With great attraction comes great sex, forever, right? Not so much.

Jessica Maxwell studies relationships and sex for a living. With Canadian roots, she's now an assistant professor at the University of Auckland. I learned things from her that I started applying to my own life as soon as the conversation ended.

Topics of discussion

Sexual fixed mindset vs. growth mindset
What factors play into long-term relationship satisfaction?
How often are people having sex?
Who else is thinking about how often people are having sex?
A neat quiz to tell your partner what you want in bed (or out of it)
The Orgasm Gap
What's the best way to meet someone we're compatible with?
How scientific are dating apps?
Double standards & myths

Fun Stuff

Sex preferences quiz | Mojo Upgrade

List of researchers Jessica mentioned along with media coverage of their work:

Terri Fisher | LA Times | Who lies more about sex, men or women?
Sam Joel | The Cut | It's All Too Easy to Ignore Relationship Dealbreakers
Amy Muise | Science Daily | Couples who have sex weekly are happiest
Lindsey Hick | Global News | Are you lying to yourself about how much sex you need in your relationship?

Theme song: "Rise and Shine" by Audiobinger, sourced from the Free Music Archive. Licensed under CC BY-NC-SA 4.0.