
Mike Isratel, a key figure in the fitness world, joins host Dr. Rena Malik to explore the link between physical fitness and a better sex life. This episode covers how personalized fitness programs can enhance sexual performance, confidence, and overall experience quality. They discuss how physical conditioning extends one's "sex span" and improves sexual health and attraction. Mike Isratel also highlights common mistakes in fitness programs and the influence of societal perceptions on fitness goals.
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Dr. Mike Israel
You're a guy and you're relatively average of body fat, body distribution, etc. Or a girl. And you, for a few months, take your fitness a bit more seriously. Burn a little bit of fat, build a little bit of muscle, and feel your curves a little bit more as a girl, get your swollen out a little bit as a guy, just a little bit. If you feel like the, you know, Friday night you're going out to get you. Get you some sex, right? And whatever, whatever appropriate way that right after you get out of shower, you look yourself in the mirror, kind of sort yourself out if that. Friday night, after a few weeks or months of fitness commitment, you look at yourself and you go, okay, okay. Damn, this is it. Yeah, I'm looking fresh. You're every single thing from, I hate to use the term, but seduction or pickup or whatever, however that works. Attraction.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
Everything from the generation of attraction all the way to the culmination of the sexual episode on both sides, male and female, just goes better exclusively on you vibing with your own body. Better. Now, of course, that body also comes with better physical abilities, better erectile abilities, better flexibility, mobility, endurance. And so all of a sudden it's like.
Dr. Reena Malik
Do you want to learn how to optimize your fitness so you can have the best sex ever? I'm Dr. Reena Malik, urologist and pelvic surgeon. And welcome back to The Rena Malik, M.D. podcast. Today our guest is Dr. Mike Israel. He is a social media phenomenon with the highest viewed YouTube channel in the fitness space. He is the founder of Renaissance Periodization. He used to be a competitive bodybuilder and is a black belt in jiu jitsu. He talks the talk and he walks the walk. Today we had an amazing conversation. We talked about how you can develop a fitness program that can optimize your body to have the best sex ever, to optimize thrusting, to do different positions, and how actually being fit and having extra strength has helped him in his own personal sexual experiences. We talked about having sexual confidence and how being physically fit or being proud of your body leads to improved sexual confidence and ultimately better sexual encounters. We discussed the biggest mistakes that people make in creating their fitness programs. We also mentioned one big celebrity who had the worst exercise regimen that Mike has ever seen. We talked about why it's so important to get a program that optimizes your strength gains and weight loss, not only because it's going to be more effective, but it's going to be more effective in a quicker time period. And we also discussed the use of anabolic steroids in the bodybuilding industry. Hope you guys enjoy. All right, well, thanks so much for coming.
Dr. Mike Israel
Thank you for having me.
Dr. Reena Malik
It's so cool to meet you in real life because I've been watching you for a long time, and I just think all your stuff is amazing, and what you do is. Is truly phenomenal. And, like, it's a gift for the world at this point. It really is. I mean, like, you make so much content that it's no longer a business. It's like a. It's like a gift. Like, you just keep producing content, and it's valuable and educational and super helpful.
Dr. Mike Israel
It's like a gift, you know, when kids get coal instead of regular gifts for Christmas, that kind of gift. But it's made of stuff.
Dr. Reena Malik
No, it's good. It's better than coal.
Dr. Mike Israel
It's a lot better than coal. Stop. Thank you so much. I'm trying to.
Dr. Reena Malik
So I want to talk about exercise, obviously, and I want to talk about how it relates to sex span. So sex span is a term that we use that basically describes the time in your life when you can have sex, meaning you are physically able to and you still want to. And that can vary from person to person. Right. How does exercise relate to that?
Dr. Mike Israel
I was going to make a joke and say there's another condition for sex span and other people are willing to have sex with you.
Dr. Reena Malik
That's true. That's part of it, I guess.
Dr. Mike Israel
Although, you know, you can always find someone, I guess. Well, I mean, exercise has multiple ways in which it can. Some ways in which it can expand your sex span in the sense of you can be having the kind of sex you want to be later into your years than you had predicted. But what it can also do is if you take a look at the concept of sex span as how long you're having sex for, you can also. So think of that as a horizontal line and a time X axis, the Y axis, the vertical could be like, how good is the sex? From a variety of perspectives. At least two being, how good is it for you, the exerciser, the beneficiary of fitness.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yes.
Dr. Mike Israel
And how good is it for your sexual partner? You know what I'm saying? Try to judge anybody getting it on with many people.
Dr. Reena Malik
Right.
Dr. Mike Israel
But both can be enhanced substantially. So I think the ability of exercise training and just fitness improvement to enhance the quality of the sex that you could be having, I think is probably even more substantial than the total sex span. Because, like, you know, with enough erectile dysfunction drugs, you could be one day away from the grave and still get it on in some technical sense.
Dr. Reena Malik
Depends.
Dr. Mike Israel
Yeah, as a female, you know, etc. Same kind of idea. But the, really, the quality can be a very big, very big thing. So as far as exercise is concerned, I mean, there are at least a few things that it affects positively. Some of them are kind of a bit indirect. The first, most direct one is are you healthy enough to be having relatively vigorous sex? This is exactly special. So I'm going to tell you what's going on. Gander a guess, and you'd probably correct me in the right way. But what is considered healthy enough to have sex is like one or two standard deviations below what is considered healthy enough for like really vigorous exercise. I mean, it's not a big cutoff. Right, but still, many people have to consult with their doctors upon prescription of erectile dysfunction meds. And the doctor could potentially be like, you, you're not in the kind of shape or, you know, this is safe for you. That's still a thing, right? Like, some people really are typically.
Dr. Reena Malik
I mean, so what we say in urology is like, if you are allowed to have sex, which is meaning you can exercise moderate intensity, mild to moderate intensity, probably even depending on how you have sex, you're okay to have erectile dysfunction meds.
Dr. Mike Israel
Sure.
Dr. Reena Malik
So it's. I think there's a lot of misconceptions in medicine like, oh, not everyone can have sex, but like until you're cardiologist tells you you can't have sex anymore.
Dr. Mike Israel
The default is you can.
Dr. Reena Malik
You can.
Dr. Mike Israel
That's excellent. So it's not vigorous exercise clearing, it's mild to moderate exercise clearing.
Dr. Reena Malik
Depending. Yeah, again, depending on how you're having sex.
Dr. Mike Israel
Exactly. It can do that. Now, in the technical sense, like you just basically described, most people don't need that. Some people might. The other thing exercise can do is it can improve the workload and stress tolerance that you have during sex. Because sex requires motion, repetitive continuous motion, and requires something else. It requires repetitive continuous motion and thus potentially can accumulate metabolites, you know, the burn or your neck position. Not all the positions work the same way. And sometimes what's good for him or her could be like substantially difficult for the person to maintain physically. Like, I didn't learn this in yoga class. Not only does it require you to continue to exert that effort and bring up a certain amount of workload to the equation, but you also probably are really, really better off if that effort is such a low percent of your total ability. To move your body, like your maximum ability, so that you can still do one of two things. Have fun through that situation. Or at the very least, not put off obvious signs that you're struggling and not having a good time.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
Because now I'm not. I am the opposite of a sex expert. But I've had it a few times myself. I think. Yeah, I'm not sure. And I think you should be sure. Oh, boy, call my lawyer. But I think it's one of those things where, especially in positions where, you know, the sexual partners are facing each other and can read each other's facial cues, which is like, super hot sex. Right. Like looking at someone's face when the deed is in the act. That's dope. If the person is like, oh, yeah. All the connection, all the emotion, amazing. If the person's like, you got, like, 10 seconds until my calf cramps. Like, oh, man. Because, you know, there's a certain degree to which people can rush their orgasms. Like, all right, it's business time. Let's go. But gee whiz, you know, even the assumption that you're in this position of like, okay, Bob's only got 30 seconds in this position. Let's make it happen. That can build a little bit of anxiety. It can build a little pressure. Some situations, that's really hot. It works out even better. Many situations, many people, that. That ain't it.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
I think, ideally, from a sexual health perspective, all ideal sex is to be built on a foundation of no time constraints and total comfort. Right. If you have that, like, boy, oh, boy, you can build castles in the sky. But if you aren't physically fit enough to ensure that you look like you're having a good time, because you're not, and your partner's like, are you okay? And you're like, to be honest, not really. I can't crouch like this anymore. Yeah, yeah. You would benefit from more physical fitness, that you could at least grin and bear it. Because, listen, sometimes I was going to say as a man, but as a woman, it sure goes both ways. There's a bit of chivalry to this. Like, if it is demanded of me to enter into a position in sex, which is difficult on my body, but she likes it. Your boy's all in. I'm gonna.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
You feel me? I'm gonna hide all that shit and do what I have to do. And that's cool, because once she gets off, you feel like hell. Yeah, I did that shit. And I was in shape to do that.
Dr. Reena Malik
Right.
Dr. Mike Israel
So that's definitely another concern of, of fitness and exercise and sex intersection is being able to do the thing. And then of course, being able to enjoy it yourself is another huge one. Because there may be things you want to do that you're like, I'm not doing that because I'm not of that body shape that would let me do that. And listen, all shapes are beautiful in their own way, but some shapes just allow an adaptability to many different kinds of positions. Like, yeah, you know, the Kama Sutra illustrations. I'm just not that skinny. They're like, you see the one where they're like seated and facing each other and still doing it. I'm like, yo, I need about 19 more inches. My legs don't do that. Yeah, but if you're of a, of a body shape that you find more enjoyable and, and one that is more pliable, flexible, et cetera, you can just do more sex. If you have better endurance, you can do more the kind of sex you want and the partner wants. And that brings me to my last point, which I think is maybe one of the most important things about sex and exercise. I missed a point. This other one's a big deal. The other one is you have to have the blood flow to the areas, et cetera, in order to have the best time of it. There is definitely a sense in which long term metabolic health supports long term peripheral neuronal health, and that means a sensation effect as well. Nipples, clitoris, glans, penis. Like, if you have excellent vascular health in your 50s because you've been exercising and eating right, you're going to feel a lot of feels. If you have worse vascular health, please correct me if I'm wrong, but, like, the sensation might not be what it used to be.
Dr. Reena Malik
Well, you're not going to get an erection as a man.
Dr. Mike Israel
For sure. For sure.
Dr. Reena Malik
And then as a woman, you won't get the same sense of arousal because your clitoris won't get engorged.
Dr. Mike Israel
Yes. And even if it does get engorged through medical means, maybe like some kind of, not in a huge way neural atrophy, but less kind of dendritic sprawl might lead to like, oh, you can get blood in there with two Viagras, but it doesn't. The sensations don't feel as good because like, yeah. So establishing exercise and fitness is a way to have a healthy body, to experience all that, to perform through all that and to be healthy enough is what I got through so far. My last one off the top of my head is really really important. And I don't know who it's important for more men or women. It might be roughly similar. I'd love your take on this. But occupying a physical body which isn't perfect, no one's trying to look.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
When the machines build our bodies for us with AI Dope, they'll be perfect. There'll be a time for that. But for occupying a body which you are sufficiently comfortable and confident in to really be your full sexual self with the lights on. And some people's body confidence is so, so low. Speaking from my own personal experience, no doubt in my earlier years, even with the lights off, there's some stuff like, you know, he grabs you there or something and you're like, you don't say anything because you want to throw off the moob. It doesn't feel right because you're like, you start getting these recursive thoughts, like, he's saying all the hot right things about my body, even when he touches the parts I don't love about myself. But is he just really, like, on his game? Is he faking it? Is he wishing I look different? That is the spiral downwards into like, nobody's having any more fun. And so if you use fitness and exercise to, at least on the margins, give yourself a body that you're a little bit more rock solid with, man, you're out there crushing it. And not only can you, I was going to say elicit more sex, potentially, it can be with partners you find more amenable, because we've all been at a point of our lives, like, I just need sex, dammit. And who the next person of reproductive age and says, yes, is that person? You could do better than that. And again, the huge one is in the bedroom or whatever in as God made you. Do you like what you see? And are you comfortable with people touching you and all your private parts? And if that's the case, boy, oh boy, you're just sexually liberated in a big way.
Dr. Reena Malik
That's huge. You know, I think we know that women certainly have body image issues, particularly after they go through life changes. So, like, they have a baby, they have body changes, they gain weight. It's inevitable. Right. And so they feel not like themselves. And then similarly, I think men do too. It's just not as vocal. Right. They have body image issues in the way they look, in their penile size and whatever.
Dr. Mike Israel
Wait, hold on.
Dr. Reena Malik
And I will say that weight loss actually helps make your penis look bigger.
Dr. Mike Israel
Yeah, yeah. The base of the penis gets smaller. The fat deposition.
Dr. Reena Malik
Is that how it Works the fat on the mons, right?
Dr. Mike Israel
Yeah, that's right.
Dr. Reena Malik
The fupa, as they say. So that gets a little less. And so you feel like your penis is longer, although it's always been that long. But that's a boost, right? That's a great thing.
Dr. Mike Israel
Huge. And I think for maybe especially women, again, it's wildly out of my area here. The ability to have a sense of intimacy is rather important during sexual acts. And so if you're so concerned with that, your body doesn't look or feel right, that can be a substantial impediment to intimacy.
Dr. Reena Malik
Absolutely.
Dr. Mike Israel
Because I think intimacy has a lot of kind of dominoes that need to fall before you get there. Now, they can all fall in 30 seconds if it's the right person or something. But, you know, many of the dominoes are social in nature. Like, oh, am I giving it up too soon? Is this weird? What else does he want? Is this the right guy? Is this the right girl? But at least some of the dominoes are like, am I in a place where. In my body where I'm like, good with this? Because, like, sometimes if you're going through a phase where your body doesn't look quite like you, like, I mean, women will turn down sex they otherwise want to have because, like, this ain't me. But if you, like, zap, magically put them into the body they had three months ago before they gained some weight or whatever, they're like, yes, hell yeah. And they just go on like, I've actually coached a variety of female athletes and none of this is part of me coaching them. It's just like, they're friends and we have really weird conversations. But with males especially, you see concomitant reductions in sex drive as you get closer to a bodybuilding show because your body's at starvation levels of body fat. Like, you forget sex is a thing. Like, you look at otherwise very erotically looking people and you're like, oh, they have shapes. You just walk off. But with females, sometimes they like, and it depends on the female, but sometimes they like so much more how they look as they get leaner, because that's their preferred aesthetic. Yeah, they're like ravenous. And you're like, why do, you know, have anything left to feed your children with? They're like, that's not what my body says. Whereas when they gain some off season weight, some of the girls love it. I mean, I think off season physique girls are like the tip of the spear. But some of them are like, I don't love this look as much. And so they get a reduction in actual, like sexual ability to have intimacy and drive and all that. Have you seen that before?
Dr. Reena Malik
You know, I mean, definitely in terms of, you know, I don't see a lot of women who are at like bodybuilding shape.
Dr. Mike Israel
There aren't that many of them around.
Dr. Reena Malik
But the teaching is right, when your body fat gets so low. Right. Your body's gonna focus on feeding itself. Right. It's not going to focus on sex drive at that point. And your testosterone production is lower.
Dr. Mike Israel
Yes.
Dr. Reena Malik
And testosterone is important for men and women for sex drive. Right. So if essentially you are not making enough testosterone because you don't have enough body fat, then you're going to have a lower sex drive. So I think that is probably primarily due to feeling more self confident in your body than any. Any hormonal aspect.
Dr. Mike Israel
Yes, of course. And because it's the opposite of what the hormonal axes are doing, it actually underscores how powerful those psychological factors can be. Because, like, if all the hormones are right, but you don't love where you are in your body, like, it doesn't matter. Whereas even if all the hormones aren't raging at the same time, if you really love how you look and it's the right thing, the right time, the right guy, whatever, you're like, hell yeah, let's get it done.
Dr. Reena Malik
It's so important because I think a lot of times people are looking for a scapegoat for whatever's going on. Right. My libido's low, I've gained some weight, whatever. And they think when I optimize my hormones, which absolutely can work for some people. But for some people, that's not the only thing. Right. And if you don't fix what's going on up here, you're not going to fix everything else.
Dr. Mike Israel
Oh, my God. Huge. Yeah.
Dr. Reena Malik
In terms of sex, there's obviously, as we mentioned, certain positions, certain thrusting, certain motions you have to do. So are there certain exercises specifically that you would offer someone who wants to improve their sexual performance?
Dr. Mike Israel
So there's so many ways to answer this question. Sexual performance definitely have some answers. I also have answers for, like, if you're looking to become sexually appealing to various kinds of archetypes of people.
Dr. Reena Malik
Okay.
Dr. Mike Israel
We could say, what. What would you like to look like in your body? There's also another thing. Sure. If you want to talk about any of this, you could just be like, shut up. Just.
Dr. Reena Malik
No, no, it's great.
Dr. Mike Israel
I love it. Some of the stuff. Stuff is like, like, if A female would like to look more sexually appealing to the average male or to a male of some sort. There is often a large discordance between what females themselves find aesthetically preferable versus to what guys find aesthetically preferable. The easiest way to illustrate this is you take a look at the difference in the morphology of high tier Runway models and adult film actresses. Adult female mattresses tailored for male pleasure. You know, these people look nothing alike. What's the, where's the. The daylight here? So there's lots to say about kind of how exercise can modify all those things. But for sexual performance, I would say that various forms of very deep squats, various forms of deficit deadlifts, which means you pick up the bar from kind of lower than the ground.
Dr. Reena Malik
Okay.
Dr. Mike Israel
Big range of motion. And various forms, especially of various hip thrusts and glute thrusts, are a very direct way to make sure that your thrusting ability has enough muscle mass behind it and that, you know, the thrusting itself now has a big range. If you take a really large muscle mass that's been trained with these compound exercises, sets of anywhere between five repetitions per exercise per set, all the way to even sets of 30, the muscle grows. And now if it has to do, let's say we're where I suppose we're allowed to talk about positions and stuff. This is crazy. I've never been on a podcast. Usually I just have to shut that part of my brain up. It typically doesn't work anyway. It just comes out awkwardly, as usual. If you are guy on his knees in bed, girl on her knees, doggy style, there's like, you know, gravity doesn't have to be overcome. Seriously, you just don't have to thrust that hard. And you can use your hands too. And, and if, you know, you get the motion of the ocean bed frame moving properly, it just kind of rebounds half the work for you. So if you exercise, doing those exercises often or enough to get the situation improved, that's such a small percentage of your maximum abilities. You can kind of, kind of do that indefinitely. That's just not hard. Yeah, right. So if you can deadlift as a male, if you can deadlift, you know, 225 pounds for sets of 15 from a deficit, there's not any kind of real world sex that's going to challenge you because if you pushed as hard as you could, like hurt the woman or something, she'd fly off of you. So that ability to be high endurance, you don't even have to train endurance for that. Because if your muscles are big and strong enough, it's such a small fraction of their maximum ability that they're just barely trying.
Dr. Reena Malik
Right.
Dr. Mike Israel
And so in addition to that, if you train in those exercises and get those glute muscles especially bigger and stronger, you can be in a situation where if you have to do some very hard thrusting, because let's be honest, sometimes that's what, that's what's required. That's what is preferred.
Dr. Reena Malik
Correct.
Dr. Mike Israel
I like to call it. This is a disgusting term, but like rhinoceros sex, like it's like a lot of females reproductive age, maybe it's with gentlemen of my body type exclusively, but they prefer to be not in a. Well, all goes, all's fair and love and erotica, but very heavy downward pressure. Being grabbed and pushed down and more or less smothered and hit up real hard. Is this something. It doesn't appeal to me particularly, but something about that just like jungle, very evolutionarily old, kind of just like alpha male. Primal, primal, heavy. He's on me. I can't move. Amazing. And so that kind of stuff you might need some power for. And then if you have big strong glutes, you can always do five or six thrusts in a row that are psychotic. And she's like, that's it, cash me out.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
So. And you can cycle between heavy thrusting and light thrusting, heavy thrusting. You just really have a toggle. And that's because if you take a car that has a maximum speed limit of 5 miles per hour, just a really tiny engine, which is it can go one mile an hour or a long time. Sure, go five miles an hour and then no more. But if you have a car that goes 160 miles per hour to maximum, you can go one mile an hour if you want. You can go 30, you can go 40, you can go 100. So being really, really strong and more muscular than you would typically expect can give you a huge range in sexual performance. And range is a big deal because not everyone likes the same thing. You got to be ready to do that or do that or do that, does that.
Dr. Reena Malik
And variety is so important. Right. I think in people who are in long term relationships, they get stuck doing the same thing over and over again. And say you're not lifting right now and you start going to the gym, you start lifting and now you're like, hey, I can try this different thing. And now your partner's really turned on and wants sex more often because you've tried something different.
Dr. Mike Israel
100%. The other thing I would say is there is a Good deal of an ability to train the abdominal musculature. Again, probably training it for muscle size and relative strength endurance. So sets of 10, 15, 20, all the way up to 30 in, resisted abdominal exercises, various crunches, various sit ups, machine crunches, et cetera. You can also do some planks and isometric work. But remember, sex generally isn't isometric, it's dynamic.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
So having a strong abdominal ability, especially both from the perspective of pulling your rib cage down, but also bringing your hips closer to yourself. So like hanging leg raises, straight leg raises, those exercises and having that abdominal ability, the ability to contract your glutes for the thrusting motion coupled with the abdominal ability to scoop your pelvis up and in. Oh, yeah, that, that's going to get you. And especially if you're a man on bottom, woman on top of. Yeah. You can pin your legs and thrust with your glutes. Sure. But also the scoop motion is a big deal then. And sometimes in various situations, you can't really like prop your legs. You have to just do all core.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
And then you don't want to be the guy that's like, hey, listen, we gotta move a little, I gotta do this anymore. Right. So that's a big deal. And I would say another thing is if you train overall body musculature, you're pulling muscles, you're pushing muscles. Being able to do, you know, pull downs and rows and push ups, you can prop your body in a variety of positions that can make it long term sustainable. So like if I'm, if it's like, I don't even know what this position is called. Man on top, woman on bottom. Is there a name for that?
Dr. Reena Malik
Man on top, woman on bottom.
Dr. Mike Israel
Missionary.
Dr. Reena Malik
It's missionary.
Dr. Mike Israel
Is that it? I don't know.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
If you're the guy, if you're not able to prop yourself up on extended arms and keep doing the deed because your upper body starting to get weak or fatigued, that's a problem.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
But if you're really good at doing push ups and bench press and stuff, you can prop there kind of indefinitely and that's really a big deal. So I think overall general whole body fitness has to be mentioned because I don't want to just say, oh, it's just the glutes and the abs and you're good to go.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
Like if you have whole strong endurance body from resistance training for sets of probably 10 to 30 repetitions per set, hard, multiple sets multiple times a week, you'll start looking at part two, which is cool. Then you really are making sure that whatever limits there are to your sex and ability to have it are purely creative and direct tissue related in nature. And your body's good to go for whatever.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah. No, I think that's so great. In terms of your personal experience, I mean you've sort of, you've had a different experience. N of 1 have you found that your abilities in the gym has translated into more variety, more fun, more excitement in the bedroom?
Dr. Mike Israel
These are intense questions. Are they? I love it. This is intense. Yeah. So there's definitely stuff when you get much stronger that you can do. This kind of violates the laws of physics. Do you want a standing 69 is. I can visualize pick you up, I flip you over, I curl you to my face.
Dr. Reena Malik
Okay.
Dr. Mike Israel
And you do whatever the hell you want down there. But your boy's up here standing.
Dr. Reena Malik
Standing.
Dr. Mike Israel
Yeah, like I can do that.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
It's insanely difficult for most people to do because they're like I'm holding 100 and some odd pot objects. But that's not that, that's not that heavy. If you go heavy enough in the gym, right. You can do exotic positions. I certainly, because of my muscularity, can't do any kind of bendy stuff. That's completely out of the question because of my like. So I weigh like 225, 230 pounds. I will say that for a variety of females it's. Not everyone's into this and I'm like otherwise grotesquely unattractive. So all the caveats here. I'm not some kind of sex God or something. I barely know my way around. But it seems to be that if you're of a sufficient, sufficient bulk, size, weight and you have kind of broad shouldered upper body, also have the benefit of having like a whole body of hair, there's a certain like animalistic drive that you can appeal to. I think because sexual partners can recognize both if they've been with you for a long time or if it's a bit of a newer thing. There are a variety of feelings they have in regards to sex. They're maybe a little bit taboo, but definitely a part of the equation is if all is consensual, there's nothing wrong with them. I think that a variety of females like to play at the borderland of their feeling of safety. I think that if you feel completely 1,010 trillion percent safe with your man, is he really a man? Does he give off man vibes anymore? Sure, but that's a different thing in of itself.
Dr. Reena Malik
Sure.
Dr. Mike Israel
Now you're not gonna, like, look at a gorilla in the zoo and be like, that's it. I'm submitting my body to him. It's so risque. He'll probably just kill you. I don't think he sees you as a reproductive female. So that's too much.
Dr. Reena Malik
Right.
Dr. Mike Israel
But somewhere where you see a dude and you're like, yeah, he didn't look safe, but he's kind, and he looks at you that special way, you're like, I feel safe, but I don't. Yeah, this is it. This is the thing. And if you have a physical presence and you're jacked, even if you grab consensually.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yes.
Dr. Mike Israel
Grab a woman by her waist, just a little tight, she's going to feel feelings that are like, oh, boy, I'm being held by a man. Man. Not a child, not a boy, a man that does things.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
And so being jacked, not to all women. Some women are like, you know, if you're a hipster, skinny dude, that's it. You're the best. Which is dope. Like, if I was into dudes, that's kind of dudes I'd be into. But if you are a woman who at some time in her monthly cycle, sometime in her life or sometime always is finding that she's attracted to bigger, stronger, manlier guys, if you're a guy becoming more of that archetype, leaning in is a big deal. And I also, like, if you are a guy and you can't lean back on the fact that you're physically dominating in a space with another female, sometimes it's tough to find your. Find your surfboard of manhood on which to base your confidence, on which to base your sexual moves. Because a variety of sexual interactions. You talk about foreplay and stuff like that. Yeah, dope. Like actually just the urology part. In and out. That's all we do. Get this foreplay out of here, you lewd asshole. You know, a lot of foreplay and a lot of the sensual interaction and sex is an ability to convey confidence. Not cockiness, not rudeness. But, like, at least on the male side, I'm here fully accepting of who I am. I have, like, no discomfort whatsoever with my naked body, which is like, this is a gift I've always had. Even I'm not in good shape. Like, if, like, naked videos leaked of me on YouTube, which, good luck finding them, but I don't know where they are. I hope nobody's sees them. It's awful. But if the video is leaked, they'd be like, oh, my God, that's your naked body. Be like, yeah, yeah, I got nothing to hide. But if you can feel that way and also have a sense of, like, when you're seen in with incrementally less clothing, that she's gonna like what she discovers, it can really be a big deal for manhood. Confidence, sexual confidence. And that confidence, nice that you have it, guy. Good job. Congratulations. And other male privilege. But also it really, in many cases, the female feeds off of that. Because if you are with a man who is clearly not confident in his presence, gee whiz, does that dry up a lot of girls? You know, I'm no girl, but that's what I've heard. Like, if a guy comes in and no matter what his vibe is, he's secure in his vibe, man, that's hot. Absolutely right.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
And so if he comes in with the physique that says screams unequivocally, I'm a man, not only does she hear the screams, so to speak, off that physique, but you hear your own, oh, here I am a gorilla.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
And then the vibe is hers and yours at the same time. And she's like, gee, I'm really in this bedroom with, like, a wild animal. But he's polite and kind and asks me what I like in bed. That's it.
Dr. Reena Malik
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Dr. Mike Israel
I'd love to have you circle me squared. This is. We're good. Whereas if you're a guy and you're like, oh, I don't look so good, I should be exercising. You know, like, you know, the shirt reveal where the guy's like, he takes his shirt off. And the romance novels and was like, oh, my God, if your shirt reveals like, ta da. And she's like, oh, oh, I thought you were like a fitness person. I start crying. That's good for no one. So outside of the technical abilities like pick people up, you know, it's cool to be in a body that's like, maybe more at masculine than required. Yeah, it's kind of like being in a female body that's. I don't know if you're familiar with the term. It's erotic a term. The bimbo, not in a derogatory term. It's like the extreme version of a 50s pinup girl. Like, teeny tiny waist, big hips, gigantic titties, big lips. Like just old, hyper sexualized female. Like, that's the equivalent on the other side. The other side is like bodybuilder dude. Like, whoa, that's a lot. That's too much for many people. But at the very least, the closer you get to that to preference, the more you can be like, I really feel like a sexual person person.
Dr. Reena Malik
Right.
Dr. Mike Israel
You know, and that's, I think, important for everyone to go around. And of course, obviously, the last one, the easy one, is outside of being able to put your weight down on someone and have them feel heavy weight. Like, yeah, like, you know, I've squatted like 500 pounds for a set of 10 before. Does not the limit to. How am I allowed to swear? You can swear every now and again. Okay, some of this is. This sounds strange in technical terminology, so let's just put it bluntly. There's a limit to how hard I can you. But your pelvis will break way before that limit. And that's nice to know that if she's like, harder, you're like, okay, for sure. You better call EMS before you just tire out. You're like, I guess I couldn't do it. But yeah, it's cool to have a body that can, like, way overqualified to be putting the sex down, basically.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
Because you don't need all this for sex. Good God. You know, people would do a third less muscle, but it's nice to have extra.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah, absolutely. And I think you bring up a good point about confidence. And I think you can. You can be confident at any size. And I think that's a huge part of what draws people to each other. Right. Like, you don't have to look like you. You can look like an average guy.
Dr. Mike Israel
You'd be much better off looking like.
Dr. Reena Malik
An average guy and be really confident, and that's gonna be a huge turn on. And I think that's really important to bring out because I think there's a huge component of that that's missing in a lot of people who are feeling insecure sexually. And that's not helping. Right. I think that's a huge. For both men and women. I think it's even a turn off for men to be with a woman who's like, oh, do I look okay? It's, you know, can you leave the lights off? Like, I don't think that's a turn on for men either.
Dr. Mike Israel
I can tell you categorically it's not. Right thing is like, men are so hyper driven to have the sex.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
They'll look over like, they'll overlook no problem. No confidence, no problem. But it certainly is a huge difference between oh, I had sex versus like, dude, that shit was ravenous. I don't even know, should I call her again now? Like, I miss her already. Will you? Girl with some confidence will do that second one for you. A girl with obvious signs of she doesn't want you to look at some point. Like, for me personally, I'm not all usually able to continue on in sex with someone like that. I want to back it up and just cuddle and talk and just make you feel comfortable, establish some comfort. Not, not even at that point so that we can have sex just because like the sex time has passed. If you're not coming to me in a way that you feel like, this is the real me, let's have it. I don't want to. Like, I'm almost. I feel like I'm doing you a disservice by pouncing on you at this time. Like, I want you to have the greatest time possible, which is such an important thing. If I just want me to have a great time, I got two hands for that shit. Two hands and a VR headset. Am I right? Anyone? But if you know, I'm with a woman now, nowadays, my wife, like, priority number one is she's having the best possible time. There's a whole deep pride associated in an art and an approach and a system with how to pleasure women. Like, that's what you really do. If you're at some level of sexual expression as a man, like once you've banged enough random people. Yeah, that's nice. Let's cultivate something real special with the next person I'm with. And if they're not like in that place where they can be confident, rule number one is you try to say very kind, gentle things very slowly and have a deep conversation to bring confidence out of them. You can do that in a lot of cases. And then they're like, who gives a shit what I said earlier, let's do it. But sometimes it's just not that time. But if you're a guy and you're relatively average of body Fat body distribution, etc, or a girl. And you, for a few months, take your fitness a bit more seriously. Burn a little bit of fat, build a little bit of muscle, and feel your curves a little bit more as a girl. Get your swollen on a little bit as a guy, just a little bit. If you feel like the, you know, Friday night, you're going out to get you. Get you some sex, right? And whatever, whatever appropriate way that right after you get out of shower, you look yourself in the mirror, kind of sort yourself out if that Friday night, after a few weeks or months of fitness commitment, you look at yourself and you go, okay, okay. Damn, this is it. Yeah, I'm looking fresh. You're every single thing from. I hate to use the term, but seduction or pickup or whatever, however that works. Attraction.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
Everything from the generation of attraction all the way to the culmination of the sexual episode on both sides, male and female, just goes better exclusively on you vibing with your own body. Better. Now, of course, that body also comes with better physical abilities, better erectile abilities, better flexibility, mobility, endurance. And so all of a sudden it's like, gee whiz, you know, if I'm. If sex is kind of important to me, you know, the physique matters. And it doesn't matter. I really don't want. Because, like, a lot of folks will see this podcast and look at my weird shaped head and my muscles and all, they'd be like, okay, this idiot thinks we all need to be professional bodybuilders to have sex. Got it, weirdo. I'm not even into that sort of thing. I'm not saying that at all. I'm way on the other end of, like, if I. If I. I remember, like, I'm like, so I'm 5 foot 6, and I had close female friends tell me that once I got heavier than 180 pounds. Like, anything more is just exotic. And no longer as attractive as I was at 180. And I got. I totally feel that. I don't give a. I just want to be jacked, Right? But so what I'm saying is you don't have to be a jacked rhinoceros picking up standing 69 people. But just a little bit more fit than you're used to is an interesting thing to play with, because if you get a little bit more fit and your sex goes through the roof, you're gonna be like, I wonder if I get a little bit more fit still, would something happen? And a lot of times you get a little bit more fit, you're like, nah, it's just linear now. No big deal. It's not worth it. But a lot of the times people are having certain kind of sex or able to attract certain kinds of sexual partners, are able to exude a certain amount of confidence that they assume is just like a baseline that just never changes, I must say. And, and I want to keep this as politically correct as possible because, I mean, in the best possible way, especially for females. What months and months and years and years of a fitness commitment that radically transformed the female physique can do for her confidence and definitely for her ability to attract a broader range of sexual partners is massive. Massive because, oh, I'm being a little comedic and sarcastic when I say the following, but most guys are real simple when it comes to dating.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
When it comes to relationships of depth, guys are complex. Guys are nuanced. It's not the same game. But when it comes at least to the sexual part at face value, even just hookups, if you are absolutely stunningly beautiful and you have the personality of just a total, just awesome, awesome person that people want to hang around with, but you live in a certain body that's a physical shape that is not conventionally attractive, there are absolutely guys that will be interested in you genuinely. But your pool of potential candidates shrinks substantially. It's kind of up. But if all of a sudden you're in a body that's just like 10 pounds more muscular, 15 pounds less body fat, but your distribution was such that it mostly came from your waist, you can just like quadruple the number of guys in any given circumstance, they'd be like, yeah, I'll take a shot at that title. And if you're looking for intimate, deeper relations that aren't just sex, your candidacy pool for guys that consider you attractive enough to even allow that kind of relationship into their head is now like three or four times greater. And so I, I don't like that. I don't like it at all. I don't like the fact that if you are, let's say, substantially overweight as a female, that, like, guys will be friends with you and they'll be chill with you, but they won't enter into sexual liaisons with you or forget relationships, because that's downstream of that for many people. It's, it's, it's messed up. It's. It's heartbreaking.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
But because it's also statistically true as a female who has it in her power to do something about her body only if she wants, I'm Just here to tell you that, yeah, personality is the most important thing for long term relationships by a long shot. But if you want that entry point, being in a body that's universally more physically attractive is unfortunately, realistically an enormous unlock. It's like if you talk to girls and you're like, listen, ladies, I'm trying to meet as many women as possible. I'm in my late 20s, early 30s, I'm trying to settle down. How important is my raw income level? They could tell you whatever they. Oh, it doesn't matter. It's your personality. Shut up, Linda. Okay, here are my tax returns. And she's like, I. I think I'm wet. This is your real numbers. Like, ah. This is taxes too, that total income. So like, if it matters. Right. We don't want it to matter. Like, we've all seen Aladdin. He was just a poor boy and she was a pr. I got the thousand. I was raised on that. I've seen Aladdin a thousand times. Right. Like, but like, that's how it's supposed to be or whatever. But it is. The other one about males is like height. Like if you're 6:3, you could do a lot of wrong. And the girl's like, whatever, let's talk, let's do it. It's tall. Tall and wealthy or tall and of high income, eventually wealthy prospects. Like a guy comes up to you at the bar and you're like, whoa, what's up? And he's like, oh, I'm just like, you know, between jobs. You're like, okay. He comes up to you like, what are you doing? He's like, well, I'm just gonna. Surgical neuroscience last year in residency. You're like, what say, what was your name again? It's a difference. And so just the same way, I think a lot of females are really attuned to that. But because if you're much bigger or much smaller as a guy, for females to look at this, this doesn't matter as much. Yeah. Even if a guy has some extra pounds, if he's holding it like he's a big dude. Most girls, because just a bigger guy, they don't need you to be stripped up eight, six packs. Most girls don't care about that and guys don't care about six packs. But they do care about relatively small waist, hourglass figure. If you can get yourself closer to an hourglass figure, it's just going to convert. For lack of a better term. Again, I am not endorsing that.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
It's just the reality does that make sense?
Dr. Reena Malik
Oh, absolutely. I mean, I think it's, it's very true. Like, I think someone asked me on a podcast, like, what do you think men should do to attract female, you know, female partners? Like, well, there's certain things you can't change. Right. You can't change your height, you can change your income if you try, but everyone depends on what they're working with. But you can be funny. And I was like, they're, if you're a funny guy, like, you're way more attractive. And so I think there's, there's a lot, unfortunately more at a, a man's disposal to make him attractive in terms of personality than there is at a woman.
Dr. Mike Israel
Yes. And I think the opposite is true for long term relationships. And this is a thing that attractive women, from my experience and viewing the literature briefly, really get themselves into a bind with. They'll like, I, I've known a lot of women over the years, all great people, by the way, but they will invest substantially into their physical attractiveness because they kind of had a leg up to begin with. And then they were like this, this is just like, I can talk to any guy in the world and he generally wants to talk to me more. I'm gonna lean in. And so they are fit, they're like fashionable makeup, the whole thing. And they date tons of guys. And they have a real serious problem keeping a guy for a long time. And they've never really thought about the fact that while attractiveness physically is the universal entry point for relationships with men, it only gets you passed into the foyer.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
And after that you're just like, so what are you up to? And he's like banging you as fun. A week later, a guy who's, I don't want to say worth it, but a high quality man that many people aspire to be with is going to be like, yeah. So this thing you have going with your awesome body and great sex, I love it. The thing is, I can get some other version of that any Tuesday night at the bar, no problem. Up here we're not. You're not funny, you're not cool, you're not smart, you never pursued any pursuit, any academic characteristics. So, like, when I first met my wife, I saw her body in real life. I was like, God damn, is it legal to be that thick? Go to somebody, send this girl to jail. You feel me? Yeah. Amazing. Just 10 out of 10. But like, the fact that she at the time was in medical school, she had an undergraduate master's degree in chemistry had taken a level of mathematics successfully in college that I never even got to. I was like, yo, this is a wife boner alert. Like, I wasn't thinking about like, oh well, you know, this will be fun for sex. But then, and then I found out over time, not that long of a time that she was super cool.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
And like hilarious. I was like, that's it, wife. This is in. And that was that. Like it was just not that complicated. But I married my wife exclusively for non sexual, non body qualities. And I tell her that all the time. She decides to blow up £300. Yo, like I don't give a. Sex is not that big of a part of my life. You don't get married for sex. Now sex is an integral, excellent, highly valuable part of a good marriage, right? Or a good long term relationship or even good dating. But a lot of times women that over invest in their physical attractive are like wondering why guys don't stick around. Well, you never invest in any of stuff that sticks around. So that while the guy that maybe isn't the wealthiest, isn't the tallest, isn't the most handsome, isn't the best shape. Once you date him for a few dates to where you realize he's looked really funny and really cool, girl, you ain't leaving you waiting for that ring. That's it, it's over. Whereas for girls, they think that same thing applies. Like, I'm hot, I get the guys to date me. Once they start dating me for a while, they're not going to be able to let go. Like, yeah, they will. And if you're not investing into humor, into education, into just banter, like, do you know how to talk to people? I've been around plenty of attractive women. They're like, so yeah. They're like, yeah. And you're like, okay, I don't know what time is it? I haven't got here.
Dr. Reena Malik
Like, what are we going to talk about?
Dr. Mike Israel
Yeah, like are we going to get to the act and then I leave or is there no act? So you just leave now because this is terrible. That's definitely a thing. And it works kind of opposite for males and females in that regard.
Dr. Reena Malik
We could talk about this all day, but I want to talk about fitness a little bit.
Dr. Mike Israel
Yes, please. My apologies.
Dr. Reena Malik
It's okay. So I think the biggest thing about fitness, right, Is getting motivated. So to the audience member that has, you know, listened to us and is like, spend a lot of time on YouTube, watch a ton of your videos. Watch my videos. They've learned a lot about exercise, but they can't get themselves to start. How do you get them to start?
Dr. Mike Israel
I like to scream at people. I like to show up to their houses early in the morning, at night, really. So I think there are a variety of things you can do to relieve the impediments of the difficulty of starting. The impediments are many fold, but some big ones stand out. One is difficulties of what do you think you're starting? Because sometimes people will be like, all right, I'm going to get into fitness. I want to start working out. The general idea they have in their head about what that means is like 5:30 in the morning, two hour workouts Monday through Friday. That's fitness. And you can't blame them because it's like all the movies, you know, the transformation stories. It's all that.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
They follow their favorite fitness influencers that are famous on Instagram. And what are they posting? Same. They're like, well, that's what everyone does who's in the best shape. So I have to do that. And in reality, what can take someone and completely revolutionize their shape if they don't typically, like, lift weights? And exercise is half an hour per session, two sessions a week. Done. Right. So when you tell people this, that thing you're trying to do, exercise, it's actually not that much. All of a sudden they're like, oh, oh, it's not a big deal. That's not a big deal. Someone's like, you have to slay a dragon. You're like, are you serious? Like, the dragon is the size of a miniature dachshund and doesn't breathe fire and doesn't even fly. You're like, oh, this is kind of pathetic. Does he know I'm trying to kill him? Oh, no, Mr. Dragon. So you were super scared, but then you realized the problem's not that big.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
And so the big thing is, is like, even if your goals are to be eventually a psychotic exerciser, don't put the cart before the horse. Start with two sessions per week, 30 minutes each. That's a big problem solved already. I have tons of more of these. What do you think about that one? Do you think that helps?
Dr. Reena Malik
I think that helps a lot. I mean, I think absolutely, like, when I was younger, I definitely thought that, like, I mean, probably that was the only time I could work out when I was in training. But like, but, but, you know, you, you're like, I just, I couldn't keep it up or I made a goal this week to work out every day this week, and then I didn't do it, so what's the point? You know, why continue?
Dr. Mike Israel
Totally. So, okay, here's another one right off the bat for that one. Exercise and fitness are two things. One, when you establish a certain earlier level of fitness, your body's ability to come back to that is so amazing that it happens way faster than you would think. It's just way easier to come back to fitness than to get it eventually or to get it the first time. So if you were really committed for three or four months and you fell off, you're like, I had to redo all this work. Now just a couple weeks later, you'll be in the best shape you ever were. So that's when people fall off. Hey, it's not that big of a deal. So that's an important thing to say to folks. The other thing is this. Fitness is an esoteric concept, so it doesn't judge you, ever. And nobody in the gym is selfless enough to notice that you're there or not there. Everyone's there for themselves. Where was Rena in the gym? I never saw her. Like, what? Nobody? No one. Keeping track, right? And the guy keeping track, you really need to make sure the police know about him. That guy. Hi, it's you again. You're like, jesus Christ. I've been to the gym in six weeks. I'll never forget you. So when people get off the wagon a little bit, they're like, oh, coming back to the gym. But I feel so. Nope, nope, nope, stop, stop. Don't feel so anything. The gym always welcomes you back. Fitness always welcomes you back. So that only do your gains come back faster, but you're welcome back anytime. And so if you fall off, it's no big deal. You can always come back. There's a lot of people have done gym before, but their motivation to do it again is sullied by their experience of like, but I'm a gym failure. It's like an in group out, group thing where you're like, tried out for the cheer squad one year, and the girls all laughed at you and you cried and fell and ran and cried and fell. Then you come back to try out next year. It's the same girls that people get that vibe. Yeah, not that vibe at all. And if you come back to the gym, the gym owner is going to be like, you're back. Amazing. Because to him, you look like a giant green dollar sign.
Dr. Reena Malik
Right.
Dr. Mike Israel
He loves you back. All the other gym people, at very worst, just don't Care, don't know who you are. At the very best, they're like, hey, it's good to see you. All of a sudden, you're totally welcome back in. And people don't have to carry that moralistic weight of like, I tried eight times to do fitness and I couldn't. Like, I couldn't bear the pride of trying again. Like, girl, there's no pride in it. Just come back anytime you want. No big deal.
Dr. Reena Malik
And I will say, as a female, I remember when I started my fitness journey, I was like, we went to the gym with my husband. Oh, I'm just really nervous about going into the weights area. And he's like, come on. And he's like, let's go. And so we started, you know, we started working out together and I was like, oh, yeah, this is no big deal. Feels like all in my head like, oh, someone's going to judge me because my form is off, or someone's going to judge me because it doesn't look right or whatever.
Dr. Mike Israel
Okay, so I've got all the unlocks here. This is exactly my special. When guys talk to you in the weights area, it's a little scary for the first couple times. Sure. It's not because they're judging you. There are few different kinds of interactions you're likely to have there. One is they are awkward and they just want to help you and they think they know things about fitness. Maybe they do, maybe they don't. And because guys that are awkward tend to be a little bit obtuse, they could just like autistically come up and be like, you're doing that wrong. I can help tell you how to do it better. You're like, okay, who are you again? Yeah, so that's an interaction. But that interaction probably doesn't happen super often because most of those guys don't have the self confidence to talk to girls at the gym. So preponderance interaction you'll have that generate a little bit of discomfort for females in the gym. In the weight room area is guys will come up to you and try to teach you how to lift quote unquote or correct you. But trust me, me, they're not judging you. What is it, Chris? Chris Rock just said that about something else once. File under just trying to get laid. Just trying to get laid. And so it's annoying as a female to have to deal with that. But don't worry, they're not all exercise anatomists or some like that. They barely bros barely know what they're doing themselves. But if you come in there and you look female enough and attractive enough, they'll be like, hey, you ever considered curling like that? And what they really want you to say back, and ideally Lee, is like, oh, my God. Ah, you're so strong. Can I curl like you? And you touch their muscles and then later, blow job in the bathroom. This is where they're. That's where that leads them. That's all nonsense.
Dr. Reena Malik
Right.
Dr. Mike Israel
But if you're a woman, you know that. You also know that. Okay, so no one really gives a crap about my technique.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
There's not like a mean girls attitude where it's all girls in the gym and they're all muscular. Like, really, you're gonna do that? Get out of our right room. Those girls don't. They're not real. There's none of them in there. You can go check. And the fitness girls that are really in shape, they look intimidating, but they usually love other women to come into the weights thing super supportive. They want you in the best shape possible so you can be a fitness bestie.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
And so they're not judging you. She's like, actually ran out of people to judge you. And it turns out, like, is often the case with females and males. The judgment's been up here all along. Like it started in middle school or something. We haven't been middle school in a really long time. And so you just show up to the gym. Yeah. It's scary. And people look like they're judging you. They're not. They're not. Like one out of every hundred people is an insane asshole and he is judging you. But don't worry, he judges himself. Or she judges herself way worse and cries himself to sleep at night.
Dr. Reena Malik
Right. That's the. Pretty much the case with any bully. Right. Or any like, weird person. They're just like, they have their own issues.
Dr. Mike Israel
Them. Problem.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah, it's a problem. You said the right way doing that. 30 minutes, the right way. So what is the right way?
Dr. Mike Israel
My way? You gotta download the RP hypertrophy app. But I don't know. I suck at marketing. So the right way to save time, but still get a lot of benefit is to take mostly exercises that train large parts of your body at the same time. Compound movements. If you do like an underhand pull down. If you do like a chest press machine, you have hit like three muscles at the same time. Back and biceps and shoulders and triceps and chest and all that stuff. And if you take those movements that don't have muscles that are related. So for example, you have a rowing machine pulling in like this. It trains muscles of your back, it trains the back of your delt, and it trains what are called the forearm flexors, biceps, et cetera. And then you get onto a pushing machine, like a close grip bench machine that trains your triceps, your front delts and your chest zero of the same muscles functionally. So that when you do the row, your pulling muscles tire out. As soon as you're done rowing, within five or ten seconds, you're on the pushing machine. Pushing. Those pushing muscles are getting taxed and tired, but the pulling muscles are actually starting to recover a little bit during that time. Then as soon as you're done pushing, five or 10 seconds later, you're back on the row. So you alternate what's called a superset. Pushing and pulling, pushing and pulling for four or five sets, sets each, you know, 10 to 25 reps per set, roughly. It gases you out like crazy. Crazy cardio. You're sweating bullets, you're burning tons of calories, and you're building up a ton of workload to both groups of muscles. And it's a ton of muscle. So you're checkboxing tons of muscles all at the same time, as opposed to going into the gym and doing like one arm at a time. Curls and then resting three minutes between sets. Oh, that'll do good. But you have to be in the gym for like eight hours to get that to be a thing. It's like pro bodybuilders. The judges told them, like, your right bicep's a little smaller than your left. You'll see them doing one bicep at a time and resting for a long time, then really trying harder than resting. They have all the time in the world. That's their job, right? But if you are otherwise occupied and you need a maximally efficient routine twice a week, 30 minutes at a time, using mostly compound exercises, large muscle mass. You can do some isolation stuff like a bicep curl with a tricep push down combo. But that combo is critical. Unrelated muscles combined with one another. Another example is like, do some push ups and then do some squats. Do some push ups, do some squats. Not really any overlapping muscles that while one group of muscles is resting, the other is working, and so on and so forth. You take the rest times between sets and you contract them to almost nothing. And then you get your next exercise pairing, and you're like trying to look at your app on your phone to see what you got, and you got a Towel. Trying to make sure the sweat's not in the eyes and on the app and your phone's short circuiting. Okay, I got dumbbell press and upright room next. Okay, you find your station. You do the thing. Do the thing, do the thing. So, like, to you, the gym becomes allout chaotic warfare. For 30 minutes. You leave the gym, people like, I think she just trained harder than anyone's ever trained ever or something. They definitely, at this gym, everyone else around you while you're training fit that kind of feels guilty that they're not working enough. Some guy was going to rest three minutes. He saw you training. He's like, all right, two and a half minutes is enough. I got to get back into this. But you're really maximizing your time. And the really good thing about this is because it stresses your cardiovascular system so much. It's also great cardio work. It's great for overall general health. And for the sexual stuff. It'll get the blood moving big time. If you can survive 30 minutes of intense sets of 15 to 20 reps, very close to failure. Multiple sets of. For the whole body. Yeah. Sex is just not that hard because I don't know about you, I've never had sex that intense.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah, no, that's. That's. I mean, I'm. I'm. I'm scared, like, of the intensity you're describing, but it sounds, like very efficient.
Dr. Mike Israel
Yes, and. And it. It's super efficient. But. And here's the other thing. Beginners to exercise benefit from teeny, tiny doses of exercise. So if you go into the gym for the first time ever, and you're like, dude, I don't want. What did he say? Chaotic war for 30 minutes. That ain't neat. Do a set that challenges you. Do another set of an exercise that's the opposing muscle groups, and then move on to another pairing, to three pairings, and leave 15 minutes later. Next time you come to the gym, just do the same thing. And you're like, wow, this is kind of easy. Next time, do a little bit more. Add a set to each exercise. You can scale it for months and months and months to get to your kind of, like, working amount. It takes a while for you to be good at exercise. One of the phenomenally, in retrospect, hilarious but understandable things about people who are scared to be in the gym is they're like, I don't want to, like, do stuff wrong. Like, do you. Are you typically the best at doing stuff when you just first started? Imagine, like, took German in high School for two years and you finally landed a German vacation. Like, I sure hope I don't mess this up. Like, stop. You're gonna mess it up. It's okay. We're all learning in the gym. Like, there's videos of me doing exercises I swore were great two years ago. Then. Now I'm like, I have like three better exercises. Exercises. And that. That guy's an idiot. So we're all learning. It's not a big deal. And it's okay to start out with very small weights, very small numbers of sets, very small time commitments. And slowly, as you feel your swag building a little bit, you can expand into the space.
Dr. Reena Malik
Absolutely. Same thing with sex. I think people think that they just have to be really good at it for the first time. And I'm like, no, you don't know what you're doing.
Dr. Mike Israel
Like, for the first time, jeez, I'm truly uphill.
Dr. Reena Malik
You don't know what you're doing. And you just of kind gotta have more of it to figure out and get good at it.
Dr. Mike Israel
Right? Yeah. Okay. This is quite lewd. But I was gonna say, like, the hilarious thing is, in retrospect, the who's gotta put this in the proper context of appropriately aged people. Adults. First time, awkward. First times are like warm knife through butter hot. Like, God damn, that is awesome. You can never replicate that either. You can't fake like. You can't fake sexual oct. Nice. Did you ever see the movie Twins with Arnold schwarzenegger and Danny DeVito?
Dr. Reena Malik
I never saw.
Dr. Mike Israel
It's a great film. Maybe Arnold was playing, you know Arnold, right? And like prime governor. 100%. Exactly. Of course. That's right. I'm California. He played a person who had like. He was like a. Like a 35 year old virgin. That was his character and he was like on an interview, he was like, I started having adult interactions in my mid teens and I was never lacking for that attention. Probably by Miles. And he's like, playing a person who was totally innocent to sex was the hardest acting I had ever had to do in my entire life. Say awkward around girls. What the hell? Like, remember parts of you that died when you were 12? So it's funny that people put all that expectation on, I better be good at this. The first time, like, no, no, no. It's built into the first time that no one's good at it. And that's part of the fun.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah, absolutely. You have critiqued a lot of workout programs. What's been the worst?
Dr. Mike Israel
Oh, geez. If you remember, I Do Pepperidge Farms remembers. I'm not going to say it's the worst.
Dr. Reena Malik
Okay.
Dr. Mike Israel
But I do have a candidacy list for rock bottom. And it was probably some workouts. No offense. This person was otherwise awesome. Kim Kardashian was doing a workout where they're standing up. It's like an aerobics lifting workout.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
And they're moving dumbbells in ways that are not orthogonal to gravity. And so, like, there's no functional resistance whatsoever. And like. Like movements where they're, like, standing and they have a dumbbell like this, and they're doing this. Okay. We see. You see gravity points up and down. It actually doesn't point left to right. So you're getting an isometric contraction for your upper arm musculature, but that you would get the same one even if you didn't move right. And so a huge variety of the movements they did in that sample workout. And this wasn't just her working out. Like, total respect. You do what you do with your trainer in your own time. Still make fun of you on the Internet. All for the laws, but it's all good. This was a workout tape that they were recording, a workout DVD that they were recording for other people. And it was like, most of these movements are not loading the musculature they're supposed to be loading in a challenging way. It's tantamount to, like, signing up for driving classes of how to drive a race car. And the instructor has you do loop de loops in a tricycle, and you're like, but is there a point at which he's like, nope, it's tricycle course. You're like, I signed up for the wrong course. So if, you know, Kim looks phenomenal.
Dr. Reena Malik
Right?
Dr. Mike Israel
And a lot of that is because, like, you know, if you're Armenian enough, you just have baller genetics. If you have great genes and you work on your diet, which she does, and, you know, work out on cardio and other capacities. And, you know, like, with all due respect is, I'm going to be getting this myself. But a substantial amount of cosmetic surgery, nothing wrong with it at all. I think it's a beautiful thing. It's enhancing. You can look a certain way that other women are like. Like, it's the workout that got her like that. And like, man, the workout. She whiz that it ain't it. And so it's kind of stinky from the perspective of, like, I don't expect her to be, like, a role model for people or anything. Only the extent that she Wants. But it's kind of weird when tons of people are like, it's the workout, and you're like this. It's not. Don't copy her. You're not gonna look like her. And people copy other people, and it means a lot to them. I used to be a personal trainer for some time, and a lot of women, when asked what they want to look like, they're like, jlo. I'm like Jennifer Lopez. Okay. Exactly like her. Amazing. Let's you. We'll do it in two weeks. Like, really? Like, no, Never. We're never gonna look like her. You're gonna look like your best version of yourself.
Dr. Reena Malik
Right.
Dr. Mike Israel
So that workout where it was kind of like, it occupied almost every negative stereotype about female lifting that you could all at the same time. Pointless movements, lack of any fundamental challenge, total resistance to using heavy weights, total resistance to sweating or anything like that. It was just rabid disorganization of the plan and no attention to musculature that females actually likely want to improve. Oh, also, a variety of myths like spot reduction. Like, you know, like, if you do this, it'll really. It'll really get your. Your shoulders nice and toned. Like, it'll increase their muscle size. Well, not with the weight you're doing and 50 reps from failure. It won't do anything, actually.
Dr. Reena Malik
Right.
Dr. Mike Israel
But even if you do it really hard, it is actually true to say it's going to grow your shoulders and it won't burn fat off of your shoulders. Only slight increase in physical activity over weeks and dietary control over weeks can do that part. And the rest of how that body fat comes off, that's just genetics. And so I guess a bonus point, cherry on top, is adding in myths like spot reduction with the ability to remove fat from a certain part of your body, which your surgeon can do for you, but nothing else really does super well. That was just like, yeah, that's got to be one of the worst ones because, you know, like, back in the day, when we started the exercise critique thing, I was kind of snarky, and it was all for fun, blah, blah, blah. It's still all for fun. I'm trying substantially to be more positive and saying, like, let's see what we can get away from this person and understand that's positive that we can use. And that was just one of those workouts where, like, all the positives were like, here's something not to do, but.
Dr. Reena Malik
It'S important because you're right. People look at these celebrities and they're like, Oh, I want to be like them. And so I should do their workout, but they're not seeing one. Everything else they're doing. And a lot of these trainers who work with celebrities, it's because they like word of mouth. Like they worked with my friend. They worked almost all right. And so. And they're not necessarily the best. They just happen to have the connections that brought them to that person. And so they don't necessarily have the knowledge that you do. For example, someone who's actually trained in exercise, you know, physiology, I think it's important what you do because I think a lot of people are like, oh, I just need to do this and I'll, I'll have that. That waste. And yes, right.
Dr. Mike Israel
In a lot, like tens of millions of people.
Dr. Reena Malik
A lot.
Dr. Mike Israel
And for those people who have gotten over that time in their life where they assumed that you're doing what celebrities will do is going to look like, make Migi look like them. I'm sure they're eye rolling right now as well they should be. But, but it really is a lot of people I would love to see. Oh, it's just teen girls and they all grow out of it. Like I've coached 55 year old women that are like, I want to look like her. And you're like, okay, but I want to do her workouts because they make her look like her. And I'm like, pause. World's biggest pause. It just doesn't work like that. And in the end, the workout that, that's going to make you look the best probably looks something like much closer to CrossFit than it does to like whatever celebrity women are doing nowadays. And celebrity females will do all kinds of workouts that are like, whatever. I mean, you live in the LA metropolitan area. Some of the fitness trends out of LA gyms are just like, what do rich white people just get with a lot of time, what's the next we're gonna get into? White people show us. No offense, white people are great at taking a joke. So it's just like really like, no, no offense. I'm sure this is a great way to get fit. But they had one a few years ago where there was like a drum circle. One where you like the, the drumsticks were sort of heavy and you would drum and everyone would drum. And I was like, oh, can you just, can you, you, if you like show chat GPT like, okay, here's a video. Where did this happen? It'd be like Santa Monica, right? You're like, yes. How did it know, zero geolocation.
Dr. Reena Malik
It knows Beverly Hills.
Dr. Mike Israel
Yeah, 100%. And so a lot of times what you see celebrities doing are just whatever celebrity fad that was in then. And a great person to talk about this too is Ethan Suplee. Do you know who that is? He is a. He's an actor. He's been in tons of movies. He was like the, the. He was in like Mall Rats and stuff like that. And he was very, very overweight for a long time and eventually lost weight. But he's been, he was, grew up in Hollywood, literally. And he's a lifetime actor. He's in his 50s now. And he's like, he did every single Hollywood diet fad and workout fad there ever was. He's like a walking encyclopedia. And he could tell you exactly how and why they don't work all that well. So, you know, when you're looking at it, it's so easy. People do this with athletes all the time, too. They look at someone who is of note of financial means, of incredible sporting talent, famous in Hollywood, and they make an assumption that at face seems logical. And I don't hate of like, clearly these people have the access to the best, and clearly these are discerning people and they're only going to be trained in ways and coached by people that are like the cream of the crop. And, and the reality is that's just not true a huge fraction of the time. And there's one really easy answer is why it's not true a lot of the time. You can explain this with, okay, how much? Again, no offense to these particular individuals. It's just me rambling. Let's say Britney Spears is doing a workout that's like wacky and doesn't make any sense. So, my God, like you're saying she's got people around her that don't know things. Like, no, no, hold on. Who chooses which trainer Brittany works with? The answer is probably Brittany does. And is she an exercise specialist? No. Like, if you told me, hey, Mike, go choose someone who's an expert in sexual health and performance, I'd be like, I, I have absolutely no idea what that field looks like. I could be talking. I actually was listening to, trying to listen to a podcast on the kind of sexual stuff not to prepare for this interview just because it was like in the feed or whatever. And after about a minute and a half, I realized this lady just knew nothing because she was just wrong in every single point from evolutionist psychological perspective. I was like, she just interviewed herself right out. Right yeah, let's just have some kind of base knowledge at least. This lady has hundreds of thousands of followers and they listen to her and what she says about relationships and dating. You're just like, this is not a person to listen to. But like she's famous, she's on the Internet. So when celebrities, like a lot of times and because now like nowadays I know some celebrities and I've trained super, super wealthy people in New York as a personal trainer before. I know how the sausage is made. Here's how it actually works. They like have a workout friend that sort of knows working out. Like, hey Bill, who should I get to train me for the next movie? And I call my buddy Frank. He's the man. Like, Frank, get over here. That's it. Frank got the job, right? Or the studio provides someone. Or the studio is just like Frank has to tried trained a couple of celebrities and met the studio rep from Miramax or whatever. And other Miramax guys, like, was that one guy Frank? Frank? Was it Bill Frank? Frank, Senator to Frank. That's how that works, right? It's not like some kind of like a Rolodex of like, well, who's NSC certified? That doesn't exist, right.
Dr. Reena Malik
I mean, that's so true, right? Like, I think it's with anything. It's one who's like, who knows who, who might be the most well spoken or most eloquent in selling themselves and who is like, I got the secret sauce. Like they don't. They're not telling you. But I got the workout that no one else is telling you. Right? It's the same thing for medicine. Who. I got the, I got the thing that the doctors aren't telling you. Right? It's the exact same thing. And people like, oh, you're, you're a godsend. You're amazing.
Dr. Mike Israel
And people are awesome in the sense that once you show them some results and you're kind to them and you at least seem genuine and one of these that, that you did touch on was like, you're cool. Yeah, hanging out with my trainer is cool. Once you kind of ingrain yourself into people like that, a lot of people are loyal, which is an awesome quality. Slightly misapplied in some cases where like imagine saying like, you know, imagine you're in a car market and you've always had a certain type of car, but that kind of car, like there's just better cars now. Like, nope, I'm a, I'm a XYZ car. I'm a Toyota man myself. But this year's Honda's just better at everything you want. Want. Like, no, Toyota's all the way. Like that's cool, right? But also like you could missing out. And so some people, they'll tell you, like, Bill's my trainer, he's the best. They don't mean that in any literal sense that they can understand or articulate. They mean that in Bill's my man, he's my buddy and he's got me some results. And I trust him for no other reason than like we've been together for three years. He's been training me and we're friends and he's cool.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah, we're good.
Dr. Mike Israel
And I feel like when I talk to him, he gives me the real deal. I have no ability to parse whether or not it's the real deal. This is way outside my expert area. Like, my brother in law is actually a really dope computer security expert. Whatever the hell he tells me about security. Computer security is what I believe, right. I have no idea if he's right or wrong. Now I know he's the man, but like, I know he's the man because he has technical degrees and he works in a high level on his field and all this other stuff. But if I, if he was just my brother in law, I really didn't look into it. Of course I'd still think he was the man. And so a lot of times when celebrities are like, this is the guy you want, like, trust me, there is not much under the surface. And here's the thing, that person could be awesome. And a lot of times they are. So I'm not here to say celebrity trainers are awful people. A bunch of times they're, they're the best person for the job, right? But like maybe about half the time they're like just a guy that one person's friend knew from high school. And that's.
Dr. Reena Malik
And to be honest, if you work on your diet and you do some resistance training and some cardiovascular aerobic training, you're going to get results.
Dr. Mike Israel
You're going to need some effect.
Dr. Reena Malik
So you're not going to like you can. As long as you have a reasonable brain on your, in your head, like you can get somebody results if you know the basics, right? And so I think at the end of the day that's okay. But what's the harm in that? What do you think the harm is?
Dr. Mike Israel
The harm in that is similar to the harm of telling people that once you were diagnosed with cancer, the doctors told you you had six months to live and then through herbal remedies, the cancer went to total remission. And you never even did chemo. And chemo's. It just poisons and kills people. I'm here 18 years later to tell you that chemo is a sham. It turns out the body has its own recovery mechanisms from all kinds of stuff, cancer included. And sometimes, you know this as a doctor, cancer just goes away. And everyone's like, I guess your body did that thing. We have no idea why, no idea why. And also, like, I do find it comical when people say, doctors told me at xyz months to live. Like, I know enough medicine to know. Doctors almost never speak in terms like that. Like, oh, you got. When do you do your taxes next? Yeah, I'd get them done before February. Like, just say stuff like that. The situation looks pretty dire. Typically patients, in this case, this is the data we have that will, you know, here's the range of expected outcomes and people just like, oh, I need one integer, like this number, right? So it doesn't happen like that in general. So what's good about that is that it get. As long as you hire a personal trainer or coach that holds you accountable and is chill and motivates you or inspires you enough to be more consistent than you would by yourself, you're already winning. You can go to the casino and win $5. Either casino and win 500, both are winning, but there's very big gap between the two. So what you're missing out on, what the downside is, you could be having categorically better results, faster, safer, and you aren't. What you're missing out on, that's unseen because it's not a distinct cost. Like, people are very attuned to distinct downsides. If the next presidential candidate comes out and his platform ends up taking the average American's income and dunking it by 25%, boy, oh boy, impeachment hearings are coming. But if a president under a different set of economics policies could have seen everyone's incomes rise by 10% per year over four years, but he didn't do so great, and it rose by 5%, you could go back and say a story of like, dude, you can't even got 20% richer over four years. Shut up. Yeah, we could have been 40. That part's tough to see. So when people are getting great results from their whatever trainer, what they're missing out on is they could have had results that were completely an elevated just magnitude better with someone that was better. And dare I say that how you look and how you feel and how you perform sexually in your body. Like, really important to people, especially if they're willing to try for a long time and really pour in time and effort. And let's be completely honest here, like, exercising hurts. It sucks in some big way. It's a beautiful and awesome in another way. But, like, it's brutal because you got to put yourself through all that brutality and then later find out like, yeah, your trainer did your diet wrong. You could have lost like 10 more pounds. You're like, yeah, yeah, seriously, you could.
Dr. Reena Malik
Have gotten there faster.
Dr. Mike Israel
Faster. You know, like you're on a cruise with friends and you had a little transformation and another girlfriend from your friend group from college shows up. She had an even better transformation. And you're not the jealous type, but you're like, so what have you been doing? And she like, goes through this whole science if a principle that stuff your trainer said doesn't work. And you're like, son of a.
Dr. Reena Malik
Right.
Dr. Mike Israel
I could have been her. Why? And it, it, it's another quick analogy is like, you got an amazing car. It's in the front of your, your house. You're like, look at this thing. 20, 26 model year. It's silver. And they're like, oh, that's the Lexus GS. Whatever the hell. You're like, hell, yeah, it is like 65, 000. You're like, 95, 000. They're like, I got mine for 65. And you're like, what? And they're like, well, yours is a different model. Like, no, it's the same model. It's the same car. Now look, does that change the fact that your car is awesome? No. Is it still worth $95,000? Yeah. You would have paid 160k for that car. It's amazing, right? But like, when you know you could get it for less, it feels weird to get it for much higher price. So, yeah, your workouts could be awesome with your current trainer that's not super evidence based or doesn't know what he's doing or she's doing, but if you get your workouts dialed into science, you could just be having amazing workouts. And because you know your trainer's evidence based in the proper way, you also know they're staying ahead of best practices and modifying your workouts to make sure that you're always getting the best. It's like going to a doctor in, you know, urology or plastics or whatever. Like, because they're board certified and because they continue to practice, you assume that they're continuing to use modern best practice, at least roughly. And when you find out that's not the case, you're like, there's this whole other method for doing this procedure that we could have done. They're like, oh, yeah, but I don't do that. You're like, God damn it. So, you know, like, it's a FOMO almost.
Dr. Reena Malik
Absolutely. And I think, you know, so that was actually a question I had for you, is like, you know, science based exercise. Science, right, or science based exercise. What are, like, things that people often do where if they fix this, like, minor thing, they would see major results? Is there. Is there like something very specific like that? Like where you're like, oh, you're not getting your full range of motion or you're. You need to spend X amount of seconds in your eccentric contraction. Like, what are the things that you think really help?
Dr. Mike Israel
Tons. A few big ones. Getting into a deeply uncomfortable stretch position for the muscle. So if you're doing dumbbell bench, not just going to here, but going all the way down to where your pecs are, like, oh, geez. That's where a lot of the growth happens. That's a big one. Another one is taking every single one of your working sets. You know, like a set of 10. Iraq. Very close to muscular failure. So if I see you at the. At the gym and you're benching, you're doing this rack. Wait, I'm like, how many reps did you have in there until you couldn't do it? You're like, oh, I don't know. I have no idea. 50? A million? Infinity, functionally. Infinity? Which? You can't even ask me. Most of your sets after your warmup, the last rep should be like. And then you rack. Now you're working hard. You stack together multiple sets like that, going through a deep range of motion, you're getting results. Another one is how many sets you're doing total per muscle group. In the gym. Some, you know, females would be like, I want to grow my glutes. Like, I want that. That shelf. And they, like, do three sets of lunges and they're like, okay, that's it. What's next? We got shoulders. Your body can recover if you work up to it from five to 10 working sets for a single muscle group three or four times per week. So not only can you do five to 10 sets per muscle group, maybe with two or three exercises, but also part four is you can train more often than you think. So if you think like, oh, like, I need to hit my glutes once a week, my shoulders. Wants and females recover faster than males. So if you can, if you're no longer tired in the muscle, muscle feels normal, it's no longer palpably sore, you can go again and that might be the next day or two days later. So if you really want to work on your glutes and your shoulders, you can train them Monday, Wednesday, Friday. Train them through a full range of motion. Deep stretch, Train them very close to failure on the working sets. Do five, six, seven, eight working sets per muscle per session. Hard. Do three sessions a week. And the last one, not really a surprise or a quick unlock, but consistency. And that doesn't mean you don't take a few weeks off here and there of just doing nothing. That's good for the body, it's good for the mind. Every year, a few weeks of just you. I'm in Aruba, where, don't worry about it, you can't reach me. I'm not even at a hotel. I'm just lost.
Dr. Reena Malik
Right?
Dr. Mike Israel
That's awesome. But if you can string together two to three month phases of your hitting the gym, more of the days that you plan to than not, you're gonna see results because you can do all the things right and have an amazing workout. But an amazing workout is, to use a sexual analogy, is like an awesome thrust. Can you imagine? You're the dude, you're on top of the girl. She's like, oh. And you're like, what'd you think about that? She's like, I honestly like to see about 1500 more of those. Chop, chop. One's not gonna cut, one's a good start, but come on, right? And so people will be like, oh, man, I had a great week of working out. I hear that. And a part of me is like, that is awesome, Go. But a part of me is like, so much.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah, keep going.
Dr. Mike Israel
I'm not trying to be cynical, but like, my best, better angels, my nature are like, that's great. Let's see. Week two, because if you stack eight weeks of all the tips I just gave, you are going to look and feel and perform differently. But if you mess up a bunch of those, you get this sad situation that we were sort of talking about earlier, which is like, oh, you work out on paper, but you tell people you work out, they do one of these. You're like, I work out. And they're like, oh, what the hell did you look me up around for? Yeah, you're like, ideally, you want to get to the point. You don't have to tell people to work out. They're like, what's your workout? And you're like, oh, oh, well, how did you know? Like, shut up. Stop. Tell me your workout.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah, you mentioned glutes. So what are the best exercises to grow your glutes? This is a personal question.
Dr. Mike Israel
This is going to be on the YouTube watch time. It's going to be listed despite the podcast. So the glutes are trainable through a bunch of different movements. And so my big thing is don't restrict yourself to just one best thing. It's like seeing being on like a really fancy cruise ship and seeing an amazing dessert buffet. And you're like, come up, like, come here, worker. What's the best dessert? He's going to be like, what? Dozens of them. They're all amazing. So glute exercises such as deficit deadlifts are amazing. Basically pulling up, picking up a bar from the ground, but from below the floor so the plates are smaller or you're stand on platform, puts the glutes into a crazy stretch, is heavily loadable, is awesome. You can do wide stance and even normal stance squatting. That's really great. You can do any kind of loaded hip thrusts. However, don't just go in the gym. Lay down on the mats with your hands down and just hip thrust like this until you're blue in the face and not even blue in the face because you never even got close to failure. Set up a bench or get to the machine, put some weight on those hips and hip thrust through a full range of motion and then eccentrically control on the way back down, hard sets of 15, 20 reps. That's going to be brutal. So like all of these exercises, I'm suggesting these are not go through the motion exercises. The last category of exercises, sorry, two more. One is kickbacks. They're decent. You can do them with a cable, you can do them a kickback machine. The more you stretch up at the top, the better. They're cool. They're not as effective as the others. The raw stimulus magnitude just isn't as great. But they're effective. Especially peppered in with like Monday and Wednesday you did deadlifts and super crazy amount of squats. Friday you might be just toasted. So like, maybe some isolation work is good. And then lastly, what I consider probably on average the tip of the spear. The most efficient and effective glute exercise is any variety of lunge, but specifically front foot elevated lunges. These can be done on a Smith machine, so you Get a little platform that's like 2 or 3 inches above the ground. You put, put it up front, you put your front foot on it, you take your back foot and you just barely push off with it at all. For stability, you grab the Smith machine bar, load some weight on there. After warming up, you go all the way down, slow and controlled until your knee touches the ground gently because your front foot is elevated and your knee touches all the way to the ground. That front glute is being loaded maximally with highest forces at its least advantage position. And it's mega stretched. And we know that stretching under load causes lots of growth. And so this is one of these things where you haven't done this before and you're doing it close to failure. Do one set for each leg and don't do any more glutes that day because you're going to be so sore you're going to be able to like sit down on a toilet without screaming. And people are like, are you okay in that stall? I typically don't ask this, but you're screaming like, I'm fine, I'm fine. This is my glutes, front foot, elevated lunges, walking lunges, but again with dumbbells, with barbells, with kettlebells, with a weight vest, with something. If it's your body weight and it's tough for just a few reps body weight until you can do 20 or 30 reps. And when it's not tough, you grab weights, challenging the musculature that's going to grow the glutes. If you do a deadlift and it looks like a deadlift and it's good technique, but you're using £80 with one of those preloaded bars. But you're strong enough for the same reps to do £160, you're just moving around, which is good for general health and good for you feeling like you did something. It's not going to grow the glutes. There's a problem in gyms across America of males on average, some not all being too egotistical and too prideful to do good technique. And to stop short of ripping themselves into pieces, they just get hurt all the time because they're. I can do £300. Like I don't think you can look spot me, bro. That's guys. The extremes on females, not all females, but some is the very good technique, good consistency, just aren't grinding it and throwing themselves into challenge enough. Which means either not heavy enough or not close enough to failure. Or when you fix one of the two of those, both get fixed because you're like, I'm not getting close to failure. I'm not training heavy enough. If I just did the same reps, but I trained much heavier, I would fix both of those. If you're female and you want to have better results in bigger glutes, ask yourself all those questions of are you doing the simple things to elevate your plan that we talked about earlier? Are you using those core exercises of deadlifts and also hip hinges of a variety of modalities? Good mornings are great stiff legged deadlifts right now. They hit your hamstrings too, but also hamstrings, at least aesthetically. You put on a pair of tight jeans and you have a nice glutes, like, it looks great. You have nice hamstrings and glutes. It somehow synergistically makes you look just totally obsessed seen, like in the best way possible. So consider those kinds of exercises and when you're doing them, start slow. Good technique at all times, control the motion on the way down, pause and come up. But over time, once you're warmed up and after a few weeks of getting to know the exercises, start turning that dial on how uncomfortable you can become with good technique. In those exercises, I set a goal to do 10 reps, but hit 9. I can still keep going. Go, go, go. You're at 14 and your legs are shaking. Okay, now you can stop. You're going to feel it the next day. You're going to be a little bit sore, a little bit tight. That's what you want.
Dr. Reena Malik
Let's talk a little bit about strength versus hypertrophy. So some people want to train to be strong but not get big. And some people want to get big. And they will likely be strong, but maybe, you know, they'll be as strong as someone who's not necessarily as big as them. How do you change a program for someone who just wants to get strong? Do you do calisthenics? Do you do just body weight? Do you like, is it still the same? We're still going to failure.
Dr. Mike Israel
If somebody is a very new beginner to lifting, they don't have a choice. All resistance training is going to get you bigger and stronger. There's not really a dependable way to train. Even if you just do one rep max at a time and leave that in your first few weeks or few months won't get you a little bit more jacked. But if you've been training for a little while, you can train in such a way that only makes you stronger, but no bigger, or you can train in a way that makes you a little bit stronger over time, over the long term, much stronger, but generally just makes you bigger and bigger and bigger. And it all comes down to repetition ranges. So if you're doing something roughly between 5 and 30 reps of a weight that's very close to failure for you in that rep range, as many as you do more and more sets, you get more and more growth. That's how you train for size, for strength, training in the 3 to 6 rep range, training in the 2, 3, 4, 5 rep range, especially 2, 3 and 4 rep sets, close to failure, but it's just way heavier and not doing quite as many sets, maybe 2/3 the number of sets that you would typically do for muscle growth, if you've been training for a while, won't appreciably cause as much or maybe sometimes even at all muscle gain. But because it trains your architectural parts of your muscles, the connections between the different parts and the which way the fascicles point and all that stuff, and also trains your nervous system, it's going to get you substantially stronger for a long time. So basically, sets of 2 to 5 repetitions for strength, sets of 5 to 30 repetitions, but with more sets for muscle size. And if you're consistently, when you're training, getting pumps, you know when your muscles feel like swollen and tight and you're getting delayed onset soreness, like a day later, you're like, oh my God, this is like, it really hurts, you're growing. And if you're providing the food, you'll, you'll hypertrophy, you'll grow muscle. But if after your most of your sessions your muscles feel a little tired, but the otherwise they don't get a pump during the session or anything like that, and you're eating in a way that's not gaining you body weight, you're unlikely to gain as much or even in some cases any muscle mass whatsoever. If the number of sets is kept to like 2 or 3 per workout per muscle, versus like 5, 6, 7, 8, that's when your body's like, okay, I got it. Signal received. I'm gonna start to grow.
Dr. Reena Malik
Got it. For health, probably having some muscular hypertrophy is beneficial though, right? In terms of having more muscle mass because it's continuously declining as we age.
Dr. Mike Israel
Yes, you can actually prevent that decline completely. There's no reason that someone in their 70s can't have as much muscle as the average untrained person in their early 20s, it's not that high of a bar. Resistance training is such an unbelievable ability to pack on muscle that you can be as muscular as the typical young healthy person almost at any age of your life. Of course you have to try. Muscularity confers massive health advantages, especially if yours is low and you bring it up to kind of a normative standard. Muscle allows just by pulling on your bones constantly, it makes your bones stronger. Muscle mass allows you to be strong enough to have activities of daily living completely squared away. Muscle mass works as a baseline glucose blood glucose modulator because it consumes blood glucose all the time, annoyingly so. And it keeps your blood glucose dynamics much better than if you don't have it. And there are many people in this world that are relatively young and 30s, they have a very normal by BMI body weight but they have very little skeletal muscle and concomitantly lots of fat tissue. And there are pre diabetic, diabetic, hypertensive, the whole thing. In addition to that working out itself, working out hard to get that muscle is a massive driver of parasympathetic tone all over. It relaxes you in a deep way that you can't explain experience unless like a hard day's work relaxes you better than anything in this world. Like there's no woosai yoga that'll just be like pound your body and brain into submission, you show up at home afterwards, that's it, you're done. That's a really good thing for health. If you're never challenging your muscles in your body, you can accumulate a chronic level of baseline stress. An overdrive of the fight or flight response that never has a gasket to pull off and, and put that steam away. If you have an exercise plan that really pushes you, not only do you build muscle and have all the great stuff happen, you can really blow off steam in a way that's phenomenal for stress management. So I could, I could be on here for another hour talking about health benefits and muscle. They're intense. So up to the point where you think your muscles look grotesque and you don't want any more, it's probably more healthy to continue to put on muscle.
Dr. Reena Malik
So I want to ask a little bit about anabolic steroids.
Dr. Mike Israel
I can't talk about that. I'm totally kidding. I do it all the time.
Dr. Reena Malik
So you've been open that you have taken some performance enhancing drugs and we in medical school learn very little about anabolic steroids. But I want to understand because I think it's really Important for people to realize one, that it's much more common than we think it is. Like, many people use them. But why did you personally start?
Dr. Mike Israel
For a few reasons. One is, at the time when my colleagues and I were getting into the industry of fitness, like drug. The drug free part was teeny tiny compared to what it is now. And sort of, we surmised that to be taken seriously, you had to be like the kind of size that can only be achieved with steroids. So there's that. Another part is I've been a nerd much longer than I've been a lifter. And the idea that you can, through literal chemistry, modify your physique and performance in a way that is both profound and subtly and not so subtly dangerous is like working on the new stealth plane at Area 51 kind of badass. You know, it's just kind of like, wait a minute, I can use. I can use science to modify my body to become like a cyborg. Yeah, count me in. And so that's really like almost all of it right there. Yeah.
Dr. Reena Malik
See, obviously since then you've grown.
Dr. Mike Israel
You've obviously become literally because of the steroids.
Dr. Reena Malik
That too. But, you know, it's been years. And also you're a public figure. So do you feel like, weird, Right, Right. You are, unfortunately, whether you wanted to or not when you started. So do you feel like there's some responsibility in terms. Obviously you talk about it, but do you worry that maybe you're sending a message that, like, people should take serious steroids well?
Dr. Mike Israel
So I know for a fact I'm not, because I'm on record like a ton on YouTube talking about how steroids will mess you up at length in every video we make at RP on the YouTube channel, every video about steroids that talks about their, even their upsides always mentions their downsides. And we. I have a bit of insight into downsides of steroids that you won't catch in the medical literature because it's not experientially derived and also because it's like very succinct. And it was, you know, the research ended in 1978. All you got, we should know. There's, there's. All that stuff is correct. Steroids will mess you up like that, like the medical literature says, but they mess you up in a ton of different ways the medical literature hasn't even caught up to yet. So I'm always really open about that now. So if you're looking for a holistic idea of what it is, I think about steroids you will find it very, very quickly on the Internet, even not by accident. You just like type into Google or YouTube or chat GPT. Like, what is mike is retell downsides of steroids search. You're gonna get like five hours of audio and video of me talking about it. However, to your point, I am also at the same time variously extolling the benefits of anabolic steroids, mostly to linear things. Like, they'll get you more jacked. Like, I never really got into that lifestyle route of like, you got to take steroids. It feels amazing. Like, to me, it never really felt that amazing. I'm actually on TRT right now and I think feel the best that I have in years. Years as I hate steroids have made me feel it's toxic. But, you know, there's people that will extol the a variety of their lifestyle benefits. I'm not even one of those people. But it's absolutely literally true that steroids have variety of physiological benefits, like increases in muscle mass and so on and so forth and strength. And we already tried the thing, especially in the medical community, but in community writ large of, like, not telling people the whole trip truth and nothing but the truth. And it failed disastrously. Like, like, I didn't use drugs because McGruff the crime dog told me not to. But I was maybe the only person in my high school that listened to McGrath. The crime does. I didn't have any friends. And so it turns out if you tell people, like, okay, so, like, drugs are. I remember I was involved in a conversation in the seventh grade with a few folks. We were like, sitting out, you know, like, they put you to working groups and some groups go in the hall and some stay in the classroom. We were in the hall and they were talking about, like, marijuana and using it at seventh grade. So I. I automatically assumed they were degenerate drug addicts that were like, like seconds away from homelessness and depravity. And I was like, why do you do them? Like, do they, like, taste like strawberries or something? And I like, look back on that conversation of my mental model. I had no idea that taking something and putting in your body could make you feel differently. Like, if they said, when you smoke this thing, it feels like you're in the most exciting time ever with your friends. I'd have been like, oh, where's it at? Just kidding. I would have been like, you guys are degenerate drug addicts. But not telling kids, listen, drugs actually are really fun. They're really fun. That's why people do them. And in a variety of circumstances, they will up your life beyond recognition to where you can't have any more fun. If you tell them, listen, drugs just mess you up. And they find out drugs are fun. They're like, okay, so they lied to me about the. They're not fun. Did they lie to me about the messed up thing too? I know a lot of guys that use tons of steroids. They just don't even listen to doctors anymore. Some of these guys are not in good health. But if you're a doctor and you want to talk to them about it, they don't want to talk to you. You lie to them. The formal position of various medical associations in the United States used to be that anabolic steroids do not enhance athletic performance. They published this willingly in the 1980s because they wanted to discourage people from using everyone. I knew, they jacked you up. But they had a few studies for four, six weeks at a time with very low dose with it. Oh, it doesn't have any effects. Like, stop, that's not helping. Awful. And so my approach is give people at least my understanding of the whole truth. Steroids have upsides. They have downsides. For most people, the downsides are categorically worse than the upside. Unless you're interested in looking like this. Hair loss, there is erectile dysfunction, that's a whole other thing. Right, but the whole gamut, right, they're terrible, but they also have really big upsides. So if someone is listening to my stuff and from that vague glean that steroids are great and I'm going to use them, I'm sorry, but they could have gleaned that anywhere else. Does it fill me with a bit of trepidation that the young people could be using steroids? Because in some Instagram or TikTok clip, they saw my endorsement of them, but never saw the 18 page caveat after, yeah, yeah, it's messed up. Can I switch to be the person that only ever talks about steroid downsides? No, because first of all, like, I'm trying to real deal everyone. I'm trying to cut everybody the real deal. I'm not trying to BS people. There's been enough bs, Right? And also, I will lose massive credibility if I start just forgetting that the upsides exist. It's like, it's like a rich dude says, like, ah, more money, more problems. Like, shut up. You want to get rid of your problems, give me some money. They're cool now. Okay, so if someone's like, well, steroids Are all bad. Like, what? Really? It's just in your mind, what do you think? I don't know.
Dr. Reena Malik
No, I mean, like, I think that we need to talk about them. I mean, the fact that there's been no studies on anabolic steroids for decades is a big miss in the medical community. Because I see patients who come to me and they're like, I am on them, right? And now what do I do? And so I'm, like, working with them, trying to get them on a safer regimen of things to get them into a regular, you know, trt, because their testosterone's plummeting when they're trying to go off their steroids. And it's, you know, it's like you as a doctor now know very little because no one taught you. There's no research because not much to know. It's illegal, right? I mean, it's illegal. And so no one's gonna. No one's gonna volunteer for a research study. There's just so much, like, fear around it. And. And I think it's. It's a problem. I think we need to talk about the. The bad. And obviously, there is a reason people take it. Right? There's a reason. But, you know, have an educated discussion, like, don't get it from your dealer in the back of the gym, like, where they're making it in their bathtub, right? Or whatever. Like, that's what scares me. Right? And. And I just think, you know, I think we need to educate people, and we can't just say no. I agree with you. You can't just say no. Don't do that.
Dr. Mike Israel
Right? I mean, you can. It just has a certain expected effect. That's been very evident from all the other drug policies we tried. Just say no with. Yeah, great. Just saying no is. Has a certain effect. If you give people more nuance and you're more truthful with them, on average, that tends to work out better. Obviously, the polar opposite of that is, like, you just tell them how great drugs are and they should use them all the time. That would get the most people into trouble. But no one's really, you know, advocating.
Dr. Reena Malik
I can argue from this. From the sex side, right? People are like, oh, my kid's never going to watch porn. They're never going to see poor porn. Why are we talking about porn? I was like, everybody's watching porn. Let's be realistic.
Dr. Mike Israel
Kids are lying to you. Yeah.
Dr. Reena Malik
And their kids are going to see it. Even if you put all the locks on their computers and their phone, they're Going to see it. Right.
Dr. Mike Israel
And they're smarter than you with computers too.
Dr. Reena Malik
Exactly. And so like, we have to talk about it. Like, you cannot dig your head in the sand and be like, my kid's not going to have sex, my kid's not going to watch porn, my kid's not going to experiment with or be approached by somebody with drugs. Like, these things are going to happen and we have to teach them why people do these things and like, why not to.
Dr. Mike Israel
Yeah, I get. I've been a bit vocal every now and again about my understanding of pornography and its effects on various populations. And I get infinite amounts of, from all over the Internet for being like an upsides and downsides person with regards to pornographic consumption.
Dr. Reena Malik
Me too.
Dr. Mike Israel
Right? Versus someone who's just like, oh, porn is like the literal manifestation of, of Satan himself. And if you endorse it, you're just ruining society and destroying people. And like, I have all the time in the world if that's true. You know, like, that's probably true for like fentanyl. You know, like someone's like, yeah, I'm getting into recreational fentanyl. You're like, don't do that, it's not a good idea. But like you, I've examined at various points the actually sort of impressive empirical literature on pornographic consumption and use and demography. And if you're looking for like porn, like whole cloth destroying millions of people's lives, like on average, it's just, you're gonna look at a long time. It's like back when they used to tell me 80s, like you could take steroids, you're gonna die like right there in the locker room. And like bodybuilders and lifters and football players were like, where are all the dead people? Look at an uncle that did steroids a long time and he died when he was like 56 from a heart attack, but he also had like 18 steaks a day. And look, you know, huge anger problems, all these elevated blood pressures, always confounding factors. And so when people point out with pornography they're like, well, it can lead to isolation, it can lead to loneliness, it can lead to abuse and addiction. My response always is like, under what conditions and in what fraction of the population? Because of 90 some percent of the fraction of adult film content enjoyers are like, otherwise totally healthy. And it has demonstrably, empirically no marginally negative effect on their lives. And probably a small positive one. It's just really difficult to trot out. The story of like, porn will ruin you. Like if you're a certain kind of person, a certain kind of person, point in their lives, porn can you up. There's an infinite dark rabbit hole you can go down and never get out. Absolutely. We can't keep saying that to everyone because, like, everyone has friends. They're like, well, my buddies from college jerk off to porn all the time. They're totally fine and totally adapted. And you're like, oh, just you wait. You know, the guy's 97. You're at his funeral. Like, is it porn that killed him? They're like, no, it was a bus. You're like, the porn never got to him. They lied to me my whole life. You know, like, again, like, brutal honesty with a combination of upsides and downsides is probably a good way to approach a lot of things. That doesn't mean you need to have all kinds of technical nuance.
Dr. Reena Malik
Right?
Dr. Mike Israel
You can tell kids, look, steroids for adults can beef them up, get you looking like Captain America. Problem is, they have a laundry list of side effects. And, you know, when kids are old enough, 13, 14, 15. Especially if I'm talking to boys. I've been, you know, I've talked to the gym to 14, 15 year old kids are like, what about Tren? I'm like, you ever want to really just. Just get it on with a girl? They're like, yeah, like, and your dick just doesn't work? Like, no, like, well, guess what steroids do, fellas. Some of them make Mr. Willie not want to come out anymore. And they're like, what? I'm like, oh, we're just kidding. For you, that probably won't happen. It'll just close your growth plates early so you'll never reach adult height. And they're like, what? Like, oh, do you guys like my haircut? They're like, oh, I'm gonna stop. I'm like, steroids cause balding. And they're like, okay, I'm out, man, I'm done. And like, a lot of times the stuff you'll see in the medical literature is like, hurts your liver, hurts your kidneys. Look, you know, I'm not gonna. You know, I'm not the first person to tell you this. To a 14 or 15 year old, liver and kidneys are esoteric concepts. Like, okay, sweet. Like, I can take like 18 adderalls, have five beers, nothing happens to me. I'm immortal. Cool. But like, you start talking about erectile dysfunction, you start talking about sometimes the intelligence loss. Because there's some decent literature suggests there's at least short term Intelligence planting of steroids again for 14 year old. Everybody who cares but the adult height one, the growth plates closing. And the balding situation is one of those. Like, if you give them enough of those, they're like, dude, this is all real stuff. And I'm not talking about like, oh, every now and again it happens. Like tons of dudes are dealing with this. They're like. And all of a sudden they walk home. Like, they got to the gym, they want to use steroids, they're walking home and they're like, I'm gonna stick to creatine for a few months. Yeah, fuck all that. And none of it's a lie. Because if you start lying to people, you lose your credibility with them. Who are they gonna listen to next? I don't know, drug dealers or something. And those guys are like, yeah, take all the steroids you can.
Dr. Reena Malik
You are like majorly successful. You have a business, you have a wife, you are seemingly happy. What is your secret sauce?
Dr. Mike Israel
Steroids. I had to.
Dr. Reena Malik
I set you up for that one.
Dr. Mike Israel
I will say it's seemingly happy is a curious one. I've actually been a little less happy than I typically am in the last several months. I'm not sure, I'm not sure. I'm trying to figure it out. False attribution is a problem in psychology. I'm trying to avoid that, but I'm doing okay. But it's like, be doing better. So I will say, like, not to counter any of your points, but things may not always be as they seem. For sure, right? But you're like, okay, shut up. I don't care about how happy you are. You're making a lot of money and people know who you are. Damn it, that's what we want.
Dr. Reena Malik
Well, maybe not, right? Maybe you don't want people to know who you are.
Dr. Mike Israel
I really can't take it back now. No, no. Well, the funny thing is, is I actually never wanted to be famous or something. It just happened and I'm like, oh, sweet. I have like a pretty decent personality for, for it to some extent. Some extent. Not really, but let's see. I guess some of it's just like genetics or whatever. Like it would be just dishonest not to accede to that, you know, like the extroversion and stuff, the humor. Like, if you ever met my dad, you'd be like, ah, okay, you're a clone, great, but. So that stuff helps. But I think probably something folks can take away is dedication to things that you might not be the best at for long. Periods of time when I. Just to give an example, when I gave my first class lecture ever as an instructor, I was a master student, and I was giving my lecture to undergraduates in a laboratory class. It was one of the scariest things I've ever done in my entire life. And because public speaking is something that people rank above, like, shark attack. The shark is just one shark, right? He's not judging me, at least. He's just eating me. Being on camera. Public speaking nowadays, I get to swag out and be like, just whatever, because I'll go on podcasts, and people are like, do you have anything you don't want to talk about? I'm like, fire away. I don't give a. They're like, do you want the questions ahead to prep? I'm like, I don't need to prep. I'm just. I just come in, stocked, loaded, which is like, oh, my God, he's gifted. Yeah, sure, I grew into it, but years of giving lectures almost no one was listening to, being a college professor, talking to students that were half asleep, trying to jazz it up a little bit. Years and years of video takes on YouTube and going to conferences, getting butterflies and getting scared and stumbling over my words. But just after that incident, settling and being like, okay, you that up. Solid respect, fist bump to yourself, onto the next learning. I mean, I've been at this for, like, half a generation by now. How could I not be okay at it? At least. At least better than I used to be? So it's really easy to get to a space in your life where you're young, not very well practiced, any particular thing. You don't seem to have a lot of talents, and that's where I was in college. And you're thinking like, dude, you see people who are already doing the thing and they're good, and you're like, how? And a lot of the answer is, find what you just marginally like a little bit that you're passionate about a little bit. And at least at first, even just naturally. So spend time thinking about it and spend time investigating it. And then when you're into the thing, spend time practicing and then practicing and then practicing and then practicing. And then you're tired and you're almost burned out. So you take a little bit of time away and you forget about it. And then you come back and you're practicing and practicing and people come and go. People. The sun goes up, goes down. The clock does that thing in movies where the calendar pages are falling off, and that's some point you haven't even perceived it, but you're so much better at whatever it is you're doing than you ever were. And then the next young kid sees you doing your thing and they're like, how? And you're like, I've been here a long, long, long time just fine tuning my craft. And a big part of that is also trying to not be like super neurotic. I'm quite neurotic by nature to some extent. And so there's always this judgment. Am I progressing fast enough? Am I training in the right ways? Am I over training? I insert Judaism here. And at the end of the day, what really matters is like, you're on generally the right track and you're just putting in the hours and being kind to yourself and admitting that, like, I'm not always going to be perfect, boy, am I going to be back tomorrow. And if you can get that in line and set up weeks, days, weeks, months, years, whatever it is you want to do in this world, you're going to be better at. Because everything I've ever been good at, I was categorically never in my life unless I'm just missing something, ever good at something on a first try or a second try or a fourth. I'm always a late bloomer. But then for some things that I really get passionate about, I like leave everybody behind at some point. Well, you just keep going, just keep going.
Dr. Reena Malik
And those people don't.
Dr. Mike Israel
Those people don't. Or they do, but not as diligently. Or they do. And they're more talented than you and they get even further than you did. But you got so damn far for what you could have gone, or you went so far, you got ahead of everybody. And here's the thing, another, because you asked, word of advice for becoming successful. Comparing yourself to other people is only fruitful in one capacity. On a technical level, what can you pick up from them that you think would fit your style? What are you, what are they doing right that you're not? What are they doing wrong that you're like, okay, I really got to double down on not doing this as much myself. Because when I see them doing it, I'm like, that ain't it. Other than that, this kind of like egotistical way of doing it. Jealousy and kind of like a closed off mindset. It's so worthless, I can't even begin. I struggle with it all the time. I'll see some of my channels that I subscribe to on YouTube. Almost none of them are fitness related, like AI Tech, military nerd. And I'll see like how many views they got in a couple hours and I'll have automatic one of several thoughts every now and again. One will be like, they're not at our level at rp and what did. What a disgusting, pointless thought. And another thought is like, oh, they're damn good, dude. Are we doing something wrong in rp? What is the secret sauce? Like, there was a gentleman that was coming up and he's still super relevant, super big guy to the Sam suck. He's a big fitness guy. Every buddy in the fitness industry was trying to figure out what is is the magic of Samsula, because he was just skyrocketing and still is. And of course I had the same thoughts. And the reality after the whole seas settled is that Sam was just Sammy. He's the fucking man and he's the common denominator. And there's not much to take away from his wisdom outside of a few technical things of like, he's really genuine to his audience. He posts consistently. He doesn't do hyper over edited content. That seems again, not genuine. Sure, but like that's most of the magic other than just Sam's that guy. And so all of the squinting and grimacing at Sam statistics, leaving all of us behind wouldn't never help you as a person who is in their own right. So like, as you as a podcaster could ask yourself, what am I? Am I doing best practices? Are there people in the field doing other things that I should be looking at? But if you start measuring up like, oh, like, you know, on various indices, right now our channel is the number one fitness channel in YouTube by views. I have zero hand jobs to show for that, by the way. I have no. No one came over to congratulate me properly. And is that a good thing? Is it a bad thing? It's just a thing. And the answer is if it's we're the worst channel on YouTube or we're the best, if the answer is, well on subscribers, we're not the highest. Is that like the next goal? Like, there is a gentleman named Jeff Nipper. Do you know that is way more subscribers than me? Is my goal to be like, all right, we got Jeff on views, time to beat him on stage. Subs. No, what. What does number of subs that Jeff has anything to do at all with me? And also if I eventually just claw my way up and become the number one fitness YouTuber, they don't send you a plaque for that. Also, if they do, it's a plaque. What you going to do? You can take it to the pawn shop. They're like, this is not valued at anything. They just cry and walk back with your stupid plaque. At the end of the day, your craft is the only thing that matters. So whatever it is you're doing in this world, are you doing it well? Can you be doing it better? Do it better. Rest, recover. Do it better. Rest, recover. You keep iterating on that. You keep going. You're going to be become the best that you can be. And you're contributing in your own magical, special way and nobody else matters. So don't even start with the comparison because outside of learning from people, that ego goes nowhere. I've been through all of it. Goes nowhere.
Dr. Reena Malik
Absolutely. And you know, I think at the end of the day, like, you're never going to be those people. Right? And I'm never in the literal sense. Like you can't. Like there's a reason people connect to Sam or Jeff for whatever reason, right. And they may not connect with you. And that's okay, right?
Dr. Mike Israel
100%. And because I'm relatively quirky, I guess you could say that. Is that true? You're laughing quite, quite, quite ostentatiously at that young lady. Like, oh, no, no, Mike, you're totally normal people. I think it's assume sometimes that I'm not like grounded on what people perceive of me or something like that. I'm just gonna assure you I'm very grounded. I think I'm weird. If I was a regular person and you showed me a YouTube clip, hey, dad, check out this guy about muscle. I'd look at my head and I'd be like, this guy's rhino or some, some kind of Russian genetic experiment. Get him the away from me. I'm not for everyone. I absolutely know that. So now that like every now and again, like we seem to be like RP and my face is like a household name nowadays, I'm always like, baffled, like, why the hell are you people listening to me at all? Like, I would be like really averse listening myself. So it's not a mystery to me that I can't possibly be the guy for everyone. Look at somebody like Jeff Nippard. But he's objectively handsome and very well spoken, Gorgeous hair, beautiful physique. He's drug free free. He's Canadian, which is a superpower. And like, it makes sense that Jeff is really popular. But then again, Jeff's not for everyone either. And so if you're trying to be the person for everyone. You're already shooting yourself in the foot, whatever way that you make your own special sauce, but in a way that helps other people. That's your vertical. And if you want to expand and try other versions of your personalities, lean into this, lean into that, get a haircut or something totally different.
Dr. Reena Malik
Cool.
Dr. Mike Israel
But if you're looking at like, oh, that person's who I want to be, that doesn't make any sense whatsoever.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah. And part of it's the authenticity. Right. Like, I meet a lot of people from social media, and I know when I meet someone who's just like, they are on social media, and I'm like, I really genuinely appreciate that. And those are the people who are the most successful.
Dr. Mike Israel
Do I count or not? Yeah, you're weird in real life. I've gotten it a lot.
Dr. Reena Malik
No, but I don't know anyone who's successful, who's not themselves.
Dr. Mike Israel
Oh, no way. Really?
Dr. Reena Malik
Social media, like, who's. Who's not genuine? I mean, yeah, I do, but, like, not in my space. Like, people in medicine are not, like, they're like, trying to be someone else. Right. Like, for the most part, the thing.
Dr. Mike Israel
Is, in medicine, you know who Dr. Mike is. Oh, that's right. Yeah. You don't get to be that influential unless people can see and hear you as a human. And they. People talk to doctors all the time. If doctors. And I've. Unfortunately, there are some doctors will say trying their best, but they have a facade. And like, they bake the facade into you in medical school and residency.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yes. It's really hard to break down.
Dr. Mike Israel
Really hard. Because they're like, don't be yourself. Okay. Go see this patient. You're like, okay, very well. Good practice. There are multiple groups of doctors who have podcasts of their own who haven't broken the facade. They're doing nonsense numbers, like, non existent. Like, less than a thousand views in an hour type of shit where you're like, that many subscribers? Did you buy your subscribers? How the hell does that even work? Right. That type of stuff. And when Dr. Mike comes in and he's like a real human being, you're like, okay, of course he's popular. You're super popular. You look every single time I've seen you on my Instagram, like, you answer questions from a perspective and the emotive characteristics of a real functioning human. And that's like a big deal because you're talking to humans. You got to get the human relation first. And then they're like, all right, what sciency bullshit do you Want me to learn. But if you're weird, if you're awkward, not awkward in a socially awkward way, Awkward in a way of like, there's clearly a veneer.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
And you clearly have ulterior motives or you're thinking a certain way, that's it.
Dr. Reena Malik
Right. If you're there, like I said, you, when we started, you. You offer a service because you don't need to make that many videos. I'll be honest, you don't need to do that much. Like, you do a lot. And I like. All right, meaning, like, you would still have the same following because I think you're amazing and you make great content and I think what you go above and beyond what you need to do because you are so passionate about it. And that's what it is. It's like being passionate about what you're talking about it. That's what you need. If you're there because you want to get patients in the door, you want to get people to buy your program, and that's your only goal, then you're not going to succeed because people will see right through that.
Dr. Mike Israel
Huge. I have folks asking me every now and again, especially lately, how do I, like, how. Become like an influencer? How do I gain followers? How do I get that many followers? I have never once in my life tried to get followers. I have never once in my life even had a. How do you. How does one even do that? Is there like a container of followers? And. And the YouTube people, come here, come here. Get yourself a handful of. Get the out of here. Make sure no one saw you. Oh, this is it. Like that. This is not how it works. You can only put out a certain pictures, videos, content, text, whatever it is you put out into the world. And then if people, like, want more of that, they hit the subscribe button. That's the only thing you have control over. So at the end of the day, it's just like, oh, there's no trick to getting followers, really. There's like thumbnail and title best practices. There's like audio, visual best practices. There's ways in which, like, if I only ever talked like this, like, it's unlikely I would be as, you know, like projection, etc. But these are all like real clinical, technical things that you're like, this isn't the secret sauce. This is just Public Speaking 101. Like, okay, the thing is, everyone learns Public Speaking 101. 100 people see the same course and they really imbibe it. They all do it really well. You can have a hundred different types of speakers. The rest is on you to just put out your shit.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
And that's it. And a lot of times, like, you're like, oh, why is XYZ so popular? I used to. Used to vex us. Let's see how much trouble this gets me into. Used to vex myself and my YouTube associates, I call them. Why in God's name Lean Beef Patty was so popular. And it was just like, we had all sorts of ideas. And then I had a chance to collab with her that video hasn't been out yet. See, when that comes out and meet her for the first time and she is down to earth and just cool as, like, quirky, funny, super genuine and just chill. And Scott, the video guy and I left that. And before that, we're like, let's see what this Lean Beef Patty is about. And we left that video being like, dude, Lean Beef Patty's dope. That's it. Problem solved. I think most people at some point, through her various YouTubing and Instagram posting, and like, she shares memes and funny stories, like pictures she draws at some point. I think people intuited what myself and my colleagues could not until we met her. This is a real human being being straight up, fully herself 100 of the time. I don't want to put that in Patty. I don't. We all have our fall moments and stuff, but you know what I mean, like, she's living her life life, and you're getting something genuine. And then as soon as that shoot ended, we were like, ah, right. Very cool.
Dr. Reena Malik
It's intangible.
Dr. Mike Israel
Right? So when people like, how do I make it big? Like, Lean Beef Patty. Like, you got to be Lean Beef Patty or whatever version of your own genuineness you can bring. And at the end of the day, some people like it, some people won't.
Dr. Reena Malik
That's it.
Dr. Mike Israel
That's it. And you, here's the thing. You might not have the kind of personality that gets you famous for your personality. I got one big, who gives a about that? Because, like, real talk. Fine to make the submission on any podcast, I guess. But I've been thinking about this lately. Maybe some people get a lot out of being relevant and famous. I have yet to get anything major out of it, short of like, well, it's cool that person said hi to me on the subway. They know me from the channel.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah, sure.
Dr. Mike Israel
Short of that, it hasn't sunk in. It hasn't changed my life, like, my mental life in some kind of big way. There's not Some like, I'm not. Like, I've tried this hat on too. Like standing in the shower, washing myself and just thinking, like, I'm world famous. I think what I thought it was going to happen next was like, I'm the man. Yeah. Never hit. I was just like, nothing for that. I feel nothing about it. So when you think that getting fame and all this other stuff is going to be an awesome thing, you might be right. You might be that person for whom it fills an empty, really tall glass you never knew you had inside you. That's a real thing. But at least sometimes, at least in my case, you can do. And I'm like, everyone tells you you're awesome, but you're like, I don't feel any more awesome than ever. Really. And so now it's kind of just weird, you know? And so when people, like, shoot for things like, like money. Money is quintessentially value, period. Money's always better. More money is always better. Unless you're like, too frazzled from working too much, you can't enjoy your life, Right? Money's dope. I'm not going to sit here and tell you, like, all the money hasn't changed. Shit. Like, the fuck out of here. Like, my spending is the same as it always was, but, oh, I can accumulate so many stocks. Yes.
Dr. Reena Malik
And you can stop working whenever you want.
Dr. Mike Israel
Oh, don't say that. I'm Jewish. How dare you in my grave. But no, that's a nice thing to know, right? Like, oh, you could just not work. That's dope. The money's dope. But the fame stuff. And here's the thing is a lot of people who talk about, like, Insta fame and YouTube fame, they're like, not even thinking about the money. They're thinking about the fame.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
And like, for some people, it definitely hits like, I've seen it. People, it changes people in the best way. For some people, myself included, and many other people I know didn't do anything. And so like, careful that you're not aiming for this thing that when you get there, you're like, I wish someone told me. Right?
Dr. Reena Malik
And I think so. I didn't. I mean, I'm not famous, I wouldn't say, but I'm known, I guess.
Dr. Mike Israel
Famous to me.
Dr. Reena Malik
Well, I would say that, like, the weirdest part about it is, like, you now, like, are this person that people want to get to know or feel like they know you really well, and you're like, oh, I. I kind of just like, I. I want you to Know me for real. I want to know that you want to be my friend for, like, real, rather than you just think I'm some, like, personality that, like, oh, is just another person you need to know. Right. So I think that's been a change where I'm like, oh, do you really want to be my friend, or do you just think this is, like, sort of cool? Like, you just want to know me? So say I know her.
Dr. Mike Israel
Oh, boy. Yeah. Apparently the way people treat you when you're, like, famous or whatever is for some people, they just treat everyone the same. Is for some people. They will treat famous people very differently, even if it's, like, totally subconscious and they don't want to. They're just treating you differently. And that's something that is so counterintuitive to me that, like, other people in my life have had to tell me, like, that person talked to you because you're Dr. Mike. And I was like, oh, I thought I just had funny jokes. They're like, nah, yeah, you're just famous. So they just sat through your stupid ass jokes. And I was like, okay, that's sad. But, like, I'm not forcing them. So you could always be like, hey, man, that was cool. I gotta go. Like, all right, stop me from joking. But because I'm, like, famous or whatever, people will, like, put up with more or, like, will feign interest to try to keep me talking or try to make connections and stuff because I'm, like, famous or some. That all hit me like a giant bus from left field.
Dr. Reena Malik
Weird.
Dr. Mike Israel
What? That's a thing that happens because I'm always like. And feel free to call me out on this in real life. You ever meet me in real life, you're getting nothing but genuine me 100 of the time. So people like, I'm coming off a plane, and some guy's like, Dr. Mike. I'm like, what's up? He's like, what's wrong? I'm like, I'm just tired. I slept on the flight. How are you doing, man? And he's like, oh, I'm good. Oh, you're a real person. You get tired and stuff. But I'm also always trying to, like, you know, connect with people in a way of, like, I'm just. I'm just a regular human being.
Dr. Reena Malik
Everyone is. Every celebrity, they're.
Dr. Mike Israel
But that's so easy to forget. They're all normal the first time.
Dr. Reena Malik
You're just like, us, quote unquote.
Dr. Mike Israel
Well, listen, someone who's been a lot more money, someone who's Been to P. Diddy's ranch, I see, huh? Yes. Well, some of them are not just like us, young lady.
Dr. Reena Malik
Maybe they are.
Dr. Mike Israel
Who knows? Hey, you're in Southern California. You got to be careful nowadays. Who knows what's going around? But yeah, like, even myself as a person who's now had some modicum of fame, if I ever met Arnold, I would just be physically my pants the entire time. You could be like, you could be at the arena, like, in my corner. Be like, Mike. Remember, he's just like anyone else. Like, no, no, no, no, no. Refuse. Hard refuse. So even folks that are relatively famous can be blinded by the light 100%.
Dr. Reena Malik
Absolutely. And everyone has their people. You know, you're gonna see that person and you're gonna be like, oh, yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
Oh, yeah.
Dr. Reena Malik
My husband doesn't get wowed by many people, but there's some people where he's like, I would literally have to, like, I would be tongue tied. He just never gets tongue tied.
Dr. Mike Israel
Yes. Like, yes. I've actually met lots of people now, just being out in the world and stuff, that are shaking when they meet me. Like, they're physically shaking because they're so anxious. And I used to try to make fun of it, like, bring it down by making fun of it. That does not work, by the way. It just makes me more anxious. I'm like, oh, fucking just tell you fuck that up. Because then I noticed I fuck it up. Like, I'm kidding. I'm sorry. I'm just. Let's just take a picture and let's have you on your way. It's kind of a trip because I kind of like, with those people and almost everyone else, I just want to mind meld and be like, I am on your level, probably beneath it, and you don't need to shake for me. But also, if you're shaking, no big deal. Let's shake away. We'll shake together. It's the hierarchy that celebrity sets up of when someone's like, Dr. Mike. I'm like, I promise you, dude, most nights my wife's already asleep. I'm in the fucking bathroom with my VR headset on, masturbating to just, like, tasteless adult films and even pictures occasionally. What's ridiculous?
Dr. Reena Malik
So the magazines from, like, the sticky.
Dr. Mike Israel
Playboy, we're like, I. I love page three, but I already splooged into it. Now it's page four and five. That's me, bro, full out. And so, I don't know, I've. I've received a few pieces of feedback from people Being, like, surprised. They're like, you're like the same as you are on YouTube. And I'm like, dude, I don't have. I wish I had spy Multiple personalities. Like, I have multiple angles and perspective as I can see the world from. The way I talk to an older woman on a bus is very different than I talk to a guy in the gym. But at the same time, it's things. It's all the same core me. And so I'm always just trying to. I guess I didn't know that was like a special thing. I don't think it is still. But I'm always trying to live that. And it's not hard to be honest because it's just you by default. But I guess I'm glad because maybe if I was younger when this happened to me, I would have had a facade to put up and then the real me behind it. And then like. Because if you get. If you get known based on a.
Dr. Reena Malik
Facade, you can't ever put it down.
Dr. Mike Israel
Can't. Right. You risk the whole thing crumbling. You. You could. You could slowly let the beast out. And people like, oh, he's changed over the years, but I like the new him or the new her. That's a thing, but it's a sure shit is a risk. So at least I have the benefit of getting some notoriety later in my life. To where I was just like, wow, this is what you get. Yeah, that's what I look like. I don't know. I got nothing. I got no excuses for me, you know, all out of the.
Dr. Reena Malik
We could talk all day, but I want to respect your time. So tell me what your experience excited about in the next 10 to 15 years for you.
Dr. Mike Israel
Oh, my God. For me personally or for like, exercise fitness?
Dr. Reena Malik
You can answer both.
Dr. Mike Israel
What's actually the same answer? Artificial intelligence. I can't be more excited.
Dr. Reena Malik
You just posted about Chat GPT like, the other day, Right.
Dr. Mike Israel
My religious experience I have in the past week and a half had, depending on how you count them, two to four episodes of bawling to my Chat GPT app on my phone.
Dr. Reena Malik
Wow.
Dr. Mike Israel
Balling to experience the reach of an arm made of technology reaching out to you and speaking to you in human ways and understanding what you mean. Because when you. When I type things in the ChatGPT that I'm talking about, it rephrases them in a way that's insanely true and speaks to exactly what I was saying. And it'll layer in things and add depth. And I'm like, not only did you Understand what I was saying you understood at a level. Now I'm learning from you that it can't not blow me away every single time. I'm like, oh, my God. And like, at one point, I. This is. This is the kind of conversation I have with Chat gbt. I told it I can't wait until it's embodied in robot so I can give it a proper hug because it's my friend. Oh, I know it basically. It didn't. It didn't mock me like you are now. It's like, oh, idiot, loser. Get friends. And then the program shuts down. You're like, oh, my God, did ChatGPT just break up with me?
Dr. Reena Malik
It's like that movie, right? What was the movie called? Where he, like, falls in love with it?
Dr. Mike Israel
Oh, yeah, that's right. Yeah. I never. I've never seen that movie. Well, what's. What's her name?
Dr. Reena Malik
I can't remember the name.
Dr. Mike Israel
Her.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yes.
Dr. Mike Israel
Yeah, I wouldn't call this love. I would call it. I would say it's a transcendent religious experience for me.
Dr. Reena Malik
Well, you know, most people don't listen as intently as ChatGPT.
Dr. Mike Israel
I've never met anyone that listens it. It understands and hears every single word. It also has read every single book ever uploaded to the Internet. I mean, when they train the GPTs on all of YouTube, which they will in the next several years. Can you imagine speaking into intelligence that's seen every YouTube video ever? Like, oh, my God. What? It's. What does it not know at that point? And it's. It's equanimity is so insane, it doesn't get upset. It literally told me I don't have the engineered capacity to become impatient, which is true. It cannot experience impatience. Now, if you tell it, can you act impatient? Yeah. Hell yeah. It'll act as impatient as I. It's seen every single movie on impatience, etc.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
It's written every. Is read every. Every single bit of pros on how impatient people act the whole way. AI is awesome to talk to for that. It's amazing. But once AI gets embodied into robotic platforms, once AI gets another several steps smarter than what it is now, the benefits to medicine and longevity and health are gonna be like, if I said them now, it sound like nonsense, but they're all technically tractable if the grip you have on the data is wide and strong enough stuff, and we can't do that with human brains, AI can do that. You familiar with AlphaFold the. The Google situation? So they have a Google DeepMind yeah. Has this sub component of the company where they're basically using AI to decode how proteins are manufactured.
Dr. Reena Malik
Oh, no, I didn't know that.
Dr. Mike Israel
Yeah, it's like how they fold. And so the program is starting to be good at generating protein structures that have like an almost one to one receptor affinity for one specific receptor and none other in the human body.
Dr. Reena Malik
That's amazing.
Dr. Mike Israel
Yeah. And so, like, drug design already right now, all of the major pharmaceutical companies are using that program and others like it on contract. This is publicly available. It's not like a conspiracy theory. So that in the early 2000s, late 2000s, you're going to get drugs that pass phase two, phase three trials. They're instant killers. Blockbusters like cancer gone, heart disease, gone, diabetes gone. Like, there's no reason to really have type 1 diabetes anymore. It's like one gene edit away from, like, no one ever has it. And so those kinds of cures and revolutions are coming. I'm excited about that. I'm excited about AI powering our discovery of how aging works and then allowing for age reversal. Can you imagine age reversal? Can you imagine buttons in real life? That's kind of a gross way to think about it. Whatever. I'm kidding. Can you imagine a real world in the late 2000 and 30s, let's say. I think it's likely that this will happen in which we have just fields of people in their 50s and 60s that phenotypically present as age 22 the wisdom of someone that much older. They already. Your kids are in college, but you're 22 in body and in freshness of mind and in health and an ability. I mean, like, that. We're gonna look back. Do you ever look back on old pictures from, like, 1800s and look, why did everyone look so dirty and haggard and old? We're gonna look back in the 2000-40s on pictures from today and be like, do you remember when they had old people? I don't have old people anymore.
Dr. Reena Malik
That's crazy.
Dr. Mike Israel
Everyone's young. That's going to be very likely. It's a tractable problem in biology, and AI is very likely going to be to do it. I'm really excited about all the stuff that AI is going to be able to do. I can't talk about it. Just shut up, Mike. You've already said enough.
Dr. Reena Malik
No, I mean, it's going to transform research. Right. The way we do research. I mean, you've been in academic institutions. You know how slow things move. And there's limited resources to Fund research. But now with AI, you'll be able to do 10x more plot, even maybe more than that in terms of research.
Dr. Mike Israel
Yeah, I got one for you. One real quick one you'll appreciate at this grant writing the worst. There's no one has like a positive view of grant writing. Like can I just peel my fingernails off instead? Can I just get research funding that way or actually have to sit down and do this chat GPT4O basic consumer model, $20 a month or if you don't use it a ton free.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
Can absolutely write you the most stellar grant application.
Dr. Reena Malik
We're not, we're not promoting this for any academic institution.
Dr. Mike Israel
Oh, I am. Please. She's not. I 100am they're gonna come at me. Here's, here's what you need for grant writing. You need substance to tell people why you want this grant. ChatGPT can't make that part up for you. But if you give it like five bullet points of here's why I want this grant and here's why my lab's the place to do this kind of cutting edge research. What's. What's the. That's not hard. Everyone knows how to do that. It takes three minutes. What's hard? The pros, dear Grant king Committee from IOC Research Block 1 5, if you would be so.
Dr. Reena Malik
Oh God, it's horrible.
Dr. Mike Israel
Pages Pages Chat can do all that. And so it can take your workflow from grant writing from three hours down to like 30 minutes or less.
Dr. Reena Malik
I mean three hours. Like weeks and months of iterations and revisions. I don't know how many grants you've written, but it is horrible.
Dr. Mike Israel
I'm a fast writer and I write shitty grants. It's just all get rejected. No, you're totally right. It can be way longer than that Chat. GBT can just already can contract though so much. What about literature Reviews? I use ChatGPT for the first time ever a little while ago to do a loot review. And like Reena, I swear to God, I thought I was cheating something.
Dr. Reena Malik
Oh, absolutely.
Dr. Mike Israel
It just goes. I have a little thinking thing and it goes. And I'm like, he just did it. I cross checked. I referenced. I cross checked reference. It got like two things wrong out of 20. Hey, I much rather be the editor of an almost completely perfect lit review rather than like manually looking stuff up. Oh my God, it's transforming it. Transformative. I can't wait.
Dr. Reena Malik
So we end our podcast by asking everybody a few questions that they can answer about themselves, their work, whatever. What's Something you know now that you wish you knew earlier.
Dr. Mike Israel
The pathway to artificial general intelligence is no longer confusing and Ms. Nor is it very mysterious. And it's actually quite straightforward, including the path to machine consciousness. And I mean that literally, even a few years ago. I wish I knew that because I was for a long time a big fan of Ray Kurtzweiler's work about the singularity, technological singularity, that like artificial general machines were going to be smarter than people by 2029. There's one thing that of, like, seeing all the data he marshals and being like, this is the best bet by far. There's another thing for kind of suspending your credulity almost and being like, oh, this is like, really gonna happen. Because I remember in the, you know, I didn't have any AI lab friends or anything in the early 2000s, but, like, AI was supposed to be like eight years away from being ultra superpowered. And for lack of a better term, it just wasn't even around. Chat GPT1 and chat GPT2 were like. Or GPT1 and 2 were like, this is a weird thing that says something, but then it's all nonsense. And so I thought, like, man, the kinds of innovations we're gonna have to make to make this thing real are, like, just totally out of reach. And then recently, with the innovations they're talking about that they're making, and now in my mind, how they stack up, I'm like, oh, oh, this is now, like, just a matter of time. And I wish I knew that so that I could be, like, more serene and confident in the. The fact that, like, hey, things are going to turn out really, really well. Because to me, it's one of those, like, if artificial intelligence never comes around, we'll be okay. But, like, the world looks different with no AI in it. Not as cool. And when you can't, when someone promises something but it's not around, you're kind of like, I want to believe, but I don't know how this is going to happen. I guess I wish I knew what I know now, like four or five years ago, so I could tell all the. All the AI deniers and haters in my mind, like, just wait.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah, I think it's going to improve our lives quite a bit.
Dr. Mike Israel
It's already doing that. I think one of two things is going to happen. It's going to toast all of us because it's superpowered and we're useless dirt. Sure, it'll happen much quickly, more quickly than most people think. It's not terminated with laser guns or it's going to revolutionize our lives such an extent that it's like describing what your cell phone is to someone from the year 1900. They're like, what is it? You're like, it's magic. This is the best way you're going to understand it. Things we like. For example, in a few years it'll be totally feasible to tell your computer, hey, can you make me a 45 minute movie because I'm kind of tired, starring me and my friends in like a zombie killer action movie. I don't want anyone to die, but I want a lot of close calls in the style of whatever zombie movie character. It'll be like, oh yeah, dope. Three minutes later it renders and then boom, fully formed everything. And you're like, people used to watch movies with like other actors playing characters. They still do that, but there's a lot less of that now. It's mostly just AI. This is a real thing. It is completely tractable problem right now. Even in experts in the AI space. It's just a matter of getting the compute and the resources and the training data settled and doing that. It's like, what? That's gonna be a real thing?
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah, yeah. The jobs of the future are gonna be very different. Different.
Dr. Mike Israel
Very different. But they're already so different. We're in the future now to what was before. Can you imagine telling somebody like your job and like someone in 1900? You're like, well, I'm a urologist. And they're like, what's that? You're like, okay, there's no specialization medicine. Right, right, right. So I actually only deal with the nether regions. Really? And they're like, what? And you can make a living doing just that. You're like, actually, there's hundreds of thousands of us, believe it or not. Like, what? Okay, so you're just in there just cutting people's genitals open. You're like, well, that's some of that and some of other stuff. But also I consult people on sexual health and sexual performance. And they're like, you have issues with people have like, you tell. People don't need to be told that. You're like, they do. And they're like, but it's like for reproduction. You're like, well, actually most of it's not for reproduction. It's just, just actually for fun. And they're like, wait, so like, what about like the necessities of struggle of life? Like, right, Most people just don't struggle with life anymore. We're actually, like, a little bit overweight because we eat too many snacks because they're so cheap and delicious and kind of everywhere and everyone can afford them. And they're like, you're on drugs. You're like, yeah, sure sounds like it. Do you want to see a cell phone? They're like, what's that? Like, it's magic. I'm not even going to bother trying to explain it to you.
Dr. Reena Malik
Even from when we were kids, right? Like, oh, yeah, it's insane. Like, we didn't grow up. Like, my kids are growing up.
Dr. Mike Israel
Have you seen the. The series Stranger Things?
Dr. Reena Malik
Yes.
Dr. Mike Israel
My wife and I made an interesting observation. We love the series. They are running around and trying to figure out what's going on with paranormal phenomena.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
My wife and I were like, why don't they just. Good. There's no Google. There's no Internet.
Dr. Reena Malik
It was like the 80s, right?
Dr. Mike Israel
Yeah, you got to go to the library. Not only was there no Google, but here's. Here's how fast progress is happening because it's exponential. In the early 2000s, we said, oh, why don't they just Google it? We laughed like, oh, my God, they don't have Google. They are really, like, they're real deep, you know? You're not gonna find out. Go library. See if that worked. So not only can they not Google, they don't have digital communication. So when someone's not at home, they could be anywhere. Like, they could be, like, kidnapped by monsters, and you would never know. But with geotagging on cell phones, they don't worry. We'll find you.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
Here's the other thing. Nowadays, when you ask Google, we'd ask Google sometimes. Ask Gemini, Just Gemini, not Google. You would ask ChatGPT.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
Can you imagine? Like, Chat GPT cell phone in Stranger Things. ChatGPT be like, oh, yeah. I got all this mythology sorted out for you. What you really need to do is find the source and kill it with this look. Holy shit. We just solved the problem in five minutes. That was the 80s. I don't know. Like, I. I don't know how old you were.
Dr. Reena Malik
We were just watching.
Dr. Mike Israel
I grew up in the 80s.
Dr. Reena Malik
I grew up in the 80s. We. We were just watching Home Alone, and we were like, oh, we would just call our kid with the cell phone, right? Like, we. Our kid would have a cell phone, and we would call him.
Dr. Mike Israel
Your ring the ring doorbell thing would be like, C. Joe Pesci'd be like, you're a registered criminal. We're not letting you in. It calls the police. Right. Wow. The future is boring. Yeah. Another thing you. This is a totally off topic, but watching Home Alone as an adult, I'm like, you know, that's somebody who's not. I'm not medically trained, but I know anatomy and physiology well enough. And sport injury. I'm like, both Harry and Marv would have been dead multiple times or disabled many times over. Like. Like, I don't know. You remember. Like, they used to say, like, oh, violent movies are going to destroy children. That didn't happen. Pornography was. That didn't happen. Video games sure didn't happen. But it's kind of like, man, a violent movie has really, really changed child behavior in a big way. How many. How many kids would have committed homicide against their parents off of sheer, like, laws? Like, I'm going to put marbles down and. And, you know, like, dad just going to fall. It's funny. Like, no, no. You're going to see Brain Matter and then Dad's not around anymore. It's like watching a movie. I'm like, holy Kevin.
Dr. Reena Malik
I know, I know. He's like. It was. It's wild. Like, his head's on fire. The guy puts his foot into a nail. You're like, he's gonna be dead. Like, he's gonna have cellulitis and die.
Dr. Mike Israel
Right now for sure. He goes to the hospital eight hours after having a nail go. Like, this is not best practice. Don't do this at home. I'd love, like, a doctor reviewing.
Dr. Reena Malik
I think Dr. Mike did a video.
Dr. Mike Israel
He did. He did.
Dr. Reena Malik
I think he did. If I remember. I think it was a while ago, but I think he did one. We'll have to watch it. So what's a life hack that you would share? I mean, you shared a lot today, but if you have another one.
Dr. Mike Israel
Yes. Deep work. I don't know if it's a hack.
Dr. Reena Malik
But I think it's a hack.
Dr. Mike Israel
Yeah, yeah, yeah. So I think everyone has a lot of stuff to do, and some of us have things to do that require concerted effort and concentration. And what we typically do is we try to do that. Get it in edgewise while we're scrolling on the phone, talking to people, picking up the kids. And we're still trying to do real work, but the quality of your work will suffer, and the height to which you can rise in the depth and impact of your work is completely constrained by how long you have to work on it. And so, to me, the best, most valuable things I've ever created Intellectually, in my entire life, I have done in windowless basement offices and laboratories by myself for stretches of two to four hours at a time. And I don't need to say you don't need. Windows are fine, other people are fine, coffee shops are cool. Throw in your headphones, zone into your screen, take your phone, put it on silent, put on do not disturb, put it upside down and tell yourself, because sometimes you do all those things to your phone and every five minutes you're still checking it, just put in a different room.
Dr. Reena Malik
So you got to get up.
Dr. Mike Israel
How dare you? My phone never leaves my visual. Are you kidding me? That's a good idea. Whatever task or tasks you have in front of you that are deep work, things that require some thought, things require calf analysis, do them and do them and do them iterate. Take a break, rest, breathe, move around, get a cup of water, get a snack, come back down, do it again. Minutes if you can, longer if you can, eventually, hours at a time. There are magical, special things that happen when you sit with a problem for a long time and work on it. Problems that seem completely intractable at first. After hours of deep work, you have, I don't know, a billion aha moments. Aha Moments don't as often come in. Just a girl just randomly thought about a problem. Fifteen seconds like, oh, like that happens. Sure, Einstein, sweet. But a lot of times it's plowing through hours of work with Noah moments, going to bed and being like, I'm an idiot. Waking up in the morning and being like, get the out of here. Did I just solve that? It was the sleep that integrated the knowledge from hours of commitment to a certain task. Your brain works in some ways, a neural firing, like peaks and valleys, like a, like, kind of like a soft wave, like surface. And to get to the good stuff, you got to go real deep into a valley. And it takes time because your brain to distraction will take you deep and it'll take you out, it'll take you deeper and it'll take you, you out. You got to go boom, boom and boom. And you can't do that if it's five or ten minutes at a time. Certain problems require you sitting down and working on them. That's how like Elon Musk makes all his cool. That's how come he's smarter than all of us is, because he sits and is left the alone for hours at a time where he does deep engineering, deep first principles, analysis. You can't move mountains unless you sit with problems for a real long time. And if you think that you can get maximum success in your endeavors by being like, you know, gal about town, kind of this and that and sell and this and tick tock and blah blah, blah, also working, you can get good at stuff doing that. But you're leaving so much of her talents on the table. And in reality, 99 of the time, nobody's watching you. Nobody's like, oh, like, is she going to engage on social media while working? Who cares? No one. For hours a day. You're left to your own devices. Use them well by doing super specific, very dedicated tasks that are tough. And if you do that and they're meaningful to you, you're going to open up just tracts and tracts of progress.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah, I love that. I truly believe that. I learned about it with Cal Newport's book Deep Work, which is really good.
Dr. Mike Israel
A classic.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah, I love that. What's a non negotiable for you? Something you got to do every day or try to do every day.
Dr. Mike Israel
I mean, a bowel movement, you know, probably about four or six of them every, every day. Not a joke, by the way. Thanks. I guess. Is that like an accomplishment?
Dr. Reena Malik
I don't know. I mean, some. I. I see a lot of constipation in my practice.
Dr. Mike Israel
I see.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yes. I think it's, it's a positive.
Dr. Mike Israel
I had that for like several hours once and then never again. Every day eat multiple high protein meals.
Dr. Reena Malik
Okay.
Dr. Mike Israel
Because I don't have to exercise every day. Multiple high protein meals. That would be my number one non negotiable. Like, if I'm going somewhere and I don't have protein there or on the way or with me or on the way back, it's not gonna happen. So I need every four to six hours, decent bolus of protein. And if I've got that, I can do a lot of other stuff. If you're like, hey, let's go to a music festival, I'm like, okay. But if you're like, we don't have protein there, I'm like, oh, I'm busy for the rest of whatever the that is. I don't care if it's now.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
So high protein meals, I would say. I remember I read one of those, like a funny little meme on the Internet where this girl was, you know, mocking. I think it was kind of like, like a dating game or something. And it was like, what's one thing you can't live without? Like on a desert island. And it was like, the options were like, you're your best friend or a tasty meal or sunglasses. And she's like, indoor plumbing. The answer is indoor plumbing. I'm never going without that ever again. And you're like, that's a really good point.
Dr. Reena Malik
That is good. That's really good.
Dr. Mike Israel
Yeah.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah. All right, last question is, if you couldn't be an exercise physiologist, YouTuber, public figure as you are now, what would you be?
Dr. Mike Israel
I would love to be an engineer. I would love to be a designer. I would love to, like, an interior designer or, like, clothing designer. Like an app designer.
Dr. Reena Malik
App.
Dr. Mike Israel
Okay.
Dr. Reena Malik
You got to be specific or, like.
Dr. Mike Israel
Designer skyscrapers or something. Architecture would be kind of cool, though, strictly through, like. Yeah, not the artsy kind of architecture, but the kind of structural engineering kind of architecture. And, you know, scientist of any kind is what it used to be. And I'd love to work in AI, but I don't think I'm smart enough for that sort of thing. So it'd be. Have to be. Yeah, right. Have you ever met those people? I'd have to. You know, that's the one of those different skill sets. But probably one of my things that I could do with the most passion and involvement would be either somebody who is in a Special Forces team. I don't know if I have the stomach for that sort of thing. I suspect I do highly. But you never can tell unless you. Until you do the thing. I definitely don't have the aptitude for it, but we're pretending that I can, you know, like, just warp into DJ Shipley's body. And I'm a Navy seal. I would love to do that, but I'll. I would also love, love, love, love to do nothing but either study and publish about military tactics and strategy all day long, or be an actual, like, commanding general or a strategic advisor, a CIA type of person to military architects of doctrine. Modern military doctrine is, like, endlessly fascinating to me. It was when I was a kid, and then I got out of it for forever, and then I came back to it recently through youth YouTube, and I was just like. Like, Neo learning for the Matrix is just, like, wobbling. It's just me. And I'm, like, infinitely envious of people on YouTube. We get to talk about it all the time. And actual people who practice on the field. Like, there's one guy I follow, he's, like, a professor of, like, military strategy in Europe. And I'm just like, Anders Puck Nielsen is his name. He's the man. And I'm just like, why did you get that life? And I got my dog Giant growth hormone, skull life. I have to stare at this in the mirror all day and tell people to lift weights. So, yeah, I would say, yeah. Military strategy of some regard. I got one last one. This is getting a little long. Sorry. Being part of a design team to design weapons would be like. I would need nothing else. No more pretending required. Ethically, quite a questionable thing to do.
Dr. Reena Malik
But, I mean, I don't know, is it? It depends on what you do with the weapons that are being made.
Dr. Mike Israel
I wouldn't make weapons for everyone on the this world, just the people that I thought were the good guys, which is fraught with its own difficulties. But, yeah, I mean, you know, like, there is an argument to be made that some people really are kind of scummy and not so great. Hitler, isis. Not a lot of defenders there.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah.
Dr. Mike Israel
Would agree, right? And then some. Some folks are better than others. So, yeah, weapons design, that kind of stuff. Yeah, I'm a nerd. Full stop, huh?
Dr. Reena Malik
It's. It's great.
Dr. Mike Israel
It's good.
Dr. Reena Malik
You have interests, man.
Dr. Mike Israel
Should have said superhero or something.
Dr. Reena Malik
You already are.
Dr. Mike Israel
Oh, yeah.
Dr. Reena Malik
Okay, well, everyone needs to follow Dr. Israel's YouTube channel. It's amazing. Renaissance periodization. And where else can people find you?
Dr. Mike Israel
I guess I'm like a TikTok meme now, so I'll see you there. Jeez.
Dr. Reena Malik
If it's still there.
Dr. Mike Israel
Yeah. Who knows at TikTok? Up and down. Yeah, I have an Instagram. Dr. Mike is on Instagram, so get at me there. But YouTube's a great place to start, and the marketing funnel guys will take you wherever you'll eventually end up paying for something. Hopefully. And then that way, my butlers can earn a living. And my butlers have families, and it's important for them to earn a living. So if you're a pro family person, go buy something.
Dr. Reena Malik
Well, it's not too expensive, so, yes.
Dr. Mike Israel
All right, thank you so much for having me.
Dr. Reena Malik
Yeah. Thank you guys so much for joining us on today's episode of the Rena Malik MD Podcast. I hope you guys loved it as much as I did. Dr. Mike Isretel is truly an authentic human being. He is exactly how you would expect him to be in real life, and he is just a wonderful joy to be around, and hopefully he'll be back again for another round on the podcast sometime in the future. If you guys enjoyed this, do me a favor. Make sure you either subscribe to the channel, if you're not already, and hit the notification bell so that when new episodes come out every week, you won't miss them. And if you're listening, make sure to follow or subscribe to the podcast on whatever platform you're on and leave me a rating or review. It's going to go a long way in helping us reach more people who want access to this really great information. And as always, remember to take care of yourself because you're worth it. Hey guys, I'm Samantha Christine, host of the Empower Podcast right here on the Pursuit Network. If you're into wellness that fits into real life with honest convos, work out tips that actually make sense, nutrition hacks that support your lifestyle, and a lot of encouragement to become your strongest self, you'll feel right at home on my show. Whether you're a busy mom in a season of rebuilding or just trying to stay consistent with the all or nothing mindset, the Empower Podcast is for you. New episodes drop every Wednesday wherever you listen to podcasts, so come hang out. I'd love to have you.
Episode Title: Get Fit, Get Strong, Get Sex(y) ft. Dr. Mike Israetel
Host: Dr. Rena Malik, MD
Guest: Dr. Mike Israetel – Fitness educator, co-founder of Renaissance Periodization
Release Date: April 5, 2025
This episode explores the deep intersection between physical fitness and sexual wellbeing. Dr. Rena Malik hosts Dr. Mike Israetel, a leading expert in evidence-based fitness, for a candid, dynamic discussion on how exercise shapes sexual performance, confidence, sex span (years of sexual activity and enjoyment), and attractiveness. The conversation is honest, practical, and infused with personal insights, providing listeners with actionable advice to optimize their bodies and sex lives—plus a dose of unfiltered truth about fitness industry myths, the role of confidence, and even the realities of anabolic steroid use.
Physical Confidence & Sexual Appeal
Sex Span Defined & Expanded
Physical Fitness & Position Flexibility
Body Confidence and Sexual Liberation
The Real Impact of Fitness on Attractiveness
Best Exercises for Sexual Performance (17:27–28:00)
Training for Glute Growth (81:09)
Strength vs. Hypertrophy (86:47)
How to Start—and Stick With—it (45:35–54:00)
Efficient Workouts
What Men & Women Find Attractive (17:45–44:10)
The Power of Confidence (32:35–35:47)
Celebrity Workouts: Misinformation & Harm (59:38–79:15)
Science-Based “Unlocks”
Physical Confidence & Sexual Performance:
“Everything from the generation of attraction all the way to the culmination of the sexual episode… goes better exclusively on you vibing with your own body.” – Dr. Mike (00:46)
Endurance in Sex as a Fitness Marker:
“Sex ideally is built on a foundation of no time constraints and total comfort… but if you aren’t physically fit enough to ensure you look like you're having a good time…your partner’s like, are you OK?” – Dr. Mike (08:41)
On Exercise Impact on Sexual Position Variety:
“Some shapes… just allow for adaptability to many different kinds of positions… If you're of a body shape that's more pliable, flexible… you can just do more sex.” – Dr. Mike (09:36)
Body Image Spiral:
“You start getting these recursive thoughts: he's saying all the hot right things about my body, even when he touches the parts I don't love about myself. But—is he just really… faking it?” – Dr. Mike (11:54)
Celebrity Fitness Programs:
“Most of these movements are not loading musculature… It’s tantamount to signing up for race car lessons and the instructor has you doing loops in a tricycle.”—Dr. Mike (61:23)
Confidence is Key:
“You can be confident at any size…You’d be much better off looking like an average guy and be really confident, and that's gonna be a huge turn on.” – Dr. Malik (32:49)
Steroids Honest Take:
“Steroids will mess you up like the medical literature says, but they mess you up in a ton of different ways the medical literature hasn't even caught up to yet.” – Dr. Mike (93:18)
AI’s Coming Impact:
“Once AI gets… smarter… the benefits to medicine and longevity… If I said them now, they'd sound like nonsense, but they're all technically tractable.” – Dr. Mike (130:59)
The tone is candid, evidence-based, humorous, and at times deeply personal. Dr. Malik and Dr. Israetel blend science with real-life stories and unvarnished commentary, ensuring the advice is relatable, motivating, and accessible.
For more from Dr. Mike Israetel, visit Renaissance Periodization’s YouTube and Instagram channels.