Stavvy's World - Episode #107: Liza Treyger and Marie Faustin (December 16, 2024)

Hosted by Stavros Halkias

Overview

In Episode #107 of "Stavvy's World," host Stavros Halkias welcomes regular guest Marie Faustin and newcomer Liza Treyger. The trio engages in their trademark candid and humorous conversations, covering a variety of topics from personal anecdotes and high school memories to immigration experiences and modern-day challenges. Throughout the episode, listeners call in with personal dilemmas, seeking advice on relationships, wedding planning, and coping with grief. The dynamic interplay between Stav, Liza, and Marie ensures a blend of laughter, insight, and relatable discussions for both regular listeners and newcomers alike.

Guest Introductions and Initial Banter

The episode kicks off with Stavros welcoming his guests:

• Stavros [01:00]: "Welcome. Thanks for coming, gals. We have Lisa Trager. We have Marie Faustin returning."

• Stavros [01:12]: "And Marie, I actually got a text from you at around 1:55 that said traffic was bad, which is interesting because I didn't know that when traffic's good, you can get from Brooklyn to Queens in five minutes. That's actually new information to me."

This sets the tone for a relaxed and humorous session as the hosts delve into light-hearted topics.

Punctuality and Traffic Woes

The conversation begins with a playful discussion about being on time and dealing with traffic:

• Marie Faustin [01:19]: "I'm on the train. Your text goes, I'm about to head out the door. I go, What?"

• Stavros [02:02]: "Nothing worse than when your piece of a late friend. And we all have them. One of them is on the couch right now."

The trio shares anecdotes about instances of punctuality mishaps, highlighting the universal struggle of being on time and the humorous side of unexpected delays.

High School Fashion and Memories

A significant portion of the episode reminisces about high school fashion trends and personal style evolutions:

• Marie Faustin [06:31]: "I bought goth pants once from Gadzooks and my..."

• Stavros [06:46]: "I'm wearing a jinky bra right now. No, my parents made me return them immediately."

• Marie Faustin [07:15]: "I have a Red Hot Chili Peppers tattoo that's haunted my life."

The guests reflect on their youthful fashion choices, the rebellious spirit of their teenage years, and how their styles have transformed over time. The discussion extends to the cyclical nature of fashion trends and the unique twists they've added to their personal wardrobes.

Immigration Experiences

Marie Faustin shares personal insights about her immigration journey:

• Marie Faustin [17:48]: "I was three. I'm from Ukraine, President Day, Ukraine."

• Stavros [18:14]: "We have two Eastern European refugees. Oh, where are you from?"

The conversation touches upon the challenges and cultural adjustments faced by immigrants, highlighting resilience and the blending of different cultural backgrounds within their families.

Food and the Changing Food Pyramid

The trio delves into discussions about dietary habits and the evolution of the food pyramid:

• Marie Faustin [31:20]: "What's at the top? I love the food pyramid we grew up with. That's like so funny."

• Stavros [32:55]: "I think Josh set this up. It really is. There's shoes. There's gym shoes and feet as part of the pyramid next to salmon and broccoli."

They humorously critique outdated food pyramid models, pondering the absurdity of certain food group placements and comparing them to modern dietary guidelines. The conversation also explores favorite foods, dietary preferences, and the impact of cultural influences on eating habits.

Substance Use and Recovery

The episode touches on personal struggles with substance use and the journey towards sobriety:

• Marie Faustin [26:44]: "I just saw a moment of horny. Okay. So a girl that a guy asked her to put gummy candies in her socks, go running, and then put them in a bag and send them off."

• Stavros [33:16]: "You have to be in therapy."

Listeners call in with questions about dealing with addiction, maintaining sobriety, and navigating relationships while recovering.

Listener Call-in Segments

1. Choosing Bridal Party Members

• Caller [65:16]: "Should I have these girls be in my bridal party? Because, like, I think they would be really organized. They would have heartfelt speeches at the actual wedding. But I also think they would ruin the vibe of the bridal shower and, like, the bachelorette trip."

• Stavros [80:31]: "So you have to decide, are they just not as fun? But that's not a big deal because they'll just go sleep early."

Advice Offered: Stavros and his guests emphasize the importance of prioritizing the bride's comfort and the overall vibe of the wedding festivities over obligations to long-standing friends. They suggest keeping the bridal party selective and focusing on those who genuinely support and enhance the bride's special day.

2. Handling a Creepy Dad on Instagram

• Caller [87:00]: "My friend's dad watches all of my Instagram stories and recently moved it into the DMs, complimenting her. She's uncomfortable because her friend had a similar experience."

• Stavros [90:47]: "But she wants to cut her down... tell your friend and make it clear."

Advice Offered: The hosts recommend blocking the individual and communicating with the friend about the inappropriate behavior. They stress the importance of setting boundaries and ensuring the friend is aware of the potential discomforting actions of her father.

3. Relationship and Sobriety Issues

• Caller [97:18]: "I've been clean for almost six months, but my girlfriend wonders if we'll ever have intense sex again sober."

• Stavros [101:14]: "You're in a nice spot... find somebody to confide in, probably your girlfriend."

Advice Offered: The discussion centers around embracing honest communication within the relationship, seeking therapy if needed, and exploring mutual interests in a supportive environment. The hosts encourage maintaining sobriety while finding new ways to connect intimately.

4. Coping with Grief During the Holidays

• Caller [107:00]: "I lost my mom in 2020 and struggle with feeling sad during holidays despite having a supportive girlfriend and a welcoming Italian family."

• Marie Faustin [110:23]: "But I also think we should keep talking about this with your girlfriend."

Advice Offered: The hosts suggest seeking therapy, allowing oneself to feel emotions without guilt, and communicating openly with loved ones. They emphasize that it's natural to feel sad during holidays after a significant loss and that support systems can aid in the healing process.

Closing Remarks and Future Segments

As the episode winds down, Stavros and his guests encourage listeners to seek support, whether through therapy, building healthier relationships, or adopting pets for companionship. They highlight upcoming segments like the "Twisted Shimmy" and tease future interactions, maintaining the podcast’s signature blend of humor and heartfelt advice.

• Stavros [134:51]: "But you don't have to tell the whole family. Your girlfriend is going to tell everybody."

• Marie Faustin [137:09]: "But I do think something bad to have a photoshoot and send it to Playboy."

• Stavros [145:40]: "But I did try and get my family on Thanksgiving to go see Madea's Halloween, and they wouldn't go last year."

The hosts sign off with plans to continue offering relatable advice and sharing more twisted moments in future episodes.

Notable Quotes

• Stavros [01:12]: "I didn't know that when traffic's good, you can get from Brooklyn to Queens in five minutes. That's actually new information to me."

• Marie Faustin [07:15]: "I have a Red Hot Chili Peppers tattoo that's haunted my life."

• Lisa Trager [32:55]: "There's shoes. There's gym shoes and feet as part of the pyramid next to salmon and broccoli."

• Stavros [80:31]: "So you have to decide, are they just not as fun? But that's not a big deal because they'll just go sleep early."

• Marie Faustin [110:38]: "And it's okay that it's hard."

Conclusion

Episode #107 of "Stavvy's World" continues to deliver the engaging, humorous, and insightful content listeners have come to expect. Through the genuine interactions between Stavros, Liza, and Marie, coupled with thoughtful listener advice segments, the podcast remains a go-to destination for those looking to unwind, laugh, and find relatable solutions to everyday challenges.

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