The One About Diddy

Summary

Sibling Rivalry – "The One About Diddy"

Episode Date: October 9, 2024
Hosts: Bob the Drag Queen & Monét X Change

Episode Overview

This episode of Sibling Rivalry dives into the massive legal scandals and social outcomes surrounding Sean "Diddy" Combs, exploring sexual assault allegations, media narratives, and celebrity accountability. Intertwined, as always, are Bob and Monét’s signature comedic riffs, candid opinions on internet discourse, and sharp commentary on pop culture and queer nightlife. The conversation also touches on parallel scandals, issues of consent, and jaw-dropping celebrity moments, making for a rich, sometimes sobering, and always hilarious discussion.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. The Diddy Scandal: Allegations, Media, and Fallout

Timestamps: [23:38] – [32:00], [36:00] – [37:31]

• Recap of Allegations:
  Bob and Monét break down the news that Diddy (Sean Combs) is facing serious allegations, with over 3,000 people reportedly coming forward about sexual assault, coercion, and abuse, many moving forward with lawsuits ([36:21], [36:56]).

  • Monét: “Imagine a world with everything with over what, 3,000 people coming forward reporting that claims of sexual assault, coercion, abuse by Diddy.” ([36:21])
  • Jacob (Producer): “A little over 3,000 people have come forward... This specific person or firm contacted within this thing is representing 128 of those.” ([36:35])

• Cassie Lawsuit as Catalyst:
  They credit singer Cassie’s 2023 lawsuit as the spark that ignited the slew of allegations, noting the video evidence appearing online and its impact ([24:16], [25:09]).

  • Monét: “The evidence against this man is very damning. And it all started because of Cassie’s lawsuit in 2023…” ([24:16])

• Physical Abuse Footage:
  The pair express their visceral reactions to the widely shared footage of Diddy abusing Cassie, emphasizing the impact that seeing violence has, especially for those not exposed to abuse directly ([25:37], [25:45]).

  • Monét: “Just seeing that... I had goosebumps... I cannot believe, like, the physical manifestation, this person dragging this woman by her clothes, by her hair down in a hotel thing and beating her. That shit is fucking wild.” ([25:45])

2. Celebrity Commentary & Internet Discourse

Timestamps: [37:31] – [41:48]

• Lil Boosie’s Hot Take:
  Bob and Monét dissect rapper Lil Boosie’s viral defense of Diddy, ridiculing his logic and misogyny.

  • Boosie claims most women who “fly out” for sex are prostitutes and Diddy is being targeted for what all entertainers do ([40:02]).
  • Bob: "Does he think that half... of the adults in America are women, okay? And then that half, he thinks 80% of that half are all just flying around giving out pussy to celebrities?” ([41:25])
  • Monét: “He’s a literal fucking idiot.” ([41:25])

• Boosie’s Misogyny & Anti-Queerness:
  Monét calls out Boosie’s history of homophobia, particularly regarding his lesbian daughter, and both hosts facetiously discuss what would most “ruin” Boosie’s day ([38:22], [38:40]).

  • Bob: "If everyone who saw Boosie out in public, Faggot. Fucking faggot. That would probably really ruin him." ([38:40])

3. Consent, Power, & Queer Nightlife Reflection

Timestamps: [28:51] – [31:01], [47:24] – [54:42]

• Enthusiastic Yes & Power Dynamics:
  Bob emphasizes the importance of “an enthusiastic yes” in any sexual situation and refuses to conflate DS (Dom/Sub) kink culture with coercion or assault ([28:51]).

  • Bob: “A great sexual encounter is… these two words together: an enthusiastic yes.” ([28:51])
  • Monét: “There’s a through-line of people in power... using coercion and drugs... that’s a problem.” ([30:23])

• Sex Parties & Consent:
  The conversation veers into gay sex parties, the distinction between consensual kink spaces and abuse, and scandalous rumors about Diddy’s infamous parties ([47:24], [48:01]).

  • Jacob: “Diddy had a thousand bottles of baby oil in his house... there are parties going into four in the morning where people were like having public sex in front of them and being like force fed drugs.” ([48:01])
  • Bob: “If everyone at the party is not consenting, it goes into a party that includes sex trafficking.” ([47:24])

4. Memeable Moments & Running Gags

Timestamps: Throughout

• Nickname Tangent/Monica Chang Story:
  The hosts reminisce about Monet's accidental alias "Monica Chang" and the convolutions of drag nicknames ([02:00] – [04:17]).

  • Bob: “It went from Monet X Change to Monica Chang. And they kept being like Monica Chang, Monica Chang. We’re looking for Monica Chang.” ([03:41])

• Fun with Music Artist Stats:
  A recurring mini-game: Bob, Monét, and Jacob guess which RuPaul’s Drag Race queens are streaming the most monthly listeners on Spotify ([12:04] – [17:01]).

• Pop Culture Bloopers:

  • Monét admits she didn’t know Tracy Chapman was Black until doing drag ([39:17]).
  • The duo debates memorable moments in pop and musical theater (e.g., Taylor Swift’s “Bad Blood” video) ([07:16], [09:13]).

5. Sobering Parallels: Other Scandals & Accountability

Timestamps: [26:44] – [28:18], [31:02] – [36:00]

• Drag Community ‘Cancel Culture’:
  Bob addresses why he stayed silent on allegations against a former We’re Here co-star, emphasizing the importance of facts and not spreading rumors, especially when personally involved ([26:44]).

  • Bob: “I think that some people have taken my silence as some form of allyship or someone even accused me of working overtime to silence victims...” ([26:44])

• Tina Peters Voter Fraud:
  Discussion on the right-wing Colorado county clerk, Tina Peters, who believed in Trump’s voter fraud conspiracies so deeply she broke the law, only to land herself in prison – a cautionary tale of getting swept up in alternate realities ([31:02], [31:26], [35:22]).

  • Bob: “Now she’s in prison for nine years... it’s not about you doing good.” ([32:39])

6. Online Conspiracies & Internet Echo Chambers

Timestamps: [33:03] – [35:22], [43:04] – [45:04]

• Echo Chambers:
  Monét reflects: “How can you think that Hillary Clinton has sex trafficking rings and pizza parlors in Washington D.C.? How is that your world?” ([33:03])
• Jaguar Wright & Conspiracy Madness:
  They lampoon conspiracy theorist Jaguar Wright’s involvement in viral accusations against various celebrities ([43:04], [44:04]).
  • Bob: “Jaguar Wright is always in the room when it happens, but she don’t never have nothing to do.” ([44:16])

7. Sex, Shame & Nightlife Cautionary Tales

Timestamps: [54:10] – [56:10], [55:22]

• Sex Party Anecdotes:
  Both share personal stories from dark rooms and gay nightlife, expressing both the allure, dangers, and ick factor.
  • Monét: “If it’s black, black, black... it would be a big aversion to me to not go. Cause I’m like, I don’t know what’s on your dick, I don’t know what the fuck...” ([55:22])
  • Bob on the “dick deck” (gay cruise sex area): “I just kind of walk around, look around, and then I just kind of leave.” ([53:00])

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

| Timestamp | Quote | Speaker | |---|---|---| | [25:45] | “Just seeing that... I had goosebumps... dragging this woman by her clothes, by her hair down in a hotel and beating her. That shit is fucking wild.” | Monét | | [36:21] | “Imagine a world with everything with... 3,000 people coming forward... claims of sexual assault, coercion, abuse by Diddy.” | Monét | | [41:25] | “Does he think that 80% of women are being flown out? ... 80% of women.” | Bob | | [28:51] | “A great sexual encounter is... these two words together: an enthusiastic yes.” | Bob | | [44:16] | “Jaguar Wright is always in the room when it happens, but she don’t never have nothing to do.” | Bob | | [40:02] | “...Boosie says this: ...We actually go call women prostitutes who fly in willingly to be with their partners for sex. ...That’s 80% of the women reading this.” | Monét (quoting Boosie) | | [47:24] | “If everyone at the party is not consenting it stops being... a sex party that includes sex trafficking.” | Bob | | [55:22] | “If it’s black, black, black... I don’t know if this is wet from pre cum... lube... a little shit on someone’s dick... So... after that experience, I’m like, I’m not.” | Monét |

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Flow of the Episode

• Catching Up & Nickname Banter ([02:00]–[06:22]): Classic Sibling Rivalry chemistry – stories from early drag careers and misnomers.
• Pop Culture & Drag Queen Stats Game ([07:16]–[17:01]): Music, Taylor Swift, and a competitive game on Spotify stats for Drag Race alum.
• Musical Theater Tangent ([18:25]–[23:38]): Debates about Hamilton, awards, and the often-overlooked ensemble.
• Diddy Deep-Dive ([23:38]–[32:00]): The core legal topic, breakdown of the allegations, and media reactions.
• Consent, Power, and Sex Parties ([28:51]–[31:01]; [47:24]–[54:42]): Philosophical and practical takes on nightlife, kink, and abuse.
• Media Madness & Conspiracy Theories ([43:04]–[45:04]): Dragging viral “whistleblowers” and internet echo chamber logic.
• Closing Riffs & Community Shoutouts ([56:42]–end): Returning to playfulness, discussing nightclubs and sexuality, and the ever-fun bickering between Bob and Monét.

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Summary for New Listeners

This episode blends hard-hitting commentary about the accountability of celebrities (notably Diddy) amid evolving allegations of abuse, an earnest discussion around sexual consent, and the dark side of power, all wrapped in the hilarious, relatable, and occasionally irreverent repartee that is the Sibling Rivalry hallmark. Even as they traverse sobering subjects, Bob and Monét keep spirits high with asides about drag history, queer nightlife, and internet zaniness, ensuring both levity and substance.

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Listen For...

• Bob’s “Enthusiastic Yes” lesson on consent ([28:51])
• Monét’s honest discomfort with dark rooms & sex parties ([55:22])
• The jaw-dropping Lil Boosie takedown, “He’s a literal fucking idiot.” ([41:25])
• An inside look at how viral conspiracies spiral via Jaguar Wright ([44:16])
• Multiple callbacks and inside jokes about Drag Race, queer culture, and pop music lore

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Content Warning (as addressed at start): This episode discusses topics of sexual assault, abuse, and power dynamics—self-care and discretion advised.

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Note: Episode skips advertisements, intros, and outros to focus on substantive content only.

Transcript

[Monet X James]

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[Bob the Drag Queen]

Shopify thinks ahead of us, you know,

[Monet X James]

and it thinks about the customer more than anything.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Every day I'm thinking about some other new business, but Shopify is doing it

[Monet X James]

to me because it's so easy to use. It's like I can't stop. I'm addicted.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Start your free [e-mail]. close your eyes.

[Ad/Promo Voice]

Exhale.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Feel your body relax.

[Monet X James]

And let go of whatever you're carrying today.

[Ad/Promo Voice]

Well, I'm letting go of the worry that I wouldn't get my new contacts in time for this class. I got them delivered free from 1-800-contacts. Oh, my gosh, they're so fast.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

And breathe. Oh, sorry.

[Ad/Promo Voice]

I almost couldn't breathe when I saw the discount they gave me on my first order. Oh, sorry. Namaste.

[Monet X James]

Visit 1-800-contacts.com today to save on your first order.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

1-800-contacts. Hey, guys, listen, I would like to let you all know that this is a trigger warning. This episode does discuss sexual assault of people of various ages and gender identities. So please, please, please take care of yourself. My name is Bob the Drag Queen.

[Monet X James]

And I'm Monet X James. And this is Sibling R. On this week's episode, Bob reenacts the Bad Blood music video.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

We talk about what's going on with

[Monet X James]

Diddy and we find out what made Bob say this.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

That's the age gap there. That's the age gap. We found out what made Monet say this.

[Monet X James]

I would never be with that person, so that's hard to say.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Macaroni x Cheese, which is my favorite nickname for you.

[Monet X James]

Yeah, Macaroni x Cheese. You know what I tell people often about the Monica Chang story?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

What?

[Monet X James]

Cuz. Cuz I in a lot of things, like I'll name myself Monica Chang or I never said Monica that thing. Ch. I shouldn't call myself Monica Chang. Did not feel right. Anyway, people are like, why Monica? And it's always on the story and people always get a really big people

[Bob the Drag Queen]

who are new listeners about Monica Chang.

[Monet X James]

No, you should tell you, you tell a bit because you were there. I think I've retold the story so many times, I probably have it wrong at this point.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

So. So Monet was, I guess, supposed to compete. Did you sign yourself up and didn't make it or. So Monet was.

[Monet X James]

Yeah, I signed myself up for Miss Fire for Entertainment of the Year for Miss Fire or whatever for Fire Island. And I ended up having to. I think I still had my full time job, so I ended up having to work. So I just couldn't end up going. And I never told anyone I didn't show up.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Yes, this is the year that holiday beat me while dancing barefoot to Waka Waka. Anyway, I came in second place.

[Monet X James]

It's time for Africa.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

This time for Africa. White drag queen, barefoot, dressed in like kente cloth and fucking cheetah print. Waka Waka with a big blonde afro on. That's Fire island for you. But why don't you like Fire Island? Anyway, And Monet was supposed to compete, but she didn't make it out. But I guess she either dated either. She forgot to say, I'm not going.

[Monet X James]

I just didn't show up anybody.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

And they. But they kept announcing her all day. But somehow I guess through Monet's. I don't want to say accent because she gets mad, but through the way Monet talks. When she submitted her name, either by phone or what? They got Monica Chang.

[Monet X James]

I submitted my name by phone. Be for real. For real.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

It was the 90s. No kidding. But it went from Monet X change to Monica Chang. And they kept being like Monica Chang. Monica Chang. We're looking for Monica Chang. Then we started calling her Monica Chang. I have a lot of nicknames for you. There's Mo, which I'll probably call you the most. Mo. Monica. Mac.

[Monet X James]

I don't like Mac. Mac just seems so random. It makes no sense.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

You're short of macaroni X cheese.

[Monet X James]

I know, but Mac, I don't like that. Can we not do that one anymore, please?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Probably not. I'm probably still gonna do it. And the one you really don't like is when Monet does something a little.

[Monet X James]

A little what, Bob? A little what? A little what?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

A little not so bright.

[Monet X James]

I call you Bob. I call you Roberta. I call you on stage. I also call you Bobbalina. I call you Bobby on stage. I call you sometimes Slob the meth thing.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

I prefer Slob the Drag thing. Slo the Dragon, which I was named by terrorizing Terror Grenade, who is now terrorizing.

[Monet X James]

Oh, they changed their name. Got it. Didn't know. Got it.

[Jacob]

Yeah.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

She named Slo the drag thing, which is pretty funny.

[Monet X James]

Cracker has a good name. I'm gonna call him Cracker when he finishes.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

So years ago, when we would, like just goof off at the monster, I would like chant on the microphone while the girls would do the Runway. And I Go. When Cracker would walk, I would go, shabbat Shawam. Which is why Cracker started saying shabbat Shawam.

[Monet X James]

And then she says, shabbat Shablam. Oh,

[Bob the Drag Queen]

and then one day, I can't remember what happened, but this might be the name of my next album. It might be the name of my next album. It's so good. One day, Cracker called me Kunti Kente, and I thought that was one of the funniest. That was the smart. Kunty Kente is a brilliant name from album. You know. You know how there's, like, young Rapunzel? Rapunzel, yeah. For Azalea Banks. And there's Rapunzel's uncle is what Kandy calls herself. I want to be Kunty Kente.

[Monet X James]

Cracker's so funny. She's one of the funniest people right now. She's so fun. Of course. Kunta Gente from the Roots.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

No, King Kunta.

[Monet X James]

Oh, no. Who's that?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

It's the Kendrick Lamar song from Tepempa Butterfly. Everybody got the whole world. King Kunta. No, no, no, no, no, no. King Kunta.

[Monet X James]

I don't know a lot about it. I don't know a lot of Kendrick Lamars because of sza. I know they not like us because of how big and fucking big it was. I couldn't tell you another Kendrick song.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

You don't know his verse from Bad Blood?

[Monet X James]

I don't know what Bad Blood is.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

You don't know what Bad Blood is?

[Monet X James]

No.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

You don't know the song Bad Blood?

[Monet X James]

The Taylor Swift song?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

The very one.

[Monet X James]

Oh, I didn't know he was a featured artist on that.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

He is the featured artist. He's got two verses on the song.

[Monet X James]

Was it a remix or was it. Cause there's a version without him. That's the song I hear all the time in the club.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

No, but the one. No, but the one. You see, the music video is him. There is no version. There is no music video without him in it.

[Monet X James]

I never seen a music video.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

I don't think what it's like her best music video of all time. This is actually Taylor Swift's actual best music video. It is like an iconic music video.

[Monet X James]

Is this the one? What is the one where she's the

[Bob the Drag Queen]

one where she starts into a fight with Selena Gomez? It's got. It's got Lena Dunham. It's got Kendrick Lamar.

[Monet X James]

This is another one that has RuPaul in it.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

That's. No, that's. That's Shake it Off. You need to shut down or you need to back down or you need to shut up.

[Monet X James]

You need to calm down.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Calm down. Yeah. You need to calm down.

[Ad/Promo Voice]

Yeah.

[Jacob]

Hendrick Lamar, Gigi Hadid, Cara Delevingne, Lena Dunham. Carly Kloss. Mariska Hargitay.

[Monet X James]

Mirshka Hargitay. Who is that? I don't know the name. LA la and what.

[Jacob]

I mean, I think Zendaya's in it too.

[Monet X James]

Wow.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

So the video starts off with this iconic scene where Selena Gomez and Taylor Swift are like pulling some sort of a heist in an office building. And then they get this briefcase they need. Right? When they get the briefcase, Selena Gomez opens a compact, blows like some sort of a blinding agent in Taylor Swift's face, snatches the briefcase out of her hand, kicks Taylor Swift in the chest, and Taylor Swift falls back through the wind. Cause she double crosses her. And as she's falling, this one piece of glass rotates and you can see Taylor's reflection in the glass. So you're looking at the back of Taylor Swift's head. This is so smart. The piece of glass rotates and then as the glass rotates, you can see Taylor Swift's reflection in it and it goes. Cause, baby, now we got bad blood. And then she hits the car. And it's actually a recreation of this image of this woman who committed suicide in New York City. She jumped off of a building and she landed on a car, but she looked really beautiful. So Taylor Swift kind of laying like that.

[Monet X James]

So come on down.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Oh, I forgot about that. Didn't Wendy say that about someone who, like, that was crazy. Wendy Williams has some really unhinged moments. Truly unhinged moments. Clap if you think she should suffer. Clap if you think she should suffer is crazy. That's wild.

[Monet X James]

She be having celebrities in her shit. Like the. The need to come.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

The.

[Monet X James]

You need to calm down. One had mad people in that one too.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Taylor Swift is one of the biggest celebrities. I mean, she is the, like, I think the second most streamed artist right now.

[Monet X James]

No, no, I think they're two men. It's been two men for a while. The Weeknd is always number one for whatever reason.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Which. Which, by the way, when I say that blows my mind. When I tell you that blows my mind. My mind.

[Monet X James]

We're not. We're not.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

The demo, clearly, I mean, clearly. But the week. I mean, the weekend is obviously does not need my support. That's obvious. Yeah, the weekend, but 114 million monthly list. I'm gonna say that again. 114 million. Beyonce said 54.

[Monet X James]

Yeah.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Where is.

[Monet X James]

Where is. Where's Taylor Swift at?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Taylor Swift? I'm gonna guess she's at 70. I'm gonna guess she's at 7. Before I click. She is at 91.

[Monet X James]

Run. Where's Rihanna? Rihanna be up there too, because she. And she doesn't put an album.

[Jacob]

Rihanna's number seven. 83. Lady Gaga actually just bypassed Taylor Swift, though.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Where's Miley's? Miley be up there?

[Monet X James]

Yeah, Mile will be up there, too.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Miley's at 55. Oh, she went down. Miley's at 55 right now.

[Monet X James]

Where's SZA? Where's my girl? Where's SZA?

[Jacob]

1865.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Work. She's 65 million. Okay, wait.

[Jacob]

Let's do this on Hot Wings. We need to talk about that.

[Monet X James]

I haven't watched it yet. Is it good she's dressed. Yeah. As a bug. As a bug. Not an alien.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Why is she a bug?

[Monet X James]

She likes bugs. She's a big bug.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

That's the most there's a I've heard in my life.

[Monet X James]

Why is that? Why is that weird?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Well, she does like. I didn't say weird. I said scissor. You added weird.

[Monet X James]

Weird. I thought because your connection is unstable. I'm getting every fifth word. I'm trying to make it through.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

I said, that's the most scissor shit I've ever seen in my life. Oh, I like bugs. Yeah, okay. Scissor. You like bugs. This is crazy.

[Monet X James]

This is bugs.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Why can't you not like bugs? I'm not saying she can't like bugs. I never said she can't like bugs.

[Monet X James]

Okay, girl. But you're like, okay, girl. Sure.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Because that is so sizzle to be like, I like bugs. That's so sizzle to be like, I love bugs.

[Monet X James]

The bugs.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Just like. Just like, you go in there probably dressed like an apple.

[Monet X James]

I probably would. Or love apple.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Or some soup.

[Monet X James]

No. I'll go dress as a soliloquy.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Okay, let's play the same game with Drag Race Girls. Jacob, you have to name two Drag Race girls, and we have to change.

[Monet X James]

We've done this game 49 times.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

I know, but the numbers probably changed now. The numbers probably change, and now there's, like, 400 Drag Race girls. So, Jacob, name two Ru girls, and we're going to try to guess who has the most listeners of the two of them.

[Jacob]

Okay, let's do. Give me one second. Serena Chakcha, Serena Chakra.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

And Pearl Monet. You go first.

[Monet X James]

Who has more monthly listeners? Pearl,

[Jacob]

let me. Sorry. I'm now need to look in real time.

[Monet X James]

This game is good. This game. We gotta give Jacob a moment. Yes. We're dealing with Jacob last minute.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

You're correct.

[Jacob]

Oh, my God. Actually, this is really hard because Pearl's name does not come up when you search for her.

[Monet X James]

We sit a little.

[Jacob]

Pearl has 1,500 listeners monthly, and Serena

[Ad/Promo Voice]

has

[Jacob]

83 monthly listeners.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Dang gang. Gang. All right, give me one. And give Jacob a second. You did not even give Jacob a chance. You were like, he's failing.

[Monet X James]

No one said he's failing, but there's a lot of dead air.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Jacob a chance. Okay. Jacob is.

[Monet X James]

Who's a little.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Who's Kim Possible's guy? Who's Kim Possible's buddy again? Wade. This is Wade. Why are you talking.

[Monet X James]

What's the sitch?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

All right, who are the two people? I should.

[Monet X James]

I think we should do. Can you do characters like that? Like Kim Possible and Hannah Montana? What do you mean? I think the Kim Possible theme.

[Jacob]

Tom.

[Monet X James]

No, Hannah Montana would have more strings than Kim Possible.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Wait. Anyway, it's my turn. I want to. I want one, by the way. You can just name them. I'll talk while you look them up.

[Monet X James]

It'll be fine.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

I know.

[Jacob]

I'm just trying to think of two good ones who are, like, on the same.

[Monet X James]

Let's do Latrice Royale on Manila Luzon.

[Jacob]

Yeah.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Oh, okay. This is going to be easy, I feel. Because I can name more. I can. Okay, well, I think Latrice is more popular.

[Monet X James]

Oh, shots the fired. It's going to be easy.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Well, I can name more Manila songs than I can Latrice songs. And the most popular Latrice song I know. Well, I know. Wait. I said wait. Come over here and pile a little food on my plate. I ain't going to the gym. I ain't lifting no weights on look at me. I'm sick. Ning S S. Nick.

[Monet X James]

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

I might be fat, but you ugly and I can lose weight anyway. And then her other song is popular. It's called Chop with Manila. And she has another song called Robbed with Manila. All of her streams go toward two of her top three songs go toward Manila Streams.

[Monet X James]

No Excuse Beauty is a big song for Latrice. Excuse the Beauty.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

I think Manila just has more song like, Manila just has more songs than Latrice does and has been. Was she on Drag Race first, but, like, one season earlier? So I'm gonna go ahead and say to me, easy, Manila.

[Jacob]

Okay. Lemon and Jinx Monsoon.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Wait, you didn't tell if it's right. You didn't even answer the question.

[Jacob]

Oh, sorry. I thought you were pulling up the answers.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

No, I was talking so you could pull up the answer. I wouldn't look at it myself. That'd be cheating.

[Jacob]

I was coming up with the next.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

So you can look up the answer.

[Jacob]

I was coming up with the next one. Latrice is 6,000 and Manila is 14,000.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Yeah. All right, one more for Monet. Go ahead, Mo.

[Jacob]

Okay. Yes. Lemon from Canada's Drag Race, winner of Canada versus the world. And Chinks Fontaine.

[Monet X James]

Ooh. I think because Lemon, I want to say Lemon. Lemon has that song with Priyanka that the kids go off for. What is it called?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

I'm Coming Through. Coming on through. Coming on through.

[Monet X James]

Coming for you. So I think it's going to be Lemon. Who is it?

[Jacob]

It is Lemon. Jinx Monsoon's at 33,000, and lemon is at 36,000.

[Monet X James]

Work.

[Jacob]

Priyanka and. Priyanka and Trinity the tuck.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Ooh, ooh. Okay. Priyanka has a lot of. Oh, it's my turn. Priyanka does have a lot of music. And Come through was a really popular song. I don't know that she's had a big, big hit. I think her biggest hit is coming through. But she did just do that song, like, Fabulous or whatever. It was like some fabulous song or. I can't remember exactly. It was like, fabulous this or fabulous that or whatever. That being said, the other option is who?

[Jacob]

Trinity, the Tuck.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Trinity the tuck. Trinity had that big song with. With Peppermint. I'm gonna say it's Priyanka over Trinity for sure.

[Jacob]

I think 86,000.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Yeah. Who is it?

[Jacob]

Priyanka has 86,000 work.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Damn. Priyanka's eating the girl. She eating my ass up, honey.

[Monet X James]

She and me, too. I only have, like, 30,000.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Ate my ass with that one. Good for her work. Good for her. I mean, she may say, let's take a break. Yeah. Damn, Jacob calling the breaks. Ate us up with that one, Jacob. Ate us up with that one, honey.

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[Monet X James]

Jacob does this show. He goes. He telling Jeff Bop to hold the up.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

That's Jacob talking to you.

[Monet X James]

Everyone should just back the up. It's my favorite Jamie credit. Everyone's calm down. Back the up.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Who said that?

[Monet X James]

Jamie Lee Curtis. Why did she say that when everybody was talking about Ariana Bowles? Angela Bassett did the thing and they asked on the red carpet. She's like, what do you think? About what? Ariana's performance at the American Musical Award. She's like, everyone should just calm down,

[Bob the Drag Queen]

back the fuck up and do the thing. Honestly, that was an iconic moment.

[Monet X James]

It's a woman kag.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

My woman gay. Was she in Hamilton?

[Monet X James]

Yeah, she's in Hamilton. And she was in west side Story.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

She was the Bullet in Hamilton. It's a.

[Jacob]

That's a deep cut, but there's one actor who, like. There's one actor who, like, flies the bullet between and she was in the original Broadway cast, but she was the Bullet.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

I've seen Hamilton and I know there's no bullet in Hamilton.

[Monet X James]

I don't know what that even means.

[Jacob]

No, no, no, there is. She was the Bullet. It's like an ensemble part. She did a lot of. There's a lot of other ensemble work. And specifically during the duel, there's one actor who is, like, playing the bullet and flying the bullet from Bird to Hamilton. And Ariana DeBose was the bullet. And I can. Give me one second. I will pull up her.

[Monet X James]

I believe you.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Don't look it up. But who else was she? What was her main role? She was not her. Was her main role. You know it.

[Jacob]

What do you mean?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

In Hamilton, she was cast as the Bullet. She was in Hamilton. Her whole role was the Bullet in

[Jacob]

the original Broadway cast. If you.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Yes, but what is she like? No, she. Boy, what is she known for in Hamilton?

[Jacob]

I'm telling you, she is a very. I mean, she's been in a lot of other Broadway stuff. She has a lot of other Broadway credits. In Hamilton, she is the Bullet.

[Monet X James]

Oh, my God. Bob, now you. Bob, now. Can you recognize how shady it Was. And you were like, oh, she had to go to something else.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

I rather both paint the Bullet.

[Monet X James]

Why is that shady? It's hard to be the bullet.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Jacob. Put. Put that on the screen. Make sure they put that on the screen. That shit sent me to the moon.

[Monet X James]

Wait, why. Why was this hard to. Why was it so hard to believe she was a Bullet? I don't. I don't understand.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Because it seems like playing like the tree.

[Monet X James]

But is the bullet an important part of the show?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Yeah, but it's like Monet when you're like, Hamilton, Peggy, the King, Burr, the Bullet.

[Monet X James]

I don't know. I've seen the show.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

I've seen Hamilton. I don't remember being like the Bullet.

[Monet X James]

Well, she didn't say she. She was the star of the show. She was in the show. She gets an OBC credit.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

I know a lot about South.

[Jacob]

Yeah, she does. She. She does get an OBC credit.

[Monet X James]

Did they win an Emmy? I mean, did they win a Tony for this? She probably has a Tony for that.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

That's not how Tony's work.

[Monet X James]

I'm saying if. If they won. Wait, so when. So when something gets best musical, whatever. Everyone.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Only the producers and the playwrights get that.

[Monet X James]

Really?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

And it might just be the producers. Unless the playwright is a producer. Yeah, but the Emmys. Anyone who performs in their performance gets an Emmy. Anyone who performed in their performance.

[Monet X James]

That's so nutty to me.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

So if you. If you have a Broadway show and your big solo number. I have a part where during the number, I come out and hand you a cup of water and you perform that number on Good Morning America and win an Emmy, I would win one, too.

[Monet X James]

Well, my thing is that if this wins best. If this one's best Broadway show, the playwright, the one who wrote the play,

[Bob the Drag Queen]

doesn't get the Tony if they're a

[Monet X James]

producer, they will get the playwright. There would be no producer if I didn't write the play.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

No, but not every playwright is a producer of every show. But if the playwright is a producer, they will get the Emmy.

[Monet X James]

I get that. I'm saying, but if Harriet Tubman, your book, becomes a go to Broadway and they win Tony for best play, like, it makes sense to me that you should get a Tony as well, because you wrote the thing that the thing is getting the Tony for.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

And I would get it if I'm a producer, which more than likely I would be a producer. Most playwrights are producers on their musicals. Unless it is like the fifth Broadway reiteration of the musical. And so. And so and so. And so. So, yeah. If you are a producer, you will get. Just like when a movie wins best Oscar, the screenwriter does not automatically win that unless they're a producer, which is.

[Monet X James]

I know. For best screenwrite.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Yeah. Script is a different Oscar.

[Monet X James]

Yeah, that's wild. I think the playwright should get the Tony for writing the show that we're getting to 24.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Well, which is why most playwrights are producers on the shows.

[Monet X James]

Well, let's say you, for whatever reason, you just couldn't be a producer. Bam. Your story winning. You ain't winning. That's crazy. Cold. Cold as fuck.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Cold ass.

[Monet X James]

I mean, do you know. Do you know who else is called P. Diddy in prison?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

P. Diddy is in prison. Well, he's not cold. That's not true.

[Monet X James]

He's not in jail.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

He's in jail. And apparently he offered a lot of collateral to try and get out of jail, but they did not. They did not want to hear it. They weren't interested in what he was offering them.

[Monet X James]

Well, I think I've been like, you know, y', all, I watched a View and I watched some CNN with someone's hand and stuff like that on pretty often. And

[Bob the Drag Queen]

it is.

[Monet X James]

The evidence against this man is very damning. And it all started because of Cassie's lawsuit in 2023. Like, Cassie, I mean, again, there have been all these, like, rumors and things about PDD for years and how he's this billionaire with all this power in New York, and he's a. And blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. But I think, you know, as a regular civilian in the world, I would see it in the shade room or hear something like, whatever. Like, I remember hearing the story about how P. Diddy had blown up Kid Cudi's car all those years ago. Yes. And now we find out that he actually did. He actually blew up Kid Cudi's car because he was hanging out with Cassie.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

That's wild. I mean, there's lots of allegations out against him. Apparently there's over 100 women coming forward. Over 100 is wild. That's a literal criminal spree.

[Monet X James]

Yeah, but Cassie was the catalyst for this. She sued him in 2023, and when that fucking. When the thing came out for it, it was. That was all. Well, that consumed my for you page on TikTok for, like, a month. Everyone, like, all these lawyers were, like, had their thing, like, talking about the lawsuit and everything was talking about and all these crazy things that Cassie was alleging that Diddy had done to her. And then the fucking video Came out and then when the video came out,

[Bob the Drag Queen]

we saw like of him dragging her through the hotel by her hair and hitting her with that thing. Yeah, it was really, really horrible. Really, really horrible.

[Monet X James]

Trigger warning, by the way, to anyone, trigger warning about all this stuff. Because I had never been through or experienced domestic abuse in any type of way. But just seeing that, like I had goosebumps when I. When the, when the fuck. When I saw the video, like I had body like goosebumps all my body. I cannot believe, like she, like the physical manifestation, this person dragging this woman by her clothes, by her hair down in a hotel thing and beating her. That shit is fucking wild.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

It's crazy to see his ex wife or ex girlfriend who passed of Kim Porter. She's from Columbus, Georgia.

[Monet X James]

Is she really?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Yep, she's from Columbus, Georgia. Kim Porter's from Columbus, Georgia. Yep.

[Monet X James]

Yeah, we hear now they have allegedly, allegedly this book that she wrote that's not been released. But people like are debunking and saying, well, her kids came out saying, our mom didn't write this. This is not real. Like, stop believing everything you see.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

You can write anything with AI these days. I know, but let that woman rest in peace. She already had to be in a relationship with Diddy.

[Monet X James]

Leave that woman alone.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Let her rest in peace, honey. A lot of allegations coming out about a lot of people. I have never discussed this on the podcast before, but obviously there were allegations against one of my co stars on We're Here. And I think that some people have taken my silence as some form of allyship or someone even accused me of working overtime to silence victims, which seems really wild to me personally, a really wild accusation. But the truth is that I'm not working overtime to silence anyone. I just literally did not know what was going on. I did not want to spread rumors, especially one that I was that close to. But I certainly stand with. I mean the six people is incredibly damning. And I certainly hope that these people get the justice that they need. I can't even imagine what it's like to see a person who did something like that to you on tv just like you know, getting their tens or dancing at the club next to you, you know what I mean?

[Monet X James]

Paul Rain, Foxtrot and Box stepping on a ABC dance with the stars.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

So that would obviously that would fuck me up mentally, you know what I mean? But I just don't want anyone to think that me, that was me being like, I support. But also people jump to a lot of conclusions on the Internet, which I understand for them. But it doesn't always make a ton of sense. But sometimes when we're feeling emotional, we don't always make the most sense. You know what I mean?

[Monet X James]

Yeah. I think what was really crazy was one recently, the person who was Donna the Abbey and they posted that video about something that happened on set of Hurricane Bianca. And Bianca commented on their video, she was like, I'm so sorry that happened to you. I don't remember exactly what Bianca said, but she basically posted a mess of support of the person on their. On their post. Because it allegedly happened on Bianca's set of her movie.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Yeah, I mean, not on the set

[Monet X James]

of her movie, but during the filming of her movie. I should say.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Sorry, I just don't understand, Like, You know. You know. Can I tell you all something that I feel like is really important to great sex and great sexual encounters is this is these two words together. And enthusiastic. Yes. And enthusiastic. Yes. You know, if I'm looking up with someone, I never want to. I'm never going to try to convince anyone of anything. Like if you're not enthusiastic about it, then maybe, maybe we're not. If I'm not enthusiastic about it. If you're not enthusiastic about it, then maybe, maybe we need to just take a break and do something else or separate and not do anything at all. You know what I mean?

[Monet X James]

Yeah, I feel that. I mean, yeah, I think with people in power, obviously there's some through line of people in power and we're seeing a lot of. In sexual dynamics, this thing of someone with power having more. And I know there is things like dom and sub and that's the thing that goes on. But both people are consenting to that type of sexual relationship and agreement. So that's one. But I think what we're seeing is people with power trying to exercise that dom thing over someone who is not consenting to be a sub in the way that they want them to. And they like using coercion and drugs and things to will them into what they want sexually. Which is a problem.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Yeah, I mean, I wouldn't quite say that it's this. I wouldn't make it that analogous between DS culture and. And sexual assault, for lack of a better word.

[Monet X James]

I don't mean that specific culture. I'm just saying, like you see this person with a lot of power trying to make one person or group of people bend to their will and what they want sexually. And because that person has a lot of money, like they can. They're exerting that power. Like, diddy's a prime example. They're exerting that power over these people, and these people just kind of just fall victim to whatever he wants because he just has so much power. When someone has so much power, you're like, what can I do? Like, how can I.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

You don't even need a lot of money. Sherry Pie did it with fucking crumbs.

[Monet X James]

This is true. This is true.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

You know what I mean? Did you hear about that? Speaking of people getting their comeuppance, Jacob, can you look at the name of that lady, the county clerk who just went to prison for nine years for voter fraud? Baby, this is wild. This woman, Terry, Kate, or Jason, look it up right now. This woman was convinced by Donald Trump.

[Jacob]

Looks like her name is Tina Peters.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Tina Peters. That's the one. Tina Peters was convinced by Donald Trump and his campaign that there was voter election fraud.

[Monet X James]

Fraud.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

She believed it with her heart of hearts. So then she started breaking the law because she thought the law was broken. She felt justified in taking illegal actions and actually participating in a real voter fraud by giving over information that was not supposed to be public to people who should not have it. And she kept being like, honey, when they're in jail, when they go to jail, I'm going to do this. I'm going to. Because blah, blah, blah. Cut to. She has nine years in prison.

[Monet X James]

She was giving away people's.

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What?

[Monet X James]

Their. Their.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

She turned over voter information to people who should not have it because she thought there was voter fraud.

[Monet X James]

Like, she, like. Like she was trying. Like, she was like, giving, like, your name and address to. To use your balance.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Whatever the info that the ballot boxes have, she gave that information to people who shouldn't have it so that they could do their own investigation.

[Ad/Promo Voice]

Mm.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

And she was the county clerk.

[Monet X James]

Well, you know what? Stuff like that.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

And now she's nine years in jail. And are you not like, girl, you haven't. You've been. Now you're going to jail for nine years. And she was crying. She was like, I could do more good out of jail than I can in jail. Like, bitch, it's not about you doing good. Whatever good you can do, someone else can take care of that, I assure you.

[Monet X James]

Well, people get. You know, let's take a break. I'll tell you my thoughts about that.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Okay.

[Monet X James]

Well, people get so wrapped up in this stuff with our government, Right? And I get how. I get how there are two news streams. There's stuff that people who are liberal allegedly are getting, and it feeds into your thoughts and opinions or People that, who are super conservative. The people who are super conservative and think that voter fraud is real think that, yeah, the news they are consuming and receiving is feeding into that. So they really are in the streets, like, oh my God, this is real. Just as much as, as us knowing that Donald Trump is a psychopathic, crazy fucking liar. Sorry, I don't mean to use the word psychopathic. He is a lying, nasty, vile human being. Just all the information we're getting in our news cycle is telling us that and that's real for us. I'm trying to wrap my mind around how for them on the other side, everything they're hearing is so real. They think that Hillary Clinton had pizza parlors that have children slaves. They think that these things are so real. So this woman thinking that Trump, that whatever, what she did to break the law, like she is in a role where that is her reality. And that's what I cannot wrap my mind around. How can you think that this is real? How can you think that Hillary Clinton has sex trafficking rings and pizza parlors in Washington D.C. how, how is that your world?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

I have a theory about maggots. I call them. When you're giving your life to maga. A lot of these people have lost a lot of stuff. They lost their friends, some of them lost their loved ones, some of them lost their jobs. They don't talk to their family, they don't talk to their family anymore. They don't talk. Their kids don't talk to them anymore. They have lost everything. So now it has to be true. It can't be a lie. Because if it's a lie, now what did I lose everything for?

[Monet X James]

But why did you lose everything? What made you lose everything? Like, consider what made you lose everything.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

It's the dedication to maga. It's Donald Trump above everything else that becomes their everything in North Star. Because they think that they're saving America. And it doesn't matter how much evidence there is. It does not matter how much evidence there is that that's not happening. It doesn't matter. That does not matter at all. All that matters is I'm sorry, they get a chance to save America. What's up, Jacob?

[Jacob]

Okay, I have the full Tina Peters story. Okay. Which is she thought there was election fraud happening and she worked at the county as a county clerk and she provided another rando, like some random other guy who was like an ex server from California who also thought there was election fraud happening. She got him a fake state ID so he could go in and copy the Data off of official voting machines so he could comb through classified voting data to make sure to see if there was any evidence of fraud. So she got him like a fake ID of someone who was authorized to get to the voting machines and he downloaded, hacked it and copied all the voting machine data.

[Monet X James]

Yeah, that's crazy.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

And now she's in prison for nine years.

[Monet X James]

Yeah. And stay there too. The thing about the Diddy thing is wild to me. I'm like, I mean a lot of the sources saying, like, oh, he's going to jail, like there's no getting out of it, blah, blah, blah, blah. Imagine a world with everything with the over what, 3,000 people coming forward reporting that claims of sexual assault, coercion, abuse by Diddy.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

There's 3,000 people.

[Monet X James]

3,000 people. And it looks, and Jacob put it looks like out of those 3,000, 120 people are moving forward with additional charges in court.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

A thousand are moving forward with a.

[Jacob]

So it's a little over 3,000 people have come forward that one specific lawyer who's being interviewed for this article is representing 128 people going forward. So those other 3,000 might be taking their allegations elsewhere to other lawyers. This specific person or firm contacted within this thing is representing 128 of those.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Yo, 3000. This might be the biggest of any celebrity scandal ever.

[Monet X James]

Well, Epstein, Epstein had a lot too though.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Did he have 3,000? I think Bill Cosby had like 40. And we were like, that's insane. We were like 40, 40.

[Monet X James]

Epson and Ghislaine were like flying girls in and shit. Like. And it was like, for years this was going on. So I gotta see who's the worst.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

But 3,000 is absolutely insane. That's crazy.

[Monet X James]

It's bonkers. And I mean, what I mean. But again. But now it's the thing of like they're having these, what they call it the freak offs. Whatever. It's not like the freak offs is. But then you have fucking asshole fucking people like Lil Boosie who gets on this on the social media. And he is, I cannot stand this fucking dude.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

I hate Lil Boosie.

[Monet X James]

I don't know. You know what? You know, I saw Lil Boosie one time. I was flying into Houston and at the airport, I saw Lil Boosie at the baggage claim and I was like, oh my God, that's fucking. That's that asshole dude. Lil Boosie. Cause he has a whole thing with. He has like a lesbian daughter. He's always like saying rude and nasty things about her online. And he's just a. Like, he's just a up. First of all, bitch, worry about why your eyes is yellow. Talk about that.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

You know what would probably hurt Boosie's feelings the most?

[Monet X James]

What?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

It would probably ruin his day. If you saw Boosie and called him a. I bet that would ruin his fucking day. If everyone started being like, faggot. If everyone who saw Boosie out in public, Faggot. Fucking faggot. That would probably really ruin him.

[Monet X James]

But he has some hot take about it. I want to. So I don't misquote nobody.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

He had a hot take about Color Purple. He said the Color Purple was. He didn't know why it was a lesbian movie. And I was like, did you see the first Color Purple? Did you read the Color Purple? Have you ever seen the music? Have you ever. In the last 45 or so years the Color Purple's been out, have you ever heard anything about the Color Purple? Because it's always been a lesbian love story since the beginning, since day one. It was written by a famous lesbian. Did you know that Alice Walker used to date Tracy Chapman? Who? Tracy Chapman. Really? Yep.

[Monet X James]

Do you know, it was like 10 years ago I found out that Tracy Chapman was black.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

What?

[Monet X James]

I didn't know. I didn't know who Tracy Chapman was. And then. So I didn't know Tracy Chapman until people started requesting a drag suicide. So. People requesting drag. So, like, when I first started doing drag and I was like, okay, Tracy Chapman or whatever. And then one day, I think it was DJ Ulrikey, he put as I was doing a Tracy Chapman song, I think the Fast Car song. He put the thing on the screen and I was like, I saw the suicide. I said, y', all, hold. Hold on. I was like, tracy Chapman is black. The entire bar was like, girl, I had no idea. I had no idea.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

And you never saw a picture or anything?

[Monet X James]

No, I didn't know what Tracy Chapman was until I started doing drag. That's wild.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

That's the age gap there. That's the age gap.

[Monet X James]

It is. So everything happened with Lil. With Camel, with Diddy, about. About the freak offs. Like all the things about the prostitution, all the racketeering, the trafficking, everything, Right? Like in great detail. This come out about Diddy. Boosie says this. I feel Diddy in jail for basically doing what every other famous entertainer has done. Flew bitches out for some threesomes. He just freakier. We actually go call women prostitutes who fly in willingly to be with their partners for sex. If that's the case, if you've Been flew out and had sex. You should be labeled a prostitute if that's the case. That's 80% of the women reading this. And trafficking. Hell nah. You're a celebrity. You gotta fly pussy in. How else you gotta get pussy? Never in one place. When I saw that video, I was pissed off at this nigga. Like, he really got a problem. But facing life in prison for doing basically what so many other entertainers have done. Well, has done is what he said.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Does he think that 80% of women are being flown out? Does he think that half. Let's get this. Let me be clear. Half of America's women, okay. What happened to the adults in America? Half of the adults. Half of the adults in America are women, okay? And then that half, he thinks 80% of that half are all just flying around giving out pussy to celebrities. 80% of women.

[Monet X James]

He's a fucking idiot. This man is stupid. This man is a literal fucking idiot.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

And it's weird to me that, like, he thought that the Color Purple was just a gratuitous sexual deviant piece of mess, but he thinks what Diddy's doing is just what everybody do.

[Monet X James]

It's crazy.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

I can't say I don't understand how Boosie has fans.

[Monet X James]

I don't understand either. First of all, what does he do?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

He's a rapper.

[Monet X James]

I cannot. Bitch, what song?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

I wanna.

[Monet X James]

Let's hear a song. Is it good?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

I don't listen to his music. But.

[Ad/Promo Voice]

But

[Monet X James]

you know, I'm not gonna list it. I'm not gonna waste my fucking time anyway, so what he said about Color Purple is this.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

This he said about Color Purple. I had to walk out this Color Purple movie and two other older couples walked out also because I had my little girls with me and it seemed like a rainbow love story. Good acting. But whoever wrote the script is pushing the narrative hard. As a parent, I will not let my little girl watch this film. Like, are you supposed to let us believe that you are some sort of a great parent, Right?

[Monet X James]

By what metric? What regard?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Boosie is a mess.

[Monet X James]

Boosie is a fucking mess, girl. But what's the crazy thing with all the Diddy stuff, too? Is that now they're saying, oh, now that. Because. Because you're fucking. I sent you the video on TikTok. That the crazy singer girl. Sorry, sorry. The woman who has all the allegations about all the rappers and stuff. Oh, oh. Jaguar Wright.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Jaguar Wright. Now, here's what people don't understand. You telling me that you don't think it's weird that Cosmo and Wanda are both wearing crowns, literally.

[Monet X James]

She is wild, girl.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

You haven't ever thought for one second. Hear me out. That it wasn't a little bit crazy, that when you watch Full House, there's a lot of space in there.

[Monet X James]

That shit is wild. And then. But now the crazies are engaging her. She was on fucking Piers Morgan show, which, you know, that fucking looney tune over there in the UK she's on his show and she on there talking about all this stuff with him. And she's like, yeah, it's just, you know who next? Jay Z and Beyonce. Cause they all upended too. And she's like saying about how Jay Z doing this. So now they're roping all these other celebrities saying that because Diddy did this and all these celebrity others are doing this stuff too. It's about to get crazy, girl.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Has no one ever thought for a second that it's a little odd that Jaguar Wright is in the middle of. She's always in the room when it happens, but she never has anything to do with it.

[Monet X James]

Right?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Jaguar Wright is always in the room when it happens, but she don't never have nothing to do. I saw this poster years ago that was like, my husband did CR for 15 years, but now he's sober or something. It was his poster. And I remember thinking to myself, if your husband is doing crack for 15 years and you're together the whole time, I feel like you're doing a little crack too.

[Monet X James]

No, I don't think so. Bob. You.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

You did. If your husband is doing crack for 15 years, your husband, not your. Not the father of your child, not your ex. You are married to and living with the man who's doing crack for 15 years. And you are stone col. Sober,

[Monet X James]

doing

[Bob the Drag Queen]

a little crack too.

[Monet X James]

If you and Jacob get married and Jacob has a drink every time a party, that means you had a drink too.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Drinking and crack. We're not gonna. We're not gonna make having a glass of wine analogous to having a hit of crack. They're not the same, but I think it's not even close.

[Monet X James]

I can date. I mean, I wouldn't date someone who did crack. Maybe I have.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

No, not date. Marry them for 15 years.

[Monet X James]

I don't know. I don't know. I have a pretty strong will, I think. I don't think I would do it. But again, I just would never marry that person, though. I would never be with that person. So that's hard to say.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Unless you were doing a little. I don't want to Be all Judge Mathis about this because Judge Mathis accused everyone of doing crack. You can be like Judge Mathis, be like did you do a little crack? And they'd be like it was a. I'm here for a parking ticket, sir. What is really going on? But you did a little crack, didn't you?

[Monet X James]

Like I just. So are you. You are of the belief that if you like. Cause crack is such a great. Like if someone doing crack like you just. And you with them, like there's no way that you hit that you did not do a little crack with them.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Not for 15 years. I can't imagine being married to a crackhead or a person addicted to crack cocaine or methamphetamines, those two drugs specifically. Like I can imagine being married to someone who does coke like here and there someone. I can even imagine being married to a pothead. When you don't smoke pot, it's not gonna get exhausting as long as they're not smoking it. Smoking it, but they're like just ingesting it or whatever. I could imagine that. But being married to a person addicted to crack cocaine or methamphetamines for 15 years and you have not done a little crack in there. That doesn't make any sense to me.

[Monet X James]

So you think so all the celebrities have gone to Diddy's thing. Do you think that some of that they may have been participating because he had these freak out parties.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

That's true.

[Monet X James]

No, I'm saying but sex. But I'm going back to the sex parties are a thing, right? We know sex parties happen. Gays have sex parties literally all the time. Gays. I go every weekend to sex parties. Like going to a sex party is not incriminating. I think when you are there's the added thing of there are. These were sex trafficking parties and they're having young girls. That's a different story. But I just don't know like when like and we. And maybe we'll find out when this goes to court and all the things happen. Like where is the line between when they were sex parties and sex trafficking parties? And like I think when everyone at

[Bob the Drag Queen]

the party is not consenting it stops being. It goes into a party that a sex party that includes sex trafficking. If everyone at the party is not consenting, that's when it starts being a little bit.

[Monet X James]

But let's say I go to a party at. Let's say I go to a party downtown, right? A four story sex party downtown in LA and I'm invited by this Guy, I'm at this party, blah, blah, blah, living my life. It's a sex party. Everyone's having a good time, and there's a room downstairs that sex trafficking is happening. I don't know. I'm kind of guilty by association because I'm at the sex party.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

I mean, I don't really think that's how that works, particularly just because you're in. That's like saying, I was in the bank and someone robbed it. So now I'm guilty by association.

[Jacob]

I also think it's. It's the idea he was throwing these on a routine basis. So if you were going to a sex party like once a month, the same party, and there is trafficking going on, I think at some point in time you would kind of be like, wait a minute, something as weird is happening here. Yeah, Like Diddy had a thousand bottles of baby oil in his house. He had like a tunnel system built, he had caves. Like there are parties going into four in the morning where people were like having public sex in front of them and being like force fed drugs. Like it's a bit of a difference,

[Bob the Drag Queen]

but allegedly not that way. But what was crazy is his lawyer came out and was like, well, we only have those baby oil bottles because. Because Costco sells them in. But we got it from Costco. And then Costco came out and were like, just so you guys know, we do not sell baby oil. Really? Yep. They're like, we don't even sell one bottle. So I don't know where they got them from, but it wasn't from us. You ever had a baby? You know how long it takes to go through a bottle of baby oil? Maybe one ounce of baby oil will cover your whole body.

[Monet X James]

What I'm saying, what is the baby oil used for?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Well, I follow this one porn account that like oils up butts to make them look shiny. And that's. I do watch pornography. Yes. And oils up their butts to make their butts look really, really shiny. And it's part of the kink for him. Like every butt he fucks is really shiny and you need it.

[Monet X James]

I guess, I guess I'm not on that side of that doesn't do it for me. So I guess I don't see the thing in it.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Well, I mean, this account isn't as. That's not what I was looking for. They have something else that I enjoy, but his thing just happens to be big shiny butts. Like shiny. Like shiny like a dime shiny.

[Monet X James]

I hope that PDC will get their dosage Their just do. I hope that fucking. This dude gets what the fuck is coming for him by doing what he has done for, at this point, decades. Like, that shit is wild.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

And what do you hope for Boosie?

[Monet X James]

I hope that Boosie fucking.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Don't say nothing crazy, Monet.

[Monet X James]

I know, I know. I hope that I stopped myself. I hope that Boosie.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

I should have asked that. Don't answer this question that was missing me. Please don't answer that question. Please don't answer that question. I wanna know who this is.

[Monet X James]

I hope that Boosie sees the errors in his ways. I hope that Boosie mends his relationship with his lesbian daughter and he becomes a better father to his queer kids.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

What if Boosie became the number one queer ally? Like, did a full 180?

[Monet X James]

That would be amazing. I would love that. I would love that. I would love that. Yes, please.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

What if Boosie did a full 180? But some people. Really. That is such a good. So. My God, she ate that song so hard.

[Monet X James]

D has some bops. DPA can. I don't know.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Her name is Dula.

[Monet X James]

I don't know if she writes a lot of her own music. I don't know.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

But I think her thing is she's a songwriter. I think that's, like, her thing. I think that's, like, her thing. She ain't no dancer.

[Jacob]

Wow.

[Monet X James]

I guess I might be invited to her next album launch. Thank you, Bob. I don't get.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

You know what? I don't get invited to anything. You know what? I'm fine. Because apparently what they're doing to these Hollywood parties, I'm good. Okay.

[Monet X James]

What if you got invited? What if you. What if Madonna invited to, like, a sex party? Would you go?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Probably. I don't feel comfortable with sex parties.

[Monet X James]

Got it. You never been to a sex party before?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

No, I. I almost went to a sex party one time. I told you. With? Oh, with. With. With dawn and Plasma. Dawn and Plasma. We almost went to a sex party, but I didn't know it was a sex party. So they went upstairs, told me it was a sex party, and I stayed in the lobby and wait till they came downstairs.

[Monet X James]

Wait for the whole party?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

No, no, they came. They were like, girl, it's a sex party. And I was like, oh, I'm not coming up there. And they came downstairs.

[Monet X James]

Got it.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

So it was me, Dawn, Malicious Skunt and two. And a couple other local queens whose name I can't remember.

[Monet X James]

Y' all saw that?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Damn, that hand was cold.

[Monet X James]

That hand was cold. That hand was cold.

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[Bob the Drag Queen]

me, dawn, malicious gun and a couple of other. I didn't do this.

[Monet X James]

The hand.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

That hand is cold as.

[Monet X James]

The head is cold as. I felt out of my spirit, a couple local girls.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Anyway, continue with your story, your line of questioning about me and my sex parties.

[Monet X James]

Yeah. So wait, what if you've never been to one? How you know, how you know you don't like her?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

I feel like I may have been to one sex party once or twice, but I just don't.

[Monet X James]

I don't know.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

I don't feel comfortable in the. It doesn't sound like something I. I would want to do, to be honest. Like, I. I know I've been to the dick deck of a cruise ship before.

[Monet X James]

On the cruises you've been to?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Yeah, I've been to the dick deck, but I don't even have fun up there. Like, I just kind of walk around, look around, and then I just kind of leave. Like I'm not. Like I'm not. I'm not actually getting the dick deck experience. Jacob, have you ever done one of the dick decks on a cruise?

[Jacob]

No, I have not.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Not even walked around?

[Jacob]

No.

[Monet X James]

You never even went on cruise do. So I guess the people.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Because Rose is listening.

[Jacob]

No, I think to be fully honest, in those spaces you either have to be like really down to do like whatever with anything or really confident in saying no and expressing your boundaries. And I am neither of those things.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

That's my. That's my self aware, baby. Honey, wait.

[Monet X James]

It's on a dick deck. So like everyone on the, like the people who are in charge. No, because the thing about like there's

[Bob the Drag Queen]

no one in charge. There's no one in charge, I'm saying.

[Monet X James]

But like the, the. The authority on the cruise, like they let this happen because like on Dig Doc and like meet the meat rack and stuff, like the meat rack is outside. It's like public property can do whatever on the dig deck. Sorry. On the dick dock in P Town. That's like public space, you know, whatever. On a cruise it's a little different.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Like, well, we're in maritime law and. But the. But the people who run the ship just kind of turn their eye and just kind of like turn the blind eye to it. And when you're up there, it is a place where consent is like some people consider your entry the consent. You know what I mean? Like, it's also. It's so dark outside. It's dark. It's pitch black. So you can't see what you're grabbing, who you're Grabbing. You don't know what, you don't know what is going in your mouth, in your butt, in your hand. Yeah.

[Monet X James]

I remember one time when I went to, you know, Daniel Nordiccio, there was an underwear partner in Fire island at the Ice palace. Every Friday. Back when I was still working on Fire island on Fridays I did. What was that show on Fridays? I did girl esque on Fridays. And then so we would always go to the underwear party at the thing. And it's in the back room back there all the way to the end of the Ice Palace. Pitch black bitch. It's like you cannot see. You really cannot see anything. I remember going back there and like touching dicks. Sometimes they're wet. I'm like, I don't know what it's wet from. Is it wet from pre cum? Is it wet from lube? Is it wet from a little shit on someone's dick? And then so like they get out of the pool.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Who knows?

[Monet X James]

Yeah, you don't know what the fuck. So after that, after that experience, I'm like, I'm like, I'm not. I just. That turned me off to dark rooms like that. Because if it's pitch black one, I can't. I don't know, like, I don't know if this is wet from fucking some secretion from your penis. Cause you have fucking gonorrhea. I don't know what's going on down there. So if it's black, black, black. Well, I don't even go to sex parties. Well, I don't go to underwear parties and stuff like that anymore. Back rooms since the show. But it would be a big aversion to me to not go. Cause I'm like, I don't know what's on your dick, I don't know what the fuck. And also when you're back in a dark room and it smells like somebody cleaning out properly, you don't know who it is.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Now I always take a lap through the dark room. Every time I go to any club spot. I always take a lap through the dark room. Every single time. Without fail, mama's gonna take a lap like.

[Monet X James]

And take a lap for what purpose?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Just to look and see, see what's going on. And I wake in the mornings and I step outside and take a deep breath and I get real high, okay? And I say, as 4 non blondes would say. And I sing to myself, what's going on? Who? Also the lead singer of 4 Non Blondes is also black, by the way.

[Monet X James]

I don't know who 4 non blondes even is.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

And I wake in the morning and I step outside and I take a deep breath and I get real high and I. Yeah, that's. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh, y'. All.

[Monet X James]

Is that.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

That song not have. Okay, I'm on 8% and I cannot plug in my computer because every port is being used. So we are.

[Monet X James]

You know what in the episode. You know what they've been Getting hour and 15 long episodes. We. This. We.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

We're at an hour. Okay, you don't have to talk to them like that. Don't ever talk. Don't ever talk to them.

[Monet X James]

I'm talking to you, not talking to them.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Don't ever talk to my listeners like that again. You mon. There are two different sets of listens on here, mon. You don't talk to Mil. You can talk to your. Your monation that way they're used to the dictator. But over here, we don't talk to each other like that. So to the. To. To bobbleheads, I am.

[Monet X James]

What example have you said? What person have you said about that, by the way? You talk to me.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

So to bobbleheads, I would like to apologize for cutting this episode a little bit short. My charger is. I can't put my charger in. And I'm so, so sorry to let you down. And I want you to know that I strive to be the kind of example that Bob look toward to, you know, And I can always acknowledge when I'm wrong. Do you want to address the monation? Do you want to address the monation?

[Monet X James]

I don't know. I don't know what kind of lies you are spewing over there. Because if the bobbleheads are behaving by your example. Example, then there ain't no way. You just said you believe in. That's not how you behave. That's how you act.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

You said you just believe it.

[Monet X James]

What did you say? What?

[Bob the Drag Queen]

No way. And you said you believe none of

[Monet X James]

the shit you clear. Clean out your ears. Ears.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

Oh, wow, that was impressive. Clean out your ears. Miserable. Miserable. We gotta go.

[Monet X James]

We do have to go with your fucking dead ass computer.

[Bob the Drag Queen]

I just. I fully lied. The lead singer of 4 Non Blondes is not black. I was just. I just made. I thought. But then I googled it and a lot of people ask that question. A lot of folks like, is she black? Anyway, not black. Plot twist.

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