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I don't know, man. I. I get where he's coming from. Being annoyed at a new at somebody break. What you're really, really annoyed at is somebody bringing people in the friend group that you don't like. That's really the crux of the matter here. And how you deal with that is either talk to your friend about it, or if you want to be Machiavellian, see who feels this way about them. And then, look, at the end of the day, you don't have to hang out with people you don't like. But also, snitching is kind of insane. I don't know. Or even confronting him about a room. What if you're wrong? What if just somebody made that up? Because. Because this guy gets drunk at a concert that, like, people are like, oh, he drinks on the job, too. And then he's like, like, do you drink all the jobs? Like, what are you talking. Imagine somebody telling that to you. And you don't. You're like, what. What the. Are you talk. That's a weird overstep to somebody that you tolerate socially. You were going to say something, El, did you have anything. I was going to say, I agree with you that it's like, kind of none of your business. Like, you have to make sure the source is good. When he did make. When he did make, like, when he did mention the airline, though, that made it a lot more real for me, where it's like, I do fly them a good amount. That's kind of weird. But at the same time, you never know, like, how many pilots or aircraft know this, though. We're talk. It's be if it was fat. Stone cold fact. Yeah. Even then I would be like, yeah, I don't like if you had proof. And you do. And you are like, the kind of person who sees this as like a. As like a public good. Okay, maybe. Or you confront the guy and be like, hey, man, you should get Your drink under control. This is unsafe, right? I guess, like, because there's different levels, right? This is somewhere between, like, you know, know, like, guy at a convenience store who goes to work drunk, don't care at all, get as fucked up as you want, doesn't matter at all. And then on the other end, it's like school bus driver, right? It's like, yes, you have to stop that immediately. Airline technician, which. What does that even fucking mean? Is somewhere in the middle for me, right? Where I, you know. And so I just. My. My larger point is, is he clearly is pissed that this guy's in the friend group. That's his actual problem. And you need to bring it up with your friend and talk about it. Talk about. Talk it with your other friends or, you know, may this guy. It might just sting that your friend likes these people more than you. And you're like, I don't really want to hang out with them. It might just up the whole vibes of the thing. But he's just looking for an out where it's somebody. Some. There's some other reason that this guy's not in the friend group. Unless his point is, look, I've made peace with this guy being in the friend group. I'm just. He can still. Even after he gets fired from the airline, he is going to hang out. And I'm okay with that. It's just a public safety thing. And if that's the case, then you have to become a private eye or some and find actual information, proof that.
