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The Life of Diane Keaton | Hypnotic Bedtime Story For Sleep
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Hi, everyone. I'm Jessica Porter, and welcome back to Sleep Magic, a podcast where I help you find the magic of your own mind, helping you to sleep better and live better. Hi, everyone. Thank you so much for being here. It's great to feel connected to you all. I recently heard from a listener named Amy who lives in Brisbane, Australia, but she's originally from Scotland. Anyway, Amy's been through a recent health challenge and is happily on the other side of it. She and her daughter Coco listen to Sleep Magic every night, and she Even said in 2025, we managed a world trip to see just some of my bucket list destinations, one of which was inspired by your podcast, Sausalito, California. We went to see the Bay Area and the floating houseboats of which I learned about through your podcast, Get Sleepy on a Houseboat. I did that episode, I think, a couple years ago now. Your description was perfect, but I needed to see it for myself, feel it for myself. Amy, first of all, let me just say I'm so glad you're doing well. I think that trip sounds fantastic. I think we all need to figure out what's important in our lives and see it through. And yeah, the houseboats in Sausalito are amazing. So if anyone is in the area or wants to make that trip, it's worth it. They're beautiful and sort of at risk of overusing a word here on the show. Magical. So thank you for writing, Amy, thank you for listening, and I want to wish you and Koko very, very sweet dreams tonight. If you have any stories to share, comments, feedback, episode suggestions, you can reach us through Sleepiest on the podcast platforms, through my website, through the socials. We read everything and we love hearing from you. And if you want to subscribe, if you're in a position to subscribe, you get ad free listening, 50% more content, and access to the whole back catalog. So please subscribe. All right, tonight, the story of Diane Keaton. I was just a kid when Annie hall came out in 1977, but I loved movies and I remember going to see it in the theater a few times. First of all, I didn't understand like 75% of the jokes, I'm sure, but that didn't matter. On the screen, I saw a woman who was awkward, sort of giggly, dressed in men's clothes, not a conventional beauty, but with an unmistakable charm. And when she was nervous in a scene, she would lean in in this weird way and then turn away and said things like, la dee da. It was Annie hall and she was as my grandmother would say, an odd duck. She was an unconventional heroine, to say the least. But the movie was named after her. And what a movie it was. And from the moment she lit up the screen, the entire world was introduced to Diane Keaton. And remember, in the 1970s, there was no Internet, no streaming. Movies were a big deal, and you had to see them in the theater. And because there were only like three or four channels on the tv, our attention just wasn't so splintered. And a big hit movie got the whole world's attention. And movies like Annie hall burned bright in the collective consciousness for years, sometimes decades. Diane Keaton became not only a star, she was an icon. Keaton went on to win the Academy Award for Best Actress and the movie won Best Picture. But perhaps more important than both those things, she made a huge mark on the culture in her bowler hat and tie and suspenders. And for this little girl whose mother was a feminist, sitting in that dark movie theater in the 1970s, she busted all of womenkind out of all sorts of boxes. So tonight I'll be describing some of the details of the late Diane Keaton's life. She wrote a couple of autobiographies, so if you want more details, I encourage you to read her words or listen to her narrating them. She was a remarkable person. Talented, curious, strong, and, well, a beautiful odd duck. Before we begin, our only ad break which makes this magic possible. To listen ad free, follow the link in the show notes.
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Hi everyone. March 8th is the start of Sleep Awareness Week. A reminder to all of us that sleep really is everything. When you sleep better, you live better. And that's at the heart of what we do here. So to mark the week, I'm offering a 30 day free trial of Team Magic, our premium feed. Available until March 16th. A Team Magic subscription gives you ad free listening plus hundreds of exclusive sleep hypnosis sessions designed to help you fall asleep faster and sleep more deeply through the night. Along with an additional premium only release every other week, you'll also unlock the Extended Magic Mailbag episodes where I answer your questions in full. So if you've been wanting to improve your sleep and experience the very best of Sleep Magic, this is the perfect time to begin. And with 30 days free, you'll have time to feel the difference. We only offer this extended trial a few times a year, so if this feels like your moment, tap, try free in Apple Podcasts or use the link in the show notes. There's no better week to choose. Rest and I'll be right here when you're ready. Now get yourself into a safe and comfortable position and let's begin. Allow your eyes to close easily and gently. Ah. And just bring your awareness to your breath. Your awareness which has been outside of you, in your world, in your mind. Plotting things, discovering things, thinking things. Let's just quietly invite it back to your breath. I know it may not stay there for long, but that's okay. Then we just invite it again and again, Bringing your awareness back home to your body. As your body already begins to relax and let go. The day is done. Now let's invite your awareness up into your eyelids. As you imagine that your eyelids are feeling heavy and sleepy and comfortable. And as I get heavier and heavier, I'd like you to accept the suggestion that your eyelids are so relaxed they will not open. And if you've been around here for a while, you know we're just playing a game here, pretending that your eyes will not open. But let's pretend. And now wiggle your eyebrows to test that your eyes won't open. And note to you, you could Open them if you wanted to, but you're not going to. Okay, Wiggle eyebrows. Good. Keeping your eyes closed. Good. Now you can stop testing. And this lovely, heavy feeling around your eyes is moving down into your face. Now imagine it just falling like a warm waterfall down your face. Your cheeks becoming nice and heavy. Your jaw becoming relaxed as it lets go. And now that lovely, warm feeling around your eyes. Let's imagine it moving up into your forehead, spreading over your whole forehead and up into your scalp, taking over your whole scalp. And now imagine this warm feeling moving back from your eyes back into your brain, moving inside your head, enveloping your brain in this soft, warm relaxation. So your brain is soaking in relaxation. And all mental tension is evaporating, dissolving and is gone. And your face feels so relaxed and soft. The day is done and your face is off duty. Good. That lovely, warm relaxation up inside your head starts to move down into your neck, Softening the large muscles holding up your head, because their work is done and they're letting go. And the relaxation is moving down now into your shoulders. Your shoulders are becoming soft and loose and relaxed, melting into the bed like butter. As a warm feeling moves all the way down into your arms. And you notice that your arms are feeling heavy, heavy. As the warmth is moving down now into your hands. The palms of your hands feeling warm and open. Perhaps the palms of your hands even tingle a little. And for anyone who's been here for a while, just hearing these words has created a cat cascade of relaxing hormones and chemicals inside your body as you say yes to going deeper and deeper as the relaxation moves down into your fingers. Every finger feeling full, heavy and relaxed. Good. Now let's imagine that lovely warm feeling that began up around your eyes and moved down into your neck. Let's imagine that it's flowing down your back, Softening and relaxing the muscles of your upper back, The middle of your back and down to your lower back, all the way down into your buttocks, relaxing on the bed. Your pelvis feeling heavy on the bed. And now that the back of your torso is going deeper and deeper into relaxation, the muscles of your belly are softening, releasing. Your breath, sinking deeper into your belly. As you allow the nice warm feeling. To move up into your chest. And into your heart. As all emotional tension. Is evaporating, Dissolving. And now it's gone. As the relaxation moves down, down into your legs, imagine it flowing down through your thighs. Your thighs becoming heavy, heavy on the bed. The day is done and your legs are relaxing. As the warm feeling moves down through your knees, down your calves, through your ankles and down into your feet. The soles of your feet are feeling warm and open. Good. As the relaxation is moving down now into your toes, every toe feeling full, heavy and relaxed. As you bring your awareness to any sound sounds that may be taking place around you, Sounds from within your bedroom or your home, or even from outside. From now on, no sound will bother or disturb you in any way. In fact, from this moment on, any sound that you hear, including the sound of my voice and the words that I'll be saying tonight, will take you deeper and even deeper into relaxation. As you drift and float. And dream. Southern California in the 1940s was a place of expansion and promise, orange groves giving way to suburbs, new highways stretching outward, and families arriving in search of sunlight and possibility. Diane Keaton was born Diane Hall On January 5, 1946, the first child of Jack hall and his wife, Dorothy, whose maiden name was Keaton. They had recently left the Midwest to make a new life in California. It's late afternoon in Highland park in the eastern part of Los Angeles. Barefoot, a small girl known to her family as Diany crosses the living room carpet, the fibers soft beneath her feet. The house smells faintly of laundry soap and Elmer's glue. On the coffee table lie some of her mother's collage books, her medium of the moment. Her mother enters the room, sweeping in with love and vitality. Dorothy is a creative, ambitious woman who focuses her abundant energy on family and art. Tall and striking, she will one day win the Mrs. Los Angeles contest. One of her cameras rests nearby, its metal edges cool and precise. Little Diany lifts it and peers through the viewfinder. The world is suddenly framed and contained. Her father, tall, a civil engineer who espouses the feel good philosophies of Norman Vincent Peale and Dale Carnegie, crosses the room and becomes a moving picture through the lens. Her younger brother Randy, makes a face for the camera, captured in light. Little does Diani know she will spend her whole life either in front of or behind a camera. Outside, the air carries the faint sweetness of orange blossoms. In her bedroom, young Diane practices expressions in the mirror, tilting her head, widening her eyes, trying on emotions the way other children try on hats. Already there's a sense of performance and a profound curiosity about how feeling translates into face, into gesture, into story. The whole home is a happy place. After the fourth child arrives, they move to Santa Ana, where there's more room to roam. As a young teenager, Diane commandeers her siblings one brother, two younger sisters into staging plays and making home movies, feeding the acting impulse that seems to rise naturally within her. She experiments with clothing like her mother experiments with collage, assembling outfits with an instinct for line, texture, and splashes of color. Her inner life is rich, and it spills into everything she touches. She feels safe in her family and loved School holds little interest beyond theater. After graduating from high school, she spends only a brief period in college before moving to New York City. She earns a scholarship to study with Sanford Meisner at the Neighborhood Playhouse. She arrives on 54th street and looks up. The playhouse is a very large gray building, its two entrances marked by bright red doors. She opens one and walks inside. She finds a small theater space where she meets her fellow students and their teacher, Sanford Meisner. As a founding member of the Group Theater, Meisner has an unorthodox method of training. Instead of asking his students to mine their personal memories, he has them sit across from one another and repeat simple observations. Diane takes a seat on a chair on stage, facing another student, also sitting, and they begin repeating simple phrases to one another. You're wearing a red sweater. I'm wearing a red sweater. You're wearing a red sweater. And so on. The technique is stunningly simple. But over time, as the conscious mind is distracted by simple observations, emotions begin to emerge from the subconscious mind, bubbling up spontaneously. Diane is discovering that feelings do not need to be forced. They arrive on their own when attention is softened and relaxation deepens. Years later, Diane would say that Meisner's technique opened to her the extremely seductive world of feelings. She had discovered a new medium for her art inside herself. It's 1968. The city hums with construction and vendors and taxi horns. Steam is rising from the grates. Subway trains rumble beneath the sidewalks. Diane has joined the Union Actors Equity. But because there's another member named Diane hall, she's taken her mother's maiden name, Keaton. She walks past neon reflections on the rainy pavement, her coat collar turned against the chill. The city roars around her. Yet inside, she's sensing a widening space, a quiet interior room untouched by noise. Her inner being is expanding. She enters the theater. Backstage corridors smell of dust and grease paint. She stands in half light, script folded in her hands. Beyond the curtain, the audience murmurs. She can feel the wooden stage through the thin soles of her shoes, each vibration a reminder that something alive waits just beyond the wings. She steps onto the stage and feels the heat of the lights. She expands even more. A short time later, she meets a wiry, neurotic comic named Woody Allen, who's written a Broadway play. They star in it together, which begins their collaboration, personal and professional, that will change both their lives forever. As Alan's girlfriend and muse, Keaton enters a different cultural world. She's introduced to New York's intellectual life, to psychoanalysis, into even more artistic experimentation. Like Woody, she is quirky, bold and spontaneous. On a cool Manhattan morning in 1976, Diane stands on the sidewalk in a man's vest and tie, wide trousers and a bowler hat. Although it's technically a costume, it's based on her own style. And Woody Allen has based this character on her. A crew member adjusts the lights. Cables snake across the pavement. Passersby slow down to watch. The air carries the scent of roasted chestnuts. She laughs mid take. Spontaneous, unguarded, something real breaking through the choreography of film. Between takes, she watches the city move around her, pigeons scattering buildings, rising into low clouds. As costume and character merge, she's not inventing something new. She's allowing hidden parts of herself to surface. Vulnerability, wit, intelligence. Shot after shot, a new kind of heroine is born. Unconventional, alive and entirely human. Released in 1977, Annie hall breaks the rules of filmmaking. It has a non linear structure, uses split screens, animation and direct address to the camera. And it offers an entirely new depiction of romance. Annie is not rescued. She leaves. She evolves. She is imperfect, independent and not defined by any man. The film becomes a cultural phenomenon and Keaton wins the Academy Award for best Actress. Fame finally arrives, brilliant and blinding. But beneath the brightness, something steadier remains. A compass pointing inward. Rather than chasing more attention, Diane develops as an artist. She explores more dramatic roles, personal relationships, photography and directing. Having inherited her mother's love of collage and visual storytelling, she studies architecture and design. She restores historic homes in Los Angeles, including a gem designed by Frank Lloyd Wright in the Hollywood Hills. And through all her exploration, she has long term relationships with two of the kings of Hollywood, Warren Beatty and Al Pacino. But she never settles into being a domestic partner. She remains very connected to her nuclear family. And as her brother Randy experiences mental health struggles, she visits him regularly. Although her life expands in ways she never imagined possible, she remains little Diana, a member of the Hull family. And in 1996, at the age of 50, Diane adopts her first child, a daughter named Dexter. And later, she adopts a son named Duke. There's the Diane we see on the screen. And then there's the private individual, inwardly anchored, deeply connected to her inner life. And in parenthood, she discovers yet another form of creation and perhaps the most important role she's ever played, not as a character but as mother. She finally has the opportunity to give back what she received from Dorothy. Love becomes a quiet, daily practice. Attention becomes nourishment for others. And herself. Expands yet again. In interviews, Diane says she always understood that Annie hall shaped her career and that her celebrity would never burn brighter than it did in the late 1970s. But instead of chasing more intensity, she chose to live expansively, growing as a human in multiple directions, writing books, volunteering, developing relationships. In the morning light of Los Angeles, Diane moves through an empty house, a camera resting lightly in her hands. Dust motes float through angled sunbeams. Floorboards echo softly beneath her steps. She pauses at a doorway, studying the way shadow pool where two walls meet. She studies the meeting of light and wall, shadow and threshold, and what she sees is not emptiness but relationship, space holding form, stillness holding life. Outside, dry earth warms beneath the sun. Bougainvillea spills over a stucco wall in a waterfall of magenta. She photographs window frames, handrails, paving stones, The quiet geometry of places. The act is contemplative, almost devotional. Where once she stood before the camera, She now again frames the world herself, Studying light, proportion, And the quiet poetry of space. Diane Keaton showed us that a life does not unfold in straight lines. It expands, contracts, deepens, And surprises. Life gathers light in unexpected corners. As you feel your body resting on the bed, As you go deeper and deeper, And your inner being is expanding. As you drift. And flow. Andre. Sa. It.