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Slightly Unsupervised
Hosted by Jennifer Hobbs & Jackie Schroeder · EN
Two best friends. Zero filters. All truth.
We’re not married—but we kinda are.
Slightly Unsupervised is a podcast about the kind of soulmates who don’t come with a marriage license. Hosted by longtime best friends Jennifer and Jackie, this show dives into the real, raw, and ridiculously funny side of female friendship, emotional growth, and what it really takes to stay connected through the chaos of life.
From navigating toxic friendships and healing after breakups, to starting a trademarked friendship ceremony called Bestiemony®, we’re here to celebrate the messy magic of bestie energy.
Expect honest conversations about:
- Friendship breakups and red flags
- Loyalty, boundaries, and emotional support
- Motherhood, identity, and growing up side-by-side
- And of course, a few laugh-till-you-snort moments
If you’ve ever had a ride-or-die, lost one, or are still looking, this podcast will remind you why friendship is the most underrated love story of all.
🎧 New episodes weekly.
💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony
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Sisters by Blood, Best Friends by Choice | The Female Connection Women Need
5d ago00:30:11Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailSisters by Blood, Best Friends by Choice | The Female Connection Women NeedSome women grow up with sisters.Some spend their whole lives searching for one.In this emotional and deeply relatable episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie talk about the difference between sisters and best friends — and why female friendship can sometimes fill a space in our hearts that family never could.Growing up without sisters, both Jennifer and Jackie reflect on the loneliness, emotional disconnect, and longing for feminine connection they experienced as kids growing up in the 80s. They share how friendship became more than just having someone to hang out with — it became emotional safety, shared history, validation, laughter, survival, and chosen family.They dive into: Why women crave emotional witnessing The difference between assigned family and chosen family How childhood loneliness shapes adult friendships Why some best friends become closer than sisters The emotional role female friendship plays in women’s lives What makes a woman feel emotionally safe Why being truly “seen” changes everything This episode is funny, nostalgic, vulnerable, and packed with the kind of honest conversation that makes you feel less alone.Because sometimes the greatest love story in a woman’s life isn’t romantic at all… it’s the friend who became family.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at ChickologyPodcasts@gmail.com
Transcribe →When Money Gets Weird in Friendships: Navigating Income Gaps Without Losing Each Other
2w ago00:30:14Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailWhen Money Gets Weird in Friendships: Navigating Income Gaps Without Losing Each Other Say “yes” to things they can’t afford How income differences can quietly create distance The emotional weight of feeling embarrassed, judged, or left out What happens when someone pays for everything—and why it can backfire How childhood experiences with money shape adult friendships Through honest stories, humor, and real-life examples, Jennifer and Jackie break down how to handle these situations with honesty, empathy, and respect—without damaging the friendship.Because the truth is, money doesn’t create distance… silence does. If you’ve ever felt uncomfortable talking about money with friends—or avoided it altogether—this episode will hit home.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at ChickologyPodcasts@gmail.com
Transcribe →Raising Good Friends: What We Didn’t Learn (But Our Daughters Need to Know)
3w ago00:32:00Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailRaising Good Friends: What We Didn’t Learn (But Our Daughters Need to Know) Most of us were never actually taught how to be good friends—we were taught to be nice, to include others, and to keep the peace. But no one showed us how to handle jealousy, navigate conflict, set boundaries, or speak up when something doesn’t feel right. In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie get real about what we didn’t learn growing up—and why it matters now more than ever as we raise the next generation of girls. From childhood friendship struggles to adult relationship patterns, they share personal stories, hard-earned lessons, and honest conversations about how friendships shape our lives. They also break down how parents can help their daughters build strong, healthy, emotionally safe friendships—without losing themselves in the process. You’ll hear real talk about: Why “being nice” isn’t enough in friendships How to teach kids emotional awareness and boundaries Why conflict resolution is a skill every child needs The impact of social media on modern friendships How to help girls handle jealousy, exclusion, and comparison Why not every friendship should end when things get hard If you’ve ever struggled with friendships—or want to raise daughters who won’t have to unlearn what you did—this episode is for you. Because friendship isn’t something we’re just supposed to “figure out.” It’s something we should have been taught. This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at ChickologyPodcasts@gmail.com
Transcribe →Friendship Bucket Lists: How to Stay Close, Make Memories, and Grow Together Over Time
4w ago00:34:35Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailFriendship Bucket Lists: How to Stay Close, Make Memories, and Grow Together Over Time Bucket lists aren’t just for life… they’re for friendships too. In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie break down why bestie bucket lists become essential as we get older—and why friendships don’t stay strong by accident anymore. When we’re younger, connection is effortless. We’re in the same places, living the same seasons, building memories without even trying. But as life evolves—careers, families, responsibilities—friendships can quietly drift… not because the love is gone, but because the intention is. This episode is all about changing that. Jennifer and Jackie share real stories (including the legendary hike up a mountain to hang their class year in their late 40s 😅), plus how creating intentional experiences keeps friendships alive, deep, and meaningful. They dive into: What a bestie bucket list actually is (and why you need one now) The difference between living life together vs. planning it on purpose Types of friendship bucket lists: fun, connection, growth, healing, and legacy Why shared experiences matter more than just “keeping in touch” How to create memories that last into your future (hello retirement home stories 👀) Why it’s never too late to start doing life with your friends again Because the truth is— Friendships don’t fade from lack of love… They fade from lack of intention. And a bestie bucket list? That’s how you choose each other—on purpose. If this episode made you laugh, reminisce, or text your best friend… we’ll call that a win. 💛 👉 Subscribe, leave a review, and share with your ride-or-die. This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at ChickologyPodcasts@gmail.com
Transcribe →The Retirement Home Pact: Why Best Friends Plan to Grow Old Together (And Refuse to Drift Apart)
May 400:22:41Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailThe Retirement Home Pact: Why Best Friends Plan to Grow Old Together (And Refuse to Drift Apart) It started as a joke… but it turned into a pact. In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie dive into their very real plan to end up in the same retirement home—and why it’s about so much more than aging, housing, or even logistics. Because behind the laughter, the chaos, and the slightly unhinged planning… is something deeper: 👉 the decision to choose each other for life. As women get older, friendships don’t just “stick”—they require intention, effort, and a shared vision for the future. Jennifer and Jackie open up about why they’ve spent years planning their “retirement home era,” how it gives them comfort knowing they won’t grow old alone, and why this kind of friendship bond is rare—but powerful. They also get real (and hilarious) about: What their future living situation might actually look like (retirement home vs. friend compound 👀) Why women often outlive their partners—and what that means for friendship The importance of planning emotional support, not just financial retirement The role each bestie will play (caretaker, troublemaker, organizer… you already know 😂) Why staying connected long-term doesn’t happen by accident And yes… they’ve already trained their kids on what to smuggle in. (You’re welcome.) Because at the end of the day, this isn’t about where they end up— it’s about who they refuse to lose along the way. If this episode made you laugh, think, or text your best friend… we’ll call that a win. 💛 👉 Subscribe, leave a review, and share with your ride-or-die. This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at ChickologyPodcasts@gmail.com
Transcribe →Reconnecting After Years Apart: How We Rebuilt Our Friendship
Apr 2700:25:57Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailWe Found Our Way Back: Rebuilding a Friendship After 15 Years Apart What happens when a friendship you thought was gone forever… finds its way back? In this deeply personal episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie share the real story of how they reconnected after 15 years apart—and why rebuilding a friendship later in life is rarely instant, but always worth it. From high school best friends to years of silence, life changes, and separate paths… this episode walks you through the exact moments that brought them back together. It wasn’t one big conversation or a dramatic reunion—it was small steps, uncomfortable reaches, and choosing to show up again and again. They open up about: The first awkward reconnection (and why it matters) How vulnerability and courage rebuild trust Why consistency—not intensity—is what brings friendships back to life The emotional reality of reconnecting after divorce, distance, and time What it really takes to feel safe, seen, and connected again How to know if a friendship is worth trying again Plus, their Bestie Rapid Questions get real, emotional, and honest—covering what they wish they had said, what they’ve learned, and why losing each other actually made their bond stronger. If you’ve ever lost a friendship, wondered if you should reach out, or hoped for a second chance… this episode is your reminder that some connections don’t disappear—they just need time, space, and a little courage to come back. Because the best friendships aren’t always the easiest… but they might just be the ones worth rebuilding. This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at ChickologyPodcasts@gmail.com
Transcribe →We Didn’t Talk for 15 Years… And It Mattered More Than We Admitted
Apr 2000:32:18Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailWe Didn’t Talk for 15 Years… And It Mattered More Than We Admitted What happens when someone who once knew everything about you… becomes a stranger? In this deeply personal episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie open up about the 15 years they didn’t speak — and why that silence mattered more than they ever admitted. This wasn’t a dramatic falling out. No big fight. No clear ending. Just life… pulling them in different directions. But here’s the truth: You don’t just lose the friendship. You lose the person who remembers your life with you. Together, they reflect on: How a ride-or-die friendship can quietly fade over time The pain of losing shared memories — not just the person Why “we just grew apart” doesn’t always tell the full story The impact of relationships, life changes, and timing What it feels like to reconnect after years apart And why some friendships never fully leave you This episode is raw, nostalgic, funny, and honest — full of wild high school memories, late-night talks, and the kind of connection that doesn’t come around often. Because sometimes… The friendships we lose aren’t gone. They’re just waiting for the right moment to find their way back. 🎙 Hosted by Jennifer & Jackie 💍 Presented by Bestiemony™ — Because the best love stories don’t always come with a ring If you’ve ever lost a friend, missed someone quietly, or wondered “what if”… this episode will hit you right in the heart. And maybe… give you the courage to reach back out. Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at ChickologyPodcasts@gmail.com
Transcribe →Same Friendship, Different Rules: Why Generations Don’t Get Each Other
Apr 1300:27:22Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailSame Friendship, Different Rules: Why Generations Don’t Get Each Other Ever feel like you and someone you care about are speaking completely different emotional languages?You’re not imagining it… it might be generational.In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie dive into why friendships across different generations can feel confusing, frustrating, and sometimes even hurtful—even when both people genuinely care.From communication styles and emotional expression to boundaries, loyalty, and expectations, every generation was shaped differently… and those differences don’t just disappear in friendships.Jennifer and Jackie get real about: Why generational clashes happen (and why it’s not always personal) The biggest friction points between Gen X, Millennials, and Gen Z How the way you were raised shapes how you show up as a friend Real-life examples of generational misunderstandings in families and friendships Why some people want to talk everything out… and others just want you to move on How to navigate friendships when you see the world completely differently They also share honest stories about family dynamics, different perspectives, and the challenge of trying to connect when your emotional wiring doesn’t match.Because sometimes… 👉 it’s not the friendship that’s broken…it’s the framework you’re both using.Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at ChickologyPodcasts@gmail.com
Transcribe →Why You Don’t Think Like Me: The Truth About Generational Friendships
Apr 600:37:20Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailWhy You Don’t Think Like Me: The Truth About Generational Friendships Friendship hasn’t gotten worse… it’s just gotten different. In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie break down how friendships have evolved from Baby Boomers to Gen Z—and why every generation connects, communicates, and shows up in completely different ways. From the loyalty and “don’t talk about it” mindset of Baby Boomers, to the independent, low-maintenance friendships of Gen X… to the emotionally expressive Millennials and the boundary-driven Gen Z—each generation has its own friendship language. And sometimes… those languages don’t translate. Jennifer and Jackie get real about: Why different generations expect completely different things from friendship The biggest clashes between loyalty, communication, and boundaries How the way you were raised shapes how you show up as a friend Why some people want to talk everything out… and others just want you to get over it How to stop taking generational differences personally—and start understanding them They also share real-life stories, generational frustrations, and a few laugh-out-loud moments (including the reality of growing up with wall phones and zero privacy). Because the truth is— we’re all using the word “friendship”… 👉 but we don’t all mean the same thing. Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at ChickologyPodcasts@gmail.com
Transcribe →Touch My Bestie and It’s On: Why We Defend Our Friends Harder Than Ourselves
Mar 3000:26:14Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailTouch My Bestie and It’s On: Why We Defend Our Friends Harder Than Ourselves You can insult us. We’ll probably roll our eyes and move on. But disrespect our bestie? Now we’re drafting paragraphs, standing taller, and deciding who needs to be escorted out of the group chat. In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie unpack the protective instinct that kicks in when someone hurts our people. Why is it easier to defend our friends than defend ourselves? Why do we forgive faster for our own pain… but hold lifelong grudges when someone crosses our bestie? This chapter dives into: Why women go full mama bear for their friends How loyalty can turn into fierce (and sometimes petty) protection The difference between healthy boundaries and permanent blacklists Why our “bullsh*t tolerance” drops as we age How childhood patterns of self-abandonment can turn into over-protection of others When sticking up for your friend helps — and when it complicates things Jennifer and Jackie share real stories from their friend group — girls’ trips gone sideways, shady behavior, teenage locker-room standoffs, Moscow Mule meltdowns, and the unspoken rule: if you hurt one of us, you hurt both of us. They also admit the hard truth: Sometimes we hold onto anger longer than the friend who was actually hurt. Because protecting your bestie feels powerful. Protecting yourself? That’s harder. This episode is about loyalty, love, projection, fierce devotion — and the beautiful, chaotic energy of women who refuse to let their people stand alone. 🎙 Hosted by Jennifer & Jackie 💍 Presented by Bestiemony™ — Because not all soulmates come with a marriage license. Listen in, laugh with us, and maybe text your ride-or-die just to say: “I’ve got you.” Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at ChickologyPodcasts@gmail.com
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