Sweet Lick ft. Bunna B

Summary

Pour Minds Podcast — "Sweet Lick ft. Bunna B"

Hosts: Lex P & Dre
Guest: Bunna B
Date: December 9, 2025
Podcast Network: The Black Effect & iHeartPodcasts

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Episode Overview

In this vibrant and laughter-filled episode, Lex P and Dre are joined by rising Atlanta rapper and internet sensation Bunna B. The trio sip on a “Sweet Lick” mocktail, dive into Bunna B’s rapid rise in music, working with industry icons, friendships, loyalty, relationships, the nuances of cheating, and self-acceptance. The show is packed with candid commentary, hilarious confessions, and straight-talking wisdom—delivering all the realness and comedy that Pour Minds fans expect.

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Key Topics and Discussion Points

1. Meet Bunna B: Upbringing & Personality

[04:00-06:50]

• Growing Up Atlanta: Born in Edgewood, raised in the Four Seasons apartments—Bunna describes her neighborhood as “rough,” but recalls fun times due to strong community bonds.
  • “If you know people there and you see everybody who you go to school with, it make it fun.” — Bunna B [05:35]
• Protecting Herself: Despite her sweet, bubbly personality, Bunna asserts her ability to stand up for herself—“People think they can try me, but if you try me, I’m gonna protect myself while laughing.” [06:28]
• Big Family Dynamics: Bunna is the second oldest of 11 siblings, shaping her assertiveness and preparing her for life outside the home.

2. Rapid Rise in Music

[08:08-10:14]

• First Steps: Bunna started making music “playing around” in her cousin’s closet during COVID, later posting songs on Instagram.
• Unexpected Success: The song “My Man” caught industry attention; she initially thought A&R contacts were “robots.”
• Getting Signed: Flown to New York, she signed with Atlantic Records—with lawyer oversight, thanks to her family. [09:38-10:14]
  • “I didn’t know it got that deep. My family was like, you need a lawyer and stuff.” — Bunna B

3. Creative Independence & Viral Success

[10:14-12:45]

• Maintaining Control: Bunna prefers doing things herself: “Nobody get me still when it comes to music.”
• Fan Influence: Her hit “Buna Summer” peaked at #15 on the Billboard charts after fans requested it on TikTok, prompting her to finish and release it. [10:53-11:27]
  • “I didn’t even remember...But I got on TikTok one day and they was like, can you drop the summer song?” — Bunna B
• Collaborations: Lizzo reached out to remix “Buna Summer,” and later the two met in person. [11:30-12:10]
  • “She did her remix to Buna Summer before we met.” — Bunna B

4. Staying Loyal in the Industry

[13:20-14:33]

• Picking Sides: On the divisive music industry, Bunna notes, “I’m gonna f*** with who f*** with me…I don’t go against my people.” [13:54]
• Friendship Values: The hosts applaud Bunna for how she stands up for friends—emphasizing loyalty as non-negotiable, both in music and real life.

5. Streaming, Virality & Internet Culture

[14:52-17:10]

• Streaming Culture: Bunna shares stories from live streams—awkward moments, viral clips, and the risks of “going live” where nothing can be edited out.
  • On accidentally exposing DMs: “That was a joke, I felt like…I feel like he probably had to say that because how like the supporters do stuff, so he probably had to clear his name.” [26:27]
• Relatable Humor: The crew reminisces about funny viral moments, misunderstandings (like hypoallergenic dogs), and how internet fame can outpace financial success.

6. Friendship, Collaboration, and Influence

[17:14-20:27]

• Music with Friends: Bunna describes the joys (and rare complications) of collaborating with friends romantically and professionally.
• Handling Copycats: On dealing with others copying her style and trends, Bunna is chill—as long as the copier isn’t “talking down.”
  • “But I just don’t like when they try to copy you but go against you.” [19:52]

7. Industry Recognition & Mainstream Breakthrough

[20:27-21:32]

• Being co-signed by Atlanta legend Jermaine Dupri (“JD”) and Metro Boomin—both major career milestones, with Bunna reflecting on the surreal feeling of being validated by people she grew up watching.

8. Mocktail Segment: Sweet Lick

[29:27-30:39]

• Drink Recipe: Dre introduces the “Sweet Lick” mocktail, inspired by Bunna’s latest project—packed with cranberry, pear puree, honey, herbs, edible glitter, and blood orange San Pellegrino. The drink is met with high praise:
  • “I like it. It’s real juicy.” — Bunna B [30:35]
• Lighthearted cheers and appreciation for the Pour Minds’ exclusive bartender.

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Relationships, Cheating & Loyalty

[31:02-38:43]

Should You Judge a Friend for Cheating?

• Bunna’s Take: “Yeah, it ain’t got nothing to do with me. I’m still gonna be your friend.” [31:02]
• Dre’s Concern: Repeated cheating = character issue—“Typically people who do that type of stuff, you’ll notice other character flaws at some period in time.” [31:48]
• Hosts’ Confessions: Both admit to cheating in the past—typically when deeply unhappy. Lex P says, “if I get to the point where I want to have sex with another man…something is missing, and you need to evaluate your situation.” [32:21]
• Nuances: The group distinguishes “justified” cheating from reckless cheating and acknowledges age/maturity brings different perspective.

Notable Quotes:

• “If my friend cheat on her good man with a [man] who just do her wrong, that makes me mad.” — Bunna B [36:14]
• “You gotta pick your battles…It’s hard, I know. I really be wanting to cuss the ho out.” — Bunna B [56:21]

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"It Could Never Be Me" Game

[43:19-59:16]
Hosts and Bunna B play a game choosing whether a scenario “could be them” or “could never be,” leading to hilarious stories and confessions:

• Getting Back with an Ex: All three admit, yes, it could be them.
• Fake Social Media Departures: They all clown folks who announce a “break” only to return hours later.
• Designer Fakes: Unified stance—never wear fake designer.
  • “Go buy some FO1s. It’s never that serious.”—Bunna B [57:15]
• Having clout while broke: Relatable for everyone—“I always had the clout. I ain’t always had a thousand in my pocket.” — Bunna B [53:49]

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Sex & Body Talk: “Are Big Guys Better in Bed?”

[65:22-80:58]

• Type Preferences: Bunna prefers “regular slim” men, Lex likes them muscular but not “buff,” Dre: “no hard ass nigga”—they all have specific physical preferences.
• Is it About Size or Skill?
  • “People be having body and don’t be putting in work.”—Bunna B [77:08]
  • “Sometimes it be too big, and it’s not pleasurable…” — Dre [80:20]
• Universal Agreement: Confidence and effort trump size or body type.
• Humor & Openness: Vivid stories about exes, celebrity body standards, and the myth of “big dick energy.”
  • “Give me a little schmedium, that’s the ones that be grinding they hips!” — Lex P [78:56]

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Music Recommendations (Bop of the Week)

[81:33-84:45]

• Lex P: "How Could You Not Call" by Xavier Omar—“We need to bring back begging music.”
• Dre: Rihanna’s album “Loud” (2010)—timeless, still hits.
• Bunna B: Her own new project “Sweet Lick,” recommending “Just the Girl” for a confidence boost.

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Audience Q&A: Pour Your Heart Out

[85:15-90:47]

1. Dating a Non-texter: Advice: Communicate your needs early and honestly. If you want more attention, say so!
   • “Everybody on their phone. Like, if he can sit on the phone…he can text.” — Bunna B [86:52]
2. On/Off with a Younger Guy, Red Flags: All agree she should move on, especially with disrespect (texting cousins, long silences).
   • “Leave that young ni*** alone. He texting your cousin!” — Bunna B [89:26]

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On Ad-Libs & Music Style:
  “I try to make the song be animated and more emotions... If you make the song with no adlib, it ain’t gonna come together.” — Bunna B [12:20]
• On Loyalty:
  “I fuck with who fuck with me. I don’t go against my people.” — Bunna B [14:09]
• Lex P’s Take on Cheaters:
  “At this age, I’m judging. I’m talking about you. What the fuck?” — Lex P [40:47]
• On Living Within Your Means:
  “You have to live within your means. That’s what people be. That’s the problem, like people will look at other people online, and be like, oh this person got a Ferrari... But you can't afford that.” — Dre [61:00]
• On Exes:
  “If I break up with my nigga today, I probably go with a nigga I already been with.” — Bunna B [34:07]
• On “Big Dick Energy”:
  “That’s actually harder to work with. Cause you gotta know how to not hurt me.” — Lex P [77:51]

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[Song Performance & Outro]

[91:51-94:51]

• Bunna B closes out with an a cappella rendition of “Somebody,” showcasing her vocal talents and delivering a heartfelt, relatable message about wanting authentic love.

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Timestamps for Key Segments

• [04:00] — Meet Bunna B: Upbringing
• [08:08] — Early Music Career
• [10:53] — “Buna Summer” Hits Billboard
• [12:54] — Collabs and Loyalty
• [14:52] — Streaming/Internet Stories
• [17:14] — Friendship, Influence
• [20:27] — Industry Recognition
• [29:27] — Sweet Lick Mocktail Segment
• [31:02] — Cheating & Friendships
• [43:19] — “It Could Never Be Me” Game
• [65:22] — Are Big Guys Better in Bed?
• [81:33] — Music Recs (“Bop of the Week”)
• [85:15] — Audience Q&A
• [91:51] — Song/Outro

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Episode Takeaway

“Sweet Lick” is a classic Pour Minds episode brimming with honesty, sass, and ride-or-die energy. From Bunna B’s rapid success and commitment to authenticity, to the hosts’ hilarious confessions and genuine advice, the episode is a heady mix of music hustle, real talk on relationships, and black girl joy. Whether you’re here for the laughs or the wisdom, you’ll leave feeling like you just had the best, realest group chat with your girlfriends.

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Transcript

[Bunna B]

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[Dre]

I think sometimes women be cheating, too, just because they want to cheat.

[Lex P]

Cause the dick beat.

[Dre]

Cause they be like, they see the dick print.

[Bunna B]

Oh, no.

[Lex P]

I think sometimes what you say not for, uh, you don't think that. You ain't never cheated.

[Bunna B]

I cheated, but I didn't cheat for a reason. I, I. I cheated because I was trying to see was my mind still there or was it not.

[Lex P]

Oh, you cheated with the eggs.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Dre]

Okay.

[Bunna B]

See, I ain't cheating with nobody new. I. I like to put on my same.

Foreign.

[Lex P]

What's up, y'? All? It's your girl Lex P. And it's.

[Dre]

Your girl Dre and Nicole.

[Lex P]

And you are tuned in to another.

[Dre]

Episode of Poor Mind, whereas Drunk Mind speaks sober thoughts. And today we have a very special guest in the building. We have Atlanta native Internet sensation Bunna V. In the building today.

[Bunna B]

Hey, everybody.

[Lex P]

You even let me get to the song. We can do the song now. We got a guest today. We got a guest today. First of all, let me just say this. Every time I see you online, you are giggling, girling, and I love that about you. Thank you. Like, what's your sign?

[Bunna B]

I'm a Gemini. Okay.

[Lex P]

All right. I don't know what that means anyway. I don't know why I asked.

[Dre]

I ain't mean.

[Lex P]

It just sounded good to ask. So if y' all want to know, she a gemin. You know what I'm saying?

[Dre]

I know a little about Geminis. What?

[Lex P]

You know, they fun.

[Dre]

They like to be the life of the party, but they have two sides. But I feel like with her, she always smiling, so we don't know.

[Lex P]

I wouldn't wear the other side. You got the other side. Cause every time I see, she like.

[Bunna B]

Mm, yeah, probably when I'm not smiling.

[Dre]

And that's the side you don't want to see. Mm.

[Lex P]

If you get mad.

[Bunna B]

Mad? No, I'm not mad. I don't get angry.

[Lex P]

But it seem like whenever you mad, you probably still be smiling like, fuck you, girl.

[Bunna B]

Yeah. I don't be mad for a long time.

[Lex P]

Okay.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Dre]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

Okay. So talk about growing up in Atlanta, because I feel like, you know, you grew up on the newer, Newer side of, you know, ATL and things like that. So talk about that.

[Bunna B]

Okay. Growing up in Atlanta, I was born in Edgewood, so my mama had me. Then when we moved, we moved to an apartment called Four Seasons, and it went like.

[Lex P]

The Four Seasons?

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

Was it the Four Season?

[Bunna B]

No, it wasn't. Four Seasons. Oh, yeah, it's Four Seasons, not Four Seasons.

[Lex P]

Oh, four.

[Bunna B]

Yeah, yeah, four.

[Lex P]

Okay, okay, okay.

[Bunna B]

Yeah, that was like a little rough neighborhood. But it's like when you know people there and you see everybody who you go to school with and make it fun. So it was like, kind of fun for me, but other people looking in, they like, oh, bitch, you from there.

[Lex P]

You from everywhere.

[Bunna B]

Well, I can cuss. Yeah, girl.

[Lex P]

I lived in Edgewood when I first moved.

[Bunna B]

Over there.

[Dre]

She used to live off of Morley.

[Bunna B]

Oh, yeah.

[Lex P]

Okay, then I know about it.

[Bunna B]

That's a little girl.

[Dre]

Yes, girl.

[Bunna B]

I'm a little smarty. No, we far down.

[Lex P]

I had to get up out of there.

[Bunna B]

Oh, I did too.

[Lex P]

See, that's what I'm saying. I said we far down. I know you're not over there.

[Bunna B]

No, no, no.

[Lex P]

She done giving away out there. Okay, but talk about, like. Cause I feel like, like I said, you're so bubbly. You're so growing up, did, like, people feel like they had to protect you a lot?

[Bunna B]

Protect me?

[Lex P]

Like, you were just so sweet.

[Dre]

Cause that's the problem.

[Bunna B]

No, see, look, I protect myself. Yeah, I'm sweet and stuff, but I don't like that to fool nobody. Cause I present myself. Yeah. So people think they can try me. But if you try me, I'm gonna protect myself while laughing. But, yeah, I. No, I'm good out there. Like, I ain't gonna let nobody try me or nothing like that. Yeah.

[Dre]

Do you think that that comes from too? Cause you have 10 siblings, so you grew up in a big family. So I know people always say, like, growing up with a whole bunch of s, you'll be getting into it with your siblings sometimes. So they make you kind of like a little prepared to deal with people in the outside world.

[Bunna B]

At home, I got prepared for when I go outside. So I knew what it was.

[Dre]

Yeah.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Dre]

Are you the youngest?

[Bunna B]

No, I'm the second oldest.

[Dre]

You're the second.

[Lex P]

Really?

[Bunna B]

Yeah. I got older sister.

[Dre]

And how old is your youngest siblings?

[Bunna B]

I think she ate.

[Dre]

Okay, she ate.

[Bunna B]

I know her birthday on the 20th.

[Lex P]

Okay.

[Dre]

See, I got a little age gap. You like a grand sister like me?

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

Bring up that little. That little. I do. I have two little sisters, but they.

[Dre]

Way younger than me, girl. Like one of them eight and then one of them is four months.

My daddy.

[Bunna B]

Oh, okay.

[Dre]

Yeah, he has a four month old and I'm 34.

[Bunna B]

I don't want my mom to have no more kids. You say what I want. My mama had no more.

[Lex P]

No more.

[Bunna B]

No more.

[Lex P]

She might like.

[Dre]

Fingers crossed.

[Bunna B]

She done? Yeah, I don't think she gonna have no more. I mean, my siblings and us, we having our own kid.

[Lex P]

Oh, yeah, she might be done sometimes. But you do see, sometimes people be having aunt that's like two years old.

[Bunna B]

Yeah, they do.

[Dre]

They about to be my kids.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

That'S.

[Dre]

They ain't gonna be two years old.

[Lex P]

Okay, so talk about music and how you got into music. Because I feel like you have an amazing story. Because a lot of times you see people, they be like, I'm hustling, I'm grinding. They've been working for 10, 15 years and they finally get their hair.

[Bunna B]

So.

[Lex P]

But it was kind of like you stepped on the scene and it just. It started popping for you see, music.

[Bunna B]

I started music. I ain't take it serious, but I think Covid came around and I would like rap and act like I'm in a studio, but I never been to a studio. So I go in my cousin closet and we'll just rap. It ain't no equipment, no nothing.

[Lex P]

You would just sing it to the coat?

[Bunna B]

Yes. And she'll hit me out there and if I mess up, she'll come like, whoop me with a belt.

[Lex P]

What?

[Bunna B]

Well, that's how we play.

[Lex P]

Yeah, that ain't playing.

[Bunna B]

Right. So I ain't take nothing serious, but I think I end up after I made a song in the closet, I recorded it and put it on Instagram and like it kind of had views and stuff. So I left it alone. Then I started rapping again, I think like two years later. And when I made this song called My man, people was reaching out, but I thought they was like robots or something. Cause it was like A and R's. But they was all saying the same shit. And I never knew nothing about music. So I ended up linking up with Wayne. He flew me out to. To New York and I had meetings out there and I met with Atlanta Records and I signed to Atlanta Records.

[Lex P]

And talk about that deal.

[Dre]

Yeah, that happened quick.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Bunna B]

Okay. So I went out there. I didn't know, like, I didn't have no manager or nothing like that. When I went out there, the A R, he was cool as like taking me out. Eat. We just vibing. He it like he was. I don't know, he was just kind of like a friend or something. So I'm like, oh, did my friend let me go ahead and sign it.

[Lex P]

That's how they get your ass.

[Bunna B]

But I had a lawyer.

[Lex P]

Now you look and you gotta pay for that.

[Bunna B]

State. My family was like, you need a lawyer and stuff. I didn't know it got that deep. So I went ahead and got me a lawyer. Then we did the deal.

[Lex P]

So where you're at now though, you feel like you have more like independence and you like being more things yourself?

[Bunna B]

Yeah, I like doing stuff myself. Cause I feel like nobody get me still when it comes to music.

[Dre]

Cause I feel like with so many, many artists, they don't really know where they want to go creatively. So that's good that you know exactly what your vision is. Like. You should make sure you just never lose that.

[Bunna B]

Yeah, I be trying to do my own creative stuff. But when it stuff been getting so busy.

[Dre]

Yeah.

[Bunna B]

Like I gotta have time to do certain stuff.

[Dre]

It makes sense. So how did it make you feel when Bunasuma peaks at number 15 on the billboard charts? Because that's huge. Especially as a new artist.

[Lex P]

Bonus Summer.

[Bunna B]

I didn't know. I didn't know it was gonna be that song.

[Lex P]

You didn't.

[Bunna B]

When I made Bonus Summer, like me, I usually go do my hooks and then I finish whatever song like people like or that I like the most. But I never finished Buna Summer. But I got on TikTok one day and they was like, can you drop the summer song? The summer song? I'm like, what summer song? I didn't even remember. So I went back and listened to all the. Excuse me. I went back and listened to all the songs I did. I'm like, oh, this song they talking about. So I went back in the studio, then I put my verse on there and I dropped it and people loved.

[Dre]

It and it went crazy.

[Bunna B]

I was shocked.

[Dre]

And then Lizzo was on the song. So how did that come about too?

[Bunna B]

I think Lizzo heard the song and she reached. I think they reached out to my team or something. And then she pulled up to the studio on me.

[Dre]

Okay.

[Bunna B]

Oh.

[Lex P]

So she pulled up and y' all met. You know, usually they'll be like, let me send this verse.

[Bunna B]

Yeah, but she did her ver. She did her remix to Bunda Summer before we met.

[Lex P]

Okay, okay.

[Bunna B]

We met afterwards.

[Lex P]

Okay. And see the thing that I like about you. Cause I feel like you just get on the track and be popping your shit. The ad libs, you know, people don't realize the ad libs are serious furious.

Like that. I said, these hoes is mad. Bitch ain't getting mad about shit. But I say she furious.

[Bunna B]

Uh huh.

[Lex P]

I don't know. You just be doing.

[Bunna B]

You just be doing. Yes. I just. I Try to make the song, like, be animated and like, more emotions. And you can hear the ad lib. They do make the song. Like, if you make the song with no ad lib. Yeah. It ain't gonna come together how it's supposed to.

[Dre]

And I feel like you got, like, the fun type of music that girls listen to when they getting ready in their house, when they about to go outside.

[Bunna B]

Yeah, I'll be trying to keep it fun.

[Dre]

It's like, let me turn it on.

[Bunna B]

I ain't no serious person. Yeah, yeah.

[Lex P]

See, I like that. That's why I say this is music that you get ready to.

[Bunna B]

Yeah, it is.

[Lex P]

You know what I'm saying? So talk about, like, who you wanna work with, you know, like. Cause you getting to that point to where it's like, you know, they go. They all. I know y' all finna be mad at the comments. They like. Lex always ask this, but I feel like it's important. We gotta know where the girls stand.

[Dre]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

But you know, you gonna get to that point. So they're like, you know, which side you on, who you working with, who you not working with. But I feel like you kind of already been, like, dealing with that a little bit, you know, with all the mess and.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

Fussy girl, you know, when you sitting at.

[Bunna B]

Now.

[Lex P]

Wait a minute. Yeah, wait a minute.

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Okay.

[Bunna B]

Okay. What's up?

[Lex P]

I mean, just. I mean, but talk about that though, because. But one thing I will say is I love the way that you stick up for your friend. You don't play about your friend. Cause that's important because a lot of people play in their friend face and we see it. Andre don't play in my face and I don't play in hers. You got to be that way. So that's very important. So. But how do you feel like moving on to that next level and working with this tide and they not on this side and this and that.

[Bunna B]

So I know, like, the industry, they have they sides and stuff, but I'm new. I don't know what's going on in the industry. Yeah. So, like, I feel like as I grow, I'm gonna fuck with who. Fuck with me. Yeah. I'm gonna try not to pick sides, but I fuck with who I fuck with. I don't go against my people.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Bunna B]

That's how I feel.

[Lex P]

And that's what you're supposed to be.

[Dre]

That's what I was gonna say.

[Bunna B]

So I ain't trying to go in the industry, just picking sides. Cause, like, now I like everybody.

[Lex P]

Yeah, that' Cause I love to play dumb. She said, what about you? I didn't know, girl. The song was hot and I liked the verse. Do you know what I'm saying? And then tell them. Your auntie say Lex P. That's my auntie. She told me to do it.

[Bunna B]

Okay.

[Lex P]

Just blame it on me, girl. Just blaming on me, child. That's all you got to do. That's all you got to do.

All day.

[Dre]

She's crazy, too. Okay, okay.

[Lex P]

Go ahead. Go ahead.

[Bunna B]

Sorry.

[Dre]

Well, no, I mean, did you have.

[Lex P]

Well, I did have another question, because you just were on the stream.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

So I saw a lot of clips from your stream. How was that experience? Because that's like, live.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

And you can't take nothing back. And what we saw, you was giggling and cracking up the whole time. Of course, they're gonna assume, like, so what were you laughing at? Cause Ray was like, what you laughing at?

[Bunna B]

Oh, my God. But I was laughing at Ray.

[Lex P]

Okay, that's fine.

[Bunna B]

Because I never met him in person. Okay. Like, seeing them together, it's just funny.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Bunna B]

But I didn't know what he was saying. He was asking me, do I think he was Asian. But I'm like, I don't know the difference. People saying. People saying, girl, you knew he was aging, but I don't know aging from Chinese from, like. I don't just look at people and say, you dis. So that's why I was trying to tell him I didn't know you was Asian.

[Lex P]

Okay.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

So you was just trying to figure it out. Yeah. And that's all right. But I'm glad that you said that, because I think a lot of times people judge people and assume that they just know. Yeah. You know, you got to educate. I'm from Orange, Texas, baby. You got to let me know, Baby. Is you German or Russian?

[Bunna B]

Exactly.

[Lex P]

I don't know the difference. Please educate.

[Dre]

No, that's funny. Cause that remind me of that clip of you and YK niece that was, like, going viral. Y' all was talking about her dog. You was like, it's a dog. Hypoallergenic. He was like, is it what? What is it?

[Bunna B]

What? Like, is it hypogenerator? I don't know what hypogenerator is, but I just asked her that.

And I want. I shouldn't have asked. I shouldn't have asked her this shit. Oh, Lord.

[Dre]

But it was funny. Cause in that moment, you was educated, so, too.

[Bunna B]

Oh, my God. I felt bad. I knew the people. They like, why can't I Know that.

[Lex P]

Oh, and that's all I said, nothing. What this girl be talking about? She used the big words.

[Dre]

Okay.

[Lex P]

I don't know what hyper. I. I still don't know what hypoallergenic means or don't. I'm sitting here like this.

That's right.

[Dre]

It was fun. And I feel like I love y' all better.

[Bunna B]

Most people didn't know what that meant.

[Dre]

They didn't, girl. That's why they probably Googled it. And it was in the comments. Like, girl, you don't know what hypoallergen is.

[Bunna B]

Girl, you ain't know either.

[Lex P]

Exactly. Trying to make sure. Oh, Lex dumb. She don't know. Bitch, you didn't know either. We learned together.

[Dre]

Yeah, we learning together. Cause that's what friends do. But no, I really do love y' all friendship. Like, y' all seem like y' all get along so good, and y' all balance each other out, and it just seemed like y' all have a good time together, which I think is real important.

[Bunna B]

She be trying to, like, get me to come outside more and stuff like that, but she the outside type.

[Dre]

You be in the house.

[Bunna B]

Yeah. I don't like going outside, but, like, when I go with her, it's the time she gonna make sure you good.

[Dre]

Yeah, that's good. I feel like it's always them friends.

[Bunna B]

Everybody like, yk. So, yeah, it make it better.

[Lex P]

What you mean?

[Dre]

It's always the friend that want to go out and the friend that be in the house. That's me. I feel like I be outside.

[Bunna B]

She be outside.

[Dre]

Lex be in the house.

[Lex P]

But, I mean, I love to talk about that because, like, how does it feel to have, like, a hit song with your friend, though? Cause a lot of times people be like, we friends and one suck.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

It's like, hey, your friend might need to stay, like, get out the studio a little bit. Not all friends are created equal, bitch.

[Bunna B]

I feel like maybe. Cause we started off doing our own thing and start off together. The thing is, me and her, we been since high school.

[Lex P]

Okay.

[Bunna B]

When she started rapping, I didn't know she was finna start rapping. Cause I was rapping before her.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Bunna B]

But when I heard the song, I'm like, oh, yeah, this lit. And she asked me to get on it. But I'm like, I don't know.

[Lex P]

I love that. Making hits together. Cause like I said, all friends gonna make some hits together.

[Bunna B]

Yeah. Yeah, we did.

[Lex P]

And if I'm. Can I. This confession time, what you about to say? I just used to hate when Fetty Wap was putting Monty on them damn songs. Oh, my God. Monty Shut legs. But I feel like they had some hits together. Like, Monty had a few little lines. And this is no shade to Monty. Because if I would listen to Monty's song solo.

[Dre]

Yeah, they weren't bad, right?

[Lex P]

He had some lines on the song, but let Fetty get it off his chest. And you what? It's Monty in this bitch.

[Bunna B]

Oh, my God.

[Lex P]

Turn that shit off. That used to be one of my.

[Dre]

Favorite songs by Fetty Wap.

[Lex P]

Oh, my God. I'm just fucking with you, Monty. I'm just trying to prove Monty about.

[Dre]

To write into the show. He gonna call in on a voicemail segment and be like, lex, feed bitch.

[Lex P]

Damn. That's all right, Monty.

[Dre]

I'm still doing music.

[Lex P]

I'm just fucking with you. Okay, so do you feel like. Cause you gonna have some daughters. You know the girls gonna. Have you seen anything that girls be like, you got that from me. Oh, my God.

You know what's gonna happen? Has it already happened?

[Bunna B]

Yeah, of course.

I don't know. It's like, I feel like. But I'm not that type of person. Cause I know people can do certain things, too.

[Dre]

Yeah.

[Bunna B]

So I ain't gonna be like, you copied me. But yeah, it happened every day in Atlanta.

[Lex P]

Yeah, you got to tell Auntie. Cause I'm gonna tell that ass that you not my niece.

[Bunna B]

Cause but I just don't like when they try to copy you but go against you.

[Dre]

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Cause it's normal to influence people. Like, I think everybod. And then especially if you blow up and you're popular doing it, then other people gonna be trying to take pieces of it and be like, okay, she did it like this.

[Bunna B]

Exactly.

[Dre]

Let me try to do it.

[Bunna B]

I don't mind people like, let me do this. But for you to do it and try to act like you a officer.

[Dre]

And start talking down on me.

[Lex P]

How dare you? That's how you be feeling like, bitch, you need to be saying, thank you. Ho. Say thank you. Bare minimum, at least say thank you.

[Dre]

Cause you got it from me.

[Lex P]

You know what I'm saying? Now, how does it feel to be embraced by JD because you know he loves you. Like, he was really like, yeah. Like, this is a star and child. We know JD don't like nobody. Yeah, he's strict as fuck. So how did that feel to be embraced by such an Atlanta fan?

[Bunna B]

I feel good. Everybody be asking me this same question about JD But I be feeling I Feel great because I used to watch him, like, on tv, and I always wanted to be on his show. Cause I felt like I was.

[Lex P]

What was it?

[Bunna B]

The rap game?

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Dre]

Oh, yeah, the rap game.

[Bunna B]

I used to watch that show. Like, damn, was he. He should have picked me, but I.

[Lex P]

I wasn't rapping back then, but I.

[Bunna B]

Knew I had it in me somewhere. Yeah.

[Lex P]

That's a good feeling, though, when people.

[Dre]

You know, embrace especially legends in the industry. And then speaking of legends, you were also on one of the hottest albums of the summer. Metro booming. Yeah, the metro booming album went crazy. Everybody was like, literally everybody and their mama was on that album. But every song was a hit. So how did you feel? Also just being a newer artist in the industry and then being on that album with so many other legendary art.

[Bunna B]

I feel good in order that, like, they know me and like, we grew up listening to what y' all make now part of this. Yeah. So I'm really happy he hit me up, like, get on there. And then, too. I was on there with Jay Money and J. Money. Cool.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Dre]

Man, that was. But that album was just so good because it was even like that futuristic style.

[Bunna B]

I feel like it, bro. Yeah, it brought the it, bro, back then again to us. So I liked it. I like a lot of records on there.

[Dre]

It's like bridging the gap between the two generations.

[Lex P]

So before we move on. Cause, look, I'm the nosy one. So you was on stream and you talked about how. What's it, plaque boy? Max, he sent you some bread, right? And Raka was like, where my bread at? So did you. Cause they was like, damn.

[Bunna B]

Cause you low key. Kind of blew up.

[Lex P]

Up the spot a little bit.

[Bunna B]

Oh, my God.

[Lex P]

Did Max say anything to you after that? Like, damn, why you said something?

[Bunna B]

No, but I seen Max that went on there. He done went on with Ted. So I seen the clip he was talking about. Y' all think I seen Pona V. $200,000.

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[Lex P]

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[Dre]

Yeah, yeah.

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[Ed Helms]

Hey, everyone.

[Lex P]

Ed Helms here and hi, I'm Cal Penn and we're the hosts of Earsay the Audible and iHeart Audiobook Club.

[Ed Helms]

This week on the podcast, I am sitting down with Jenny Garth, host of the iHeart podcast. I choose me to discuss the new Audible adaptation of the timeless Jane Austen classic Pride and Prejudice. This is not a trick question. There's no wrong answer. What role would I play?

[Dre]

You know what? I can see you as Mr. Darcy. You got a little call in Firth.

[Ed Helms]

Okay, that's really sweet. I appreciate that, but are you sure I'm not the dad? I'm not Mr. Bennett here.

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[Lex P]

I thought you said 20. Everybody just up in the price.

[Bunna B]

But I was playing with Rakai the whole time. Yeah, but I don't know, was Matt's furious or not? He furious, but I like platinum.

[Lex P]

Yeah, yeah, he cool. But I was just like. I didn't know what was going on.

[Bunna B]

Ain't no he was gonna get mad.

[Lex P]

But it was a joke. I felt like.

[Bunna B]

I feel like he probably had to say that because how like the supporters do stuff, so he probably had to clear his name.

[Lex P]

I mean, I feel like the listeners of like podcast versus streamer supporters are totally different, baby.

[Dre]

Really?

[Lex P]

Oh, you thought. You think podcast wars are bad? That streamer, it's nasty. Yeah, I'm never going on a stream. Not going to lie. Never. I'm too old. First of all, I'm too old. But they be.

[Dre]

But like, it be older people that be going on call tonight.

[Bunna B]

Who?

[Lex P]

LeBron.

[Dre]

And he just want to.

[Lex P]

Cause that's what. Bitch, it's LeBron.

[Dre]

But I'm saying, if we're talking about age, like y' all in the same age group.

[Lex P]

I'm a little younger than LeBron.

[Dre]

I mean, like two years.

But that's what I'm saying. Like.

[Lex P]

No, but It's. Cause it's LeBron, though. Like, if we went on streaming, they're not gonna be. They're not gonna be nice. They're like these old. No, not think. I'm telling you, they're not. Cause they don't get our humor. Like, like with us, you gotta get to know us and we gotta. There. You got 10 seconds to make me laugh.

[Dre]

Yeah, and as soon as you say.

[Lex P]

Something you don't like, you're a old witch. You're an old dusty bitch, and it's never gonna happen for you. You might wanna go apply for a job, bitch. Oh, yeah, it gets nasty over there.

[Bunna B]

I don't know. It ain't just live. So. Yeah, you gotta be careful.

[Lex P]

Yeah, we like to say stuff.

[Bunna B]

Fuck us. Yeah, when I was on stream and y' all seen a dirt bike thing.

[Lex P]

Uh, I didn't see that one.

[Bunna B]

This boy didn't let me ride a dirt bike. I thought I put his whole system up. I was. Yeah, that one.

[Dre]

Like, bro, I mean, that's what scared me about the Live stream and stuff. It's just the fact that it's live. You can't remove it. And then once it's out there, it's out there. People gonna keep re cutting the clip. I don't have time for it.

[Bunna B]

That's a big risk take.

[Dre]

Yeah, yeah.

[Lex P]

And it's like it be girls on there. Sometimes people don't know who they are and they just stand around drinking. Oh, this bitch trying to get camera time. Look at her. Yeah, how she's sipping that patron.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

No, they be back there, cuz that's me. I'm in the back drunk vibing.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

Think about, look at this old drunk hoe. I'm an old drunk ho on poor Minds and I'm cool with that. I'm not being the old drunk hoe on streams. I'm not gonna play. It's not happening.

[Bunna B]

It's two different people.

[Lex P]

Yeah, it's two different worlds now.

[Dre]

But people be blowing up on their streaming stuff, though. Like they be blowing up quick.

[Bunna B]

They do.

[Lex P]

I don't know. I can't do it. Okay. We want to do the drink first or the first topic, what you want to get into.

[Dre]

What are we drinking today? Let us know what you done made us because this is delicious.

[Lex P]

Did you try. It's a. It's a mocktail, though. It's a mocktail. You can try it.

[Dre]

So I was listening to Sweet Lick on my way down here bumping. I think I'm talking about anything.

So we're gonna call this one Sweet Lick after Bunnaby's latest project. In this one, like we said, it is a mocktail. We have some cranberry puree, a little bit of pear puree, some rosemary and sage honey. Then we also added a little bit of fresh thyme and some edible glitter. I was trying to get it as pink as possible. Cause I know our girl love a little bit of that pink in there. So we added some pink edible glitter. And then I topped it off with a blood orange San Pellegrino. So that's giving it some of that carbonation and then kind of tying it together with these autumn winter flavors. And then I garnished it with a fresh thyme. And some dried cranberries. So that is the Sweet lick.

[Lex P]

Da da da da da da da.

[Dre]

Todd is the best bartender in the world. This is so.

[Lex P]

We are so blessed to have you too. Seriously, Edible. We got the best. Did you. Did you take. How you like it?

[Bunna B]

I like it.

[Lex P]

It's real juicy.

[Bunna B]

Yeah, it is.

[Dre]

Cheers, y'.

[Lex P]

All Cheers. Thank you, T. Go ahead, Dre.

[Dre]

So for topic number one, we want to talk to you about if your man, if your friend was cheating on her man or partner, could you continue being friends with her? Are you like, okay, actually, I don't want to be friends with you no more, cuz you be cheating on your Nico all the time. Would you be like, that judgy friend, or would you just be like, girl, that's y' all business. That ain't got nothing to do with me.

[Bunna B]

Yeah, it ain't got nothing to do with me. I'm still gonna be your friend.

[Dre]

Okay.

[Bunna B]

I got some friends that cheat, and.

[Dre]

You like, I be my dang I to do with me.

[Bunna B]

I ain't gonna cheat, but you can do what you want to do.

[Lex P]

Well, they say that's more about their character.

[Dre]

That's what I was gonna say. That's what the issue is for me. That's what the issue is for me. I just be feeling like, like, you do it one time.

[Lex P]

Cool.

[Dre]

You habitually be cheating on your man all the time. I'm just like, why you just don't leave the. And then it make me feel like if you would cheat on him, you'll do something weird to me.

[Lex P]

But you ain't eating my booty hole either, so it's a little different.

[Dre]

Clearly, he not neither. That's why you cheating. Probably. That's a fact.

[Lex P]

I'm with you and you're right. I'm with you, and you're right.

[Dre]

But I do. I feel like it's definitely, like, more of a. A character thing. I, I, I'll try to stay friends with you, but I feel like, typically, people who do that type of stuff, you'll notice other character flaws at some period in time. It's just manifesting in that one way for now.

[Bunna B]

I don't know, cuz I feel like it's probably different being a friend and my boyfriend. Mm. That's what I think is different.

[Dre]

Yeah.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

And it also has to depends on the situation, too.

[Bunna B]

Yeah. What did he cheat on? Exact.

[Lex P]

And I'm not gonna lie. It's been situations where I had a friend who was cheating on her man, and he was just horrible to her, and I was like, she wouldn't leave, and I didn't judge her for not leaving, but it's like, finally, like, do something that makes you happy for that moment, whatever you need. Not saying that it's right. I'm not saying that cheating is right, but sometimes it's just like you are being drugged through the mud. And in my situation, I have cheated. Have I cheated before? Hell yeah, I cheated before, but I was so unhappy and it was a one time situation. And then I had a conversation with a friend, she was like, friend. And I was like, you right? And I left. You know what I'm saying? Cause it's like, what am I doing? If I get to the point to where I have to cheat on you at this age, I'm not cheating at this age. I'm too old to be cheating. Pussy, pussy, tied. Yeah, if I fucked you, I ain't fucking no more. Yeah, I'm going to bed. I ain't got no coochie left. Yeah, but I say all that to say if I'm getting to the point to where I want to have sex with another man or I'm having a conversation with another man, it's. Cause something is missing and you need to evaluate your situation. But I don't judge people for that. But niggas will cheat just because a bitch got a fat ass. It's different reasons why women cheat for different reasons than men do. I don't know though.

[Dre]

I think sometimes women be cheating too. Just because they wanna cheat.

[Lex P]

Cause the dick dick.

[Dre]

Cause they be like, they see the dick print.

[Bunna B]

Oh, no.

[Lex P]

I think sometimes what you say not for, uh, you don't think that you ain't never cheated.

[Bunna B]

I cheated, but I didn't cheat for a reason.

I cheated because I was trying to see was my mind still there or was it not me?

[Lex P]

Oh, you cheated with an ex. Yeah.

[Dre]

Okay.

[Bunna B]

See, I ain't cheating with nobody new. I like to fuck with my same niggas.

[Lex P]

Oh, you keep it in.

[Bunna B]

Yeah, I don't fuck with no new N. Like if I break up with my nigga today, I probably go with a nigga I already been with.

[Lex P]

That's even worse though.

[Dre]

Personal attachment.

[Lex P]

Cause you still been thinking about that old dick. Oh, no. If you ride on a new ride, you ain't never had that ride. You ain't been thinking about this ride. You don't know what the ride.

[Bunna B]

That's. Cause I don't like to meet new N. Like, I like to stay with who I'm used to. Okay.

[Lex P]

I ain't mad at it.

[Dre]

That makes sense though. Cause when I was younger, I feel like I used to kind of think like that too. Yeah, you mean I'mma just go back to my old nigga because I don't want to have to. Like, I don't want a new body.

[Lex P]

Yeah, it's. See me I don't give a fuck. 1, 2, 3, 4. Beat this pussy at the door.

[Dre]

Yes.

[Lex P]

Hey. I don't give a fuck. But you know what?

[Dre]

Like, no. Absolutely not. I would rather just deal with somebody that I already been dealing with. But, I mean, I've cheated before, too. When I was younger.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Dre]

And I've talked about it, but it was only one time.

[Lex P]

Yeah. And it's okay, though.

[Dre]

It was only one time. I mean, it is. It's okay to me if you do it and then you learn your lesson from it. But if you're just consistently cheating on people, you need to grow up because you don't like that person. Just don't be with him, even if he cheating on you too. It's like, if you find. If I found out a dude was cheating on me, I'm just gonna leave him. I'm not about to just be like, oh, let me go fuck a nigga back.

[Bunna B]

Uh, yeah. Not that. Yeah.

[Lex P]

I'm not fucking nobody back.

[Bunna B]

Uh, I ain't got nothing to call nobody back.

[Dre]

I can't call nobody back either. And then, especially if he not cheating and you just cheating, as my friend, I am gonna kind of be like.

[Lex P]

Well, girl, now, I'm not gonna lie. You know what situation I will judge if she has a good man.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

Like, if you got a good.

[Bunna B]

I don't like shit like that. Like, he. It be hurting me. It be like, but you my friend.

[Lex P]

So I can't say nothing. Nah, I don't like that shit.

[Dre]

Yeah, me either.

[Lex P]

I don't play that shit. Like, it's certain friends that I have not friends. I got one person in my life that got a good man.

[Bunna B]

Mm.

[Lex P]

If she ever played about him or he ever played about her, I'm snitching on both of y'.

[Bunna B]

All.

[Lex P]

I'm going to blow this shit up. Y' all going to make this shit work.

[Bunna B]

Work.

[Lex P]

Yeah, cuz they're both good. It's like, no, but they don't.

[Bunna B]

They don't. But I don't like. Like, if my friend cheat on her good man with a. Who just do her wrong like that. That make me bad. I don't step in. I let her do what she do. I don't like getting phobic. I do.

[Dre]

Me. That's what I was going to say.

[Bunna B]

Cuz I can't get in nobody.

[Dre]

Yeah. I try to stay in my lane when it comes to my friends and their relationships. I just feel like judging. You can only be judgy if you're constantly telling Them how you feel about it. Me just looking at you and thinking that that's fucked up. I don't feel like that's being judged because it is fucked up. And deep down inside, I probably don't really trust you like that no more. But you don't know it. Ooh, I know it. Like, I know it's kind of changed the dynamic of our friendship a little bit, but I'm not gonna say anything to you. Cause you grown. You can do what you want.

[Lex P]

Consistently dating somebody and. And having sex with someone and you have a. Is crazy. Like, when I think about, like when men or women be having side pieces, especially if they're married and you have a whole girlfriend and you have a wife or a whole boyfriend, you have a husband.

[Bunna B]

How exactly you are too?

[Lex P]

And this is coming from a bitch who love. I love a good lie. Now I'm a lie every now and then. But if you lie too far from me, you done took shit too far, bitch. Yeah, if you lying like, I can't lie about my lifestyle. I can't lie about if I'm. If you wake up in the morning, one thing about me, I answer the phone at all times. So that's why my lies can only go so far.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

Cause if you call me, I'm answering the phone. Dre called me 2 o' clock in the morning, 3 o' clock in the morning. My man called me. Whatever time I gotta answer. Because I need to know if somebody dying.

[Bunna B]

Mmm.

[Lex P]

I need to know if you need to pull up. I need to know if I need to come get you. Cause what you got yourself, you got to answer that phone. So with me answering the phone all the time, I can't now. I'll lie about some little shit. They be like, oh, Lex, you need to stop eating all them beans. Did you have some beans today? No, I ain't eating no beans today. Cause I love beans. Yeah, but I'm a lie. I had a salad.

[Dre]

I ate a salad.

[Bunna B]

Yeah, a little lie.

[Lex P]

Yeah, I'm a lie about stuff like that. Cause you can't prove what I'm eating. Yeah, you don't know that. I had a beautiful baked bean salad.

16 bean soup. Know that?

[Dre]

Yeah, but I never even knew they made that many beans till she told me about a 16 bean. Did you know they had 16 different beans?

[Bunna B]

I don't know shit about that.

[Lex P]

You don't like it?

[Dre]

I don't know nothing about beans.

[Bunna B]

I don't like, like pinto beans and stuff like that. Nah, only beans I like is Baked.

[Lex P]

Now we talking. Yeah, that's my number one. So you all right with me? You almost lost me there. You almost lost me. Butter, baby. I was finna tune out and let Dre ahead of the rest of this shit.

[Dre]

She said I like baked beans, though. Okay.

[Lex P]

Where'd your name come from?

[Bunna B]

Which one?

[Lex P]

Bunnabe. That's the only one I know I'm gonna die. Which one?

[Bunna B]

Ah, okay.

[Lex P]

You finna make me start? Cause why now I feel like I'm the man with feelings? Cause why?

[Bunna B]

Okay.

[Dre]

She say, which one?

[Bunna B]

My name. My daddy used to call me Yona Bunny.

[Lex P]

Okay?

[Bunna B]

So everybody just took the Bunny.

[Lex P]

Okay.

[Bunna B]

Ran with it. But when I was in school, I would tell them, if y' all don't know me, don't call me Bunny. I think. Cause I went to school, like, with all my family. Cause my mom had so many kids. People would hear them call me Bunna and they call me Bunny too.

[Lex P]

Okay.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

And then the B just came from your government name or.

[Bunna B]

No, the. The B. I just put a B on the end.

[Lex P]

I know that's right. Cause you know, we got a.

[Bunna B]

It being a lot of shit.

[Lex P]

We?

[Dre]

Yeah, we got a bun.

[Lex P]

We got a bun be. So when you first came out, I was like, oh, my God, his daughter is rapping. Oh, my God, the brother. I was like, oh.

[Dre]

That'S what I thought.

[Lex P]

Have you listened to Bun B before? If you haven't, you should.

[Bunna B]

I just seen him at Mon Leo wedding.

[Lex P]

Oh, yeah. You and the Bun B's got to collaborate, y'.

[Bunna B]

All.

[Dre]

Do y' all got to do a little collab? That would be nice.

[Bunna B]

Nice. I just.

[Lex P]

That would be nice for the Houston queen right here.

[Dre]

Yes, it would be. I would love that.

[Lex P]

Okay, you ready to go?

[Dre]

You ready to move on before we do move on?

[Lex P]

So how do y' all feel, friend? Cheating on your partner? Are you okay with it or not? Yes or no? Quick. Yes or no?

[Dre]

I mean, do you. But I am definitely judging. It's not judging, cuz I'm not saying nothing. I'm just like. I'm sorry.

[Lex P]

At this age, I'm judging. I'm talking about you. What the fuck?

[Dre]

You would say something to me?

[Lex P]

Yes. At this age? I feel like at my age, I'm 36, okay. We supposed to be doing better, living better and doing right. We are at that age. I just feel like we too old for all that bullshit. Keep that shit from around me. I need all my blessings. I lived a fucked up life, but.

[Dre]

That wouldn't affect me.

[Bunna B]

I don't know. I say, do what you gonna do. I ain't gonna judge either.

[Lex P]

Yeah, I like to judge, but I'm just that type of person. I'm not a good person.

[Dre]

And maybe that is. But I feel like people be like. Like, we all like to say. Maybe that is judgy. I don't know. But. Because I feel like I be thinking stuff in my head, but I won't say it.

[Lex P]

But I feel like everybody do that. Yeah, we all do that.

[Bunna B]

I feel like if you say it, you judging. Like, if you make a facial expression, like, oh, bitch, you finna cheat. That's. You just be laughing. Yeah. I don't say. Now you like, okay.

See you later.

[Dre]

I ain't gonna lie. But sometimes I do be like, yeah, I get it.

[Bunna B]

Judging.

[Lex P]

You can't hide it on your face. So I don't even know why you. I be like. I don't say it. Your face. No.

[Dre]

I do hide it well, though. Sometimes I feel like people will never know some of the things that I be thinking in my head. Cause I definitely be conscious to be like, okay, girl, don't look like that. Don't look.

[Bunna B]

Yeah, don't look like that.

[Lex P]

All right, so we gonna move on to It Could Never Be Me. It's a game that we're about to play. Okay. Do you like to play games?

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

I know you do.

[Bunna B]

I play a lot of games.

[Lex P]

I love her. I like people that just seem excited about whatever I'm saying. I say you like to play. I love it here.

[Dre]

I like happy people.

[Lex P]

Yes, happy people.

[Dre]

Ty, we need to start a counter. Every episode. Every episode. We're gonna start a counter for how often this lady be mentioning that.

[Lex P]

Man, the compilation is coming. Yeah. Yeah.

[Dre]

You know what song that is?

[Lex P]

That's how I really.

Gotta tell it. People say all the time that things could never happen to them. And you know what? It couldn't be whatever, of course. But life happens to all of us. You know what I'm saying? You can't say, oh, it can never be. Shit be happening and it's beyond our control. But when it comes to certain choices, I ain't gonna lie. It really could never be me. So we gonna give up some scenarios.

And we. I don't give a fuck, baby. Call me Judy, bitch. I'm giving it out.

So we're gonna give you some scenarios. I'm gonna give the first one, and then Dra will go next. Um, getting back with someone. You told all your friends I'm done with him. I'm Through. I can't. You know, could it be you or could it never be you?

[Bunna B]

It could be me.

[Lex P]

Yeah, it's gonna be me.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

No, it's gonna be me. I done sat on a stage in front of 600, 700 people say, I'm done with this nigga. And then he at the next show. Yeah, cheesing. Yep.

[Bunna B]

It could be me.

[Lex P]

Yes, it could be me.

[Dre]

It could be me, too.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

Oh, yeah. It's gonna be the both of us.

[Dre]

Yeah. I say, being like, I'm done with that.

[Bunna B]

Love.

[Dre]

That for you.

[Lex P]

True love. Go ahead.

[Dre]

Next week.

Saying, I'm off social media and returning in 12 hours.

[Bunna B]

Could never be me.

[Lex P]

Yeah, it could never be me, neither.

[Bunna B]

Cause I don't. I hate people that do that shit. Bro, if you finna get off social media, bye.

[Dre]

Take a real break.

[Bunna B]

Like, j. Leave.

[Dre]

Do it.

[Bunna B]

We ain't wing.

[Lex P]

Like, come on.

[Dre]

We don't miss you.

[Bunna B]

Yeah, they just want people to be. Then they try to delete all they pictures and shit. Like, bro, if you go, be off, just be off.

[Lex P]

Yeah, it's.

[Dre]

Cause they want us all to be like, no, don't. Don't.

[Bunna B]

Like, please leave.

[Lex P]

Yeah. Yeah.

[Dre]

We actually do not give a fuck.

[Lex P]

Yeah, I've never. I've never been like, oh, my God. Like. Like, one time I had to make a joke on Twitter. Cause we was getting drugged on Twitter. I was like, I'm leaving. But it was like a joke. Cause people was like, girl, you gonna be back tomorrow. And I was like, facts. Cause y' all ain't finna send me off. But it be people seriously announcing, hey, y', all, I'm outta here. It's just too much. I need to just do it.

[Bunna B]

Yeah, you ain't gotta announce it. That's why I hate when people announce it. Just leave. You ain't gotta tell us you finna delete anything. We don't.

[Lex P]

Okay, I do a lot of lame shit, but that something I don't.

[Bunna B]

Then, yeah, I feel like, why are you announcing it?

[Dre]

Just do you. And if we miss you, we gonna realize you gone idea.

[Bunna B]

Nine times out of ten, we don't realize.

[Lex P]

Now, this has to do with a lyric that you had because you said something about using three towels for that pussy. Using multiple washcloths on my vagina in one shower. Cause I ain't gonna lie. I have a body towel and I have a face towel.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

But you know what? Now that I think about it, no, I don't have a face towel. I don't use a towel. On my face, I have a body towel. What is you talking about? With the three rags on the coochie?

[Bunna B]

Coochie real clean. Bae, you know I use, like, three rags. Okay. When my mom. My mama, like, like, growing up, like, if I go to other people's house, they'll give us a rag and, like, they'll make us use it rag for, like, all day, all month. But my mama, like, change this shit every day.

[Lex P]

Okay.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

So it was just like, make sure every time. Oh, over a longer period of time.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

So it wasn't in one wash or one day? Nah, I ain't mad at that. I didn't think about the math. The math is mathing on that chick.

[Dre]

You know what it do. And then also, it makes sense if you think about it, because you gonna wash your face with one rag, you gonna use a different rag. But when you bathe, and then you gonna use the big rag.

[Lex P]

But when you draw coochie, use, like.

[Dre]

I need three rags.

[Bunna B]

That is true, though.

[Lex P]

Let me ask y'. All.

[Dre]

I ain't mad real quick.

[Lex P]

This has nothing to do with this. And we gonna get back to the game. Cause y' all know we get off topic. I saw a TikTok that said, if you were paid $100,000 a day for how long you could go without a shower, how much money would you make?

[Dre]

A hundred thousand a day.

[Lex P]

A hundred thousand dollars a day? For every day you went without a shower, how much money would you make?

[Dre]

I don't know.

[Lex P]

200?

[Dre]

That's what I was gonna say. Like, three max. 300 max.

[Lex P]

So I gotta go outside. No, no, no. You can do whatever you want in those days. Oh, you can just.

[Bunna B]

Oh, if I'm chilling in the house all day, maybe three.

[Lex P]

300.

[Dre]

After three, I would just be like, I have.

Okay.

[Lex P]

How much you saying? I'mma stretch it.

[Bunna B]

I ain't gonna hug.

[Lex P]

I'm going for that affiliate. A million.

[Bunna B]

Affiliate.

[Lex P]

Affiliate. Affiliate. Affiliate. If I gotta stay at home. Yeah. If I can stay in the crib, lock me up in the room, bitch, I'm going give. I need that.

[Dre]

Maybe it be me after. Even after, like, I work out and stuff. You know how you do the shower.

[Bunna B]

And then it be like a little.

[Lex P]

I'm getting a million. I'm getting a million. I don't give a. I'll do a little wipe.

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[Lex P]

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What's up y'?

[Bunna B]

All?

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[Lex P]

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[Lex P]

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[Bunna B]

Lounge.

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[Ed Helms]

Hey everyone, Ed Helms here and hi.

[Lex P]

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[Ed Helms]

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[Dre]

You know what? I can see.

You got a little Colin Firth.

[Ed Helms]

Okay, that's really sweet. I appreciate that. But are you sure I'm not the dad? I'm not Mr. Bennett here.

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[Lex P]

Like, I'll do a little work.

[Dre]

You can't do nothing.

[Bunna B]

Nothing.

[Lex P]

Yeah, we making a rule.

[Dre]

You just soaking in your own juicy.

[Lex P]

And I' ma sleep good. I would. I would put it in my account for 10 days. I would run it up. I'm going to 10, boo.

[Dre]

Booing every day and all.

[Lex P]

Yep. I don't care. Bring it here, sweaty. Cause I love it when it's running it up. 10 days. I'm getting that meal. I'mma hit a meal.

[Dre]

But what if you had to leave the house? Make it a little more juicy now.

[Lex P]

If I had to leave the house.

[Bunna B]

You work out every day.

[Lex P]

Yeah, it's not gonna work.

[Dre]

And you work out every day.

[Lex P]

Yeah, that ain't gonna work. That ain't gonna work.

[Dre]

That's why I can only do three. Cause I works out.

[Lex P]

You were. I'm talking about if we had to stay home, though.

[Dre]

Even if I. Would you imagine what that feel like after school, right? Of working out in no bag.

[Lex P]

Rent due. I just wouldn't work out. I'm just. I would just. Yeah, I'mma hit that million. I'mma hit that million.

[Bunna B]

I'm a hit a million.

[Dre]

So she said two, max. Three.

[Bunna B]

Three.

[Greenlight Advertiser]

Three.

[Lex P]

He said three.

[Dre]

Maybe four, maybe.

[Lex P]

Cause and then fucking with me, I might be like this. One more day.

One more day. Hey, hey.

[Dre]

That's a long time on the 10th.

[Lex P]

Day, if it ain't my nose. Done got used to it now, bitch. Yeah, let's go about four more.

I'm finna run it up on y'.

[Bunna B]

All.

[Lex P]

Bitch.

[Dre]

Ain't crazy enough people be doing that for free.

[Lex P]

Yeah, now we ain't talking about that. We don't do that for free. Okay, go. Go to the next one. Go to the next one.

[Dre]

Okay. Having thousands on the gram, but in real life, you broke.

[Bunna B]

That's my lyric, ain't it?

We.

[Lex P]

We talk about you.

[Bunna B]

Okay. Wait, what you asking?

[Lex P]

Like, could it be.

[Dre]

Could it be you or it can never be me.

[Bunna B]

It could be me. It was me before. I always had the clout. Yeah. I ain't always had a thousand in my pocket.

[Lex P]

That's what I'm saying, though. We been there. I mean, sometimes them followers start rising before that bank account.

[Bunna B]

Exactly.

[Lex P]

You be like, hold on. If all of y' all donated me.

[Bunna B]

A dollar, I. Yeah, y' all remember.

[Dre]

When Drake said that on that song, he was like, y' all having more followers than dollars. That's why I cannot relate. But it's like, God damn.

[Lex P]

No.

[Dre]

When you really be thinking about.

In order for some people to have more money than they have followers, you know how much money they would have to have.

[Lex P]

Yeah, that's crazy ugly in the field.

[Dre]

But I do think that, you know, you should focus on the thousands more than the followers. But for some people, it. Do the followers rise earlier?

[Bunna B]

Yeah, definitely did.

[Lex P]

For me, it definitely did. 100%. But when Drake said that, I said, boy, fuck.

I was still making my content.

[Bunna B]

But yeah, the followers.

[Lex P]

Yeah, that's definitely. It could. It's relatable on that one.

This is a good one. Letting someone argue. Letting someone you're arguing with get the last word.

[Bunna B]

Nowadays, it could be me.

[Lex P]

Yeah, it could definitely be me.

[Bunna B]

Back then, it could never been me.

[Lex P]

Yeah. Oh, but especially when I used to.

[Bunna B]

Work in the club, man.

[Lex P]

You used to be like, I've been.

[Bunna B]

Letting people have this lately. I really don't. Like, deep inside, I'm like, bro, I know what type of I am, and I really can take it there. But it like, you got.

[Lex P]

You got to lose.

[Bunna B]

Yeah. That's why I'm realizing, like, when you. At a certain point, you got to just let them have it, and then they can just vanish off like they died or something. Yeah, for sure.

[Lex P]

You hard. That Gemini popped out a little bit. They died. I was going to say, I don't think about them no more. You're dead.

[Dre]

You can die.

[Lex P]

What about you, Dre?

[Dre]

No. Yeah, for sure. Me Older me. Yes. Younger me. No. I would never let a. Or A win arguing. Yeah, you can't have nothing but now. Yeah. I just be like, you know what?

[Bunna B]

Who can have it?

[Dre]

I think maturity is realizing what's worth your time and your energy and what's not.

[Lex P]

Yeah, I agree.

[Dre]

And a lot of people get older, but they don't get more mature. They still be putting their energy into stuff that don't matter. So when you mature as a person, you realize that, and that's good. Cuz at your. You know, at your Age realizing it.

[Lex P]

Pick your battles.

[Bunna B]

You got to pick your battles. I've been doing good, though.

[Lex P]

Good.

[Bunna B]

It's hard, I know. I really be wanting to cuss the ho out.

Yeah.

[Lex P]

I love that for you.

[Dre]

People will make you want.

[Lex P]

How I'm take. You know what? I'm taking a lesson from Bunnabee today. She's gonna smile through everything. Every time I see her, she be like. And I love it, though, because that energy is contagious. We've been laughing this whole episode. I can't recall one joke.

[Dre]

But that's good. I feel like that's a good life philosophy to have.

[Lex P]

Just love you.

[Dre]

Just don't let nothing bother you. I mean, it's not that things don't bother you, but you choose all through it.

[Lex P]

I like that. I like that. Do it again. What else we got?

[Bunna B]

Drink.

[Dre]

Okay. Lex, you gonna do another one?

[Lex P]

Oh, it's my turn.

[Dre]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

I wanna talk about this. Wearing fake designers.

[Bunna B]

Mm. Could never be me.

[Lex P]

It could never be me. Cause it's never that same designer.

[Bunna B]

That one.

[Lex P]

I'm like.

[Bunna B]

That's why I'm like, jay, go buy some fo1s. It's never that serious.

[Lex P]

Never.

[Bunna B]

It really, uh.

[Lex P]

You know how many cute bags there are that's not designed? That's not designer. That's what I be telling folks. Like, it don't gotta be designer. You don't gotta be designer down. Cause sometimes the girls that be designer.

[Bunna B]

Down be like, they be looking amazing.

[Dre]

And it be fake about rape.

[Bunna B]

Exactly.

[Dre]

And that too. But, you know, remember back in our day, they used to be making fake Air Force ones.

[Lex P]

They used to make fake everything.

[Dre]

They made fake. Yeah, everything. But I just may or may not have had a pair, but I didn't know they was fake.

[Lex P]

You didn't know. You didn't know better. And that's all right.

[Dre]

We was talking about the ones that was clear at the front O with.

[Lex P]

Your shoes was foggy.

[Bunna B]

Yeah, yeah.

Yeah.

[Lex P]

That fog. You was fogging up them little wieners.

[Dre]

It was real.

[Bunna B]

I feel like. Just don't. If you can't afford it, just wait until you can. Like when you want to go buy it.

[Lex P]

But you know what I've been finding lately? The most stylish women that I've been starting to follow because I'm trying to, like, you know, I am a tacky Tina.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

You know, I can't. But I'm like, I'm starting to follow women that put it on. What I've noticed is they mix and match. Certain things require A little designer. But certain things, they just like. They put it together high and low. High and low. They put it together real nice. I'm a high and low. Sometimes they'll have a nice ass bag. And I'd be like, ooh, I know that's something. They be like, oh, I got this from Amazon.

[Bunna B]

Exactly.

[Lex P]

Literally. Oh, I got this from Shein. I'd be like, what?

[Bunna B]

Exactly.

[Lex P]

But it's the way they dress it up. So, yeah, it can never be me with a fake designer, but it's women these days.

[Bunna B]

It can always be done.

[Lex P]

Some of your faves.

[Dre]

She said it could always be done.

[Lex P]

On these reality shows that y' all be watching.

[Bunna B]

They got it. Yeah.

[Lex P]

It's always that.

[Dre]

But that's what make it sad. Cause then I feel like everybody be looking up to them and wanting to be like them. Not even.

[Bunna B]

But the whole time it's fake.

[Dre]

Not even knowing.

[Lex P]

I hate it for y'. All.

[Dre]

Just be you.

[Lex P]

Just be you.

[Bunna B]

Exactly, exactly.

[Lex P]

That's why I love this. Cause like, we are ourselves and we don't have to. I don't have to live up to no standards.

[Bunna B]

Exactly.

[Lex P]

So when people roll up on me, bitch, you know my car raggedy. You not surprised.

[Bunna B]

I told exactly.

[Lex P]

I got an outfit.

Somebody rolled up on me last week that was like, Lex. I wasn't embarrassed. You know my car raggedy. I rolled down that window, I said, what's up, girl? You know what it is? They know what it is. And I ain't got no tit on my shit, Ty.

[Dre]

You don't have no tit.

[Lex P]

No tit. It don't matter if I'm.

[Dre]

It's like you in a fishbowl.

[Bunna B]

Yeah, look at me.

[Lex P]

I'm arrived. I don't give a fuck.

[Bunna B]

I go get in my kill any day, man.

[Lex P]

Because I always tell people this. A car is the worst investment you can ever make.

[Bunna B]

Exactly.

[Lex P]

So until I'm where I want to be.

[Dre]

That's.

[Bunna B]

That's why I said I learned that. Cause I got a business too. And it never get drawn. And I wish I could have just kept my money.

[Lex P]

You know what I'm saying?

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

One thing I will say, but when I bought my car, it was brand new. And I was in a situation at the time, and he had helped me get it. He gave me the down payment for it. It was a long time ago, but I was like, if I took that money and like, maybe put it in something or just. I could have imagine if I put that. He gave me $10,000 for cause my credit was bad. Imagine if I put that $10,000 in Bitcoin in 2011.

A dumb bitch, pussy, hot, just going out, just giving it out.

[Bunna B]

Yeah. What she doing?

[Lex P]

You know what I'm saying?

[Big Loom]

Okay.

[Lex P]

That's what they was talking about. She. I know, but that's all right. Yeah. We live and we learn.

[Dre]

We do, we do. I mean, and I just think you have to live within your means. I think that's would be the problem. Like, people will look at other people online and be like, oh, this person got to be. This person got a Range Rover. This person have a Ferrari or whatever. And so I want one because I see this person. I look up to having one. But you can't afford that. And then a lot of people will try to. To go get it. And then your car Note is like $3,000, $2,000 a month, which is crazy. But at least you online with a Ferrari get what you can afford. Like, if you can afford to have certain things and have it, like, I feel like I can afford to have the car that I have. That's why I have it. Back then, like five years ago, my car not would have been like $1,500 if I got the same car, you know? So I just think you have to live within your means.

[Bunna B]

Means. Exactly.

[Lex P]

But you're also good with money, though.

[Dre]

Oh, I'm cheap.

[Lex P]

You're very good with money. So I think like, the way you talking, the way it's different for you because you're very like, let me do the maths.

[Dre]

I'm cheap and I be invested.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

Yeah. So it's a little different.

[Bunna B]

I'm cheap too, but. But stuff I want, I'm not.

[Dre]

Me too. Yeah, well, that's me. But I deprive myself sometimes. Like, I'll be like, I want these, but let me see my. Me in a bag.

[Bunna B]

Yeah, that's.

[Lex P]

That's good.

[Bunna B]

I be like, do I deserve this?

[Lex P]

I'm not going to eat it. But that's what I think. That's what is important, though. What's important. My house. You walk in my house. My birthday gift that I got from my man was furniture. But when you walk in my house, you like, oh, my God.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

You know what I'm saying? Like, and that's why I said I.

[Bunna B]

Rather house decor and stuff over a car any day.

[Lex P]

You would love my Lexi series.

[Bunna B]

It's beautiful.

[Dre]

It's gorgeous.

[Lex P]

It's a time I. I'm not gonna do Christmas this year. It's not gonna be ready yet. But Next year.

The girl's gonna have a bundle. You gonna be there? I'm gonna bring you in.

[Bunna B]

Okay?

[Lex P]

You part of the family now. Okay? So now it's time to get into the bed.

[Dre]

Bow the bed bow the bed.

[Lex P]

A bow, bow, bow, bow, bow, bow.

[Bunna B]

Get, make it and get in the bed. Exact mood out now everywhere y' all gonna get it.

[Lex P]

Ooh, see, that's heavy.

[Dre]

Let me in the video. I have a theme song for this episode.

[Lex P]

Let me get in the video. I can do a little something. You know what I'm saying? Okay, so y' all know the bed is brought to you by her fantasy box. I'm not gonna lie to y'. All. I have been draya, if I do say so myself. I've been taking the her fantasy box pills.

[Dre]

I really wanted to take em.

[Lex P]

So I've been doing the body magic, and it makes you smell good. So I went on my walk, on my usual walk, and I didn't smell nothing tart. That's why I can go 10 days and make my 100k with a million dollars. I don't gotta take. But you do gotta take a bath. But what I'm saying is I smelled good.

[Dre]

You know, then they got the chlorophyll pills.

[Lex P]

They got the chlorophyll ones.

[Dre]

Yeah, that's what I was gonna say. I think it's a mixture of the fact that you've been taking a body and magic, the chlorophyll pills and you've been using a refresh gel. Now imagine if you didn't use the refresh gel 10 days. I don't know. It might be a little rank in there.

[Lex P]

It might be a little rank and a little stank, but I'mma thank God for that one meal I'm going get.

[Dre]

Exactly, exactly. And that body splash going to get you right, too. And it comes in so many delicious flavors. Should I say flavors or scent?

[Lex P]

Both.

[Dre]

That's not the body splash, sweetie.

[Lex P]

No, I'm looking at. I just grabbed what was next to me.

[Dre]

This is the they. So they have the unscented version.

[Lex P]

Oh, y.

[Dre]

They also have the yummy scent. And then they also have the pineapple cream.

[Lex P]

That's the one.

[Dre]

I like the pineapple cream.

[Lex P]

Yeah, that's the one I use.

[Dre]

It smell really good.

[Lex P]

Yeah, I got some. Actually, I'm about to slide one of these in. Are you a body oil girl or a lotion girl?

[Bunna B]

Oh, lotion.

[Lex P]

Lotion. Okay, we gonna put you on some body oil. That's gonna change a lot.

[Dre]

And the life hack is mixing them together.

[Bunna B]

That what I do. I mix my lotion and baby oil.

[Dre]

And the oil together. You would like. I love this one, girl. It smell real good.

[Lex P]

Shout out to her fancy box. Thank you. Cause I've been smelling so fresh and so clean Clean Ain't nobody don't, baby.

[Dre]

So fresh and so clean.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

Her fantasy box. Okay, what we got today for the bed topic? Draft.

[Dre]

Okay, so for the bed topic, we are going to talk about our beat, guys. Better in bed.

The beat niggles.

[Lex P]

It's official.

[Dre]

The teddy bear.

[Lex P]

Yeah, it's cuddle.

[Dre]

It is. Whether cold outside, people.

[Lex P]

Do y' all remember that song that SZA had on snl? It's cuffing season.

[Dre]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

All the boy be n. I need a big boy. Do y' all like to cuddle with the big boys? Do you?

[Bunna B]

I never had a big boy before.

[Lex P]

Never had a big boy before. Okay, you know what?

[Dre]

You know?

[Lex P]

Mm.

[Dre]

I have only had one and I feel like he wasn't even that big. For real.

[Lex P]

Why are you making that face? When y' all were together, he was big. Not really. He was big.

[Bunna B]

He was.

[Lex P]

He was big.

[Dre]

He was thick.

[Lex P]

No, he wasn't thick. No, he wasn't big, but he was big. Cause he's tall. Like, he burly. He's. He's a big boy. Yeah, he's a big boy. He a big boy.

[Dre]

That's fine.

[Lex P]

It's Smokey the Bear.

[Dre]

I feel like it's not no difference though, to me.

[Bunna B]

I can't say. Cause I never had it.

[Lex P]

Do you like skinny skinny or like, not too skinny?

[Bunna B]

I like regular slim.

[Dre]

Okay.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

See, my niggas be usually like. Like, my niggas be, like, kind of swole. Like, I always have dated, like, muscular guys that go to the gym. I love gym, but not like I. I like.

[Bunna B]

I don't want no buff ass nigga.

[Lex P]

No, they don't be buff, though. Like, my niggas don't be buff, but they be having body. Like, they put that shit on you be like, I know it's something under there and it be under there.

[Dre]

And that's what I was about to say.

[Lex P]

It be under there.

[Dre]

To me, it's not really a difference between, like, men that are not that big and men that are big. But it is a difference between, like, big niggas and, like, buff niggas. I don't want no hard ass niggas.

[Lex P]

No, I don't want no hard ass niggas.

[Dre]

Like, that's not a nigga.

[Lex P]

You put Away. Hell, no. I like a nigga that's like.

[Dre]

I don't like that.

[Lex P]

He big, but, like, he got body. But it's like, it's soft, it's hard, but you can still see his abs. His abs peek through a little bit. He work out like. You know what I'm saying? It's hard to explain, but it's like that body that's like, I'm not no gym meathead. The veins ain't popping through. But I got body. Cause I'm a big bitch. I need you to pick me. Yeah. Swing me around town.

So I can bend over and show you what I'm working with. You feel me? You know what I'm saying? Yes. So I think that I do not do the skinny dudes. I hate when the girls be like, oh, skinny niggas be having that dick. Ew, they be saying that.

[Bunna B]

I know.

[Lex P]

They say, girl, nobody cares. Ew, those skinny niggas having that on them.

[Dre]

Girl, you can't be too skinny, though.

[Lex P]

You gotta have a little meat on him.

[Bunna B]

Yeah, I don't want no skinny ass meat.

[Lex P]

Yeah. I'm sorry. And wearing. I'm not body shaming, but I hate that. Cause why is you looking like Naomi Campbell? Why Is you serving FaceTime?

[Dre]

Naomi Campbell is crazy.

[Lex P]

Cause why is you looking like you finna go walk down the Runway? I don't like it.

[Dre]

I was gonna say them. Look, you know, them little things that be outside of the shit.

[Lex P]

I can't.

[Bunna B]

I can't do it.

[Dre]

That's what I be thinking of. But I think of a slim, skinny.

[Lex P]

Nigga, so I just feel like, you know how they say women are supposed to be under a certain weight? Like, I just feel like for a man, bare minimum, you should be 190.

[Dre]

But what if he, like, 6:1?

[Lex P]

6:1? If you 6:1, you should be about 210. Oh, okay.

[Bunna B]

Yeah, yeah.

[Lex P]

If you 6:1, you should be bare minimum, 210. I need that me, that rib eye, that steak, that wagyu.

[Dre]

So have you ever dated a beak nigga?

[Lex P]

I've dated a, like, not buff, a thick.

[Dre]

Ooh, you did date that thick ass, man.

[Lex P]

What was that song we used to sing? What was the song we used to sing for him, Drea? Oh.

[Dre]

Cause that song had just came out. We had just moved to Atlanta.

[Lex P]

Thief. We used to sing that every time he came in the room.

[Dre]

Yeah, the only two.

[Lex P]

Shit.

[Dre]

He was. He walk around with all that damn ass on him.

Yeah, he did walk around with all that damn ass.

[Lex P]

All that ass he's still walking around with all that damn ass on.

[Dre]

I keep him on. Cause we seen him.

[Bunna B]

Not that long.

[Lex P]

No, you seen him? I haven't seen him since we broke up. Life is good when I tell you. God is good.

[Dre]

He was real thick, though.

[Lex P]

So thick.

Yeah.

[Dre]

His legs look like ham hocks.

[Lex P]

He was thicker than you and me.

[Big Loom]

What's up, y'? All? This is big long from It's Up There podcast. In this powerful episode, we're breaking down the danger of silence and how way too many of us are taught to protect the vibe instead of protecting ourselves. We spend more time researching cars, microphones, sneakers than we will researching on how to protect our bodies and our partners. If you have an honest conversation, one uncomfortable minute can save you a lifetime of regret. The CDC says nearly one in five people carry an STI and most don't even know it. Real intimate isn't built in the dark. It's built in the disclosure. Condoms, testing transparency. Those aren't passion killers. They're peace builders. It's too much risk in our silence. Speak up. You can listen to this special episode of It's Up There podcast with Lone, brought to you by Healthy Sexual from Gilead sciences on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get your podcast. Whoa. What a vibe we've got, y'.

[Bunna B]

All.

[Big Loom]

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[Lex P]

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[Lex P]

Hey, audiobook lovers. This week on the podcast I'm sitting Down with producer and walking encyclopedia Questlove. We're talking about Mark Ronson's memoir, Night how to be a DJ in 90s New York City.

[Chase Advertiser]

All right, like we talked about before.

[Lex P]

Mark Ronson found sanctuary in the DJ booth. What's a tool or piece of equipment in the studio or on stage that gives you the most control?

[Big Loom]

So I have two microphones on stage. We have the microphone that you hear as the audience. Then we have a set second microphone in which we communicate with each other. I feel like that second microphone kind of saved all of our friendships. No band likes each other after 20 years or 25 years. The Beatles broke up in seven and a half years, and we're going on 35.

[Lex P]

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[Dre]

Damn, Hunter. All three of us combined.

[Lex P]

Have you ever dated a thick with some hips? Look at her hips.

[Dre]

I like how he.

[Bunna B]

I don't want no thicker than me.

[Lex P]

Yeah, them hips. And I'm not.

[Dre]

Well, he wasn't thicker than. He was just thick.

[Lex P]

Oh, Dre. He was thicker than me. Like, it's okay to admit it now. It looked like his last name was Burgos, bitch.

Like, we can be real. It's okay. I'm not mad at it no more. I did a lot of things in my past life that I was like, you know what?

[Dre]

Yeah, but was your cuddles better with him?

[Lex P]

Fuck no. No, it wasn't. Cause it was just. I don't even know.

Because you know what makes cuddles feel good? When you really love a nigga and you really fuck with him, it don't matter the size. So even my men that are under 190. Let me take that statement back. If you are 150 and 6 3, you're skinny as fuck, but maybe you love your woman and them cuddles feel good. Yeah, as long as she looks. Think about. I'm not gonna lie. You know who is skinny and probably a good man? The good cuddler, Kevin Durant. He's a tiny Tiny thing. But that nigga can hoop.

[Bunna B]

Mm.

[Lex P]

I mean, he look. I mean, that nigga can go across that court like ain't nobody seen before. He can probably give you the best cuddle that you ever done had. A little thin, but he gonna get the job done. Yeah, that's a good man, Savannah. You got to get it. You know what I'm saying?

[Dre]

So would you ever date.

Would you ever date a big. Or you feel like you just never. Like it's never come across your pad?

[Bunna B]

It never came across.

[Lex P]

Okay.

[Bunna B]

That's what I feel like.

[Dre]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

I think a big nigga would love. Because big niggas like the smallest, teeniest, tiniest girl.

[Bunna B]

It'd be crazy. And they walking around looking like a 10. Oh, my.

Well, I ain't got nothing against it just never came across.

[Dre]

It never came across your table. I get it.

[Lex P]

But it's so crazy, cuz. I feel like the tall, tall guys, like, they always, like, they love smaller, shorter girls. Tall, tall guy. It be shorter men that always hit on me. Or like, average height men. Yeah, the tall, tall men.

They be scared of a big bitch. They think I'm gonna dunk on them. That's why. But.

[Dre]

Oh, God, my bad.

[Lex P]

These shoes, big as they are, that was.

[Bunna B]

I thought them.

[Lex P]

Uh huh. That's my. All the girls stuff your feet like this. Yeah.

She got on a Trinidad J.

Oh, my God.

[Dre]

No, for real, though. I only done wore these shoes, like, three times because they're so big, like, they hard to walk in.

[Lex P]

Thank you.

[Dre]

But they just so hard to walk in. But no. So I was going to ask y', all, do y' all think that good sex is more about body type or effort and confidence?

[Bunna B]

Maybe. Maybe. Effort and confidence.

[Dre]

Effort and confidence.

[Bunna B]

Yeah. What you. Because people be having body and don't be putting in work.

[Dre]

That's true.

[Lex P]

And. And people sometimes be having a lot of dick and don't know how to explain it. You got all this dick and you.

[Bunna B]

Don'T know what you doing with it.

[Lex P]

You need to go work at Sonic with all this meat and just give it out. I don't like that. That's why. Honestly, like, size don't matter for me.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

Now, you can't have no little Bubba.

[Dre]

Shrimp, but Bubba Shrimp.

[Lex P]

Yeah, y', all. You remember that? What was the Bubba Shrimp Company? Oh, yeah, yeah. You can't. You can't. You can't pull up on me on. But I like a medium size. I don't need all that meat. And then if you got all the meat. If you got a lot of meat. That's actually harder to work with. Cause you gotta know how to not hurt me.

[Bunna B]

Exactly.

[Lex P]

Ooh, they be in my esophagus.

[Dre]

Ooh.

[Lex P]

Hand it up now. I woke up with bronchitis.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

Why My throat hurt. Why? My throat hurt. And I didn't even give you head. Cause you doing too much. I hate. I hate big dick niggas that do too much. Get off me. Big dick ass actually. Get the fuck out. Yeah, you and your big dick can get the fuck out of my house. Seriously, I can't stand a big dick nigga. And let's keep it real. We gonna keep it all the way funky as we not.

[Bunna B]

Oh, yeah.

[Dre]

I don't like funky.

[Lex P]

Well, you know what?

[Dre]

For that million, for that 10 million.

[Lex P]

No, I'mma keep it funky. Nah, but get that big dick on.

[Dre]

I feel you though, Big Nick. Niggas, they can just be disrespectful because it's big.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Bunna B]

No, she talks about disrespectfully big.

[Dre]

Yeah, they do. It's like, why the fuck is it that big?

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

And don't know what to do with him. Give me a little. A schmedium.

That's the ones that be grinding they hips. Grinding a schmedium nigga. Cause he know he not big, but he. He trying to put in all that.

[Dre]

Work, all that motion.

[Lex P]

He tried to put in all that work.

[Bunna B]

Start dancing.

[Lex P]

Yeah, that's that shit.

[Bunna B]

That feel good though.

[Dre]

He trying to move it around.

[Lex P]

Yeah, he finna wiggle them hip, man.

[Bunna B]

Stop dancing.

[Dre]

No, but I seen like a real big dick nigga. Like a crazy, you know, like crazy in real life. I've only seen it on like porns and I be like, how the fuck?

[Lex P]

I done had a. That nigga, I done had a crazy time.

[Dre]

I seen a dick on the porn and it was like the size of my wrist. No, seriously, from my elbow to my wrist. That's a big ass dick.

[Lex P]

I ain't had that before.

[Dre]

Imagine this in your coochie.

[Bunna B]

I can't.

[Lex P]

This shit already mangled.

[Dre]

Bitch is stupid as fuck.

[Lex P]

No, for real.

[Dre]

But I've never seen that in real life though.

[Bunna B]

Now I haven't had one like the.

[Lex P]

Porns, but I have had like a big dick nigga, but he knew what to do with it. And then I've had some big dick niggas in my past and they was just. Go home. This is not fun. Unfortunately, you have been eliminated. I have one picture and you have been eliminated.

[Dre]

Yeah, bitch, go home.

[Lex P]

Yeah, I don't like it. So I do agree with you. Sometimes it be too big and it's not pleasurable. And I don't know where we got in society where we make big dick niggas feel like they're superior. Cause 99% of Big Dick niggas can't fuck. True. Cause they just feel like my dick big. It's just like a big booty bitch with no personality. You fine, but you fucking suck.

[Dre]

And nobody want that big ass dick either. Bitches be lying to like run into that nigga. Like I said, if I ever see the nigga with a dick this size.

[Lex P]

Bitch, I would run. Thank you. I don't want that. No, thank you. No thank you.

[Bunna B]

Are you dumb?

[Lex P]

No, thank you. You better put that in who I mean in me, because I'mma do it. I ain't no quitter. No, I'mma talk about you just like I do everybody. I'mma talk. I'm talking about you when you leave. Now.

[Dre]

I don't like that.

[Lex P]

Yeah, we got to move on.

[Dre]

Cause you was talking about me for like five minutes.

[Lex P]

Nevermind. I'm not gonna. We good. All right, now it's time to get into the bop. A, the bop about.

So bop of the week is, you know the music that we've been jamming this week. So I'm a R and B girly. I love some good R and B. So my bop of the week is Xavier Omar. I've made him my bop a few times, but. But he dropped a project earlier this year in May, and I can't believe I never talked about it. But he has a song called how could you'd not call. And I love when a man just be so like, what did I do wrong? We need to bring back begging music.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

You know I love a good begging song. So Xavier Omar, how could you not call? That's my bop of the week. If you are a R and B person, please go download everything that he has ever created and done because it's absolutely fire. Okay, What y' all been listening to? What y' all got going on?

[Dre]

So mine is R B too, but it's a old school album. Oh, from 2010. You remember loud by Rihanna?

[Lex P]

Do I? That was red hair.

[Dre]

I was in college when they came out. I was like a freshman, I think, in college. And oh my God, this album was so good. It's the 15th anniversary, so it had popped up on my title stream. And I was like, this album was good as snm. What's my name? With Drake. Yeah. Only girl in the world.

[Lex P]

Yeah. The whole don't say a thing Watch and learn was on there, right? No, Watch and Learn. Not on this album.

[Dre]

No, that's not on this album.

[Bunna B]

Damn.

[Lex P]

I thought that was that album.

[Dre]

And I'm always with somebody else because Watch and learn.

[Lex P]

That was my song. That must have been after this album.

[Dre]

Love the way you lie was on here.

[Lex P]

No, it's. We don't listen to that, man. I do.

[Dre]

And man down. They used to be my dad's favorite.

[Lex P]

That was when she got in her big, big wagwan bag.

[Dre]

She did. My daddy used to love that song. He made me make him a little. That was when I still used to be on Limewire. Made me make him a little burn cd.

[Lex P]

Okay. That's a good bop of the week.

[Bunna B]

It is.

[Dre]

That's my bop. Shout out to Rihanna. Maybe she give us an album song.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

Well, I'm an artist, so I've been listening to my take Sweet L period.

[Lex P]

As you should.

[Bunna B]

Yeah, I feel like it give, like, different listens, like. But everything for girls. So good girls and not good girls. But my favorite so far on there. I say.

Well, for this week, I say, y' all go listen to just the girl. So if you feeling down and you need confidence and you need something to start your day off right, I say go listen to just a girl by Bunny B.

[Lex P]

Just the girl. I'm gonna listen to that right now. I'm always. I'm a sad bitch. Now I'm listening to some pick me up.

[Dre]

Lexi's fucking nice, you know what I'm saying?

[Lex P]

So who haven't you worked with that you like, like your next project? Like, who is your dream come labs that you want on it?

[Bunna B]

Who haven't I worked with?

I say Cardi b Glorilla. Okay.

[Lex P]

And Megan, now you talking my language.

[Bunna B]

And you.

[Dre]

I'm a hot.

[Lex P]

I'm a hottie, baby.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

Okay.

[Bunna B]

Oh, and rway.

[Lex P]

Okay.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

Who laughed awol? Keep it cute.

[Dre]

Anyways, okay, so now it's time to get into our favorite segment of the week, which is pour your heart out. You know, if you have any questions, any testimonials, make sure you send them to ask for minds gmail.com. that's as K P O U R M I N D S Gmail dot com. Do you feel like you give good advice?

[Bunna B]

Yeah. You do?

[Dre]

Okay, we better ask you some questions. They be asking us some crazy shit.

[Lex P]

Okay, I got the first one. So it says, I just met this new guy and we Immediately hit it off. He's such a gentleman, sweet, very caring, and definitely a smooth talker, especially when we're together. He let me know when we first started talking that he's not much of a texter. I completely understood that and still do. I even noticed that when we're together, he doesn't even be on his phone texting us. Now when we get on the phone, we can talk hours until the early hours of the morning with no regret. Basically, I don't feel like I asked for much at all, but it is a little bothersome when it goes hours of no text back. I haven't mentioned it to him before, but since it's only been a month now and he did explain that he's not much of a texter, but at the same time, he always mentions that he makes time for the people that he cares about. Yet it doesn't really feel like I get much out of the day. I do really like and would like for things to advance. So should I bring this up to him, or should I match energy and not say anything?

[Bunna B]

Okay. I feel like if you want to take it far, you should bring it up to him. If he go make time for what he want. If he want you, he'll text back everybody on their phone. Like, if he can sit on the phone, on the phone call, he can text. I ain't gonna say he got nothing going on, but just bring it up and ask him. If he don't get it right, then try something else.

[Dre]

Mm, I agree. I will bring it up. And then if he don't fix it, I just stop talking to him.

[Lex P]

But I think your problem was acting like you were cool with it in the beginning. Yeah, it's been bothering you, but you acted like it was cool in the beginning. And that's one thing I will say, even as a woman, I used to do.

[Bunna B]

You probably had to. Because, like, you don't wanna come off.

[Lex P]

As you don't wanna come off. But then you end up being unhappy with something that you were unhappy. If you were happy from day one that somebody's doing, you think all of a sudden you don't stop caring about it. Yeah, that's the time to bring it up. Cause before niggas get the pussy, bring it all up. Cause once they get it, they ain't changing shit. And I'm not saying that y' all.

[Dre]

Had sex with and he gonna complain, man.

[Bunna B]

What?

[Dre]

Like, man, at first you was cool with it.

[Lex P]

He wasn't feeling it.

[Bunna B]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

Bring if you like somebody and they have little red flags. And the perfect time to bring it up is in the beginning.

[Dre]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

I'm not saying don't bring it up, but I'm saying you gonna have a tough time getting that over to him and making him understand because you after a while. Cause you said yourself, I completely understood that and still do.

[Bunna B]

Mm.

[Dre]

Do you?

[Bunna B]

Do you? Obviously you don't understand.

[Lex P]

You don't, and that's okay.

[Bunna B]

Okay.

[Lex P]

But you should have brought that up. I complains, baby, after the first date, I'm complaining. I'm going to complain. Let's get it. Hey, let's talk about it after the first date.

[Bunna B]

Yes.

[Lex P]

Time to get into it. I'm trying to get married.

[Dre]

Number two. Pour your heart out, number two. Hey, y'. All. As an avid poor minds girly, I had to reach out about this one. Lol. So me and my young been dealing with each other for almost two years now. For contrast context, I'm 26, he 23. This year, things have been really on and off between us. In June, we reconnected and everything seemed good Until August when I saw a text pop up from his ex from high school. Then in September, he went through my phone and saw I had been texting someone just to get back at him. We talked it out and moved past it. But then October came, we had plans to go out, and I found out he'd been texting my cousin. Two weeks. Weeks later, while I was in the shower, he went through my DMS and saw I had messaged my ex. Let's smoke after class. I know that look bad, but honestly, I haven't seen my ex in forever. I don't even want him. I'm damn near in love with my young. It's almost been three weeks since we've talked, and now I'm starting to think there's another girl in the picture. Should I just leave it alone or try again? Because honestly, this whole situation. This whole situation feels so pink. Hy.

[Bunna B]

Girl, leave that young alone. Yeah, please leave that young alone. Uhuh. He texting your cousin.

[Lex P]

Hell no.

[Bunna B]

Yeah, he playing with you. He don't want you.

[Lex P]

He don't. He wait until something better comes around that he.

[Bunna B]

Yeah, he using you for right now.

[Lex P]

You're convenient. It's convenient for him.

[Bunna B]

And then he young, he 23. He getting everything out the cougar. They.

[Lex P]

That's why I don't deal with the young ones. They be thinking we green.

[Dre]

They do.

[Lex P]

They be like, oh, I'm f to get. You ain't f to get. But this hamburger Helper, some coochie popa.

That. You ain't using nothing over here.

[Bunna B]

Yeah, leave him alone.

[Lex P]

Yeah, you got to.

[Dre]

You got to let it go. And then I also, I don't know, I be feeling like if somebody can go that long with. Without talking to you, and you think y' all in love. Y' all ain't really in love. It's one sided. Cause he wouldn't be able to go to her ex without talking to you.

[Bunna B]

Yeah, she want her ex.

[Dre]

Well, she said she didn't want him like this. She said she just wanted to smoke with him. Cause she ain't seen him in a while.

[Bunna B]

She could smoke with anybody else.

[Dre]

Maybe, I don't know, maybe everybody else be having that Reggie.

[Lex P]

I like a little Reggie though, myself. I don't want to be too high. I keep saying that. Different strokes for different folks. You right.

[Dre]

But she want that gas clearly.

[Lex P]

All right, my girl let everybody know where they can find your new project. Where they can find all the good stuff. What we got coming up.

[Bunna B]

Okay, y', all, y' all can go ahead and find sweetly out on all platforms and well, shows and stuff coming up.

I got a lot of stuff planned for next year, but I don't think I can like speak about it.

[Lex P]

That's all right.

[Bunna B]

Cause we gonna be here whenever you ready to announce. So make sure y' all go get that project. And I love y'. All. Thank y' all so much for having me.

[Lex P]

Of course. We had a good time. Thank you for thanking us.

[Bunna B]

Yes.

[Lex P]

Y' all make sure y' all go follow Bunn on all platforms.

[Bunna B]

Follow me at Bunnabe or the real Bonnie Bee. You go find me on both everywhere.

[Lex P]

They gonna find you. All right. And y' all go to muse beautycollection.com. get your good lippies, all that good stuff. Make sure y' all tune in to Love Legs P every Monday morning at 10am and we'll see y' all next week.

Fun in the middle. Yeah.

[Bunna B]

Somebody real hard to find Somebody worth all your time Somebody who tell you the truth.

Love you for you Someone who knows all of your flaws doesn't impose Try to control you Let you be free doesn't deceive Give you a chance to believe Believe in something Is there too much?

Cause I've been on the search and I'm losing my hope Is that too much? Is that too much? Trying to find a love in the world so cold oh who Is that too much? I found a I can be the only one it says too much Ain't gotta be perfect Just give me your purpose to love I just want somebody I just want somebody to treat me like somebody Treat me like somebody Won't be like everybody oh, no all you gotta do is love me for me, baby I just want somebody I just want somebody to treat me like somebody Somebody wanna be like everybody oh, no all you gotta do is love me for me, baby now don't be misled by the things I done said in the past I was young, I was looking for a ring and he just last long I was in it for the wrong, wrong reason, wrong season, wrong person. Yeah, he just wanted one thing and I just wanted something to smile and a little but a hug on I. I'd rather have quality than quantity oh, I just want someone to keep it real with me Is that too much?

Cause I've been on the search and I'm losing my hope Is that too much? Is that too much? Trying to find love in a world so cold oh, is there too much?

[Lex P]

Yeah.

Is there too much? You gotta be perfect Give me your.

[Bunna B]

Perfect love I just want somebody.

To treat me like somebody.

[Lex P]

Don'T be like.

[Bunna B]

It.

All you gotta do is love me for me, baby I just want somebody I just want somebody to treat me like Somebody to treat me like somebody don't be like everybody oh, no all you gotta do is love me for me, baby.

[Lex P]

Yeah, give it to him.

[Bunna B]

Maybe I'm asking for too much yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Lex P]

I just want somebody Shout out to Bun in the middle. We finna go on tour.

What about me?

[Bunna B]

It.

[Lex P]

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[Bunna B]

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[Lex P]

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[Bunna B]

This is Sophie Cunningham from Show Me Something.

[Dre]

Do you know the symptoms of moderate to severe obstructive sleep apnea or OSA in adults with obesity? They may be happening to you without you knowing.

[Bunna B]

If anyone has ever said you snored.

[Dre]

Loudly or if you spend your days fighting off excessive tiredness, irritability and concentration.

[Lex P]

Issues, it may be due to osa.

[Dre]

OSA is a serious condition where your airway partially or completely collapses during sleep, which may cause breathing interruptions and oxygen deprivation. Learn more at don'tsleep on OSA.com this information is provided by Lily, a medicine company.

[Bunna B]

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