
Hosted by Kamie Crawford · EN

Bestie, you might want to grab a notebook for this one. This week, we're joined by TV writer turned matchmaker, dating coach, and author of Your Last First Date: Secrets From a Hollywood Matchmaker, Jaydi Samuels Kuba, to break down what it actually takes to find lasting love in today's dating world. We get into modern dating, matchmaking, dating apps, dealbreakers, and why so many of us may be searching for love the wrong way. We talk about the difference between preferences and true dealbreakers, why instant chemistry isn't always the best predictor of long-term compatibility, and how an endless checklist can keep us from seeing the people who are actually right for us. Jaydi also shares how she accidentally matched herself with her now-husband, what she's learned after helping countless couples find love, and why lasting relationships are built on shared values - not just the fact that you both love dogs, hiking, and spicy margs. Follow Jaydi: @matchmadeinhollywood https://www.instagram.com/matchmadeinhollywood/ Book Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I GOT A TEXT!!! It says, “never let the world tell you who you are.” This week, we're joined by Love Island USA Season 7 fan favorite and certified girls' girl, Chelley Bissainthe, for a candid conversation about fame, dating, self-worth, and staying grounded when the whole internet has an opinion about your character. We get into life after reality TV, navigating online criticism, battling imposter syndrome, her new approach to dating, and why protecting your peace is the ultimate form of self-respect. Plus, Chelley opens up about navigating public perception after the villa, learning to trust herself more, and the advice she'd give to the current Islanders on Love Island Season 8 when the cameras are off and reality sets in. Follow @chelleyb https://www.instagram.com/chelleyb/?hl=enFollow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Now THIS is the social event of the season. This week, we sit down with hostess with the mostess, creator and CEO of Wedding Chicks, Mary Louise Cosmetics, Lucky Girl Rosé, and Creative Director of her family’s winery, Casa Locé and Bloom Ranch, Akilah Releford Gould. We get into the art of hosting, building community, making meaningful connections, and why inviting people over is about so much more than pretty tablescapes and good food (although, besties… the food better be good). We also talk about what it really means to be a good guest, how social media has changed the way we show up for each other, the death of social etiquette, wedding planning, and the little details people remember long after the party is over. Follow @akilahreleford Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jesus take the mf wheel. This week, our host Kamie is riding solo to give us some real talk around career anxiety, burnout, wedding planning updates, home renovation chaos, the current state of media, and the pressure of feeling like you constantly need to have your next move figured out while simultaneously trying not to lose your mind?! And of course we also get into your questions about friendship shifts, entering your 30’s with excitement & why Kamie genuinely believes we’re only get hotter, smarter, and more powerful with age. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, existential, emotionally exhausted, deeply confused, or like your life is currently being held together by caffeine and delusion… we’re in this together, diva. Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Besties… if you’ve ever spiraled over a situationship, stalked an ex’s Instagram like it’s your part-time job (be so forreal - we’ve all done it), or wondered why you keep attracting the same kind of emotionally unavailable person - you’ve come to the right place. This week, we’re joined by dating expert, author of Unsingle, and founder of Breakup Bootcamp, Amy Chan to talk about the psychology behind heartbreak, attachment styles, dating burnout, avoidant behavior, “icks,” and why situationships can sometimes hurt more than real relationships. Amy breaks down how breakups affect the brain like withdrawal, why closure doesn’t always feel like closure and the dopamine loops that keep us attached to inconsistent people. Trust us, you’re gonna want to take notes on this one. Follow Amy: https://www.instagram.com/missamychan Buy Unsingle: How to Date Smarter and Create Love That Lasts: https://bookshop.org/p/books/unsingle-how-to-date-smarter-and-create-love-that-lasts-amy-chan/d34e1fd29833adec?ean=9781419779848&next=t Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

More money, more problems? Says who? This week, we sit down with Investment Advisor, Co-Founder of Peak360 & Author of The Power of Enough: Finding Joy in Your Relationship to Money, Elizabeth Husserl for a conversation about money, and let’s just say this episode is RICH. Elizabeth breaks down the reasons why money is still such a taboo subject, how childhood and family dynamics shape the way we spend, save, date (and argue) & why financial security and emotional safety are NOT always the same thing. We also talk about how to invest, identifying your “money archetype”, the pressure to constantly chase money and the societal effects of women who out earn men. Follow : https://www.instagram.com/elizabethhusserl/ Book : https://elizabethhusserl.com/book Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Behind every bride there’s a lash appointment & one final inconvenience hanging on by a thread. Bestie, this week our host Kamie is riding solo and we’re not gonna lie - she is going THROUGH it. Between wedding planning chaos, people absolutely trying her, and a full emotional spiral that somehow ended with her ripping off her lash extensions… she is accepting any and all prayers at this time, thankyaa! Kamie gets real about bridal stress & the very real crash-outs that come with trying to plan the “perfect” wedding while also trying to preserve your sanity, your patience, and your edges. And of course, she’s also diving into your questions like, how to navigate dating multiple people at once, when to listen to an ick vs. when to move past it, how to set boundaries with the bridezilla in your life and what to do when your boyfriend asks you to get a boob job (???). Much to discuss. Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Girl, it’s not just you - the world is on fire, there’s a full moon in Scorpio… and you just got your period. TRIPLE homicide. This week we’re joined by Reproductive Psychiatrist, Therapist and Co-Founder of Mavida Health, Dr. Sarah Oreck and let’s just say - this conversation was MUCH needed. We talk about the intersectionality of women’s reproductive and mental health, the emotional load of existing in a chaotic world, and how hormones can impact everything from anxiety & gut health to relationships. We also get into tips for those dealing with PMDD, PCOS, perimenopause, fertility fears, and how to tell the difference between life stress and hormonal stress. As well as finding micro joys, protecting your peace, and why having “mom brain” is actually a superpower Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I mean, I know Nana is “always with me”… but like, how often are we talkin’?! This week, we’re joined by medium and Are You There, Spirit? It’s Me, Travis author Travis Holp for a conversation about what really happens when we die. We talk intuition, connecting with spirit, and why so many of us have been taught to ignore our spirit guides entirely. From signs we write off as coincidence to the fear of death and dying, Travis breaks down what it actually means to be “tuned in” to spirit, how we can start trusting ourselves more, and the messages people need most when they’re grieving to find real closure. Plus, Kamie gets her very first reading from Travis and hears a very special message from the other side. Follow Travis: Instagram | TikTok | Private Readings | Tour Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You said you wanted more solo episodes and our girl Kamie is here to deliver! This week, we’re talking all things wedding planning: picking THE dress, bridesmaids dresses (because why is a good thing so hard to find?!) and the hard truth you need to hear before you ruin your own proposal. We get into relationships & Relationsh*t (because, well… yes) - from how to walk away from something that isn’t toxic but still isn’t right, to how to communicate with your partner that you’re unsure about having kids and why fear will keep you stuck way longer than love ever should. The bob is back - and she has opinions. Thank you again to everyone who answered our listener survey! We love hearing from our besties and your answers are so helpful in allowing us to give you more of the show you love to tune-in to every week xx Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices