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Sexology
Hosted by Dr. Nazanin Moali, Ph.D, Psychology of Sex | Couple Therapy | Sex Education · EN
Each week, Dr. Nazanin Moali interviews experts, psychologists, mental health practitioners and researchers to explore the most intriguing findings in psychology of sex and intimacy. Sexology podcast will give you insight into all that you have ever wanted to know about sex but were afraid to ask. Join us in this weekly journey to examine sexuality and pleasure from a scientific perspective.
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EP489 - Frustration and Disappointment: How to Revive a Sexless Marriage with Elana Auerbach
2w ago00:41:27Tap to summarizeWelcome to Episode 489 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Elana Auerbach, who speaks to me about navigating sexless marriages and reviving physical intimacy.It is incredibly common for long-term relationships to experience a decline in physical intimacy over time. Often, couples fall into a routine where life gets busy, and cultivating a sexual spark drops to the bottom of the priority list. During our conversation, we explore why this happens and how unspoken frustrations and rejections can build up over time like invisible panes of glass between partners. Elana Auerbach is a lover, mother, mentor, activator, and priestess. She spent her childhood and young adulthood on what she calls 'the conveyor belt of life,' being the good girl and doing what others expected of her. This looked like graduating Phi Beta Kappa from UCLA, working on Wall Street for a Japanese investment bank, and marrying someone with whom she felt no chemistry.It all fell apart in 2001 when Elana realized she’d been living a lie and found the courage to leave her marriage. She entered a world of sensuality and sex in a San Francisco pleasure-centered community. This is where she met Bill, who would become her loverman for life.In this episode, you will hear:Defining Sexless RelationshipsThe Myth of Spontaneous DesireUnderstanding Responsive DesireNavigating Discrepancies in LibidoThe Impact of Unspoken RejectionIntroducing the Sure Thing PracticeExploring Sensuality Without PressureHonoring Boundaries and Communicating NosOvercoming the Burden of Sexual ShameTaking Accountability for Intimacy GoalsElana's guided journey to deepen with your wild, sensual self and connect with your passion and desire!https://guide.surethingexperiment.com/wild-sensual-self Foreplay Check List https://exciting-builder-8729.kit.com/2690c062c9Book An Appointment With Dr. Nazanin Moalihttps://oasis2care.clientsecure.me Spice Up Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us On InstagramPodcast Produced by Vaudeo ProductionsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Transcribe →EP488 - The Sensitivity Solution: Tackling Delayed Ejaculation
3w ago00:28:42Tap to summarizeWelcome to Episode 488 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Dr. Arthur Burnett who speaks to me about delayed ejaculation and loss of penile sensitivity.In this episode Dr. Burnett and I discuss a topic that has been highly requested by many of our listeners and clients. We look at the complicated factors behind delayed ejaculation and the annoying loss of sensitivity some men experience. Dr. Burnett shares his urologic expertise on the role of physical health conditions such as diabetes or sensory neuropathies as well as the much-debated role of testosterone levels.Arthur L. “Bud” Burnett II, M.D., MBA, FACS, is a trail-blazing and globally recognized urologist, educator, and researcher at Johns Hopkins University, where he has worked for more than 40 years. He serves as the Patrick C. Walsh Professor of Urology, Director of the Male Consultation Clinic. As a barrier-breaking leader, he is recognized as the first Black person to have achieved milestones in the urology profession as professor of urology at Johns Hopkins University, President of the Sexual Medicine Society of North America (SMSNA), and Board Member of the American Urological Association. In this episode, you will hear: Multilayered Causes of Delayed EjaculationImpact of Diabetes and Neuropathy on Sexual HealthThe Role of Testosterone in Ejaculatory FunctionPotential Side Effects of Weight Management DrugsRetraining Sensitivity Altered by Masturbation HabitsHow Alpha Blockers and Antidepressants Affect ClimaxThe Connection Between OCD and Ejaculatory ControlDebunking Myths About Attraction and PerformanceConstructive Ways Partners Can Offer Meaningful SupportSafe Practices for Using Constrictive Devices and ToysForeplay Check ListSpice Up Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us On InstagramPodcast Produced by Vaudeo ProductionsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Transcribe →EP487 - When Desire Fades: Exploring the Hidden Reasons
4w ago00:32:03Tap to summarizeWelcome to episode 487 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I am excited to be joined by Courtney Faye Long, who speaks to me about understanding and resolving lost desire in long-term relationships. In this episode, we talk about a common problem that many couples in long-term relationships have: the natural change and sometimes loss of sexual desire. When a partner's interest seems to fade, it's easy for our minds to jump to the worst possible conclusions. But in reality, it's often because of mismatched expectations, not a lack of attraction. Courtney and I talk about the myth of rushing through physical intimacy and why treating sex like a race often makes people feel disconnected. Courtney Fae Long, MSW, LC, CHt, is the creator of Sex Life Makeover and TEDx speaker whose work has been featured in NBC, Forbes, MSN, and Psychology Today. She specializes in highly sexual women who feel frustrated and unfulfilled. She holds a Master’s Degree in Social Work (MSW) and certificates in Sexuality Education and Sex Therapy from the University of Michigan and has been teaching for 25+ years. Courtney brings a lighthearted, joyful approach to sex. In this episode, you will hear: ● The Myth of Sex in Football Style● Physiological Requirements for Extended Warm-ups● Going from Hustle Culture to Presence● The Idea of Foreplay All Day● Changing the Way We Do Date Night● How Mothering Changes Kill Sexual Desire● The Risks of Pretending to Enjoy and Have Orgasms● Talking About Changing Sexual Preferences● Growing the Parasympathetic Nervous System● The Twenty-Minute Cuddle and Connect Exercise Ebook Spice Up Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us On InstagramPodcast Produced by Vaudeo ProductionsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Transcribe →EP486 - Beyond Impulse: Understanding Out-of-Control Sexual Behaviors
Apr 1400:30:11Tap to summarizeWelcome to Episode 486 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Juliane Maxwald who speaks to me about understanding our sexual symptoms as deeper unconscious communications. In this episode, we talk about how sexual problems are rarely just about sex. In this day and age, people are always looking for a quick fix or a medical solution to their personal problems. Julianne beautifully explains that symptoms like low desire or trouble getting an erection are often our bodies telling us about deeper emotional needs, unresolved trauma, or hidden worries. Juliane Maxwald, MA, LP, CST, is a licensed psychoanalyst, couples therapist and AASECT-certified sex therapist based in New York City. She has over fifteen years of experience working with individuals and couples across a wide range of concerns, including sexuality and intimacy, trauma, addiction and compulsive behaviors, mood and anxiety disorders, and relational and family-of-origin dynamics. Her work is grounded in contemporary psychoanalysis and informed by trauma theory, somatic awareness, and relational, sex-positive frameworks. Juliane specializes in helping people move beyond symptom-focused treatment—whether the symptom shows up as sexual difficulty, burnout, overwork, emotional numbing, or relational conflict—and toward a deeper understanding of the unconscious patterns shaping their lives. In this episode, you will hear: · Reconceptualizing Sexual Dysfunction as Emotional Communication· The Risk of Excessive Medicalization of Personal Issues· Getting to Know the Unconscious Messages Behind Low Desire· Anxiety about performance and the need for approval· Using Relaxation Techniques Such as Beach Showers· How Repetition Compulsion Relates to Past Trauma· Examining the Underlying Factors of Compulsive Sexual Behaviors· Unpacking the Hidden Themes in Pornography Usage· Sexual Behavior That Is Out of Control as a Way to Control Emotions· Getting over sexual shame with curiosity and kindness Book an Appointment with Dr. Nazanin Moali Hard Penis Check ListSpice Up Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us On InstagramPodcast Produced by Vaudeo ProductionsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Transcribe →EP485 - How to Give an Amazing Blowjob
Apr 700:40:29Tap to summarizeWelcome to Episode 485 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Sienna Sinclaire, who speaks to me about the art of oral sex and navigating the mental blocks that often surround it. In this episode, we talk about real ways to improve your skills and boost your confidence. The goal is to treat sexual encounters like a playground for exploration. You can do this by using your hands as a tool and trying out different temperatures, like ice and warm water. We also talk about common worries about smell and body image, stressing the importance of being able to read and write about health issues and accepting yourself instead of feeling ashamed. Sienna Sinclaire is an award-winning author, creative director, certified sex coach, and lifestyle entrepreneur redefining modern sensuality through storytelling, design, and immersive brand experiences. As the visionary behind Sienna Sinclaire Studios, Naughty Girl Shop, and Naughty Girl Motel, she has built a world where fashion, travel, artistry, and empowerment collide. Her work celebrates women who want to live boldly, merging glamour, self-love, and sensual confidence into an unapologetic lifestyle. Through her signature blend of luxury branding, cinematic storytelling, and experiential design, Sienna invites audiences into a universe that blurs fantasy and reality, inspiring others to create a life that turns them on. In this episode, you will hear: · Unlearning Outdated Sexual Scripts· Navigating Performance Anxiety Blocks· Importance Of Active Feedback· Utilising Hands For Enhanced Pleasure· Addressing Body Image Insecurity· Facts About Natural Scent· Experimenting With Temperature Sensations· Limitations Of Pornographic Education· Exploring Diverse Genital Anatomy· Integrating Pleasure Enhancement Tools Afternoon Delight Workshop Spice Up Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us On InstagramPodcast Produced Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Transcribe →EP484 - Understanding Bisexuality: When Your Wife Loves Women Too
Mar 3100:23:16Tap to summarizeWelcome to Episode 484 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Genevieve Lejeune, who speaks to me about the evolution of sexual identity and the importance of creating safe spaces for exploration. In this episode, we discuss the emotional complexities that arise when a partner begins to question or redefine their sexual orientation. This journey can often feel destabilizing for both individuals in a relationship, triggering fears of inadequacy or the worry that the relationship might be coming to an end. Genevieve and I discuss how to navigate these transitions by prioritizing emotional safety and curiosity over panic and control. Genevieve Lejeune is the founder of Skirt Club, a private members club for bi-curious & bisexual women. With more than 25,000 members globally, women are more interested in each other than ever. She was the first to curate luxurious global events where women can put their own desires first, and gain confidence from the bedroom to the boardroom. A leading figure in the movement for women’s sexual empowerment, Genevieve has been interviewed for high-profile publications such as Marie Claire, Elle Magazine, Cosmo, Bloomberg, Rolling Stone and the Sunday Times. In this episode, you will hear: · Understanding Sexual Identity Evolution· Managing Relationship Fears And Insecurity· The Origin Of Skirt Club· Benefits Of Women Only Spaces· Avoiding Performative Sexual Pressure· Communication Strategies For Couples· The Role Of Emotional Safety· Exploring Physical Desire And Affection· Navigating Monogamy And Fluidity· Resources For Bisexual Exploration Steady Freddy Thank you to our sponsor! Steady Freddy is here to bring men’s sexual health out of the shadows and into everyday conversation. Their Delay Spray created for men who experience premature ejaculation or just want to last a bit longer in bed. It’s simple. Spray on. Play on. Enjoy! Use the code SEXOLOGY and enjoy 15% off. Spice Up Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us On InstagramPodcast Produced by Vaudeo ProductionsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Transcribe →EP483 – Purity Culture to Polyamory: How She Built a Mono-Poly Relationship
Mar 2400:28:40Tap to summarizeWelcome to Episode 483 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to have Courtney Boyer on the show. In this episode, Courtney talks to me about how she transitioned from living in a strict purity culture to living in a polyamorous lifestyle. Courtney discusses her childhood in a strict religious setting where her worth and safety were closely linked to her ability to control her sexual urges. We talk about the "myth of the perfect Christian wife" and how many women in these communities feel pressured to keep up the act of sacrifice. Courtney Boyer, M.Ed., M.S., is a therapist-turned-relationship coach, writer, and speaker whose work centers on love, desire, and authenticity. She has been featured in The New York Post, Cosmopolitan, The Huffington Post, and BBC Radio Live. Drawing on her background in mental health and sex therapy, she brings a unique blend of professional expertise and lived experience to conversations around relationships and identity. When she isn’t writing or coaching, Courtney can be found chasing joy—traveling, reading, or savoring delicious coffee and deep conversation. She is passionate about helping women break free from shame, reclaim their bodies and voices, and create relationships rooted in honesty and autonomy. In this episode, you will hear: · How Purity Culture Affects How You Feel About Yourself· Disputing The Myth Of The Ideal Christian Wife· Going From Being Monogamous To Being Polyamorous· How To Handle The Dynamics Of A Mono-poly Relationship· Setting Limits In Parallel Polyamory· The Significance Of Representation In Non-monogamy· Reclaiming Joy Through Bodily Embodiment· Building Self-trust After Being Controlled By Religion· Why Women Should Date Men Who Are Older Than Them· Finding Your Own Reason To Open Up Thank you to our sponsor! Steady Freddy is here to bring men’s sexual health out of the shadows and into everyday conversation. Their Delay Spray created for men who experience premature ejaculation or just want to last a bit longer in bed. It’s simple. Spray on. Play on. Enjoy! Use the code SEXOLOGY and enjoy 15% off. Spice Up Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us On InstagramPodcast Produced by Vaudeo ProductionsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Transcribe →EP482 - Your Sexual Nervous System and Stages of Foreplay
Mar 1700:32:25Tap to summarizeWelcome to Episode 482 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Jessica Idoine who speaks to me about the role of the nervous system in erotic connection and how couples can move from the stress of daily life into a state that supports intimacy and foreplay. Jessica and I talk about why a lot of people find it difficult to shift from the hectic nature of daily obligations to erotic connection. We examine how the nervous system is crucial to sexual responsiveness and why arousal and pleasure depend on a transition from a fight-or-flight response to a more relaxed, present-moment state.Jessica is a licensed and certified relationship and sex therapist, retreat facilitator, and founder of Expansive Connections Retreats. She helps couples and individuals cultivate deeper intimacy, emotional safety, and honest communication through a trauma-informed, somatic, and evidence-based approach. With specialized experience supporting LGBTQIA+ clients, neurodivergent couples, and non-traditional relationships, Jessica is known for reframing relationship myths, normalizing complex dynamics, and offering practical, accessible tools for navigating intimacy, conflict, and long-term connection. In this episode, you will hear: · The Nervous System’s Role In Sexual Arousal· Why Stress Blocks Erotic Connection· Moving From Fight Or Flight To Rest And Digest· Practical Co-Regulation Rituals For Couples· The Power Of Non-Demand Touch And Connection· Navigating Desire Mismatch In Relationships· How To Communicate A Loving “No” To Sex· Recognizing Signs Of Nervous System Shutdown· Using Rituals To Transition Into Intimacy· Small Shifts That Help Couples Feel Safer And More Connected Thank you to our sponsor! Steady Freddy is here to bring men's sexual health out of the shadows and into everyday conversation. Their Delay Spray created for men who experience premature ejaculation or just want to last a bit longer in bed. It's simple. Spray on. Play on. Enjoy! Use the code SEXOLOGY and enjoy 15% off. Spice Up Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us On InstagramPodcast Produced by Vaudeo ProductionsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Transcribe →EP481 - Kink Curious: Play Without Shame
Mar 1000:28:24Tap to summarizeWelcome to Episode 481 of the Sexology Podcast! I'm thrilled to have Gigi Engle join me today as she talks about kink, how it's frequently misinterpreted, and how people can explore their desires with open communication, curiosity, and safety. Gigi and I discuss what kink actually entails and why it is much more expansive than the preconceived notions that many people have about it. She describes how the term "kink" serves as a catch-all for a variety of relational and sensory experiences, ranging from more symbolic forms of erotic expression to power dynamics and sensation play. Gigi Engle is a COSRT-registered, MNCIP, ACS, CSE, CSC, GSRD-accredited, award-winning author, certified sex & relationships psychotherapist, and sex educator. She works clinically as an associate clinician at The Therapy Yard, where she specializes in supporting GSRD (Gender, Sexuality, and Relationship Diverse) clients, including members of the LGBTQIA+ community, kinky folx, and people in polyamorous and open relationships. Gigi is the author of two books: Kink Curious and All The F*cking Mistakes. Kink Curious is available for pre-order and comes out January 21st. In this episode, you will hear: · The True Meaning of Kink· Distinctions Between Fetish and Kink· Reasons Behind Many People's Unrealized Kinkiness· The Evolution of Kinks· Psychology of Symbolic and Sensory Play· Kink Exploration's Emotional Safety· The Significance of Safe Words and Consent· Comprehending the Concept of an Enthusiastic Maybe· Managing Shame Regarding Sexual Desires· How Couples Can Respectfully Discuss Kinks Thank you to our sponsor! Steady Freddy is here to bring men's sexual health out of the shadows and into everyday conversation. Their Delay Spray created for men who experience premature ejaculation, or just want to last a bit longer in bed. It's simple. Spray on. Play on. Enjoy! Use the code SEXOLOGY and enjoy 15% off. Spice Up Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us On InstagramPodcast Produced by Vaudeo ProductionsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Transcribe →EP480 - The Impact of GLP-1’s and ED: Helpful or Hurtful
Mar 300:29:25Tap to summarizeWelcome to Episode 480 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Dr. Taylor P. Kohn who speaks to me about the impact of GLP-1 receptor agonists on sexual health and erectile function.In this episode, we discuss the growing curiosity around GLP-1 medications and whether they influence erectile dysfunction, libido, and overall sexual performance. Dr. Kohn shares insights from his large claims database study examining young men without diabetes who initiated GLP-1 treatment. We also talk about reassuring findings, including the low overall rate of new erectile dysfunction diagnoses, while also unpacking the difference between correlation and causation.Dr. Taylor P. Kohn, MD, M.Phil. is an Assistant Professor in the Scott Department of Urology at Baylor College of Medicine, specializing in Male Infertility and Sexual Dysfunction. Dr. Kohn began his academic career at Baylor University where he developed a love for biomedical research. In 2013, he was awarded a prestigious Fulbright Scholarship, enabling him to pursue a Master of Philosophy (M.Phil.) in Instrumentation at the University of Manchester in the United Kingdom, studying protein distribution in Alzheimer’s disease using imaging mass spectrometers. In this episode, you will hear: · GLP-1 Medications And Erectile Dysfunction Risk· Libido Changes And Reward System Questions· Microvascular Health And Cardiovascular Links· Weight Loss, Muscle Mass, And Hormone Regulation· Testosterone Optimization Through Lifestyle· Psychological Contributors To Erectile Challenges· Treatment Ladder For Erectile Dysfunction· Shockwave Therapy And Regenerative Options· Penile Injections And Prosthesis Outcomes· Stress Reduction And Sexual Confidence Building Thank you to our sponsor! Steady Freddy is here to bring men's sexual health out of the shadows and into everyday conversation. Their Delay Spray created for men who experience premature ejaculation, or just want to last a bit longer in bed. It's simple. Spray on. Play on. Enjoy! Use the code SEXOLOGY and enjoy 15% off. Hard Penis Check List Spice Up Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life: Follow Us On InstagramPodcast Produced by Vaudeo ProductionsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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