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Doug Benson
We will keep on.
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Becky Lynch
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Becky Lynch
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Becky Lynch
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Doug Benson
Hey, everybody. The golden retriever of comedy tour is almost wrapped up. This is the last full weekend of the tour, so come on out. This weekend. I'm going to be in Munhall, Pennsylvania on Friday, Cleveland on Saturday and Columbus on Sunday. I know it's Wrestlemania weekend, but hey, we'll watch it during the day, the next day, right? You guys won't have any spoilers for me. And I can watch it on Monday. It'll probably get spoiled, but I'll still watch it. Irregardless. Is that even a word? Anyways, come on out. Golden Retriever comedy Tour. Friday, Munhall, Pennsylvania. Saturday, Cleveland, Ohio. Sunday, Columbus, Ohio State. Dancehoter.com for tickets, go get them right now. And then one final show of the golden retriever of comedy tour. Actually, we've just added another one, technically two more shows of the golden retriever comedy. There's Grand Falls Casino in Larchwood, Iowa. That's April 24th. And then before we tape, June 13th, June 5th in New Jersey. That's the week before we tape.
Becky Lynch
Ooh.
Doug Benson
And then I'm going to tape special. And after that, coming back to clubs, baby. Going to write that new hour I'm talking about. I'm going to be in Batavia, Illinois, at the comedy Vault. Stanford, New York for New York comedy club. Albany, Funny bone, the port in Baltimore. All those are coming up as I work on my new hour. So as we end the tour, I taped a special and then I'm going to go out. That's what the rest of 2026 is going to be is me writing a brand new hour. So come check me out in comedy clubs, much less cheaper. And I'm sorry about the ticket price of the the. But I'm gonna be Back in clubs, baby. Battle and check spots. Two shows a night. Back at it. Danceoder.com for tickets. Because I want to talk to you about Billions.
Becky Lynch
Oh, great. Oh, yeah.
Doug Benson
Billions was so fun. And I up so bad. I haven't seen you since then. It's been a whole worldwide pandemic.
Becky Lynch
Oh, yeah.
Doug Benson
I saw you right before the world shut down.
Becky Lynch
Yeah.
Doug Benson
Isn't that crazy?
Becky Lynch
That's insane.
Doug Benson
Yeah.
Becky Lynch
So what was it? It was November.
Doug Benson
November of 2019.
Becky Lynch
Yes.
Doug Benson
And we filmed the episode at Axe Capital on the soundstage where you tossed Maggie Siff.
Becky Lynch
Yeah.
Doug Benson
That was awesome.
Becky Lynch
Well, she just tossed me.
Doug Benson
Oh, yeah, that's what it was.
Becky Lynch
Me.
Doug Benson
Yeah, she. Was she taking a bump?
Becky Lynch
She's not taking a bump.
Doug Benson
Maggie Sif ain't taking.
Becky Lynch
She don't need to take bumps. You know, She's a proper thespian.
Doug Benson
Yeah.
Becky Lynch
Yeah. Was that me?
Doug Benson
Was that. No, you were great. You came in. I'll tell you right now, everyone on Billions was blown away that you came in and had your shit completely memorized front and back. Because I don't think you. I don't act a lot and stuff, but I don't think you realize a lot of actors don't have their memorized.
Becky Lynch
Oh, really?
Doug Benson
I've been on set sometimes, and you've been like, there's, like, guest stars or whatever. You're like, did you even read the script?
Becky Lynch
That's the gig.
Doug Benson
Yeah, the whole gig.
Becky Lynch
Know the lines.
Doug Benson
One of my favorite, like, Venn diagram things about comics and wrestlers is that the amount of that we have to take on the way up makes it to where you get one of those gigs. You go, just do the thing.
Becky Lynch
Do the work.
Doug Benson
You don't have to do the bad part.
Becky Lynch
Yeah.
Doug Benson
You don't have to do the traveling or. I mean, I can't imagine.
Becky Lynch
They're nice to you. They cater to you. They give you food.
Doug Benson
They don't throw at you.
Becky Lynch
Yeah, no, it's wonderful.
Doug Benson
I had to get comfortable with someone else making me my coffee.
Becky Lynch
Oh, yeah.
Doug Benson
When I was on cast there, because I'd be like, I'll just go make it. And they're like, you're about to film a scene. And I was like, yeah, but I can go make my coffee. And they're like, no, it's a PA's job is to do that. When you get to the wwe, which is, you know, the pinnacle of wrestling, is there stuff that you carry with you from the Indies or from, like, stuff when you were coming up that you're like, I don't have to do that anymore. Like I mean, getting your own gear,
Becky Lynch
I mean this politely.
Doug Benson
Sure.
Becky Lynch
We're not catered to really at all. No. Maybe there's a couple of folks and as you get more into it, like you put up with less, but nobody's. We pay for our own gear.
Doug Benson
Really.
Becky Lynch
We pay for our own gear? Yeah. No, they're not getting us gear. We, we buy our own gear because we get by our own rental cars. We buy our own hotels. We are in charge of booking those hotels and booking those rental cars. Nobody's. We, I think. And I think that's why actually when we go to work at other places, whether it be billions or whatever.
Doug Benson
Sure.
Becky Lynch
People are usually pleasantly surprised at how self easygoing we are. And, and because we're not used to being catered to. So we, we don't expect anything. We don't expect anybody to, to look after us because standardly so self sufficient.
Doug Benson
Can I tell you, as a lifelong wrestling fan, the hotel thing blows my
Becky Lynch
mind that we have to book around.
Doug Benson
You're looking at like Hilton points the same way I am.
Becky Lynch
But think about this. Now we have mobile phones where we can book it.
Doug Benson
Sure.
Becky Lynch
Think about the old days.
Doug Benson
I mean they had to call ahead and go like, hey Rada, I need a room for King Kong Bundy.
Becky Lynch
Exactly.
Doug Benson
Do you have a, like if you're a big guy, you know, wrestler, huge guys, you know, obviously like all the Andre the Giant stories about being uncomfortable in hotels. But some of these guys you work with are so big. I've been in hotels and they go, we don't have king size, we only have queen size beds. What are these guys? These guys just go, well, not sleeping comfortable tonight.
Becky Lynch
Yes, that's it. And then you have to bump the next day. But like you also just gps. There's no gps. You just had to have maps.
Doug Benson
Yeah.
Becky Lynch
And then hard plane tickets.
Doug Benson
Oh yeah. Like, like if you lose a plane ticket.
Becky Lynch
Yes.
Doug Benson
That's why I think I always love those stories about a guy leaving a belt, a championship belt in a hotel room or something. But I think to me as a wrestling fan, one of the coolest moments pre GPS and all that stuff is if a car of wrestlers got lost in your town and if you just like worked at a gas station and you're like, the Bushwhackers wanted to know how to get the i95, but that's got to be mind blowing.
Becky Lynch
Whether they get lost or not, the Bushwhackers still got to fill up their tank of gas and they still got to get snacks, you know. Crazy. Yeah.
Doug Benson
Do you try to put on, like, a hat or, like, something to, like, kind of COVID up if you're. When you're on the road just to be, like, not get noticed?
Becky Lynch
So back in the when. So now, thankfully, my husband and I have a bus. Right. So we're. We're.
Doug Benson
We're.
Becky Lynch
We're traveling in luxury.
Doug Benson
I love it.
Becky Lynch
We're very lucky.
Doug Benson
Cool tour bus. Do you have it wrapped?
Becky Lynch
Yes.
Doug Benson
Like, with your face on the outside?
Becky Lynch
Not. No.
Doug Benson
Okay.
Becky Lynch
No, I do. No discretion, Cody Rhodes. I do not want people to know what our bus looks like. No.
Doug Benson
Because it is drawing crazy attention.
Becky Lynch
Yes. And God bless. His poor bus driver Matt is then inundated at gas stations. Who's on your bus? Well, he doesn't have to ask. They don't have to ask a question.
Doug Benson
Look, Cody in there yelling for him to get off the bus.
Becky Lynch
Nobody in there. It's just Matt trying to take a nap. God bless him. He's driven country.
Doug Benson
Yeah.
Becky Lynch
Wait, what was.
Doug Benson
So we were talking about, oh, you're
Becky Lynch
traveling in the bus, but no. So. So there used to be a dress code as well for women. It was club wear. So you're in. And thankfully, that's gone by the wayside.
Doug Benson
Yeah.
Becky Lynch
When we were. But so we were coming out of events.
Doug Benson
Sure.
Becky Lynch
That end at 11pm you're driving four hours. So two hours.
Doug Benson
Had a ladder match or something.
Becky Lynch
Exactly. And now you have to get into your tiny little frock and your high heels, and you're driving through Corbin, Kentucky, and you to get out, and you got to fill your car with gas, and you're in this little, little hoochie dress, and you.
Doug Benson
And.
Becky Lynch
And like, just. There's no discretion.
Doug Benson
That's crazy.
Becky Lynch
I remember getting in trouble for going through the airport in a pair of jeans and a tank top. Apparently, it looked like I was in gym attire. Apparently, I had to be in the morning dressed in my tiny little frock. And if anybody went through the airport
Doug Benson
and if you've ever lived with a woman, you know, one of the things you see is getting ready for women versus men is, like, how much my fiance has to go through just to walk the dog in the morning. She goes, I'm not walking out there without makeup. I got to put makeup on my face and walk the dog. And I just roll out of bed and go, yeah, I'll just walk the dog. I don't give a shit.
Becky Lynch
She's a g. I don't do that.
Doug Benson
You just go, fuck.
Becky Lynch
I Used to, yeah. And now I screw it. Well. Because when I look like a homeless job, nobody. Nobody. Nobody thinks that's regulation.
Doug Benson
That's actually great. It works for your advant.
Becky Lynch
Yeah, exactly.
Doug Benson
I went completely undetected. When. When did you and Seth decide to get the bus? When were you like, hey, let's. Let's just like. Is that like a. A couple's splurge? Do you go, we should get a tour bus?
Becky Lynch
Well, yeah. Yeah.
Doug Benson
Was it after the baby?
Becky Lynch
No, before, actually. It was. Actually, what happened was we got it in December of 2019, and we're like, we should try it out, you know?
Doug Benson
Yeah.
Becky Lynch
Did you rent it then? Yes.
Doug Benson
Okay.
Becky Lynch
And I think then. And then the world shut down.
Doug Benson
Yeah.
Becky Lynch
It was like, well, do we hold on to it? But by then I was pregnant, so then it was like, oh, well, we need it for when the kid comes along for sure. Yeah. Because otherwise we can't do daughter.
Doug Benson
Like, the bus. No, she doesn't.
Becky Lynch
No. All of her friends, if they see the boss, are like, can I go on the bus? It's so cool.
Doug Benson
It's a moving house.
Becky Lynch
And to her, it's. It's. It's. It's. It's confinement. It's a prison cell. It's so small, and she can't run around. Like, she can, but, like, it's not. There's. There's no novelty.
Doug Benson
So to her, the boss is like, why would I want to do that? I want to be at my house.
Becky Lynch
Yeah. I want to be at my house where all my toys are. And, well, like, when she was younger, we had so many toys on the bus. Now we don't have anything, but. Because she doesn't come with us as often, so. But for her, there's no novelty. It's not like, oh, this house on wheels is very. You have a kitchen on wheels. What is wrong? A bathroom? Yes.
Doug Benson
You can have sleepovers with your friends on a bus.
Becky Lynch
Yes.
Doug Benson
My uncle had a camper on the back of his truck, and when we went to my uncle's house, I was like, can I sleep in that camper?
Becky Lynch
Of course.
Doug Benson
And he was like, why the fuck would you want to sleep in the camper? It was above the cab. I thought that was awesome that you could climb up and the bed was up there. And my mom was like, yeah, go ahead. And then I slept up there. And I was like, oh, that does kind of suck. But I remember being a kid and being, like, so hyped to sleep in the camper, being like, oh, my God, you Could drive anywhere. I could sleep up there, and you'd be driving. So I kind of. And then you do it. It wears off. And you're like, okay, I kind of get why. But were you disappointed when she was like, I don't want to go on the bus anymore?
Becky Lynch
Yeah, because you're like, come on, it's a boss.
Doug Benson
It's a cool boss.
Becky Lynch
It's a cool boss. And then you said, you sound like.
Doug Benson
You sound like an old fogey. Where you go, I used to have to drive in rental cars. We wished for a bus. Do you miss the rental car days?
Becky Lynch
There's a. There's. Yeah, there's a reference to, you know, like, getting in the car, driving, having those chats and ye. No. You can lie in bed and you can watch a movie. And that's so. I mean, look, the height of luxury. It is. Yeah. It's so nice. Very, very fortunate. Do not take for granted, but there's a bonding that happens. And you listen to the radio and different tunes.
Doug Benson
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Becky Lynch
It's the best.
Doug Benson
It was so good. We were sitting there eating the Subway and we were like. We got to the venue.
Becky Lynch
How good was it?
Doug Benson
It was so good.
Becky Lynch
Was it? It was the most delicious sandwich you'd ever had.
Doug Benson
Teriyaki chicken still delivers. Yeah, still unbelievable. But we got to the venue and they were like giving us dinner menus or whatever. And the tour manager was like, where'd you guys eat today? We were like, subway. And he was like, why did you do that? And all three of us were like, no, no, no. It was fantastic.
Becky Lynch
Of course it was.
Doug Benson
You watched him go like, oh, my God. The road really warps your brain sometimes.
Becky Lynch
But no, it's amazing.
Doug Benson
But I loved it because you know what? It was. I guess it just was so long. It was a nostalgia. I bet if I ate it once or twice more, I'd be like, what am I doing? But that one meal, that lunch, we really were sitting around biting it being like, Subway, like this rule.
Becky Lynch
Did you get the honey wheat bread?
Doug Benson
Oh, I got the. I got the regular.
Becky Lynch
All right, all right.
Doug Benson
But one thing I do love about Texas, and this is like a thing that's by the wayside that when I can experience it, they have styrofoam cups and I just love it.
Becky Lynch
I thought you were going to say bookies.
Doug Benson
No, bookies are. I miss bookies. It's. I think that's what we need to come back to.
Becky Lynch
Yeah.
Doug Benson
Scare the out of gambling addicts.
Becky Lynch
Oh, no, wait.
Doug Benson
Oh, I thought, you know, the.
Becky Lynch
The. The. The. The.
Doug Benson
This might be lost in translation. The.
Becky Lynch
What's the gas station? Bookies. All right.
Liberty Mutual Spokesperson
Buckies.
Becky Lynch
Yeah, bookies. Is that.
Doug Benson
No, Bucky's is. I thought you're talking about bookies. I was like, let's break some kneecaps.
Becky Lynch
Okay.
Doug Benson
Yeah, we need to go. No, Bucky's bookies.
Becky Lynch
The gas station.
Doug Benson
It's two much of tourist trap now.
Becky Lynch
Oh, okay.
Doug Benson
We pulled into the park, we saw Buc EE's. It was one of those things where I was like, one of the guys I was with had never been. So we're like, did you gotta try? There's all these snacks that are great snacks. And we stopped at the BUC EE's and it was like, it looked like a Walmart on Christmas Eve. Like, how many people were there? And we were running. We were already running late to Houston. So we were like, I can't. I've experienced Buc EE's. It's great. It's too busy now.
Becky Lynch
You think it's overrated.
Doug Benson
It got. It got too popular.
Becky Lynch
Wow. That is wild that it has become a tourist destination.
Doug Benson
That shows you where we're at.
Becky Lynch
America.
Doug Benson
Yeah. They're like, oh, my God, a gas station. I gotta go get some gas.
Becky Lynch
It is so much beef jerky.
Doug Benson
It's so much beef jerky. And also the. I mean, the. The. The nuggets that they have, the little popcorn. They have so many great little snacks. But it's not worth missing a show in Houston. And by the way, when we got to Houston, we were like, if we would have stopped at Buc, we might have been on the show. Have you almost missed a show because of travel?
Becky Lynch
Yes.
Doug Benson
Like a big show?
Becky Lynch
No, not a big show, but like a show. Like, I've showed up. I've showed up, I think, like, at intermission because of travel.
Doug Benson
Really?
Becky Lynch
Yeah. Yeah.
Doug Benson
Have you ever had it where you get to the venue, gear on, right to the ring like that kind of?
Becky Lynch
Yeah. Yeah, I think so. Yeah. Yeah.
Doug Benson
How stressful is that?
Becky Lynch
I have pretty stressful. But also, there's fun in that. I love a bit of chaos.
Doug Benson
Yeah.
Becky Lynch
You know, like a little bit of, oh, my God, anything can happen here. Like, let's see how much of a professional you are. Like, let's go back to the old school. Let's call it in the ring, a little bit of a worker, you know what I mean? Like, what's gonna happen? And anything good that happens is better than the most planned match you've ever had. Like a single simple called on the fly match. Oh, it's fantastic. It's just. It is. It. It's really the root of what we do, you know? So when you realize that you. You still have that skill, even though we don't use it very often, you just feel like, I'm such a professional
Doug Benson
in that kind of sense. Like working with someone, calling it in the ring. Is there people that you like, you know, that you just have great chemistry with that. When the higher ups go, hey, I think we're going to do an angle with this, with this person, and you. Are you, like, about to put on a God, this.
Becky Lynch
Yes, of course.
Doug Benson
Yeah.
Becky Lynch
Yeah.
Doug Benson
Do you have that meeting backstage after they tell you, like, hey, we're gonna put you in a. In a program with this person for this long, and you go, you ready to blow the. Blow the out of the water? Is there that, like, kind of camaraderie of like we're gonna put on a banger?
Becky Lynch
Oh, gosh, yeah, I think so. Yeah. Like, but usually, usually it doesn't kind of happen in. In that kind of a manner where it's so concrete, like, card subject to change. So, like, you might hear, all right, you're gonna go into a story with Bailey. Bailey, right, and shout out Bailey, awful woman that she is, and horrible, horrible, awful.
Doug Benson
One of the.
Becky Lynch
One of the worst human beings on the planet. Selfish. She is as as can be. We need to get rid of people like that in the business. So. So, yeah, so you go, all right, we're gonna. You're gonna be working with Bailey and we're gonna be doing an angle up to WrestleMania, and then you're gonna have a blow off at WrestleMania. And then you go, all right, well, what's gonna happen next week? And then it goes, okay, well, next week you're now working with Alondra Blaze, and. And then the following week you're gonna be in a story with Obafemi, you know, so it may.
Doug Benson
It may changes all the time.
Becky Lynch
Could change all the time. So I don't think you ever really get into the groove until you're in the groove, you know, until you're, like, cemented into it. You can't really go off. We're gonna kill this because, well, we don't know. We don't know that this is gonna happen or how long it's going to happen. And then, of course, you could be in that story with Bailey. And then typical of Bailey, she might blow out knee, and then you won't see her for a year.
Doug Benson
You know, like this. This just that clip. She's like, I'm gonna kill her. Does that take you, like, when you're coming up? Because there's moments, I think, in comedy where I, like, stop if I'm, like, frustrated with travel or whatever, and I go, what the Am I upset about?
Becky Lynch
Oh, yeah.
Doug Benson
Doing one show at a theater. This crowd's all great. They're all here to see other moments where you're, like, frustrated with travel or just, like, all the work, and you go, what am I talking? When I was back in that school in Ireland, taking. Learning how to take bumps, I. It would have blown my mind that
Becky Lynch
I got this far all the time.
Doug Benson
All the time.
Becky Lynch
Well, because I'm. I call it the Irish rage.
Doug Benson
Hey, I got. I think I got some of that in me. My mom. My mom's got that rage. I knew that growing up,
Becky Lynch
you know, and then, you know, and I try to calm myself, and I'm like, hey, now, remember, we're gonna start meditating.
Doug Benson
Yeah. And that's what everyone says with anger. Anybody that gets angry, you go, hold on, now you're trying to be Zen. Even though I'm furious.
Becky Lynch
And then, you know, I. I've come to this realization that people don't know. Need to know my honest feelings. They don't need to know.
Doug Benson
I'm gonna tell you right now, as someone that, you know, this took me in my 40s to realize that, but that is something where you go, you don't have to say everything.
Becky Lynch
You don't have to say everything.
Doug Benson
And I really wish I could get some years back from not doing that.
Becky Lynch
Oh, see, I still haven't gotten there. I go, you know, if. If you're annoyed and people ask you, how are you doing? You know, you can say, fine. You can lie right to their face. They won't know, you know, and you can move on. But I'm like, no, but they'll see it in my eyes. They can sense it. Yeah, you want to be genuine, and. And so they ask you how you're doing, and you're like, well, you know,
Doug Benson
the other one I learned is you can dislike a person and still not be rude to them.
Becky Lynch
Him.
Doug Benson
So you don't have to be like you. There was a guy last night, I was just telling him at the comedy club that I'm not a fan of that Came in and I just. No. Sold him on the whole conversation, you know, how you doing? I went, I'm good, but I wasn't a dick. I was like, I'm good. And he's like, hey, we haven't seen each other in a while. And you're like, yeah, nothing.
Becky Lynch
Yeah.
Doug Benson
Gave him nothing.
Becky Lynch
Yeah. But then. Didn't really give him anything to be salty about. That's the good revenge.
Doug Benson
100. No. Sell.
Becky Lynch
Yeah.
Doug Benson
100. No.
Becky Lynch
So, yeah.
Doug Benson
You know what's funny is, as I haven't gone there. You'll get. Get there. And when you do it, you go, it's not as satisfying as telling them to off.
Becky Lynch
Yeah.
Doug Benson
But then what I would have had is the anxiety all day of, like,
Becky Lynch
I shouldn't have said that.
Doug Benson
Yeah. I didn't need to tell him the off.
Becky Lynch
I know. So that's then when I come back and I'm like, oh, crap. I forgot that I was supposed to hide my emotions.
Doug Benson
I forgot that I didn't have to tell them how I was feeling.
Becky Lynch
And then Colby is like, you know, you say this all the time. And then you, like, beat yourself up. And he's like, I think you just don't want to change, so. So you have to just accept that this is the way you are. But then I go, no. I just forget.
Doug Benson
Yeah, no, you're wrong.
Becky Lynch
No, I do. I do. I want. I want to change. I just forget.
Doug Benson
I often. I think that's always the sign of, like, a great relationship, is when your partner can kind of act like an emotional mechanic and go, well, that clicking you're hearing is because you're doing this. And you go, shut up. No, it's not. But you're right. Like, she'll say that to me. She goes, you blow up quick, and then you just spend five times the amount regretting blowing up. Just don't blow up. And you go, well, that's easier said than done.
Becky Lynch
Do you meditate?
Doug Benson
Yeah.
Becky Lynch
Do you?
Doug Benson
Okay, I do meditate. Not as much as I should. Sometimes when I do it, I'll immediately look at my phone after, and she'll like. She'll be walking by after I meditate. She's like, are you looking at your phone? I go, yeah. And she goes, then what's the fucking point of meditating? Because then I'm just riled up immediately. I'm like, you see where this fucking post? And she's like, then what was the point of what you just did? And you're like, yeah, I really just. I really cleaned my underwear and Then pooped my pants again. Just immediately being like, oh, yeah. Just forced to shit out. You're like, fucking. What are you doing, dude? You were. You were clear. You were in the clear. But it is. Meditation is a thing where it's like. Like, for it to work, you can't act the way you.
Becky Lynch
It has to be a lifestyle.
Doug Benson
Yeah. And I'm not. I don't think I've completely adopted it, but there'll be days where I do it and I do go. Like, that really did help.
Becky Lynch
But did you listen to an app?
Doug Benson
No. I did this. I do a breathing exercise that a friend of mine that worked at a yoga studio taught me. And it's just really, like, to control my breath.
Becky Lynch
Oh, nice.
Doug Benson
And it really does. Like, I'll stop and be like. But then sometimes, if I'm gonna be honest, I'm still riled up.
Becky Lynch
Of course. Well, I don't think it's a miracle worker, right?
Doug Benson
Yeah. But they go, oh, meditation is so Zen. And you go, then why am I still fired up?
Becky Lynch
So I read this book 10% happier.
Doug Benson
Okay.
Becky Lynch
Which I think is like a great thing where when I remember to do it, I probably am about 10% happier. But, like, I think it does work. Sometimes I need to find the right app because I need, like, a bit of guidance because I don't know what I'm doing otherwise. I'm just sitting there. But then you listen to the apps and they're just talking the whole time, and I'm like, I don't think this is meditation. This. Just listen to a podcast. This is for 10 minutes.
Doug Benson
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Becky Lynch
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Doug Benson
Yeah, I don't know, I. I do feel like maybe as I get older, meditation might. It has helped. Maybe it'll help more as I calm down, as I get older. Because what I used to do is I would get angry because I got that Irish temper from my mom. My mom's got that Irish Catholic immediately like, let's. Let's get into it. It. And I had that, but I used to bury it. And I think that's way worse. Where you go, I'm not mad.
Becky Lynch
Oh, I'd love to know how you did that.
Doug Benson
No, it's horrible. Because then it's down there and you go, I gotta get this out. And so now I'm working on getting it out. And you're like, this is better to clear the air instead of being like, no, it's fine, it's fine.
Becky Lynch
Well, do you find that you get to let it out in your art, you know, in your comedy?
Doug Benson
Yeah, sometimes. But anger and comedy is a fine line of you being funny and you just being straight up. Yeah. Just being like. And the tgtsa. And you're like, oh, chill out. They're doing their job.
Becky Lynch
Yeah.
Doug Benson
So I do think it is, like, it is a fine line of, like, kind of understand. I don't know. I feel like in the age of the Internet, in the modern era, people are struggling to find limitations on their behavior, especially with the two fan bases that you have had to deal with recently, which is Wrestling fans and Star Trek fans.
Becky Lynch
Oh yeah.
Doug Benson
Because Star Trek fans. Go check out Becky in the new Star Trek streaming now on Paramount plus.
Becky Lynch
Thank you.
Doug Benson
Are they as who's nerdier? Because I'm a wrestling fan and I would say we take the cake as far as like how much we overstep and care too much. But Star Trek fans are very.
Becky Lynch
So care to, you know, so lovely. I went to the premiere of the Sur Trek Surfleet Academy and I walked in and they had like a bunch of fans in the front row and they go, welcome to the family. And I just was like, oh, that's fun. That was so like, welcome. Yeah, we now you're part of us. And. But I think that's the great thing about these fandoms is, is it. Is that community and it's such a. Like, yes. Okay, look like they have their opinions and we will all disagree and they'll all fight amongst each other and we'll all fight with each. And we'll disagree on what is the best. The best outcome. But it's better than the freaking. Did you watch the Louis Taru documentary? The welcome to the Manosphere? It's a lot better than that. I'd much rather everybody get in there. I'd much rather everybody get in their community via Star Trek and we argue over what's the best.
Doug Benson
Yeah.
Becky Lynch
Way that the Klingon should be.
Doug Benson
Or, you know, Kirk was the best captain and like Picard's the best captain.
Becky Lynch
Exactly.
Doug Benson
And that is.
Becky Lynch
I mean, let's fight over that. Rather than women's rights, you know what I mean?
Doug Benson
The welcome to the Manosphere doc has been quoted in this house ad nauseam. And the quote that Katie and I hit all the time is, this is Louis Therox. He's not a pedo. When that guy says that, it's so funny to me, unintentionally, him going. Because everyone they think he's talking to is a pedophile. They're busting. And he goes, no. And he can't even say Louis Theroux's name right. He's like, Louis the rocks. And you're like, what a dipshit.
Becky Lynch
The other thing is, Louis Theroux is such an icon in. In English and Irish tv.
Doug Benson
I mean, if you watch any great BBC docs, it's usually him. I mean, the him and the. And the part at the end where the streamer's mom, the guy who's like, all bitches are stupid. Bitches are here to serve us. And then his mom goes, Go get a juice. And he goes, I don't want to juice mummy. It was like, to me, funnier than anything anybody could write. Like, if you saw that in a sketch, you'd go, that's too on the nose. That's not. And then you watch in the doc, and you're like, damn. Louie really caught him. Louie used his own stream. He really did the. Why are you hitting yourself? Why are you hitting yourself? Because he just played the stream. He's like, look at this dip shit. But back to fandoms. But.
Becky Lynch
So it's great. They're great. Fandom.
Doug Benson
But wrestling fandom is a thing where, like, comedy fandom has it a little bit. Or they'll be like, I don't think he should have gone on this podcast. But as a wrestling fan, sometimes I see other wrestling fans and I go, yo, chill the out. Or they're like, that promo shouldn't have gone like that. It's like, you're not doing it. Pump the fucking brakes.
Becky Lynch
Yeah.
Doug Benson
The Internet always has a better booking option than what happened. And you go, it's what you were saying we were talking about you're gonna work a program with this person. You have no idea who's injured, who's. Who's not available.
Becky Lynch
Like, what happened behind the scenes. Yeah. Right.
Doug Benson
But, like, how long did it take you to get used to that?
Becky Lynch
Look, it goes in waves. And when I talk to you through my meditation, as opposed to my. My personal.
Doug Benson
Yeah.
Becky Lynch
Feelings. And, like, the. The. Because it's your art. You know what I mean? You're like, look, man, I'm trying my best here.
Doug Benson
Yeah.
Becky Lynch
I am trying. I'm trying to get you to care.
Doug Benson
Yeah.
Becky Lynch
I'm trying to get you entertained. Like, see me as a person. I'm trying, buddy. I'm trying. But on the other end of that meditation hat, I go, God, this person cares so much. And they have an attachment to how they want to see things. Things and how they want it to be. And in their head, it can be so much better. And it's only because they care and because they love this thing that I love so much. And I hope that they see that we're not trying to screw them in any capacity. We're all going out there going, how do we. For the most part. And I hope that everybody's going out going, how do we do the best? How do we put on the best show? Nobody's going out there going, how do we insult the fans? How do we. How do we just phone it in? Have you ever get Through.
Doug Benson
Have you ever worked with someone. Oh, sorry. Have you ever worked with someone that you feel like is, like, phoning it
Becky Lynch
in, that doesn't care?
Doug Benson
Yeah.
Becky Lynch
Oh, yeah. There's a few out there.
Doug Benson
Yeah.
Becky Lynch
We won't name names.
Doug Benson
We don't have to name names because, you know, I think that's like, any profession is. If you love what you do, you'll see people that aren't doing it because they love it.
Becky Lynch
Yeah.
Doug Benson
They're doing it for the personal benefit.
Becky Lynch
Yes.
Doug Benson
And you go. You. Yeah, I hate it. Don't.
Becky Lynch
Of course.
Doug Benson
Quietly.
Becky Lynch
Quietly.
Doug Benson
Without naming names.
Becky Lynch
Without naming names.
Doug Benson
But you go, is it nice to have Colby there to go like, what the f. Do you guys have that? You know, obviously with each other being in the same business.
Becky Lynch
Yes.
Doug Benson
Of being like.
Becky Lynch
And so. But sometimes, you know, you can have a gripe, and then they validate your gripe, and then you're like, oh, well, now if this person saying. And this person that I trust so much is also validating my gripe, and then you. You know, then the iris.
Doug Benson
Right. Yeah. Then you get fired up even more because then you're. But you're validated.
Becky Lynch
You go, yeah, yeah.
Doug Benson
That's when they go, yeah. I don't think they should have done anything.
Becky Lynch
Yeah. Yeah.
Doug Benson
Does that ever get you in trouble? All the time.
Becky Lynch
Oh, yeah. Yeah.
Doug Benson
Has he ever had to apologize to you and been like, oh, I got you fired?
Becky Lynch
Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. And I would never know because it's already mine. My. It's not. He didn't make me feel this sure. He just, you know. All right, like, you're kind of. That. That is. That does suck.
Doug Benson
Yeah.
Becky Lynch
You know what I mean? You're like, okay, all right, so it's not just. So it's not just me.
Doug Benson
Yeah.
Becky Lynch
Thing. It's not just me saying it. This actually is.
Doug Benson
It's confirming your reality.
Becky Lynch
Confirming. Which is also nice.
Doug Benson
Yeah. Because you go, I'm not crazy.
Becky Lynch
You know what I mean? Yeah. And. But sometimes you need a little. A little pop back.
Doug Benson
Yeah.
Becky Lynch
I mean, maybe not. Maybe. Maybe you don't. Maybe you shouldn't. But maybe you do. But actually, do you know what? No, you do. Because that. You know, because that's what. That's what got me over in the first place, saying, yo, hey, don't like this.
Doug Benson
Yeah.
Becky Lynch
But also, by the way, coming back to the not caring, it means I care.
Doug Benson
Yeah.
Becky Lynch
And I also care. I care a lot. I care too much sometimes. And, you know, sometimes you got. And that's the thing with the fans. You know, some they care so much and sometimes you. You might go about it and. But you're also throwing out these opinions and you don't think the people are actually seeing them.
Doug Benson
Sure.
Becky Lynch
Like they don't think that I'm seeing this opinion. They don't think that John C. Or whoever else. And sometimes we don't and sometimes we do and. But the other thing is that like now we. There was a time when you just had opinions.
Doug Benson
Sure.
Becky Lynch
That lived in your head.
Doug Benson
Yeah. You just had to hold on to
Becky Lynch
them and you just.
Doug Benson
Or you set them at a bar if you were sitting next to a
Becky Lynch
person and you didn't have a platform to say that.
Doug Benson
Them. Yeah.
Becky Lynch
So now I think it's just adjusting to the fact.
Doug Benson
Yeah.
Becky Lynch
That now we just hear everybody's internal monologue and we just have to kind of find a way to. To deal with. That's just how it is. And so we have to just accept. Accept the way that it is.
Doug Benson
That is the most mature way of looking at that, of going like, you know, we're in the age where opinions can be expressed freely and in your face. And sometimes you catch them when you're waiting to board a flight and you read the opinion and you go.
Becky Lynch
And it ruins your day.
Doug Benson
And now I'm gonna be depressed all day.
Becky Lynch
But also it lingers. So I don't seek them out.
Doug Benson
Yeah. And I also don't. There's a part of me that believes that because the fans care so much. In any kind of thing that you work in where there's fans, you go, I wonder if you knew. I read that if you would have said the way you said it. Because I think you would have been. It's a face to face thing.
Becky Lynch
I. Well, I think some people would. I think they, they might like that, you know, that they would get another reaction. Yeah. Especially if they don't like you.
Doug Benson
Sure.
Becky Lynch
They're free to their opinion, but I haven't had any interactions with a fan where it was genuinely mean spirited. At least I haven't.
Doug Benson
That's great.
Becky Lynch
And I've. Well, may sometimes actually maybe in the crowd.
Doug Benson
Well, that's what I'm wondering. Because I'm wondering when you're walking down the aisle and your music is playing and obviously you're walking to the ring. Have you ever seen someone like yelling at you and then you look at them and they.
Becky Lynch
And they go like, oh yes, that has happened.
Doug Benson
But also that would be me, by the way. I think I did that with. I forget who was That. I think it was Finn when he was on. When he just joined the judgment day. And I was, like, talking, and he looked at me and I went, ah.
Becky Lynch
Oh, yeah.
Doug Benson
Like, why you. You turn on edge, you know? It was like, right when the judgment day was for me. Then he looked at me, I was like, like, hey, dude, you gotta do your business, grown man being like.
Becky Lynch
But that's the right. But like, so. But that's the right person to be yelling at.
Doug Benson
Sure.
Becky Lynch
Yelling. So I've had it where I'm a baby face.
Doug Benson
Yeah.
Becky Lynch
And it's never women that are yelling at me. It's like, oh, surprise, surprise, grown men. And I'm supposed to be the good guy. And they're like, you suck. You're over. And I'm like, who raised you? Why are you so. I'm. I'm playing a character, and I am.
Doug Benson
They're bad. I'm good.
Becky Lynch
I'm a lady. Stop.
Doug Benson
Could you just be a little bit down now?
Becky Lynch
Come on now. Look at yourself. Look at you.
Doug Benson
You're all.
Becky Lynch
And it's fine if I'm a heel. That's. That's. That's the proper response. Response. But, like. Like, also check yourself.
Doug Benson
Yeah, yeah. For real. Stop. I mean, you know, what's funny is, like, that happens with heckling in comedy, where sometimes people will be heckling you and you go, what are you doing? And then they go, oh, I'm. I'm sorry. I genuinely was just, like, talking to you. And you go, yeah, well, this is part of a crowd. I mean, you've seen that before. Like, people are like, they'll, like, respond to your jokes. We'll be like, yeah, my dog shit all over my living room. Like, my dog shit on my living room. You go, stop. What are you doing? Stop doing this. And they go, oh. And then there are people that are just drunk, and they're like, fuck you. I want to fuck you. And then you go, be an adult.
Becky Lynch
Yeah.
Doug Benson
Just being a person. Do you like being. I'm always. I'm fascinated by this. Do you like being a baby face or a heel?
Becky Lynch
Yeah, yeah. He'll.
Doug Benson
It seems.
Becky Lynch
Well, because if that interaction happens when I'm a baby face, I've failed. Right. And. And now I'm like, hey, man, come on. I'm just trying to do my job. But if. If that interaction happens when I'm a heel, I'm doing my job.
Doug Benson
Yeah. Yeah. You're buying in.
Becky Lynch
Yeah.
Doug Benson
Was there a moment when. Because I. With the man. Run. When you see that happen, when your Nose is bloody. Right before Survivor Series, and you sitting there with the broken nose, did you know in that moment that you were like, yo, I think I just hit a new level?
Becky Lynch
Yes and no. Yes, yes and no. Yes, yes. Because I was like, oh, now that this Survivor Series match isn't gonna happen, now I have a run to WrestleMania.
Doug Benson
Yeah.
Becky Lynch
Oh, I'm gonna be the first woman to win the main event of WrestleMania. That's gonna happen. Now that is happened.
Doug Benson
Do you call your childhood friends and you go, like. Or your friends that aren't in the business or your family and you go, I'm a headline WrestleMania. What's that call when you find out?
Becky Lynch
I don't think if I called any of my friends, or is this so, like, a mess growing up, they'd give a really. Yeah.
Doug Benson
They go, shut up, Rebecca. I'll call you back in a second.
Becky Lynch
Do you have notions about yourself? Look at your one thing. She's great.
Doug Benson
God. If the others could just let in emotions, the healing that would happen in that country if they just went like, good for you. I'm proud of you. It's just so. It's that line that Leo says in the Departed about the Irish being impervious to psychological things, where you go, if you guys just let it in, and we're like, congratulations. Yeah, but what is that feeling when they say, like, hey, you, Charlotte, and Rhonda are gonna headline. You're gonna be the final match of WrestleMania. First time ever that's happened. Is that.
Becky Lynch
That's it. That's like, oh, my God, it's happening.
Doug Benson
Yeah. Is that. Is that. Is it. So just like that, the close. I mean, not even in the same universe, but I remember when I was told I was getting an HBO special. It felt really good that night, but it was the next morning when I woke up and I, like, laid in bed, and I was like, I'm gonna do a HBO special. And then you feel, like, the wave of anxiety with the. Was there. That moment, of course, of, like, a week later where you go, now I got a headline wrestlemania.
Becky Lynch
Yeah. Now it has to be good. Yeah.
Doug Benson
Now all. Now the hype is there. The eyes are on you.
Becky Lynch
Yeah.
Doug Benson
And they're setting up three. A massive match with three of the best in the business. You know, it's just. That was so cool to watch that. I think, as a fan, the question is, like, what was the roller coaster like? Was it one of those things where up until the event, you're, like, overthinking it or you're trying not to think about it.
Becky Lynch
I think I was trying to enjoy the day.
Doug Benson
Day, good.
Becky Lynch
I wasn't trying to enjoy the day. I was cognizant of that. Of, like, this is monumental. Enjoy it.
Doug Benson
Yeah.
Becky Lynch
And so. But then I was like, all right, is this. Am I. Am I. Am I enjoying it properly?
Doug Benson
Is this.
Becky Lynch
Is this enjoyment? I think I'm enjoying it, yes. Okay.
Doug Benson
That's the thought process.
Becky Lynch
I have enjoyment.
Doug Benson
That's my thought process. When I dance, when I go, am I on? Am I am a rhythm? I shouldn't dance? What am I doing? And then I shut down, and I'm like, stop. Oh. Oh, yeah. We gotta go soon. A couple minutes early. It's fine. I am so glad that I got to talk to you, because I haven't seen you since Billions. You did a fantastic job. Can I just say before we leave, I am so sorry that I ruined season five of Billions for you and Colby, because I don't know if you remember this. We were getting coffee, and I was told by Damien Lewis, who played Bobby Axelrod, I was told that day that he was leaving the show at the end of season five. And you and I were getting a coffee, and you were saying that you guys watched the show, and I went, just sucks that Damian's leaving. And you went, I will never forget this. You went, well, Colby and I were excited for this season, but now that you just ruined it for me. And I remember going, do you want to ruin Survivor Series for me? Because it was, like, two weeks away. And you went, I wouldn't be good at my job if I did that. And I went, oh, fuck, I'm bad at my job. I'm bad at my job. I ruined fucking season four.
Becky Lynch
Oh, my God, that feels so cutting. But I was 100, like, joking.
Doug Benson
Yeah. Because you.
Becky Lynch
Then you did.
Doug Benson
You did tell me.
Becky Lynch
Oh, yeah.
Doug Benson
Which I'm not gonna say what? But you were like, I'm not gonna ruin it for you. But at the end, I was like, all right. Because I feel so bad right now.
Becky Lynch
Oh, yeah.
Doug Benson
But I was 100% like, well, I wouldn't be good at my job if I did that.
Becky Lynch
Oh, God.
Doug Benson
I was like, I suck. I suck. I blew it.
Becky Lynch
I'm actually really proud of myself for that sharp wit you got me.
Doug Benson
I mean, in the moment, to the. The point where I was, like, still stirring my coffee when I went back on set, and I was like, I just ruined season five of Billions for Becky Lynch. I suck. Good luck in WrestleMania.
Becky Lynch
Thank you so much.
Doug Benson
Good luck.
Becky Lynch
I.
Doug Benson
Good. I want you to win that intercontinental title off age. I know it's a family feud now. You and your husband versus AJ and her husband.
Becky Lynch
We hate that family, and I love it. Down with that family, and I love it. But let's get rid of that family again. It was a nice 10 years before they're.
Doug Benson
When they were gone, back when they
Becky Lynch
came in, before they came back, mucked
Doug Benson
up your guys's company.
Becky Lynch
Our company, though, we put in our back that we built. And now they're here and everybody's like, oh, yeah, we love them. I'm like, they abandoned you. We didn't abandon you.
Doug Benson
We didn't leave you in your time.
Becky Lynch
We didn't leave you. We stayed through the mud, through the shit, and.
Doug Benson
And excelled.
Becky Lynch
And where is. Where is my gratitude? Ah.
Doug Benson
Ah.
Becky Lynch
Where's my gratitude? Why don't you put that on the Instagram post? Thank you.
Doug Benson
0.
Becky Lynch
Give me my gratitude. Give me my flowers.
Doug Benson
WrestleMania 42, April 18th and 19th. Allegiant Stadium, Las Vegas. ESPN app. If you have the subscription, you watch the whole thing. Go get the ESPN app also. They're airing it first hour of WrestleMania on ESPN and ESPN2, so check that out. WrestleMania 42. Thanks for coming by and hanging out.
Becky Lynch
Thank you so much.
Doug Benson
You're the best. I'm excited for your husband to get his hands on Paul Heyman.
Becky Lynch
Yeah. My daughter thinks it's so funny when he hits Paul Heyman in the back with a chair he loves. She thinks it's hilarious.
Doug Benson
Like a prafle.
Becky Lynch
She like, you got a good one
Doug Benson
on him on Raw last night.
Becky Lynch
So funny. Which I just love.
Doug Benson
And I'm always wondering, and I'm. I'm very. How well your husband moves in dress shoes?
Becky Lynch
Unreal. Unreal, Unreal.
Doug Benson
It's like when I see. I. I watched last night when I was watching some wrestling, and I was like, damn, the shoe wear is tough. And then I see. I see Seth in there on those dress shoes and I go, this motherfucker's moving around.
Becky Lynch
I wouldn't risk it for a biscuit. No, no, no. Slippy shoes. No, can't be slippy shoes on a bunny. Can't be having slippy shoes.
Doug Benson
Bite it on the slim Jim.
Becky Lynch
Nobody wants slippy shoes. I want old worn in boots.
Doug Benson
Boots on the ground.
Becky Lynch
Yes.
Doug Benson
Becky Lynch. WrestleMania 42, April 18, April 19, on the ESPN app. Go watch it. I'll be watching it. I have a show that night, but I'm still, you know, me. It will be on in the dressing room right after my set. I'm very excited. You rule.
Becky Lynch
Thank you. Thanks for having me, man. Yeah, I appreciate it. This is great.
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Becky Lynch
Yeah, the bird looks out of your league anyways.
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Host: Dan Soder
Guest: Becky Lynch
Date: April 14, 2026
This episode of the Soder Podcast dives into the unique world of pro wrestling with WWE superstar Becky Lynch. Blending humor, personal stories, and inside looks at the business, Dan and Becky explore topics ranging from life on the road and the evolution of wrestling culture to fandom, rage management, and the surreal transition from struggling indie days to headlining WrestleMania. Along the way, Becky dishes on family, buses, the pressures of performance, and how she channels “Irish rage”—and Dan parallels the journeys of wrestling and comedy, giving fans a chance to see life both in the ring and on the stage.
Booking and Traveling: Old-School vs. Modern Era
Bus Life
Nostalgia and Bonding
Transition From Indie to Big Stage
Changing Dress Codes and Life as a Female Performer
Chaos Before the Show
Programs and “Card Subject to Change”
Handling Setbacks and Triumphs
Irish Rage and Anger Management
Honesty vs. Tact
Meditation as a Coping Strategy
Comparing Wrestling and Star Trek Fans
Fan Opinions & Online Feedback
Dealing with Detractors
The “Man” Breakout and WrestleMania Main Event
Spoiler Mishaps
Family Rivalries
“We pay for our own gear…because we get by our own rental cars. We buy our own hotels.”
— Becky Lynch [04:42]
“The bus...to her, it's a prison cell. It's so small, she can't run around...there’s no novelty.”
— Becky Lynch on her daughter traveling [10:23]
“I love a bit of chaos. Anything good that happens is better than the most planned match you’ve ever had.”
— Becky Lynch [18:00]
“I call it the Irish rage.”
— Becky Lynch [21:13]
“I’ve come to this realization that people don’t need to know my honest feelings. They don’t need to know.”
— Becky Lynch [21:43]
“You can dislike a person and still not be rude to them.”
— Dan Soder [22:32]
“I read this book 10% Happier...I probably am about 10% happier.”
— Becky Lynch [25:43]
“The internet always has a better booking option than what happened.”
— Dan Soder [32:42]
“Who raised you?...I’m playing a character, and I am...a lady. Stop.”
— Becky Lynch on aggressive male fans [39:17]
“Oh, I’m gonna be the first woman to win the main event of WrestleMania. That’s gonna happen.”
— Becky Lynch reflecting on her rise [41:00]
“We stayed through the mud, through the shit, and...excelled. And where is my gratitude?”
— Becky Lynch in playful wrestling kayfabe [45:30]
The show is candid, self-deprecating, and fast-paced, blending backstage wrestling realities with comedy and real-life anxiety. Both Dan Soder and Becky Lynch maintain an honest and irreverent tone, frequently laughing at themselves and highlighting both the grind and the joys of their respective crafts.
This episode offers rare, unvarnished insight into the real life of pro wrestlers beyond the ring: their independence, humility, and the small, unglamorous details of a life spent traveling. Becky Lynch embodies a mix of self-awareness, competitive fire, and humor, making her stories resonate for wrestling fans and newcomers alike. From “Irish rage” to meditation, from headlining WrestleMania to debates over Buc-ee’s, Soder and Lynch remind us that even superstars crave connection, gratitude, and the occasional Subway sandwich.