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What is really happening in K–12 sex education across the United States right now? In this episode, we unpack the good, the bad, and the truly troubling — and imagine what sex ed could look like if it were inclusive, medically accurate, intersectional, and pleasure-positive. We’re joined by Gina Lepore (she/her), an ASSECT-Certified Sexuality Educator with over 30 years of experience spanning healthcare, research, curriculum development, and education. Gina holds a master’s degree in Sexuality Education from Widener University and has taught comprehensive sex ed to middle and high school students, trained future sexuality educators and medical students, conducted research, and even spent time educating about (and selling!) pleasure products at her favorite adult store, Pure Pleasure Shop — because real-world learning matters. Together, we explore why sex education often feels inaccessible or incomplete, and what’s needed to bridge the gap between academic research and online, community-based sexuality education. Gina shares insights from her work as an adjunct lecturer at Cabrillo College and California State University, Chico, reflecting on what she’s learned from teaching hundreds of students — their questions, their gaps, and their hunger for honest, affirming information. We also dive into current research in the field, including buzz around an Emerging Adults Pleasure Survey, and discuss why pleasure belongs in conversations about sexual health. Gina breaks down what sexual empowerment and sexual agency truly mean, how pleasure education can play a role in reducing sexual violence and trauma, and why embodied, holistic approaches to sexuality are essential. In addition to her work in sex education, Gina is a Certified Personal Trainer and Health Coach, integrating fitness and embodied wellbeing into her practice through Focus Integrated Fitness and Joyride Sexual Empowerment Coaching. She brings a grounded, compassionate, and deeply human lens to sexuality — shaped not only by her professional work, but also by her lived experience as a proud mama of two young men. ✨ Stick around to the end to learn how to connect with Gina, explore her work, and dive deeper into pleasure-positive, empowering sexuality education. To learn more go to: IG: joyride_empowerment IG: EAPS_2023 For direct access to the survey: https://tinyurl.com/yc36n7pc Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

What's the secret to getting exactly what you want in bed? Join us on this sizzling episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of unapologetic intimacy with the one and only Dr. Tara, author of How Do You Like It? A Guide to Getting What You Want (In Bed) and host of the Luvbites podcast. Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: * How Dr. Tara became the go-to expert in the field of sexuality (hint: it involves a passion for sex education and a whole lot of sass) * What inspired her to write a book that's all about empowering you to take control of your desires * The top issues people face in the bedroom (and how to overcome them) * Why we settle for mediocre sex (and how to break free from it) * The difference between micro and macro sexual communication (and how to master both for a more fulfilling sex life) * The importance of building sexual self-esteem and confidence (and how to do it) * Practical tools and tips for boosting your erotic life (even in long-term relationships) As a Kinsey-certified sexologist, tenured professor, and award-winning researcher, Dr. Tara is the ultimate authority on all things sex. With her expertise and infectious energy, you'll be empowered to take charge of your desires and create a more fulfilling sex life. So, what are you waiting for? Tune in to this episode and get ready to unlock your full erotic potential! And, as a special treat, stay tuned until the end to find out how to get your hands on Dr. Tara's book and connect with her for more sexpert advice. Trust us, you won't want to miss it! To learn more go to https://www.luvbites.co Get her book on Amazon here Follow her: IG: @luvebites.co TikTok: @luvbites.co Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com Learn more about the fabulous Reid Mihalko here: https://reidaboutsex.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off getting soaking wet with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

In this episode, we’re joined by Ashley Randall, also known as Irreverent Femme—a Los Angeles–based Sex, Intimacy, and Kink Coach, Dominatrix, and erotic parfum-ist. Ashley shares how her journey into sexuality work emerged from a desire to help people shed shame, reconnect with their bodies, and access deeper intimacy and pleasure. Ashley primarily works with cisgender, predominantly straight men, many of whom are successful yet disconnected—from their emotions, their desire, and their partners. She explains why working with a confident, sexually embodied woman can be both confronting and profoundly healing, offering men a space to drop performance and explore authenticity. The most common issue Ashley sees is disconnection, often showing up as performance anxiety, erectile challenges, or difficulty leading and communicating sexually. Beneath it all is a longing for confidence, presence, and deeper connection. In early sessions, Ashley focuses on nervous system regulation, consent, and embodiment, gradually guiding clients toward more grounded desire, emotional intimacy, and conscious power. We also explore Ashley’s work as a Dominatrix and how dominance—whether kinky or not—is about presence, responsibility, and attunement rather than control. She shares practical insights for men who want to be more dominant, emphasizing self-regulation, listening, and clarity. Plus, we dive into Ashley’s erotic perfumes, which she uses as a powerful sensory and somatic tool in sessions to anchor desire, memory, and arousal. Ashley leaves listeners with one golden reminder: your desire is not a problem—it’s information. Learn more or work with Ashley at www.irreverentcoaching.com Follow her on Instagram: @IrreverentLoveCoaching Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get Erika Lust's beautiful , connected, ethical, and SUPER HOT porn at http://erikalust.com, and use code SHAMELESS to get 45% off! Get 15% off taking care of YOU in the New Year + any annual membership at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

Want to have the ultimate sex—whether you’ve got a pussy or a penis? In this Shameless Sex mashup episode, we’re diving deep into the most unforgettable moments with Keeley Rankin, M.A., a leading intimacy and relationship coach since 2010. From decoding orgasms to overcoming shame, Keeley’s expert insights will help you unlock new levels of pleasure, confidence, and connection. Here’s what you’ll learn: Proven techniques to enhance and expand your orgasmic pleasure (#199 All About Orgasms) How to navigate and overcome premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, and erectile challenges (#184) Powerful tools to shed penis shame and embrace your sexual self without judgment (#403 Overcoming Penis Shame) The transformative practice of “less doing, more being” to invite deeper pleasure and presence (#351 Less Doing + More Being = Hello Pleasure) Listen to the full episodes here: #199 All About Orgasms #184 Premature Ejaculation, Delayed Ejaculation and Ed #403 Overcoming Penis Shame #351 Less Doing + More Being = Hello Pleasure Why tune in? This episode is for anyone ready to break free from performance pressure, shame, or confusion—and step boldly into a sex life that feels joyful, authentic, and deeply satisfying. Keeley’s warm, no-nonsense guidance invites you to explore your pleasure with curiosity and ease, making this a must-listen for singles, couples, and anyone curious about their sexuality. About Keeley Rankin, M.A. Keeley Rankin has been a leading intimacy and relationship coach since 2010. As a trusted mentor, she supports singles and couples in having better sex, deeper relationships, and fully realizing their sexual potential. Want to dive deeper? Click the link in the show notes to learn more and access all of Keeley’s transformative work. Curious how slowing down can actually turn up the heat? Or how to reframe shame into self-love? Hit play and let Keeley guide you to your ultimate pleasure. Want to work with Keeley? Check out her online courses and offerings here: https://www.keeleyrankin.com/a/2147934532/hQuRK85L Get your hands on this deck-aaaaa: Vibrating Tarot crowdfunding campaign (all of our fave brands and sponsors are in the deck) - click link in show notes to support + get first access to deck https://www.backerkit.com/c/projects/pallor-publishing/vibrating-tarot Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

Get ready for a shameless discussion with the legendary, the iconic, and the amazing…Nina Hartley! Join Amy and April as they sit down in person with the iconic Nina Hartley on the Shameless Sex podcast. Known as "a legend in the adult world" by CNBC and an "advocate for sexual freedom" by Las Vegas Weekly, Nina brings decades of experience and insight to this candid conversation. With a career spanning over 1,000 adult films, numerous awards, and a reputation as a fierce advocate for sexual freedom, Nina brings her unique perspective and expertise to the conversation. Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: How Nina went from nurse to sex educator to porn performer and creator, and what she's learned along the way A game-changing pussy-eating tip that will leave you (and your partner) begging for more The surprising truth about skin hunger and why we're all aching for touch What Big Dick Energy really means (and how to get it) The powerful ways in which embracing her queerness in the porn industry "saved" her and helped her find her true self The life-changing impact of "The Happy Hooker" book and how it influenced her approach to sex work Why Nina loves creating porn: it's not just about the sex – it's about helping people relax, feel pleasure, and connect with their bodies Benefits: By tuning in, you'll gain a deeper understanding of the importance of self-acceptance, shameless exploration, and authentic connection in your own sex life. Nina's wisdom, experience, and infectious enthusiasm will leave you feeling inspired, empowered, and ready to take your sex life to new heights. Teaser: Dive into this episode and unlock the magic of shameless sex with the legendary Nina Hartley! Get ready for a wild, honest, and unapologetically juicy conversation with a woman who's been breaking barriers and hearts for decades. Nina brings her wit, warmth, and wisdom to the table, leaving you craving more! Access more Nina Hartley: http://nina.live Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off VB Health with code SHAMELESS at http://loadboost.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

In this epic mashup episode of Shameless Sex, we're throwing it back to some of our favorite conversations with the incomparable Reid Mihalko. As a renowned sex educator, Reid has been a repeat guest on our show, and for good reason - his expertise and charisma are simply irresistible. Join us as we revisit some of the hottest topics from his previous episodes, guaranteed to leave you feeling informed, empowered, and maybe even a little bit naughty. In this mashup episode, you’ll hear clips and tips from Reid about: #105 Threesomes #326 Orgies and Play Parties #423 Are Unicorns Real? #5 Casual sex - first episode with a guest! Here's what you can expect to learn from this mashup episode: The dos and don'ts of navigating threesomes, orgies, and play parties The lowdown on unicorns: are they real, and how can you find (or become) one? The art of casual sex: how to do it right, wit Reid as our very first guest on Shameless Sex Tips and tricks for managing jealousy and non-monogamy in your relationships Reid Mihalko is the ultimate expert in all things sex and relationships. As a queer, polyamorous educator, speaker, and proud unicorn and slut, he's been featured on Netflix's "Chelsea Does..." and HBO's "Sex Diaries." With his quick wit, infectious enthusiasm, and wealth of knowledge, Reid is the perfect guide to help you navigate even the most complex topics. Teaser: So, what are you waiting for? Tune in to this mashup episode for a wild ride of sex education, laughter, and possibly even a few surprises. And don't forget to check out Reid's courses on jealousy, non-monogamy, threesomes, and more in our show notes. Buckle up, folks, and get ready to have your mind blown. As Reid would say, "Sex is a journey, not a destination" - and we can't wait to take this journey with you. To learn more go to reidaboutsex.com To access Reid’s wide range courses, click on the links below: Non monogamy: https://courses.reidaboutsex.com/a/2147505957/tHbhEyLe Jealousy: https://courses.reidaboutsex.com/a/2147505958/tHbhEyLe Threesomes: https://courses.reidaboutsex.com/a/2147505960/tHbhEyLe Casual sex: https://courses.reidaboutsex.com/a/2147505962/tHbhEyLe Sex parties: https://courses.reidaboutsex.com/a/2147524685/tHbhEyLe Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com For products in this episode: The Sportsheets Pivot 2 in 1 Force-O thigh harness (get 20% off with code SHAMELESSSEX at https://www.sportsheets.com) The Magic Wand (get 15% off with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com)

Are You Ready to Level Up Your Sex Life?Join us in this sizzling episode of Shameless Sex as we sit down with the incredible Shan Boodram, AASECT certified sex educator, certified Sexologist, and host of the Lovers by Shan podcast. She also has an incredible MasterClass we love called The Art of Sex Appeal. With over 20 years of studying and experiencing sex, Shan is on a mission to guide and support those who are already on their sexual journey.Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode:• How to navigate your unique body and desires to enhance your sex life• The importance of sex positions tailored to your body and your partner's• How to prioritize women's pleasure and create a more satisfying experience• Tips and tricks from the Kama Sutra to live a more pleasurable and connected life• How to transition from a novice to an "athlete" in the bedroom• A sneak peek into Shan's erotic jewelry line, Kama, and her MasterClass, The Art of Sex AppealShan's passion for modern intimacy and relationship education is contagious, and her expertise will leave you feeling empowered and inspired to take your sex life to the next level.TeaserSo, what are you waiting for? Tune in to this episode and get ready to unleash your inner sex appeal. As Shan would say, "Let's get lit up and take it to the next level!" And, as a special treat, Shan shares a surprising secret about the cowgirl position... it's not just about bouncing up and down. Want to know the secret to making it more pleasurable? You'll have to listen to find out!Get more Shan: https://www.loversbyshan.com/Shan’s MasterClass: http://Masterclass.com/shamelessKama jewelry line: https://surmeyi.com/collections/kamaAustin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tourGet premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fmDo you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copySupport Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish ListOther links:Get 15% off your curated erotic experience at Arya with code Shameless at http://Arya.fyiGet an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.comGet 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.comFor products mentioned in the episode: Womanizer Premium 2Womanizer StarletPjur Lust Clitoral Gel

Are you ready for some real tips and tricks for a mind-blowing sex life? In this exciting mashup episode of Shameless Sex, we’re diving into the wisdom of the incredible Alicia and Erwan Davon, renowned Relationship Coaches and San Francisco's leading Tantra Teachers. Since 1995, they've transformed relationships with their innovative Davon Method, teaching over 20,000 students through groups, retreats, and individual sessions. In this mashup episode, you’ll hear juicy clips and the Davon’s top tips for: #374 Kissing Like a Pro: Master the art of the perfect kiss that leaves your partner wanting more. #401 Stripping Away Body Insecurities: Learn how to embrace your body and boost your confidence in and out of the bedroom. #327 Bringing in a Third: Navigate the exciting yet challenging world of threesomes with ease and respect. #310 The Art of Orgasmic Anal Sex: Unlock the beauty of the orgasmic backdoor from the experts. Benefits for You: Gain practical tips to enhance your intimate and sexual connections. Overcome body image issues to embrace a more confident you. Explore new dimensions in your sex life, whether solo or with partners. Discover how to communicate effectively and safely when introducing new dynamics into your relationship. With years of experience and a perfected curriculum, Alicia and Erwan provide a safe space for you to improve chemistry, connection, communication, and passion in your love life. Teaser:So, are you ready to spice things up and become a love and sex rockstar? Tune in to this mashup episode, and let’s get shameless together!Learn more about the Davon Method at https://davonmethod.com. To set up a consultation, call or text 415-308-9580Get private coaching from the Davons: https://davonmethod.com/consult/The Paradise Vacation Course: Davon’s Tantra Retreat for singles & couples!January 2026 and already half full! Watch this video to see what their retreat is all about: https://youtu.be/OvEo30Tmmo0Click this link to set up a time to speak: https://davonmethod.com/consult/Be sure to mention Shameless Sex!Check out this new podcast-we love it: Sharing a new podcast we love! Sex Talk Cafe with Susan Morgan Taylor, MA, Somatic Sex Therapist for Couples, Creator of the Pleasure Keys Immersion Experiences. This podcast is fab and all about relationships, communication, lots of info for couples in long term relationships. Go check out Sex Talk Cafe podcast on your favorite app, and she has a masterclass coming up too! Go to https://www.pathwaytopleasure.comAustin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tourGet premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fmDo you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copySupport Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish ListOther links:Get 15% off your curated erotic experience at Arya with code Shameless at http://Arya.fyiGet 30% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at http://butterwellness.comGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.comGet 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

Are you ready to take your intimate conversations to the next level? In this episode of Shameless Sex, we dive into the tantalizing world of dirty talk with the incredible Ashley Manta!Join us as Ashley—an award-winning sex educator and the mastermind behind the CannaSexual® brand—shares her expertise on how to spice up your verbal game in the bedroom. With a history as a phone sex operator and a wealth of knowledge on the mindful integration of cannabis and eroticism, Ashley is here to help you embrace the awkward and find your unique voice.What You’ll Learn: The Art of Dirty Talk: Discover how to confidently express your desires and fantasies. Embracing Imperfection: Learn why it’s okay for your dirty talk to be awkward or imperfect. Body Language vs. Words: Explore how sometimes, actions speak louder than words. Personalization: Understand that what’s sexy is different for everyone—find what works for you and your partner. Practical Tips: Get actionable advice on how to start incorporating dirty talk into your intimate life and some fun ways to learn how to master it. Benefits for You: Boost your confidence in bed and enhance intimacy with your partner. Learn to communicate desires in a playful and fun way. Transform awkward moments into exciting opportunities for connection and getting naughty with your bedroom game with your words. With Ashley’s engaging insights and playful approach, you’ll walk away ready to explore the art of dirty talk like never before! Teaser: Tune in to discover how embracing the awkward can lead to the most deliciously sexy conversations of your life. You won’t want to miss Ashley's expert tips that will have you and your partner talking—and feeling—hotter than ever!Ashley’s mission is simple and radical: to help people have better sex, deeper connections, and more liberated lives. To learn more go to https://www.ashleymanta.com/.Enroll in Ashley's upcoming program by April 11th for $111 offJoin us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvefAustin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tourGet premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fmDo you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copySupport Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish ListOther links:Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.comGet 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

We’re excited to bring you a special feed drop from Rom Com Vom, a miniseries from Sex Ed with DB that dives into the messy, funny, and sometimes uncomfortable themes in our favorite romantic comedies. This clip comes from their episode on 10 Things I Hate About You, where host Danielle Bezalel is joined by comedian and director Melissa Strype. They break down the film’s gender dynamics, Patrick Verona’s bad boy charm, and what still holds up — or really doesn’t — in this late 90s teen classic. Listen to the full episode here and find Sex Ed with DB wherever you get your podcasts.Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tourGet premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fmDo you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copySupport Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish ListOther links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.comGet 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com