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Slim Thug
But at the same time, it's hard to go through obstacle courses when other women is throwing it at me.
Lex P
Yeah. Cause you know why they're throwing it at you? Because they're of low value. Any woman that's just throwing it at you. Slim Thug.
Slim Thug
Nah, it ain't.
Drea Nicole
No.
Lex P
You really think that's a valuable woman?
Slim Thug
At the end of the day, it's outside our race. Let's keep it real. A white woman look at a black man as a desirable man.
Lex P
When you got money, even if you.
Slim Thug
Don'T got money, you just a BBC.
Drea Nicole
They want you, not a BBC.
Slim Thug
That's what I'm saying. That what y'all gotta realize.
Drea Nicole
Too much porn.
Slim Thug
The black man is the desirable man. We the dominant gene. Nobody can top us if we get our shit together. You know what I'm saying?
Drea Nicole
Ew.
Lex P
Ew.
Slim Thug
I got my shit together.
Lex P
Well, yeah, you.
Slim Thug
That's why I move with this energy.
Lex P
I think you are delusional because black men are not as desirable. You have been rich since you were 18 years old.
Drea Nicole
You don't even know what it's like to really not have money.
Slim Thug
But at the end of the day, I still say as a black man, even if you broke, you still the most wanted man. White women to all women. That what y'all ain't. Yeah. Even though. Even though y'all don't want to accept it. And y'all say, get your broke ass out here. To the. A black man, broke rich or whatever, he is the most desired man on earth. And the thing.
Lex P
What's up, y'all? It's your girl, Lex P. And it's.
Drea Nicole
Your girl, Drea Nicole.
Lex P
And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Mind, where a drunk.
Drea Nicole
Mind speaks sober thought.
Lex P
We got a guest today.
Drea Nicole
We got a guest today.
Lex P
Okay, now, this has been an extremely anticipated, anticipated episode long time coming. He actually pulled up on us on our very first live show in Houston at House of Blues. He did. The one and only Houston legend, CEO, Big boss. The young Texas A. Roy KG of the game.
Drea Nicole
Ooh. You don't.
Lex P
Wait, you boys must don't know his name. They don't know we got Slim Thug in the building.
Slim Thug
Four mine.
Drea Nicole
That was a great intro, leg.
Slim Thug
Don't make me too happy.
Lex P
You are cutting up already.
Slim Thug
I'm not good with compliments from baddies.
Lex P
Why?
Slim Thug
I'm saying it's pressure. I be wanting to say something back.
Lex P
I mean, you know, this is a safe space.
Drea Nicole
It is.
Lex P
You know what I'm saying? We like to have a Good time.
Slim Thug
Let's have it.
Lex P
First off, I want to say thank you for pulling up on us.
Slim Thug
Thank y'all for having me.
Drea Nicole
We've been wanting you on the show for a long time, so I'm so glad we was able to make it happen.
Slim Thug
I just wanted to be around y'all and smell y'all.
Lex P
We smell good.
Slim Thug
Y'all just so fine. And I'm just happy to be around, you know, some beautiful women.
Lex P
Yeah. So how has your trip in Atlanta been so far?
Slim Thug
It's been cool. Yeah, it's been cool. Like you say, I don't come, I don't leave Houston a lot, you know? And a lot of that is because I just got all my shit there.
Lex P
You know what I'm saying?
Slim Thug
It's kind of hard to leave your kingdom, but I love atl, you know what I'm saying? And I used to be out here so much, and I did it so much as a young rapper that as an old rapper. I just be trying to, like, take vacations. I know you come to atl, they gonna make you go to work.
Lex P
Oh, yeah.
Slim Thug
Get in that studio, you gonna do something. You know what I'm saying? So. But yeah, I'm happy to be here. I love it out here.
Drea Nicole
Okay.
Lex P
I. Okay. Y'all know every time we have a Houston guest on.
Drea Nicole
You got a Story.
Lex P
I have a story.
Drea Nicole
Especially when it's Houston.
Lex P
Yes. I have been waiting to have Slim on this story because I have told this story on Poor Minds a few times. Draya knows this story. Okay. So when I first moved to Houston, I was a young warthog, you out in the land of Houston, trying to find who I was. So, like, I came from a small city. I'm from Orange, Texas, you know, Like, I. So I was just, like, starry eyed when I moved out there. So I remember, like, the first time I met you. What was that Club Draya on Sundays that everybody used to go to Carrington's. Not Carrington's. It was like where the Africans used to be at Belvedere. Oh, Belvedere. Yeah.
Drea Nicole
Vita Galleria.
Lex P
The first time I ever met you, it was at Belvedere. And I remember you were like, back in the section. Like, you remember, you used to walk in and the section was way in the back. And I remember my homegirl was like, girl, come Slim got a section, we finna go in his section. I said, slim who? She said, slim. I said, slim Thug. I said, oh, my God, I'm like 18, 19, not even supposed to be in Here.
Slim Thug
Oh wow.
Lex P
So I remember she took it to the back of the club. And I remember I introduced myself, I was like, hi, I'm Lex, nice to meet you. And you were so nice and so sweet. I was like, okay, I know Slim Thug now. Like I'm in there. Like I know the man in Houston, Texas, right? So I remember fast forward, you had a video shoot. Summertime, uh huh. With Zero swinging through the south. Oh my God, baby. So I was in the video, right? And I remember I was like, oh, I know Slim. Like we good. I was missing. I was like, hey Slim. He was like, hey, how you doing? What's your name? I said, oh, he don't, he don't remember me. He don't remember me. I was so sad. And I'm not gonna lie. Then fast forward. I used to work at. Dreams used to come in dreams. Used to get like a little chicken wrap every time, all the time. You. Every single time you came in there, you be like, hey, how you doing? What's your name? I said, I done introduced myself to this n 10 times.
Slim Thug
Oh man.
Lex P
And he still don't remember me.
Slim Thug
Damn. It's the weed.
Lex P
I mean. But you know what? I never took it personal because each and every time you were so nice. Yeah, you were so soft.
Drea Nicole
You always are.
Slim Thug
Now the thing is like, honestly keeping it real with you, like, you gotta leave a stain on my brain. Like, you fine, but we ain't never did nothing with each other. We ain't never kick it where I can like stain my brain with it. As a rapper, it's so hard to remember people you meet because think about how many people you meet a date, right? Right. Hey, what's up, Shay? So kind of like I'm kind of messed up in the head right now. Well, if you don't leave no stain in my brain, like. And then you gotta understand who I am. Slump Thug. When I open my eyes in the morning, I smoke weed.
Lex P
Okay.
Slim Thug
At my dreams time, imagine I'm drunk and high.
Drea Nicole
That's all damn day.
Slim Thug
You seen that?
Lex P
Throwing napkins.
Slim Thug
Yeah, so. Yeah, exactly.
Lex P
You throw a dollar.
Slim Thug
Exactly. I'm in there to get. I'm lit by, to the max by the end. So it's hard to remember. And you know, I take pictures. A lot of people do a lot of that. So it's hard to remember that. But you fine. So I remember you, but I probably just don't remember the name or something.
Lex P
Yeah, I never took it personal. Cause like I said, you were nice every single time that I Met you tried to be.
Slim Thug
I tried. I can't believe I forgot though.
Lex P
You forgot a lot of times. That's all right. I said this, that you check.
Slim Thug
I messed up.
Lex P
But you know my name now.
Slim Thug
I definitely know the name now.
Lex P
Period.
Drea Nicole
That's so funny. I wonder if everybody have met you on a video shoot. Cuz I feel like that's the first time I met you too. And it was a lot. But you probably don't remember. Yeah, cuz I was in the video too. Cuffs up, tops down. I think that's.
Slim Thug
Oh, man, Kuro.
Drea Nicole
Yeah, but you was at the video shoot. Of course.
Slim Thug
But yeah, see, y'all be swearing. I be doing everything. I be trying to keep it professional. I don't even be tripping. Like I be trying to do that. But damn, I can't believe I be not.
Lex P
You had the original baddies.
Drea Nicole
Yeah.
Slim Thug
Oh man.
Drea Nicole
Cuz that was a. I was like 23 when I was in that video. I think that was so long ago.
Slim Thug
What's the memory vitamin? Because I'm out of there. I don't have. My memory is shot like I always been like that. But that's what I got to work on. I got to give me a memory vitamin.
Lex P
It's something with the brain. It is brain vitamins.
Slim Thug
But a lot of people don't. For real. Like real talk to our aside. If you know me, you know, I wake up, I'm a smoker. I wake up, I smoke.
Lex P
Yeah.
Slim Thug
By the time it's nighttime or something, I know telling. I'm on alcohol too. Just to be in the public and you know, mingle. Right. I gotta have a sip or something, you know what I'm saying? So I be lit, man, a lot of the times, you know. And I be just, you know, emotion, just. What's up? How you doing? Let's take a picture. Let's do that there. But unless we have like a one on one for real, you know, it's kind of hard to remember it, you know. And a lot of people think I'm fake because of that. Like a lot of people be like, man, you acting like you don't know me. We took a picture and such. And such, you know, three, ten years ago, man, I don't remember what outfit I had on last year.
Drea Nicole
Yeah, yeah, you probably like. I really don't remember.
Slim Thug
It's really like I say it gotta be. We gotta have some type of moment together for me to be stamping. You gotta leave a stain on my brain. We had to go on a date. If you Would've went on a date with me.
Drea Nicole
I see.
Lex P
I see how I would've remembered. I mean, he would've remembered that I know you. He's not mean, too. This is a new me, too.
Slim Thug
I'll be in both of y'all DMs. I don't know who like me. You know what I'm saying? I'm just shooting. You know what I mean?
Lex P
You are so crazy.
Drea Nicole
One thing about Slim, he ain't lying. He don't care.
Lex P
He do not care.
Slim Thug
He gotta keep it real. I come from before the Internet era. It was so hard, you know? Like, y'all think this hard. Instagram, easy. I give you a. Like, whatever. It's easy now. I'm just saying, like, I'm OG for real. Like, I had to ask a girl to write her number down in the club, man. That's different.
Lex P
Yeah.
Slim Thug
That take a lot of courage. So the Internet shy guys, I'm way beyond that. We ain't on that.
Drea Nicole
We writing your number.
Slim Thug
It ain't nothing. I'm gonna tell you how I feel, and hopefully we feel the same. That's all I do. I know.
Lex P
That's.
Drea Nicole
So how do you. What. What is. What's like, your signature move in the dm? Like, are you an emoji sender? Do you sen a little smoke emoji? I could see you doing something like this.
Slim Thug
I just, like. I just do a lot of liking, you know, I like. I like if you look good. Like, really. It's all around the board, though. It ain't even about. I'm trying to flirt or nothing like that. If I see you doing, you post a picture and you look good, I'mma give it up to you. You know, I know that's what you wanted. I know you probably took 5, 45 minutes, 5 hours to get this picture on there. If I like it, I'mma give it up to you. Same thing with my partners. They do something, you know, I just got me a new car. I'm liking it. Ooh, it's clean. All that. I'm giving you everything you want because I know that it's hard to. You know what I'm saying? It's free. Why wouldn't I give no free love out? Right?
Drea Nicole
Right.
Slim Thug
It's easy.
Lex P
So what is your type, though?
Slim Thug
My type? Yeah, like, y'all my type. For real. Our bullshit aside, I'm telling you, if you think about what I said in 3 Kings 100 years ago, Caramel brown, caramel brown, thick and cow. Y'all my type.
Lex P
Okay, so you like black women?
Slim Thug
I definitely like black. You ain't never seen me with a white woman.
Lex P
I don't. I've never seen you with anybody. You're very low key. Ooh, that reminds me. I used to stay in these apartments in the medical center. And this is when you had.
Drea Nicole
You seen him in your apartment.
Lex P
He used to have that silver Camaro. Damn, you cannot creep in that car. I said, somebody in my apartment's fucking slim. And y'all know I've been messy for a long time. I said, that's that car right there. Know. Because I never saw.
Slim Thug
What apartments was it.
Lex P
It was off of el mundo.
Slim Thug
El mundo?
Lex P
El mundo. Off of 610, like, by. Oh, I can't remember the name of them apartments. I cannot. But it was in the medical center. I know it was your car. You were the only person. Because that was when those. Those silver. I don't know what you call it when they used to wrap the silver.
Drea Nicole
Chrome.
Lex P
It was a chrome Camaro. You were the first person in Houston with a chrome car. So it was like. It was no question who it was when he pulled up.
Slim Thug
She was black, whoever it was.
Lex P
I mean, yeah, it was a lot of, like. She would have been like a nurse, something.
Slim Thug
Yeah. But, you know, like, I don't really date. I ain't never been in a relationship outside of my race. I didn't have dated a Spanish chick, though.
Drea Nicole
Yeah.
Slim Thug
Latina before. Not white, but I don't hate white girls either. I didn't slept with white girls. But, you know, I ain't never been in a relationship because I kind of feel like the cultural. I want you to put me on some R and B shit or something, you know what I'm saying? Like, I need all that, you know? So I don't think I can even maintain, you know, with that, you know?
Drea Nicole
Cause y'all experiences are so different.
Slim Thug
Yeah. So I'm so hood. I want you to, like. I want the black shit. I want to put me in Whitney or some shit. Yeah, you know, whatever.
Drea Nicole
You know, they be loving Whitney, though.
Slim Thug
Yeah.
Drea Nicole
Oh, my little Michael Jackson.
Slim Thug
Right? They gonna challenge me. You know what I'm saying?
Lex P
Now, I do want to talk about this before we get into the first topic, because I always use you as an example, like, when I'm kind of having, like, a little rap debate, because I feel like a lot of people like to say, oh, this person is so big, and this person is not. Because they're international or they're. They can go to New York. Right now and do a show or. And I always say I. And I could be wrong. So correct me so. Cause I remember you coming up in Houston and then you had a moment where you were in LA and you were working with Pharrell, you know, and you did that. And I felt like it wasn't. Cause that album was fired. Everybody was like, I don't take anybody. All that stuff. It was a moment. I felt like after that album, you was like, la is not for me. I wanna go back home. You chose that route 100%. So I always say y'all can't have Slim in these conversations when y'all are talking about international superstars or whatever, because he chose not to be that. Cause he very much could have done that.
Slim Thug
Facts. It was beautiful working with Pharrell, but I had got a crib in la and I could never figure out. I tried. I tried to, like, mingle into that world.
Lex P
Yeah.
Slim Thug
But I'm just not like, even how. I don't come to Atlanta.
Lex P
Yeah.
Slim Thug
Like, I don't like doing a lot of the major shit. I'm, like, so underground and regular that I don't fit in with a lot of the. You know what I'm saying? Because it'd be a lot of fluff on a lot of that shit. Yeah, Cool. Keeping it real. So I just feel like I don't fit in that world, you know, I'm so regular, you know, I want to go to the club every night. I ain't popping bottles. I'm at the bar. Like, I'm just a regular nigga. So a lot of shit that's in LA is. What do you do? You know? Like, it's like, you know, it's. It's a lot of Hollywood, you know what I'm saying? And I just felt. I. I felt like an alien out there.
Lex P
Yeah.
Slim Thug
I had to go back to, you know, what I know, which is Houston and the culture of Texas and, you know, just staying in that world, it's just so fitting for me. It feels like home, you know? It feel like what I supposed to do.
Lex P
Right.
Slim Thug
You know what I'm saying? But I don't knock nobody who do that or try to take it to the. You know. But, you know, the thing is the mixtapes. I always tell people the mixtapes, the underground shit, getting money off of that, seeing niggas who was on major labels not living like me, it made me never think that I gotta have the fame. It made me say, you know what? The money is most important. Owning yourself, like, that's just what we did. And you know, I didn't never feel like I had to have a major label to, you know, be successful. I would say okay, you know what I'm saying? So I had a lot of independent success throughout, even after that, you know, so my biggest project is probably Boss of Our boss is Thug I Run. You know what I'm saying? That's probably my biggest singles. But you know, that was alpha major label.
Lex P
That was independent.
Slim Thug
So it's like, so at the end of the day, man, I just kind of follow my path. But at the end of the day, I don't knock nobody else for doing it the other way.
Lex P
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Drea Nicole
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Drea Nicole
Yeah, so I wanted to talk about, because you made a really good point, obviously me being from Houston too. Like Houston has so much culture and has always had so much culture. And I feel like a lot of people don't really realize that. How do you feel about now all of a sudden? Because I see this all the time, so I know you see it. Everybody want to move to Houston now. Everybody is so obsessed. We Atlanta but it's like they just now catching on. Like Houston, Bentley.
Slim Thug
That's why I never leave. I ain't understand that. I left and went other places and ended up having to come home because I knew that Houston was the place to be. But it's not a clout city though. It's not like we don't have no major record labels, no promotions out there to. To give us that Laatl New York look, Miami look. But at the end of the day, it's a vibe, you know what I'm saying? But man, like, it's hard to leave on the cool because it's so diverse. I would say it got a little bit of everything and everybody out there, you know what I'm saying?
Drea Nicole
Yeah, yeah. But do you feel like that was like a real, obviously a pivotal point in your career, like when you did move away from Houston? Because we always talk about that with our show. Like, like you said, it's not a lot of big labels. It's not a lot of like huge multimedia outlets and stuff out there. So we always kind of say if we feel like. We feel like if we didn't move to Atlanta, we're not sure how big poor minds would have became.
Slim Thug
Exactly. You. Right? I totally agree with you. You should in a lot of ways. Like I say, the, the action is out here, the opportunity is out here. ATL, LA, NY, you know what I'm saying? Houston don't have those big, you know, companies or whatever to, you know, turn you up like that. So I definitely salute people who decide to move on and bigger up they self with these different opportunities, you know what I'm saying? So. Nah, I don't knock that at all. That's definitely what you needed to do. Cause in Houston, it's like, it's like New Orleans, you know, the bounce music, it's just there, you know what I'm saying? If you stay in Houston, you can get some money like me and live a good life, but at the end of the day, it's cultures so culture based that it's hard to transcend in different areas, you know what I'm saying?
Drea Nicole
So, yeah, yeah, we definitely got our own culture. The road and chop.
Slim Thug
Yes, right.
Lex P
Houston is just different.
Slim Thug
I think it's the tempo. Like I hear it's crunk, you know, club music. I don't make club music. I talk about shit I got, you know, and what I'm doing right now.
Lex P
Don't talk about them cars.
Drea Nicole
Right, right.
Slim Thug
It's like. But at the same time, I Grew up under a UGK ghetto boys, right? It was reality rap more than it was about hip hop bars and shit like that, you know. So we kind of follow the trend of what we did down there, you know.
Lex P
So let me ask you this. There's some real. And keep it honest. Why are so many rappers broke? Like, no, seriously, rappers be broke.
Slim Thug
They don't own themselves. And it's like this, okay? And I'm a rap real estate. Let's say rap real estate. Nobody owns no rap real estate. Most rappers who, if they, if a rapper had a hit song on a major label, he don't own it. The major label owns that, they get a, a small percentage off that song.
Lex P
Okay?
Slim Thug
As an independent artist, I own my masters, I get the most. My distribution people I deal with get 10%. Okay, I get 90%. So it's just like rap real estate. I might have built a house, I might have did a project and it only bought me. It was trap, it was a trap house. It only gave me a thousand a month. That's the rent I get from it every month. Or I might have did a project that turned into a mansion that paid me, you know, 20, 50,000amonth. And then I still got the trap. I got the mansion. Every year I drop a new project, I'm building another house.
Lex P
Yeah.
Slim Thug
And it just keep adding up. It ain't just about what you dropped today. A lot of people want to hear still tipping right now. A lot of people want to hear old music so I can get paid off thug and still drop some new stuff and put that on top of what I get paid off the old music. So I'm constantly every month getting income. Like I have a whole neighborhood of real estate. That's crazy because I got a bunch of rent houses. Rappers don't own their music. The labels own they music. They get small percentages off, they hit records, you know, so over time, when they ain't getting them tours and they ain't touring all the time or whatever, then they broke because they, they don't own their music and get the monthly checks from owning your music. That's the difference. Like that's what it is now. You see them post their money and shit, when they about to go on tour, they got that big ass chick. But at the end of the day, like they done sold they records, they done sold they life basically. Yeah. The best music they ever probably made is owned by the labels, right? And they getting pennies on dollars, you know what I'm saying? So over time when the tour stop and the shows slow up, they go broke. You know what I'm saying? They ain't getting that income every month. You know what I'm saying?
Lex P
Yeah, I think that's the same thing in podcasting too. Like owning your ip, because it's the same thing.
Slim Thug
Like, we own every episode. It's steady grow as you keep the same thing.
Drea Nicole
And we always say we'll never sell.
Slim Thug
Our r because that's your income. People don't realize that income save you that one check that you get for selling it is. Is that $1 million. Okay. Buy your house, buy your car. If you ain't got no income coming, you f to be broke. You know what I'm saying? But you owning this and steady adding every month, you can pay your bills, you can do whatever, and add to it as you keep going, doing right, you know? And that's what owners. That's why it's good to own things. It just keep getting bigger and bigger, you know what I'm saying?
Lex P
All right, so we finna get into the good.
Drea Nicole
Yeah.
Lex P
But first, what we drinking? Okay, so take my shot, because it's gonna get since we got the big.
Drea Nicole
Balls of the north.
Lex P
Yeah. Okay.
Drea Nicole
I'm throwback. I'm over 30.
Slim Thug
Okay.
Drea Nicole
This one is called the Sugar Daddy Slim, aka the double cup. We gonna stay double cupped up this episode. Okay.
Slim Thug
Can I have one?
Drea Nicole
Yeah. All right, so we have some reposado tequila. We have some blue spirulina, if anyone's familiar with that. It's really good for your health. It's very nutritious. Protein, all that. We have some lemon juice, little bit of agave. And then I added some thyme in there, and I actually shook it up with some fresh dragon fruit. So not really dragon fruit juice, but you see the seeds are floating in there just to give it a pretty little color to it. And then we garnished it with some thyme and of course, those seeds. So this is is the Sugar Daddy Slim. And it's good.
Slim Thug
It's delicious.
Drea Nicole
One thing about Sugar Daddy doing her.
Lex P
Big what's up, y'all? It's your girl xp, and it's your.
Drea Nicole
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I think he really a sugar daddy.
Slim Thug
I'm really a sugar daddy. I believe that. Like, the thing is. And I'm gonna tell y'all, I'm gonna just keep it real with y'all. Cause y'all, Houston, we real. So, okay. I'm not gonna be on the phone with you till we fall asleep. I'm a hustler in real life. I'm always busy trying to get some money, trying to do something. So I'm not gonna be able to take you on these dates you want all the time. I'm not gonna be able to spend this time with you. But I will make sure when you deal with me, it will be beneficial. You know what I'm saying? You won't be messing with nobody who every time we meet, it's gonna be beneficial. You gonna walk away with us. I'm gonna give you somewhere, get your outfit, go to dinner with your girls, whatever. I'm gonna make it make sense, you know what I'm saying? If you do deal with me to make up for the time I'm not gonna spend on the phone, you know, doing whatever, because I'm a hustler, you know, I Gotta get to the money and that. Which I gotta realize if you want people who. Who you wanna. A dude who got his together, he gonna be busy. Yeah, he gonna be busy a lot of the time. So at the end of the day, you know, that's my way of making up for it. You know what I'm saying?
Lex P
But I think you would make a good side nigga, right?
Slim Thug
Other than that, I think I would.
Lex P
He would.
Slim Thug
I think I would. Cause I could have a real conversation with you and tell you when you tripping. Even if it's with a nigga like, you got a nigga like, hey, man, you doing too much. I've been there. Really? Honestly, that's who I am.
Drea Nicole
You the side nigga.
Slim Thug
I've been the side nigga so long that I've lost trust for even having a relationship. You feel me? I done slept with wives, girlfriends. As a rapper and a nigga who got his shit together, I've been having access to a lot of beautiful women and a lot of different women, right? So while I thought I was having a good time and living my life, it kind of showed me that, you know, it's hard to trust women, you know what I'm saying? So I kind of traumatized myself, and it made me who I am today, Sugar Slim.
Lex P
You know what I'm saying?
Drea Nicole
So do you see yourself ever getting married? Could you see yourself getting married?
Slim Thug
I really. I don't think that's for me, you know? But at the end of the day, my thing is this. We could be together forever, though, you know?
Lex P
You sound like Oprah.
Drea Nicole
Just no paperwork.
Slim Thug
No paperwork, no paperwork. Like Oprah. Like it makes sense. But at the end of the day, I guarantee, if you mess with me, you gonna live a better life than anybody else. I don't know. There's some niggas out there I can't fuck with, I'm sure. But I'm up there. It's a top percentage. I go on vacation probably once a month out the country.
Drea Nicole
Country.
Slim Thug
You know, y'all seen me on Valentine's Day, you know, I show out and I was wondering.
Drea Nicole
So I was like, who you did that for?
Slim Thug
See, I got. See. And every year, though, Every year, you see that? You follow me, you know, so. But not just then, all during the year, but at the same time, you see, I get food delivered on trays, you know, I get my feet rub. I get whatever I want, you know, And I just reward that. You know what I'm saying? So. So a lot of women, y'all so beautiful and fine. Y'all ain't gonna cook them meals for me and serve me and rub my feet and do everything. Cause y'all so bossed up.
Drea Nicole
We be cooking.
Lex P
That's crazy. Hell, yeah. You see my sister back there like, she.
Slim Thug
Like, she lying.
Lex P
No. Because she know I be cooking.
Drea Nicole
And I be cooking, too.
Lex P
We are so domestic.
Slim Thug
Well, that's on y'all. Cause I been in y'all DMs, and none of y'all gave me a chance ever.
Lex P
You know why I didn't give you a chance?
Slim Thug
I don't know nothing. But I know that you ain't giving me a chance. And I know you ain't gimme a chance.
Lex P
Well, I. Slim, if I turn. Do you date 40 year olds?
Drea Nicole
But I want to get married, okay?
Lex P
So if I'm not married by the time I'm 40, we outside, hopefully.
Slim Thug
Y'all look real good. I'm really like, I'm gonna give y'all a core. Y'all look fine. Thank you.
Lex P
We be in the gym.
Drea Nicole
Ain't seen us 50 million times.
Slim Thug
Yeah, I'm just.
Lex P
You know, he be forgetting.
Slim Thug
Girl, I be forgetting you. I reminded me today, Slim, that was.
Lex P
Look, I'm telling you right now, the girls are finna be in your DMs.
Drea Nicole
They are. They said, would he take you on a trip?
Slim Thug
Y'all ain't see the Honey Foot boat for Valentine's Day?
Drea Nicole
We seen it, Slim.
Lex P
Y'all see me on the boat, don't ask. No, I don't want to hear shit in my comments.
Slim Thug
Betty, stop playing.
Lex P
Lex, you said it was so easy. Look, times is hard. Rent due.
Drea Nicole
So are you the type to have multiple girlfriends?
Slim Thug
Nah, I really. I don't have the energy for that all the time. You know, honestly, like, he. In my younger years, I would say yes. I really was juggling more. But as a 44 year old man, I'd really be in the bed by damn near 10, 11. Like, really, I feel, you know, like I don't have the energy after doing what I be doing, you know, to. To juggle all that, you know, Honestly.
Drea Nicole
You seem like a pretty honest person. I feel like one thing about it, you can't ever be mad when somebody is being honest with you about their intentions or what they want or expect.
Lex P
That's to be the problem. They don't. Y'all men do not know how to keep it real.
Slim Thug
Yeah.
Lex P
And that's what be making me mad. Because you are l. When I already know the truth. I'm expecting.
Slim Thug
Well, Let me say this. A lot of the time, like, I say, y'all never gave me a chance, so. Oh, my God. Nah, I want to make it clear because I want to help. I want to not even help. Just say what my opinion on my side of the story a lot. I be going viral by a lot of shit you do. And I say black women don't give you none. Like, or whatever. I say they put you through obstacle courses, and this is a perfect example. You know what I'm saying? It's like. Like, these are beautiful women who I want to be with. Okay, y'all look good. What's up? Maybe it worked. Let's see. And I don't get the opportunity to do that. So y'all get mad when y'all see black men with white women, Latina, whatever it is. But them women, on a dime, see what. Who it is. Oh, you got your. Together. You a handsome dude. You got your. Let's go. You know, I don't feel like it's right when the women you. You desire back put you through obstacle courses. Cause at the end of the day, I know who I am. I know that I got my shit together. I know it's not a lot of niggas who got they shit together. You know what I'm saying? So I feel like if you want a nigga with his shit together, you should treat him like he got his shit together. But I get backlash for that. You know what I'm saying?
Lex P
And that's actually our first topic. It is.
Drea Nicole
Cause we definitely want to talk, because we talk about that.
Lex P
Go ahead. Go ahead, Dre.
Drea Nicole
Well, I was just going to say, too. For me, it ain't even about. About putting men through obstacle courses. It's about intentionality. Like, I think especially me being 33 now, I know what I want. So it's like, if I want to be married, if I want to be in a committed relationship, I should date men that I know want the same thing.
Slim Thug
All right, well, let me. My opinion on that is. Okay. When you dealing with, like, once again, you dealing with who got their together, right? I might not say I wanna be with you. I might not think I'm gonna be with you. But if you showing up and bringing me these meals and being this beautiful woman, that's gonna change my mind. And it don't. You know? And that's what I'm saying. Like, I don't. You can't call it, but it don't sometimes.
Drea Nicole
What about the women who did that? They stayed down with the Men who said, oh, I don't wanna get married. And they mind never changed.
Slim Thug
This is what it is, right? And that's what it is. I'm glad, glad you said that because it's the trauma. It's the trauma I believe is what makes that happen makes me have to go through obstacle course because a then took advantage of you, broke your heart, said this and didn't do that. You know what I'm saying? And I totally understand that, but I don't know them niggas. I'm a new nigga and I got a 800 credit score and give me that until I fuck it up, you know what I'm saying? Like, give me the hunt. I don't want to suffer from what some other niggas did to you. Like, like, at the end of the day, I'm a new. I'm a new person. And you gotta make the decision on the niggas. You decide to take it there with 100. I'm not saying mess with anybody, but I'm saying you can't call it. You can't say, oh, this a marrying type of nigga. I might be with you 10 years. You don't know. Like, you a bad chicken. Can cook where I'm going.
Drea Nicole
But. But I'ma also. But I'ma trust your word, though. Like, if we have an initial conversation and you tell me you don't want to get married, I'ma take your word for that. I'm not gonna try to convince you, like, in hope later down the line. Oh, maybe if me and slim together for five years, maybe he'll change his mind and maybe we will get married. I'ma always take you at face value as somebody who said you don't want that.
Slim Thug
Well, I personally, as a man, as your brother, I want to say that I don't know, I can say what the I want to say, but if you blow my mind, I'm not going nowhere. So a lot of the times, you know, niggas might say they don't want to get married or whatever the fuck it is, just it might change, you know what I'm saying? It's just about clicking. You being we really did we really here every day, like we want to be here. It's real. That's all it's about. I can't cow that. I can't predict that, you know, so it's about just seeing it for myself. You can change my mind even if I don't say I want to get married, that's fair.
Drea Nicole
But then I Feel like that's just waiting. You just waiting around.
Slim Thug
But is it. Or are you. And that's cool. I believe personally, if you, if, if, if the waiting is a great day every day, why not wait? Let's. This is what I want to tell you as my, my sisters or whatever you say you want to marry dude, you want to make sure that you want to move with that. First of all, I believe personally that you can't cow that type of. You know what I'm saying? And I believe that you shouldn't move with. I gotta marry you. I believe you should have moments with people. I have some of the best times in my life with people I probably would never marry. We even went on vacation. We had amazing times. Vacations, times, whatever it was. Stop thinking that this gotta be your husband. And you might even find your husband just living life, you know, and trying to have a good moment with people. You know what I'm saying? It ain't always gotta be a marrying thing. I agree.
Lex P
I agree.
Slim Thug
I'm saying not to have kids, don't be a baby mama, don't do all that or make a lifelong decision. But you can have a great moment with people who is not gonna be your husband.
Drea Nicole
I agree with. I 100% agree with that. Cause I have had some great tacos.
Slim Thug
Let's go, legs. I see you got your husband.
Lex P
I stayed quiet long enough.
Slim Thug
Just the sugar daddy. Mr. Sugar Daddy up here. Let me try this.
Lex P
Yeah, try the sugar daddy. Sip it down and sip it down real good.
Drea Nicole
Legs about to get slim lock.
Slim Thug
Let's go, Legs, let's go.
Lex P
I kept it cute, man.
Slim Thug
Let's go, let's go.
Lex P
So first things first. Anything worth having is going to be. First of all, let me say that, okay? So I feel like first of all, you are not a regular man. So of course a woman, if you the average woman that you slide in her dm, she gonna be on go for it.
Slim Thug
You will be surprised. You wouldn't on go. She wasn't go.
Lex P
But guess what, Slim. I'm not the average woman.
Slim Thug
Right? Facts.
Lex P
Exactly.
Slim Thug
Facts, facts. But I'm not in no average woman.
Drea Nicole
And I know you not trying to get me.
Lex P
Exactly.
Slim Thug
I'm on. I'm on. And that's why I probably lose. Because. And like I say, they make me wait. I'm going after the Lexus and Treya. I'm not going after no regular.
Lex P
Okay, I say this all the time and I'm not talking about you. I'mma use Lamar Odom for an example, right? Lamar Odom, when he was on the top of his game, he got a Khloe fucking Kardashian, right? He got a Kardashian, okay? And when you get that and you fumble it, and the way the road that he went down, you really not. He not finna get another Khloe Kardashian, right? Kanye, he's not finna get another Kim Kardashian. So sometimes the women that are easy for you is because they not on that level of the type of woman that you really need. So I'm not even talking about you. Sometimes these men who have money and they feel like, oh, black women are so hard because you can't really pull the type of women that are on your level, that you need to be pulling a bitch like me. I'm not on Go. You're gonna have to show up. You're gonna have to do X, Y, Z. Because I'm not. I'm in the top 1%. Yes, I am. I make a lot of money. I don't have no kids. I don't got no baggage. I'm outside, I'm hustling, I'm working. Absolutely. You gotta do the most.
Slim Thug
I feel you.
Lex P
So I demand that.
Slim Thug
That's both ways, right?
Lex P
I feel you, and you should demand that.
Slim Thug
Yeah, you should. But also, let me keep it real with y'all. A lot of the times, niggas who got they shit together don't even give you your value or try to even do all that because. Because they don't want to end up the assistant and messing with another superstar. Like, you know. You see what I'm saying? Like, I want a woman who served me. If you. I don't. You. Cause at the end of the day, I love that you in the 1%, but I will never let you pay for shit. So how does your money benefit me? We gonna be at my. I got the. I'm gonna take care of everything forever. I would never let a woman take care of me as a real nigga. Like, as a real man. So you having your shit together ain't gonna benefit me none. I rather have a woman who gonna bring me my food on the tray and rub my feet. You know what I'm saying? So. Cause that's what make most sense for me. I don't wanna end up being your assistant as a boss. You know what I'm saying? Cause at the end of the day, it's none beneficial to me. Cause I will never let you pay for no meal or whatever. Your money don't Matter. I'm not gonna have you doing none of that. Anything.
Lex P
And I agree with that. But I feel like it's beyond the money. I don't. Obviously, we don't need each other to pay for nothing. I feel like once you reach a certain amount of money, we not arguing about no. 50, 50. Who paying the rent. Who pay the money is gonna come. It's not even about that. Because, yes, I'm a woman who makes money. And my sister can testify for this. And I was still cooking for my. Rubbing his feet, doing all that. Because when you love somebody, it's about the love. It ain't about the money. The money don't come. I made it in my mind. I'm having a Nepo baby. Like, I know what I want. Like, I feel like. So it's beyond that. It's not about you paying for stuff. That's a given. Look at me. What do I look like paying for something? So that's a given. It's not about. I'm going to still follow my man and be whatever he needs me to be. But at the same time, yes, I absolutely want a man who's gonna jump through hoops for me. I want that because I want you.
Slim Thug
But look what I'm saying. And just as much as I want a black woman, I want to find women like y'all, right? But at the same time, it's hard to go through obstacle courses when other women is throwing it at me.
Lex P
Yeah. Cause you know why they're throwing it at you? Because they're of low value. Any woman that's just throwing it at you.
Slim Thug
Slim Thug, you really think that's a valuable woman? At the end of the day, it's outside our race. Let's keep it real. A white woman look at a black man as a desirable man.
Lex P
When you got money, even if you.
Slim Thug
Don'T got money, you just a BBC.
Drea Nicole
They want you, not a BBC.
Slim Thug
That what I'm saying. That what y'all gotta realize.
Drea Nicole
Too much porn, Latinas.
Slim Thug
The black man is the desirable man. We the dominant gene. Nobody can top us if we get our shit together. You know what I'm saying? I got my shit together. Well, yeah, you. That's why I move with this energy.
Lex P
I think you are delusional because black men are not as desirable. You have been rich since you were 18 years old.
Drea Nicole
You don't even know what it's like to really not have money.
Slim Thug
But at the end of the day, I still say, as a black man, even if you broke, you still the Most wanted white women to all women. That what y'all ain't. Yeah. Even though. Even though y'all don't want to accept it and y'all say, get your broke ass out here to a black man, broke rich or whatever. He is the most desired man on earth. And the thing is, y'all ain't gonna never. A lot of women is not gonna respect that. You gonna say, no, get brokey. Get your broke ass out of here. But. And then he gonna be with a white girl, and we gonna say, ah, he over there with them snow bunnies. But the only reason why he over there, because he was traumatized. You dissed him. Get your broke ass away from.
Lex P
You know what? Most black women are splitting rent with their man. Most black women.
Slim Thug
Facts you have. I don't want to promote that. I know that women take care of a lot of niggas.
Lex P
They do.
Slim Thug
I don't agree with all that. I will keep it real, like. And say that. But at the end of the day, I'm not saying take care of no nigga. Let's be clear.
Lex P
But they do, though.
Slim Thug
I know it's a lot of women do that. And I salute the woman who see potential in dudes. But if a nigga ain't getting this shit together. Yeah, right. Don't fuck with no nigga who ain't, you know, getting this shit together. So I don't wanna say that either. So, yeah, I feel y'all on that.
Lex P
But I just feel like you have a skewed reality because you are so successful. You have maintained your money. You're a smart man. You have a skewed reality, Slim. You really do.
Slim Thug
About what?
Lex P
About.
Slim Thug
Okay, why y'all ain't giving me none?
Lex P
Because.
Drea Nicole
Well, first and foremost. First and foremost. Cause you ain't gonna joke. We give back on what we're even talking about because we didn't even say what the topic is. Okay, so we was trying to talk about. Slim had a video that has went viral recently where he was basically saying that he feels like black women require too much of black men for them to date us. To get some from us. And these women of other races, it takes way less what they trying to get from them.
Slim Thug
I'm just saying what I saw. This is not nothing I'm coming up with in my head. This is just life. This is what I see. You ask your kid, the dude in college. Ask anybody. This is what the facts is like. I'm not. This is not Slim Thug making up nothing. This is what's Real. I'm just telling y'all, y'all like, I tell y'all, I like black women.
Drea Nicole
Yeah.
Slim Thug
But I gotta go through obstacle courses as you. Y'all never gave me none. Okay? But Slim and I got my shit together. I'm like 0% type nigga paid off. House cars, paid off. I will take care of you all that. But y'all ain't gave me none because I just.
Drea Nicole
Slim, I am from Houston. I'm from Houston.
Slim Thug
So you should also know. You should know I got my shit together. Yeah, I know. How you. How many broke niggas have you fucked? It's the alcohol. It's the sugar daddy. My bad. It's the sugar daddy. How many broke niggas have you dealt with?
Drea Nicole
Not many.
Slim Thug
That's not Big Slim. And you ignore me?
Drea Nicole
Not Big Slim.
Slim Thug
You know what I'm saying, like. That's what I'm saying, like, you need to. As. I think as a sister. I'm telling y'all as a sister, we.
Lex P
Gonna call that sister.
Slim Thug
When n got they shit together. You gotta move different if that's what it is. Like, you know, like, I hear what y'all saying, like, girls taking care of niggas. Girls doing this for niggas. Okay? I don't have. I'm a nigga who got my shit together. Why y'all ain't giving nothing.
Drea Nicole
But I think a man have to move different when you got your shit together, too.
Slim Thug
As a woman, I would never let you pay for nothing. So that don't matter if you got your shit together. You a woman. Woman to me, I would. I'ma always play the man role. So your money don't mean.
Drea Nicole
But it ain't. But it's not even about you always paying for stuff, because that's a given. Anybody I deal with is gonna pay for stuff. Of course I'm not gonna pay for anything.
Slim Thug
Right.
Drea Nicole
That's a given. But I'm talking about. I just feel like a man needs to. If you are a woman who have your together, a man needs to go above and beyond.
Slim Thug
See, that's what we feeling.
Drea Nicole
No, we're not. Because I think as a woman, it's. You should be equally yolked with your man. I'm not saying that the woman should not go above and beyond as well.
Lex P
Right?
Drea Nicole
But I think are naturally the ones who are the quarters. You're trying to talk to me. You trying to holler at me.
Slim Thug
I'm gonna tell you what's up.
Drea Nicole
I'm a follow suit.
Slim Thug
I'm gonna Keep it real with y'all. Cause y'all from Houston, right? Y'all gonna end up taking care of. Y'all gonna end up taking care of. Cause y'all don't know who got their together.
Drea Nicole
You said we.
Slim Thug
Y'all gonna end up taking care of. Cause y'all don't know how to treat who got their together.
Drea Nicole
How do we not? How do you not?
Slim Thug
Cause y'all ain't. You want to put me through an operation obstacle. Y'all ain't gave me none.
Lex P
Okay, Slim.
Slim Thug
So now the nigga who gonna do all this romantic. Listen, I'm breaking it down to y'all in real time, okay? The nigga who gonna do the extra, the flowers, the dates, the fall asleep on the phone, he ain't got shit to do. A nigga like me got too much shit to do to do all that. But y'all don't treat me like, hey, man, if we was together, we'll be Beyonce and Jay Z. Y'all wanna put me through obstacle courses and shit, and I'm not going for it as a nigga.
Lex P
Put me through obstacle courses. He was doing everything.
Slim Thug
I wan King Jaffe treated like King Jaffe Joffe. I'm coming to America and I want to be treated. If I don't get treated like that, then I ain't. I want to be treated like the dude, the woman he went seeing when he got to America. I want the woman who was hopping on one foot.
Lex P
Okay?
Drea Nicole
Okay.
Slim Thug
I wouldn't have left Africa. I would have stayed.
Drea Nicole
But now, let me say this real quick. That's the problem. That is the fucking problem right there. I feel like that's why I always say successful men, men in your category, y'all don't really be wanting to be with. With boss women or women who don't got nothing going on. Because she can be at your beck and call and do whatever you need her to do. But just like you be hustling, I'm hustling too. That doesn't mean I can't still serve my man. But I'm hustling too.
Slim Thug
But at the end of the day, I'm telling you, you my sister, right? You gonna end up taking care of nigga. You gonna need an assistant. If a do all the shit you want him to do, he gonna be a nigger you gotta take care of it. Ain't gonna be a boss nigga like, so that's what I'm trying to get you to understand. But why y'all gonna have cause niggas who, like me, got access. Girls is giving it. Like, girls is going, but they're not. So why would we wait three months, two months, whatever you trying to put us?
Lex P
Because we're worth it.
Slim Thug
All right, cool. The same. I'm not even tripping on worth. I'm tripping on getting my food delivered, get my feet rubbed. Like.
Lex P
Because you keep talking about simple shit. Like, we can hire a maid to do that. We can hire a chef. We talking about intellectual.
Drea Nicole
Hell, I can pay the maid.
Lex P
We talking about intellectual decoy. And I'm gonna use you for an example.
Slim Thug
Let's go. Let's go.
Lex P
Cause you dated, you had a Latoya Lucky.
Slim Thug
And I'm gonna tell you, I love dating Latoya Lucky. Ladies like Latoya lucky fellas need $500 face cream. You see what I'm saying? When you date boss chicks, it comes at an expensive rate. They need the Birkins, they need. You can go get a latoya out the hood who ain't tripping on none of that. Who gonna rub your feet?
Lex P
So y'all wanna be bare minimum.
Slim Thug
Do whatever you want. Bare minimum women, it ain't bare minimum. It's just that I'm not clout chasing. You ain't gotta be bossed up and famous because I got my own money. So at the end of the day, if you wanna get with me, I still need that same type of love and service. I need at least full act. You ain't gonna treat me like no scrub.
Lex P
It's not. You can get that from a woman of value. You just have to get put the work in.
Slim Thug
A lot of the women of value not gonna.
Lex P
Because you not putting the work in. But.
Drea Nicole
But you brought up the example of Beyonce and Jay Z. And I feel like a lot of successful men bring that up, right? They be like, oh, we could be like Beyonce and Jay Z. But you don't want to Beyonce, though.
Slim Thug
I personally don't want to Beyonce. Ooh. Honestly. Because I want a woman who going to serve me. My love language is acts of service. You know what I'm saying? So I don't want a woman. I have to serve and be like her assistant.
Drea Nicole
So why do you have to be being an assistant? Why can't it not be doing something nice?
Slim Thug
Fellas, I'm on y'all side. I love this poor man. I'm going to keep real with y'all. Like, we here my. Like, I'mma keep it 1000 with y'all so my fellas gonna feel me at the end of the day, I'm gonna take L's from women. Cool. But I'm here to live a real life, man. Like. And that's at the end of the day when you deal with a bossed up chick. You gonna be her assistant.
Lex P
That is not server.
Slim Thug
You're gonna have to do all this. When you get you a chick. If you got your shit together, fellas. Get you a chick who cater to you. You need to get get you a woman woman. Get you a woman who can't say no to you fellas. If she try to put you on a three month program, leave her. Because the minute you have an argument, the coochie will be weaponized. The minute she you say something she don't like, the coochie will be weaponized. So at the end of the day, you gotta get a woman who can't say no to you. Who I. I don't care. What are you saying? Maybe man. I gotta have you, Daddy. I love you. Don't accept it. Straight up.
Drea Nicole
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Lex P
What's up y'all? It's your girl xp and it's your.
Drea Nicole
Girl Dre and Nicole.
Lex P
And one thing we do as humans, we love to talk about red flags. Red flag. Don't talk to him. Don't be friends with her. But what about the green flags in relationships that you should probably focus on?
Drea Nicole
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Lex P
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Drea Nicole
When was the.
Lex P
Last time you dated a successful woman?
Slim Thug
I dated a successful woman.
Drea Nicole
Probably latoya.
Slim Thug
No, if you're dating a successful woman now.
Lex P
So she's giving that to you.
Slim Thug
She giving me service. Yeah.
Lex P
So exactly. So a successful woman can do that.
Slim Thug
Yeah. So yeah. I'm not saying a successful woman can't do that. Let me Be clear now, but at the end of the day.
Lex P
Cause you're more successful than her.
Slim Thug
Are they. Are they gonna do that? Are you gonna do that?
Drea Nicole
Yes. Okay.
Slim Thug
I don't believe it. I don't know. I be following y'all on Instagram. I don't see of this cuz I don't post things.
Lex P
I do for my.
Slim Thug
I got you.
Lex P
I got a witness.
Drea Nicole
Yeah, I just.
Slim Thug
Your sister allow for sister a lot for you.
Lex P
I don't know.
Slim Thug
We going have to. We going to have to check the. We got to see the replay.
Drea Nicole
I feel like that's what make it hard for like successful women to find healthy relationships with men that are equally yolked with them. Like you said a lot of the time. Unfortunately, now that ain't going to be me. But women do be ending up with men that they have to take care of. And I feel like that's why, because men like you, you don't want y'all be intimidated by the successful woman.
Slim Thug
It's not intimidation at all. It's just that I want you to treat. I want you to service me. I want you to treat me like a man. Like do what a woman's supposed to do, cook for me, do all that type of stuff. A lot of the times we end up. If you got success, we end up being the assistant. You know what I'm saying?
Lex P
That's not true. No, that's not true.
Slim Thug
I feel like if a woman really.
Drea Nicole
Love you, she gonna do every. Like, she's going to do her best.
Slim Thug
Y'all really be cooking for y'all do. I ain't seen none of this. This. I follow y'all on Instagram, like all the inst. Where is it at? I never seen when I.
Lex P
Okay, so when I was in my relationship, I'm single now, but when I was in my relationship, I break.
Slim Thug
We ain't talking about no goddamn dinner every.
Lex P
And I'm talking about for the whole house.
Drea Nicole
She was cooking.
Slim Thug
What about you?
Lex P
I'm throwing down, I'm rubbing.
Drea Nicole
And all my friends will tell you I can cook.
Lex P
Cause I love it. Ain't about no money. No. I was happy with him. So when a man made me happy, that ain't nothing. Cause guess what? I built my business so I could have freedom.
Drea Nicole
Yeah.
Lex P
I don't wanna work a lot. I work smarter, not harder. So a real woman to me is somebody that knows how to have that balance. So I'm gonna have that balance for my friends. I'm gonna have that balance for my man. And I'm gonna have that balance for my business because that's what I want. I want to build a legacy.
Slim Thug
Let me say this. I don't blame same women, like, especially black women, because y'all had to step up and damn near play the man role a lot of the time, you know, in life. So I don't never look down on it or knock it, but I'm just so King Joffy, Joffy. I know my love language. I need to ask the service. And I know I probably won't get it from a lot of high level women, so I don't look for that, you know, And I. And I think that, yeah, I think that when you're dealing with women with a lot of, you know, their own money clout, a lot of you lose a lot of even just regular. I'm so regular, I want to take a picture of you on some joke. You might be like, I ain't got my makeup on, please. That's why I moved from, you know. You know, I don't live in LA because I'm such a regular person. I want to do. Do real. A lot of the times when you're dealing with people of status, and there ain't nothing wrong with that, you gotta. You got a lot of you gotta look out for, you know what I'm saying?
Lex P
Well, I think that you said it. You said, dealing with women of high level, and then you said, black women are hard to deal with. Well, that just lets us know that.
Slim Thug
I said black women are hard to deal with.
Lex P
You did. You said, black women are hard to deal with.
Slim Thug
And you said, I don't think. Let me clear that up. I'm on this D. Sugar Daddy, what you call it?
Drea Nicole
Sugar Daddy Slim.
Slim Thug
Black women are not hard to deal with, but getting into a black woman is hard to get.
Lex P
Good.
Slim Thug
That's not a negative statement.
Lex P
Be more strict.
Slim Thug
That's not a negative statement. If I would have said black women are freaks and give it up the first night, it would have sounded crazy. So if I go viral for saying black women don't give it up easy, I'm cool with that. But at the end of the day, I only speak on what I see. Like, I say, I think both of y'all bad, but y'all never gave me none. And I'm a nigga. I'm a 17 Rolls Royce. I don't understand it, like, why, but everybody else, you know, huh?
Lex P
Cause I'm a woman of value. I don't care what you got.
Slim Thug
But at the end of the day, like, do you want a nigga who got his shit together or not?
Lex P
Of course.
Slim Thug
So act like, give me something. Like, I got my shit. Can you Google the numbers? Like, can we Google the numbers of niggas who got their shit together?
Lex P
I mean, they're slim. They are slim.
Drea Nicole
No pun intended, right?
Slim Thug
So can we. Can a nigga who got his shit together get special treatment like y'all always complaining about, man? Nah, it don't seem like.
Drea Nicole
But it need to be surprising.
Slim Thug
Nah, for real. Like, real life. For real. I'm keeping it real. Like, real life. Like, man, I work hard, man, like you say, since I was a teenager, I worked hard to be a millionaire, to sustain success, to have my shit together, man. Can I get some special treatment like y'all? And after I be, like, in DM shooting shots, I see women mess with N and break up, and I be like, damn, you gave that nigga a chance. And I. It's weird, but at the end of the day, if you want a nigga who got his shit together, you might have to put that obstacle course down for a little bit bit. And also, just as a brother, talking to my women like, you know, I'm on a sugar daddy, but I'm gonna keep it real with y'all on some real shit, just like, on some real. Like, you know, real. Give y'all some game type shit. If I met you, right, let's say, Dre, because I don't want to get shot. If I met you and we, you know, we start dating. You know what I'm saying? I'm a nigga who got his shit together. I don't have to say no. I mean, I can get some every night if I want. From. Even if you call her whatever you call the women you sleep with, I can get some, right?
Drea Nicole
Right?
Slim Thug
You like? Nah, nigga, we ain't fucking on the first night. We gotta wait whatever. We gotta do a month. Why wouldn't you want to keep me focused on you? If you gave me that first night and we clicking, I'm not going nowhere.
Drea Nicole
But I gotta give you some time for you to stay focused on.
Lex P
Exactly. If my pussy is the only thing that's gonna keep you focused, then you not the man for me. Yeah, I don't like men who are weakened by the pussy. If pussy drives you to keep you focused on me, then we need to end this shit right now.
Drea Nicole
I definitely feel like that shouldn't be the main thing that keep you focused on me, because I haven't gave you none. You still focused on other Girls, if you trying to get to know me and you really like me, it's gonna happen regardless.
Slim Thug
I want a real nigga to go settlement y'all. Well, no, I'm saying no because Jackie.
Drea Nicole
No, because I'm not even a type of person.
Slim Thug
Down, man. Y'all living in Disneyland. I'm keeping it real with y'all, like a real person.
Lex P
But I'm saying that first date, I don't expect you to not be fucking. We're not exclusive. We trying to feel each other out. You can do what you want to do.
Slim Thug
So you don't mind that I don't.
Lex P
Because we're getting to know each other.
Slim Thug
Cause I think. I think the smartest thing is. See, that's toxic. You talking about you still fucking with other niggas?
Lex P
We're trying to figure it out.
Slim Thug
But look, if we was really on some real shit and some genuine shit, the smartest thing to do, the best thing to do, is you give me some the first night.
Lex P
No.
Slim Thug
And I focus on you from that point on. I don't go back to my old bitches.
Lex P
But it's the first case.
Slim Thug
You don't know and then cloud up our relationship. It's real. I only been fucking with you this whole time. Cause you always got my shit together. You rubbing my feet, bringing my meals and giving me some as much as I needed. I wanna eat. I have to go to my old chick to sleep with her. Y'all don't know. Y'all think y'all doing something smart, but y'all making it easy for a nigga to start. You starting a relationship with toxic shit. Because he gotta go fuck his old girl until you ready. You know what I'm saying? That's not good.
Drea Nicole
You should not have hips until you're ready to have orgasms.
Lex P
I do not have an orgasm unless there is some kind of mental connection there. We're not going to get a mental connection one day.
Drea Nicole
Well, I mean, some people say they do. I haven't personally.
Slim Thug
A lot of the times I slept with the woman on the first date, we ended up lasting for years.
Drea Nicole
So what happened, though?
Slim Thug
What happened? Nothing happened. Like you know that's what I'm saying. Because I respect a woman who know it. I'm grown first. Y'all be on high school. We grown ups. Y'all be having kids. Talking about y'all celibate. I don't got kids. We ain't trying to. Man. We ain't trying to hear that settlement shit.
Lex P
There's no proof that a man has ever fucked.
Slim Thug
We ain't trying to hear that, man.
Drea Nicole
You could be born again after having kids.
Slim Thug
God bless you. But we ain't trying to hear that settlement shit. We don't care if you stop for six months. We don't give a damn about none of that.
Lex P
There is no proof that a man has ever fucked me. Cause I ain't got no kids, no receipt. No receipt.
Drea Nicole
Same.
Lex P
Nobody has ever had sex with me.
Slim Thug
Same. See what I'm saying fellas? I'm telling you, man, move like Big Slim, man.
Drea Nicole
No move like Big Slim. Because I feel like relationships need to be reciprocal. And from what you saying, that's not reciprocity in a relationship. Because you talking about what you're not gonna do. But then you want her to serve you. You want her to do all of these things. But you already said I don't want.
Slim Thug
To get to pull up Valentine's Day. Did y'all see the money roses on the suit? But you just said, did y'all see the next day on the honey foot yacht? Like it's receptive. What are you talking about?
Drea Nicole
And that's cool for Valentine's Day, but you literally just said I don't have the time to talk to you every day.
Lex P
Well, I'm not gonna lie. I don't want to take up for Slim. But I will say he posts a lot of stuff. He does a lot for whoever he's dating. A lot that he does post. Cause he gonna post.
Slim Thug
And it's really the same person. He does. It's really the same person.
Lex P
Oh, I know your tea. I know.
Slim Thug
And it's been over, right? You already know. She already know. Like so you know, I'm out here saying this, you know, I just don't want to be caught up in y'all names of marriage, of girlfriend, boyfriend. I'm doing my thing my own way. But it's non contractional. So it's like we here cause we wanna be here. It don't get no realer than that. You know what I'm saying? You ain't here cause we got kids together. Together. We here every day because we want to be here. And with that being we didn't 25 countries.
Lex P
So why haven't you married the girl you've been dealing with?
Slim Thug
We just, we, we, we ain't spend 10,000 hours together, first of all. But first of all, we met on different terms. You know, I. At that time, at that time I was dating somebody or not with them, but like just, you know, having fun. And then she Was dating somebody or whatever. So we met on that type of turn term where we was not even thinking relationship, you know, but over at the end of the day, by service, by good. Having a good day with rubbing a person, it's. It's six years, seven years later, 25 countries later, it's not nothing contractional. But at the end of the day, if you showing up and making me have a good day, then I'm gonna show out for you, you know what I'm saying? And that's how that go, you know what I'm saying?
Lex P
But she's black.
Slim Thug
Definitely black. Yeah, she speak other languages? Well, yeah, she black.
Lex P
That's giving Dominican.
Slim Thug
No, but, yeah, but at the end of the day, that's what I'm trying to tell y'all, man, real life, like a lot of the times, if you in dating life, man, a lot of times stop thinking you can predict this. Like why we think we got to have, oh, we've been messing around two years, you better give proposals five years. Like if we trying to live, I give myself 100 years. I don't give a fuck what nobody say. I'm not gonna make that 100 year decision on two years. I'm not making 100 year decision on five years. We gonna keep fucking around for 10 years. Cause I believe that's how long it takes to get to know somebody 100% and see if some shit is real, you know what I'm saying? After that, we will make big decisions, lifelong decisions, you know what I'm saying? And I only have to after that.
Drea Nicole
Well, I admire how you double down on the shit you say. Cuz I'm the same.
Lex P
Oh, he not taking shit back.
Drea Nicole
I be doubling down too.
Lex P
I thought he was an apology.
Drea Nicole
I always be wondering, I be like, every time something go viral, that Slim say, I wonder if he be like, damn, I shouldn't have said that. Now I know you don't.
Slim Thug
It's clickbait really. Like at the end of the day, man, anybody who know Big Slim knows the positive shit I've did in the community, every area of life. So at the end of the day, as a black person, you know me owning my masters is so important, you know, being black is so important to me. So any of that clickbait, they file for them little 2 seconds lines, or lines of 90% of shit I'm telling young black men, help. Showing them how to get they shit together, whatever it is. I'm always giving positive information out. But they'll take the little clickbait and make it go viral. But I feel like that only work against people who don't know me. You know what I'm saying?
Lex P
And I will say a lot of times people be wanting like the reason. I see a lot of people like attack you on the Internet because you do be saying some wild shit. But I will say I never have been the person to be like, oh, fuck slim and all this stuff because at the end of the day, you have an opinion on your things. Maybe I don't agree with them or whatever it may be, but at the end of the day, as a black man, you do what you supposed to do for Houston and the community.
Drea Nicole
You do.
Slim Thug
Yeah.
Lex P
And you definitely are a person who puts, put your, your actions behind your words. You do a lot for Houston. So it's kind of like not saying that you can get away with murder, but it's like, you know what I'm saying? You're a person that even though you may say things that offend people, you do what you're supposed to do for. What's up, y'all?
Drea Nicole
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Slim Thug
Can y'all please just tell me, like, some real stuff that I said that may have offended people just so I can, like, have a conversation?
Lex P
I will. Well, yeah. When you did. When you said the Diddy stuff.
Drea Nicole
Yeah.
Lex P
And you did come back and you know, but I.
Slim Thug
All right, let me say my point on that. All right. Cause y'all my sister. I don't mind if it's on here. Okay. With Diddy, I believe that. Him. I've been sued before for some shit I ain't did.
Lex P
Yeah.
Slim Thug
You know what I'm saying? So I know how lawyers work. And on the other side of shit, if you got success and you got some money, a lawyer won't even charge you. They'll say, hey, man, let's make up a story to sue him for some shit he ain't did. You know, so off top, as a black man, I'm trying to protect, I want to see young black men see black billionaires. You know what I'm saying? So I was protecting Didion, man. He went through no dumb shit like that. But at the same time, honestly, I would keep it real with you. I don't believe he still did all that shit they saying now. I seen the tape and that made me fall back on saying anything for him because I totally think that was dumb and out of line. But he not in jail for that. He in jail for some all kind of shit. They just said Jay Z did that. They just this the same lawyer. You see what I'm saying? So a lot of the times shit that you get sued for might not necessarily be true. So I automatically would think a black billionaire at Diddy status wouldn't do all this crazy shit they accusing them of. You know what I'm saying? And I was just trying to say we seen that happen to Bill Cosby. We seen that happen to Kanye west go bad. Like, not the same situation. It just seemed like every billionaire. Billionaire that's black is under some, you know, crazy.
Lex P
I don't think it's about black billionaires. I think about. I think it's about billionaires in general. Capitalism is a thing. And you don't become a billionaire by being a great person. So I think a lot of the times, these people, you don't. Your mind doesn't process like that because you're not an evil person.
Slim Thug
Right.
Lex P
So I have been around men of power who are. I've seen things in them that are. They're just evil people, not good people. And being a woman, we see a different side of men that you don't see, because when they come around sleeping.
Drea Nicole
They'Re not gonna show.
Slim Thug
Big bro.
Drea Nicole
Big bro.
Lex P
Because you're an equal to.
Slim Thug
That could be true.
Lex P
It doesn't matter how much money I make, how much successful tours I do, I will never be an equal to a man. They will never look at me like that. When I walk into a meeting, I'm a bitch. When you walk into a meeting, you're assertive and you know what you want.
Slim Thug
Totally understand that.
Lex P
So I think with that, I feel like a lot of the times, yes, people do lie. But I'm telling you right now, as a woman who has been through things, it's more people are telling the truth and people who are lying. So, yes, there's probably people who are suing Diddy that weren't telling the truth. But from somebody who. I have a friend who was personally. Used to work for him, she was a chef for him who went through some very traumatizing shit. And it's like. It's just. I feel like sometimes we need to listen before we speak out. And you have such a big platform. So I think with situations like. Cause you don't you just be talking.
Slim Thug
Nah, it's just like really on my live, when I be going live, which always go viral, It'd be like 100, 200 people. Right?
Lex P
Right.
Slim Thug
And they. That's the topic of today. Right. And they'll just ask me what you. What do you think?
Drea Nicole
Right.
Slim Thug
And I just say what I think. Like, honestly, like, I really didn't believe that he would do something crazy like.
Lex P
That, you know, because you wouldn't do nothing like that.
Slim Thug
Facts.
Drea Nicole
But that.
Slim Thug
I'm not. It's just my opinion. At the end of the day, I don't. I'm not. I don't know if I'm right or wrong. It's like everybody got their opinion of if he did it or. Or didn't. I just said my opinion, and it went viral. You know what I'm saying? I don't know him. Like, I don't. Like you say, I don't know. I don't know him like that, but it just sounded so crazy. And like, I say, it was more about, man, I feel like they putting some on Bill Cosby. I feel like they putting some on. They trying to take all our black billionaires down. It was more defending on that standpoint. But I don't personally know him at all. You know what I'm saying? But that's what that was on. What else? Please.
Drea Nicole
Well, no, that's. To be honest, I feel like that's just really it. I think that was the main things that you. Was that you got backlash for.
Slim Thug
I go back. Go ahead. Come on, come on. Let's address it on y'all. I'd rather do it on some Houston platform and y'all beautiful black women. I want to talk about whatever it is right here. Let's go.
Drea Nicole
I thought that was really.
Lex P
No, that's it. That's it.
Drea Nicole
I just feel like, like I said, it's more so kind of going back to what Lex was saying. Just the fact that, like, because you do have so many followers and you do have such a big platform and so many people that follow you, I just think it definitely offends people because they just be like, damn, why would he say that? Because you're speaking from a place of not knowing. Cool is your opinion. But you don't know whether or not these people actually did these things that.
Slim Thug
I. I've learned that that whole thing is just a sensitive topic, right?
Drea Nicole
It is, because a lot of women have been through stuff like that, see?
Slim Thug
And I believe that people apply whatever they've been through to that situation. But at the same time, as a man who has success, I know that a lot of the times, a lot of people be just trying to get money, and we got to keep it real on that side, too. That's not the same situation that happened at home to, you know, a lot of women. That's really real. You know what I'm saying? Or whatever. And you know, that we can really identify. Not to say that whatever happened ain't really happened. No, whatever. I'm just saying, like, a lot of people attach that to that. And that's why, oh, you said this. You can't ever go against that or whatever. When really the people ask me my opinion. And I just said it, Ben.
Lex P
And I. And I hear what you're saying.
Slim Thug
I don't know. I'm not swearing to God I'm right. I don't know if I'm not.
Lex P
But you know what? This is the thing that's the issue though. Because even though you feel like, oh, I'm just giving my opinion, you know how many lame ass niggas and lame feel how often they say what Slim says is so anything that you say, even though you're like, this is my opinion. What your words hold so much weight to these people. So then you have these same people who are under these fake pages who are under these blogs and they are harassing these victims. So I think sometimes you don't realize how heavy and important your words are to a lot of people who follow you. You know what I'm saying?
Slim Thug
I agree with that. Like. Cause really, I don't think like that because like I say when I be like, It'd just be 100, 200 people. Yeah.
Drea Nicole
You probably don't be thinking it's gonna go by.
Slim Thug
I don't know when it's gonna. I don't know what they gonna pick and put on other platforms. And a lot of the times when I do be on my platform, as you see, if you follow me, I take it down.
Lex P
Yeah.
Slim Thug
Stop people from taking it. But. So I don't really pick out or send it to nobody. That's my opinion. When y'all see me go viral, it's never me sending it out to nobody or nothing like that. It's just them taking what I said or a piece of what I said and making it that now that was my opinion. You know, I will accept. I did say that when I seen that video, I stopped giving my opinion.
Lex P
Yeah.
Slim Thug
I told it because that. That surprised me. I didn't think that would go that crazy. But at the end of the day, man, like I say, it was on some, man, I think they attacking black billionaires. And I won't, you know, I think our young men need to see black billionaires. So it was based on that. Like, I don't know none of these people personally to say if they did or did anything, but I just had my opinion on it.
Lex P
Well, if you wanna take a stand, teach the young black youth how to be providers, then.
Slim Thug
Providers on what that mean? What that mean?
Lex P
Like you said, you gonna take care of everything and how.
Drea Nicole
You didn't speak like that.
Lex P
Teach them that.
Slim Thug
Is that fair for everybody?
Lex P
Yes.
Slim Thug
That ain't fair for everybody.
Lex P
No, I'm not. When I say a provider, I'm not talking about bills. When I say provide, it's beyond that. It's never monetary. I'm talking about, you provide a safe space for your woman. You are providing more than just, oh, I'm here, and I'm paying the bills. Because being a provider is beyond just paying the rent. You know what I'm saying? You have to be a safe. As a black woman in this world, we never feel protected. It's never nobody in these blogs sticking up for us.
Slim Thug
I said I voted for Kamala Harris. I vote for the black women. I be taking up for y'all, but y'all still be taking me down.
Drea Nicole
No, we don't. That is not true.
Lex P
What the.
Slim Thug
Caught up in all the other drama, I'll be the one who's standing up for black women. Y'all say I don't like black women. That's crazy. I never dated outside of my race, but okay, you know, But I still get accused of not liking black women. Like, so it's like, you know, But I try to. I try to do my part. We feel you. We feel, but I be taking a lot of Ls, you know, doing it, and even this. You. You don't. You think black women should be easy? I was just giving y'all a real opinion once again, you know, I guess. Guess people don't like opinions. Yeah, yeah, they don't if it's not like theirs.
Drea Nicole
Yeah.
Slim Thug
But I want to tell everybody, if to have a real conversation, you and. And to be a real person, you have to be able to sit down with somebody you don't agree with. You know what I'm saying? And be able to not hate them. After y'all get up, be able to still smoke that blunt. You ain't got to think like me. You ain't gotta agree with me. You can have a different opinion with me. That's not against the. You know, at the end of the day, that's what conversation is. And maybe if I tell you my points, I like when. And a lot of the times, not a lot of the times, but sometimes somebody can sit me down and say they points of view, and I change and think, okay, that makes sense. Now. I Agree with you.
Lex P
Do we change our mind today?
Slim Thug
I mean, on what? On what? Like, I like. I don't care.
Lex P
A high value woman.
Slim Thug
No. Cause I'm telling y'all, y'all. That's what I'm trying to tell y'all.
Drea Nicole
He said we gonna end up taking care of somebody.
Slim Thug
Y'all gonna end up taking care of niggas. I put that Color Purple curse on everybody who ain't ever give me nothing.
Lex P
I told you, Slim, if.
Slim Thug
I told you, I try to get you gonna take care of.
Lex P
If I'm still single by the time.
Slim Thug
I'm 40, I'm not waiting. I'm a whole. I got my 17 Rolls Royce. Y'all gonna take care of niggas. And that's what y'all want. Because y'all don't respect niggas who got they shit together.
Drea Nicole
Well, what makes you think we don't respect them?
Slim Thug
Cause y'all ain't gave me none.
Drea Nicole
So just because I gave you none, that mean we don't respect?
Slim Thug
I done been nice to y'all, y'all, several times. Y'all ain't never. We ain't been on a date nothing. So it's like, take care of nigga. If. If that's what you want. You want a to do all that? That's gonna do all that. Y'all want take care of that.
Drea Nicole
Well, I can confirm. Me and Lex can both confirm. Y'all need to stop saying Slim Thug, though, like black women, cuz he definitely.
Lex P
He loves black women. No, I never felt that way.
Drea Nicole
No, I never felt that way either. But I feel like people probably try to put that on you because realistically speaking, a lot of men in your. Of your status and in your position, they don't like black women.
Slim Thug
No, once again, that's why I'm trying to talk to y'all. That's why I'm trying to come to Portmy no more and give y'all the game. Now, y'all talk down on these men, but this is the fucking problem. Y'all putting us through obstacle courses. Them niggas don't want to go fuck with them women, but y'all putting them through obstacle courses. Give the nigga some and he gon be with you. That's what I'm saying. That's what I'm trying to get y'all understand?
Lex P
Next first date I go on, I'm gonna give him some. And if he dumped me, not anybody. Blam.
Slim Thug
How you facts. You said try, try not. Not just like, that's What I'm saying, Like, not anybody or everybody but a. You really like. Like, I think I really like this. Like, he could be the. You know what I'm saying? Give him everything. Give him everything.
Lex P
I did. That didn't work out for me.
Slim Thug
Try.
Lex P
So what we got, y'all?
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Slim Thug
Nepotism.
Drea Nicole
Because I think that when it's other races, right, with nepotism, people praise it. And that's like, the goal. Like, you're supposed to make a lot of money so that your children can reap the benefits of it. But for some reason, when it comes to the black community, we have like, these super rich Black celebrities like LeBron, and then their kids are getting to reap the benefits. Or Will Smith and Jada. Their kids are getting to reap the benefits of all of their success. But people, and especially in the black community are talking down on it. Like, I've seen so many people online saying, oh, Barney shouldn't have even got drafted to the Lakers that quick because he wasn't that good.
Slim Thug
That's haters.
Drea Nicole
And whether that's. That's neither here nor there. But the point of becoming successful, I thought, is so that you could put your. Your children on and your grandchildren and nobody have to worry about nothing or go through the same things that you went through. Why do y'all think that that's so. Like, a lot of black people are so against it.
Slim Thug
Hating, man. Like, it's. It's, it's. It's. It's rare. On a cool speaking. Let's go back to the common denominator of what it is? Y'all ain't giving it up enough. Now the generational wealth is going to the white woman he married. Come on, man, let's talk about it. Let's keep it real.
Drea Nicole
So it's all about they marrying a white woman?
Slim Thug
Yes. Cause you're not giving. You calling him brokey. You saying motto to the nigga. Cause he ain't got his shit together. Nigga can't even give generational wealth. Cause he got baby mamas over here. I can't. Who? I ain't giving my money to her or him. I wanna it out in the house. You know what I'm saying? Like, stop playing with niggas, man. Is what my personal opinion is, man. So we can continue generation of wealth. We can keep this thing going. You know what I'm saying? Y'all sending a nigga away by putting him through obstacle courses, man, my womb.
Lex P
Is very like having a baby.
Slim Thug
We could be, man, putting money together and having.
Drea Nicole
Please, not the three of us.
Slim Thug
Not like that. I was just saying, like, me and you, we could be. You know what I'm saying?
Lex P
Okay. I say this, though. I do think sometimes black people are addicted to the thought of that. Starting from the bottom right here and there.
Slim Thug
Everybody gotta start from the bottom.
Lex P
But what I'm saying is black people are addicted to that struggle story.
Slim Thug
Not addicted. They love it. Not addicted. But the cycle keeps us where we always gotta keep. Starting from the bottom.
Lex P
No, I don't want that.
Slim Thug
And that's what I'm saying. That's why you need to start. When you see a dude you like, you really fuck with, give him some and keep it in the black community. Two bosses. Cause now we can't put our dollars together. Because I can't mess with you. Cause you treat me like a scrub. Like I can't. I'm King Jaffe Joffy, and he treat me like I'm Simeon.
Drea Nicole
Okay? I am so weak. So how do you feel about nepotism? Like, obviously, with you being a super black successful man, how do you feel about nepotism?
Lex P
How many kids you got?
Slim Thug
I got three sons and three sons. So it's like they ruined. They stole my family life for me. You know, I wanted a family.
Lex P
They stole it.
Slim Thug
They stole it. Cause I was a rapper getting money and wanted that child support. They stole that from me. Now I gotta have my kids all over town. How am I. How we gonna do generational wealth? You see what I'm saying?
Lex P
They stole. You gave it away.
Slim Thug
They stole it from me.
Lex P
How?
Slim Thug
They Stole it. I don't know. They stole it. They knew we weren't gonna get married, but we have kids together, so it's like they stole it from me. And that's what I stand on.
Drea Nicole
Would you have more kids?
Slim Thug
I'm fixed. I've been fixed over 12 years.
Lex P
Yeah, he did say that he's not having no more kids.
Slim Thug
So that's the. And that's another thing, fellas. Get. Get fixed. Get fixed.
Lex P
So how are we supposed to create this generational. That's why you have a baby, only.
Slim Thug
Have children with who you gonna marry. Man, do not do that 20 year old shit, bro. That's baby mamas. That's setbacks at work. You gonna have to sell dope because you the back pay got you at work behind get fixed. You know, you can't trust a woman worried on if, you know, stop having baby mamas. That's one of the biggest ways of not having a Rose Royce, because you got to pay child support. So.
Lex P
And how old are your kids?
Slim Thug
12 is my youngest.
Lex P
Okay.
Slim Thug
6Ft, 19 is my second, and then 23 is my oldest.
Lex P
Okay, so you almost out of there with the child support.
Drea Nicole
Almost out of there, fellas, he said, and I ain't.
Lex P
Do you feel like that nepotism, like you're doing that for your children, like.
Drea Nicole
You'Re setting like you're giving them a leg up cuz you're so successful?
Slim Thug
Yeah, but honestly, they don't. They ain't hustlers like me, one of them. You know, it's hard to get kids who privileged to be hustlers like you, who ain't, you know, from the struggle. But, you know, it's hard to build that in them, you know what I'm saying? So. And then too, like I'm telling y'all, I'm just giving y'all real examples. Like, I got three baby mamas. Some of my kids was raised with their mother and their. Her husband, you know what I'm saying? So they might look like me, but I don't act like, like me, you know, or whatever. So that's my whole point of, of saying. What I'm saying is because I, I witnessed that. I lived it. You want your kids to be in your household, you know what I'm saying? You want to be able to leave your legacy to your kids. You want your kids to act like you.
Lex P
Yeah, right.
Slim Thug
You know, so you only want to have kids when it's real and when you don't want baby mamas and you want to have a Real family.
Lex P
That's real.
Slim Thug
So it take 10 years for that? I, I.
Lex P
What do you mean, 10 years?
Drea Nicole
He said 10 years. Getting to know a person.
Slim Thug
10 years before you have a baby. Seven hours. Yeah. Before you have a baby with a person.
Lex P
Oh, I don't got 10 years, Slim. I'm 35.
Drea Nicole
And I'm 33. I don't got a 10 year old.
Slim Thug
You starting late as hell. Exactly, but that's on you. But you should have started your 10,000 way before that.
Lex P
I did.
Slim Thug
All right?
Drea Nicole
I did.
Lex P
So now what? I started my 10 years, and he wasted my time. So now what?
Slim Thug
I don't. I mean, I would love to sit down and have a conversation with.
Lex P
Moving on. So now, Dre, you got anything else you want to add?
Slim Thug
I live in reality space. It's hard to. Yeah, well, I would love to. Yeah. Love to have a conversation. Yeah.
Lex P
Now.
Drea Nicole
So what you was saying how your day was.
Lex P
I mean, it was straight. I just feel like I just have so much going on with.
Drea Nicole
Why are you sneaking some of my. Like, why.
Lex P
Why did you just do that?
Drea Nicole
What are you talking about?
Lex P
Dreya?
Drea Nicole
What?
Lex P
That's very weird, bro.
Drea Nicole
What is weird? Because if you wanted some, you could have got it. But I didn't even do nothing.
Lex P
All you had to do was ask. This is my. I'm.
Drea Nicole
What are y'all talking about?
Lex P
And then on top of that, you.
Drea Nicole
Know the stuff that I'm going through?
Lex P
I haven't gotten my. My food stamps.
Drea Nicole
Oh, my God. They done took all that stuff. So this is all that I have. I didn't even know that. And I didn't do anything.
Lex P
You literally got mayonnaise on your cheek, bro. Oh, okay.
Drea Nicole
My bad.
Lex P
This is why I can't.
Drea Nicole
Well, I was just a little hungry, too. Cause I didn't get my food stamps neither.
Lex P
You don't even get food.
Drea Nicole
You don't even get food stamps. You don't know my business. You don't know my struggle. So you can't feel my hustle.
Lex P
Now it's time to get into the bed. How you doing over there? You still.
Drea Nicole
This is that blue Spirulina.
Slim Thug
Spirulina. You get them in my smoothies?
Lex P
Yeah, Absolutely.
Slim Thug
Yeah. What is it good for?
Drea Nicole
Let's say so it's good. It has a lot of proteins, a lot of nutrients. It helps with, like, losing belly fat. It also helps with reducing your cholesterol and your high blood levels.
Slim Thug
Thank you. I sure appreciate it.
Lex P
But you know what? Slim is real quick on that, cuz. You said you put that in your smoothies. I want to say that it is very important. I love that about you. You be in the gym every day. You work out. And I think that is why. Like, because I'm not gonna lie, Slim, you're a. You're an attractive man. You're very handsome.
Slim Thug
Why you ain't never gave me none.
Lex P
Oh, my God.
Slim Thug
We've been knowing each other since Belvedere. We've been knowing each other since Belvedere. What year was Belvedere?
Lex P
Belvedere. That was probably 2009, 2010.
Drea Nicole
I was in high school.
Lex P
Yeah, I was outside. No, I was outside. I was grown. I'm older than Draya.
Drea Nicole
I wasn't in Belleville in 2009.
Lex P
Yeah, yeah.
Slim Thug
The year that we met, though, that.
Drea Nicole
Was probably like 20. I said I was 23, so that was probably 2015, 2014.
Slim Thug
Yep.
Lex P
Yeah, you crazy.
Slim Thug
I just keep it real. And everybody don't like me. Cause I do that.
Lex P
It's okay. But no, I was saying that you're handsome.
Slim Thug
You take mine.
Lex P
You take good care of yourself. So that's an important message for you to give.
Drea Nicole
I work out every day, too.
Slim Thug
Yeah, it look like it. Y'all fine.
Lex P
Yeah, I definitely be. I don't work out every day like she does, but I definitely be in the gym.
Slim Thug
Y'all both look good.
Lex P
I have lost how much weight I lost? I lost 17 pounds. This man is what he said was occupied.
Slim Thug
I would take both of y'all down. I like y'all. That what I'm saying. Like, it should be. It shouldn't be this hard. Like we should have been. We should have. We should have. You know what I'm saying? But y'all don't. So y'all gonna have to take care of niggas.
Lex P
He talking about. Y'all gonna have to say you funny.
Drea Nicole
Fell on a dre. Go ahead.
Lex P
I'm a weed.
Slim Thug
Y'all gotta take care of nigga. I'm telling y'all stand on too much business.
Lex P
I have to stand on business.
Slim Thug
You think that, but you end up taking care of nigga when you stand on too much business. That's what I'm trying to tell you, sister. I'm trying to wake you up like this.
Lex P
You ain't. I'm.
Slim Thug
I'm telling you, you ain't woke up. Just keep watching. I didn't see. I'm 44. You gotta realize I'm the old nigga in this situation. So I'm only saying what I see. I'm not making nothing Up. I'm saying what I've seen. I have a lot of girls who I've dealt with, who we talk like brothers and sisters or whatever the relationship was. I'm saying what I see, man.
Lex P
I'm not gonna lie. But honestly, though, being too much business.
Slim Thug
Sullivan, C. Alice. Oh, no, I'm not doing it, man. Listen, man is going to get it. Black men is going to get some, period.
Lex P
I'm not going to lie to you, though. Being single and being alone doesn't scare me either, though. I'm not a person. Like, oh, if I never get married and have kids, that doesn't. I have community. I feel like now I do feel like humans are built.
Slim Thug
Sound wild. LI.
Lex P
No, when I say community, I mean like, my friends and my family. I got a community of that. That's what I mean. My sisters.
Slim Thug
Okay?
Lex P
But I say because, like, being single and being alone, that's not the worst thing in the world.
Slim Thug
It's definitely not the worst thing. And I think people need to do that to find themselves to do that. Sleep by yourself and be comfortable with it, you know what I'm saying? That way, when you do get in a relationship, it's because you want to be in a relationship. You got to be so happy with being alone that you don't. That a person come along. They gotta blow your mind enough to make you get that up, you know what I'm saying? Because it's fun, like, being able to do whatever you want to do. It's a. It's. When you got your together, it's a beautiful life, you know?
Drea Nicole
So, yeah, I'm not taking care of nobody's son. I just feel like I'm not afraid to be single either. I. More so I'm gonna be satisfied. I'll be satisfied. But I feel like you can go have a kid with an extra.
Slim Thug
Okay, let's talk about it. I'm keeping it real with y'all.
Drea Nicole
Yeah, marriage take a little more.
Slim Thug
This is what my sister said to me. Oh, they lived a great life. Got they shit together, good money, I think in the medical field. 38, 39. Crying to me. I just don't know, Slim. I don't know if I'm getting older. I might not get married. I might not have kids. I might not. This is what happens. I'm telling you. I'm keeping it real with y'all. It panic mode. And then when panic mode, what's gonna happen? You're gonna have a fat nigga you don't really love like, and have a Baby with him. Exactly. Just cause you gotta have a baby now, you know what I'm saying? I'm keeping it real with y'all, man. I'm just keeping it real. I'm saying what I saw, man, you know, And I just want y'all to wake up and realize sometimes you can't stand on too much business. You gotta understand. Hey, man, this nigga ain't perfect. This nigga 80% though, you know, he got his shit together. A lot of niggas don't got they shit together. It ain't that many niggas who got their shit together together. We can build from this, we can build from that. I don't have to put them through an obstacle course because the white is gonna give him some tonight. I'll let. I'm. I'm talking to y'all like y'all from Houston. I'm gonna keep it real with y'all, you know what I'm saying? So that's what my point. Everybody ain't gonna agree with it, you know, Everybody gonna, you know, have their own opinions. But I'm telling y'all what.
Lex P
I feel like I'm the cream of the crop.
Slim Thug
You a baddie. Both of y'all baddies.
Lex P
But beyond the baddie, it's a lot of baddies. Everybody baddies.
Drea Nicole
I feel like I have everything.
Lex P
Mom and dad mentality and my moral.
Slim Thug
What do you. What do you want? You. What do you want out of a dude?
Lex P
Honestly, right now, I want somebody who is equally yoked and they want to build something. Like, I feel like I'm still building my legacy.
Slim Thug
I'm still building financially how he got.
Lex P
To have his together financially. I want somebody that's equally yolked or more so billion dollar.
Slim Thug
Basically over a six figure type. Yeah, six figure type with my video I wish I had in my pocket is like 15%. If you talking about every race, then if you want to talk about you in Atlanta, there's so many gay, rich niggas out here. They out of there. Niggas who married, who got their shit together. Niggas who six foot, six tall niggas who are Virgo.
Drea Nicole
I'm a glorious.
Slim Thug
It's a zero percent of niggas. And y'all don't realize that, but I'm.
Lex P
A zero percent of women.
Slim Thug
Facts. But at the end of the day, like, I'm. We the same, right? So what the fuck? Like, we gonna be looking. We gonna be looking for the same shit.
Drea Nicole
I'm not having no more kids, Slim. That already take you out the Remy.
Slim Thug
I can get that. I can go get that. I can go get that reversed.
Lex P
Drea bring you the bad topic. Cause he gonna bring it back. Y'all ain't giving me none.
Drea Nicole
So for the bad topic I wanted to talk about is toxic or is he trying true. So many men say that they want to be with, like, a good girl. They run away from the girls that are quote, unquote, bad girls. But then do you. But then in bed, they want a girl that's a freak. I feel like girls that are freaks, they probably done, you know, been around the block a little bit.
Slim Thug
Yeah.
Drea Nicole
So do you prefer a lady in the streets and, you know, I mean, a lady a freak in the sheets, or do you prefer somebody that's wild 24 force at me.
Slim Thug
I like free. I like girls who give me what. What I want. But at the end of the day, like, I don't want nobody who. For everybody. You know, if you out here and I know you out here, then I'm not gonna mess with you. If we do, it's gonna be briefly. But, yeah, I don't. I like girls that, you know. Yeah.
Drea Nicole
They weedy.
Lex P
I think it's. You're supposed to have that good balance.
Drea Nicole
Yeah.
Lex P
I feel like you have to carry yourself a certain way. But I think, like, when it's time to turn up in the bedroom with your man, you got to know what you doing.
Slim Thug
I agree.
Drea Nicole
You supposed to be down for whatever.
Lex P
Yeah. I feel like, you know who did a good ex example of that? Even what he said.
Slim Thug
I'm just listening. I ain't saying that.
Lex P
I feel like Cardi was a good example of that. Although we don't know her, but I feel like she's a boss. She got her own money. But she was, like, from what we could see, like, a good wife. She was. Nobody came out with no stories while she was married. Like, she.
Slim Thug
But what about this?
Lex P
She gives free, but she's single. Yeah, she's single now, as she should be. She's doing what she's supposed to.
Slim Thug
Cardi or milf. I'll give you she.
Lex P
Cardi is fine. She's successful, she's funny, and she's actually very smart. She's, like, really into politics. So I feel like that's like, a good example of that good balance. Like, you have somebody who is fun. They talk they shit, but they a freak.
Slim Thug
That's live.
Lex P
They handle business. I think that's a good balance.
Slim Thug
Yeah. For me as a rapper, you know, I know dudes who don't even want their woman to mess with other women or nothing like that, really. Like, it's some squares that's like, nah, you know? But at the end of the day, like, I keep it real with myself too. Like, I know that I'm a rapper and not even just a rapper, the rapper. I just know that I've been. I've lived that experience and would love to see that again. So, you know.
Lex P
So you like having threesomes?
Slim Thug
That's like, it ain't even so much. Yes, the threesome. But I like to see two women go at it.
Drea Nicole
So you like to watch?
Slim Thug
I like to watch two women go, okay, that's the sexiest thing in the world. Like, it don't get no sexier than that, this seeing two women kissing and going, you know, crazy on each other.
Lex P
Okay, that's fair.
Drea Nicole
That makes sense. We, I mean, we just talked about these on another episode.
Slim Thug
Porn, everything.
Drea Nicole
Yeah, we, like we said we like that too though. Women porn. I think a lot of women like to watch other women when we watching porn.
Lex P
Men really not as smooth and as good as they think they are in bed. So it's very rare. I want to see like a man doing anything. Like, I don't want to see my man doing things like watching. Like, if me and my man make like a video of us like having sex or something, I can watch that a million times. Cuz obviously I'm enjoying having sex with you, but like to watch a porn.
Slim Thug
So you be making videos.
Lex P
Yeah, I'll make a video with my man.
Slim Thug
Word.
Drea Nicole
You got to stay on your phone though, huh?
Slim Thug
You got no only fans.
Lex P
Absolutely not.
Drea Nicole
Oh, of course not.
Slim Thug
Why wouldn't y'all do only fans?
Drea Nicole
I just never had. That's not my like, not no shame.
Slim Thug
But another check.
Drea Nicole
Yeah, but I just feel like, you know, I don't need that check that bad.
Lex P
I don't need the check that back. But I still feel like if you gonna do onlyfans, you gotta go all in.
Drea Nicole
You do these.
Lex P
Had a few porn stars only fan girls on our couch. I'm not doing the that they doing.
Drea Nicole
Me neither.
Lex P
Oh, they.
Drea Nicole
I think that the days of like trapping people clickbaiting people into joining your only fans is over. Like, I feel like at one point the girls was definitely getting guys to join, getting people to join, and all they was doing was posting stuff in their lingerie. But I think people done got hip to the girls doing that. So they not joining unless they know.
Lex P
You really on there. Getting down, getting facts 100% you got.
Drea Nicole
To look at see myself.
Slim Thug
You gotta check Reddit. You write the girl only. You go to OnlyFans. I'm gonna give you the game. It's OG talk right here. Y'all ain't got no real OGs, daddies and shit. Listen, you write the girl OnlyFans page and then go in Google and write Reddit after it. It's gonna pop up for the free.
Lex P
I'm weak.
Slim Thug
All right, what else? Twitter also, I think F be like Dragon Nicole. Reddit, right? We gonna see it.
Drea Nicole
Ain't gonna be nothing to me.
Lex P
One thing probably will pop up. You know what?
Slim Thug
I'm not even gonna say that I'm looking her up. I'm looking both of y'all up. As soon as I leave, we don't gotta.
Lex P
It's not nothing bad, I promise. I was on Live one time, and I was in my swimsuit, and my swimsuit had rolled down.
Slim Thug
I'm gonna look that up.
Lex P
But it wasn't like. I mean, it's titties. I feel like people always see my titties on the show.
Slim Thug
I wanna see. I ain't seen. I wanna see. Okay, all right, whatever. But.
Lex P
Oh, yeah. So I feel like it's a good. It's good to have a balance of, like, good girl.
Drea Nicole
I agree.
Slim Thug
I like bad girls, though. Yeah, I know.
Lex P
That's right. Okay, so item of the week, per usual. Y'all know I always get my units from Rich Look Hair. Shout out to DE if you need your hair done. You live in Atlanta. Go get you a cute little sew in. She's got all the bundles. You getting Boho braids, You got the hair that you need. Shout out to Rich Look Hair for my glueless unit.
Drea Nicole
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Lex P
What's up, y'all? It's your girl xp.
Drea Nicole
And it's your girl Dre Nicole.
Lex P
Y'all know we have a segment on Poor Minds called Item of the Week, but do you have a product or something that you want to promote and you want it featured on Poor Minds? Your opportunity is here, period.
Drea Nicole
If you have a item or you Have a business, and you want to get it promoted. We are now having slots available on the Poor Minds episode. So if you would like to get your product featured for item of the week, all you need to do is send an email to item of the Week, pml.com. that's it. W E K pm@gmail.com. send us an email and we'll work it out. We gonna figure it out, get your product, get your business sponsored, and, yeah, make you some money.
Lex P
We love to support a small business.
Drea Nicole
Now in a black business at that, but, I mean, we don't discriminate. Any business is welcome.
Lex P
What's up, y'all? It's your girl Lex P. And it's.
Drea Nicole
Your girl Dre Nicole.
Lex P
And we have a very exciting announcement today. We have a brand new show dropping. Yes.
Drea Nicole
So we have a brand new show dropping y'all on Patreon. It's going to air on September 2nd, and it's called Poor Chronicles. We're going to be doing so much stuff on there. We're going to be doing challenges. If you can't go to Bella Noche, where the hell could you go?
Lex P
If you can't go to Bella Noche.
Drea Nicole
Where the hell we're going to be doing. Talk to me. Chit chat with me. We're gonna be spilling a little tea.
Slim Thug
Oh, my God.
Lex P
No, you didn't. Oh, my God.
Drea Nicole
Everything y'all been wanting to see, we gonna be doing it right here on Patreon.
Lex P
Yes. Y'all ask us for so much. Well, we f to give it to y'all every single Monday. And it's gonna be a time. Y'all know Poor Mods has grown into its own little entity where we gonna have a lot of fun still over here at Poor Chronicles. So make sure y'all tune in September 2nd. It's going down.
Drea Nicole
Thanks.
Slim Thug
Y'all got boyfriends.
Lex P
I don't. I am actually single.
Slim Thug
What y'all doing tonight.
Lex P
Slim? What we. I actually. I do have to work tomorrow. I have to film to. Tomorrow, so I'm working.
Slim Thug
Okay.
Drea Nicole
I have to film tomorrow, too. I'm lying.
Slim Thug
I got to take care of nigga.
Lex P
Oh, my God.
Slim Thug
Stop saying that.
Drea Nicole
We didn't throw you to the side.
Slim Thug
Take care of niggas. Y'all gonna take care of.
Drea Nicole
We don't take care of niggas.
Slim Thug
It is what it is.
Lex P
I don't take care of. No. I take care of myself.
Slim Thug
I want everybody to remember, man, if you ever told me, no, you gotta take care of nigga. I'm Putting that Color Purple curse on your motherfucking ass. It's the handshake you gonna take care of, nigga. What you did to me. What you did to me. Yeah, we gonna take care of.
Lex P
I might be outside tonight. We gonna see.
Slim Thug
Yeah, let's go.
Drea Nicole
Yeah, we might be outside.
Lex P
We might be outside outside.
Slim Thug
Yeah.
Drea Nicole
So now it's time to get into the bout. Hey, the bow bow, the bop bow.
Lex P
Bow, bow, bow, bow. Okay, so bop of the week is the songs that we've been jamming this week. I always have, like, a off the wall bop of the week. So my bop of the week today is a Post Malone song. You know, Post Malone, he came in the game rapping, and you know how they usually do. They make the white boys rap, and they take over, and then they start making the music they really want to make. And when I hear his, like, more country music side, I'm like, you should have been doing this. I don't even know why you was rapping. I was never a big Post Malone fan of him rapping, but I actually like his country, you know, his little countryside. So he has a song called I Don't know how to say Goodbye with Dwight Yoakum. I think that's how you pronounce his name.
Drea Nicole
By who?
Lex P
Dwight Yoakum and Post Malone.
Drea Nicole
Dwight Yom.
Slim Thug
We don't know that song. We got a song for the week, Double cup, featuring me and my brother Propane. You know what I'm saying? Out for the movie Double cup, you know what I'm saying? That's coming soon. Okay, that is the song.
Lex P
What's it called? What's it called again?
Slim Thug
Double Cup.
Lex P
The song is called Double cup, and the movie is called Double Cup.
Slim Thug
Movie called Double Cup. And we also have a project, me and Propane together. You know what I'm saying? And we also got a project with me and Kiki together. So.
Lex P
Ooh, did you direct the movie?
Drea Nicole
Were you one of the directors of the movie?
Slim Thug
I actually came up with the story, and then I got with my brother Dre, and he broke. Broke it down, the script and added to the story, co wrote it. So we came up with an idea, shot it, you know, and I think it's. It's. It's.
Lex P
Somebody asked us to be in the movie. Why you a movie?
Slim Thug
Cause y'all in atl. Y'all ain't really Houston.
Lex P
We want to get.
Slim Thug
Nah, it was really, like, low budget, so we ain't want to call no bosses like y'all. Y'all might have said okay, so we were just trying to do something. We do what we could do.
Drea Nicole
That was a good thing.
Lex P
Okay, so. But talk about Double cup, the song and the movie. Like, what is.
Slim Thug
Well, it's an album, really, with me and Propane. And then they got. It's an album with me and Keke, but the one with me and Propane, finna drop first, and then the movie comes after that. The movie is basically. Basically us highlighting Houston culture. You know what I'm saying? I wanted to do them. I wanted. I had an idea, man. I want to do a Houston movie. It ain't enough. So that described the culture they had. Jason's lyric. They were talking like they were from Tennessee.
Lex P
They was, oh, my gosh.
Slim Thug
That ain't how we sound. So it was like, man. But so I had. Excuse me. I was trying to do my own little thing. Double Cup. The concept of the movie was. Cause Houston is known for the drink. I wanted to do something around. Around that. And Kiki is one of the co stars in the movie. And we was in jail, and I overheard him saying he had a thousand pints of the original activists. If you're a real sipper, you know, like, that's the drink that they don't sell no more. That is not available no more. The new sippers, we don't know what they sipping on, right? Yeah, it ain't what we. It ain't kro. It's just a different. It's a whole nother thing. Like the taste we had in the original. Original sipping days. Yeah, it was all that. You know what I'm saying? So I imagine what a rapper of today would pay for a paint from an original actor. It'll be very valuable in today's world. So we hit the lick. Rob, Kiki. Cause we from the north side. You know what I'm saying? I am.
Lex P
Oh, Lord.
Slim Thug
So.
Drea Nicole
And he from the south side.
Slim Thug
Exactly. So that was the story of the movie. Like, you know, it's the conflict of that.
Lex P
I'm excited to see it.
Drea Nicole
Have y'all done the movie for real?
Slim Thug
It's a dramedy. It's a dramedy, huh?
Lex P
Have y'all done the movie premiere yet?
Slim Thug
We did a. We did one in Houston. We did one in Dallas. We're gonna do another one in Houston in a couple weeks, I think.
Lex P
Okay. So make sure invite us.
Drea Nicole
So we gonna come always.
Slim Thug
Do y'all ever come to Houston?
Lex P
I mean, we come to Houston, my family is there.
Slim Thug
Y'all don't ever hit me up. And that's why y'all gonna take care of niggas. But anyway, the movie premiere will be soon, but the album is first.
Lex P
Album is first. So talk about the album like, the.
Slim Thug
Album is cultural music, man. Like, really, it's a good. It's a good way to see how Houston music is, you know, sounds. And because we ain't really do it to have a record on the radio, we ain't do it like, oh, let me do this, you know, because this might. You know, let's get this feature. It was really just. Let's do some Houston. Houston cultural music. You know what I'm saying? So I think that people, when they check it out and check it, they'll get a real glimpse of what it is out there and what it. What Houston is like, you know what I'm saying? The album is fire. The movie is fire. That's why I'm even outside of Houston talking about it.
Lex P
Yes. I love that for y'all.
Drea Nicole
I'm excited to see it.
Slim Thug
Yeah, man.
Lex P
That's why I was like slim in Atlanta.
Slim Thug
I ain't leave. But that's what I'm saying. The movie's so fire. The album's so fire. I had to get up out of. You know, I had to get up out of Houston and come tell y'all about it.
Drea Nicole
Well, we can't wait to hear it.
Lex P
Yes. Please invite us to the premiere.
Slim Thug
Y'all gonna be taking care of niggas.
Lex P
Oh, my God.
Slim Thug
I can't wait to see y'all wedding on Instagram. I'mma be laughing in the comments. Does she take a care. Look at L. He paid for that wedding.
Lex P
I pay for my wed. I am weak.
Drea Nicole
You can start a new show.
Lex P
Anyways, Dre, what's your bop of the week?
Drea Nicole
So my bop this week, speaking of people from Houston, Ken the Man have a new song called Cocky. I love me some K. That's our girl. They already know that we love us. She do. She really do. And so, yeah, she had a song called Cocky that just came out, like, a week, I think, or two ago, but it's been in my rotation. Hey, Ken.
Lex P
Girl, love Ken down. So let me ask you this, Slim. Outside of you, who do you feel like is the best rapper out of Houston?
Slim Thug
The best rapper out of Houston? Damn. That's crazy.
Lex P
I give you a top three.
Slim Thug
I'll give you three top three. Well, I say. I'm gonna say a zero, because he the only one who got as much of a catalog as me, period. Like, he got a lot of albums, you know, so, you know, Zero pulled.
Lex P
Up on it, too.
Slim Thug
He came on the show.
Drea Nicole
It was such a good episode.
Lex P
It was. Zero gets lit. I fuck with that.
Slim Thug
He gonna drink Zero gas ghetto. But he be in all the fly shit I'm talking about, like, in Houston, like, the dopest restaurants and shit. Yeah, he be in all that shit. I be like, nigga, you in this elegant ass shit. You, 0 the most city done.
Drea Nicole
Yeah, I would have to agree with that, though. I definitely. Zero is definitely, like, in my.
Slim Thug
Just, you know, like, a lot of rappers got, you know, as dope as fuck. But I'm saying, like, he put out a lot of music. He got a lot of classics, a lot of hits, you know, So I give it to him. You know, I respect longevity, so.
Lex P
Okay. Yeah, okay. And who else you got? I said, I gave you three.
Slim Thug
Who else? Damn. They asked me about my mouth much more early. It was Scarface, Zero, me, and the Don Kiki. That was our top four, you know what I'm saying?
Drea Nicole
That's a good league.
Lex P
That's a good list, you know?
Slim Thug
So that was my personal, you know, list, you know what I'm saying? It's a lot of other rappers who deserve to be on that list, but they only got me four.
Drea Nicole
Okay, so if you had more, you would pick more.
Slim Thug
100%. It's like a lot of rappers who could be considered the best rapper in Houston who had did enough. A. Travis Scott is a rock star.
Lex P
Like, yeah, I put him in different categories.
Slim Thug
Exactly. Megan the Stallions and all these, you know, it's a lot of people who. Who can say that. Lil Flip got a lot of history. Chameleon Mike Jones songs, you know, pow wow. You know, it's definitely propane. You know what I'm saying? A different South Walker.
Lex P
Shout out to salsa. I love salsa. He's so funny.
Drea Nicole
Yes. Shout out to Sauce.
Slim Thug
Yeah. That's a lot of dope.
Drea Nicole
It's a lot of dope Houston rappers, for sure.
Slim Thug
Who else? I ain't so.
Lex P
Okay. Go ahead, Dre.
Drea Nicole
Okay, now it's time to get into our favorite segment of the show, which is pour your heart out. If you have any questions, you can always send them to ask Poor minds gmail.com. that's a s k P O U R M I N D S dot com. Now, today, we only gonna have time for one question. So, Slim, do you think that you give good advice? I know you.
Slim Thug
I think I'm, like, a genius. Like, I think I get the greatest advice on earth. Like, I cuz. I only live in a real space. Yeah, a lot of people, people fake it, man. A lot of people living in a fake world, a fake space. I only speak what I see and saw. And facts, man. Like, I really think I give great advice, but people might say, nah, it's your trash.
Drea Nicole
Okay, well, somebody needs your advice, so we gonna see what you gonna tell.
Slim Thug
I done seen a lot of dudes listen to my advice and it worked for them. So.
Drea Nicole
Okay, yeah, I love y'all, especially big Lex P. Let's get into it. Don't say my name. So, boom. I'm 24 and I've got a full blown bugaboo on my hands. Back in 2021, when we were both 21, I used to hang out with this top tier college ball player. One weekend he came home, invited me over, and we ended up doing the nasty. And yeah, I ate the booty like Lick said. And he loved it.
Slim Thug
Wow.
Lex P
I didn't say that's crazy.
Drea Nicole
But ever since that one time, he has not left me alone.
Slim Thug
Wow. For real? Damn.
Drea Nicole
That ain't got nothing to do with me. Okay. But ever since that one time, he has not left me alone.
Slim Thug
Oh, hell no, you ain't. Oh, whoa.
Drea Nicole
Mind you, it's 2025, he got a whole girlfriend, and this man still finds ways to hit me up, begging for a repeat. He want that booty aid again.
Slim Thug
Wow.
Drea Nicole
She said I blow blocked him, ignored him, everything, but he keeps popping back up. How would y'all handle these, cuz? I'm over it best. A girl who regrets going above and beyond. Girl, you is a booty bandit because. What the. What do you mean? He just keep blowing you up and it's all your fault, Li.
Lex P
You gave all that advice.
Slim Thug
Oh, my God.
Lex P
It is not her fellow booty band. I feel like I said that story, like, one time.
Slim Thug
What was the story?
Lex P
It was. First of all, it was somebody that I was dating when I moved to Atlanta. It was an Atlanta guy I was dating. Okay. And it was a. And it was cool. One thing about me in the bedroom, if we're dating and you want me to try something, I'mma try it. And it was a fun experience. I feel like I cannot eat. Huh.
Slim Thug
He wanted you to.
Lex P
Yeah, he did.
Slim Thug
He asked you to eat my.
Lex P
And he didn't ask me, but he started going like this.
Slim Thug
Oh, wow.
Lex P
And I said, I know what you. And I was kind of hesitant, but I was like, fuck it, why not? And I tried it.
Slim Thug
That's crazy.
Lex P
But like I said, surprisingly, men do like that. Men do like that. But I also feel like. Cause people are like, oh, no, that's gay. Anything you do with a woman is not gay.
Slim Thug
Anything you lift your leg up for is gay.
Lex P
Oh.
Drea Nicole
He was like, so, what do y'all think she should do?
Lex P
I think she should just tell him, hey, I'm not interested in talking to you no more. We need to use Ate the nigga ass.
Slim Thug
You want to think he tripping? You tripping like you done did all this. What the. Tell her she tripping. She did the most, like. But she needs to tell him.
Drea Nicole
She said she regret going above and.
Lex P
Beyond, and she needs to tell him that. I think we need to. It's too much snickering.
Slim Thug
It's too much going on.
Lex P
Like, you know what, Slim?
Slim Thug
He ate the nigga ass out there. Trying to kick him to the curb. His girl crazy.
Drea Nicole
That is a little crazy kicking a to the curb after you ate his boo, man.
Slim Thug
You might well stay with him, huh? Might well figure it out.
Lex P
Yeah, cuz, I definitely dumped that.
Slim Thug
You dumped him?
Drea Nicole
Hell, yeah, I did.
Slim Thug
Damn, you should, cuz. Honestly, man, for a to be doing all that, that's weird. I mean, like, I ain't gonna say I'm a straight man, so I ain't never lifting my leg up, you know? And I say that on poor minds. But that's. That's. That's like, you know, that's some freaky shit, y'all. Next level.
Drea Nicole
Yeah, that is the little next level.
Slim Thug
I agree.
Lex P
Oh, Slim. I'll get you touching them toes now.
Slim Thug
Try me. I ain't gonna do all that. I ain't gonna lift my leg up your fine ass. I take you down.
Lex P
All right, Slim. Let us know when Double Cup, I.
Slim Thug
Don'T care who can mad, who's profit.
Lex P
And where we can pop.
Drea Nicole
See, that's messy.
Lex P
Messy.
Drea Nicole
Slim.
Lex P
Slim, let us know when Double cup is dropping and where they can follow.
Slim Thug
Hel. Right before that, before anything. This is before Double cup is the movie, is the album. March 17th. Right. But the movie will be right after that. We ain't got no 100% date. We tentative on the movie. You know what I'm saying? But it's going to be out in April or May, so. Yeah.
Lex P
Okay. Okay.
Drea Nicole
Period. Well, thank you for coming on the show. This was so fun.
Lex P
This was fun. I'm glad we finally did me.
Slim Thug
I'm glad.
Lex P
I feel like the only person from Houston we're missing is Kiki. Yeah, we gotta have Kiki. He performed at our live show.
Drea Nicole
Yeah, he came to the live show, but we haven't had him on Poor Mine. Just like you came to the live show, but we hadn't had you on Houston.
Slim Thug
Dudes don't want to leave Houston.
Lex P
Yeah, we caught Paul Waldo. Yeah, we had Paul Wall on the show. We've had everybody. Thank God we had B King. Rp B King. Yeah, so. Yeah. So I hope y'all enjoyed this episode. Make sure y'all follow Slim on all socials at Slim Thug and y'all catch Double Cup. We'll see y'all next week.
Drea Nicole
Bye, y'all.
Lex P
Make sure y'all share the content. Like subscribe, follow all that good stuff. And let me say this before we close out y'all, there is one Twitter account that is connected to Poor Minds. It's P o u r Underscore M I n d s. Y'all are tagging the wrong Poor Minds page. If you see at Poor minds with no underscore, that is at fake page. Do not follow that page. Okay? They blocked me, Andrea and the Poor M page on both. So we only have one Instagram, one Twitter, one Tik tok. It is P o u r Underscore M I n d S. All right.
Drea Nicole
And we got hella fake Facebook pages.
Lex P
Oh, the Facebook pages.
Drea Nicole
Our face. The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually have the least amount of followers.
Lex P
So if you on Facebook, the one that's ours got the least amount of followers.
Drea Nicole
The one that's not US got like 250,000 followers. It's fake.
Lex P
If you actually look at the content cuz the caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English. Cuz their captions are like mama cl. Should men. Should men pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes. No check answer below.
Drea Nicole
Block, block. Like that's literally what the captions I.
Lex P
Like you want with that DDG's Bumba claw.
Drea Nicole
Bumba claw.
Lex P
I love it.
Slim Thug
Girl, if I told you I love you that doesn't mean that I don't care? And when I tell you you need you don't you think that I would never be there?
Lex P
Oh baby, I'm so tired of the.
Slim Thug
Way you turn my words into deception and lies.
Lex P
Don'T misunderstand me when I.
Slim Thug
Try to speak my mind I'm only.
Lex P
Saying what's in my heart you better sing Cupid doesn't lie but you won't know unless you give it a try. Try. True love won't lie but we won't know unless we give it a try. Give it a try. Ain't no doubt about it Lord know.
Drea Nicole
The will I never die before I.
Lex P
Before I lie to you Never want to leave you ain't no life without you Never want to leave Never want to go no, no, no, no, no, no oh. Shout out to the three subs sa.
Pour Minds Podcast - Episode Summary: "Why Y'all Ain’t Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug"
Podcast Information:
The episode kicks off with Drea and Lex introducing the esteemed guest, Slim Thug, a Houston legend and influential figure in the music industry. Reflecting on their longstanding connection from Slim Thug's initial live appearance at the House of Blues in Houston, the hosts express excitement about having him on the show.
Notable Quotes:
Slim Thug initiates a frank discussion about the challenges Black men face in relationships, particularly highlighting what he perceives as obstacles Black women impose. He expresses frustration that despite his financial success and stability, he feels Black women place undue demands on him, likening the experience to navigating an obstacle course.
Notable Quotes:
The conversation delves into racial perceptions in the dating landscape. Slim Thug asserts that Black men are inherently desirable, especially to white women, and argues that this desirability persists regardless of financial status. Lex and Drea challenge his assertions, leading to a heated exchange about value, respect, and societal expectations.
Notable Quotes:
Slim Thug reminisces about his early interactions with Lex at Belvedere in Houston and discusses his experiences with fame, including his iconic chrome Camaro. He highlights the disconnect between his public persona and personal interactions, emphasizing the difficulty in forming genuine connections amidst his high-profile status.
Notable Quotes:
A significant portion of the conversation focuses on the financial struggles of rappers, attributing their woes to lack of ownership over their music. Slim Thug advocates for independent success by owning one's masters, contrasting this with artists tied to major labels who receive minimal returns. He uses metaphors like "rap real estate" to illustrate his points on building sustainable income streams through music.
Notable Quotes:
Drea introduces the topic of nepotism, particularly critiquing its perception within the Black community. The discussion covers how generational wealth is viewed and the challenges Black celebrities face in having their children benefit without undue criticism or backlash.
Notable Quotes:
Slim Thug discusses his upcoming album and movie titled "Double Cup," emphasizing its cultural significance to Houston. He explains that the project aims to highlight Houston's unique cultural elements, particularly its signature drink, and showcases collaborations with fellow artists like Propane and Kiki.
Notable Quotes:
The hosts and Slim Thug engage in a deep dive into modern relationship expectations. Slim Thug reiterates his preference for high-value women who can "serve" him, emphasizing acts of service as his primary love language. Drea and Lex counter his views by advocating for mutual respect, intentionality, and emotional connection beyond transactional dynamics.
Notable Quotes:
Slim Thug addresses a viral moment where his comments about Black women not giving him attention garnered significant backlash. He clarifies his stance, emphasizing that his opinions stem from personal observations and experiences rather than malice. The hosts highlight the responsibility that comes with having a large platform, urging Slim Thug to be mindful of his words and their impact.
Notable Quotes:
Throughout the episode, Drea and Lex seamlessly integrate promotional segments for various sponsors, including Rocket Money, Home Chef, BetterHelp, Squarespace, Weak Belt, Rich Look Hair, and Muse Beauty Collection. These segments are tastefully placed between discussions, ensuring they complement the conversation without disrupting the flow.
Notable Promotions:
In the concluding segments, the hosts and Slim Thug engage in light-hearted banter, discuss their upcoming appearances, and address listener questions. They also promote their new show, "Poor Chronicles," set to launch on Patreon, promising exclusive content and deeper dives into pertinent topics.
Notable Quotes:
Relationship Dynamics: Slim Thug's perspective highlights perceived challenges Black men face in dating, emphasizing the need for mutual respect and understanding.
Financial Independence in Music: Emphasizing the importance of owning one's music to ensure long-term financial stability, contrasting the pitfalls of major label dependencies.
Generational Wealth and Nepotism: Discussing the nuanced view of nepotism within the Black community and its impact on legacy and wealth distribution.
Cultural Projects: Introduction of Slim Thug's "Double Cup" album and movie showcases Houston's rich cultural landscape.
Platform Responsibility: Addressing the weight of influence, especially for public figures like Slim Thug, and the importance of mindful communication.
Overall, this episode of Pour Minds Podcast offers a candid exploration of complex relationship dynamics, financial autonomy in the music industry, and cultural pride within the Black community, all through the lens of Slim Thug's experiences and perspectives. The hosts adeptly balance serious discussions with engaging interactions, enriched by notable quotes and insightful commentary, making it a compelling listen for both regular followers and newcomers alike.