Pour Minds Podcast – Episode: "Step Yo Game Up"
Release Date: January 31, 2025
Host: Drea and Lex (85 South Media)
1. Opening Banter: Snow in Atlanta [00:00 – 01:10]
The episode kicks off with Lex and Drea humorously discussing the rare snowfall in Atlanta. Lex expresses concern over people consuming snow, leading to a light-hearted exchange about the cleanliness of Atlanta streets.
Notable Quote:
Lex P [00:00]: "I understand when we see snow, we not used to seeing it, but stop eating the snow."
2. New Year's Resolutions and Personal Updates [01:10 – 05:28]
Lex initiates a check-in on listeners' New Year's resolutions as January comes to a close. Both hosts share their progress: Drea proudly states she's "staying on track with all of her goals," highlighting her disciplined nature and upcoming product launch—a new eyeliner sample set to release in March.
Lex reveals her journey in acting classes, humorously describing her improvement from being "big trash" to "medium trash" ([02:41]). She also discusses her endeavors with "Love Lex P," a solo project focusing on creating a more relaxed vibe compared to the high production of "Poor Minds."
Drea elaborates on her 75-day challenge, abstaining from alcohol, committing to daily workouts, and adopting a pescatarian diet. She also shares her plans to enroll in Spanish classes, aiming for fluency by year's end, and envisions a "Poor Mind's Talent Show" featuring friends showcasing their skills.
Notable Quotes:
Dre Nicole [02:16]: "I have been staying on track with all of my goals."
Lex P [02:41]: "I went to acting class the other day and he was like, you have such a presence on camera."
3. Addressing the TikTok Ban and Public Reactions [15:01 – 26:47]
Drea and Lex delve into the uproar surrounding the temporary TikTok ban. They critique the exaggerated reactions of users, arguing that the panic was unwarranted given TikTok's reinstatement after 12 hours. Lex warns listeners not to be swayed by misleading claims, such as the notion that Donald Trump "saved the day."
Drea expresses frustration over the societal obsession with social media, likening the overreactions to living in a "Black Mirror" episode. They emphasize the importance of having multiple income streams to mitigate reliance on any single platform.
Notable Quotes:
Lex P [17:29]: "Do not fall for that little stunt that they pulled talking about Donald Trump saved the day and saved the app."
Dre Nicole [19:04]: "Like what is wrong with y'all? Like, it's an app and I get that people make money from it, but just like any other time, if something gets canceled, something else is gonna pop off right afterwards."
4. Announcing New Show on Patreon: "Poor Chronicles" [27:02 – 28:18]
Excitement builds as Drea and Lex unveil their new Patreon-exclusive show, "Poor Chronicles," set to launch on September 2nd. They promise engaging content, including challenges, teasers, and behind-the-scenes insights, catering to their dedicated fanbase.
Notable Quote:
Lex P [27:26]: "We're going to be doing so much stuff on there. We're gonna be doing challenges... Everything y'all been wanting to see, we're going to be doing it right here on Patreon."
5. Being a Well-Traveled Woman in Dating [28:27 – 43:12]
The hosts tackle the topic of male preferences in dating, particularly men who prefer younger women over well-traveled, older counterparts. Lex shares personal experiences where men felt intimidated by her extensive travels, preferring to impress through extravagant trips like to Greece or Paris.
Drea underscores the importance of the individual over the destination, stating, "It's not about where you are. It's about the person that you're with." Both emphasize that men intimidated by their travel history lack the capacity to appreciate a well-rounded, experienced partner.
Notable Quotes:
Lex P [30:45]: "Any man that is intimidated by a well-traveled woman is not the man for me."
Dre Nicole [32:02]: "Take me again. And it's gonna be a different experience because this time I'm with you."
6. Defining Luxury [43:12 – 54:35]
Drea and Lex engage in a profound discussion on the concept of luxury. They explore personal definitions, highlighting that luxury transcends material possessions to include freedom, mental well-being, and meaningful relationships.
Drea defines luxury as the ability to "do whatever I want," emphasizing freedom and spontaneity, having a flexible schedule, and engaging in thoughtful, generous relationships. Lex resonates deeply, associating luxury with mental freedom—being debt-free, surrounded by positive energy, and maintaining a strong sense of self.
Notable Quotes:
Lex P [50:32]: "Luxury to me is just being free. Debt free. Fuck nigga free. Bad friend free. Bad energy free."
Dre Nicole [36:46]: "I want to live a life full of adventure, spontaneity. I don't want my life to be mundane where I'm doing the same thing."
7. Debunking Sex Myths [57:10 – 66:07]
In a candid segment, Lex and Drea share and debunk common sex myths they believed during childhood:
- Lex P [60:54]: "I used to think you could get pregnant from kissing."
- Dre Nicole [61:05]: "I thought you could get pregnant at any time of the month. Obviously, as I got older, I found out you can only get pregnant when you're ovulating."
- Lex P [63:19]: "I used to think if you had a hickey, you were a nasty."
They advocate for open, honest conversations about sex education, moving away from taboos and misconceptions to foster a healthier understanding among listeners.
Notable Quotes:
Dre Nicole [60:08]: "We need to start learning things that are gonna teach us about life."
Lex P [58:55]: "Why is sex so taboo to talk about? Like, why is it so, like, ugh, you know, like, I'm not saying that everybody wants to be open and talking about it, but when people are open and talking about it, why do people get so ashamed for that?"
8. Listener Question: Dealing with a Toxic Husband [75:11 – 82:04]
The hosts address a poignant listener inquiry from Keyora, a 19-year-old college student grappling with a toxic relationship. Her boyfriend, diagnosed with BD (presumably Bipolar Disorder), has chosen to live with another woman, leading to abuse and distrust.
Notable Quotes:
Lex P [75:11]: "First of all, who gives a if he trusts you? Y'all be giving these men too much."
Dre Nicole [78:38]: "Go out of your life and find a better and heal."
They offer unwavering support, advising Keyora to prioritize her and her children's well-being, cut off harmful ties, and focus on personal growth and future aspirations.
9. Music Segment: Bop of the Week [83:10 – 86:02]
Lex and Drea share their favorite songs of the week, reflecting on their personal tastes and the cultural reception of music:
- Lex P's Bop: Bruno Mars featuring Sexyy Red - "Freaks." Lex defends the song's candid content against purist criticisms.
- Dre Nicole's Bop: "30 for 30" by Scissors. Dre expresses her admiration for the artist and the song's vibe.
They encourage listeners to enjoy music within appropriate settings, emphasizing the fun and entertainment value of their choices.
Notable Quotes:
Lex P [83:15]: "My bop of the week is Bruno Mars featuring Sexyy Red, 'Fat, Juicy, and Wet.'"
Dre Nicole [72:06]: "Mine is '30 for 30' by Scissors. I like that song, but I love Scissors. I'm a huge Scissor fan."
10. Social Media Clarifications and Closing Remarks [84:00 – 87:58]
In the concluding segment, Lex and Drea clarify their official social media handles to combat impersonation:
- Lex P [84:34]: "It's P O u R underscore M I n d S."
They warn listeners against fake accounts and reiterate their genuine platforms on Instagram, Twitter, TikTok, and Facebook, emphasizing the correct handles for authentic content.
The episode wraps up with catchy chants and reaffirmations of their commitment to providing valuable content, encouraging listeners to subscribe, follow, and engage with their various projects.
Notable Quote:
Lex P [84:48]: "You only have one Instagram, one Twitter, one TikTok. It is P O u R underscore M I n d S."
Conclusion
"Step Yo Game Up" is a dynamic episode where Drea and Lex intertwine personal growth stories, societal commentary, and engaging discussions on relationships and self-improvement. Their authentic banter, coupled with actionable insights and relatable anecdotes, offers listeners both entertainment and meaningful takeaways. From addressing the fleeting fear of social media bans to empowering narratives about self-worth and luxury, the episode encapsulates the essence of "Pour Minds Podcast" as a platform for honest conversations and personal empowerment.
Remember: To stay updated with Drea and Lex's latest content, follow their official social media channels:
- Instagram & Twitter: @Pour_Minds
- TikTok: @Pour_Minds
- Facebook: P O u R underscore M I n d S
Ensure you're following the authentic accounts to receive genuine updates and avoid impersonators.