Transcript
A (0:00)
Foreign Hi, I'm Santi Ruiz, you're listening to Statecraft. My guest today is Bobby Fean. He's a co founder of the American Housing Corporation, a startup building housing for families. He writes a lot on the Internet and I've read Bobby's writing. For years he's been focused on a burning question that he has and I think a question that motivates his work. How do you make cities places where families can live and thrive? As Bobby knows, this is a pretty self indulgent episode and interest for me. I live in Brooklyn, my wife and I have a two year old and we're expecting our second kid early next year. And we really want to stay in the city. We love living in the city. It's where our life is, it's where our community is. We've put down roots here, but the classic route for people like us is to move out to the burbs if we want to raise a family. So I want to talk to Bobby today about how to avoid that and I'm hoping this conversation gives me some hope that it's possible to stay in the Big Apple with my growing clan. Bobby, it's good to have you.
B (0:58)
So great to be here. Wonderful, important topic.
A (1:01)
I hope I'm not putting too much pressure on you to, you know, save me from despair that I'm going to have to leave the place I really enjoy living.
B (1:07)
I really hope not. I hope not.
A (1:10)
Well, let me actually start there. I know you come to this work not just because you love building housing and you're a developer, but because you've got a family as well and you've thought about this a lot. Why do you care about housing for families in the city?
B (1:23)
Okay, so like many people, I met my wife in the city. My wife and I were at the University of Pennsylvania. We lived over in West Philadelphia. I don't think we ever intended to live in the city. We just got married. My wife finished school, I was in grad school and then I started my company. And then our community got deeper. We had joined a specific church when we first got married. In fact, like I'd say, one of the best piece of advice we got both for marriage and just for life in general as it ended up relating to the city was from an older couple. We got engaged and they said practice in other people's children. So we were at different churches. And then the church that we ended up joining was the only one in the city in Philadelphia at that time that was large enough to have a children's Ministry. Now, ironically, the only reason it had a children's ministry was because it was more of a regional church. So there were a lot of people who came into the city, but they came into the city and brought their kids from South Jersey, Delaware County, Montgomery county, and they all came in there for Sundays. So my wife and I got, I think, you know, the eight months that we were engaged, we helped out in children's church in explaining the sermon to first and second graders. And then that was sort of our foray into, I guess, having a deeper, stronger community in the city of being around, of seeing what that was like and helping other people with their children. And then when it came for us to have our own, then there were those similar people who are helping us with ours. So I'd say, like, we fell in love with the city, I think, as most people, young people do when they move there for school or work or whatever. And then it just naturally happened that we had kids and wanted to keep that going. So that, I would say, is the desire that I have for people who move to the city. It's always gonna be the place where people move who are young and ambitious and creative and just like want to meet people or start things. And what I would love to happen, and I want more people to make that choice, or at least to feel ready to make that choice, is when you meet the person who you want to spend the rest of your life with when you get married, have a kid where you already are, right? For those people, it's in the city.
