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SoulTalk with Kute Blackson
Hosted by Transformational Teacher and National Best-Selling Author · EN
SoulTalk is a thought-provoking podcast about what really matters in life. It is a deep exploration into life's biggest questions: who we are, why we are here, and where we are going? Kute Blackson will get personal, sharing practical wisdom on how to live your most authentic life, as well as deep dialogues on purpose, health, love, money, sex, spirituality and success with special guests like Barbara De Angelis, Dr. Shefali, Mike Dooley, Geneen Roth and more.
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460: The Fear of Being Seen: What's Really Stopping You From Living Fully?
6d ago00:29:57Tap to summarize"What if the biggest thing standing between you and the life you desire isn't a lack of talent, confidence, or opportunity but a fear of being truly seen?" In this deeply powerful episode, Kute Blackson explores one of the most hidden fears we all carry: the fear of visibility. Beneath perfectionism, procrastination, self-doubt, and the endless search for the "right time" often lies something much deeper: The fear of judgment, rejection, misunderstanding, and even the fear of stepping into our own power. Kute reveals how childhood experiences and old survival patterns shape our relationship with self-expression, why the masks that once protected us can eventually become prisons, and how many of us unknowingly reject ourselves before the world ever has the chance. He unpacks the five hidden fears that keep us playing small and the subtle ways fear disguises itself as preparation, humility, and perfectionism. If you've ever felt called to share more of yourself, pursue a bigger vision, speak your truth, or step into a greater purpose, but found yourself hesitating, this episode will help you understand why. More importantly, it will show you how to move beyond fear with greater courage, authenticity, and self-trust. Because the world doesn't need a perfect version of you. It needs the real you. TIMESTAMPS (00:04:20) – What are you hiding from the world? (00:07:08) – Why your purpose requires visibility. (00:11:06) – How childhood experiences create the fear of being seen. (00:14:35) – The five fears that keep people playing small. (00:20:55) – How perfectionism and procrastination disguise fear. (00:22:33) – Practical steps to overcome visibility fears and share your gifts. QUESTIONS THAT MAY CHANGE HOW YOU SEE YOUR LIFE • What am I hiding from the world and why? • When did I first learn that it wasn't safe to be fully seen? • Am I truly preparing or am I using preparation to avoid exposure? • What would become possible if I stopped worrying about being judged? • How much of my life is still being shaped by old survival patterns? IN THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL DISCOVER • Why the fear of being seen, not a lack of confidence, is often what keeps you stuck. • The five hidden fears that prevent people from fully expressing their gifts. • How childhood experiences silently shape your relationship with visibility and self-expression. • The surprising ways fear disguises itself as perfectionism, procrastination, and "waiting for the right time." • Why judgment, rejection, and even success can feel threatening to your nervous system. Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com
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459: Inna Segal on The Secret to Trusting Yourself and Protecting Your Energy (Part 2)
2w ago01:03:00Tap to summarize"What if the answers you've been searching for have been quietly living inside you all along—but fear, self-doubt, and old wounds have taught you not to listen?" In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, Kute Blackson continues his exploration with intuitive healer and bestselling author Inna Segal, diving into one of life's most important skills: learning to trust yourself. Together, they uncover why intuition often whispers while fear demands attention, how emotional wounds disconnect us from our inner knowing, and why healing is the gateway to clarity. The conversation goes beyond intuition into the realities of relationships, energetic boundaries, narcissistic dynamics, and the subtle ways we give our power away without realizing it. Inna shares practical insights for recognizing unhealthy patterns, strengthening self-trust, protecting your energy, and making decisions from a place of wisdom instead of fear. Whether you're navigating uncertainty, questioning a relationship, or simply longing to feel more connected to yourself, this episode is an invitation to quiet the noise, reconnect with your heart, and discover that the guidance you've been seeking may already be within you. Timestamps (00:02:18) – Why intuition becomes difficult to hear (00:08:05) – Fear versus inner knowing: how to tell the difference (00:14:27) – The hidden signs of narcissistic and draining relationships (00:24:11)– Building energetic boundaries without closing your heart (00:34:42) – Practical ways to strengthen intuition and self-trust (00:45:18) – Reclaiming your power and living from your inner truth Some Questions I Ask: What if the voice you've been ignoring is actually your deepest wisdom? How often do fear and past wounds make decisions that your intuition never would? Are you giving your energy away without realizing it? What if trusting yourself is a skill that can be strengthened every day? How would your relationships change if you truly listened to your inner knowing? In This Episode You'll Learn Why intuition often speaks quietly while fear demands your attention How emotional healing strengthens your ability to trust yourself The subtle signs of unhealthy relationships and energetic manipulation Simple practices to reconnect with your inner guidance and build discernment How to create healthier boundaries, protect your energy, and make decisions with greater clarity Get in Touch: Inna Segal www.innasegal.com Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com
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458: Inna Segal on The Secret Language of Your Body: What Your Symptoms Are Trying To Tell You (Part 1)
2w ago01:25:01Tap to summarize"What if the headache, anxiety, fatigue, chronic pain, or illness you've been fighting isn't working against you... but trying to communicate something you've never stopped to hear?" Most of us have been taught to see our bodies as machines that break down and need fixing. We silence symptoms, push through exhaustion, ignore stress, and hope things will simply go away. But what if your body is speaking a language of its own and every symptom is an invitation to pay attention rather than something to fear? In this fascinating episode of SoulTalk, Kute Blackson sits down with renowned intuitive healer and bestselling author Inna Segal to explore the profound connection between the body, emotions, beliefs, and spiritual wellbeing. Together, they uncover how unresolved grief, suppressed emotions, inherited family patterns, and limiting beliefs can quietly shape our physical health; and why true healing often begins by understanding the message beneath the symptom. This conversation isn't about blame or magical thinking. It's about curiosity. It's about learning to see your body as an ally instead of an enemy and discovering how greater awareness can open the door to deeper healing, resilience, and transformation. If you've ever wondered why certain patterns keep returning, why stress shows up physically, or whether your body might be revealing something your mind has overlooked, this episode may forever change the way you think about healing. Timestamps (00:01:35) – Where intuition really comes from (00:05:00) – The relationship lesson that changed everything (00:07:48) – Why intuition is often quieter than fear (00:10:02) – The surprising practice that builds self-trust (00:13:11) – Why highly sensitive people often attract narcissistic partners (00:17:16) – Recognizing and leaving unhealthy relationships (00:25:32) – Was it really love, or something else? (00:28:51) – Reclaiming your power and creating healthy boundaries (00:33:13) – Practical ways to protect and strengthen your energy (00:39:33) – Developing intuition through sensitivity and awareness Some Question I Ask: Have you ever ignored your intuition because you wanted a different answer? Can you distinguish between fear, desire, and genuine inner knowing? Where might you be abandoning your own wisdom in relationships? What agreements with yourself have you been breaking? What would change if you trusted yourself more deeply? In This Episode You'll Learn Why healing the heart is essential for developing intuition The difference between emotional intensity and genuine inner guidance Practical exercises to strengthen intuition and concentration How self-trust is built through honoring commitments to yourself Common signs of narcissistic and emotionally manipulative relationships Why many intuitive people ignore important red flagsHow to reclaim your voice and personal power after unhealthy relationships Powerful methods for protecting and strengthening your energetic field Get in Touch: Inna Segal www.innasegal.com Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com
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457: The Secret Rules of the Human Experience: Why Most People Are Playing the Wrong Game
3w ago00:24:18Tap to summarize"You don't get in life what you wish for, you become what you repeatedly embody." What if the reason you feel stuck, restless, or unfulfilled has nothing to do with your circumstances… and everything to do with the game you've been taught to play? From the moment we're born, we're handed a set of invisible rules: achieve more, accumulate more, become more, prove yourself, and eventually you'll be happy. Yet even after checking every box, so many people still feel a quiet emptiness, a sense that something essential is missing. What if the problem isn't you? What if you've simply been playing the wrong game? In this thought-provoking episode of SoulTalk, Kute Blackson offers a powerful new framework for understanding the human experience. Through the lens of four fundamental "games" (Survival, Success, Meaning, and Awakening) he explores why so many people remain trapped in fear, chasing validation and external achievement while missing the deeper invitation life is constantly offering. Rather than another conversation about hustle, manifestation, or self-improvement, this episode is an invitation to step back and question the assumptions you've built your life around. You'll discover why life's greatest challenges may actually be guiding you toward greater consciousness, why true abundance is rooted in trust rather than accumulation, and how shifting the game you're playing can completely transform the way you experience every relationship, every setback, and every moment of your life. If you've ever wondered, Is this really all there is? Why do I still feel like something is missing? What is the real purpose of my life? this conversation may completely change the way you see yourself and the journey you're on. Timestamps (00:00:54) - The surprising question that changes how you see your entire life (00:04:27) – Why so many people achieve success yet still feel empty (00:07:43) – The real game of life: awakening versus accumulation (00:09:27) – The four games every human being unconsciously plays (00:18:51) – Five hidden rules that can completely transform your experience of life (00:21:02) – The profound realization that shifts everything at the end of the journey QUESTIONS THAT MAY CHANGE HOW YOU SEE YOUR LIFE What if you've spent your entire life trying to win a game you never consciously chose? Are you building a successful life… or avoiding yourself through achievement? Is your daily life being driven by fear, purpose, or genuine awakening? What if your greatest challenges aren't obstacles but invitations to become more conscious? If everything you've been chasing disappeared tomorrow, who would you truly be? IN THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL DISCOVER Why external success alone can never create lasting fulfillment—and what actually does The four stages of human evolution and how to identify which "game" you're currently playing Why survival isn't just financial or physical, but an unconscious way of relating to life How purpose transforms pain into service and shifts your relationship with success The five timeless principles that can help you experience greater peace, freedom, and authenticity Why the ultimate goal of life isn't winning, accumulating, or becoming more—but awakening to who you already are Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com
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456: Michael Trainer on How to Find Your Purpose, Your People, and the Life Meant for You
3w ago01:01:11Tap to summarize"In a world filled with noise, distractions, and endless demands for our attention, how do we stay connected to what truly matters ?" In this deeply moving conversation, Michael Trainer, co-founder of Global Citizen and author of Resonance; shares a powerful message: the life you're searching for isn't something you force. It's something you learn to tune into. Michael reveals how some of the world's most impactful movements, events, and relationships weren't built through hustle alone, but through resonance. The ability to align with a vision greater than yourself and become an instrument for what wants to emerge through you. From helping launch Global Citizen and raising billions to fight extreme poverty, to navigating his father's battle with dementia, Michael shares the personal experiences that taught him a profound truth: our greatest purpose often lives on the other side of our deepest pain. This episode is an invitation to stop chasing and start listening. To discover your unique song. To find the people who amplify your highest potential. And to create a life that feels less like effort and more like alignment. If you've ever wondered why you still feel disconnected despite achieving so much, or how to find your place in a rapidly changing world, this conversation offers a roadmap back to yourself. The question isn't "How do I become more successful?" The question is: "How do I become so aligned that my life becomes a beautiful expression of who I truly am?" Timestamps (00:03:00) – Finding Your Song: How to discover the unique purpose you're here to live. (00:12:30) – Staying in Tune: Practical ways to reconnect with yourself in a world full of distractions. (00:23:50) – Building a Movement: What it really takes to inspire people and create lasting impact. (00:32:45) – Turning Pain into Purpose: How your greatest struggles can become your greatest gifts. (00:37:00) – Money & Mission: Why money shouldn't stop your vision and how to attract support. (00:51:00) – The Art of Resonance: How relationships, experiences, and service open unexpected doors. Some Questions I Ask: • How do you discover the unique song you were born to sing? • What does it really take to build a movement that inspires people and creates lasting impact? • How can we stay connected to our purpose in a world designed to distract us? • Why do certain relationships energize us while others leave us feeling depleted? • What role do pain, adversity, and life's challenges play in uncovering our deepest gifts? • How do we stop letting money limit our vision and start using it as fuel for our mission? In This Episode, You'll Discover: How to find your unique purpose in a noisy world Why the right relationships can change the trajectory of your life The hidden gift inside life's greatest challenges How to build impact without losing yourself What it truly means to live in resonance Get in Touch: Michael Trainer https://michaeltrainer.net Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com
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455: Peter Russell on Looking for Happiness in All the Wrong Places? Here's What Actually Sets You Free
4w ago00:55:18Tap to summarize"What if the very thing you've been searching for your entire life has been here all along?" Why does it often feel like something is missing? You achieve the goal. You reach the milestone. You find the relationship. You have the experience. Yet before long, the mind begins searching again for the next thing, the next answer, the next version of yourself that promises fulfillment. Beneath so much of our striving is a quiet belief that peace, happiness, or meaning exists somewhere else. In this profound episode of Soul Talk, Kute Blackson sits down with renowned consciousness teacher Peter Russell for a conversation that challenges some of our deepest assumptions about who we are, why we're here, and what truly matters. Drawing from more than five decades of exploring consciousness, meditation, and human awakening, Peter shares a refreshingly simple yet powerful perspective: beneath the noise of the mind, beneath the roles we play, and beneath the endless stories we tell ourselves, there is an unchanging presence that has been with us our entire lives. Together, they explore the nature of awareness, the deeper meaning of meditation, the human longing for connection, and why love may be far more fundamental to life than we realize. As the conversation unfolds, Peter offers a perspective that is both liberating and deeply grounding: perhaps fulfillment doesn't come from becoming more, but from removing the barriers to what is already here. If you've ever felt caught in the endless pursuit of something more, questioned the meaning of your life, or wondered what remains when everything else falls away, this conversation may help you discover that what you're seeking has been closer than you ever imagined. Timestamps (00:03:41) – What meditation really is (and what it isn't) (00:05:10) – Why doing nothing feels so difficult (00:07:00) – The secret to handling a busy, distracted mind (00:16:22) – The surprising benefits of meditation beyond stress relief (00:23:09) – The deeper self: who are you beyond your personality? (00:31:11) – Why are we here? Exploring the meaning of life (00:42:36) – Peter's powerful definition of love (00:47:21)– The two questions that may matter most at the end of life In This Episode, You'll Learn Why meditation becomes easier when you stop trying to do it The simple shift that quiets a restless mind The difference between your personality and your deeper self Why awareness may be the one thing that never changes What meditation can teach you about love, presence, and peace The profound question that gives life its deepest meaning Some Questions I Ask Who are you when you stop identifying with your thoughts? What if you've been searching for something that has always been here? Is there a part of you that has never changed? Why do we spend so much of life trying to become more? What does it truly mean to love another human being? At the end of your life, what will matter most? Get in Touch: Peter Russell https://www.peterrussell.com/index.php Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com
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454: The Self-Improvement Trap and How to Escape It
May 2700:21:40Tap to summarize"You are not exhausted from life. You are exhausted from constantly trying to become more." What if the reason you feel exhausted isn't because life is too hard, but because you've spent too long trying to become someone else? In this powerful episode of Soul Talk, Kute Blackson explores the hidden pressure behind constant self-improvement and why so many people feel emotionally drained, disconnected, and never quite "enough," even while doing all the inner work. This conversation is a reminder that healing was never meant to become another performance. With honesty, compassion, and deep spiritual insight, Kute reveals how the endless need to fix yourself can quietly steal your peace and how true transformation begins when you stop abandoning who you are and finally learn to rest in your own humanity. If you've been feeling overwhelmed, stuck in striving, or tired of carrying the pressure to constantly improve, this episode will help you slow down, breathe, and reconnect with the truth that your worth has never depended on becoming more. Timestamps (00:01:00) - Why so many people feel emotionally and spiritually exhausted despite doing "all the work" (00:04:15) - The hidden belief secretly driving self-improvement: "I am not enough as I am" (00:06:20) - How the ego disguises itself through healing, productivity, and spirituality (00:08:30) - You are not exhausted from life. You are exhausted from resisting yourself (00:010:35) - Why slowing down feels uncomfortable and what we are truly afraid to face (00:014:05) - The powerful shift from constantly "becoming" to finally learning how to simply be Some Questions I Ask: Are you truly growing… or are you secretly trying to earn your worth? What if your exhaustion is not coming from life itself, but from constantly resisting who you are? Has self-improvement become another way of telling yourself you're still not enough? Who would you be if you stopped performing, striving, and trying to prove yourself? What emotions are you avoiding by constantly staying busy, productive, or focused on "becoming"? Can you allow yourself to fully rest, fully breathe, and believe you are already worthy as you are? In This Episode You'll Learn The real reason you still feel exhausted, even after doing "the work" How the ego keeps you trapped in endless striving Why slowing down feels so uncomfortable and even scary How to stop treating yourself like a problem to fix Why true peace begins when you finally accept yourself as you are Get in Touch: Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com
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453: David Deida on Why So Many Men Feel Lost Right Now (And What No One Understands About It)
May 2000:54:37Tap to summarize"Healing is not becoming someone new; it's returning to the parts of yourself you abandoned." What happens when the goals that once drove you no longer fulfill you? What happens when achievement, success, ambition, and even purpose begin to lose their meaning? In this deeply revealing episode of Soul Talk, Kute Blackson sits down with legendary teacher and bestselling author David Deida to explore the evolving journey of modern masculinity through the lens of his powerful new work, The Man of Zero. Together, they dive into a conversation that goes far beyond self-help or traditional ideas of success, exploring the deeper emotional, spiritual, and psychological crisis many men silently face today. This episode explores the different stages of masculine development, why so many men feel disconnected despite outward success, and the subtle difference between true emptiness and emotional collapse. David Deida unpacks what happens when a man can no longer rely on achievement, identity, or external purpose to define himself and why this stage, though deeply uncomfortable, may actually be the doorway to a more authentic, liberated way of living. Rather than offering quick answers or surface-level motivation, this conversation challenges the listener to look deeper at the patterns of striving, control, and self-definition that quietly shape modern life. It is a powerful exploration of purpose, surrender, emotional honesty, relationships, and what it truly means to evolve as a human being, both externally and internally. If you've ever felt exhausted from chasing, uncertain about your direction, or sensed that there must be more to life than achievement alone, this episode may completely change how you understand growth, fulfillment, and freedom. Timestamps (00:02:14) – Why emotional pain doesn't disappear when ignored (00:05:28) – The survival patterns formed in childhood (00:08:47) – How unhealed wounds shape relationships and identity (00:12:05) – The exhausting cycle of emotional avoidance (00:16:42) – Why self-awareness alone doesn't create transformation (00:21:18) – Meeting the parts of yourself you rejected (00:26:30)– What true healing actually requires (00:31:05) – Breaking free from survival and reconnecting with yourself Some Questions I Ask What parts of yourself did you learn were unsafe to feel or express? Are you reacting to life… or reliving old emotional patterns? How much of your identity was built around survival? What pain are you still trying to outrun? Who would you be without the defenses you created to protect yourself? What if healing begins the moment you stop abandoning yourself? In This Episode You'll Learn • The different stages of masculine evolution and growth • Why many successful men still feel disconnected or unfulfilled • The difference between emotional collapse and "zero" • How identity and achievement can quietly become emotional addictions • Why purpose alone cannot sustain deeper fulfillment • What happens when you stop defining yourself through performance • How surrender can become a doorway to deeper freedom and clarity Get in Touch: David Deida https://deida.info/ Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com
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452: Why You Are Still Stuck (Even After Doing The Work )
May 1600:27:24Tap to summarizeWhy do so many intelligent, self-aware, growth-oriented people still feel stuck… even after years of inner work? You've read the books. Done the therapy. Meditated. Attended workshops. Tried to heal. Tried to grow. And yet, certain patterns still repeat. The same fears. The same limitations. The same hesitation right at the edge of your next level. In this powerful episode of SoulTalk, Kute Blackson goes deep into the real reason breakthroughs don't happen for most people and why information alone is not enough to transform your life. He shares the hidden ways conditioning shapes identity, how survival patterns quietly run our lives, and why so many people stay trapped in cycles they desperately want to break free from. This episode is not about surface-level motivation. It's about understanding the deeper root of what keeps you stuck… and what it truly takes to experience a real breakthrough. If you've ever felt like there's more inside of you… If you know you are meant for more… If you are tired of circling the same patterns and are truly ready for transformation… This episode may change the way you see your life forever. To learn more about Boundless Bliss Bali: www.boundlessblissbali.com
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451: If Life Was a Movie, Whose Script Are You Living?
May 1300:37:50Tap to summarize"One of the greatest tragedies in life is waking up one day and realizing you became who the world wanted… but never who you truly are." What if the life you're living was shaped by expectations you never consciously chose? In this powerful episode of Soul Talk, Kute Blackson invites you to confront one of the deepest questions of all: If life was a movie… whose script are you living? From childhood, many of us are conditioned to seek approval, play roles, and become versions of ourselves that feel acceptable, successful, or safe. But over time, constantly performing who you think you should be can disconnect you from who you truly are. This conversation explores how fear, conditioning, and the need for validation quietly shape your choices, relationships, dreams, and identity, often without you realizing it. Kute reveals why so many people feel empty even after achieving what they thought they wanted, and how living unconsciously according to someone else's script slowly drains your sense of aliveness, purpose, and freedom. More importantly, this episode is an invitation to pause and ask yourself whether the life you're building genuinely reflects your truth or whether you've simply become loyal to a role you outgrew long ago. If you've ever felt disconnected from yourself, trapped in expectations, or afraid to fully honor what your soul truly wants, this conversation may help you remember that your life was never meant to be a performance, it was meant to be authentically yours. Timestamps 01:48 – The question that changes everything: whose life are you really living? 04:12 – How conditioning shapes the roles you unconsciously play 07:35 – The hidden cost of seeking approval and validation 11:08 – Why success can still leave you feeling empty inside 15:42 – Outgrowing old identities, relationships, and expectations 21:10 – What happens when you finally choose your truth over performance Some Questions I Ask Are you living your truth… or a version of yourself built for approval? How much of your life was consciously chosen by you? Who would you be if you stopped performing for acceptance? What parts of yourself have you abandoned just to belong? Have you become successful at a life that no longer feels like yours? If life was a movie… would you be proud of the character you're becoming? In This Episode, You'll Learn The 6 life characters secretly shaping your identity and choices Which survival role may be keeping you stuck and unfulfilled Why success means nothing when you're living out of character How people-pleasing and performance disconnect you from yourself The hidden pattern behind feeling lost, restless, or emotionally drained How to stop acting out a role and start living your real life Get in Touch: Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com Get your free gift on: www.eightlevelsofgratitude.com
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