off and fall in love with me mm right now actually streak this fool oh i.

[Ken the Man]

Wanna strict forward that's how i feel i'm i was like we can just break up if it don't work fuck.

[Lex P]

Like a month in like a month in and we solid we take we doing matching pajamas we on the phone we on dates all this stuff yeah it's time to cut everybody off yeah on three one two three you first yeah that's how you gotta do it.

[Courtney]

All right one two one two three release em okay he asked you to.

[Lex P]

Spend christmas morning with his family even though you've only been on three days dates love bomb or real love that's.

[Ken the Man]

Love bomb that's a love bomb well yeah yeah cuz it's like why i'm me and your family yeah that's a.

[Lex P]

Definitely a love bomb and then you.

[Ken the Man]

Know they don't like me i don't like them you know and the mamas.

[Courtney]

Don'T be either oh hey baby you.

[Lex P]

Don'T ever bring nobody home somebody was over here for thanksgiving right and it's.

[Drea Nicole]

A lot of men who i think don't really place that much emphasis on who they let meet their family yeah.

[Ken the Man]

They don't care cuz they family cool or whatever the case may be so.

[Drea Nicole]

You thinking it's special but he do this all the time this what he.

[Lex P]

Do i knew this nigga y' all my friend talked to him and we didn't know if he lived with his mom or not but we think he did but like he introduced her to his mom she was like girl i met his mom and i was like mm that's a little soon and then it's like later on down the line we found out that like he always be at his mama house whatever but he always bringing women over there and they all beat his mom but it's like she don't care hair yeah like she just don't give a damn tell.

[Ken the Man]

You now my son got a whole year that's good the kids no not twelve i'm talking about when he get.

[Drea Nicole]

Up eight i'm like the kids be.

[Ken the Man]

Dating already my son had about four or five girlfriends already at twelve he think because i say he can't have a girlfriend that mean go get another one have you like any of them.

[Drea Nicole]

Though like have you been like okay she's a nice little girl i like.

[Ken the Man]

The last one but then you know.

[Lex P]

Puppy love be so he's such a.

[Ken the Man]

Lover boy yeah but he's so handsome he said aries so he's literally one of my favorite exits is aries so i know he a little they be all in the phone i love you i love you oh my gosh i'm.

[Lex P]

Not ready for my nephew to start doing that he getting there too i know is he how old is he thirteen thirteen twelve no yeah eleven or twelve eleven or twelve auntie love you i'm sorry baby okay so yeah he.

[Drea Nicole]

Buys you nothing but luxury christmas gifts after only a few weeks of talking but still won't commit to a title love bomb or real love love bomb.

[Ken the Man]

No it's a it's partial can we do that in between it's my it's a i'm about to say i'm taking.

[Lex P]

Things no you gonna take it but especially i think it depends on his financial situation because if it's a very wealthy man he does that for everybody.

[Ken the Man]

But the thing about it is how do you know a couple of weeks he won't be ready in a month or two like a couple of weeks is not a month or two but.

[Lex P]

I also think that a lot of times men do that if they're buying you luxury things in the beginning he.

[Ken the Man]

Got money he does got he do.

[Lex P]

Got money but he knows how to reel you in and it's kind of.

[Ken the Man]

Like let me but it's like is you really really a bitch with money.

[Courtney]

But do y' all feel like we.

[Drea Nicole]

Y' all don't feel like we're jaded though because it is situations where women meet men they i i was about to say finesse them off their feet that's the wrong thing i see but they do sweep them off their feet and then they marry them within like three months it's like it's no rules.

[Ken the Man]

That'S been my new thing it's not a rule to win it's like like let's say he is that type of nigga but it's like what if you what if he really vibing with you and he like damn that's something like a couple weeks is not enough like to be like nah he love bumming.

[Lex P]

Me right i think in my experience though cause i agree with i agree with your scenario but what i will say is i just do i feel like if a man comes into a situation do i mind it i don't mind it like i think that's actually cute and nice but but they always have an ulterior motive like let me reel this girl in because nine times out of ten when i've dated a guy and he started the relationship giving me a lot of money luxury things once we got like comfortable it kind of like it stopped and it didn't.

[Ken the Man]

Keep up well then that's when you.

[Lex P]

Get gone oh yeah of course but if it was genuine and real love it keeps going you know what i'm.

[Ken the Man]

Saying so that's why i'm saying it's like you can't really put a stamp on it because because it's some guys that's probably like man i like her and then it's a lot of guys i just think we kind of like in a fucked up space because it's like majority of the guys we meet they fucking suck yeah so it's like you don't really know but i feel like it's potential for i' ma trick myself for bitches not for niggas so it's kind of like okay maybe i do be love bombing maybe it won't stick but sometimes it do stick i dated a girl right and i flew her out the country two weeks after meeting her and we stuck for a while two years i didn't love bummer.

[Drea Nicole]

Courtney don't be doing it she over.

[Ken the Man]

There shaking her head oh yeah i.

[Courtney]

Know you be love bombing i'm expensive.

[Drea Nicole]

On a bitch i be flying bitches out two weeks after dating them exactly.

[Courtney]

She she said to houston bitch welcome to houston but let me ask y'.

[Lex P]

All a question though how do y' all think straight women love bond men.

[Ken the Man]

Like pussy maybe baby like that good she knows she got that good ph always straight yeah and then she just putting it on them then it's like i do this i mean by then.

[Drea Nicole]

I don't know what is the female.

[Lex P]

Version of love mama yeah what is the female i do i think it's.

[Drea Nicole]

I think it's dangling the yeah dangling dangling it like you know because one thing about men and women like if if a woman dates women and she wants to be with a woman me is one of the most powerful things if not the most powerful thing on the planet so people will do whatever for the potential of getting some i think that as a woman when you recognize that that's when you really own your power it started wars that's what i'm saying so i think i think the women that know that they know it and they use it today advantage as the person who knows it and uses it to my advantage okay well.

[Ken the Man]

Perfect the spokesperson of the pussy the.

[Drea Nicole]

Spokesperson of the keeping the pussy to.

[Courtney]

Yourself but you know what i also.

[Lex P]

Sometimes women love bomb men too by pretending to be something that they're not as well just like men do sometimes women will too oh i love to cook i love to clean i love they be acting like they're a perfect.

[Ken the Man]

Step for wife maybe i've done that.

[Drea Nicole]

I don't like that though cause i think that's just to me that's pick.

[Lex P]

Me but i'll do that performative stuff.

[Ken the Man]

No so me let me tell you what i do i can't cook so it ain't that but it's like i'm into like baggy pj era okay maybe i might have started in leotards but.

[Courtney]

You go get this big pinstripe pussy oh my so this bonnet pinstripe pussy.

[Ken the Man]

Matching set go get to the moomoo some i did the moomoo a couple times that was like all right now.

[Courtney]

But they put all the phone back.

[Drea Nicole]

Y' all pick me ish ken to me that's like real no but she.

[Courtney]

Always don't look like that like i.

[Ken the Man]

I'M saying that the trick part is like i do the lingerie or i'm.

[Lex P]

In the beginning she started it but she didn't keep going with i didn't keep it up see i don't start with none of that shit i start.

[Ken the Man]

Naked okay yeah that's what i do and then now i'm putting clothes on.

[Courtney]

Oh but i do think sometimes they do that have y' all ever seen.

[Lex P]

The bitch y' all go to like a house party or something and she trying to stay after and clean up and like oh my god i just cannot stand mess yeah like she want.

[Ken the Man]

The niggas to be like taking her.

[Lex P]

Home yeah like oh she's wifey material thanks bitch clean up my shot ho.

[Ken the Man]

I do clean up at the party but not for the niggas because it.

[Lex P]

Be my friend's party but you know.

[Courtney]

What i'm saying i know what you.

[Ken the Man]

Fan of but yeah it's different if.

[Lex P]

We had like i had if you.

[Drea Nicole]

Had my house then yeah you being a good friend but if it's like.

[Lex P]

A house and i ain't cleaning up.

[Ken the Man]

No house like yeah you cleaning up.

[Drea Nicole]

I'M leaving first but i think that's cute though i actually need to start doing putting more effort into doing those type of things cuz my ex he actually used to complain about me always just being naked on lingerie yeah he would be like you don't want to put nothing on so i could take it off he's stupid because i like.

[Ken the Man]

You my house and be naked in the kitchen at any time i put.

[Drea Nicole]

On a little heel yeah body oil.

[Lex P]

See but he my man he like he like lingerie pictures but in person he ain't trying to do all that shit man take that shit off oh.

[Drea Nicole]

So when so he would prefer for.

[Lex P]

You to just be naked he don't.

[Drea Nicole]

Like daughters but you be having on.

[Lex P]

Lingerie and pictures to send him no.

[Drea Nicole]

I i do too in pictures but in real life i be butterball yeah.

[Lex P]

He don't he likes the butterball turkey he don't like all that he don't care for it in person girl i.

[Drea Nicole]

Being flowers i cannot with this girl.

[Ken the Man]

Flowers pink flowers black suit silk i.

[Lex P]

Know that's right okay okay okay we going to do one more and we.

[Ken the Man]

Going to move on then we moving.

[Lex P]

On we moving on oh this is funny he surprises you with a romantic christmas cabin tree trip but tells you not to post anything because he wants to keep it private love bomb or.

[Ken the Man]

Real love love bomb that's a damn cheating ass baby mama having ass just had a new baby ass yeah maybe turtle dick ass yeah yeah yeah i.

[Drea Nicole]

Agree because a should never be telling me what the i can post and can't post on my story because that.

[Ken the Man]

Means you got you don't want somebody.

[Drea Nicole]

To see yes it's somebody that you're trying to hide this shit from you.

[Ken the Man]

Said you was at a family trip you putting my pussy into mystery.

[Lex P]

Mystery.

[Ken the Man]

No this pussy is out last i.

[Lex P]

Have never been on a trip with a man he was just like don't post nothing yeah that's kind of like.

[Ken the Man]

That'S not the type of contract that.

[Lex P]

Would make me feel like that would be an instant downer yeah i'll be.

[Ken the Man]

Like actually i'm leaving yeah i'm actually.

[Lex P]

Good on this after these three days oh my gosh my homegirl i be talking all my homegirls in business but i ain't say no names but she was talking to this guy and he was like oh i'm going on a weekend trip with the guys and blah blah blah and he like posted on his story but she could see some birthday pink birthday balloons in the back she was like you're on a birthday trip with a yeah cuz who got pink birthday balloons a birthday bitch remember.

[Drea Nicole]

When i was dating that nigga and he invited me over to his house and he had them glitter vases no.

[Lex P]

I don't oh yes i do and.

[Drea Nicole]

It was it was the girl he was dating mama house that he was.

[Ken the Man]

All time that was crazy it was.

[Lex P]

Crazy it was crazy as wait a.

[Ken the Man]

Minute yes y' all want to hear mine one time i was at this i was with house a girl walked.

[Lex P]

In.

[Ken the Man]

That nigga said that that was his sister i mean his brother baby mama or something they was together i said well why she ain't say nothing.

[Courtney]

To me who was i guess who.

[Ken the Man]

I was uber driver.

[Courtney]

Why is the uber driver sitting on here guys at four in the morning you wanted to.

[Lex P]

Believe that she stupid as hell no.

[Drea Nicole]

She wanted to believe coochie good though.

[Courtney]

No i'm uber driving my coochie ain't good it is but because he was.

[Drea Nicole]

Willing to risk living like he was.

[Lex P]

Living he risked his living situation yes.

[Drea Nicole]

To risk his living situation walk me.

[Ken the Man]

Outside and everything i was just like.

[Lex P]

Oh okay i think my worst one was i was at a n house and he was like oh i gotta go to dallas real quick me and my homies got something to do i'll be back in the morning cause i had went to stay with him for the weekend i was like okay cool i'm in houston so you know i'm always in houston i would always stay at his house something ain't right and something ain't right in the water and y' all know me i'm inspector gadget cause he didn't follow a lot of people at the time so i went through everybody he was following that i would feel like would be his type baby i seen him at the basketball game with a bitch just cheesing no.

[Courtney]

Yes not literally in his house on.

[Ken the Man]

The jumbo tron that's a good thing you got some good oh i know.

[Lex P]

Because he has a type all us all of the girls i know he's ever daddy we all look alike like brown skin big booty like we all look the same they do.

[Drea Nicole]

Courtney laughing cuz she know who you.

[Courtney]

Dad come get me d.

[Ken the Man]

What was your have.

[Drea Nicole]

You ever had a situation like that.

[Ken the Man]

Only where like the girlfriend i had posted me and him on instagram she saw that nigga shoulder oh yeah and immediately started commenting stalking and like it became a whole thing and then found out that they've been together for years she know that man he done bought me all types of shit she's like ugly only cute girls wear girls i'm.

[Drea Nicole]

Like well your nigga bought this one.

[Courtney]

I know that's right child exactly come get to school you know woman to woman me ho i'm not gonna lie.

[Lex P]

I'M the same way i can see a piece of a nail on my hand me too i just know everything.

[Ken the Man]

He was literally the corner i can.

[Lex P]

Just see i can see anything on.

[Ken the Man]

His no you've been on her radar i think it was like a shoulder and a nail possibly yeah a nail another day mm all right crazy that.

[Drea Nicole]

We all been through situations like that.

[Lex P]

Drink of the week ty cause we've been chatty today yeah sponsored by taylor port per usual y' all make sure y' all go pick up y' all taylor port and get your drink on ty what we drinking today so this.

[Ken the Man]

One is for our affirmation queen cause i gotta say first off okay miss kim the man i love it i listen to y' all the time hon i don't get even i don't get mad i get even okay hey this one is going to be called finally famous and in the theme of christmas it's all wintry white we muddled some fresh mint you can add any spirit of choice but there is some repo tequila in this one we added a little bit of orange liqueur some coconut syrup and then a little bit of lime juice and then i muddled some fresh mint inside side we garnished it with some beautiful green mint and then some pomegranate seeds just to give it like that christmas feel so this is the finally famous oh i love it.

[Lex P]

Cheers to that cheers all right y' all for our holiday episode we wanted something that feels cozy fun and easy to share because the holidays are all about gathering so today we're sipping on the sleigh all day funch this one.

[Drea Nicole]

Starts with taylor port as the base because she always shows up strong then we blend in lemonade fresh berries and a little mint to keep it bright.

[Lex P]

And refreshing it's the perfect bowl to put out when your friends or family pull up just pour a cup and.

[Drea Nicole]

Enjoy the moment the sleigh all day punch made for good vibes good people and a holiday that flows i think it's time for me and k to take a shot you ready yes let's.

[Ken the Man]

Do it and y' all got your cute little candy cane shop we do.

[Drea Nicole]

Yes we are already took one this.

[Ken the Man]

Empty stomach vibes y' all i am we got me feeling that filming at eight am i didn't get to think.

[Drea Nicole]

About breakfast damn bitch me too i have not ate today i had some potato this is the first thing i've.

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[Courtney]

Both y' all knees work let.

[Ken the Man]

Me try they do let's see we.

[Courtney]

Gonna have to go ahead w i.

[Lex P]

Can'T even get up what's that noise.

[Courtney]

On some cut that's how my knees.

[Lex P]

Sound i'll be sounding like a reindeer when i get up you just learned.

[Drea Nicole]

That noise.

[Lex P]

All right okay go ahead.

[Drea Nicole]

Have you ever had a threesome and who's choosing the third party you or your man i never had a threesome with a man thank you s.

[Lex P]

You.

[Ken the Man]

Haven'T no not with a man so.

[Lex P]

It was three girls that was a.

[Ken the Man]

Lot of i've had one of them.

[Lex P]

That was a lot of cutting and rubbing and bumping bumping and grabbing.

[Ken the Man]

No but i don't i don't know i never met a man that stimulated me enough to make me want to fuck him with another girl because y' all get the fucking outside i get to go into jail yeah that's gonna piss me and my algorithm off yeah now.

[Lex P]

I got emotions men don't have enough dick for one woman let alone two i like men that know hey i can't do i like huge cocks you.

[Ken the Man]

Do yes thick girls usually don't they like huge cocks yeah thick girls usually.

[Lex P]

Don'T why are y' all saying cocks.

[Drea Nicole]

Cox i said that so i just said it too what but i mean.

[Ken the Man]

I didn't want it why don't you cox sounded a little softer cox is.

[Lex P]

Not softer than dick little wider i.

[Drea Nicole]

Like a yeah i don't want no.

[Lex P]

Small dick yeah but i don't want no can y' all say cock dingo.

[Ken the Man]

See coc i like large when you.

[Drea Nicole]

Say large you need like nine inch.

[Ken the Man]

No no no no maybe ten eight.

[Drea Nicole]

That'S large eight eight eight and a.

[Courtney]

Half half i like grand king and i like that too no it don't.

[Ken the Man]

Even you know it opens up what.

[Courtney]

Not that far that cushy get do.

[Ken the Man]

Some thing it have babies.

[Lex P]

Come on.

[Courtney]

Cocksuckers take it.

[Ken the Man]

Love you stupid as cheers this leaking this candy cane.

[Courtney]

Mine already done that's all right you got.

[Ken the Man]

Black on you need it for me.

[Drea Nicole]

I was saved me cuz this would have got on my all white lisa.

[Ken the Man]

Ray.

[Courtney]

What the yeah that's the original.

[Drea Nicole]

Thing look at those yeah lisa ray.

[Ken the Man]

Is the original big yeah i i.

[Lex P]

I'Ve never really met a woman that's like straight up i like like big cuz sometimes they that hurts never you.

[Ken the Man]

Got to get the size that's fit in your walls yeah these walls can.

[Drea Nicole]

Stretch.

[Ken the Man]

Lex voice i had a c section girl oh you did see all.

[Lex P]

Up in her coochie i ain't even.

[Courtney]

Been open like that he didn't come through the front door right there he went through the hallway he did he went through the hallway i done bit.

[Drea Nicole]

Of b some c sheep my son.

[Ken the Man]

I think coochie is nice coochie is.

[Lex P]

Coochie i think for people i don't like threesomes i've had one in my life stupid shit whatever but i will say i think for women first of all we always advocate for this stop having threesomes with your man just to please him if you don't really like women don't do it don't participate in it but also i think that if a woman is willing to bend her rules and be open to sleep with a woman for you and have a threesome then you need to be open to her wishes because it's a lot of women who want a threesome with a man but they just they make them feel embarrassed to talk about yes like it's a lot of women who would love to have sex with two men but people be like oh you.

[Ken the Man]

Taking all that dick no yeah society to walk to yeah because society calls.

[Drea Nicole]

That a train yeah we not getting.

[Ken the Man]

But it's a threesome when it's two.

[Drea Nicole]

Bitches i mean it is it is because we had a debate about these.

[Lex P]

We'Re not doing this again but we're.

[Drea Nicole]

Not gonna have a debate cause i.

[Courtney]

Just changed my mind oh you've changed.

[Drea Nicole]

Your mind i think that's a part.

[Lex P]

Of evolution and growth amen sister i.

[Drea Nicole]

Don'T think that that's a train anymore i do think it's a threesome if it's three people it includes three people it's a threesome and then when i was younger i thought it was a.

[Ken the Man]

Train i did too but then if the woman orchestrates it and that's what she want why it's not a threesome right it's okay because dick's rubbing now.

[Lex P]

Well i think they like to say a train because they're like oh but we're not touching yeah so it's not it doesn't matter is three people in a room being sexual together because everything it's really rooted in homophobia if you.

[Ken the Man]

Want me to get that's what it.

[Lex P]

Is but i'm not gonna get too deep on that but that's what doctor umar you know what i'm saying doctor lake's team but that's why they wanna call it a train versus it being called a threesome baby if i if a man is in a room and he can see your dick and balls.

[Ken the Man]

And y' all both that's a threesome boo that's a threesome boy trying to make it masculine ooh trained i'm a trained man no you're a threesome man and you're a threesome might be a little by that's why you like watching.

[Drea Nicole]

Dick yeah but i will say this that part i do kind of agree.

[Lex P]

With a little bit what if y'.

[Drea Nicole]

All aren't touching is it really a threesome like i think it's a threesome if you sucking that dick too well.

[Lex P]

I'Ll say this i everybody get some.

[Drea Nicole]

Not you sucking a dick the other.

[Courtney]

Sucking the dick like say the girl is in the middle right she giving.

[Lex P]

This she's giving this one head and the other one hitting it from the back y' all might peek at each other and moan and it might turn.

[Courtney]

You on seeing him being you being.

[Ken the Man]

There i think you like it anyway.

[Courtney]

Because why are you here and you're.

[Lex P]

Listening to him moan and you probably.

[Ken the Man]

Like the you like it n freaky.

[Lex P]

That'S what i'm saying there's more than one way like for somebody to turn you on even if they're not touching you you know what i'm saying you might like the way that n moan you might like the way he look when he rolling his head back that.

[Ken the Man]

Sounds like he you might be hit.

[Courtney]

You might be hitting a girl and.

[Lex P]

You looking at him but imagining him.

[Ken the Man]

That'S in the bisexual territory and that's.

[Courtney]

Fine and that's fine let me know let me know let me know.

[Drea Nicole]

Words to aaliyah and tamar braxton do you.

[Courtney]

Know the way i do what i.

[Lex P]

Love in your body but do that.

[Drea Nicole]

First of all that was a phenomenal.

[Courtney]

Song it was it was just crazy how he came in whoa whoa aggressive.

[Lex P]

Hey i do okay all right that's all right cuz i don't know what wait y' all are just both funny.

[Drea Nicole]

As like i feel like this is why this episode is so unorthodox cuz we just be having we all out.

[Lex P]

Of way but it's that caleb teleport we teleport in person when we together.

[Drea Nicole]

But i do think that like if you're gonna have a threesome with a man you need to suck his dick.

[Courtney]

The other man but then no that's why they want to call a drain look she she evolved she changed but.

[Drea Nicole]

She like he better suck that dick.

[Courtney]

You it's your turn i want to.

[Drea Nicole]

See you give that some sloppy topping.

[Lex P]

Oh my god gosh yeah that's but.

[Drea Nicole]

To be honest i would never do that two dicks at a time that's a bit much for me i could.

[Ken the Man]

Barely yeah my hoes don't do all that yeah that's a lot it sound like a lot of like ph off.

[Drea Nicole]

Too me yeah i think i agree but i but some women that is their fantasy like they want to have sex with two men and they deserve that but i feel like if you do it if you conquer that make that suck that other yeah i think.

[Lex P]

All the activities like like it all.

[Drea Nicole]

Yes cuz it's not a threesome to me if like they just both you i feel like a threesome is when everybody.

[Lex P]

At least to you yeah to.

[Ken the Man]

Me well in my threesome with the the girls one of them i both of them touched me but i didn't touch one of them but i touched.

[Drea Nicole]

The one that i was.

[Ken the Man]

That'S but that i ain't eating no i don't.

[Courtney]

Know.

[Ken the Man]

I think so because like both of them and then me i just was like i like this the one i'm with but the other one she can with me and her but she ain't wait a minute did i get.

[Courtney]

A train ring on me but my threesome was sandal my threesome with two.

[Drea Nicole]

Girls was a realization wait a minute realizing my threesome with two girls was like that too because i was in a relationship with one of the girls and then the other girl just ate my but i was like i'm not eating your out of i don't know.

[Courtney]

You stranger danger yes i know that.

[Ken the Man]

Song every pussy to me that's still.

[Lex P]

A threesome though yeah i think because.

[Ken the Man]

It'S feminine yeah well see i changed my mind a little bit but if.

[Courtney]

You ain't sucking dick three people are.

[Lex P]

In the room being all sexual the only time i don't count it as a threesome if it's one person just watching like if it's voyeurism that's when i don't count it as threesome you.

[Ken the Man]

Said what voyeurism would you be a.

[Lex P]

Voyer would y' all be voyers i actually don't mind watching people have sex i'm alive yo nigga fuck no fuck do you know how i get angry.

[Courtney]

You getting angry right now the thought.

[Lex P]

Of somebody touching my man disgusts me i get so angry you getting mad.

[Ken the Man]

Right now she's so mad the thought.

[Lex P]

Of a and then just like my man is like he has a flirty personality like he's kind of like how your personality why the fuck you had.

[Courtney]

To bring me in these cause i need to explain it so you'll understand because you don't need to you don't need to explain it to me you.

[Lex P]

Don'T mean to be flirty like that's.

[Courtney]

Why that thing was going viral dread look at his boy like that.

[Lex P]

Again.

[Courtney]

Cause i stay catching straight from legs dre was looking at that boy like this yeah and they made a whole.

[Lex P]

So he made a whole video editing.

[Courtney]

It out editing the and she was.

[Lex P]

Just like existing when we were at that dinner and that man made it seem like he y' all were flirting.

[Courtney]

He made a whole thing but that's what i'm talking about from last year.

[Drea Nicole]

Yes i had made a rebuttal video to it right viral but because why the would you be recording me and i didn't know you was recording acting.

[Ken the Man]

Like you were just so into it.

[Courtney]

No i'm nice but i'd be flirting.

[Drea Nicole]

With everybody that's what i'm saying i.

[Ken the Man]

Probably done say hey no you you.

[Courtney]

Didn'T i feel like i'm waiting hold.

[Lex P]

On don't bump this couch already beat.

[Courtney]

Up don't start bumping gucci on that.

[Lex P]

Oh but no i say all that to say because like i get it now just because i have a lot of people in my life who are just like naturally flirty people so it don't bother me i just be letting him do his thing but please keep.

[Drea Nicole]

Your hands to yourself cuz the lakes will beat your ass i swear to god i and i got bill money.

[Ken the Man]

Beat your ass me too i'mma double up off of my do it even worse than cuz she gonna bail it and i'mma double it yeah keep your.

[Lex P]

Hands off my well somebody gotta bail.

[Drea Nicole]

Y' all out yeah so it'll be.

[Lex P]

Cooly yeah cooly it'll be me and coy all right okay item of the.

[Drea Nicole]

Week so now it's time to get into the bop oh the bo a.

[Lex P]

Okay so you know bop of the week is the song that we have been jamming this week and y' all know for me oh it's already pulled up in honor of our guest miss.

[Drea Nicole]

Ken the man oh you better not say my bop i'm about to be.

[Lex P]

Mad my bop of the week is big shit talking okay that's not my bop because period period i love the fact that we are we have brought back the era of like popping your shit and girls like cause everybody wants to say that the women are only rapping about they pussy and this and that but that's so not true like we be shitting on y' all and y' all don't like that yeah the boys do not like that because you came in the song talking bout.

[Drea Nicole]

Your antler about to fall cause i'm getting.

[Ken the Man]

Excited i came in that bitch and said still the same bitch but the bag bigger i'm the rich nigga i ain't got time to be a gold digger still and do my big one on a whole nigga i have to.

[Lex P]

Run that first part because this is where i related still the same bitch.

[Courtney]

But the bag but the bag bigger.

[Lex P]

I'M still that same bitch the bag is fucking bigger don't ever get it twisted i'm the same bitch stop trying.

[Courtney]

To remind me of what shit used.

[Lex P]

To be hoe ass nigga let's talk about right now bitch ass nigga i'm.

[Courtney]

The rich nigga i do not got time to be no motherfucking gold digger.

[Lex P]

Bitch i'm digging my own goddamn goal who got time to run after a nigga just cause he got money i got money to make money that's what i'm thinking shut up girl i'm going to the bank my goddamn self when.

[Courtney]

I press play on that motherfucker i.

[Lex P]

Said yeah nigga i'm the rich nigger kin fo.

[Courtney]

Mannequin mannequin oh stop fucking.

[Drea Nicole]

Playing with me i like mannequins but.

[Ken the Man]

No for real though you know what.

[Lex P]

The n stands for don't.

[Drea Nicole]

I love me some king can't be popping that.

[Lex P]

Yeah picture talking that's my bop that's.

[Drea Nicole]

A good vibe that's a good vibe okay and this is how you know this is our girl and we love.

[Ken the Man]

How i'm about to cry oh maybe.

[Drea Nicole]

A little bit because i i love like i really love ken i love ken more than i love on the same level that i love houston that's.

[Courtney]

A lot of i know oh my god that's a deep i'm so i'm.

[Drea Nicole]

So glad that the world is finally getting hip to how lit our city.

[Ken the Man]

Is because i feel like everybody want.

[Drea Nicole]

To be in houston everybody want to live in houston now which is crazy to me but anyways my song is crazy about me by k and i so fitting and i said that cuz we never whenever we have guests on the show we never have our bops.

[Courtney]

Be they song i was hoping when.

[Ken the Man]

You said it i said o what i wonder what the b is oh.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah but crazy about me is my song y' all like i love that song i ain't never been a who.

[Lex P]

Was crazy what happened i'm not lying.

[Drea Nicole]

Anything that be coming out my mouth he feel away about it i'm a.

[Ken the Man]

Gemini baby i'm a flirt got him on his high horse had to bring him back to earth if i don't.

[Drea Nicole]

Get my way i swear to god.

[Ken the Man]

It ain't gonna work i'm on whatever you want unless you say you on.

[Drea Nicole]

A perk yeah you can do a.

[Ken the Man]

Back but i make them have to see a therapist to make them go to church.

[Drea Nicole]

And then again us being from houston homage paying homage to be caught yep the original song which a lot of people i feel like don't know i don't call back don't put on a show when i pass by your house and blow instead of knocking.

[Lex P]

On your door yeah come on links see i'm not from houston but i can appreciate the culture now i mean.

[Drea Nicole]

But you from you're from texas well.

[Lex P]

I'M saying houston really molded older than me yeah i became a woman in houston i learned about a game in houston i feel like people know your.

[Ken the Man]

Name in houston hell yeah so you bang the houston you know what i'm saying because you changing houston rearrange in.

[Drea Nicole]

Houston we about to swing and bang i said this on twitter a few weeks ago i said people from texas houston more specifically have the natural ability to freestyle i feel like we can all freestyle on the spot right let's do it okay let's do it you.

[Ken the Man]

Got to start lex got to start.

[Courtney]

Well i got to start because i feel like you already been ready so.

[Drea Nicole]

We just going to do like one.

[Ken the Man]

Bar going to put us at a beach i mean on a beach that's at a beach we need to go on vacation we do okay what you.

[Lex P]

Got okay we going to start yeah what it's your girl xp i'm about to i fall i'mma take your one.

[Ken the Man]

Oh i'mma take your he be up on call and you know i'm gonna ball on ball i'mma ball till i.

[Drea Nicole]

Fall yeah all y' all it's that girl drea and you know what i'm about to stall cause i don't got nothing else to say hey what's up lex p on the cut and we about to it up it up we.

[Lex P]

Gonna get stuck yeah but i don't really care cause i don't give a.

[Ken the Man]

Yeah man what's up yeah pop my.

[Drea Nicole]

Trunk yeah when i see them hoes.

[Ken the Man]

They scary they get duck yeah scary they get duck he the name tug and you know lex and dre got them big old butt ken got the medium put it in us medium i don't give a fuck hey repeating them.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah we're repeating them yeah and we coming down yeah it's that girl dre and nicole and i'm from that h town i rep the city all motherfucking day don't give a fuck about what a hoe gotta say lex pulled off that's my motherfucking bitch yeah and we been in this shit brick by brick.

[Courtney]

Yes brick by brick outside is really brick yeah i'm so cold bitch give me some mix yes put the mix on my hand i say it real clear so you hold up understand understand what's coming out my mouth i'm really really thick so you know i'm from the south i'm from the south with my girl kids i'm sitting on this couch with my friend yeah that was good that was good.

[Drea Nicole]

We gonna switch.

[Courtney]

It we gonna get you warmed up.

[Lex P]

First y' all we gonna switch it to that girl tie girl it's a.

[Ken the Man]

Spotlight spotlight's on me i'm about to see yeah where we going now cause we taking it up the trees yeah money trees kendrick me yeah i'm going crazy chi town on a beat yes.

[Courtney]

I'M f to get on the record i want our last time sister that hey y' all did good but i.

[Drea Nicole]

Cuz i feel like texas people we.

[Ken the Man]

Just got it in us yes this is our it took us a while.

[Lex P]

To warm up but we got i.

[Ken the Man]

Never warmed up i love that you.

[Courtney]

Took it home she did take it home you took it home for us thank you we had to get we had to warm up eat it up.

[Ken the Man]

Every time eat that okay okay y'.

[Lex P]

All what we got next oh the.

[Ken the Man]

Bop the box we did the bops.

[Lex P]

No you didn't say your bop oh.

[Ken the Man]

My bop i would say my bop of the what week yeah whatever song you've been jamming i would say.

[Drea Nicole]

My.

[Ken the Man]

Bob y' all got to finish my tik tok with me too cuz i started it for y' all oh yeah.

[Courtney]

I love a ticky talking i said.

[Lex P]

What a matchup we got y' all it's that classic hbcu vibe non stop.

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[Lex P]

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[Ken the Man]

Yeah that taste always hits the right.

[Lex P]

Note just like the band at halftime and just like that we're back at.

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[Lex P]

Winning combo no matter the sport no matter the yard everybody knows fan work.

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[Lex P]

Cola and keep that hbcu pride going.

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[Lex P]

Com lenovo lenovo.

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[Drea Nicole]

Pressure is coming down trainer games on.

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[Ken the Man]

Rights reserve deserved man i'm so in love with bands like a rock fan that's why i gotta keep that drum on me l zeppelin.

[Lex P]

That'S nasty work nasty and you know i know how.

[Courtney]

To tap she seen me tap give.

[Drea Nicole]

Us a demo i will later i'll.

[Courtney]

Show y' all my little but shout out to kim man y' all make.

[Lex P]

Sure y' all go check out that deluxe bar girl music out now in.

[Drea Nicole]

The men on all platforms do you.

[Lex P]

Ever have help or do you just.

[Ken the Man]

Do it all no i never have help actually what do you think about.

[Lex P]

People that do be having help though do you feel like it takes away or you feel like it don't matter.

[Ken the Man]

Well i think that so i'm kind of like both sides of it i just like for rappers to be rappers because they like to rap not a rapper that's popular and got a nigga writing all that okay that's where the respect kind of get low only because it's oversaturated yeah yeah and but so i do like i enjoy making music i would never be a rapper if i didn't write my own music okay now i'm not saying like later down in life i'm not saying like oh if i had a good hook or something possibly you know because it's it's just all about like how it feels or the placement of it but now everything that i that y' all y' all favorite songs word for word bar for that it was all my brain and that's what make it so beautiful to me is because when i do go on tour and stuff it'd be so cool to see everybody just like with my music like cuz i thought of it it's it's different when you thought of that like this the i think of in my room in my car in my bathroom in the studio like all the stuff i make up y' all like the rhyme scheme y' all like the beat y' all like the like cuz i a lot of times too in the studio i build the beat with my producer so a lot of the times you i think people are drawing a little bit to my music because in the moment he building a beat on my voice oh.

[Lex P]

You know what i i made a status about you on facebook a while back and it got like a lot of shares i was like ken selects the best beats we be in there.

[Ken the Man]

Together and that makes sense yeah because.

[Lex P]

Every time i'm like damn this beat is so hard this is so hard you be riding that like we we.

[Ken the Man]

Do it together and like you don't even know it's probably a million beats that i'd be like this ain't eating cuz turn that off then we start new ones like so we do this thing to where i'll be eating the beat up and the bbs and i'd be like us he be like yeah i'm not feeling it so yeah we like we build together every like majority every song you heard like we build.

[Lex P]

Them together i can't wait till we get a song with you mona leo.

[Drea Nicole]

And me yeah i was about to say that mon about y' all the.

[Ken the Man]

Other day i seen it actually you did mon is a great rapper up.

[Drea Nicole]

The houston girls right now when it comes to freestyling rapping none of it.

[Ken the Man]

She'S a great rapper this last project.

[Lex P]

That she did was so creative like it was really really good but yeah i want to see all three of y' all on a song together that.

[Ken the Man]

Would e that would e yeah so.

[Drea Nicole]

Good and i'm glad that y' all are getting y' all recognition too cuz i mean obviously everybody knows m like everybody know who me is she been doing her thing for a long time but i feel like you and mon leo right now are really in an era where people are like getting healed at the same time so how good y' all are and i love a.

[Lex P]

Lot of houston girls are killing it.

[Ken the Man]

Right now they are like it's a.

[Lex P]

Beautiful thing to see like the houston music scene i feel like is like.

[Ken the Man]

I love that it's about skill too it's not about like it's skill like i feel like we rap good as like no buy like we've always had.

[Drea Nicole]

Our own sound and i feel like now the world is like finally starting to to appreciate it i love it especially with the women yeah cuz i.

[Lex P]

Feel like if anybody going to sample a houston song it's got to be y' all like when somebody from somewhere else samples a houston song it just don't they don't ride it the same.

[Drea Nicole]

Cuz monalo did beating down your blog.

[Lex P]

Yeah she beaten down your blog i think there was another one she did i can't remember but i just feel like though you got to ride a houston beat a certain way and only people from houston really do it right yeah you know what i'm saying me.

[Drea Nicole]

And l gonna come out with a freestyle one day please do i'm g.

[Ken the Man]

Have to write put it on my.

[Drea Nicole]

Mix gonna be a freestyle i on.

[Ken the Man]

It though yeah you should oh it.

[Drea Nicole]

Could be an intro to your yes.

[Courtney]

I would love that no i really want that we did an intro before.

[Ken the Man]

From my friend i want y' all to do my intro i'll do it.

[Drea Nicole]

Me too you ain't got girl no.

[Ken the Man]

I want y' all to do it that would be so nostalgic that would be fun that would be good we going to do it they would love.

[Lex P]

That i'mma slide it in there not.

[Ken the Man]

You going to sing on hook too.

[Lex P]

I'M wait till you get all deep and hard say dre a all right.

[Drea Nicole]

So now it's time to get into item of the week of course y' all know item of the week is muse beauty collection dot com ken i got some stuff for you i'mma give it to you lip glosses lip liners matte liquid lipsticks jelly blush eyeliner mascara all of the above use beauty collection dot com so yes let's get into pour your heart out you know if.

[Lex P]

You go ahead oh my bad if you want your question answered on the show make sure you email us at ask poor minds gmail dot com if you're a patreon member make sure you put that in the handout line you get to skip the people you know what i'm saying so do you give.

[Ken the Man]

Good advice amazing all right come on.

[Lex P]

Andrea give it to her can y'.

[Drea Nicole]

All keep me anonymous i just want to say y' all fine and congrats love both of y' all my girl put me on lol but i've been with my girl almost four years things been rocky on and off mostly my fault but i take accountability been trying to be better and but it's not working we still argue a lot and i think she's cheating at one point we haven't had sex in five months i remain faithful i'm a handsome own money a provider and i have no problems in the bedroom but i feel like she's cheating i bring it up she just says that she's not there mentally i try to respect it but i'm just like we used to have sex every day and now all we do is fight she not big on communication and i am that's always been a problem my question is hold on wait my question is as women do y' all think she's cheating or if we're really just in a bad space and need to move on on i want a wife right now i don't know if i should trust her i.

[Ken the Man]

Ain'T gonna lie sounds to me like the lacking or is that a lesbian i don't know no i think he.

[Lex P]

Was a this man he said a.

[Ken the Man]

Handsome no but i feel like sometimes them studs be calling themselves handsome they.

[Drea Nicole]

Do be calling theyself so i would.

[Ken the Man]

Say i feel like do you know women can't get out like i know a lot of my friends a lot of women women they don't want to be they don't want to be sexual if they're not courted and they're not like still like you know how men sometimes act like the relationship is old you hear you in your pinstripe pajamas now i can't i don't date you and i don't get you flowers and i don't make you i don't pour into you like the way that a woman wants to be poured in because men can pour yeah but it might not be my cup right and that'll make stuff change i feel like that changes the dynamic of things and a lot of women probably are not aware because they're probably trying to stick it out hold it down but it's like no i feel like as a man i'm not saying he is lacking but or she i just would say that it's kind of like sometimes you gotta stimulate your partner like even if y' all been dating for four years that's when you really gotta get into it cause shit get old now you know.

[Lex P]

The only reason i will say for him that i think that he probably needs to just kind of give her space is because one thing i cannot stand is when somebody is trying to communicate with somebody and they're not even being open to talk he don't know what's going on because she won't tell him if he is lacking in the date department he's asking you what's wrong and she's not communicating it oh i.

[Ken the Man]

Didn'T hear that part yeah he's like.

[Lex P]

He'S asking her so to me if you're asking somebody and they're not giving.

[Ken the Man]

You an answer to me that's different.

[Lex P]

Yeah they checked out and that's the answer right there if i'm talking to you and i'm like hey how can we work this out and you not giving me no answers you not but.

[Ken the Man]

What if this has been a four.

[Lex P]

Year pattern then it's time to let.

[Ken the Man]

It go not for him for her like what if she's tired of answering your questions like i told you already right you know what i'm saying and then sometimes people don't be hearing it.

[Lex P]

That'S true too but to answer it it's like nobody is changing what it sounds like he's not and she's not because both of y' all are still on half so to me it's like you being a communicator and you're saying she's not that's not gonna work anyway what is a relationship without communication that's.

[Ken the Man]

The biggest thing you can't read her.

[Lex P]

Mind and she can't read yours so to me it just sounds like this relationship has ran its course if i'm.

[Ken the Man]

Being honest for now because if you never know like some people branch away to grow together right you know so i feel like that's a that's also.

[Lex P]

A possibility but to me it's just like for the communication to be mad and y' all not even be this bad and y' all not even married.

[Ken the Man]

Yet but it four years should have been yeah you know what i'm saying why you ain't proposed to me oh wa five is the max in my.

[Lex P]

Opinion you say what five is the.

[Drea Nicole]

Max five years oh you're not engaged after five years what are you doing like the fifty year breakup with the.

[Ken the Man]

But i also do i still really be feeling like it's not a timeline like you know how this person makes you feel so i don't think like marriage is like this just stamp of approval like everybody make ideally you know because of society but it's kind of like if you know what y' all got going on i'm not really that person but i will say it's like i feel like you ain't married to so it's like what you over there doing he ain't putting nothing in there what he been doing and i think.

[Lex P]

It'S also just about two sides to.

[Ken the Man]

Every he ain't say her side like he said his side that's the i don't trust and it's wild it's two.

[Drea Nicole]

Sides yeah i agree and i think it's just more about what you want as a person like if you're a woman who you don't really care about marriage marriage and that's different but if marriage is what you want and you've been with this man for four years and or five years and he haven't proposed it's time to dismantle this but.

[Lex P]

And then five being in a relationship and not having sex for five months.

[Ken the Man]

Is crazy it is y' all never get bored a little bit no but.

[Drea Nicole]

Living in the same house well yeah can you live in the same house we're every day five years i mean.

[Ken the Man]

Four or five months is kind of.

[Lex P]

Long but five months is a long time to be in the same vicinity with somebody and y' all not having.

[Ken the Man]

Sex i think so too bare bare.

[Lex P]

Bare minimum y' all should be having sex at least once a week that's bare minimum you know what i'm saying so i just feel like five months even if y' all don't live together in a relationship five months no sex.

[Ken the Man]

Honestly i ain't never been in a relationship for four years i don't know what that looks like yeah me either.

[Lex P]

Yeah what was my longest relationship like steady all together i think my longest one where like we didn't break up we were steadily together was like three and a half almost four years y' all never broke yeah like the first like the first three and a half four years like we were together but i've dealt with people on and off for like the longest time i've dealt with somebody on and off was seven.

[Drea Nicole]

Years oh yeah i know about it.

[Lex P]

By the grace of god i was released from hell and you just keep.

[Ken the Man]

Doing it thinking it's gonna change every time you know what's crazy i knew.

[Lex P]

It wasn't gonna change courtney don't believe.

[Drea Nicole]

She over there shaking her head that's.

[Lex P]

Disgusting oh my god i get grossed out every time i think about that shit but also it's just this i knew things wouldn't change i realized the reason i would always go back for him to him because it was discomfort yeah cause like when i went off and found another that i thought was gonna work out i would just be like okay let me just go back.

[Ken the Man]

To this but it's like comfortable you gotta take the comfort out of dick maybe yes cause it's like sometimes it's just yeah cause i went back for a number but it was just dick it wasn't that i liked the personality of the person it was just like i just don't want to catch another.

[Lex P]

Body yeah and for me it wasn't even that it was just like the conversations we were having now looking back on it it was just like you don't have to tell me all of this like we both know what we be doing when we stop talking and it was just a lot of unnecessary shit but yeah i just think that communication is key and if you don't y' all don't you said you don't trust her and y' all not communicating that's no relationship no trust or communication.

[Ken the Man]

Go through that phone let's get into.

[Courtney]

It let's get to the nitty gritty go through that let's lose fifteen pounds go through that phone that's all they.

[Ken the Man]

Need to that's the advice takeaway go through that phone go through that phone.

[Lex P]

You'Ll figure it out i don't recommend that cause i went through a phone the first time in my life when i was in my twenties and i never did it again i think that.

[Drea Nicole]

If you confused or conflicted about whether you should break up with somebody or not night go through the phone four.

[Ken the Man]

Years i'm going through that's what's going.

[Drea Nicole]

To give you cuz i agree with you i don't believe in going through people phones but if i'm confused on whether or not i should leave a alone that's probably what you should do.

[Lex P]

If you're confused if you're confused about leaving somebody alone i think that's the.

[Ken the Man]

Answer right there going through that phone.

[Lex P]

No being confused is the answer oh yeah being confused is enough whenever every time that i've been confused that was.

[Ken the Man]

My answer yeah me too me too being confused is the literal solution and.

[Lex P]

I'M talking about being confused over a.

[Ken the Man]

Period of time not like a one confusing moment yeah not a confusing pattern.

[Lex P]

Of confusion like you've been confused for like five like he said five six seven eight months what are we doing why are we being confused i would.

[Ken the Man]

Have been gone month one i don't.

[Drea Nicole]

Have a little me and ken would have been gone too bye loser yeah.

[Lex P]

That'S too long to be confused that's.

[Drea Nicole]

It is but you know men don't.

[Ken the Man]

Leave they don't it's like they do to make you leave them terrible if.

[Lex P]

A man leave you you are a.

[Courtney]

Horrible person fact if a man leave.

[Drea Nicole]

You you are a terrible be facts.

[Lex P]

Facts they don't leave they don't leave nobody alone he was like i've had.

[Drea Nicole]

Enough you are literally the worst person.

[Ken the Man]

On the planet ever met but what.

[Courtney]

Well actually i can't even fuck you no more okay but let me ask.

[Lex P]

You this is that a difference between a man leaving somebody or like he's maybe he's dealing with two women and he chooses this one over that he.

[Ken the Man]

Don'T never choose the find out one of them get madder one of them stay that's the dynamic most of the.

[Drea Nicole]

Time but sometimes do be choosing women over other women cuz i had a friend who was dating this for like seven well not seven maybe like five years and then he ended up marrying this other girl put her up gave her two babies all of this stuff and then she kept dealing with him.

[Ken the Man]

Afterwards who the man that did that to the opposite side the man she.

[Drea Nicole]

Kept dealing with the man she turned.

[Ken the Man]

To the side so the main turned.

[Drea Nicole]

To the side but she was dealing.

[Lex P]

With him first i have never been.

[Ken the Man]

Demoted facts demote demoted is he married.

[Drea Nicole]

Another girl like it's like nobody live so that's why i was saying nobody live he just chose one girl over the other and he still got to.

[Ken the Man]

Deal with both of them yeah tyler port had them windows broke hey i'm.

[Drea Nicole]

Beyonce on lemonade yeah window with a.

[Ken the Man]

Bat look wedding crash i'm telling you.

[Lex P]

That'S crazy as hell but i do think that's always crazy and this is no shade to anybody but like when a woman is like with a man they have a child then they break up and he moves on and you still you turn into the side bitch.

[Ken the Man]

To your baby but it's like that's.

[Lex P]

A choice yes that's what i'm saying that always is so crazy why do.

[Ken the Man]

Y' all be doing that no it's like ain't no nigga that good to.

[Drea Nicole]

Make me what that lady said betty wright a piece of a man is.

[Courtney]

Better than but no man girl i guess for them honestly diana ross said.

[Lex P]

That in upside down she said i'm aware that you're cheating or something and she was like but no one makes me feel like you do no bitch calm down bitch i will find you.

[Ken the Man]

It ain't never like what i'll be single forever what kind of dick was.

[Lex P]

They giving out during that time i.

[Ken the Man]

Don'T think it usually was the same dick and that dick was uncured oh.

[Courtney]

My god uncured i hate a uncured.

[Ken the Man]

Pork meat slab take it all that dick was probably worse back then condoms.

[Courtney]

Condoms was thick yes that sheepskin.

[Drea Nicole]

Everything was thick everything sheepskin don't cure std syphilis being passed around oh my god.

[Lex P]

Oh my gosh just pointless all right ken we gonna wrap this up today.

[Courtney]

Let the people oh i'm so sad oh i lied gotcha got happy we have our next habit brought to you.

[Lex P]

By taylor port we have our bottled up segment y' all know if y' all ever wanna just vent send us a little voice note just get something off your chest go ahead morgan.

[Ken the Man]

So i do have something to get off my chest yes i am a twenty year old nail tech and a fully licensed cosmetologist i just got my cosmetology license on november twenty sixth but i have doubts about my business sometimes business be really slow and money is tight especially with the holidays coming up and i never want to give up on my business because it's it really is my passion but when money's tight i be wanting to just quit quit doing nails and just get a job but like i said i don't want to give up on my business i am very passionate i worked really hard to get to where i am but it just clients is moving in slow and it's i don't really know how to keep myself motivated you know what i mean and and it's just been hard skin well i'm sorry what's gonna always.

[Lex P]

Say well i always say when you quit you'll regret it cause guess what it's gonna be four years later and you're gonna be like damn i wish i wouldn't have quit and then you gotta start over you just said you just got your cosmetology license in november it's only december you've only been licensed for a month if anybody out there if you wanna be a business owner guess what you're gonna have a season where you make so much money and then right after that you ain't gonna make none ooh that's the you cannot stop you cannot stop it's either that's what people say like it's just gotta.

[Ken the Man]

Be in you it gotta be in.

[Lex P]

You like i'm telling you the first like couple of years after i quit my job i was just like i don't know if i can do this i miss having that consistent check but honestly now i kinda love the chase of it like like i gotta get this money you gotta get that hustler in you and you so young girl and the fact that you got licensed so early if you stay consistent by the time you thirty you gonna be a millionaire if you really work hard and you learn how to expand your business eventually maybe open your own spot up have people working under you teaching classes you can do so much cause that is a skill that is a trade and let me tell you as broke as i was i always wanted my nails done whether it was like i was paying somebody thirty dollars to send me some press ons anything you are in the beauty industry it is a billion dollar industry the worst thing you ever gonna do is quit you gotta get that hustle in you i know that's not what people wanna hear.

[Ken the Man]

And they're like oh that's no that's what people should wanna hear no you gotta have it in you i feel like it's all a motivational thing especially like being an entrepreneur is a challenge it's a chance so you have to find something you can do and do do with your passion so if you're passionate about doing nails you have to do something that can pay the bills while you do your hobby that's that's a passion your hobby can make you millions like literally speaking from a rapper that's independent that has so much trial and error i just never gave up because i truly loved it and i just feel like giving up is the worst thing to do because you're gonna always live in that regret now if you put your best foot forward you you first of all you can't you can't be down until you put your best foot forward that's what i would say because it's like have you put in all the time that you needed to put in before you like calling and quiz because it take one person it take one set it take one post like it's always that and it sounds cliche but i really truly feel like you just can't give up on the thing that you want to do and it's like it's always necessary like like lex said like bitches get their nails done yeah even if you gotta put your prices at a price that maybe doesn't help you but it's like you're still getting that notoriety you still getting them posts you still getting woo.

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[Drea Nicole]

I mean not doordash i i was a uber driver.

[Ken the Man]

Let'S go she trying to figure out when she was a.

[Courtney]

Door dad when was this who the.

[Lex P]

Did you pick up she was moonlight.

[Drea Nicole]

To be fair to be fair it didn't last long it was for like i guess three days i ain't going.

[Ken the Man]

To do this no more i didn't.

[Courtney]

Like you i never knew this i didn't like like it was in houston.

[Ken the Man]

Yeah super hated it i was still in houston and i was like cuz.

[Drea Nicole]

When i moved to atlanta when i was twenty five so this had to be when i was like either like twenty three or twenty four but i did it for like three four days i didn't like it though my god i was like this is horrible so.

[Ken the Man]

That'S why she you never knew it was just three to four days three.

[Courtney]

To four days it was nothing to.

[Drea Nicole]

Brag about three four days but i.

[Lex P]

I'M just surprised it never came up.

[Drea Nicole]

In conversation but i said that to say like yes when you're trying to figure shit out you have to try your hand at different things yeah and.

[Ken the Man]

Stuff that's quick yeah i'm not gonna.

[Lex P]

Lie y' all know me i always talk about that i you know what's crazy shout out to my girls at european wax center cause i just went there the other day and i seen all my old co workers and i was so happy to see them but y' all know i worked at european wax center until they told me i had to choose and when i was at regis too i worked a job literally people would come in there and be like oh my gosh i listen to your podcast okay do you want to leave a tip like i'm working you know what i'm saying so sometimes it's okay to have a job now it makes the hustle harder it does but when you finally get that break and you are able to quit that job it makes everything so much sweet.

[Ken the Man]

Everybody got off days you know what i'm saying that's what i would say so on your off days that's when you fill up your nail schedule if.

[Lex P]

You can yeah and then i feel like there's so many things you can do with nails try making press ons and selling press ons that'll be a.

[Ken the Man]

Sign you have family members your family member nails for free like stuff that's not like crazy i just think just it's about presenting yourself and then you might be in a place to where it's not that much competition you know you just never know you just can't.

[Lex P]

Give up yeah don't that's the worst thing do all these things but just don't give up chad all right where does the man come from i know people ask you this all the time i know we asked you last time and i know the story but just.

[Drea Nicole]

Telling the people but we still want you to tell the people in the.

[Ken the Man]

Comments asking why her name to me no it's just like my alter ego i would say just a short story short form i feel like it's like i make music for women but it's like dominant masculine music for women it's not like the i'm so sad it's like that get a job get on these hoes pay your bills have a nigga that want to pay a bill pay a bill even if he a little ugly ugly it's just like a thing it's just like confidence a lot of women come to me and tell me that i help them through breakups and stuff and that's literally what i'm here for i'm here to just be like think about your male friends yeah they just give it to you raw blunt hearts yes you know perfect example so it's just like the man is just like the alter ego it's just like the the more solution based version the more carefree version the more dominant version because we all got it in us soft girls it's like you gonna put your foot down sooner or later later i just as that so i just speak for the girls that just want to not give a i know.

[Lex P]

That right you know they used to call me lex the man back in.

[Ken the Man]

The day i know i heard it i will say that anytime i get into it with my yo should be on full blast and i be from the chest screaming at the top of.

[Drea Nicole]

My lungs like just so you know.

[Ken the Man]

P yeah girl i got into ass yeah i got into it with my oh oh right put that candy man i forgot i was like not me.

[Courtney]

Getting me.

[Ken the Man]

I said oh they right.

[Lex P]

I can't wait to talk my to the i'm the rich i ain't got time to be a gold y' all make sure y' all follow ken i'm ken the man on instagram where else.

[Ken the Man]

You at where else you at tik tok kenna three hundred four twitter x i guess x that i'm candyman i m k e n t h e m a n and i'm so happy to be here thank y' all so much for having me we love you.

[Courtney]

I love my world yes y' all.

[Lex P]

Make sure y' all go check out.

[Courtney]

Her deluxe album out now and we'll.

[Lex P]

See y' all next week present to you a very merry christmas i know that's right uh huh yeah it was made for the children yeah come on.

[Ken the Man]

Kim folks destiny's child yeah oh.

[Lex P]

On.

[Ken the Man]

The eighth day of christmas my baby gave to me a pair of chloe.

[Lex P]

Shades and a diamond belly ring on the seventh day of christmas my baby gave to me a nice bag rub and he massaged my feet on the sixth day of christmas my baby gave me a crop top so if he only knew what he does to me.

[Courtney]

My man my man my baby always.

[Lex P]

Makes me feel so lovely so sexy.

[Courtney]

I'M so in love how i love.

[Lex P]

For his generosity my man my man my baby doesn't it feel like christmas.

[Courtney]

It feel lovely christmas feels so lovely like christmas yes it feels like christmas doesn't it feel like christmas doesn't it feel like christmas doesn't it feel like.

[Lex P]

Christmas on the third day of christmas my baby gave to me a gift.

[Ken the Man]

Certificate to get my favorite cd on the second day of christmas my baby.

[Courtney]

Gave me the keys to a clk mercedes my baby get to me quality ti and me yeah it always made.

[Lex P]

Me feel so good been so sexy.

[Courtney]

I'M so in la la la la la if he only knew what he.

[Lex P]

Does for me my man my man always makes me feel so lovely so.

[Courtney]

Sexy i'm so in love love love.

[Lex P]

Love how i love him for his generosity my man my man my baby.

[Courtney]

Oh it feels lovely feels so lovely yes it feels like christmas doesn't it feel like christmas you better harmonize like christmas doesn't it feel like christmas yes it feels like christmas hey hey hey it feel like christmas it feel like christmas i said ho ho ho doesn't it feel like christmas happy christmas.

[Lex P]

Wow.

[Courtney]

It feels so lovely.

[Lex P]

Pause the music and that's all we got folks yeah.

[Courtney]

Hey i don't know about y' all.

[Lex P]

Y' all merry christmas we'll see y' all next week sa sam foreign.

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Gaming computer is on your holiday list don't shop around just go directly to the source lenovo it's your last chance to score exclusive deals on the gaming pcs you want like the lenovo legion tower five gen ten gaming desktop and lenovo lock gaming laptop so avoid all that shopping chaos and price comparing and just go directly to the source lenovo dot com where pcs are up to thirty five percent off that's lenovo dot.

[Lex P]

Com lenovo lenovo.

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[Drea Nicole]

Pressure is coming down trainer games on.

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[Drea Nicole]

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[Ken the Man]

Is an iheart podcast guaranteed human.