Kristen Kish has built an extraordinary career. She's a Top Chef winner, the host of Top Chef, NYT best selling author of the memoir Accidentally on Purpose. But this conversation isn't really about food. It's about belonging. In this episode, Kristen opens up to Danielle about being adopted from Korea and raised in Michigan, growing up feeling different from the people around her, struggling with social anxiety, and spending years unsure of where she fit in. She shares how kitchens became the unexpected place where she found confidence, purpose, and a sense of identity. Kristen reflects on the relationship that changed her life, the career mistake that taught her the most, and how she's learned to make peace with some of the unanswered questions surrounding her story. In this episode you’ll learn:

How Kristen went from struggling with self-doubt to becoming the host of Top Chef
The unexpected place Kristen found confidence after years of feeling like she didn't belong
Why she says she spent much of her childhood believing she wasn't good at anything
How food became Kristen Kish's way of connecting with people without having to perform
The behind-the-scenes reality of hosting Top Chef and judging world-class chefs
Why she believes other people often see our potential before we can see it ourselves
The surprising reason comfort food has nothing to do with food—and everything to do with identity
The career decision Kristen regrets making after prioritizing money over purpose
What stepping into Padma Lakshmi's role as Top Chef host taught Kristen Kish about confidence
Lessons from Kristen’s memoir, Accidentally on Purpose
Kristen’s journey with coming out, queer visibility, and living authentically
The love story that helped her become fully herself
How adoption shaped Kristen Kish's sense of identity and self-worth
The emotional encounter in Seoul that changed the way Kristen Kish thinks about home
Why making peace with unanswered questions can be one of life's greatest freedoms

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