Delanie Fischer chats with neuroscientist and author of Smitten, Dr. Tom Bellamy, about limerence. They discuss the evolutionary roots of limerence, why only 50% of the population experiences it, guidance for those amidst infatuation (whether reciprocal or not), when it crosses the line into prolonged limerence, and practical tips for breaking the cycle of romantic obsession.

Episode Highlights:

Why Romantic Partners May Not Understand Your Feelings
Dopamine: The Common Misconception and How It Really Works
When Limerence Should Wear Off (And What If It Doesn’t?)
Prolonged Limerence: Why Eradicating Uncertainty is Key
Limerence and Infatuation vs. Delusion and Stalking

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