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Male Caller / Confessor
The temptation is just too much.
Kathy (Host of Strictly Anonymous Podcast)
Your friend know that you're banging her?
Male Caller / Confessor
No, no, he has no idea.
Kathy (Host of Strictly Anonymous Podcast)
And anything goes.
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Kathy (Host of Strictly Anonymous Podcast)
Probably the only good advice I'll ever give you is to rehide your whips and shame. Here is your host, Kathy. Hey, welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast with Kathy. If you want to follow the Strictly Anonymous podcast on Instagram or Twitter, follow me at Strict Anonymous. If you want to be on the show, it's called Strict Strictly Anonymous because they change everyone's voices and names.
Ashley (Guest Caller)
Okay?
Kathy (Host of Strictly Anonymous Podcast)
So if you have an interesting secret naughty life that you want to talk about while remaining anonymous or not anonymous, if you're out and proud, you could email me at strictly anonymous podcastmail.com or go to my website, strictly anonymous podcast.com and click on be on the show. Now listen, I'm also looking for people that have any kind of like regular interesting stories or any kind of health journey stories, like you lost a lot of weight or you started working out and you completely transformed yourself or anything to do with health. If you have an interesting story, I do a sexual health Saturday series and I'm looking for regular people to call in and tell their health stories, if that makes sense on my show. You know, like I said, I mean email strictly anonymous podcastmail.com now listen, if you have a naughty confession you want to leave on my confessions line, you could do that 24. 7. The number is 347-420-3579. That's 347-420-3579. Call from a quiet place. I can't use ones when people call where they're driving. Some of those confessions make it onto a confessions episode. The rest go on to my patreon. Now my Patreon is super fun and it's very in expensive if you ask me. It's only $7 a month and you get every single episode. I do seven episodes a week. You get every single one of them early before anyone gets them. As well as intro and ad free, you also get all the confessions and you also get Q&As that. I do like every other month where I answer a lot of questions as well as you get anonymous pics of probably Every single girl that has called into my show, every single female guest, I got pictures of them over on my Patreon. Like I said, It's $7 a month. The link to Patreon is in the description. If you do sign up for my Patreon or buy my book. I wrote a book. It's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. It's all stories from my show told in the third person. They're super fun. And the audiobook is coming out in August. So if you buy my book, either in paperback or ebook or audiobook version, the links are all in description. I will also give you access to my private Discord. Like I said, if you join my Patreon or if you call into my show or if you buy my book, I will give complimentary access to my private Discord. My Private Discord is not a paid site. It is free, but it is private and you can only get in if I send you the link. I promise you, you will not be disappointed. My Discord is full of great effing people. Okay? So if you buy my book, send me a screenshot of your purchase and I will send you the link to to my Discord. Last thing I'm going to tell you about is if you want to sign up for SDC.com I do have a free trial for my listeners. SDC is like the world's largest online dating website. And it's not just a place where you could hook up with people. You could learn all about the lifestyle. You could find out about all the lifestyle events and meetups and all kinds of things going on in your neighborhood as well as if you're going to travel and you want to have a little fun, you're going to find it all on SDC.com Like I said, you get a free trial if you use my code 37712. Or just go to the description and click on the link. That's 37712. Or just go to the description and click on the link. So today is a Confessions episode. The way they run is I run a confession, then I give you my $0.02 about the confession and goes like that. In the future, I think I might change and try one where I just run a bunch of confessions and just do a couple critiques. Let me know what you think about that. Send me an email or I'll question. I'll put that poll on sp, but this one is like how I normally do them. There's one confession, one critique, One confession, one critique. I Got some great confessions on here. It kicks off with a girl who's a cuck queen. And you're gonna see why or you're gonna hear why. She doesn't know she's a cuck queen. I explained that. That's what I talk about. She's gonna explain what she's into and then you'll realize why. That's the first confession. And then you're gonna hear from a guy who's a cuck. I posted his confession after hers because he's just like her, but he's a guy. He still is listening to stories about his ex even though they broke up from her fucking other guys. That's an interesting story. Then we hear about a couple who have been in the lifestyle. After they lost a lot of weight together, they wound up joining the lifestyle. And he talks about all the things that they've done and what they've gone through. And then we hear from a guy who is venting. He's a stag with a vixen wife and they're looking for a third and he can't fucking find one. And he is venting about it. All the flakes out there, he talks about that. Then we hear an update from a guest called Ashley. Remember Ashley? She her best friend's mother and stepdad. And then she called in recently because she wound up getting engaged to a woman. She was dating a woman and they got engaged. She called in to give an update on what's going on with them. You're going to want to hear that. And then you're going to hear like the hottest cheating story from a woman's perspective that you've ever heard. It's her confession. You could tell she's still horny from the scenario. You're going to get horny from it. It's a really hot scenario. Trust me. I'm not going to give it up. You're going to have to listen. And then I end with a guy who has a very specific question. He's trying to figure out what his label is because of something he has been doing recently. And I ended with that because I wanted to talk about labels because I think it's super important. There's a lot of labels out there. A lot of people hate it. I talk about why I love them. I talk about a lot of other stuff. After all of these confessions, I talk about my cuck queening experience and why I believe I'm a cuckqueen. I talk about how flaky people are and why as well as why I would just go out and hook up with girls when I got dumped by guys and why that worked for me and a whole lot more. So, anyway, I'm gonna get right to it and be right back on with the first confession.
Female Caller / Confessor
Hey, Kathy, first off, I want to say I just love your podcast. I've been listening to it for a while now, and I even got my boyfriend to start listening to it with me. A little about myself as I am on the younger side. I'm almost 20, and the guy I'm with, he's recently divorced. So that brings me into my confession. So he has old videos in his text messages with his ex wife of them fucking. And for some reason, it just turns me on while I'm masturbating. So I. I will masturbate to him, his ex wife. And maybe it's because I know it's him and the fact that he personally turns me on and I've even used her old sex toys. And he knows about this and it turns him on quite a bit. But, yeah, I thought I would share that because it's something different and I don't think I've heard it on the show yet. But we, we, we really personally. I've personally really got into it, so. So, yeah, okay.
Kathy (Host of Strictly Anonymous Podcast)
You know what she's called? You know what you're called? I'm talking to you. You're a cuck queen. And let me tell you, not a lot of girls that are cuck queens know that they're cuck queens. I believe I am a cuck queen. And I found out by accident, a guy that I knew sent me a video of him fucking somebody else, was so turned on by seeing it. It's no different than all the guys who call into my show that love to see their partner with somebody else. I like. You don't know what it's about. But for me, the first time I saw it, and I saw it by accident because my guy didn't send it to me because he wanted me to get turned on by him. Someone else. He sent it to me because he wanted me, because he thought that the girl from behind looked like me. So he was, like, imagining me. But when I realized it was him with somebody else, oh, my God, it was like the greatest porn I had ever seen in my whole life. And then I was, like, begging him to send me other videos with other people. And it's so interesting that you're doing it with your guy's ex wife. Oh, my God. And this is what I have to say. This Is what's so interesting about doing my show is like where there's one, there's many, right? If I exist and I'm like that and you're like looking at your guy, his ex wife's videos and you're like that there's so many other women that are living with this secret thing that they're into and they don't even know that there's a name for it. You said you haven't heard it on my show but it has been on my show. Every now and then I get a girl that calls in and talks about queening. Phoebe was my first. Phoebe is a cuck queen. I recently re aired her episode at 6:40. Phoebe is a cuck queen. She was the first person who brought this up and talked about how she just loved seeing her guy with other women. I have had other, other women talk about it. I think you would like this really hot scenario that my call my callers Jasmine and Candy had. Jasmine is a cuck queen. She likes to see her guy other girls and she had her girl Candy tie her up for her birthday and her guy right in front of her while she watched. Okay. I think as a cuck queen you would love that episode too. That episode is number 7:33. Now I know a lot of guys are going to go listening to those episodes too. But for all the girls that are listening to this that are like putting it to together like oh my God, maybe I'm a cuck queen. It exists and it is a thing. And the sad thing is I'm gonna tell you like the reason why you're so horny for your guys videos of him, his ex wife is because there's not a lot of cuck queen porn out there. Like you could see tons of guys girls but that's not what it's about. It's that mockup scenario of your guy, somebody else and they have a lot of that kind of porn from the man's perspective, from the the guy that wants to see the girl. But if you like try to google that porn scenario, like the cuck queen porn scenario, it doesn't really exist. When I had a woman on who created her own porn site I was like you need to create some more cuck queen porn. Okay. Because that is something that people are into. I even had my own favorite cuck queen porn fantasy which is this and caller who just left this thing, if you're listening you're going to think this is super hot, right? Like in my scenario was like oh like what if There was a porn where like the girl and the guy went to a hotel and booked two rooms together, right? And she stayed in one room and her guy picked up some girl to bring upstairs to fuck. And then the guy goes up into the room next the girl's room, right? And she goes up too, and she gets to hear through the wall, her guy fucking that girl that he picked up. Like that to me is hot. That's a cuck queen fantasy. I know that would make you horny too, right? Just hearing it, knowing that he's doing it. Maybe if he videotapes it, that's what you're into and that's the name. And unfortunately, there's not a lot of porn out there. It's a specific scenario. Tons of guys have it. I believe a lot of girls have the cuck queen fantasy. I had a guy that I was banging all the time and I'd always ask him if he other girls before he saw me because he was a player, you know? And this was a guy that was double dipping, triple dipping in a day, okay? That's just the way he rolled. And I'd be like, did you someone else in? He would always be like, no, no. He was like. And I was like, no, you don't understand. Like, if you told me, I'd probably be turned on because I'm just so used to you. Like, I just need a little bit of something else. And I didn't realize that that was the little cuck queen in me. And I didn't put it together until Phoebe came on and I was like, oh, maybe that's why I'd always want my guy to tell me girls and he never would. Just like when a guy tells a girl, like, oh, tell me about your other guy partners, she's like, no way am I going to tell you. Like, you're going to be jealous, right?
Female Caller / Confessor
It's.
Kathy (Host of Strictly Anonymous Podcast)
No one's ever going to believe that the person that's banging them wants to hear about other partners, but a queen does. Just like you are furiously watching your guy bang his his wife in those videos and you're turned on by it. That's what you're into. It is a real thing and it's fun. And you're lucky that you got that whole stash of videos. I'm wondering, like, I'd have so many questions for you. Should we do a whole episode on this? Like what? I think maybe it could be a girl talk episode. Maybe I'm going to email you to be on the show and we could Talk all about cleaning because it is interesting and every time I talk about it or have an episode on about it, it's very few and far between. I do get a lot of emails from other girls who are like, oh, I have that too. And they always say the same thing, that they don't find a lot of content online. Like they don't see that scenario. A lot of times there's massive humiliation attached to it. There doesn't have to be for it to be a hot cuck queen fantasy. Right. It's just about seeing your guy with somebody else. I get it because I'm a cuck queen too. And that's what you are. And it's super interesting. I do have other Cuck queen episodes. I would start with Phoebe, the one I said because she was super interesting. But I've had on a lot of other people. I've had on Aurora 695. She's a cuck queen. I had on Eve who's a bisexual cuck Queen. That was 737. Riley was 783. She was another bisexual cuck queen. So you got to check those those episodes out for some cuck queen content because there's not a lot out there. But anyway, thanks for leaving that confession because I love talking about cuck queening because nobody is. Anyway, on to the next confession. Hey guys, ever wish you could blow bigger loads like every time so you could really impress your girl? And do you want your loads to taste better so maybe your girl will finally swallow? Well then listen up because I know the perfect supplement for you and that is Load Boost by VB Health. Load Boost is designed to not only increase your volume but also improve the taste of your sperm. Load Boost is not some sketchy supplement. It is Dr. Formulated and it is the supplement that porn stars use to increase their loads as well as my listeners. Okay, I've been promoting Load Boost for a while now and my DMS are full of guys talking about how they saw results in just days of taking Load Boost. And that's because Load Boost works super fast. Some people see results in just a few days of taking it, with most people seeing full results after just two to three weeks of daily use. So what are you waiting for? Go get yourself some Load Boost. And while you're there, check out VB Health's other killer supplements. Okay, they have a supplement called Drive Boost and Soaking Wet. And they just dropped a new product, Energy Boost, which I'm excited about. It works great. Energy Boost is a pre workout Powder that you drink with effective ingredients for blood flow, energy and focus. Try the blue raspberry flavor. That's, that's my favorite. And one last thing I'm going to tell you is VB Health believes so much in their products that they literally offer a hundred day money back guarantee. So you really have nothing to lose. All you got to do is go to loadboost.com and use my code strictly and you're going to get 10 off. That's loadboost.com use my code strictly for 10 off. Or just go to the description, click on the link and use my code strictly.
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Male Caller / Confessor
57 year old guy divorced who always loved seeing my wife in pantyhose and turned into watching her other guys and which evolved into watching her big black. We ended up getting divorced and that was part of the reason that after we got divorced she seemed to become more interested in being a slot. And now the only way I can even get hard is to have her tell me her stories about what she's doing now and how she's being a slut for black dick.
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I always just mirrored to be able to clean her when it's full of come. That is what I like. And she just treats me like and I love it.
Kathy (Host of Strictly Anonymous Podcast)
Okay, so look, this is the opposite of the cutqueen. This is the guy that's just like her and he's so wired into it that he can't get off any other way. Sometimes that happens when you get really into something kind of extreme or very specific and it gives you like the best orgasm ever. If you keep sort of going down that rabbit hole and coming that way and having those great orgasms you could become like wired for that and everything Else sort of pales in comparison. Right? Haven't we all kind of been there, done that? Sometimes that happens to me with toys. That's why I don't like to use really great toys too much, because then, like, regular sex just doesn't compare. But I think maybe that's different. But anyway, this guy is just like the girl who just called. But what's interesting is that him and his wife divorce, and she's. They're still talking enough for her to be telling him all about her hookups. And it just goes to show you how strong that desire must be in him, because he said they got divorced because of her doing this. So obviously he. He probably had bad feelings about that. But yet he's so horny for those stories of her banging other guys, and it's the only way he could get off that he continues to have her talk about it to him, and she's still feeding him with those stories. Oh, my God. Kind of crazy. My question would be like, if you say that you lost her from it, how and why? And my second question would be like, how did you guys remain in contact and friendly enough that she's still telling you the stories? You're definitely a. And you're a little bit of an extreme. This guy is, because it sounds like towards the end when he says he likes to be, like, the cleanup guy and he likes to be treated like. And he loves it. He. Even though it ended badly, maybe he was able to turn that humiliation of her leaving him for these guys into, like, more of a turn on. That, unfortunately, could happen with the extreme cucks. It gets really fucking twisted. Anyway, I've talked a lot about cucks and this kind of scenario. I thought these two paired very well together as far as confessions are concerned. And so I'm just gonna get right to the next confession.
Male Caller / Confessor
Hey, Kathy. My name is Eddie, and I am calling you just to let you know that me and my wife started swinging about two years ago. We had our up and downs, but it's actually been pretty fantastic between both of us. We kind of went through a weight loss journey together. We've been married 19 years. We both lost a boatload of weight, and our libido just went through the roof. We went from fucking maybe once a month to fucking two or three times a day. And it came to a point where we wanted more and more and more and more. Started researching and came up into swinger pages and things like that on Facebook. From there, we went to events, and from that kind of opened the doors to different scenarios. We signed up for SDC and we started meeting people and immediately it was like natural for both of us. We were so confident on each other, our new bodies, our new looks. I lost just a little bit over 150 pounds and my wife lost about 80 pounds. So we looked like 10 years younger. And our libido just went through the roof. And after 17 years of marriage, we just decided to trust each other and golf. Go in full in on the lifestyle. We started with one couple which are still friends of ours. And from that point on, we did couples, singles orgies. I also found that I'm bi and that I'm into guys and being with guys. The same thing with my wife. She was she explore more into women and she's into women. And we just decided to just do us and do whatever feels good. And our communication, just like your podcast and everybody that talks on your podcast says that it just. Everything just went better for us. Our relationship got better, communication got better. Sex between the both of us got better. We started hosting orgies and parties and just had a huge community around us. Two years into the lifestyle, I actually had a kind of like a speed bump in that where we had to take a break and just kind of settle down, rethink of what we were doing. It was a lot of mental stuff that goes through your mind and you just kind of go. But now we started up again and my wife is just thrilled. We're both amazing and we have two kids and we're pretty wild in what we do. I don't know if you want to listen to our story a little bit more and just hear what we have to say. We're just an open book. Yeah, thanks.
Kathy (Host of Strictly Anonymous Podcast)
Well, good news is I am gonna get the rest of his story. I will find find out more about his hiccups. I think it's so super important to talk about the little bumps in the roads because I'm just going to tell you this. Everyone who's listening, who hasn't been in the lifestyle or and wants to or is just starting out, nobody doesn't have little bumps in the road. Even the most professional people do. What you always got to remember at the end of the day when you're going into opening up your marriage is both of you guys. Both partners are human beings. And human beings have feelings. And those feelings sometimes don't make sense. Not just to the other partner, but for the. The person themselves. Sometimes you just feel a certain way someday about something that you never felt that way about before. And it's just the way the wind blows. And maybe you're just jealous and you're never jealous before, but in that moment when you were. And, and, and that's just what happens. And it happens all the time to even the most professional people in the lifestyle. And that is just normal. I do like to hear those things though in those stories because I think it helps other people who are trying to learn about the lifestyle or haven't been in it or who are in it and maybe having the same things happen to them, they feel like not so bad because I think sometimes when people get into the lifestyle they do feel like because they're open and they're gonna, it's gonna be a free for all like that there's no jealousy or bad things that could ever come up. But they do sometimes for everybody. But it doesn't mean it's permanent. These guys, for the most part it sounds like it changed their life and they're doing great and they're just been exploring everything. Regardless of what they went through, they were able to get past the speed bumps. And I think most people in the lifestyle that get into it, by the time they're into it, they're so open and they're, they've learned to communicate so well that most people navigate through this speed bumps fine and get through them and it doesn't make them stop being in the lifestyle, which is great. But I love this confession. I did get them to book a time to call in so I will be getting their full stories too soon. So stay tuned. But anyway, on to the next confession.
Male Caller / Confessor
Hi Kathy, how you doing? This is Scott. I sent you an email about stag vixen couple getting fed up trying to find thirds. I'm, I'm tired of these saying that they're gonna show up and they don't show up. I'm tired of these just oh yeah, yeah, I won't ever do that. And then here they are doing the same. I had two guys lined up a week ahead of time and they both flaked. And then I still had three guys last minute with a couple hours of heads up, still flake. So I don't get this. I don't know what to do. I tried everything for literally years and we've only had a few experiences here and there of guys who actually showed the up. And when they do show up, they're happy. They do, but I don't know what
else the to do.
I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I don't know if it's just me or it's just these idiots, I'm hoping it's just them, but either way, let me know, okay?
Kathy (Host of Strictly Anonymous Podcast)
Listen, Finding a third is like setting up a gang bang. I've never set up a gang bang, but I hear it's hard. And I always say setting up a gang bang is like throwing a party and getting 20 people to show up, okay? You want one person to show up, you gotta times it by 30, okay? Get 30 people in line to show up and maybe one will show up. Most people are flakes, not just bulls, right? You're looking for a bull, you're looking for a third, it's a bull, okay? All my friends are flakes. Everyone I know is a flake, okay? Most people in life suck at what they do and they suck at being a friend. So most people are flakes. That's just a fact. I hear from, from ever, all kinds of people about this issue and this problem. You're not the only one. That's why, like, if you heard my recent episode with Jerome, who was like the funniest bull with the funniest stories I've ever heard on recently, like, he had a couple that, like, he was like, besties with, they go out to dinner, their friends know him. Like, they're all very close, and he's been with them for years for a reason. Not only is it hard to find a third to show up, and it's hard to find one that you like, that your wife likes. That good. That's cool. That's nice. All the stores have to align if you. It really is difficult. So I feel your pain. I understand it. I think you got to up your numbers. That numbers game. You got to up it. You're going to have to start looking at it like a job. But the good news is, once you find that one person, they're going to stick. And you could keep them long term because you know what's happening to that one bull. They're do. They're. They're encountering the same thing, but other on their end. Couples that don't show up, couples that they're not interested in, couples that are not cool, couples that there's too much drama. They're looking for the right thing, too. So trust me, when all the stars align, you'll have found your person, but you have to do more work. You're going to call into my show and tell me all your stories of the bulls that you have met up with. Right? That'll be fun. And I'll give You this information on that too. So anyway, we'll hear this guy's full story. But anyway, I gotta preface this. This next confession, it's really not so much a confession, it's more so an update. Remember Ashley? Ashley, her mom's best friend and stepfather. Oh my God. If you didn't hear that episode, you need to listen to it. She seriously had not just one threesome, but an ongoing thing with her best friend's mom. Stepped out. It was one of the most salacious stories I've ever heard. And then she called in with an update recently.
Ashley (Guest Caller)
Recently.
Kathy (Host of Strictly Anonymous Podcast)
And she wound up marrying a woman or getting engaged to a woman. She was like straight up lesbian. Now she changed. That's what she was doing. They were into fisting, all kinds of things. This girl was a girl she met at work. She was her boss. This girl had a history of all her bosses. She was a way younger girl than her. She was a full on lesbian all her life. Gold star. I think you should listen to her episode. She called them separately. Her name was Elizabeth. And last they spoke, they were engaged. And here is what's going on with them now. Now listen, guys. Remember when you were like super young and getting hard was super easy. Like the wind blew and you would get hard. Well, Bluechew is bringing those days back. Okay? Bluetooth gold is better sex in a tablet. Bluechew Gold combined four ingredients into one powerful solution. Two ingredients that are going to get you hard physically and two that support arousal and desire in your brain. Blue Chew gold dissolves under your tongue in just 15 minutes. So it works fast and it lasts. Now you could have a complete experience in the bedroom with Blue Chew Gold. And the good news is Bluechew gold is super easy to get. Everything is is done online and it's delivered to your door in a very discreet package. There's a reason Bluechew is the number one brand for better sacks. Experience it yourself@bluechew.com and I've got a special deal for my listeners right now. When you buy two months of BlueChew Gold, you get the third free with promo code Strictly Anon. That's promo code strictly anon. You'll also receive an additional 10% off plus free overnight shipping on your your first order. Visit bluechew.com for more details and important safety information. And I thank Bluechew for sponsoring the pod and the bedroom at REI Co Op.
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Ashley (Guest Caller)
Ashley I didn't want to just try to regular call you because I know that you stay so busy, but I wanted to update you. Sarah and I have recently split up. She's moved out of the house. I think that it was just kind of time. I would love to talk about it some more. And then she's already actually in another relationship with another woman after one week of us being split up. So there's that. She also, like, my car was. I was in a wreck and it got totaled. So for a while I was without a car and I was having to rely on her and my dad because that's all I've got to get me to and from work where I make more than the both of them combined. But that's not the point. And she left me out there stranded several times and. And it's just over. So today I'm off work. I'm going through her. I'm gonna burn some stuff. I'm gonna donate some stuff. However, once I got over my crying, poor, pitiful stage, I have got this whole new attitude. And so I may have some new stories to tell you about. So anyways, just give me a call. I'm sure you've. You have my number, you got my email if you want to talk some more and we'll catch up. And I hope you had a good vacation. All right, talk soon.
Kathy (Host of Strictly Anonymous Podcast)
Okay, now I am dying to get the whole story. I wonder when two girls break up how vicious it gets. I really hope she didn't burn her. Did I hear her say that right? Like she's gonna burn her. Come on. Who does that kind of stuff? Do people really go good nuts? I have had guys really dump me in like the worst ways imaginable, but never would I burn their. In a weird way though, I wish I would. Isn't it so funny when you hear of someone doing something like that? But I just don't suggest it, okay? I think it's. I think it's petty and eventually we all move on. But right now it just sounds like things are really bad. It sounds like when you say you're gonna have a lot more stories that you're gonna go out and a lot of people I know for me, all the times I ever hooked up with a girl was with when I broke up with a guy, like my go to would be like, oh, a guy breaks up with me and I just go and pick up some girl in a bar and she always turned out to be a virgin for some reason. And I'd have to like deflower her. So it was never that great, but that's what I would do. And one of my boyfriends once said to me, like, did you ever notice that that's like always when you hook up with girls when like a guy breaks up with you? I was like, oh yeah, that is true. So I have a feeling that Ashley's gonna go out and fuck a lot of guys to get her back. That's what I would do. Because like, to me, the reason why I think I would do girls is because I'd want to get my mind off of the fact that I just got dumped and I was sitting in the middle of like really terrible feelings. And if I went and another guy, it would just make me think of the guy who just dumped me or that I was trying to get over. Right? It's almost like too soon. It makes you think about that person more. So when you. When I would like another girl girl, it wouldn't make me think of that person at all. But it definitely would be like, oh, it would take me out of myself and it would make me check out for a time being to get away from the pain. So I think she's gonna act out sexually by going and other people. I suggest to you, Ashley, that you don't go out and other girls, it'll just make me. You think of her more. Go ahead. And some guys, you know what I'm saying? I have a couple things to say about the fact that she recently crashed her car and then her girl dumped her. It sounds like Ashley's like a mess Sounds like a very messy time in your life, Ashley. And I want you to call in. I'm going to email you a link to call in so we could do an episode about your breakup, get the whole thing on tape, and I could give you some psychological counseling because I love to do that and I feel like I know Ashley. Ashley was on my call on my show once. The first time she called in and told me she. Her friend's mom, she was stuttering a lot and I didn't believe her. I. I literally accused her the whole time of lying. We redid the whole episode recently because she was obviously not lying. She sent me all kinds of proof, pictures, text messages, everything. It was a real true story. I was psychotic. I should have believed her. We became fast friends after that. So I li. I really like Ashley and I want to talk her down from the clip, help her through this hard time. There's nothing worse than a breakup, okay? It's terrible. It's never good. It's always awful. I don't suggest burning anyone's stuff because eventually you'll get over it. You will. Okay. But in the meantime, I'm going to send you a link so you could call in and everybody else that's listening, you're going to hear the whole story because it sounds like she's already moved on. Elizabeth that is never single. Anyway, on to the next confession.
Female Caller / Confessor
I love your show. I've been a long time listener and I've always thought about calling in. And I finally decided that today is the day because I have a connection that I have never told a single soul. It's been something that I played over in my mind so many times over the years. It's probably the most exhilarating, intoxicating experience I've ever had in my entire life. It was probably about 20 years ago that it happened, but I guess I should probably rewind a little bit further back than that to give you an explanation of what led us to. To the most crazy, hot experience I've ever had. It was my first marriage. My ex husband, he used to hint around, he would love to see me fuck another guy. And I always thought it was like the crazy thing that he would say there's no way in the world that I would ever do it. But for some reason we would have sexy talk during bedroom time and it was always just talk. And we both understood that it wasn't something that we were going to ever do, but it turned us on to talk about it. So anyways, our marriage didn't work. Out. We eventually got divorced. And then many years later, we both, after we both had moved on, I had a boyfriend and my ex husband had shown up at my house to do an exchange of our kids. And my then boyfriend and I had just wrapped up a really good session that we squeezed in right before he had to leave to go off to work. He worked the night shift. My panties were just soaking wet. Still, I had to quickly throw on a short sundress because I had heard my ex husband pull up outside a little bit earlier than he was supposed to be there. So I quickly threw a sundress on. I made my way outside to the sidewalk to greet the kids and to usher them into the house. And when I did that, my ex husband tried to slip his hand at my dress. And like really quickly I snapped at him and said, careful, you might get your hand a bit. It was just like a gut reaction. I didn't think it out, it just came out of my mouth. And when I did that, he looked me directly in the eye, knowing exactly what I meant. And he responded, did you just get bust? And then the next thing I knew he was. He grabbed on my arm, not like forcefully, but like a firm grabbing of my arm, and led me up the sidewalk towards the front door. The kids had already gone in. They were in the other part of the house. And so he led me straight to my bedroom where he laid me back on the bed. He pulled my dress up, grabbed my panties, and started eating my pussy. It was still super wet and full of crumbs. And he acted like it was the best day of his life. He just went to town, started showing it to me as he was pulling it out, looking at me, sticking his tongue out and then swallowing it. And he just continued to do it over and over again until he gave me the best orgasm I have ever had in my entire life. It was most. The most amazing sexual experience of my life. I have my ex husband eating the crumb out of my pussy from my current boyfriend. It was, I cannot even explain, like, how otherworldly it was and the intensity that he was doing it with. He was literally having the best day of his life. And once he was finished, he literally just got up and left. And we never talked about it again. Every single time we would see each other after that, we made eye contact with each other. It was like we have this naughty secret. And it was like this unspoken bond between the two of us. I had always hoped that maybe it would happen sometime again in my life, but it never did. We just. It never. We never talked about it. We never had a chance, I guess where the circumstances lined up that it would happen again. Every single time I think about that happening, it gets me super wet. And it's my best memory that I have of my ex husband. And sadly, he passed away a few years ago. So it's one that lives on in my mind. And when I think of him, I replay this incident that happened. So I want to say thank you because I love your show and it gives. It's just such a great forum for people to be able to talk about things that they don't normally have the ability to talk about. So thank you and I appreciate you and I listen every week.
Kathy (Host of Strictly Anonymous Podcast)
Wow. Talk about hot porn fantasies. I gave you my hot porn cuck queen scenario. This would make a great porn, don't you think? What a scenario. Like when she says, oh my God, the thought of my ex husband going down on me and eating my. My new boyfriend's come out of my. Was just so hot. Oh my God, you just gave some guys a woody. There are a lot of guys that would think that's a hot scenario. I could totally get why it was a hot scenario, especially because he didn't really plan it out. That's what's so crazy about it. It just kind of happened and you went with it and it was so naughty. But I think unfortunately that's what made it so good.
Male Caller / Confessor
Right?
Kathy (Host of Strictly Anonymous Podcast)
It's like you said, putting that all together. Did you feel guilty? I would want to know. Did you feel guilty at all when you saw your boyfriend when he got home? Did your new boyfriend know about like your past with your husband at all? I'm assuming you kept it a secret, right? And I'm sure it went into your spank bank. Guys aren't the only ones that have spank banks, okay?
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Kathy (Host of Strictly Anonymous Podcast)
Don't girls have them? Aren't there things that you just pull up out of your head when you're. You're with someone or jerking off that you could just think about a hot scenario that totally gets you off. I get why this was the top of the mountain for you. Because like I said, when you said it, it just sounds like it could be like a really popular hot porn scenario, just the way you explained it. But the fact is it's true life and it's real life and it happened to you. And that's what I love about my confessions hotline. Because who else are you going to tell that story to? It's a lot of times these people are Calling in and leaving things on my confessions holiday. They've never told anybody because they kind of can't. But it's kind of fun to share it, right? This is like a really juicy story. I'm so glad you shared it with me. I believe you're going to be super happy when you hear it on the show because there is something cathartic about putting it out there. And I think you're actually going to be even more turned on when you hear it outside of yourself, knowing that it's your. Your story, you're gonna relive it again. But I am gonna change your voice anyway. I know you all love that confession. So on to the next confession.
Male Caller / Confessor
If I have sex with a transsexual multiple times, am I bisexual? Pansexual? I just want to know. Thank you.
Kathy (Host of Strictly Anonymous Podcast)
Okay, so listen. In a time and day where there are so many label labels, I love this question because now that there are so many different types of genders that people can use and labels, because there's more labels, I think there's more of a need to label yourself because they're available. Why not? I get labels. I'm gonna tell you this, and I've said it on my show before, for all you listeners that haven't heard me say it. I think there's a time and place for labels and they're very needed, especially for young, younger people who are trying to figure themselves out. I don't need a label at my age, right? And people are not going to need labels their whole life. But in times where you are trying to figure yourself out, like this guy, okay, if they could be very helpful, everyone wants to know that they belong to a group. When I was younger and there were no labels, I felt like a freak. Okay? I am very similar to all the people that exist nowadays. I was like, very ahead of my time. But back when I was younger, there was no place for me. So I just felt dysfunctional, quote, unquote. I would have loved all the labels they had nowadays. They have nowadays. It would have made me feel much better about myself. And that's what labels are good for. Like I said, I don't need those labels now because I figured myself out in my life. That's what life is about. But there's a massive time in your 20s where you are trying on so many different hats, you're trying out so many different things and you're trying to figure out who. Who the you are. And so labels are great. The more labels, the better. Especially for a guy like this, this guy has been hooking up with a trans woman, I'm assuming on more than one occasion. He obviously digs it. I would say in this situation, bisexual and pansexual are very similar. It's really hard to choose. But I think in this situation, because he's interested in, in the trans woman, she hasn't fully transitioned. And maybe there's like a male part and the female parts, maybe that means he's, he's pansexual because he's attracted to anyone, no matter what their gender. I'm going to tell you something that I read. Bisexual and pansexual are both terms that people may use to describe sexual orientation. Generally, bisexuality refers to an attraction to more than one gender. People may define pansexuality as attraction, as attraction, regardless of gender. So I would say if I just read that little snippet and don't go on and read the rest of the article, which makes it so much more confusing, I would say pansexual. But I think because I did read the rest of the article, they are so similar. And since I don't know much more about this guy's sexual orientation, whether he's into men and women as well as trans women, or is he just. Just into women and this trans woman, I don't know. But it becomes so confusing when you really read more into the both terms. They're very similar. And I just think pansexual is more broad and more open. And I think probably nowadays more people are going to choose pansexual over bisexual because most of the young people, I find, what they're into is like they'll date whoever, they'll are attracted to whoever, no matter what the gender. And I think that's what this guy has going on. And pansexual, I think, is just a better, more updated version of bisexual. And I would use that for you, caller guy, who DMed me first on Instagram. I would use it for you. That's what I would say. But like I said, a lot of people get ticked off because of labels. They're irritated by them. I don't know why you're irritated. If you don't need a label, don't fucking use it. But you have to understand that they are very valuable to a lot of people. And I think it's so amazing that, that they exist. And that's why I love this question. It was very short confession, but I loved adding it to this episode because I think it's an important topic and most of the time. When I give someone my analysis of why I like labels it kind of changes their mind. So hopefully I change some of your guys minds out there that are very anti labels to understand that labels have a place and they're needed and they help many people and bring the labels on. It's about time. Anyway, thanks for tuning in. If you want to call in and leave a confession on my confessions hotline, you could call that number 247-and-347-420-3579. That's 347-420-3579. The number again is 347-420-3579. That's 347 410-3579. The number's in the description. Thanks so much for tuning in.
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Kathy (Host of Strictly Anonymous Podcast)
Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out till August 25, but you can pre order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story, there's a cuck queen story, there's a cuck story, there's a gang bang girl story. Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all all told in the third person and they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person. And I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like Penthouse letters. It's more direct. It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't really like that kind of vibe. Right. But these are true stories. 17 of them. They're really short chapters, easy read. You could read, you know, one or two and then skip around. You could read the whole book. And it's available in ebag format, paperback format. And finally the audiobook is available coming out August 25th, but you could pre order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to My Discord. My Discord does not disappoint. Okay? There's no way you get into My Discord any other way than getting the link from me. Okay? I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares content with each other and that's what you get to do there. You could post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of channels. We have lots of contests where you could win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total, strictly anonymous community and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord. It's private. Like I said, all you gotta do is email me a screenshot of your purchase. Whether you did the audiobook, the ebook or the paperback. Send it to me at strictly anonymous podcast gmail.com. that's strictly anonymous podcast gmail.com and I will send you the link to Discord. So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in.
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Strictly Anonymous Confessions – Episode 1513
Naughty Confessions: Cuckqueaning, Breakups, Lifestyle Ventures, and the Hottest Cheating Story Ever
July 9, 2026
Host: Kathy Kay
In this candid, confessional episode, Kathy curates a series of anonymous, listener-submitted confessions that run the gamut from taboo sexual fantasies to heartbreak and self-discovery. Each confession is followed by Kathy’s insightful commentary—equal parts sex-positive, humorous, and heartfelt. From an emerging female cuckquean and lifestyle swingers, to an unfiltered breakup and a shockingly erotic cheating story, the episode spotlights the spectrum of human desire and experience—proving that nothing is too taboo, and everyone has a secret story waiting to be told.
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On female cuckqueaning:
“You’re a cuckquean... I believe a lot of girls have the cuckquean fantasy.” — Kathy [13:28]
On sexual wiring:
“If you keep sort of going down that rabbit hole... you could become like wired for that and everything else pales in comparison.” — Kathy [21:22]
On swinging and transformation:
“It’s so important to talk about little bumps in the road... what you always gotta remember at the end of the day... is both of you guys are human beings.” — Kathy [26:52]
On flakiness in lifestyle dating:
“Most people in life suck at what they do and they suck at being a friend... most people are flakes.” — Kathy [29:55]
On heartbreak coping:
“There’s nothing worse than a breakup, okay? ...Don’t burn anyone’s stuff, eventually you’ll get over it.” — Kathy [36:36]
On memorable secret sex:
“Every single time I think about that happening, it gets me super wet... it’s my best memory of my ex husband.” — Female Caller [44:45]
On labels:
“In times where you are trying to figure yourself out… labels are great. The more labels, the better.” — Kathy [48:44]
True to Kathy’s signature style, the episode balances salty humor, vulnerable admissions, and enthusiastic, validating support for every kind of sexual identity and exploration. The energy is inclusive, witty, and never judgmental—a safe place for taboo topics and honest feelings.
This episode of Strictly Anonymous Confessions delivers a raw, voyeuristic thrill while normalizing diverse sexual interests and personal struggles. From the revelation of hidden kinks (cuckqueaning and cuckolding) to the challenges of ethical non-monogamy, the program underscores the importance of self-discovery, open communication, and acceptance—no matter how wild your secret may be. Whether you’re seeking solidarity in your own path or simply in it for the stories, Kathy brings both wisdom and warmth to even the kinkiest of confessions.
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