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Episode: Why You’re Still a “Hidden Gem”—And How to Finally Get PAID for Your Expertise w/ Jodi-Kay Edwards
Host: Michelle Thames
Guest: Jodi-Kay Edwards (Brand Strategist & Storytelling Expert)
Date: August 27, 2025

Overview

This empowering episode dives deep into why so many entrepreneurs, coaches, and creators feel like “hidden gems”—talented but overlooked—and how to finally step into visibility, attract opportunities, and get paid for your expertise. Michelle Thames welcomes brand strategist and storytelling powerhouse Jodi-Kay Edwards to break down the mindset and tactical shifts required to break free from invisibility and create a profitable, in-demand brand. With a focus on authenticity over aesthetics, mindset over hustle, and clarity over confusion, this conversation is a step-by-step guide for anyone ready to get seen and paid.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. The Real Reason You’re a “Hidden Gem” (03:00–05:15)

• Mindset Blocks: Jodi-Kay credits much of visibility challenges to internal, mindset-based issues—rooted in discomfort with being seen as oneself.
  • “A lot of these visibility blockages that we have, it’s all starting in the mind… You have to get comfortable being seen for who you really are and accepting that offline, so it’s easier online.” — Jodi-Kay (03:10)
• Let Go of Aesthetics & Perfection: Both hosts debunk myths that you need “the aesthetic home” or perfect setup. Start with what you have.
  • Jodi-Kay started out in a modest apartment: “Brown carpet, brown furniture, no fancy accents—and I’m so happy because that YouTube channel was the gateway to so many other things.” (03:38)
  • Michelle adds: “This is a top 1% podcast because I show up in my room. You do not have to have all this stuff.” (05:15)

2. Clarity, Confidence, and Cash Flow (03:55–05:15)

• Jodi-Kay’s Framework:
  1. Clarity — Know what you want and where you’re going.
  2. Confidence — Execute regardless of resources.
  3. Cash Flow — Create strategy based on clarity & confidence.
  • “If I have clarity, I know I can be successful… If I have clarity and confidence, I can create the strategy where the cash flow comes.” — Jodi-Kay (04:45)

3. Rejecting the Hustle—Choose Alignment (06:41–08:00)

• “Success flow” over hustle culture.
  • “You have to break the chains of what you’ve been told success looks like and redefine what it means for you.” — Jodi-Kay (06:45)
  • Focus on your own path and clarity, not noisy external definitions.

4. How to Start If You Feel Overwhelmed (08:50–13:22)

• Start with YOU: Discover your natural strengths and authentic interests.
  • Jodi’s thought experiment: “If I hand you a mic for a TED Talk, no prep, what comes to mind? Start there.” (09:00)
• Internal Validation over External: Stop chasing validation from others; schedule time to get clear on your strengths and message.
  • “Sometimes all you need is to schedule an hour by yourself… and get real with yourself on who you are.” — Jodi-Kay (10:09)
• Content Categories: Choose how you want to be perceived—educational, inspirational, entertaining—and craft content from there.

5. Building Power & Authenticity in Your Brand (13:22–14:45)

• Being “authentically you” leads to connection and impact—not chasing perfection or universal appeal.
  • Michelle: “Everybody’s not going to be for you when you build this personal brand. Just know that.” (13:53)

6. Monetizing Your Expertise—The Real Steps (14:45–21:07)

• Jodi’s Priority Process:
  1. Clear Messaging: Know how you want to be perceived; develop a clear “I help” statement.
  2. Define Your Niche, but Don’t Over-Niche: Broad or niche focus is OK based on bandwidth, but starting narrow helps.
  3. Craft Your Online Identity: Be strategic about what you share—curation over oversharing.
     • “At any given time, there’s hundreds of different versions of your brand because there’s hundreds of different people perceiving you.” — Jodi-Kay (15:33)
  4. Consistency & Storytelling: Consistency in content, with a story that shows your value, is key—before brand deals, platforms pay attention to ongoing work.
  5. Get Comfortable With Monetization: Mindset and clarity come before tactical actions like pitching for brand deals or selling products.
  • “If no one understands what you do and how you can help them, you can’t make money. That’s why I say start with messaging.” — Jodi-Kay (15:20)
  • “I do mindset with strategy, because ‘how’ means nothing without clarity or intention.” (20:35)

7. Action Steps—What to Do TODAY (21:55–25:02)

• Schedule CEO Time: Set aside dedicated, distraction-free time to plan and reflect.
  • “You are the CEO of your life. You need to hire and fire accordingly—including your own old personalities, habits, beliefs.” — Jodi-Kay (22:05)
• Write Down Your Plan: Even a simple process or list starts your structure, helps tracking, and enables scaling.
  • “Write it down. Most business owners…have SOPs—standard operating procedures. I teach entrepreneurs how to do that for themselves.” (22:20)
• Track & Tweak: Use your written plan to test, track, and refine what gets results.

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• “Visibility is really you being able to accept who you are and…get over your own embarrassment… That’s other people’s version of success, not your own.” — Jodi-Kay (04:10)
• “If you can see this on YouTube, you might want to go check it out… But yes, you don’t need all that stuff. You just need to show up consistently.” — Michelle (06:04)
• “There’s always a solution… If you’re confused, you’re overwhelmed; confusion comes from the devil. You’re going to listen to the voices of others who are not on the same path.” — Jodi-Kay (12:30)
• “You can do this on your own. You just need clarity, intention, and consistency.” — Jodi-Kay (11:50)
• “If you’re at chapter one, don’t compare yourself to someone who’s been building since 2009.” — Michelle (08:24)

Important Timestamps

• [03:00] — Biggest reasons entrepreneurs remain “hidden gems”
• [04:45] — Jodi-Kay’s Clarity, Confidence, & Cash Flow framework
• [06:41] — Why “hustle” is outdated; focus on alignment and redefining success
• [08:50] — Mindset shifts for new brand builders & getting started
• [14:45] — Step-by-step on monetizing your expertise
• [21:55] — #1 action step to level up your brand: Scheduling CEO time & writing it down

Connect with Jodi-Kay Edwards

• Website for Jodi’s free 30-day visibility challenge: jodikayedwards.com/ceo (14:55)
• Social: @JodiKEdwards on Instagram, Threads, TikTok, LinkedIn (25:26)

Final Takeaway

This episode is a powerful roadmap for anyone stuck in invisibility, blending honest, “no gatekeeping” advice with strategic steps and mindset shifts. The clear message: You don’t need perfection, a huge following, or endless hustle—you need to accept yourself, clarify your message, show up consistently, and make a plan. Visibility, confidence, and monetization all follow.

“Write it down. Decide how you want to be perceived, what you do, who you help—and start showing up for yourself. The rest will flow.” — Jodi-Kay (22:20)