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You're listening to short wave from NPR. Maria Friedman is truly one of the coolest 17 year olds I've ever met. We started talking a year ago because she wanted advice on how to start a podcast.
Maria Friedman
Hello and welcome to Balancing Act, a mental health and wellness and semi unfiltered podcast.
Emily Kwong
Our conversation, though, quickly turned to something else that happened to both of us. We both developed an eating disorder in middle school. Eating disorders among teenagers skyrocketed during the pandemic. Maria's began during the COVID lockdown. She was cut off from her peers and spending way more time watching tv.
Maria Friedman
You see the protagonists and they're all like, so beautiful. And you're like, do I have to look like that to be worthy to be lovable?
Emily Kwong
And Mareia, who was already struggling with perfectionism and anxiety, started to feel awful about herself.
Maria Friedman
The world was spiraling out of control, and now my body was spiraling out of control. And so what did I try to do? I tried to control it.
Emily Kwong
Eating disorders among teenagers skyrocketed during the pandemic. For Marea, 2 servings of pasta became one serving of pasta became no pasta at all. She had intense exercise goals, all in an effort in her mind to become healthier.
Maria Friedman
And it was only when we went to the doctor and they're like, no, this isn't healthy. Your heart isn't doing that well. You haven't had your period in months where it was like, oh, hey, that's not really healthy.
Emily Kwong
Eating disorders are hard to put into words, but they are not choices. They are the neurobiological consequences of an illness that touches all areas of your life.
Eva Trujillo
Eating disorders literally rewire the brain. They're not just emotional or behavioral.
Emily Kwong
Pediatrician Eva Trujillo is the president of the International association of eating disorder professionals. She's also the co founder of Comenzar de Nuevo, a leading treatment facility in Latin America where patients from all ages and walks of life learn skills and find a way out.
Eva Trujillo
Recovery is possible, but the brain needs time, food, therapy, and compassion to heal.
Emily Kwong
Today on the show Going it not alone with your eating disorder. With pediatrician Eva Trujillo, we talk about how eating disorders affect the brain and the body and answer a question from Mareia about how to sustain recovery in a world steeped in diet culture. I'M Emily Kwong and you're listening to Short Wave from npr.
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Emily Kwong
Trujillo, you worked with the Academy for Eating Disorders on a list called the Nine Truths About Eating Disorders. It's a great list. And one of those truths is is about who has an eating disorder. Who does this affect?
Eva Trujillo
Yes, this is key. The stereotype of the thin, white, affluent teenage girl leaves thousands of people invisible and unfortunately undertreated, underdiagnosed. So eating disorders do not discriminate. They affect people across the entire spectrum of human identity. Men and women, trans, non binary people, children, adults, athletes, parents, immigrants, indigenous populations in larger bodies and those in smaller ones. We know that eating disorders are just as likely and often more likely to go undiagnosed in people from marginalized communities, including people of color, low income individuals and the LGBTQ population.
Emily Kwong
Let's talk about the physical impacts more and I want to move from the top down from your head to your toes. How do eating disorders change your brain?
Eva Trujillo
So when someone is malnourished, when someone is not eating all the calories they need to eat regardless of their weight, the brain is deprived of the energy it needs to function properly. There are studies that report that there's a reduction in what we call the gray and white matter of the brain. So that means the brain is literally shrinking and it would lose a lot of the biochemical compounds it has that can help you to determine your mood and the way you think and the way you feel and the way you perceive your environment.
Emily Kwong
And how does that feel in the brain mind of the person who has an eating disorder.
Eva Trujillo
Cognitively, patients often experience difficulty concentrating, obsessive thoughts about food, rigid thinking, poor emotional regulation, and even symptoms that may resemble ADHD or depression. Or families say, sometimes my daughter disappear. It's like she's not herself anymore. And that's not an exaggeration. The brain is starving.
Emily Kwong
Yeah.
Eva Trujillo
But the good thing, the good news is that many of these changes can be reversed with full nutritional rehabilitation.
Emily Kwong
And, you know, thinking about the impacts, it's just so totalizing. You're saying it affects every part of the brain?
Eva Trujillo
Every.
Emily Kwong
But, you know, that should come as no surprise, because how cells work is they need nutrients to sustain energy. So what happens to the rest of your body over time if a person is malnourished through an eating disorder?
Eva Trujillo
Well, every organ can get affected. For example, malnutrition slows the metabolism and the heart response by becoming smaller, weaker. You know, the most important muscle we have in the body is the heart. So we can find bradycardia, which is a dangerously slow heart rate, and that can trigger sudden cardiac arrest even in young people who look healthy. People can have delayed gastric emptying or bloating or constipation or reflux. And these are not only from what's eaten, but from how the body adapts to starvation or purging. And another area that can be affected is the bone density, which drops, putting even teenagers at risk of developing early osteoporosis or fractures. You know, going from the top to bottom, as you said, you know, the hair loss, the brittle nails, the dry skin are visible signs that something's wrong nutritionally.
Emily Kwong
Yeah. Let's talk about recovery. I think a lot of eating disorders are first addressed within a family, Right. Families notice there's something not okay with my kid or with my cousin or with my sister. And families can be patients and providers, best allies in treatment. So how should someone approach a loved one if they're seeing some of these physical and behavioral and cognitive signs that you're describing?
Eva Trujillo
That is a very good question. I think that the most effective way is to approach in a very compassionate and non judgmental way, the people who suffers from an eating disorder are already suffering a lot. And if we don't validate that suffering, then we will make them get, you know, feel. Feel so much shame and so much guilt that they will close themselves that they. They won't speak with us.
Emily Kwong
And part of treatment also is creating an environment for healing. So, Eva, you were a part of a consulting panel for TikTok and Meta, which owns Facebook and Instagram on safety policies related to body image and eating disorders.
Eva Trujillo
Yes.
Emily Kwong
And TikTok recently banned a hashtag called Skinny Talk, which aggregated a lot of extreme weight loss content, unrealistic depictions of people's bodies. And yet this content, it is still out there, right? Even in advertisements, even on television, whether you have social media or not. So I want to ask you a question that comes from Maria Friedman, a teen mental health advocate who's on the road to recovery herself. She wanted to know what makes recovery.
Maria Friedman
Sustainable, especially given all these outside influences and pressures from the Internet, from diet culture in general, from the people around us. And how can we protect ourselves when these triggering images and words will inevitably appear because of the world that we live in?
Eva Trujillo
Very good question. First, recovery is not just about weight or food. It's about reclaiming life, identity, and connection. In today's world, that includes our digital spaces. We do a lot of education to our patients, to our families, to.
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Eva Trujillo
Critical about the things they see, they listen, and to use all the strategies that they learn with us about comparison, about body image being critical. And not only critical, but one of the things that we know is that change the conversation and you can change your environment and that will change your life. For example, here in Latin America, hashtag skinnytalkcame, we are part of the community channel, so we are a community partner. So we put our suggestions to ban that hashtag. We launched the first eating disorder helpline in Latin America that is directly embedded in our website and is also embedded in the app. Because recovery happens in real life, but digital life is part of that reality. That's why we must make platforms safer, smarter, and more compassionate for our people, for our patients.
Emily Kwong
So it sounds like how you look at recovery that's sustainable is it has to go beyond the clinic. People surrounding the patient also need to be educated and on board.
Eva Trujillo
Yes. In general, medical doctors receive less than five hours in the whole career of eating disorder education.
Emily Kwong
That's shocking because eating disorders have some of the highest mortality rates of any psychiatric disorders.
Eva Trujillo
That's exactly, exactly. But we still have countries, complete countries, without either even one specialist in eating disorders. So we need to do a lot of things in education because one of the most powerful tools we have to fight eating disorders, not just in treatment, but in prevention and in advocacy. Because I always says it's. It's not that I want to. To change the world, I just want to change the world of one person.
Emily Kwong
Eva, thank you so much for talking to me and thank you for everything you are doing for people out there who are struggling with eating disorders.
Eva Trujillo
No thanks to you for your work, because I think this is it takes a village. We need everyone in this.
Emily Kwong
And that includes patience. Like Maria, she's advocating for herself and other teens, imagining a future where she is free.
Maria Friedman
I'm trying to really move forward, be like, how can I redefine what is empowering to me? How can I be whole without needing to micromanage every piece of myself? Because with eating disorders, it's never just about the food. It's never just about your body. It's all a manifestation of something that's so much more complex underneath. But now I'm really trying to do the work to separate food and my body from those other feelings in my life so that I can learn how to stop sabotaging myself and to just try to learn to be me.
Emily Kwong
This episode was produced by Rachel Carlson and edited by Rebecca Ramirez. It was fact checked by Tyler Jones. The audio engineer was Maggie Luthar, Beth Donovan is our senior director and Colin Campbell is our senior vice president of Podcasting strategy. I'm Emily Kwong. Thank you for listening to Shortwave, the science podcast from npr.
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Short Wave Podcast Summary: "Eating Disorder Recovery In A Diet Culture World"
Released on July 23, 2025, "Short Wave" by NPR delves into the intricate world of eating disorders, exploring personal experiences, expert insights, and the challenges of recovery within a pervasive diet culture. Hosted by Emily Kwong, the episode features a heartfelt conversation with Maria Friedman, a teenage mental health advocate, and Dr. Eva Trujillo, a renowned pediatrician specializing in eating disorders.
The episode opens with Emily Kwong introducing Maria Friedman, a remarkable 17-year-old who ventured into podcasting with her show, Balancing Act, focusing on mental health and wellness. Their shared experiences unfold as both Emily and Maria reveal their struggles with eating disorders during middle school—a period exacerbated by the COVID-19 pandemic.
Maria Friedman reflects on the impact of media and isolation:
"You see the protagonists and they're all like, so beautiful. And you're like, do I have to look like that to be worthy to be lovable?" (00:34)
Emily Kwong adds, describing Maria’s battle:
"Maria, who was already struggling with perfectionism and anxiety, started to feel awful about herself." (01:02)
Their conversations highlight how pandemic-induced isolation and increased screen time intensified feelings of inadequacy and control over their bodies, leading to severe eating disorder behaviors.
Dr. Eva Trujillo, the president of the International Association of Eating Disorder Professionals and co-founder of Comenzar de Nuevo, a leading treatment facility in Latin America, provides a comprehensive understanding of eating disorders.
Dr. Trujillo emphasizes that eating disorders transcend stereotypes:
"Eating disorders do not discriminate. They affect people across the entire spectrum of human identity. Men and women, trans, non-binary people, children, adults, athletes, parents, immigrants, indigenous populations in larger bodies and those in smaller ones." (04:35)
She highlights the often overlooked presence of eating disorders in marginalized communities, stressing the importance of broad recognition beyond the thin, white, affluent demographic commonly portrayed in media.
Delving into the physiological effects, Dr. Trujillo explains how malnutrition from eating disorders affects the brain:
"When someone is malnourished, the brain is deprived of the energy it needs to function properly. There are studies that report a reduction in gray and white matter of the brain." (05:34)
She elaborates on the cognitive challenges faced by individuals:
"Cognitively, patients often experience difficulty concentrating, obsessive thoughts about food, rigid thinking, poor emotional regulation, and even symptoms that may resemble ADHD or depression." (06:25)
Moreover, the physical toll is extensive, impacting every organ system:
"Malnutrition slows the metabolism and the heart response by becoming smaller, weaker... the heart, the most important muscle, can develop bradycardia, a dangerously slow heart rate, which can trigger sudden cardiac arrest even in seemingly healthy young people." (07:23)
Dr. Trujillo is optimistic about recovery:
"Recovery is possible, but the brain needs time, food, therapy, and compassion to heal." (02:35)
"The good news is that many of these changes can be reversed with full nutritional rehabilitation." (06:54)
Addressing the pressing question from Maria Friedman on maintaining recovery amidst relentless diet culture, Dr. Trujillo underscores the multifaceted nature of healing.
Maria Friedman poses a critical inquiry:
"What makes recovery sustainable, especially given all these outside influences and pressures from the Internet, from diet culture in general, from the people around us? And how can we protect ourselves when these triggering images and words will inevitably appear because of the world that we live in?" (10:26)
Dr. Eva Trujillo responds thoughtfully:
"Recovery is not just about weight or food. It's about reclaiming life, identity, and connection. In today's world, that includes our digital spaces." (10:45)
She advocates for digital literacy and environment modification:
"We educate our patients and their families to be critical about the things they see and listen to, using strategies to combat comparison and negative body image. Changing the conversation and environment can transform one's life." (11:10)
Dr. Trujillo also highlights her involvement in policy-making for social media platforms, such as the ban on the #SkinnyTalk hashtag on TikTok, aimed at reducing exposure to harmful content. Additionally, she mentions the establishment of Latin America’s first eating disorder helpline, integrating digital support with real-life recovery efforts.
Emphasizing a collective approach, Dr. Trujillo points out the critical gap in medical education:
"Medical doctors receive less than five hours in the whole career of eating disorder education." (12:26)
This lack of training contributes to underdiagnosis and inadequate treatment, underscoring the necessity for widespread education and advocacy.
Dr. Trujillo encapsulates her mission:
"It's not that I want to change the world, I just want to change the world of one person." (13:14)
Closing the episode, Maria Friedman shares her proactive stance on recovery:
"I'm trying to really move forward, be like, how can I redefine what is empowering to me? How can I be whole without needing to micromanage every piece of myself?... I'm really trying to do the work to separate food and my body from those other feelings in my life so that I can learn how to stop sabotaging myself and to just try to learn to be me." (13:47)
Her words resonate with hope and the ongoing journey towards self-acceptance and mental well-being.
This episode of "Short Wave" paints a comprehensive picture of eating disorders, moving beyond common misconceptions to explore their deep-seated biological, psychological, and social dimensions. Through personal narratives and expert dialogue, listeners gain a profound understanding of the challenges and pathways to recovery in a world saturated with diet culture. The conversation underscores the necessity for compassionate support systems, educational reforms, and societal changes to foster a more inclusive and healing environment for individuals battling eating disorders.
Produced by Rachel Carlson, edited by Rebecca Ramirez, with fact-checking by Tyler Jones, and audio engineering by Maggie Luthar.