Podcast Summary: Product Therapy – "Coaching Employee Onboarding"

Host: SVPG (Christian Idiodi, guest-hosted by Chris Jones)
Release: January 23, 2025

Episode Overview

This episode flips the usual format, with SVPG partner Chris Jones interviewing Christian Idiodi about the often overlooked, but crucial, craft of onboarding and coaching new product hires. Christian dives deep into the behavioral, mindset, and cultural elements of onboarding—moving beyond paperwork and checklists to discuss how great product leaders systematically set new employees up for success. He shares his tactical, week-by-week and day-by-day framework, unique insights from both military and industry experiences, and practical methods for individual, team, and remote onboarding.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Why Thoughtful Onboarding Matters

• No one is a ‘finished product.’ The best companies recognize new hires as raw material, not the “finished product.”

  “You're not hiring a finished product. You're hiring the raw ingredients to build a product. That's your day job as a manager.” – Christian (11:17)

• The ‘Magical Window’: New hires are maximally excited and trusting, while the company still needs to build reciprocal trust.

  “You're never going to get this time back, right? This is a magical time when somebody has maximal excitement and maximal trust.” – Chris (05:11)

• Competency gap: Job descriptions rarely match what’s needed day-to-day, and companies often fail when they assume industry “rockstars” can simply drop in and succeed without tailored onboarding.

2. Pre-Onboarding: Before Day One

• Intentional recruitment: True onboarding begins before the employee starts—through reference checks, deliberate decision-making, and strong, timely signals of enthusiasm.

• Understanding strengths and gaps: Deep, two-way reference checks are used not just for red flags, but to map both strengths and coachable opportunities.

  “I give people references on me because I want you to know what kind of crazy I am as a manager…” – Christian (07:17)

• Personal connection: Christian often hosts dinners with potential hires (and their families) to understand intrinsic motivators.

• Signal excitement: Quick, decisive, and generous negotiation and offer processes tell new hires they are wanted and valued.

3. Christian’s Two-Week Onboarding Bootcamp

Week 1: Building Individual Trust and Context

• Direct, purposeful onboarding: Christian personally leads onboarding for all new product hires—setting a tone of real investment.

• User Manuals: He gives a ‘user manual’ for himself to the new employee, detailing how he communicates, provides feedback, and what to expect. He recommends all managers and employees create such guides.

  “Manuals, in the modern world, nobody uses your TV manual. Until something breaks.” – Christian (13:19)

• Relationship exercises: Walking around the office with the new employee, making personal introductions, identifying key stakeholders.

• Strategic context: The leader—not distilled through middle management—provides the vision and organizational strategy directly.

Week 2: Team Integration and Practice

• Safe space for practice: The team joins the onboarding cohort. Discovery problems are tackled together, allowing safe collaboration before ‘game time.’

• Dynamic assessment: Every new hire alters team dynamics, so onboarding must adjust the entire cohort, not just the individual.

  “Just adding Chris to the team could disrupt the whole team, no matter [how good he is].” – Christian (26:04)

• Emotional intelligence ‘black belt’ move: Assign the new hire a “buddy” in the form of a high-influence stakeholder for shadowing. The process builds relationships, extends credibility, and makes the stakeholder partly accountable for the new hire’s success.

  “By nature of you spending time with that person, I'm extending that person's trust and credibility to you… their job is to make sure that they work well for you now forever in their career.” – Christian (22:04)

4. Scaling & Adapting the Program

• Cohorts vs. trickles: For large orgs, onboarding is run in cohorts, with all hiring managers participating as part of their own training. For slow hiring, managers are coached to maintain the same standards one-on-one.
• Frequency: Most teams do cohorts every 6–8 weeks, but it should reflect the needs and growth rate of the company.
• Always-on onboarding: Deliberate onboarding isn’t just for new staff—it can and should be offered to existing employees who haven’t had the benefit of a well-designed program.

  “Please don't feel like you shouldn't onboard the people you have today. If you've never been deliberate about setting people up for success… you can design a program today to onboard people you already have.” – Christian (41:18)

5. Remote/Hybrid Onboarding: Special Considerations

• Intentional relationship-building: Remote onboarding requires extra effort to build trust and connection—virtual house tours, family/pet introductions, open camera sessions, and informal digital “hallway” time.
• Overcoming Zoom fatigue: Relationship time can’t be crammed into agenda-driven meetings; it needs deliberate structure.

  “You don't get [relationship-building] for free like you used to when you were… co-located.” – Chris (30:22)

• Tools are enablers, not answers: Technology can support relationship-building but doesn’t substitute for human connection.

6. Milestones that Matter

• First day: Ensure the new hire feels wanted. Script the day so that the answer to “How was your first day?” is memorable and affirming.
• First week and first weekend: Set the cultural tone; be intentional before the first weekend so new hires reflect positively.

  “I want you to have the cultural, the value words you're describing to people, how you want them to describe themselves.” – Christian (33:34)

• First paycheck: For many, the first check triggers a “was this worth it?” assessment. Christian delivers the first coaching plan just before payday, boosting perceived value and investment.
• Public win (within 45 days): Managers must actively engineer a visible early victory to build confidence and team trust.

  “You need to ensure that this person you're hiring has a public win in the first… 45 days.” – Chris (38:29)

• 30/60/90-day cycles: Ongoing touchpoints must be pre-planned—ensuring connection, feedback, and that the new hire feels fully part of the team within a quarter.
• Ongoing celebrations: Know and celebrate anniversaries, birthdays, and onboarding milestones.

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

| Timestamp | Speaker | Quote | |-----------|---------|-------| | 01:37 | Christian | “No job description on the planet… has properly described what people are going to do every day in their job. Just none.” | | 05:11 | Chris | “You're never going to get this time back. This is a magical time when somebody has maximal excitement and maximal trust. So take advantage of that.” | | 07:17 | Christian | “I give people references on me because I was like, I want you to know what kind of crazy I am as a manager too.” | | 11:17 | Christian | “You're not hiring a finished product. You're hiring the raw ingredients to build a product. That's your day job as a manager.” | | 13:19 | Christian | “Manuals, in the modern world, nobody uses your TV manual. Until something breaks.” | | 22:04 | Christian | “I am sharing the accountability for that person's onboarding and success with an influential stakeholder and partner… That person now can never be critical of you because it was their job to teach you.” | | 26:04 | Christian | “Just adding Chris to the team could disrupt the whole team… those are the things you're actually working through before game time.” | | 30:22 | Chris | “You don't get it [relationship-building] for free like you used to… when people are co-located.” | | 33:34 | Christian | “I want you to have the cultural, the value words you're describing to people, how you want them to describe themselves.” | | 38:29 | Chris | “You need to ensure that this person you're hiring has a public win in the first… 45 days. …My job is to make this person successful and… create a place on the stage for them to stand and take a bow.” | | 41:18 | Christian | “Please don't feel like you shouldn't onboard the people you have today. …Everybody in a company deserves to have a shot at being well equipped to succeed.” |

Timestamps for Key Segments

• 00:00–01:37 — Introduction and onboarding’s importance
• 07:01–09:35 — Pre-onboarding: reference checks, signaling, understanding raw ingredients
• 13:19–17:57 — The two-week onboarding bootcamp: trust, user manuals, leader-to-hire connection
• 22:04–27:26 — Team integration, stakeholder buddy system, ‘black belt’ onboarding techniques
• 28:38–30:22 — Remote onboarding: deliberate trust-building, virtual tricks
• 32:12–41:18 — Milestones: first day, weekend, paycheck, public win, 30/60/90 days, ongoing rituals

Final Takeaways

• Onboarding is leadership, not administration. Managers should own the process, make it deliberate, and recognize that onboarding is a leadership craft that requires ongoing investment.
• Early wins, strong relationships, and clear milestones are essential for employee engagement and long-term success.
• Remote onboarding isn’t “one and done.” It needs thoughtful structure and personal connection.
• It’s never too late—even seasoned staff can benefit from re-onboarding and renewed investment.

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