Social Media Decoded: How to Know When You’re Ready to Host Your First Event

Host: Michelle Thames
Date: December 2, 2025

Episode Overview

In this focused mini-episode, Michelle Thames addresses a frequently asked question from her community: “How do I know when I’m ready to host my first event?” Drawing from her own early experiences with simple but impactful gatherings, Michelle provides a motivating three-step checklist to help entrepreneurs and creators determine their readiness to step into event hosting as a powerful way to grow their brand, relationships, and visibility.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. The Power of Events in Business Growth

(01:30 – 02:05)

• Michelle reflects on her very first event, emphasizing that greatness doesn’t require a huge budget or a fancy venue.
  • Quote:

    “I’ll never forget the first event I ever hosted. I did not have a big budget. I didn’t have a fancy venue. In fact, it was about 15 or 13 years ago at one of my really good friend’s house… But what I did have was purpose and a desire to bring people together.” (01:38)

• Hosting that first gathering sparked not only more events but led to increased visibility, valuable relationships, new opportunities, and deeper clarity about her own brand.

2. The Three-Step Checklist: Are You Ready?

(02:05 – 03:45)
Michelle breaks down her practical criteria into three clear, actionable steps:

1. Purpose

• Ask yourself: “Why are you gathering people?”
• The motivation should be rooted in a mission, message, or movement—not just following the crowd.
  • Quote:

    “If you can answer, what do I want people to walk away with? You’re ready.” (02:22)

• Purpose provides clarity and energy to move forward, even when details aren’t perfect.

2. Plan

• Having an epic, flawless event is not required.
• What matters is a simple, clear experience:
  • What will attendees learn or experience?
  • How will people interact?
  • What transformation or takeaway are you guiding?
  • What’s the session flow?
• Keep it simple, clear, and emotionally resonant.

3. Promotion

• You must be ready to talk about your event boldly:
  • Consistently post about it.
  • DM your warm audience.
  • Share behind-the-scenes moments.
  • Ask people directly to attend.
  • Treat it as a real brand activation.
  • Quote:

    “If you’re willing to post consistently, DM your warm audience, share behind-the-scenes, ask people to attend and treat it like a real activation, then you’re ready.” (03:20)

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• “Hosting my first event changed everything for me. But I didn’t feel ready. I didn’t feel qualified. I didn’t have every detail figured out.” (01:35, Michelle)
• “Purpose and a desire to bring people together…that one event led to more visibility, more relationships, more opportunities and more clarity. And that is why I’m obsessed with events.” (01:52, Michelle)
• “If you want to see an event in action, my open house for the Elevate and Empower Collective is this week…DM me the word ‘open’ and I’ll send you the link directly.” (03:45, Michelle)

Key Takeaways

• Don’t wait for the perfect moment: You don’t need to have everything figured out. Purpose and intention are your foundation.
• Simple is powerful: Your plan doesn’t need to be complicated; focus on delivering impact.
• Visibility requires action: Promoting your event is just as important as the event itself.

Important Segment Timestamps

• [01:30] – Michelle begins answering the question: “Am I ready to host my first event?”
• [01:38] – Story of Michelle’s first event and its transformative impact.
• [02:05] – Introduction to the three-step readiness checklist.
• [02:22] – Deep dive on “Purpose.”
• [02:50] – Deep dive on “Plan.”
• [03:20] – Deep dive on “Promotion.”
• [03:45] – Invitation to Michelle’s Open House event.

Tone & Energy

Michelle delivers the episode in a warm, encouraging, and authentic tone—combining storytelling with actionable advice. She’s motivating yet practical, reminding listeners that progress is more important than perfection.

Final Encouragement

• “If you’re ready for your first event, it’s time to stop waiting for the perfect moment and just go for it.” (03:50, Michelle)

This mini-episode is a go-to guide if you’re debating when and how to take that leap into hosting your very first event—even if you feel nervous or imperfect! Michelle’s message: Start small, own your purpose, and take real action.