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We’re excited to bring you a special feed drop from Rom Com Vom, a miniseries from Sex Ed with DB that dives into the messy, funny, and sometimes uncomfortable themes in our favorite romantic comedies. This clip comes from their episode on 10 Things I Hate About You, where host Danielle Bezalel is joined by comedian and director Melissa Strype. They break down the film’s gender dynamics, Patrick Verona’s bad boy charm, and what still holds up — or really doesn’t — in this late 90s teen classic. Listen to the full episode here and find Sex Ed with DB wherever you get your podcasts.Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tourGet premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fmDo you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copySupport Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish ListOther links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.comGet 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

Are you ready to dive into the wild world of dating? From sparks flying to cringe-worthy moments, this episode of Shameless Sex has it all!Join us as we welcome Dirty Lola, the award-winning sex edutainer and self-proclaimed dildo slinger, to unpack the complexities of modern dating. Known for her live Q&A show, Sex Ed A Go-Go, and her role as a Sexpert on the Emmy-nominated Netflix docuseries The Principles of Pleasure, Lola brings her wealth of knowledge and playful spirit to the conversation.In this episode, you’ll learn: The highs and lows of dating in today’s world How to navigate awkward first dates and red flags Tips for effective communication and setting boundaries Dating app hacks from the expert The importance of self-love and confidence in attracting the right partner Real-life dating stories that will make you laugh and cringe Get ready to giggle, gasp, and gain insights that will transform your dating life! Whether you're swiping right or feeling stuck in a dating rut, this episode is packed with valuable takeaways and entertaining anecdotes.Audience Benefits: Feel empowered to tackle your dating life with confidence Gain practical tools for better communication and self-expression Discover how to turn dating disasters into learning experiences Don’t miss out on Dirty Lola's expert advice and delightful humor! Tune in for a rollercoaster ride through the ups and downs of dating, and leave with a renewed perspective on finding love.Teaser: Stick around until the end for Lola’s spicy tips on how to date like the experts and some easy tips to get the most out of dating apps—trust us, you won’t want to miss this! Listen now and let’s get down and dirty about dating!Find more Dirty Lola at www.dirtylola.co or on IG: @Dirtylola Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvefAustin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tourGet premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fmDo you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copySupport Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish ListOther links:Get 15% off your curated erotic experience at Arya with code Shameless at http://Arya.fyiGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.comGet 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

Navigate the complexities of modern relationships and sex with the help of one of the world’s most trusted voices in sexuality. In this episode of Shameless Sex, we sit down with Dan Savage, the best-selling author and the brilliant mastermind behind the Savage Love column and the Savage Love podcast. Get ready for an eye opening discussion that will leave you questioning, laughing, and HUMPing!In this episode, you’ll discover: The wild ride of podcasting since 2005: What it was like to be an original podcaster and how the medium has evolved. Writing about sex since the 90’s: How Dan’s shaped sex past, present, and future. An inside look at HUMP! Fest: The inspiration behind it, Dan’s HUMP! journey, and why you need to experience it for yourself (and possibly become a HUMP creator yourself). Dan’s Dictionary: What is GGG, Tolyamory, and other fascinating words and phrases all coined by Dan. New sexual terms and trends: What’s bubbling up in the world of sex, and how Dan brilliantly interprets them. Insight into sex and politics: What keeps Dan up at night and why it matters to you. Join us as we dive deep into these topics with Dan Savage, an influential media pundit, activist, and co-founder of the It Gets Better Project. He brings his signature wit and wisdom to help you navigate your own sexual journey. Benefits of tuning in: Gain fresh perspectives on sex and relationship dynamics from the OG of sexuality podcasts. Learn practical advice you can apply to your own life. Why not get smarter and more shameless? Be entertained and ready to laugh while learning about Dan’s feelings on role play, porn, and writing a syndicated sex column since the 1990s Curious about what’s next for Dan? Stick around until the end for an exclusive teaser about his upcoming projects that you won't want to miss!Teaser:Get ready to indulge in a shamelessly fun conversation that will inspire you to embrace your desires and redefine your relationships with the podcasting legend who started it all! Get more Dan Savage and check out HUMP! Fest in a city near you.Subscribe to Dan’s premium MAGNUM content to go big with Dan. Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvefAustin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tourGet premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fmDo you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copySupport Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish ListOther links:Get $10 off an amazing course about how to talk to kids and teens about sex with code EMPOWER at https://www.empoweredcaretakers.comGet 20% off single orders and 30% off subscriptions on our favorite men's performance booster with code SHAMELESS http://tryjoymode.comGet 15% off your curated experience at Arya with code Shameless at http://Arya.fyiGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.comGet 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

Are you ready to elevate your oral game and become a fellatio champ? This episode of Shameless Sex is packed with juicy insights and expert advice from the incredible Dr. Alison Ash! Join us as we dive deep into everything you need to know to master the art of oral pleasure. From anatomy to technique, we’ve got you covered!In this episode, you’ll learn: The surprising reasons some people shy away from giving oral pleasure and how to overcome those barriers. Why honing your oral skills can transform your confidence in the bedroom. A quick dive into dick anatomy 101—because knowing your canvas is key! Essential tips and tools for providing consistent and reliable penis pleasure. Intermediate and advanced techniques to elevate your skills to the next level. Practical advice for those who are not fans of ejaculate—yes, you can still enjoy the experience! Strategies for penis owners to encourage their partners to embrace oral pleasure. Exciting new offerings from Dr. Aly that you won't want to miss! Why should you tune in? This episode is not just about technique; it’s about fostering confidence and intimacy in your sexual experiences. Dr. Alison Ash brings her wealth of knowledge and passion for sexuality to help you navigate the often-taboo topic of oral pleasure in a fun and open environment. Meet Dr. Alison Ash:Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. With a PhD from Stanford, she’s a leading voice in addressing the complexities of sexual experiences, including her pioneering research on the orgasm gap and queer and trans dynamics. Dr. Aly's extensive training in various therapeutic approaches makes her insights both profound and practical.Whether you're looking to improve your skills or simply want to learn more about the nuances of intimacy, this conversation will leave you informed, empowered, and maybe a little cheeky. LinksTo learn more visit turnon.love Group coaching program: www.TurnON.love/empowered-dating-coachingRetreat tickets: www.TurnON.love/sustainable-intimacy-retreatIndividual, couples, and polycule coaching: www.TurnON.love/coachingOn-demand rentals: www.TurnON.love/workshopsJoin us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvefAustin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tourGet premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fmDo you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copySupport Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish ListOther links:Get 20% off single orders and 30% off subscriptions on our favorite men's performance booster with code SHAMELESS http://tryjoymode.comGet an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.comGet 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

In this episode four badass women come together from Double Teamed and Shameless Sex podcasts to talk all things casual sex, anal sex, DTF, secondary erogenous zones, dirty talk, non-monogamy, kink, cheating and affairs, cone dicks, spitting during sex, and beyond. Get ready to laugh and learn while getting Double Teamed by Shameless Sex.About our guests: Double Teamed Podcast is on a mission to bring awareness to non-monogamy, kink, and sexuality and help make these taboo subjects more understood and accepted by our younger generations. Cami & Niki love to get honest and vulnerable with their listeners, discussing their experiences in open relationships, dating, Dominance & submission, and sex parties. Find them anywhere you listen to podcasts and across your favorite social media platforms. To learn more visit doubleteamedpodcast.comCome to our live mini-workshop + book launch event at Blue Boutique in Salt Lake City on December, 8th! Grab your tickets hereOrder our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders).Other links:Get 30 days of free hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shamelessGet the pleasure and heath benefits from pumping up your bits at aprilamy.comGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

When was the last time you had a sex talk with a parent? This week, we are sharing a hilarious clip from podcast Sex Talk With My Mom, a favorite from our Pleasure Podcasts network. Cam Poter and his mom KarenLee Poter have a weekly sex talk to make the most uncomfortable conversations comfortable. On their comedy show, they talk about everything that a mom and son don’t typically talk about, from smoking hash under a glass to anal mishaps. In this clip, they share about the best orgasms of their lives. Check out the full episode on the Sex Talk With My Mom podcast: Episode 422 The Best Orgasms of Our Lives. We promise you will be highly entertained :)

NOTE: Dr. Willow Brown's retreat has been moved to June 12th, 2021. Did you know that you can have a kidney orgasm, a liver orgasm, and utilize sex as medicine to change, heal and empower you? Friend and repeat guest Dr. Willow Brown joins us to to talk about all of this, as well as sex for longevity, vitality, & spiritual/emotional harmony, the four phases of moon cycle and five Chinese elements in relation to sexuality, and how to unlock and embody your inner Queen. We also answer a sex question about vulva shaming. About our guest: Willow Brown holds a doctorate in Chinese Medicine, blending ancient taoist philosophy with sexual and spiritual practices that ignite the souls true calling. She is devoted to the sexual healing of humanity and works to promote and open receptive pleasure pathways in each person she works with. Willow works with her clients and patients on every level. Physical, spiritual, emotional, sexual and psychological. You will not find a more holistic approach to a long happy and healthy life. To learn more visit drwillowbrown.com.For her Dreaming the Queen Awake retreat on June 12th, 2021 visit https://drwillowbrown.com/dreaming-the-queen-awake/ Other links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shamelessWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.comGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comBuy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast

We've had a few requests for more on Tantra, and while we have an awesome guest speaker or two who specializes on the subjest lined up to guest on our show, we decided to record a quickie on Tantra basics to hold you over. Enjoy! References: Urban Tantra by Barbara Carrellas Amy's online Tantra class

In this bonus episode we cover everything from blowjobs, the #metoo movement, what consensual means, how to keep judgment out of your sex life, and much more. Conner Moore is the host of The Realness Podcast (available on iTunes, Google Play, etc), as well as a strength and conditioning and Lifestyle Design Coach. Learn more here: https://gettherealness.comShow Book References: "Mating In Captivity" by Ester Perel "The State of Affairs" by Ester Perel "Sex at Dawn" by Chris Ryan "A Billion Wicked Thoughts" by Sal Goddam and Ogi Ogas