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Check responses for accuracy. My name is Shannon Maldonado. I'm the founder of Yaoi, a gift shop. From the lens of artists and handmade objects, I chose Shopify because when I was testing other platforms, it was definitely one of the most user friendly. It was important to me to think about where we would be in the future. All of the tools for reading your sales, like planning inventory, they're just right there on your dashboard. For anyone starting a small business, the biggest thing I can tell you is it doesn't have to be perfect. Shopify can help you build upon it. Start your free trial on shopify.com welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Strictly Anonymous Podcast Conversations with online strangers. We place ads online.
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The Craigslist is definitely like the gift that keeps on giving.
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Real people respond.
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You go to Singapore or Thailand, you can't not do it. The temptation is just too much.
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Real problem.
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Does your friend know that you're banging her?
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No, no, he has no idea and anything goes. Motto of the show, Let Greek flag fly.
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Probably the only good advice I'll ever give you is to re hide your whips and shame.
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Here is your host, Kathy.
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Hey, welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast with Kathy. If you want to follow the Strictly Anonymous Podcast on Instagram or Twitter, follow me at Strict Anonymous if you want to be on the show. It's called Strict Strictly Anonymous because they change everyone's voices and names. Okay, so if you have an interesting secret naughty life that you want to talk about while remaining anonymous or not anonymous, if you're out and proud, you could email me at strictly anonymous podcastmail.com or go to my website, strictly anonymous podcast.com and click on Be on the Show. Now listen, I'm also looking for people that have any kind of like regular interesting stories or any kind of health journey stories like you lost a lot of weight or you started working out and you completely transformed yourself or anything to do with health. If you have an interesting story, I do a Sexual Health Saturday series and I'm looking for regular people to call in and tell their health stories, if that makes sense on my show. So, you know, like I said, I mean email strictly anonymous podcast gmail.com. now listen, if you have a naughty confession you want to leave on my confessions line, you could do that 24. 7. The number is 347-420-3579. That's 347-420-3579. Call from a quiet place. I can't use ones when people call where they're driving. Some of those confessions make it onto a confessions episode. The rest go on to my Patreon. Now, my Patreon is super fun and it's very inexpensive if you ask me. It's only $7 a month and you get every single episode. I do seven episodes a week. You get single one of them early before anyone gets them. As well as intro and ad free. You also get all the confessions and you also get Q&As that I do like every other month where I answer a lot of questions. As well as you get anonymous pics of probably every single girl that has called into my show. Every single female guest. I got pictures of them over on my Patreon. Like I said, It's $7 a month. The link to Patreon is in the description. If you do sign up for my Patreon or buy my book, I wrote book. It's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. It's all stories from my show told in the third person. They're super fun. And the audiobook is coming out in August. So if you buy my book, either in paperback or ebook or audiobook version, the links are all in the description. I will also give you access to my private Discord. Like I said, if you join my Patreon or if you call into my show or if you buy my book, I will give complimentary access to my Private Discord. My Private Discord is not a paid site. It is free, but it is private and you can only get in if I send you the link. I promise you, you will not be disappointed. My Discord is full of great effing people. Okay? So if you buy my book, send me a screenshot of your purchase and I will send you the link to my Discord. Last thing I'm going to tell you about is if you want to sign up for SDC.com I do have a free trial for my listeners. SDC is like the world's largest online dating website. And it's not just place where you could hook up with people. You could learn all about the lifestyle. You could find out about all the lifestyle events and meetups and all kinds of things going on in your neighborhood as well as if you're going to travel and you want to have a little fun, you're going to find it all on SDC.com Like I said, you get a free trial if you use my code 37712 or just go to the description and click on the link. That's 37712. Or just go to the description and click on the link. Okay. Today I have on a great couple. You're going to love them. Rob. And Rob's been listening to my show and listening to Hot White episodes way before he met Marie. They were both married before. They've only been with each other for like a year. And like very early on in their relationship, they did open things up and get into the lifestyle. Started out like them looking for a unicorn because Marie was a unicorn previously. She talks about how she was a unicorn to a couple previously and they. She wanted to find, fulfill her bisexual, you know, fantasy. So they went looking for that and then they wound up with couples. But none of that kind of worked out for them. So they wound up with single guys because that really was what Rob was always very into. And he eventually copped to that to Marie. She talks about how she felt about it and then they started playing with guys and they go through that whole. Their whole, you know, sort of journey because things have evolved and changed. They talk about how their boundaries have changed over time and they talk about all the things that they did. Some. There's a couple gone wrong stories, but they're not really gone wrong. There's one gone wrong story he talks about, but it's not really wrong story. If you're a cock, you're gonna think it went very right. But they've done, you know, carplay. They've done hotel stuff where she goes up and he walks in. He. They do stuff at home. He loves to be sloppy seconds. And she's very into come. She's got a come king. She talks about it. They do talk about how they stay safe. It's very important for them and all the testing that they do. But, you know, they love. She loves that. So they do a lot of that kind of complay. And he talks about it. She had her first black eye recently. Talks about that as well. They have a bunch of guys that they do hook up with. She's had multiple guys in a night. They talk about that too. And then at the End he gives some single guys advice on how to hook up with a couple. Like what not to do if you want them to respond. They are on sdc, my site that I always promote. You can use my code 37712 to get in, but they are on there and that's where they meet their guys. They talk about, like I said, what not to do or what to do to get picked by a couple like them. They're super hot. I have pictures of them over on my Patreon. They're going to go into my discord. So you could see them over there. But any going to get right to be right back on with Rob and Marie.
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This is the Strictly Anonymous podcast. Strictly Anonymous Podcast.
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Hi, Rob and Marie. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today?
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Good. How are you, Kathy?
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Good. Would you guys label yourself a hot wave couple if you had to?
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We would.
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You would, right? How? Okay, let's get a snapshot of where you guys are at right now. Like how long you have you been married for and how long have you been hot wiping? And then we'll get your whole story.
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I'm gonna let her start off we've
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been married about a year.
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Okay.
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And we have been. We didn't start off as hot wife, but that's where we ended up. But we've been ls gosh, eight, nine months, something like that.
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Not very long.
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Not very long.
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Yeah. We've known each other though.
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Oh, okay. Because I'm gonna say, considering you've been married for a year. All right, well, how long you've been dating for then? Were you guys cheating on other people together?
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No.
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Oh, okay. I thought that was.
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I, I was married. I was married for 30 years and in a very sexually not fulfilling marriage. Great person, but she just wasn't interested in sex. For me, that's always been, you know, a large part of who I am. It's not all of who I am. And I think Marie is similar.
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It was similar for me. I was married for 17 years. A little opposite. My husband was very interested in sex, but just with everybody else except for me.
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Oh, one of those. Right, one of those.
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So, you know, he was kind of doing his thing and I would say we were non monogamous, but nothing about it was ethical.
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Right. Unfortunately.
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Unfortunately. So.
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But we were, we were both divorced when we met.
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Okay.
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We'd been in the dating scene for a little while and so when we did meet, actually we worked together for two years and there was secret feelings and thoughts that we didn't share with each other until we were at a conference and we'd each had a few drinks and Marie revealed things to me that I, you know, I still. I joke about the fact that I looked around the room because I thought I was being punked, you know.
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So what were those things that she wanted to you or something like. Or that she just liked you?
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I mean, I've. I've wanted him since the first time I laid eyes on him. And then, you know, we worked together for years and I'm just carrying around this secret desire for him. And finally, you know, there was a variety of times over the years that I wanted to tell him, but I just felt like it wasn't going to be reciprocated and I didn't want to damage what we had at work, so I just didn't say anything. But eventually it got to the point where we were at a conference together. Like he said, we had a few drinks and I was like, you know what? I just need to get this off my chest and know if this is a thing or not. So let him know that I'd been harboring all these thoughts and feelings and desires for him for the last two years. And we have been inseparable ever since that night.
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Good for you. I give you credit for having the balls to put that out there.
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I was terrified.
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Yeah, but you know what? You still did it, which is. Is cool. You know what I'm saying? You only live once, so it's good that you pushed through it and did it, because here you guys are. So. So that's when you started dating, like from then. That was like the year ago time?
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I. Yeah, we were. I mean, that. That first evening, what was like early morning, I guess by that time, that first early morning, I joked with her. We both love the water of the Caribbean. And. And so I joke with her, I'm like, hey, in five years, if. If we still don't have. Haven't found anyone, we'll just sail off into the sunset together. And I think your response.
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Minutes.
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Yeah. So five minutes later, we were back in my room and we found out very quickly over a period of a couple hours and three or four times later, we were like completely 100% sexually compatible.
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Right now, who brings up. Because you wind up. I mean, you. It sounds like how long like you've been. You got together and started dating a year ago. Right, like so right from it. And you said you've been doing this eight months. So it's not like that soon into things. Do you guys Start bringing. Talking. Right.
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We got married six weeks after we met.
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Right. That's what I'm saying. Right. You knew each other because you were friends, but you really have been together, hooking up only for a year. It wasn't like you were dating for three years before. So you did work fast. That's my whole point. I mean, because.
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Yes, right.
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You say, like, we didn't do it right from the start, but you've only been together a year. You, you know, you did it eight months ago. So, you know, it's a couple months. Yeah. A couple months in. What fucking happened.
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So pretty quickly. So pretty quickly into this, she revealed that she's bisexual.
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Okay.
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And so related some experiences to me and then also related to me that she had previously been a unicorn for a couple for a year. We talked a little bit about our body counts. Mine being married for 30 years was not very high and significantly higher. Yeah. And I think that was an issue with her at first. When she started to tell me about this, like, she was embarrassed. She, you know, what's he gonna think? And inside my head, I was, like, hugely turned on by the fact that she had this level of experience. And I wanted her to tell me about these experiences and did nothing but, you know, make me heart.
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Yeah, yeah. That. That's a. That's a type of guy out there like that. Every woman, of course, is always going to have the fear because the majority of guys is this weird stigma with body count when it comes to women. You know, it's kind of backwards. More guys should be like, you. Like, it should be a. Not a. Know what I mean? It's like.
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Yeah, I mean, he was, like, proud of. Of me. And of course, I'm sitting on the couch trying to explain this body count of, you know. Well, you know, it was because of this. And he, you know, there was no shame. There was no judgment.
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He was into it.
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He was into it. And then he started asking me details about these things, and I'm like, okay, this is not what I expected.
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Right. How does that lead into you guys, like, getting into the lifestyle?
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Well, we kind of, you know, to fulfill that sort of bisexual side of me, we thought, you know, the best. Of course, at this point, I didn't really know about the hot wife thing. I didn't really.
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No, I'd not revealed those thoughts and fantasies to her right up front.
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But you had them already. It's.
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Oh, I'd had them for, like, 20 years.
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Oh, okay.
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Interesting read a lot of erotica, a lot of porn. That I watched revolved around that my. My ex wife wanted nothing to do with any part of that. So it had been this thing to me for years. Like, you know, how does this. I mean, I've listened to your podcast forever, and so, you know, I listened to all these stories about guys with wives, and I'm just like, is this even real? That. Can this even happen in real life?
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Yeah. Interesting. Okay. So do you wind up bringing. Being specific about it with her?
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Eventually.
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So we, we sort of started with the idea that let's fulfill the bisexual side. Let's start off and, like, find, you know, single females to join us. And like, that would be. That would be cool. That would be an experience that would love to share with you.
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Right.
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And we live in a fairly rural part of the country. And I mean, unicorns are mythical creatures in other places in populated areas, and they're just basically don't exist here. So then we thought, well, since we can't find single females, why don't we try the couple thing?
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Right?
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And so for me, the couple thing was attractive because again, inside my hat, my head, without revealing to her, well, then finally I'll get to see a guy. You. I really wasn't interested in the other female. Okay. I'll get with a couple, and if I have to do something with her, that's fine, but I'm gonna watch you the entire time.
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Right.
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But I mean, I didn't see these things out loud.
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Yeah. Yeah. Interesting. Okay.
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Our first couple experience. Experiences with the same couple go through that.
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I mean, it's pretty cringy. And I, I. We were new. And I. I'm at. The more that we're in the LS and the more that we meet people. People. I think everybody has one of those stories where you're just, you know, questioning why did we stay? Why did we go back? Why did we allow this to happen? So we had a pretty terrible experience with our first couple.
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Oh, you're kidding. I kind of like a gone wrong story. If you. Don't you want to go there or do you want.
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We can talk about a good wrong story. So we had. We. It was our first time with a couple. Their first time with a couple. And the first time was really more of a soft swap thing. You know, neither guy was totally functional, so we just figured that's just kind of nerves. Let's. Let's go see them again.
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Right?
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We'll try this again. You know, it wasn't terrible. They were nice enough people. We didn't have a terrible Time we just figured the non functional stuff was nervousness on both parts. Do you want to explain the second time?
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So the second time. So the, the thing we've discovered with us, with our play style is we, we kind of like the whole like everybody on one bed bad situation. Like, you know, it's just a pile of bodies. And given her bisexuality, you know, I want to have her be able to interact with him and me and her and, you know, whereas this became much more a parallel play situation.
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And during it, I'm always eyes on my wife, right? Because if she's getting turned on, then I'm getting turned on, right? And so during this, I thought things were going well. I mean, we're like eight inches away from each other. And so this is one of the things that was really upsetting to me during this is he's laying on her like a blanket, barely moving, moving. And I'm thinking. And she's making the appropriate sounds. And so I'm thinking she's having fun.
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And so I'm trying to entice him to do something more, right?
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And so I, you know, I'm starting to have fun with his wife. I'm. I'm her. And after the whole event, I, you know, do you want to reveal how you felt about the whole situation.
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Well, I felt like, hey, did you even notice I was in the room? Because you're over there doing your thing with her, and I'm not having a great time. So this equates to basically taking one for the team. And I, you know, I'm looking over at him, I'm like, well, he's having a good time. I'm just gonna let him continue having a good time. But this really is not enjoyable for me. Okay.
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So it just was like, you. You were. That's what got. Went wrong is you just weren't. Because, listen, I think four way con, like, connections are very hard to find. A lot of times someone might be taking it for the team. Right? So. So in that situation, it was that you were. It wasn't that great for you as it was for your guys, right?
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Yeah. And it gets worse.
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We thought we were over.
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We should have been done with that couple right then. At that time, it just wasn't great. But they reached out and we set up another date to meet them. And they came to our town, and all day we debated with each other, like, should we do this? Should we not? Should we call this off? And finally, we, like idiots, we decided to show up. And so we showed up. We had dinner with them. The other wife had quite a bit to drink during dinner. We get to the hotel, get to the room and do you wanted to say.
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She just launched into this tirade about how, you know, she was mad at us and she didn't want to show up. And she felt like, you know, we
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were too rich, I think.
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Too rich, I think, is.
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What was she mad at?
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That we had invited them on, you know, like a trip to Vegas. We wanted to go to Vegas for a weekend with another couple, have fun there. And. And for them, that was just too. Too much expense. And so I think that's what she would.
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I felt like she couldn't keep up with us or something. And then she didn't want to show up. And, you know, she's just. The whole preface of this conversation was more, I didn't want to come, but I'm so glad that I did because you guys are so much fun.
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What a backhanded compliment.
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Backhanded compliment.
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But then.
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So then, you know, I kind of just want her to shut up. So I kind of go over and start messing around with her a little bit, and she grabs the back of my head and she whispers in my ear, I love you. I've met this woman three times.
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Yeah.
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Yeah, that's a little Weird. Does she mean she loves, like having sex with you? Like, you know, because, I mean, how could she love you?
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Yeah, I got the sense that she loves.
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I. Or she, you know, I don't. She basically has the mentality of a 15 year old. And a lot of this during our conversations. There's so many red flags that we will never ignore again. One, don't. Don't ignore your gut when they're telling you not to go. Two, she was really disparaging about her partner, you know, saying things like he couldn't satisfy her and you know, she.
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While he's there in front of him.
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Oh, in front of him.
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In front of him.
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Yeah.
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And those are like, that doesn't make me want to invite you into my relationship if you're not satisfied. Like, I want couples that are solid with each other. And so anyway, we start playing and, and things are just, you know, he's laying on the bed totally soft. She's lying there like a statue with. And I tend to keep myself pretty trim. And. And this was like.
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It was a thicket.
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It was a thicket. Like I could hear a dog barking. It was.
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Right.
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Yeah.
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So within like 10 minutes, we have a secret signal we can give each other if we just want to get the hell out of there. And so I gave her the, the Signal and within 10 minutes we packed up and we were, we were gone.
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Which is incredibly awkward. You know, when you're kind of in the middle. Ish. And you just, you get a. Call it and get up and leave. So the whole thing about how happy
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are you once you're out that door, it's like leaving a movie. That's bad, right? You feel so embarrassed to get up and leave, but the minute you're out the door, you're like, I'm so happy I did it.
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Yes.
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Yeah.
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But it's also one of those things when, when we got home, we each took a shower and you just feel like dirty and you know, you're, you're sitting on the couch, like hugging yourself and rocking back. Like, what just happened? What just happened?
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Right, but this, but like, because you have so much hot. You have so many hot wifing stories and Marie has a cum fetish and kink and stuff. And like, doesn't this whole, like this, like all this bad couple stuff leads to you revealing that you have this hot wife desire and you guys just solely hooking up with guys. Correct.
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Correct. Yeah.
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So we're like, you know what? We don't really want to do the couple thing. Anymore. Based on this. Where do we go from here?
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So I. I opened up my Kindle history and showed her it, and there's a lot of, like, hot wife erotica there. I talked to her about the fact that, you know. Yeah, the couple thing was interesting to me because, I mean, I think I sent you some pictures of my wife. She is like, like, petite, smoking hot, beautiful breasts. I mean, she's just a beautiful woman. And most guys would be like, what the hell is wrong with you? Why would you want some other guy to do the things you want her to do with them and him to do to her? But that's been a turn on for me forever. And so I was very nervous to tell her because I wasn't sure what kind of reaction I would get from my wife.
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Right.
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In terms of what's wrong with you? Do you not love me? Would you. Why would you want this? And so I was, you know, I was, you know, like a nervous teenager trying to tell her my truth.
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Right.
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And she took it really well.
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Well, I mean, I thought all those things. And the biggest thing for me is what's. What's the catch here? I mean, is this really just so that you can have a whole bunch of single females? And do you. Do you want to date separately? Do you want to just. Is this just about you getting a ton more pussy? Like, what is this about? And I think even on your show, I mean, we listen to other podcasts where wives kind of feel the same. Like, this is a trap, what this is.
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Yeah, but if for you it's so obvious, it's not because you've already offered him up, like, what every girl thinks is, like, the girl stuff, and he's saying, no, I don't even want that. I mean, you're, like, ready, willing, and able. That's what you guys started off, right? So it really goes to show that this is what guys are really looking for. Because he had the two girl thing going down. You were, like, into it, you know, and he's like, no, I want another guy.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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And it's. It's. It was. I didn't even know that it had a label. I wasn't. I mean, I knew that there were guys that were into this. I just didn't know it as hot wifing. And so when he revealed this, I mean, yeah, at first I thought it was, you know, a trap. Like, what's the catch? But it's very obvious in showing me his Kindle history, I mean, back to, you know, 2020. I mean, this is a deep seated, decades old fantasy for him. So, I mean, how lucky am I? So, yeah, we started exploring the single
- [25:09]
C
guy thing and so we already had an sdc thanks to you.
- [25:13]
D
Oh, you did that? Yeah. My code. Give it up. 37712. Free trial on SDC. So you went.
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A
You're.
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D
So you're on there looking for dudes.
- [25:21]
A
Yep, yep.
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C
So she sent me on the mission. She's like, I want you to vet these guys. I want you to look for people. And once you think you've got someone, I'll review it and then, you know, I'll give you year nay. And so pretty quickly we found a guy who was really appropriate, had a great profile. I mean, we have some pointers that we can give you at the end about if you're a single guy looking to get with a hot wife. Couple.
- [25:48]
D
Yeah, sure.
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C
This guy was.
- [25:50]
D
Oh, and by the way, if we don't have time to get to that because your story's real, like, we could always do a whole separate episode on that. You know what I mean? Like a how to. But anyway, go on.
- [25:57]
C
Yeah, so. So we met him on a weekend night and in a city close to us. Like I said, we're in a rural area, but in a city close to us. Nice hotel. We'd arranged for a room. And then also we met him in the bar. And so we were just having drinks and dude really seemed on it. He did a great job of like interacting with both of us, not just being like all over my wife. And at one point, you know, we had kind of arranged like, hey, I'm going to excuse myself to the bathroom. I'll text you. She wears a little apple watch and so she can see messages. And so I went to the bathroom, like, hey, this. This dude's really cool. I like him, you know, and. But unknown to me, there was some very explicit conversation that went on at the table, which I learned about later, which was a big turn on. Do you want to talk about that?
- [26:52]
A
Yeah. I mean, I could tell that my husband was comfortable with this person just by his body language and the way that he was conversing. You know, I could tell that he was comfortable with this guy. So he gets up to go to the bathroom, and I'm left alone with this single guy and. And he starts kind of saying like, you know, wow, you're. You're so attractive. Like, I can't believe that I. I'm here with you guys. What are you. How do you. How are you feeling about this? And I am not shy. And then so I was very quickly able to articulate some of the nasty things that we, you know, my husband and I had talked about doing together. Things that he wanted to see, things that he wanted me to do, things that he wanted done to me and that seemed mutually agreeable. So I had invited him upstairs so that when my husband got back from the bathroom, it was pretty much like, let's go do this.
- [27:43]
C
Yeah. So I got back from bathroom and they're already getting up from the table. I'm like, okay, I guess we're gonna go do. And I remember getting in the. The hotel elevator and in my head I'm like, are you really ready to see this? You know? You know, I mean, I've. I've imagined this for decades. And you're not quite sure as a guy that is doing this for the first time with your wife, what's your real reaction going to be when you like, watch this guy? Your wife, for sure. And, you know, and so I was kind of nervous about it. We get to the room, she excuses herself to the bathroom and he and I sit and chit chat and we make a drink and we kind of review boundaries again. And he was all cool with everything. And so she comes back out of the bathroom and I go to the bathroom and I can hear them chit chatting. But then the chit chat stops. I can. It's silent and I can hear kind of wet sounds. And so I'm already getting turned on because I'm like, okay, something's happening out there that, you know, I'm not witness to. And I open the bathroom door and come out and this guy's already on his back and his is intermodal mouth already, right? And so I knew in that instance, I'm like, oh, I'm ready to see this. You know, this, this is unbelievable. I mean, I was instantly hard, so I took a seat. You know, again, this is not a cuck situation. There are a few things that I've discovered as we've gone along that maybe there's some cuck in me. But mostly at this point, I want to share my wife and experience it together. And so we, we video every session. We, we check with the guys and make sure that they're cool with that. It's for our use. We, you know.
- [29:25]
D
Yeah, I got it. Huh.
- [29:26]
C
And so the rest that evening was a mixture of sucking and, and, you know, having a threesome. That was probably one of the hottest experiences, at least up until that point in our LS career. Was amazing. And the guy. The guy performed amazingly, took really good care of her. You know, I don't know how many times Marie came that night, but it was a lot.
- [29:55]
D
And now you. You guys are more like stag hotwife, Right? Like, you are involved in that threesome. You're not sitting there on the chair watching, Correct?
- [30:04]
C
Yeah, there's been a couple of sessions where she's played alone, but I've been present. Right. We can tell you about that.
- [30:11]
D
Yeah, we'll work towards that eventually. Yeah. Okay.
- [30:14]
A
Yeah, he's. He's very much involved. You know, if he's. He's sitting and watch. If he's there, he's sitting and watching. And I'm. For me, this is a shared experience with my husband. So there's a lot of, you know, eye contact, or sometimes I'll call him over if he's sitting there. So with the interaction, I mean, he. My husband is straight, so incidental contact might occur, but there's no play between the men. But there's definitely times where, you know, my husband might be me and I'm sucking the guy's or will rotate or they'll take turns or, you know, I'll suck both of them at the same time.
- [30:50]
C
Typically now we like to try and game plan our scenarios. Right. You know, so along the way, I've started to give Marie hot wife challenges. So I'll make little thumbnails up of things that I would like to see a guy do to her or she does to them or a situation that can occur. One of the. Of. One of which we can tell you about, that kind of went wrong the first time, I guess.
- [31:18]
D
Okay.
- [31:18]
C
Was an accident, you know, so one of. One of the situations I wanted to see her with was, you know, okay. As we got more and more comfortable with this, and it's only with guys that we've played with before and we trust and I feel good about. So I gave her a challenge that I want you to invite a guy over to the house before I get home from work and can, you know, get started with him. Send me video, send me, you know, some photos, and then I'll be home within a half hour and I'll join in. And so do you want. Yeah.
- [31:55]
A
This particular day, he was not able to get home from work, so the entire session happened, and he had to view it from the security cameras. Yeah.
- [32:02]
C
So we have security camera. We have security cameras in our house.
- [32:05]
D
House.
- [32:05]
C
And I, I, you know, this. This meth, she. She didn't. I wanted it to be A surprise. So she didn't tell me that this was going to happen. So I'm at work and this message comes through from her and I open it and it's a video of her sucking this very thick. And I knew weirdly, now I can you recognize. I can recognize the guy from the shape, you know?
- [32:27]
D
Yeah.
- [32:28]
C
And I'm like, oh, that's so. And so. Oh my God. I mean, what. I mean, this is a. And then. And I figure out, okay, that that was just taken right now.
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A
Yeah.
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C
And so I, I text back, I'm like, oh my God, what the are you. You know. And so instantly I get on one of our security cameras and this photo was taken in our living room. And so I can see her on the couch with this guy. Just. They're just going at each other. And. Yeah, I. Situations happened such that I couldn't leave work for probably an hour, hour and a half after that. And so I basically watched this whole event occur. Her sucking him, him. Her down here. They went up to the bedroom and you know this. It's. Yeah. So I was kind of mad about the situation, but not jealous. I was mad in the sense that I couldn't get there.
- [33:24]
D
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B
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D
Yeah, yeah, well, that. But you know, it's not that. It's not that much of a gone wrong. The wrong story to any cuck that's listening. That's like a, that's like a cuck's dream. That's like the hottest fantasy of a cuck's dream. Being denied like that and wanting to. You know what I mean? Like that angst of like seeing it and wanting to be there, not being able to.
- [36:02]
A
Yes.
- [36:03]
D
Some guys would dig it. Okay, so what about Maurice Cum Kink? What's that all about?
- [36:09]
A
Okay, well, that's something that, I mean, we have to be obviously very careful about that in the LS with testing and things. But it's definitely something that I enjoy with my husband. So, you know, I think for him, in his mind, especially when we first got together, there's this. He was even hesitant to like come in my mouth because his experience was that women didn't really like that. And that is not the case for me. I mean, I love it. I love come in my mouth. I love it on my face, I love it on my tits. I like it on my clit. And then, I mean, there's something about it to me that is just so hot. And so as we move forward in the ls, these are things that, that I enjoy with single guys and him watching them do to me. But obviously we have to be pretty careful about testing.
- [36:57]
C
Yeah. So we require any guy that wants to get with us. One, we want everybody to be tested at least within 48 hours. And they haven't played with anyone else before they see us. If they do, then condoms are required. And you know, none of what she just described occurs. But if guys are, are tested and we verify that, then. And we do the same thing. We test basically after every session and we test again before we see another person. So we want to make sure that, you know, from a health perspective, everything is cool. But at the same time, what I will say is, and probably there's enough hot wife husbands or cucks out there that understand that when your wife gets, you know, hurt when, when her gets filled with Cummins, the, the, the feeling of, of sinking into that afterwards is unbeliev. Unbelievable.
- [37:53]
D
Yeah, that is a big thing in the hot wife world, right? A lot of times. I mean, is it sloppy seconds? Will you go down on her or you just like to be, go inside of her? How far do you teach her?
- [38:02]
C
I have gone down on her, but not immediately afterwards. Primarily for me, it's about her after another guy has her and, and her.
- [38:12]
D
Yeah, yeah, there you go. That is a big thing.
- [38:14]
C
And, and sometimes I feel like a two pump champ. Because you're so excited that, you know, it's. Yeah, it's been, it's, it's, it's pretty unreal.
- [38:24]
A
So do you want to talk about the hottest experience you've. We've had with that?
- [38:28]
C
Yeah. So we've, we've had, we've. We've started to host some guys in our home. And so there was one session where now what we do if we invite a guy. Guy over is we tell him that initially I'm not home, but I'm actually down in the basement. You know, just to make sure, just to make sure that, just to make sure that the, the first session where I couldn't get home doesn't, doesn't have to because unlike a cuck who may not want to be there, period, I wanna, I wanna be there, you know, Totally. And so, you know, they come in, they interact and again we kind of game plan. I'm like, hey, let's do this, this and this and then you can take them up to the bedroom. And, and what I love is, and I've heard a little bit about this on your podcast is I love hearing this from outside the room, you know, and so when I go up to the bedroom, I'll stand there outside the bedroom and just listen to what's going on. And that alone is enough to just really get the motor revved up. But then I love the whole walking in and they're, you Know, and he's balls deep in her.
- [39:38]
D
Yeah. You have a little bit of a in you and that just shows that like, like it, the whole thing is like, can really vary, you know, and go to different kind of degrees for every, you know, it's different for everybody. Right. Like you don't take it as far as you, you want to be denied or you don't want to be there or humiliated. But these little things that you like added on our little. Yeah, it's kind of kinks. You know what I mean?
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A
Yeah.
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C
Well, the denial part. So one of the things we do if we want to get with a guy.
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D
Yeah.
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C
She will edge me for days on end prior to.
- [40:08]
D
Oh, okay. So you like a little bit of the denial.
- [40:11]
C
And I kind of like that. I like, I like the buildup to it that way. So yeah, for, so, yeah, I, I, I love, I love walking in on it. And one of the things I've told her is when I walk into the room, I don't want you to even acknowledge my presence. Right. Because I, I want, I want to have her. I want to feel like she is so, so into what is going on. Either sucking or getting that that's the only thing she can concentrate on there. And then. So I'll come in and sit down and just watch what's going on. Like a fly in the wall.
- [40:43]
D
Right. So what is that time? Did you know, did you finish that? Because you were saying you were go. You were working yourself into talking about the one hottest time.
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C
Oh yeah.
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A
So.
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C
So that that evening guy comes over. They start alone. I joined them. That night was probably your first DVP as well. We DPed her that night. That first session with him, I think she took probably four loads of cum. Me and your. Him and your ass. Then I had to like jump into your ass after that as well because that was just too hard to resist.
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A
So I'm loving life because it's just
- [41:21]
C
coming and then one, one time in your mouth from him. Yeah. And so we invited him to stay overnight in our guest bedroom. And so he stays overnight. And around 3 o' clock in the morning, I wake up and Marie is already sucking my. And it's hard and she gets on top and she's like, you know, insanely wet. She rides me for a bit and then whispers to me, I'm going to go downstairs and get some more.
- [41:48]
D
Oh my God.
- [41:50]
C
And so she leaves the bedroom and I get up and I sneak downstairs. Our guest bedroom's in our basement and I just stand outside the Room and just listen to what is going on in there. And I am rock hard. And I can hear that, you know, there's just sucking and. And, you know, later on, she told me that, you know, she let him her ass a few more times, which kind of drove me over the edge as well. Well, once they were done, I went back upstairs, and I was just, you know, sitting in bed waiting for her to come back up. And she comes back up, and she puts her hand, takes my hand, puts it on her, and it is just. It's just dripping wet. And then she gets on her knees and proceeds to give me, like, the slowest, sloppiest blow job While she's telling me exactly what occurred in the room downstairs. And then puts me on my back, and she slides again a very full down on me. And again, I lasted, I think, maybe two minutes.
- [42:59]
A
That was it.
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D
Oh, my God.
- [43:01]
C
So to me, that was. That's probably one of the hottest things we've ever done. The fact that, you know, we had a great session with that guy on the evening before he stayed overnight. She got up, went downstairs. This guy. I'm not even in the room. I'm obviously hearing what's going on. And then she brings that back to me, and we. You know, it's probably one of the most. I know this may sound silly, but one of the most intimate things we've ever done.
- [43:26]
D
Yeah, that's interesting. Well, that's the way you see it. And I think maybe other guys that have the kink would understand what you're saying, you know?
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A
Yeah.
- [43:33]
C
Yeah.
- [43:34]
A
So.
- [43:34]
C
So that was definitely another super hot time. Was. I gave her another challenge. I. Again, this is very. A very cuck thing, maybe. Yeah. There was a guy that we'd been with. We'd arranged to meet him again in another city close to us. We met him at a bar, we had drinks. And the challenge was for her to get this guy back to our car and get in the back seat with him, and I would drive them around while she sucked and fucked him.
- [44:03]
D
Yeah, yeah, I've heard this. I've heard this. People do this. This set up before. Yeah, right.
- [44:07]
C
Yeah.
- [44:08]
D
So I had a cuck queen that had this set up once.
- [44:12]
A
Really?
- [44:12]
D
Oh, really? Yeah, Yeah, I remember them specifically. Yeah. Anyway, go on.
- [44:17]
C
So she. Yeah, so again, that was another super hot night. This was with the guy that we were with the first time. And he's always been a great team player. Any challenge that we have, Mario reach out to him. And.
- [44:32]
A
And he's pretty much like, yeah, I'll do that.
- [44:36]
C
And, and I, you know, he's, again, great guy in terms of he's, you can talk to him. But also he does a great job of taking care of her and making sure that she comes multiple times before, you know, and he knows that she's going to take really good care of him.
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A
So.
- [44:51]
D
Right. You know, now I do know that your boundaries have kind of changed over time. How have they changed over time and why?
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A
It's, it's interesting that that's evolved.
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D
Yeah.
- [45:01]
A
The way that it has. And we started off saying, you know, we're never going to do this, we're never going to do that. And that's absolutely, absolutely evolved.
- [45:10]
D
So what, what was on the table? What's off the table? Like, what, I mean, what was on the, you know, boundary list that went off and what came up?
- [45:17]
A
I mean, my God, when we started, when we first talked about this, we, we said something like, no kissing even. And that was out the window very quickly.
- [45:26]
D
Yeah.
- [45:26]
A
There was, was nobody me in the ass. There was zero alone time allowed. You know, he was always going to be physically present, which is no longer the case. I'm trying to think what other things that we have said on the table that.
- [45:41]
C
Yeah, those are, those are the big ones. I, I didn't think initially that I, I, I thought I'd always want to be in the room.
- [45:49]
D
Yeah.
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C
And always be present and, and again with, with another guy. We arranged it was someone we'd been with before. I'm like, what if I just gave you guys like a half hour alone time? You go up to the hotel room and send me pictures or whatever. And I learned very quickly from just that that. Okay, that's, you know, your imagination is sometimes the most powerful part of this whole deal.
- [46:14]
D
Yeah.
- [46:15]
C
And so I'm sitting there in a bar, you know, knowing that my wife is upstairs is, you know, getting railed by some guy or, you know, she's, you know, railing him. You know, it's kind of funny.
- [46:27]
D
And you set that up because, and listen, I've heard a lot of people who start out hot wifing, you know, and eventually get to solo play over time, you know, because it's like, kind of like you're scratching that itch now. Maybe you need a little bit more something. Right.
- [46:42]
C
Yeah. I mean, that's, I mean, I thought, you know, as we've done this, we've taken baby steps into, to the things that we thought would be hot.
- [46:49]
D
Yeah.
- [46:50]
C
And that was, I thought that was a baby step to see okay. How would I feel about my wife going to a room by herself to. Yeah, I, I don't think I'm ever going to get to the point where I'm going to want her to go out like an entire evening or. You hear of some couples where the wife has gone for a weekend. Yeah, to me that's dangerous. You know, one of our extreme boundaries and there's a guy that we don't, I don't play with anymore because of this. I want no sense of emotional intimacy during these sessions. This is purely physical. It's sex. It's, you know, and sucking. But if the guy wants a back rub or wants to, you know, when we're done with a session with a guy, generally, she will come to me. We'll, we'll lay together. He may be on the same bed, but we, I want to make sure that, you know, there's no emotional intimacy. And so when you let your wife go out on a full evening or a weekend. And again, I'm not gonna shame King Kink shame anyone because that's maybe what some guys get off on. But for me, that, that's the red line that I can't cross.
- [48:00]
D
Yeah, that's where I, I always like, you know, I always worry when it gets gets to that point. And I know of some stories that, you know, some gone wrong stories that went wrong because that's where they eventually went. You know what I mean? You know, you're leaving a lot of space and room for other things to happen that, you know, maybe you're not really thinking you want to happen, which is emotions. Right. This is not about, you know, her copying feelings for anybody else. What are the demographics, graphics of the guys that you are into and seeing? Like, you know, do you have a type? Do you like older guys? You like younger guys? Do you like, you know, what do you look generally?
- [48:44]
A
Yeah, I mean generally I prefer age appropriate for us. So around, you know, 5ish years, plus or minus either side.
- [48:53]
D
Huh.
- [48:54]
C
So our, the demographic is generally all being white guys. That's kind of the demographic of where we live. But we connected with super nice, super intelligent, successful, but married and a black guy. But his wife is, his wife is fully aware and, but he had a, he had a, a 6 foot 3, athletic, but a, like probably 8 to 9 inch thick, black.
- [49:32]
D
Oh my God.
- [49:33]
C
Yeah, yeah, he was, he was big.
- [49:36]
A
We've got a couple of, I mean, and we are not really one night stand people either. I mean a lot of people will reach out to us on SDC that, you know, are from different states, and that's just kind of not our thing.
- [49:47]
B
We.
- [49:47]
A
We generally don't do this when we travel because we're looking for people that we can sort of play with somewhat regularly.
- [49:55]
D
Yeah.
- [49:55]
A
Versus the one night stand thing. And. And my husband calls this our stable. Right. But we have.
- [50:02]
C
We're building a stable.
- [50:03]
A
We're building a stable. But we have two in there that are married and their wives, you know, fully know. And, you know, when we ask for play dates, they. Well, I gotta check with my wife and. Yeah, they were both upfront about that. That immediately.
- [50:16]
D
Yeah. That's interesting.
- [50:17]
A
Right?
- [50:18]
D
That and. What do their wives get out of it? Are they like queens or something? Do you know any.
- [50:22]
A
Do you ever ask one of the other. Yeah, one of the other wives, you know, has a. She does the same thing, so.
- [50:28]
D
Oh, interesting. Okay, so they're open.
- [50:30]
A
They're open. They're open. The other one, she has a.
- [50:33]
C
She has a disability and so sounds like she was very upfront about it. We had a long conversation the first time. This was the black guy that we just met.
- [50:41]
D
Yeah.
- [50:41]
C
Um, so she has a disability where sex is just uncomfortable for her. Um, he had been in the LS prior to that. Um, didn't want to leave his wife because of this, but she allows him to play.
- [50:53]
D
Oh, okay. So what happened with him? How was that night? Because that happened recently. Right?
- [50:58]
C
Yeah. So that was a phenomenal night. Um, we all had fun. Um, and I don't know if this is how this works with some. So I hate the term bull. That would be one of our tips with guys, particularly if you're working with a stag vixen couple. We're not looking for a bull. You know, we're looking for someone to interact with both of us and have fun. Not interact with me sexually, but. So maybe because of his previous experiences, he kind of monopolized the time with. With her the most. The time. And I, you know, I got to have some fun with them too, but that was the only minor issue. But it was a great time, and we actually plan on seeing him again in two days.
- [51:43]
D
How was that? Huge. Was that the first time you've ever been with something that big?
- [51:48]
A
That was my first time. Yeah. That was definitely walking like a cowboy. The next day you could tell something
- [51:58]
D
you have done DP and dvp, Right. You mentioned one of the scenarios, but what was the one that you. You already talked about, but you did the other one too. So what's that story?
- [52:08]
A
The DDP Yeah.
- [52:10]
C
So that was the same night that the guy stayed over. She got into kind of a. I
- [52:17]
A
was on top of him, I think.
- [52:18]
D
Right.
- [52:19]
C
Well, you got into a reverse car position and we hadn't really game planned this or talked about it ahead of time, but.
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A
Well, we fantasized about it a little. We actually practiced with, with a dildo and you. Yeah, yeah.
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C
And so the site for me was just too much. And again I'm straight and when you put your in the same as another, you're going to rub against each other. But it didn't feel any. It didn't feel weird at all. But I asked him if he was okay with this and he's like, absolutely. And so yeah, that was, that was a pretty amazing experience for us to both our. At the same time.
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D
And she did the dvp. The DVP that night too. Same thing.
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C
Yes. So she, she. Okay, she. She turned around now cowgirl and again that's just winking at me and sliding up and down and I'm like, well,
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A
you know, it's right there.
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C
It's right there. So I slid in there and so we dped her at the same time and I pulled out and he then pulled out of her and put it in her ass. And one thing about Marie is she's really good at dirty talk during. And so she's like begging him to come in her ass and he could, he's like, you really? You want me to come your ass? Are you sure? Are you sure? Are you sure? And, and yeah, so that he just kind of filled that up and as he came out, you know, now you've got this, this, this drool of come coming out and I had to, you know, jump back in there and help finish the job.
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D
What about. You have had multiple guys in one night, correct? That's another thing you guys have done.
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C
Yeah. So we went up to same same city. It was the first guy that we told talked about who's always up for fun with us. We told him that we were coming up to the city. We're gonna go out to meet some vanilla friends for dinner around 7:30. But hey, would you like to come up to the room and have some fun before we go to dinner? And so sure enough, there was the kind of hotel where you have to have a key to get to the room. And so I had Marie go down and get him and meet him in the lobby. And mostly because I knew things were gonna. Because he's very familiar with her now and I knew things were going to happen in the elevator on the way up.
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A
And they did. Yeah. So we hit in the elevator and since there's no one in there, we instantly start, you know, his tongue is in my throat, his. I was wearing a dress and no underwear, so, you know, his fingers are all over me. We get out of the elevator and walking a very short walk actually back to the room, but he managed to stop me in between. Seen a couple of doors and up against the wall and he's fingering me. And these are all things that I knew that my husband was going to love to hear about later. So one of the things that he requires or loves after any time that I've been alone with a single guy, whether it be, you know, while he's down in the basement or if I go, I sneak downstairs in the middle of the night, or he lets us have, you know, time in the hotel room, he always wants a play by play in explicit detail of what occurred. And that's just part of. Part of this for him. So it's kind of funny that I've.
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C
And the reaction to that has been it's.
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A
What did you say? Two, pump, chomp.
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C
Insanely hard.
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A
Insanely hard. And so I've learned to kind of catalog those events as they're occurring so that I can make sure that I'm remembering. Remembering all those details to tell him about later.
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D
Right.
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C
So yeah, he. He came up to the room. I actually did not participate. Right. I didn't join in that session. I just wanted to sit and video and watch. And so, as always, he did a great job. And the other thing I like about this guy is once he's done, we'll chat for a little bit and then he's gone.
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D
Right.
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C
You know, he's not. He's not going to hang around for hours on end.
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D
Yeah, I get it.
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C
And so he. He left. We went and ate dinner with some vanilla friends. But. But we.
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D
They only knew.
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A
They only knew.
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C
But we had also arranged to meet a new guy that night in the same hotel.
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D
Oh my God.
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C
After dinner. And so we came back and same bar and we met him again. Really nice guy. I went to the bathroom, texted Marie and Lar. No hate, this guy's okay with me. He seems cool. We invite him up to the room. And the thing I liked about this guy, it wasn't. He didn't have the world's biggest, but he knew what to do with it.
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A
And also very confident.
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C
Marie likes a little bit of degradation, a little bit of control at times. And so there were some things that I said to her during this that this guy picked up on. And so he just started to like control her and would. And then he like actually videotaped your face while I was you from behind.
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A
And that was hot.
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C
Saying nasty things to him and you're saying nasty things to the camera. And so he, he did a great job in that respect in terms of like playing along with the scenario.
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D
Right. You know, and so I know that you do want to give some advice. I mean, why don't we spend the last 10 minutes minutes giving your advice to guys that want to be on the other end of a couple. Like you guys. You don't like to call them bulls. Right. But why don't you give advice to the single guys?
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C
So I guess I'll start with what not to do.
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D
Yeah, I think that's always important.
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C
I, I get messages all the time on sdc. Things like, you know, I'd your wife real good and that's it.
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D
That's the entire message.
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A
You know, she would love my car.
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C
She would love my car. Or just that with like a million unsolicited dick pics. Or if I look at their profile, basically it's like half. Maybe it shows their gut and no, no other physical form. And then they'll have like 10 dick pics. They'll talk to me like my wife is an object, you know, she's a human being and there's feelings involved here. And you know, you're dealing with a couple and don't assume that this is a cuck situation. You know, so guys that have big, big dick Alpha bull male as their screen name, I'm probably not gonna look at your profile. So I mean, when we're looking at full, you know, for single guys, if you're on. We're on field now as well. So SDC field, have, have a full profile, you know, tell us a little bit about you as a person. Have some good various pictures. I mean, not be rated.
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A
We don't have to see a million dick pics.
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C
Have a private folder, maybe that has some dick pics. Because knowing my wife, she's going to ask for those. She's going to want to see what she's going to be working with at some point. But don't lead with that, you know, and then if you reach out to us, show that you've read our profile because we're very specific about what we're looking for. And if you've made comments about, oh, I see this and this and this, we're Gonna. We're gonna interact with you.
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D
Right.
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C
So their thing would be if. If you're on field or SDC or sls or Cassidy or whatever, you know, if you're a single guy, have a really well fleshed out profile, those are the kind of guys that I'm gonna reach out to as a hot wife, husband, because you've shown me that, you know, you. You're more than just a dick. And that's, you know, we're not just looking for a dick. We're looking for a guy who can be appropriate, respectful. When we.
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A
Well, I was going to say one of the things that we didn't touch on when we were talking about evolved boundaries was looking for a guy or looking for a dick is you wanting me to be with couples alone. So me functioning as a unicorn alone. So for couples, that's kind of funny. There's so many couple profiles that are. Are there. It says they're a couple, and there might be one picture of the guy, but it's like a million photos of just the woman.
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D
Right?
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C
Yeah.
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A
And so if you're a couple and you're advertising yourselves as a couple, some pictures of the guy would. Would be nice, you know?
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D
Right.
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A
But. But that's kind of one of the things that my husband has sort of asked for that we have not done yet, but that he would like to see would be for me to go be a unicorn for a couple. Yeah.
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D
Right.
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C
Yeah, I would. I would enjoy that.
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D
Coming closer.
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C
Then she gets. She gets to live out that bisexual part of her, too.
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D
Yeah, she has that in her before you.
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A
Yeah. And he wouldn't be necessarily in the room. It would be more of a situation where we would meet, make sure everyone vibes, and then if everyone is agreeable to play, then I would just go with them and he would wait in the bar or somewhere else. Raging Hardcock. Yeah.
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D
Right. I love it. So how. I mean, you guys haven't been married a long time, but. And you both been married before, so how do you feel like, you know, having this kind of relationship that's so opposite of what you guys have been in before is. Has. Is like different for you compared.
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A
We have something that we refer to as radical honesty. And I. I would say the communication that. That my husband and I have now, as compared to my previous marriage, is a complete polar opposite. I mean, we tell each other everything, obviously, in a respectful way, but if there's something that we feel like is going to hurt the other person, I mean, we still have to be honest with Each other. And we have agreed to that, to be radically honest with each other. But, you know, the communication, the honesty, the trust. Trust that we have between each other is just light years beyond anything that I've experienced in any relationship before. So.
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C
And I would also say that in each session after a guy, I mean, we had kind of an inferno of. Of a sex life before we ever did this. I mean, variety, toys, the things that, you know, I. I'm in a relationship now where I feel I can be authentically myself and not have to hide laid, you know, behind this mask of, you know, deviance, as some people might think of it. But also I want to have a wife that feels that way too. I don't. I. You know, too many marriages or relationships, it's almost like you own that person and they have to ask for permission for everything that they do.
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D
Right.
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C
Whereas Marie can be completely authentically herself. I like the fact that obviously she loves having sex with me, but I love the fact that fact that she wants to have sex with other guys and wants other in her life to please her and I. I get off on that. But she's right. The. The communication, the trust. This is the most secure relationship I've ever felt, I've ever been in, which is really an antithetical to what most people would probably think about, you know, your wife having sex with other guys.
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D
I know. That's why I always ask the question, because I think. Think that's what, like, you want to drill home to all those vanilla people out there, like, listening and trying to hear for some sort of defect or problem that's gonna like, you know, bust up your whole scene, you know. And listen, you guys are only one year into it, but it's not like I haven't talked to people. Who's 30 years into it, 20 years and still fine. You know what I mean? It doesn't. And I think that's the one thing that people don't really understand, which I love. You know, I think it's like, super interesting. I love your whole story. I mean, like, how many times were you both married before? Just one time.
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C
Time. Once. Yeah.
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D
Yeah, yeah. So there you go. Second time. I mean, sometimes it's third, fourth I've talked to people about. Eventually people get it right. It sounds like you guys finally met your match. Right. Perfect for. Is much better the second time around.
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A
She's perfect.
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C
She's perfect on every level, intellectually, physically and sexually. It's. Yeah. An unbelievable match.
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D
Yeah. That's amazing. Thank you so much. I'M so glad. I mean, listen, you've been listening to my show before you met her, right? Oh, yeah.
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C
I introduced her podcast to you.
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A
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Listen to this.
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D
Yeah, but can you believe that, like, all that time when you were listening and not, you know, it just being like some sort of living vicariously through them, that now that you, like, did you ever think you'd be like, with somebody calling in your wife and telling a story?
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C
No. I mean, we have a thing where, you know, if we're, if we're setting up a. A date with another guy guy and we discussed the scenarios and then we did it. I generally will text her the next day and be like, how is this my life?
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D
Yeah.
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C
Question mark. You know, million exclamation points. Because, yeah, it is unreal.
- [65:19]
D
Yeah, super interesting. Well, I'm glad that you called in and shared your story. I'm glad you've been tuning into my show for so long. Loyal listener. Yeah, I love it. You already sent me pics. I'll crop off your faces. Can I post some of the R rated ones like on Patreon? Like the regular ones on Patreon?
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A
Sure.
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D
All right, great. I'll take your faces out and then. And you're super hot. I'll put those pictures over there. They're gonna see, like, you talked about how hot your wife is. They're gonna see it over there. You guys will also, when we hang up, get free access. Not free. My Discord is free, but it's private. You'll get a link to my private Discord. So you could go in there. That's a place where you get to post yourself, you know, anything you want over there. You know, if you like guys ogling at your wife, you're gonna love Discord because you could do it.
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C
Okay, I'm all about that.
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D
All right, good. And there's a guest check channel, so make sure you go in there as your names from the show, you know, make sure you do Rob and Marie so people know. And it's always best to post pics around the time that your episode comes out. So if you join, email me so I could give you guest role access because there's plenty of channels in there that everyone gets to post. Discord is a great community where everyone talks to each other, they do their own thing. I'm not, like, involved as much. I'm not posting stuff for people. Everyone does it themselves. But on the guest channel, you have to be invited to post pics in there. So it's only guest. So I have to give you that access. So make sure to tell me when you sign up. I'll give you that access. And thanks you guys. Thanks so much for calling in. This was super fun conversation.
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A
All right, thanks.
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C
Thank you Kathy.
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D
Thanks you guys. Bye bye. Bye bye.
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B
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D
Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out till August 25, but you can pre order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story, there's a cuck queen story, there's a cuck story, there's a gang bang girl story. Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all T told in the third person and they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person. And I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like Penthouse letters. It's more direct. It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't really like that kind of vibe. Right. But these are true stories. 17 of them. They're really short chapters, easy read. You could read, you know, one or two and then skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in ebag format, paperback format. And finally the audiobook is available coming out August 25th, but you could pre order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre order it, I will throw in a couple complimentary link to My Discord. My Discord does not disappoint. Okay? There's no way you get into My Discord any other way than getting the link from me. Okay? I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares content with each other and that's what you get to do there. You could post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of channels. We have lots of contests where you can win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total, total, strictly anonymous community and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord. It's private. Like I said, all you gotta do is email me a screenshot of your purchase. Whether you did the audiobook, the ebook or the paperback. Send it to me at strictly anonymous podcast gmail.com. that's strictly anonymous podcastmail.com and I will send you the link to Discord. So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in.
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A
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