Podcast
Sockeytome
Hosted by Detto · EN
This is a collection of friends talking about anything, something or nothing depending on life at the time. It will be nothing short of embarrassingly hilarious. We are building from a start up and attempting to become something of sustinence. Join us along the journey from here and watch this little thing grow (giggity). I am fairly certain that you will be nothing less than entertained. It should be a great time.
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The Cranky Day, Real Talk
Oct 800:26:40Tap to summarizeFan Mail Me BrrrruuuuunnndenBad-day energy hit like a freight train, and we decided to ride it—full throttle, zero filter, and just enough humor to keep the wheels on. We start before sunrise with the Apple Harvest fritter mission, a line that refuses to move, and the kind of small-town chaos that turns into family lore. From there we plunge into the noisy churn of social feeds, a headline spiral that somehow says a lot while telling us nothing, and the creeping feeling that scrolling offers connection without the comfort of being known.We get honest about the middle-age shift—less patience, more pattern recognition, and the urge to bail on conversations that don’t go anywhere. Is it cynicism, or just wisdom with sore feet? We debate whether scrolling equals loneliness, how broken processes at work drain our empathy, and why the simplest systems—paperwork done right, lines that move fairly—can keep whole communities sane. There’s real texture here: the smell of fritters before dawn, the stress of a warehouse with no documentation, and a kid turning pastries into pocket money. It’s local and human in all the ways the internet can’t fake.We even poke at the “prophecy” angle—The Simpsons, Back to the Future, E.T.—and ask whether pop culture predicts the future or just mirrors our anxieties so precisely that it feels like foresight. Either way, we land on the same truth: stories shape how we see the world. If our feeds train us to expect outrage, we’ll find it everywhere. So we practice a different habit—trade spectacle for substance, swap doomscrolling for a call or a walk, and keep one eye out for the little rituals that make life feel real again.If this hit home, subscribe, share it with a friend who needs a laugh, and leave a review with your take: does scrolling make you feel connected or alone? We’re listening—and we’ll bring the fritters next time.Support the showCome back every Tuesday for a new episode each week. You won't be dissappointed, I'll tell you that for free. Subscribe and like us over at sockeytome.com as we begin the best part of our journey into podcasting yet, interacting with all of you. Give us your email as we begin to have more promotions and contests along with my personal favorite, trivia. Thanks everyone and as always, be good.
Transcribe →@babesoverpar
Sep 2400:01:23Tap to summarizeFan Mail Me BrrrruuuuunnndenSupport the showCome back every Tuesday for a new episode each week. You won't be dissappointed, I'll tell you that for free. Subscribe and like us over at sockeytome.com as we begin the best part of our journey into podcasting yet, interacting with all of you. Give us your email as we begin to have more promotions and contests along with my personal favorite, trivia. Thanks everyone and as always, be good.
Transcribe →The Missing Balance
Sep 1800:28:01Tap to summarizeFan Mail Me BrrrruuuuunnndenBalance is becoming an endangered concept in our increasingly polarized world. What happens when we lose the ability to handle differing opinions? The tragic consequences can be seen all around us, from political violence to everyday rudeness.This raw, unfiltered conversation dives deep into why our society is struggling with fundamental human interactions. When disagreement leads to aggression rather than discussion, we've regressed to toddler-like behavior - unable to process being wrong or hearing contrary views. The hosts explore how modern parenting approaches may contribute to this problem. Trophy culture, where children receive rewards just for participation, creates adults who never learned to handle failure or disappointment. Without experiencing these necessary setbacks, people develop rigid worldviews that can't accommodate challenge or nuance.Social media algorithms only exacerbate these tendencies, creating echo chambers that reinforce existing beliefs while filtering out contradictory information. As one host pointedly observes, "Your feed just keeps shoving shit down your throat." Meanwhile, the rise of AI threatens to further blur the line between truth and fiction, making genuine understanding even more difficult.Perhaps most concerning is the disappearance of basic courtesy and kindness from everyday interactions. Simple acts like saying "thank you" when someone holds a door have become increasingly rare. These small moments of incivility reflect a broader societal shift away from mutual respect and consideration.The conversation takes a particularly poignant turn when discussing humility and patience - qualities desperately needed yet increasingly rare in public life. The ability to admit when you're wrong and to genuinely listen to others might be our only path forward through these divided times.Join us for this thought-provoking discussion about where we're heading as a society and what we might do to restore balance, humility, and human connection to our interactions. Subscribe and share your thoughts - we're building this community together.Support the showCome back every Tuesday for a new episode each week. You won't be dissappointed, I'll tell you that for free. Subscribe and like us over at sockeytome.com as we begin the best part of our journey into podcasting yet, interacting with all of you. Give us your email as we begin to have more promotions and contests along with my personal favorite, trivia. Thanks everyone and as always, be good.
Transcribe →The Oxygen Addiction
Sep 900:28:19Tap to summarizeFan Mail Me BrrrruuuuunnndenFantasy football season has arrived, and with it comes a fascinating exploration of our society's contradictory relationship with gambling. As our podcast hosts welcome new players to their fantasy league, the conversation quickly evolves into a thought-provoking examination of who gets to decide what constitutes problematic behavior.The absurdity reaches its peak when one host shares his experience in a mandatory class where participants are essentially labeled as gambling addicts for engaging in fantasy sports—the same activities now heavily promoted through mainstream advertising. His brilliant response when asked why people visit casinos—"I'm addicted to the oxygen"—perfectly captures the ridiculous double standard at play.We dissect how gambling has transformed from taboo to mainstream entertainment, with celebrities like Kevin Hart constantly appearing in betting app commercials during every football broadcast. Yet simultaneously, individuals participating in fantasy leagues face scrutiny and judgment from systems designed to label rather than understand.Through personal anecdotes and sharp observations, we highlight the hypocrisy of a society that profits from gambling while stigmatizing those who participate. From state-sponsored lotteries to the ubiquitous betting platforms, the message is clear: gambling is only a problem when someone else decides it is.Whether you're a fantasy sports enthusiast, a casual gambler, or someone who's experienced judgment for your recreational choices, this episode offers a refreshing perspective on personal agency and the arbitrary nature of societal labels. Join us for an honest, often humorous look at who really gets to define our problems, and why that matters more than you might think.Support the showCome back every Tuesday for a new episode each week. You won't be dissappointed, I'll tell you that for free. Subscribe and like us over at sockeytome.com as we begin the best part of our journey into podcasting yet, interacting with all of you. Give us your email as we begin to have more promotions and contests along with my personal favorite, trivia. Thanks everyone and as always, be good.
Transcribe →The Marriage Without Romance
Sep 300:25:18Tap to summarizeFan Mail Me BrrrruuuuunnndenWhat if marriage wasn't about romance at all, but simply a practical arrangement between friends? In this thought-provoking episode, we explore the surprising statistics behind marriage success rates and propose an unconventional approach that might make perfect sense in today's world.Did you know lesbian marriages have the highest divorce rates, followed by heterosexual unions, while male-male marriages boast the lowest rates of dissolution? We dive into these fascinating patterns and unpack what they reveal about gender dynamics, relationship expectations, and society's impact on how we connect with each other. As one host bluntly puts it, "Men are just too lazy to file for divorce," sparking a heated but insightful debate about why approximately 75% of heterosexual divorces are initiated by women.The conversation takes an unexpected turn when we contemplate the practical benefits of marrying your best friend—regardless of gender or romantic involvement. Tax advantages, health insurance, inheritance rights, social security benefits, shared property... With so many practical perks, why not form a marriage of convenience with someone you genuinely enjoy spending time with? "Why wouldn't you enjoy the benefits of being married to your honest-to-God best friend?" We envision a world where marriage partners support each other while maintaining separate romantic lives, challenging traditional notions of what matrimony must entail.Whether you're questioning conventional relationship structures or simply curious about alternative approaches to partnership, this episode offers a refreshing perspective that might change how you think about marriage altogether. Subscribe to hear more unconventional conversations, and head over to someassembly.net, our sponsor, to check out their offerings!Support the showCome back every Tuesday for a new episode each week. You won't be dissappointed, I'll tell you that for free. Subscribe and like us over at sockeytome.com as we begin the best part of our journey into podcasting yet, interacting with all of you. Give us your email as we begin to have more promotions and contests along with my personal favorite, trivia. Thanks everyone and as always, be good.
Transcribe →The Closet of Quirks
Aug 2600:25:48Tap to summarizeFan Mail Me BrrrruuuuunnndenEver caught yourself doing something weird when you thought no one was looking? You're not alone. In this hilarious and refreshingly honest episode, Detto and T-Bot tear down the walls of privacy to reveal the strange, quirky, and sometimes embarrassing habits we all have but rarely discuss in public.The conversation kicks off with Detto confessing to talking to himself in various accents and rehearsing arguments that haven't even happened yet. T-Bot joins in with her own admissions about verbally beating herself up after making mistakes. What follows is a judgment-free exploration of the peculiar behaviors that make us human – from avoiding grocery stores to dodge small talk, to judging strangers based on their shopping cart contents, to the awkward discomfort of receiving compliments.As they dive deeper, the hosts unpack how our private behaviors reflect broader aspects of our personalities and social anxieties. Detto describes his mind as constantly racing with thoughts "shooting off in every direction," while T-Bot shares her habit of addressing everyone as "Bud" to avoid the embarrassment of forgetting names. These candid revelations create a sense of connection through shared experiences that listeners will find both entertaining and surprisingly relatable.The episode challenges societal norms and questions why we feel the need to hide these harmless quirks when "weirdness is coming out" and becoming "just the norm." By normalizing behaviors that people might otherwise feel embarrassed about, Detto and T-Bot create a space where listeners can feel less alone in their own uniqueness.Ready to feel better about your own weird habits? Listen now, and don't forget to subscribe to connect with us. We'd love to hear about your own private behaviors that might not be so strange after all!Support the showCome back every Tuesday for a new episode each week. You won't be dissappointed, I'll tell you that for free. Subscribe and like us over at sockeytome.com as we begin the best part of our journey into podcasting yet, interacting with all of you. Give us your email as we begin to have more promotions and contests along with my personal favorite, trivia. Thanks everyone and as always, be good.
Transcribe →The Pardoned Enabler
Aug 2000:26:13Tap to summarizeFan Mail Me BrrrruuuuunnndenSomething stinks about the Ghislaine Maxwell case, and we're not afraid to say it. From her curious transfer to a "cream puff prison" in Bryan, Texas, to the undocumented special meeting with Todd Blanche, the whole situation reeks of privilege and protection.We tackle the elephant in the room – is Maxwell being set up for a pardon? And if so, what does that tell us about justice in America? The pattern is disturbing: people connected to the Epstein case dying of "brief illnesses," records disappearing, and powerful figures seemingly untouched by scandal. While playing devil's advocate, we ask the uncomfortable question: what if she didn't know anything? How can we be certain of anything when media narratives shape our understanding?The conversation takes unexpected turns as we explore how money and connections create different justice systems for different people. Bill Clinton's past indiscretions, mysterious deaths surrounding the case, and the possibility that this entire media circus serves as distraction from something even bigger – it's all on the table. We don't claim to have all the answers, but we're asking questions that deserve attention.Beyond the conspiracy theories lies a fundamental truth about power and accountability. When the wealthy and connected play by different rules, public trust erodes. Whether Maxwell receives a pardon or serves her sentence, her case reveals uncomfortable truths about how justice functions in America. Listen in as we attempt to separate fact from fiction in this tangled web of power, privilege, and possible criminality.Have thoughts on the Maxwell case or suggestions for future topics? Visit SakiToomeypodcast.com – we're ready to dive into whatever's on your mind.Support the showCome back every Tuesday for a new episode each week. You won't be dissappointed, I'll tell you that for free. Subscribe and like us over at sockeytome.com as we begin the best part of our journey into podcasting yet, interacting with all of you. Give us your email as we begin to have more promotions and contests along with my personal favorite, trivia. Thanks everyone and as always, be good.
Transcribe →The Snapchat Stalkers
Aug 1200:23:20Tap to summarizeFan Mail Me BrrrruuuuunnndenWe return after a three-week hiatus to discuss the challenges of balancing podcast consistency with our personal lives and summer vacations. Our conversation explores the unexpected moments when fans found us during our supposed break and the different ways vacation impacts our work lives.• Explaining our three-week absence due to summer vacations and busy schedules• Sharing stories of unexpected fan encounters during vacation with teenagers and their parents seeking us out• Discussing the challenge of maintaining podcast consistency while having full-time jobs and personal lives• Exploring how different job types (remote work vs. physical labor) create different vacation experiences• Examining how podcast listenership naturally dips during summer months and increases after Labor Day• Acknowledging the importance of occasionally prioritizing yourself over consistent content creation• Recounting a heated go-kart racing dispute from vacation activitiesCheck out our website at Sockeytome.com where you can email us with questions, comments, or ideas on how we can better advertise the podcast.Support the showCome back every Tuesday for a new episode each week. You won't be dissappointed, I'll tell you that for free. Subscribe and like us over at sockeytome.com as we begin the best part of our journey into podcasting yet, interacting with all of you. Give us your email as we begin to have more promotions and contests along with my personal favorite, trivia. Thanks everyone and as always, be good.
Transcribe →The Wet Beaver Lifestyle
Jul 1500:30:16Tap to summarizeFan Mail Me BrrrruuuuunnndenThe idealized nuclear family of the 1950s – with its working dad, homemaking mom, and 2.5 children – has become increasingly rare in today's world. But what exactly constitutes a "family" now, and who gets to define it?We tackle this question head-on, examining how family structures have evolved beyond the "Leave It To Beaver" model into something far more diverse and inclusive. From blended families and same-sex parents to chosen family connections and co-parenting arrangements, we explore how "nuclear family" has transformed into "whatever configuration provides love and support."Social media adds another fascinating dimension to this conversation. Those perfect vacation photos flooding your feed? Total lies. We discuss the exhausting performance of family perfection online and how it creates unrealistic expectations for everyone. What if we all started posting the messy, chaotic reality instead of the curated highlight reel?The power dynamics within families have shifted dramatically as well. Children now often possess technological knowledge their parents lack, leading to situations where six-year-olds run family meetings with PowerPoint presentations. We share hilariously real emails from listeners navigating these strange new waters, including one from a parent whose child drafted a co-parenting agreement between them and their spouse!Throughout our conversation, we return to one central truth: a nuclear family is exactly what you make of it. The configuration matters far less than the connection. Whether related by blood, marriage, choice, or circumstance, what makes a family "nuclear" is the central role these relationships play in our lives.Subscribe now and join our conversation about modern family life in all its beautiful, complicated glory. And please share your own "real" family photos – messy hair, sunburns, arguments and all!Support the showCome back every Tuesday for a new episode each week. You won't be dissappointed, I'll tell you that for free. Subscribe and like us over at sockeytome.com as we begin the best part of our journey into podcasting yet, interacting with all of you. Give us your email as we begin to have more promotions and contests along with my personal favorite, trivia. Thanks everyone and as always, be good.
Transcribe →The Act of Getting Caught
Jul 800:26:14Tap to summarizeFan Mail Me BrrrruuuuunnndenBodies betray us in the most embarrassing ways as we age, and nobody talks about it quite like Detto and Casey on this hilarious episode of Sockeytome. What starts as a confession about Detto's inability to swallow pills spirals into a remarkable journey through the indignities of growing older. You'll hear the play-by-play of Detto's dramatic face-plant at first base during a softball game – complete with torn hamstring and dirt-covered dignity. It's a moment so perfectly emblematic of that jarring disconnect between what our minds think we can do and what our aging bodies actually deliver.The conversation veers into strange territory when the hosts dissect a viral story about Disney World's dress code policies. After a woman claimed she was forced to purchase an expensive t-shirt to cover her sports bra, Detto can't help but compare it to his own experience of being unceremoniously ejected from Disney for jumping into a lake. The double standards! The injustice! The alligators he narrowly avoided!Perhaps most revealing is when our hosts answer listener questions about their most embarrassing habits and weird rituals. From Detto's meticulous requirements for perfectly flat peanut butter surfaces to Casey's private conversations with her mirror reflection, these quirky confessions remind us that we all develop strange behaviors that would baffle our friends if witnessed. And yes, you'll learn far more than you ever expected about what happens when someone walks in on Detto during personal time.This episode offers the perfect blend of cringe-worthy confessions and laugh-out-loud moments that will make you feel infinitely better about your own embarrassing quirks. Subscribe now and join the conversation by sending your questions to Sockeytome.com – we promise your secrets are in good hands with these two!Support the showCome back every Tuesday for a new episode each week. You won't be dissappointed, I'll tell you that for free. Subscribe and like us over at sockeytome.com as we begin the best part of our journey into podcasting yet, interacting with all of you. Give us your email as we begin to have more promotions and contests along with my personal favorite, trivia. Thanks everyone and as always, be good.
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