In this episode, Ray interviews married couple Alisha and Ricci who share their individual journeys with alcohol and how it eventually intertwined in their relationship. Alisha grew up with alcohol always around her and started drinking as a teenager as a way to socialize and have a good time. Ricci, on the other hand, didn't have any alcoholic influences in his family but started drinking in his early twenties. As their relationship progressed, they started drinking together and it became a regular part of their lives. They would drink to relax, celebrate, and cope with the challenges of parenthood. However, their drinking habits escalated during lockdown, with Ricci hiding his excessive drinking from Alisha. Eventually, Alisha gave Ricci an ultimatum to address his drinking problem. This was the moment their lives and relationship changed for the better.

Alisha + Ricci’s Toolkit:

Alcohol can become a regular part of life and socializing, especially when it is normalized in one's environment
Excessive drinking can have negative effects on relationships, health, and overall well-being
Recognizing and addressing a drinking problem requires self-awareness and support from loved ones
Moderation and finding healthier ways to relax and cope with stress are important in maintaining a balanced lifestyle
Support from a partner and a community can greatly aid in the journey to sobriety
Get support, embrace support, give support
Choosing sobriety can lead to a healthier and more fulfilling relationship
Being present and engaged in parenting is a significant benefit of sobriety

Alisha + Ricci’s details

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The Ultimatum: How Sobriety Saved Alisha and Ricci’s Marriage #56

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