1517 - Nicole & John are Into Hotwifing, Threesomes, Pregnant Gangbangs, and More

Summary

Strictly Anonymous Confessions

Episode 1517 – Nicole & John are Into Hotwifing, Threesomes, Pregnant Gangbangs, and More

Host: Kathy Kay
Date: July 13, 2026

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Overview

In this raw, revealing episode, Kathy Kay interviews John and Nicole, a married couple who have experienced an extraordinary sexual journey in just one year together. Meeting on Field, a dating app for the non-monogamous and open-minded, they dove headfirst into adventurous territory: hotwifing, swinging, wild threesomes, pregnancy kinks, a pregnant gangbang, and even starting an OnlyFans. The couple discusses the evolution of their desires, challenges in communication, the logistics and emotional nuances of these experiences, and how living out their fantasies has transformed their connection and self-perception.

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Key Discussion Points

1. Meeting and Background (07:28 – 09:25)

• Origin Story: Nicole and John met just over a year ago via the alternative dating app, Field. They married within two months of meeting.
• Their Non-Vanilla History: Both had dabbled in non-monogamy prior (Nicole in swinging, poly, and a long-term relationship with a woman; John had a bit of prior experience but not always positive).
• Open Communication: They were upfront about their desires from the very beginning, starting off with explicit conversations and a shared curiosity for sexual exploration.

“We were very, just kind of into each other… and then just kind of having conversations and dirty talk in bed and stuff… that led to having experiences together.” – John (09:05)

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2. Nicole’s Body Count & Hotwifing Dynamic (10:00 – 11:26)

• Nicole’s Body Count Goal: She aspires to a very high (1,000+) “body count,” with their relationship focused on separating sex from love and maintaining openness.
• Mutual Enjoyment: John thoroughly enjoys seeing Nicole with other partners, both men and women (though most play is with men). He organizes, vets, and even films many of these encounters.

“I have learned to differentiate sex from relationship and love… it’s just pleasure, it’s just fun.” – Nicole (10:29)
“Honestly, at this point, I’m throwing cameras and GoPros and everything into every situation.” – John (11:24)

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3. Stepping Into the Lifestyle: Swinger Clubs & First Experiences (11:56 – 16:02)

• First Forays: Their first shared adventure was a trip to San Francisco’s swingers clubs. Their initial attempt at a foursome led to unexpected emotions (jealousy, vulnerability) but resulted in real conversations about boundaries and comfort.
• First Lessons: Realized the importance of communication and debriefing experiences together.

“I kind of did have a breakdown… a lot of emotions happened at the same time when I saw him going down on her.” – Nicole (14:46)
“We realized we had fun doing public sex.” – Nicole (14:57)
“He was amazing just talking me through it… which is important.” – Nicole (15:47)

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4. Pregnancy, Sexual Empowerment & Pregnant Gangbang (16:15 – 26:27)

• Pregnancy Intensifies Kinks: After finding out Nicole was pregnant, her sexual drive and appetite for multiple partners soared in the second trimester.
• Embracing Sexuality: Nicole describes how sexual exploration during pregnancy helped her feel beautiful, sexy, and empowered at 40.

“Having these experiences has helped me embrace the beauty of my pregnancy… it’s made me feel better about myself.” – Nicole (19:04)

The Pregnant Gangbang (19:48 – 26:17)

• Organizing the Event: Through Reddit ads, John vetted numerous men, requiring strict STD testing for safety. They built rapport with a few regulars before organizing the gangbang with four men (including a cross-dresser), all respectful and well-vetted.
• Nicole’s Perspective: Despite initial nerves, the event was comfortable and enjoyable due to the partners’ respect and care.

“I get very nervous and very introverted… but after talking to all the men… all my nervousness went away.” – Nicole (25:09)
“It was fun. It really was. You know, it was my 40th birthday. I got to feel pretty and attractive and wanted…” – Nicole (25:16)

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5. Exploring Bisexuality, Threesomes, and Prostate Play (29:40 – 37:23)

• Crossdressing & Bisexual Play: One of Nicole’s gangbang partners was a cross-dresser. They later engaged in a threesome, filming content for OnlyFans. John shares his journey of vulnerability and curiosity with prostate play and experimenting with men.
• Open Dialogue: Nicole and John both appreciate the honesty and vulnerability each brings; Nicole, having been with women before, values John’s willingness to explore his bi-curious side.

“I was just being vulnerable enough to have a threesome with a crossdresser with my partner…” – John (29:41)
“It’s hard to find… in relationships where we can be completely honest… and that’s such a big turn-on for me.” – Nicole (36:08)

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6. Advanced Fantasies: Sleep Play & More (38:08 – 44:48)

• 'Sleep Play': Nicole’s fantasy involves being woken up (consensually) to sex, even by a stranger (arranged in advance). John would vet and plan these encounters, but real-life hiccups (like a regular’s cologne giving away his identity) show how complex these arrangements can be.

“He could start penetrating me when I was sleeping… that became really fun. Especially because I’d wake up a little, and then I’d go right back to sleep.” – Nicole (38:16)
“I probably got easily like a thousand messages within 24 hours [from Reddit].” – John (43:23)

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7. Porn Theaters, Boundaries, and Vetting Process (45:39 – 54:42)

• Adult Theater Adventures: The couple attended an adult theater/sex shop “megaplex” to explore their exhibitionist side. While open to public sexual play, Nicole prefers to maintain safety by vetting participants carefully.
• John’s Vetting: He’s meticulous about testing and boundaries, strictly filtering potential partners, and minimizing risk or discomfort for Nicole.

“We're so used to a vetting process… that's something I'm kind of leery about, with just having somebody that we don't know come in.” – Nicole (49:59)
“I had to learn a lot, pretty quickly, honestly… I wanted to ensure you weren't going to consistently blow me up, and we were going to actually have a conversation.” – John (39:22)

Rules Development (53:09 – 54:42)

• They’ve established strict boundaries over time, such as no kissing, no touching Nicole’s pregnant belly, and mutual agreement on other behaviors.
• Nicole likens the “no kissing” rule to “Pretty Woman”: “it's very intimate… I don't want to experience that with anybody other than my partner.” (54:25)

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8. OnlyFans & Exhibitionism (55:07 – 61:12)

• Content Creation: John manages, edits, and uploads their OnlyFans content; Nicole enjoys the exhibitionism, though says she can't watch herself on video. Their page is still “in its infancy.”
• Monetization & Kinks: They’re open to making customs (including lactation content), and John describes the technical and logistical challenges.
• Empowerment: Nicole finds filming and sharing content hot and empowering, especially knowing men are watching her.

“I don’t really do…I can’t watch myself. So it’s up to him to do all the editing…” – Nicole (55:25)
“Watching her and being involved with these other men and having these experiences turns me on insanely.” – John (56:00)
“Absolutely [I love knowing other men are watching].” – Nicole (59:19)

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9. Future Plans & Notable Feats (61:12 – 63:40)

• Hotwifing Continues: They plan to continue their adventures, clubs, and content creation as time allows, even after baby arrives.
• High-Volume Encounters: Nicole once had seven guys in a single day, with John organizing and sometimes filming the rotation (62:00).
• Scaling Up: Gangbangs are tricky to coordinate (16 vetted to yield 4 for one event), but they plan to continue pushing limits.

“There was a day where we had seven guys come over throughout the day.” – John (62:09)
“She was so sore and I loved every bit of it… we were ripping the Band-Aid off really quick with that one.” – John (62:53)

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

| Timestamp | Speaker | Quote | |-----------|---------|-------| | 10:29 | Nicole | “I've learned to differentiate sex from relationship and love… it's just pleasure, it's just fun.” | | 11:24 | John | “Honestly, at this point, I’m throwing cameras and GoPros into every situation.” | | 14:46 | Nicole | “I kind of did have a breakdown... a lot of emotions happened at the same time when I saw him going down on her.” | | 19:04 | Nicole | “Having these experiences has helped me embrace the beauty of my pregnancy… it’s made me feel better about myself.” | | 25:16 | Nicole | “It was my 40th birthday. I got to feel pretty and attractive and wanted and desired.” | | 29:41 | John | “I was just being vulnerable enough to have a threesome with a cross-dresser with my partner…” | | 36:08 | Nicole | “The fact that we can be honest and vulnerable with each other—that’s a big turn-on for me.” | | 43:23 | John | “I probably got easily like a thousand messages within 24 hours [from Reddit].” | | 54:25 | Nicole | “Kissing is very intimate… I don’t want to experience that with anybody other than my partner.” | | 62:09 | John | “There was a day where we had seven guys come over throughout the day.” |

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Timestamps for Important Segments

• Meet-Cute, Backgrounds, & First Sex Club: 07:28 – 12:05
• Nicole’s Body Count & Hotwifing: 10:00 – 11:56
• Swinging, Foursome Issues, & Communication: 12:05 – 16:15
• Pregnancy Kinks & Gangbang Orchestration: 16:15 – 26:27
• OnlyFans Beginnings & Content Creation: 22:34 – 24:29; 55:07 – 61:12
• Cross-dressing Threesome & Bisexual Exploration: 29:40 – 37:23
• Sleep Play, Vetting, and Safety: 38:08 – 44:48
• Rules, Boundaries, and Learning: 53:09 – 54:42
• The Seven-Guys-In-A-Day Story & Future Plans: 61:12 – 63:40

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Tone & Takeaways

Kathy’s signature no-judgment, warm, and genuinely curious tone makes room for John and Nicole’s openness, encouraging a candid, lighthearted, and ultimately sex-positive discussion. The couple’s story is a testament to the transformative power of communication, supportive partnership, and unfiltered exploration of desire. As Nicole says:
“It makes me feel sexy, it makes me feel hot, it makes me feel desired, and it's fun. We get to have this fun together and be open about it and honest—and I feel like a lot of people aren’t.” (61:11)

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Links & Shoutouts

• OnlyFans: @nicoleathome
• X (formerly Twitter): @nicoleathome86

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For listeners interested in real, unscripted accounts from the world of non-monogamy, sexual exploration, and personal transformation, this episode provides both insight and inspiration for honest communication and riding out your desires—wherever they may lead.

Transcript

[A]

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[B]

The Craigslist is definitely like the gift that keeps on giving. Real people respond.

[C]

You go to Singapore or Thailand, you can't not do it. The temptation is just too much.

[A]

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[B]

Your friend know that you're banging her?

[D]

No, no, he has no idea and anything goes.

[C]

Motto of the show. Let your freak flag fly.

[B]

Probably the only good advice I'll ever give you is to rehide whips and shame. Here is your host, Kathy. Hey, welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast with Kathy. If you want to follow the Strictly Anonymous Podcast on Instagram or Twitter, follow me at Strict Anonymous if you want to be on the show. It's called Strict Strictly Anonymous because they change everyone's voices and names. Okay, so if you have an interesting secret naughty life that you want to talk about while remaining anonymous or not anonymous, if you're out and proud you could email me at strictly anonymous podcast gmail.com or go to my website strictly anonymous podcast.com and click on Be on the Show. Now listen, I'm also looking for people that have any kind of like regular interesting stories or any kind of health journey stories. Like you lost a lot of weight or you started working out and you completely transformed yourself or anything to do with health. If you have an interesting story. I do a Sexual Health Saturday series and I'm looking for regular people to call in and tell their health stories, if that makes sense on my show. You know, like I said, I mean, email strictly anonymous podcast gmail.com. now listen, if you have a naughty confession you want to leave on my confessions line, you could do that 24. 7. The number is 347-420-3579. That's 347-420-3579. Call from a quiet place. I can't use ones when people call where they're driving. Some of those confessions make it onto a confessions episode. The rest go on to my Patreon. Now, my Patreon is super fun and it's very inexpensive if you ask me. It's only $7 a month and you get every single episode. I do seven episodes a week. You get every single one of them early, before anyone gets them, as well as intro and ad free. You also all the confessions and you also get Q&As that. I do like every other month where I answer a lot of questions. As well as you get anonymous pics of probably every single girl that has called into my show. Every single female guest. I got pictures of them over on my Patreon. Like I said, it's $7 a month. The link to Patreon is in the description. If you do sign up for my Patreon or buy my book. I wrote a book. It's called Strictly Anonymous Confession Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. It's all stories from my show told in the third person. They're super fun. And the audiobook is coming out in August. So if you buy my book, either in paperback or ebook or audiobook version, the links are all in description. I will also give you access to my private Discord. Like I said, if you join my Patreon or if you call into my show or if you buy my book, I will give complimentary access to my Private Discord. My Private Discord is not a paid site. It is free, but it is private and you can only get an and if I send you the link, I promise you you will not be disappointed. My Discord is full of great effing people. Okay? So if you buy my book, send me a screenshot of your purchase and I will send you the link to my Discord. Last thing I'm going to tell you about is if you want to sign up for SDC.com I do have a free trial for my listeners. SDC is like the world's largest online dating website. And it's not just a place where you could hook up with people. You could learn all about the lifestyle, you could find out about all the lifesty events and meetups and all kinds of things going on in your neighborhood as well as if you're going to travel and you want to have a little fun, you're going to find it all on SDC.com Like I said, you get a free trial if you use my code 37712 or just go to the description and click on the link. That's 37712 or just go to the description and click on the link. Okay, I have a great couple on today. Today I have on John and Nicole. They're both on talking about their whole crazy story. They have done so much in the one year. They've only known each other for one year. They met each other on field. So they were both open about being open. You know, listen, eventually Nicole sort of cops to the fact that in her previous life before him she had been in a relationship with a woman. She was in a poly relationship and she did many other things. She wasn't very vanilla really going in and they didn't go in as a vanilla couple. They went like I said, they met on field and they started dirty talking about all the stuff that they were into from the get go. And she's in into getting a high body count and he loves her having a high body count. So they're very into the whole hot wifing thing. And the crazy kind of twist to the story is like very early on when they were together they did start going to swingers clubs and doing stuff like that. But then she wound up getting pregnant and then she wound up living out all her fantasies through her pregnancy. She had a pregnant gang bang. She's been hot wifing throughout it all. I mean towards the end of the thing he talks about a a day where she did seven guys in one day. One after the other he vets all the guys for they eventually started an only fans. They have some stuff over there. Like I said, he's very into the hot wifing Thing. She loves what she's doing. She has a body count goal. Wait till you hear her goal that she has for her body count. She's also done a lot of guys since. I mean, her body count's pretty high. And he loves nothing more than her having a body count. They're very well suited. She loves what she does. It's made her feel very good about herself and she talks about that as well. There's so much to this episode. You're going to love them. You're going to love their whole story. So I'm going to get right to it and be right back on. On with Nicole and John. Hey, Nicole and John, welcome both to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you guys today?

[D]

Good. How are you doing, Kathy?

[B]

Good. So listen, you guys could see each other, so you'll know when who's going to talk and everything. So we don't all step on each other. I typically tend to interrupt a lot, but we have three people on this call you're both going to be on to tell your story. John was just telling me before we got on the call that he's been listening to my show before COVID and I'm like, why didn't you call in earlier? You know? But it turns out, and you have a very crazy story. You're doing a lot of crazy things we're going to talk about. But you. And you have only been with Nicole for about a year, correct? Or you've been together for longer and you just started doing all your stuff that you're doing in the past year.

[D]

We just met slightly over a year ago and we're married within two months.

[B]

Oh, wow. Now, John, where was your guys both back? Because you're not vanilla at all together, but were you both vanilla before you met each other? John, go first and then Nicole.

[C]

I would say that slightly. I had very small experiences in the past that weren't the best, and I believe Nicole had her experiences as well, too.

[D]

Yes, in my first marriage. I guess you would. We would do what you just call swinging a little bit after our first. My first two daughters were born, so. And then it kind of just took a pause while I went through the divorce and then met him.

[B]

Okay, so you were. You were obviously honest about who you were, straight up. How did you guys meet each other? Were you on, like an alternative lifestyle app?

[C]

Absolutely. We met on field.

[B]

Oh, okay, cool. So you knew each other. You're both freaky, right? And you wanted to remain that way.

[C]

Yes, exactly. Yes. We didn't necessarily, like, once we started seeing each other and. And obviously we dated very quickly and got married very quickly. We. We were very. Just kind of into each other at that time. And then just kind of. We're having conversations and dirty talk in bed and stuff like that. That. That really led to having experiences together.

[B]

Yeah. And I'm gonna. Just. Because it's so much easier for me to just read what you wrote because it's just one thing after another and it's so much stuff. Okay. Pregnant hot wifing. Starting in Only fans. We'll get to that in your story. But Visiting sex clubs in San Francisco. Cross dresser. Threesome bise. Some pregnant gang bang, fisting. Sleep Sleep play. Visiting local porn theaters. Nicole's body count goal. And prostate play. I mean, where the do we start? I want to get your goal. Let's start with where you. How many guys you want to get to Nicole. And then we'll start your story. What's your body count goal?

[D]

I would say it's only like 100.

[B]

Okay. Where are you at now?

[D]

I was. I was in a marriage for 10 plus years, so it's not like I did much during that time. But now that we. That was something we really started talking about, which kind of led us to all of this was just like once he thought. He said it was such a turnout, and I was like, I think it's fun to get my number up there. I have learned to differentiate sex from relationship and love. So it's just sex. It's just pleasure. It's just fun.

[B]

Oh, okay. So the goal is not a hundred. You're already at a hundred. Correct. Because to me, a goal is something that you're not at yet. You're actually like your. Your goal is just to have a high body count.

[D]

Y. Yes.

[B]

Okay. Love it. That's super interesting. And John, you're one of those guys that digs it, right? Like, you're not turned off by that, like a typical guy?

[C]

No, no, no. Absolutely not turned off about by it at all, to be honest with you. It's. It's something that I enjoy thoroughly with her. Seeing her with other men, but also. I mean, just seeing her. Yes, with men, but also with women too. There's only been one instance there. We done something with. With the female, but it doesn't. It doesn't. There's no jealousy with me or anything. I mean, honestly, at this point, I'm throwing cameras and GoPros and everything into every situation.

[B]

You're. You're helping her.

[C]

Yeah. And I've been more on the side of like setting up lighting and finding men to come over and vetting them out and. And doing all that kind of process.

[B]

Right. Okay, cool. So let's get. Let's start with like where you guys started because you've done a lot in a year. Ok, so. And you said. I think you just said before that you guys were like dirty talking in the bedroom and like, what was the first thing that come up that you guys decided to like, try? Because you've done a lot of things. But let's go like maybe in chronological order is a good way to talk about them all.

[D]

We started just talking about it and then when we took our first trip over Thanksgiving, we decided to try out going to a sex club.

[B]

Okay, so sex clubs was the first thing that you said. Let's go do that together. And what was on the table as far as like going like, as far as rules? Like, were there any rules or was it like anyone could. Anybody. I mean, what were you. Did you have discussions about that before going in?

[C]

I don't think we actually really had a discussion of what we were going to be comfortable with because we. We didn't really know what to expect. And I think just being in a completely different city, we just wanted to like go and see what they were like.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

Just kind of. And see what it was for ourselves. And we actually visited two different clubs and the first one we went to was a crazy experience to where they. It was just single guys everywhere and me and her walking around and just being followed everywhere like a bunch of poulters everywhere. It was kind of crazy, to be honest with you. And then we actually. That's when we made our. Did we make our first. We made our first field account together as a couple before we went and started looking for maybe like a couple to go with together. And that actually worked out to where a couple came and met us at the hotel that we were staying at. And we were staying in Union Square and.

[B]

Oh, in Manhattan. In New York City.

[C]

No, no, San Francisco.

[B]

Oh, okay, sorry. There's a Union Square in New York. I live in New York City, so I'm thinking Union Square by me, but. Okay, San Francisco. Okay, sorry. Go on.

[C]

Yeah, yeah. And so we. We met them and they came to our hotel and we. We had already talked to him about a certain club that we wanted to try and it was called Twist in San Francisco. And so they came to the hotel and we went up to the Sky Bar up there and hung out and talked and stuff. And we. We actually Took one of those self driving cars to it. It was kind of funny. I'd never been in one.

[B]

I would never get in one of those things. I have claustrophobia. I'm so paranoid that it would like lock me in and I wouldn't be able to get out. Like I don't trust a computer car. No way.

[C]

I don't trust him either. But I, I. Anyway, I got in it.

[B]

Yeah, let's. I'm not going to block your sex stories. Get back to the sex. Okay. So you go to the club and what goes down with this couple?

[C]

I'll kind of let Nicole take the range.

[B]

Sure.

[D]

So we went there and I was kind, I was hanging out with the guy, he was hanging out with the girl. And I think our mistake was not talking about it beforehand. And so I am. Because we were still, we were married but still relatively new at the same time. I didn't know what my emotions would be like. So I kind of did have a breakdown. Not a breakdown, but a lot of emotions happened at the same time. When I saw him going down on her.

[B]

Oh, interesting. Okay.

[D]

We kind of took some time to ourselves and decided, hey, this is our first time doing this. Let's just have it be us but let's explore there. So then we realized we had fun doing public sex.

[B]

Okay. It's like being in front like having people watch you and everything. Being like you're both exhibition.

[D]

Yes.

[B]

Okay.

[C]

Yeah, absolutely. Yeah.

[D]

And then we learned to talk more about it. So I think that kind of opened us up to have these hard conversations about what we are okay with and things like, of that nature.

[B]

Yeah. I mean, listen, that's why you do. That's why it's typically people should have conversations ahead of time and maybe put some boundaries in place because you never know. Listen, you guys were, you, you did feel a certain way, but you were able to work through it, which is very important. And that's what it's going to take being in the lifestyle. Like, because sometimes will come up if you have the, all the boundaries and all this stuff in place. Someone might feel a certain way one time and you got to be able to like be honest about it and your partner needs to receive it well and you guys need to be able to get through stuff like that. And you were able to get through it.

[D]

Yes. He was amazing. Just help talking me through it and things like that, which is important. Then after that experience, it was a few, three weeks later I found out I was pregnant.

[B]

Oh, I know. I was getting. Because there is a whole pregnant gang bang that goes down. Oh, my God.

[C]

Yeah, go on. We had been trying. We had been trying before, and. And when we came back, that's when she told me she was pregnant. And I was trying to do the timeline in my head and I was like, wait, did. Did we conceive our child at a sex club when it happened?

[B]

Oh, my God. That's a story you're not going to tell your kid.

[C]

Absolutely not. Yeah.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

Absolutely not. But. And then we really didn't do anything for a little bit after that. It was just kind of us. And it just kind of led to, like, more dirty talk and more dark dirty talk. And that's when she shared with me that she wanted to have a body count of being in the thousand thousands.

[B]

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[C]

Well.

[D]

Well, it's hard to say that because it's a very lofty goal.

[B]

It's okay, that's what, it's a goal. That's your goal.

[D]

But first trimester of pregnancy, I was just exhausted. So then it's like once my energy level built up in the second, that's really when I.

[C]

Then things kind of kicked off.

[B]

Did you get like super horny?

[D]

Yes. And it just became fun because then I was like, oh, now I can work on the body count. And especially with him realizing it was a turn on. And I had my first children in my 20s and now I was about to hit 40 and it's different at that age. But having these experience has helped me embrace the beauty of my pregnancy. Sexy.

[B]

Oh, interesting. Like made you feel hot and sexy with the belly in it, all that kind of stuff. As opposed to when you were younger maybe didn't feel that way?

[D]

Yes, absolutely. Especially now being 40, you know, and kind of feeling like I'm getting older and not as attractive. And having men want to do these things with me and being turned on by me has helped immensely.

[B]

Okay, cool. So do you have a gang bang right off the bat or you do other guys first? Because there is a pregnant gang bang in there.

[D]

I kind of always made the joke, but it was a reality that like for my 40th, I wanted a gang bang. And then I was pregnant, so I was like, how's that going to work? And then I turned 40 in May. Coordinated it.

[C]

Yeah, it kind of, it kind of started. Well, I'll kind of backtrack a little bit and, and lead into that. How it kind of all started. We, I started putting ads out on red it and I would, I, I put a picture of her up and I mean the, the messages came in like a floodgate. I mean it was just like one after another after another after another. And I'm just like asking for pictures and all this kind of stuff. And then before we even let anybody like do anything, I was like, look, you have to have a full blown test done, completely everything, send us all your results, all that stuff. So it's, we wanted to obviously play safe is, is number one for us. And so we started having guys come over like one at a time. And they would come over on days when children weren't home. They would come over if she had like a lunch break and could come home for 20 minutes and go back to work. And it just kind of went from there. And then I had come across a con, a local content creator here in our park part where we lived out in Central Texas. And it was a female. And she came over and she kind of. Her and her partner kind of gave us a rundown about only fans. And we were tossing around that idea of like, okay, well, you know, you're not going to be working and stuff. So, like, let's try to, like, have fun with this and try to see what we can do, if anything can come of it. And maybe we can, you know, have fun and make up some little extra cash or whatever on the side just having fun, you know. And so we started to do that and we would have guys come over and film a lot of pregnant hot wife, like BBC cream pies, facials, stuff like that. And she had kept talking about wanting a gang bang. So I had a couple of regulars that were coming over at that point that had been over like two or three times that Nicole actually became comfortable with. With. And we actually became friends with some of these guys and we still talk to them today and stuff like that. And so I actually organized for four guys to come over. There was. I. I believe one of them was, let's say, guy number. Guy A was. I believe he was like Italian. And then guy B was a very tall black man. And then we had guy C who was actually a cross dresser as well, too, too. But he came in male form for the gang bang. And then we had another content creator that was here. And yeah, I base she basically at that time, I think Only Fans was doing paperwork in instead of electronic stuff. So we had all them sign their paperwork and everything. And I. Oh, so you're already on

[B]

Only Fans at this point. When did you start that? Very early on?

[C]

No, actually, I would say we started Only Fans sense because it took me a while to get everything verified. I would say probably about. I would say in her second trimester, I had already gotten everything completely verified and ready to go. We just hadn't started releasing anything.

[B]

Okay, cool. All right, sorry. Go back to your story. I'll probably edit that out. Go back.

[C]

Yeah, and they. I mean, everybody was really, really respectful of Nicole and me and our boundaries because we did all this in our home. And yeah, it was just really hot watching her, you know, be pleasured by all these guys at one time and them just really eating her up, you know, and. And enjoying themselves. But I'll kind of let her talk more a little bit about Nicole, because

[B]

Nicole, what I've heard, I remember having this one woman on who makes porn for women by women. And, you know, that's like her whole thing. It's called Afterglow. And I remember her saying like, I love the stats that she gave me on like porn usage of women, you know, and typically you like, you think that, you know, lesbian porn is the thing that women watch the most. But she said the number one fantasy and the stuff that a lot of women download is gang bang porn. So it's like, like I don't think most women are going to go out and have a gang bang. But so many women, it's like they're a big fantasy of theirs. Was that something that was like always like hot to you?

[D]

Absolutely. Like that will be the only porn I really.

[B]

Yeah. And you're not alone. Is that interesting? I mean you're, you're kind of alone in that you did it when you were pregnant. You know what I mean? Like you're alone like that and you want a thousand dollar, you know, person body count. But like you're not alone that you were always watching that kind of porn. It's very common with women. So here you are living it out. So how was it for you?

[D]

I, even though I have done all of these, I guess you could say more on the wild side of a sexual sex life. I get very nervous and very introverted.

[B]

Right.

[D]

So when all of this was about to happen, I was, was really just not knowing how to take it all. But then after talking to all the men and they really, when John said that they were respectful, they really, really were respectful. And pregnant women know that you get uncomfortable, you need help getting up, you have to use the restroom. And I was able to take breaks and like they would help me up, they would help me, you know, put my robe on and things like that. That. And it was just kind of, it made it so comfortable and just like chatting with them too. It made it so all my nerve, my nervousness went away.

[B]

Interesting. And was, did it live up to your gang bang fantasy? Was the reality as good as the fantasy?

[D]

Yes, it was fun. It really was. You know, it was my 40th birthday. You know, I got to feel pretty and attractive and wanted and desired. So, so no complaints there. And I, like I said it was always kind of a fantasy to do that for my 40th and then to have it actually play out really well was fun.

[B]

How many guys told how many guys total again?

[D]

So he watched in the background and there was the four men.

[B]

So it was, did it, did your guy. Did John ever get involved too? So was it. Or he just watched in the background. John, did you get involved?

[C]

I didn't necessarily. A Little bit. I wasn't, I didn't. There was a time if you didn't

[B]

get involved, you were taping.

[C]

There was a time where she was laying on the bed and. Yeah, and, and, and she likes to be fisted. And I had taken an opportunity, while all the guys weren't playing to do that and they, so that they could see and stuff like that. That was about as far as my involvement.

[B]

So Nicole, did you go into that relationship like as someone that had been fisted before and you let him know that you were into that or is that something that you and John got into together?

[D]

So it had happened a few, like in the past of my past relationships and I really didn't get that a lot of women can't. Don't do that or aren't into it, but it is pleasurable for me and it's a turn on. And then to know that not many women enjoy that, that kind of makes it hotter for me too.

[B]

Who got you? Like what? Did someone get you into it? Or were you someone that said to a guy friend of yours once or like a guy you're with once, like hey, like put more fingers in or whatever? Like, how did you start?

[D]

My, me and my first husband, we would have like our play time and that's just when we, I learned about all of this. So it was with him and then in between my, my two marriages, I was in a female relationship for a while and, and so she would do it with me and then any. And then I was in a polyamorous relationship with another man and he would do it as well.

[B]

Oh my God. You've had a very non vanilla past. I mean you guys have done a lot together, so we'll stick on you. But I could probably do a whole other episode about your, your past life. Poly. You've had a lesbian relationship, right? I mean you've kind of been there, done that. You've tried everything.

[D]

I really have. And, and it's not something I shy away from either. You know, I kind of, I'm pretty honest about it as well. Like I did tell my family, you know, I'm in a relationship in a year long relationship with this man who has a partner of 10 years. But then I had a girlfriend as well and we were going on trips and my children met both of them. And my children have kind of, they're younger so they don't have a lot of questions. But I don't shy away from it.

[B]

Right.

[D]

I like that. You know, you get these options in life now and it's not. What's the word I'm looking for? It's not as scandalous as it used to be.

[B]

Right. And so you're cool with being open about who you are and what you're interested. How did the cross dressing threesome come into play?

[C]

Well, it was one of the guys from the gang bang and he kind of stayed and talked a little bit and he, he was talking to us about only fans about how he used to have a big onlyfans account and he would manage it and then he kind of stepped away from doing it and would help others build it. And so we just kind of kept talking. And he had come over, I think it was a couple of days after. And he was like, well, what would you guys want me to come as? I can come as her or I can come as him. And we're like, well, just come, you know, as you. And he did. And he, you know, took his time and got with Nicole and she took him in the bathroom and helped her get ready to come out. And we just had cameras going and just kind of were, you know, on the bed and she started it and, and we had that threesome and it was great. It was actually my first time, so it was kind of like a. It was my first time being vulnerable like that in front of a partner of mine in that way.

[B]

How are you vulnerable?

[C]

I was just being vulnerable enough to have a threesome with a cross dress with my partner and talk to that with her and go through with it and have the full experience with a partner of mine.

[B]

Okay. Was that your first time hooking up with a guy as well? I mean, because I'm assuming he had body parts, right? Like male body parts. Was there any kind of hookup like that for you as.

[C]

As far as penetrated sex? Yes. And I, and I, and I was a top during that. Okay, now we had had some threesomes in the past before filming that. We had. We had a gay man come over and he tried to top me and, and my wife held me while I was trying and I just couldn't do it. It was just way too much for me. But we, he was a really nice guy and he came and hung out with us and it was, it was actually really comfortable. I just, I couldn't bottom.

[B]

Right. But you tried. I give you credit. You were like, you're down to try, right? Yeah, that's cool.

[C]

Yeah, absolutely. And I think that kind of comes into play with just like I've always been curiosity about, curious about. About prostate play and like using like prostate massagers and stuff like that. And we're at a point right now just where we're playing just us without any kind of like cameras or other people, where actually we have gotten a training set for me to, you know, get more relaxed. And so we've been experience, we've been experimenting with that on our owns here at home.

[B]

And is that because you want a bottle from.

[C]

I don't know if it's necessarily that I want a bottom. Like it's weird because there'll be times where like I get super horny and I think about it and I'll watch and I'll watch gay porn with her or bisexual porn. And I'm like, it looks so like that looks fun. It looks like something that I would enjoy. And then I get like revved up about it. And then whenever I get in the moment, start doing it, I'm like, this is really hard to do. Like this is really uncomfortable. You know what I mean? Like it looks, looks very pleasurable, you know. But yeah, I mean one day I would love to be able to have that full like prostate orgasm.

[B]

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[B]

How about was so much about? Yeah, right. I've heard a lot of guys talk about it. How was the topping, the cross dresser for you? Yeah.

[C]

Oh, it was great because I mean I, I really enjoyed it and it turns, it turns her on whenever she sees me with interacting with other men because I don't know, she, she loves watching that kind of stuff and, and I've always had a curious side in me to explore that side of my sexuality but have always just kind of tried to like subdue it. Does that make any sense?

[B]

Yeah, for sure, sure. And you say you had never had an experience with a guy ever before this time? Yeah. When the guy tried to talk you.

[C]

It didn't, it wasn't, it wasn't penetrative. It was like oral sex that lasted for all of Maybe like two minutes.

[B]

Right? Okay.

[C]

Yeah.

[B]

Were you the giver or the receiver?

[C]

It was both ways.

[B]

Okay, cool. All right, so it's. But you're into that Nicole, like you like to see him with the guys.

[D]

I had never seen it in person before until him. And I think because he's able to be honest with me and vulnerable, that's what I find attractive. Because it's hard to find that in relationships where we can be completely honest about that, Especially with, you know, him always being attracted to females and stuff and realizing, let's try this out and we're doing it together. And that's such a big turn on for me. So when I get to see him enjoying these things and being honest with me about it, I love it. Right.

[B]

And you're obviously into women because you've dated them in the past too, Right. Do you consider yourself bisexual fluid?

[D]

Yes. Yeah, I was, yes. It was just. I felt like I was more wanting. Women were more. Are beautiful and sexier and, and fun to play with. I don't know if I can necessarily do another full blown relationship.

[B]

Right. Okay. How long did that relationship last?

[D]

About six months and. But she was younger than me and she was, she was amazing. You know, she knew that this was my first female relationship and we got along so well, but I think it was more. Turned into more of a friendship.

[B]

Right. Okay, cool. But you liked sex with women, right? Okay. Okay. And now have you, before we get into sleep play and the other things, have you. Besides that time where John was with the woman at the club, have you guys ever had a woman together again?

[D]

No.

[B]

Okay.

[C]

No, no, no, we haven't. We've only had another female come over to do some content creating with just her and Nicole.

[B]

Okay, so you, you've been with the woman yourself in that situation for your only fans, but never together, like for your guys pleasure. You're more into. You guys are more into hot wifing and threesomes with guys. Right? That's your thing for the most part.

[D]

I think that's what we're. Our angle is.

[C]

Yeah, yeah, I would say that's our angle as of right now.

[B]

Right. And what's sleep play? What does that mean?

[C]

So you want to.

[D]

So I think another fantasy next to the gang bang would be me getting woken up by having sex. So that was something we had talked about. And especially in my first trimester, I was really tired all the time, so I didn't really have a desire to have sex. But he could start like penetrating me when I was sleeping. Because he would watch porn, and then, you know, I was always sleeping on my side, and that became really fine. Especially because I, like, wake up for a little bit and then I could go right back to sleep. Sleep.

[B]

Yeah.

[D]

But then we started talking about, like, the straight, like, just being woken up by somebody who's not him.

[B]

Oh, so you took sleep plate all to a whole other level. It's like stranger sleep play.

[D]

And like I said, he kind of takes control over vetting people, so he's the one who talks to them first and makes sure that they're respectful, that they're clean, all of these things.

[B]

Talk to me about that, John, about your vetting process and stuff, and then say whatever you were just going to say.

[C]

And honestly, the vetting process, I had to learn a lot, like, pretty quickly, honestly, because, you know, you. For any guy out there that's going to put a picture of his wife out there, the guy. The hounds are going to come out, right? So there's going to be every horny guy in the world just trying to, like, have sex with your wife and, like, not have any care about anything. So for me, it was. I wanted to ensure that you weren't going to, like, consistently blow me up, and we are going to have, like, an actual conversation of, like, hey, I'm the husband. Like, this is my wife. We are pregnant. All that stuff is on the table. Like, we're not hiding anything. And if this is something that you want to do, I need to have full test results, you know, and they need to be up to date. And then a lot of times, guys will be like, like, oh, I haven't been with a partner for a year, and I haven't had sex in here. And I was like, still doesn't matter. I still need you to have a test done if you want to. If you want to be a part of any of this, you know, so slowly it was. I was able to weed out the. Just. I'm going to call them just, like, Internet trolls, I guess you would say. But the ones that would actually have those conversations, you'd be like, yeah, absolutely. Like, pregnancy is a big kink of mine, you know, and they would send me face pictures. They would send me pictures. They. They would send me. They're like, hey, I don't have a STD test, but I'll go tomorrow and get one done. And then they would turn around and send me stuff like, okay, cool, great. You know, and then that's kind of like how I would do it. And then. Because when we first started, we didn't have any. We were like, well, what do we do? You know, like, we're not going to be going out to like, clubs and trying to find people and stuff like this. So it was really just pulling people off of Reddit, Right. And there was a few situations that came over be like, yeah, that guy's cut. He's not coming back. There's been a couple of them that I've turned away and didn't even get to come inside. And then there's been four of them that have become regulars. One of them is, has been over here, I think, like four or five times. And we've done content for of. And we, we kind of spitball ideas and stuff now, but one another one of them is actually was. Is a male stripper and has done content creating in the past. And we actually did attempt to fulfill the sleep fantasy for Nicole. And what gave it away was I told him not to wear his cologne and he wore his fucking cologne. I'm like, damn it.

[B]

Oh, no. Because you knew by the cologne that it was him.

[D]

Yeah, I could add, because he, we had met him a few times and just a person who was really kind mind, but he did wear like a strong cologne.

[B]

Oh, that's so funny.

[D]

And so I was starting to wake up and I was like, I said his, why is my husband's hand so stinking cold? And then I got the, the cologne smell and I was like, okay, now I know what's going on. But up until then, I had no idea it was going. It was a curry.

[B]

A what?

[D]

So I had no idea because we've talked about it.

[B]

No, no, but you said it was no idea it was a curry. What word did you just see?

[D]

So when I was like, we've always talked about it. And when it happened, like, because I didn't know what, what night or what was going to. When it would happen. So I was surprised that it, like there was a. I was like, oh, it's happening at someone. So. But it gave it away.

[B]

Right, but you did. But I mean, this was all set up and planned, right? You did, you did.

[D]

This is. Yeah, all of this is completely consensual.

[B]

Yes, right, of course. But the whole hot factor for you, Nicole, is that a stranger is sort of coming in and, you know, doing this to you when you're sleeping. Right. And that's why the cologne kind of ruined the mood, because she didn't want to know it was him.

[D]

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[B]

Oh, my God. Did you put an ad on, like, Wherever saying like, looking for someone to wake my wife up and her like in sleep. Like, was it a Sleep play app?

[C]

I absolutely, I absolutely did. And when I. And when I did, I mean I probably got easily like a thousand messages within like 24 hours. And I'm just like, oh my God. And mind you, like, I work a full time job outside of all this and, and I'm trying to like balance everything and respond and like do all this stuff. And I. So then I was like, this is overwhelming. I'm just going to delete it. And I deleted it. And I had reached out to this play partner of ours and I was like, hey, here's the situation. This is what Nicole is wanting to do, but she doesn't want to know. So like, I'm not going to tell her that you and I are planning this. She wants me to do this and she wants to be completely caught off guard and like somebody take my place in bed and all. Xyz, you know. And so he had agreed. And when I told him, I was like, unfortunately right now she's not sleeping very well, so she's taking a long time to fall asleep, all this kind of stuff. So finally she had fallen asleep and I was like, okay, cool, come over. And he only lives about 15 minutes away, so it was, it was easy for him. And he had already been here so he knew the ins and outs of like where the house was, when to come in, all that kind of stuff like that. And yeah, I mean the cologne and the cold hands gave it away. I mean it still pretty much fulfilled it for her, but I don't think think it fulfilled it 100. I don't know. But we haven't tried. We haven't tried again.

[B]

Right. I get it though. I think there's something. And I haven't done it with like a stranger or something, but there is something about being woken up to sex in that I feel like you're still, because you're so sleepy and you're just coming out that you feel almost stoned. You know what I mean? It gives it this whole other kind of experience that I always liked when a guy woke me up in the middle of the night to me, because I felt a little like high without being high. You know what I mean? Because I was like half, half sleepy or whatever. I don't know. Do you know what I'm talking about?

[D]

Yep.

[B]

Yeah.

[D]

Like that's the perfect way to describe it.

[B]

Yeah. So it definitely adds to it. You know, you're kind of like a little out of it, and it's like. It's kind of hot. Okay, so what about the. We're gonna get into, like, your only fans of what's on there and when, how that works and all that, what you do over there. But, like, let's talk about. You went to some, like, theaters or the adult theaters, porn stores. What. What kind of stuff did you go to? I feel like something was in there about that.

[D]

So I. He's always talked about it. He had gone to one, a local one in the past, and I did not. When I think of a porn theater, I'm thinking of, like, an old school, like, movie theater where there's just men jacking off.

[C]

Like, me, too.

[B]

Like, what? Yeah, exactly. Like, I want to know what the it is.

[D]

We've been talk. Like, he's been talking about it. And we have our. Like I said, we're a blended family, so we are always so busy with children that it's really hard to carve out time when there's no kids here, when I just actually want to do stuff and not sleep all day.

[B]

Yeah. And you have a newborn baby by now, right? Or are you still pregnant?

[D]

Oh, no, I'm eight months pregnant.

[B]

Oh, okay. So wait till that baby comes. Forget about it.

[D]

Yeah.

[B]

Yeah. Okay, go on.

[D]

We finally had a free day, and he. I think he had a stressful day at work, and, like, he really wanted to go. And I was like, okay. Like, I'm. Like. I said I get very nervous and shy about these things, but I was like, let me rest. And then we're gonna go.

[B]

Okay, one second. And we're gonna get right back to that start. And you're. And you're gonna tell the story, Nicole. But, John, I just want to know from you, in the past, when you went there, would you engage with anyone or anything? Or did you just go and watch the movie and jerk off? Like, what would. What. It went down when you went in previously by yourself?

[C]

Well, at first, I didn't even realize what it was. It was this big mega. It's. It's like a megaplex, like, sex store.

[B]

Okay.

[C]

And I was, like, going in there to find something for me to take home, like a. Like a flashlight or something like that.

[B]

Okay.

[C]

And then when I went in, I was like, what are these halls? You know? And I asked the guy, and I was like, what's in these halls? And he was like. I was like, oh, they're. They're booths. And I was like. I was like, what do you mean? He's like, oh, you can go watch a movie. And I was like, okay. I was like, well, how much does that cost? He's like, oh, it's 10 bucks. And he gives me. I give him 10 bucks cash, and he gives me these coins. And then when I walk in there, there's nobody in there. And I'm just like, okay, whatever. So I, like, open the door and I go in the booth. And like, mind you, this is in the middle of the day. It's not like at night time. Whenever I went and did this, I was like, driving back from being out of town and I was like, it, I'm gonna stop. You know, I've been driving for four hours. I'm horny right now, you know, and so I just go in there and. And you just put the quarters in the machine. And there's like a hallway of like 20 different cubicles, essentially, that have. That have TVs in them. You put coins and you can pick whatever point you want. Well, I didn't interact with anybody there. I just went in there and jerked off, did my thing, and I got my release and went home. And I'm. And then on Reddit, I. I stumbled across a subreddit of that place, and I noticed that there were couples going there and. And all that stuff. And. And I mean, obviously there's guys that are going in there and doing whatever it is they're doing, because when we went, I didn't even realize this, but there's a whole nother section where they have a place roped off, and it's two bigger booths and it's for couples, and there's a chain there saying, like, do not cross unless you are invited. If you do cross without being invited, you will be banned and not able to come back in.

[B]

Right.

[C]

Well, so when. When Nicole and I went, that's where we went in. And we didn't invite anybody there, but we were playing in there. And we were there for probably about like an hour or so. But we could hear guys outside, like, walking by, and they were like tapping our booth, like, wanting us to invite them to come in and stuff like that. And when we did finish up, we went to the opposite side just to go see what it looked like over there. And I was showing her what it looked like, and there was nobody in the hallway. But then the door opened up and, like, was it like four guys came out of one booth? I believe it was four guys. It was like three or four guys came out of one booth. And then she got a little frightened and she was like, okay, let's go, go type situation. And then pretty much we just left. Yeah.

[B]

How was that experience for you? Like, being at. At a place like that?

[D]

Is that question for me?

[B]

Yeah. Nicole. Sorry.

[D]

Yeah, it was just. It's something like, I needed to scope it out first, and I need to try it with him first off, and it's something I'm going to leave open. I would enjoy going again. And it is, because it's kind of like that exhibition side of me, but I don't know, because we're so used to a vetting process.

[B]

Yeah.

[D]

And having only, like, certain people come, that is something that I'm kind of leery about with just having somebody that we don't know come in. And even if it's just to walk, I guess watching would be okay. But if they wanted to partake, that's. That's where I'm still not sure what my boundaries are.

[B]

Right. Let me ask you this. What kind of guys do you. You typically dig? Like, I know he's vetting for you, but what's your type, Nicole?

[D]

I would. My type, I can't do. This is gonna sound terrible. My first marriage, I was with an older man, so I don't like older anymore. It was just. It was a bad marriage.

[B]

You're, like, 40. 41.

[D]

I'm 40. Yeah. He's in his 50s. And I'm like. And I feel like I look pretty good for 40, so I'm like, I want my age. Me, maybe slightly older or younger.

[B]

Okay.

[D]

And I do. And I. I appreciate all body types and things like that, but I do like somebody who's fit, who's not, you know, on the larger side, I would say, like a. Like a younger, hot athlete, like, kind of, like, attractive. Like, that would be, like, my ideal type. But then I never really. I'd only been with one black man in the past, but we have some black men who come over and it's. And they're. They're great. So I'm learning, like, kind of to get outside my comfort zone and embrace all of it. Right.

[B]

And are you a size queen? Are you fine, like a size A factor or not?

[D]

Not so much, you know, but then, you know, but then we do have the black guys, which is fun.

[B]

And. Do they have bigger dicks? Is that what you're saying?

[D]

Yes, I would say that stereotype is absolutely true.

[B]

Right, Right. But you're open and down. Right? I mean.

[D]

Yeah.

[B]

Yeah. Okay, cool. And really, what's the most important to you? That they're like, Cool people. Like, do you get attracted to the guy the first time you meet him? Do you need to, like, get to know him first? Like, I know he vets them for you, but like, do you typically just meet them the first time they come over your house?

[A]

Yes.

[D]

Yes. And so like he said in the beginning, like, I would come home from work and there would be a guy here on my lunch break.

[B]

Yeah, that's how you like it.

[D]

But now that we. Now that we have more time to do it and having more consistency, it is nice to get a rapport with them. Right. And the best thing is he's done such a good job with the vetting process is how respectful all these men have been. Especially, you know, because I'm in a vulnerable state being eight months pregnant, and they're just not. They're just kind of right. And that really means a lot. And that's why we do have consistency with some of these men.

[B]

Yeah, that. That goes a long way, especially when it comes to this kind of stuff, you know, and that's why a lot of guys. That's why it's. I feel like a lot of guys do things wrong in your vetting process. I'm sure it's a lot. It's probably easy to take a lot of those guys that are emailing you off the table because they're just like, I want to your wife or they just send you a dick pic. I mean, that's typically what I hear, that a lot of guys don't really know the right way to approach this kind of situations. So the nice. Yeah, those nice, respectable ones stand out, right?

[C]

Yeah, yeah, absolutely. Like the ones that will actually take their time and talk to me, like there. A lot of them will even ask me or like, so what are you good with? Some of them have asked me what I'm good with and I've. I had a guy that. I didn't really bring it up during the heat of the moment, but he had crossed a boundary mind, because I don't want any of these men, like kissing her belly and stuff like that, you know? Know. Yeah, that's. That. That's weird. It throws me off. But other than that, like, I'm. I'm. I'm pretty. I'm pretty, like even kill with everything, but just one guy did it. I didn't even say anything. I just, you know, he was already in the moment. Everything was going on. I didn't want to ruin it cause a scene. Mind you, we're in our own home, you know, so I Was like, let him finish, get out, he's never coming back type situation, you know, So I just, like. Because I didn't want to make it uncomfortable for Nicole either, you know? Yeah. And then.

[D]

And.

[C]

And then it just throws a kink in everything.

[D]

And that's also been a learning experience for us because some of these things we didn't realize. So then afterwards we've been able to talk about it and be like, okay, I'm not comfortable with that. You're not comfortable with that. Here's one of our set rules, right.

[B]

What other kind of rules, if any, have come up over this time that you guys been doing this besides the kissing, the belly thing, Anything else that you guys could think of?

[D]

I don't like kissing.

[B]

Okay, interesting.

[D]

And I feel like I go back to the time of Pretty Whip Pretty Woman when she doesn't kiss on the mouth. And I just. I find that to be very intimate. And yes, these are intimate moments, but I don't want to experience that with anybody other than my partner.

[B]

Yeah, I get it. I had a booty call guy once that I. For seven years, and I never kissed him. And not because I felt. Because it's intimate to me. Kissing to me isn't intimate. It's hot. But I didn't like his mouth. And you know, honestly, it was just a gross mouth. And I. But I liked every other part of him. And I never kissed him once. And I got off every time. It was a great sex. So I get it. You know what I mean? You could and not kiss.

[C]

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[B]

It's so funny. All right, so tell me about your only fans. Like, what do people see there? Do you enjoy doing it? Like, you know, how much content do you have up there now? And all that kind of. Of good stuff. And of course I'll put like a link to it or something. Or you're giving your name, you know, and we'll give a shout out. But I'll put stuff in the description so people know how to find you.

[D]

Even though, like, we've worked on it, it's still. It's. I don't really do. I can't watch myself. So it's. It's up to him to do all the editing, figure it out. So. And because we have been so busy, it's hard to really commit a lot of time. So he's working on it more and more, but it would still be in its infancy stages.

[B]

Okay, that's good to know. And John, do you enjoy, like, putting that stuff out there, knowing that other People are consuming it. Is that a part of your hot wife kink on top of just making a couple extra bucks?

[C]

Oh yeah, absolutely. I mean it drives, it drives me for sure. And when I'm w. Like when I'm re. Watching clips and like cutting them and taking things out, like if there's a person's face they don't want in there, have to take their face out or anything like that. Yeah, just watching her and being you know, involved with these other men and having these experiences turns me on insanely. I will say that this whole process of like doing all the back end stuff for only fans has, has been a lot of trial and error. You know, obviously you have to build a foundation first and you have to have a following. Like I understand that. So I really you know, started, started pouring more into X lately getting followers there and, and just kind of conversing with people and I've been though we've been filming a lot, I have a lot of footage that I haven't released yet that I'm going to be slowly releasing and have been. I think I've put about, maybe about a dozen clips up on, on Only Fans and following is slowly building it's. And it is slow because I believe that in order to like make that stuff super successful is you've got to be on it every second of the day and like constantly uploading stuff and like engaging with people and networking and stuff which I completely understand. But then at the same time like I don't necessarily have all the time to, to dedicate to like constantly being on there, constantly messaging, constantly following back editing, editing, posting things, all that kind of stuff like that while you know, being a husband, being a father, doing a full time job, helping clean the house, taking the kids out to do stuff, you know, all that. So it's, it's a lot of balance. So I'll find myself go through a peak of times like where I'm in it really, really hard and I'm posting things and getting a lot of traction and then I'm like stuff popped up, I gotta focus on this stuff now and I go back and I have to like react, rebuild the traction again, you know and it's. So that's what's kind of caused a lot of like slow in the process of like building a big following.

[B]

Right, but you're going to get people here so maybe upload a lot more stuff before this go comes out.

[C]

Yeah, absolutely. And, and, and that's, that's kind of where I'm at right Now I've got. I, I was going to go ahead and do like full edits and put them on there. Well, no, now what I'm doing is I'm going to probably put up like about a minute clip, clip. And it's. I think it's, it's 9.99 to subscribe to it. And then if people want a fully edited version, I can sell a fully edited version on the side as like a direct video for them or if they want to try to do any type of like personalized videos, like, hey, can you do like customs, some lactating. Can you do like a custom lactating video for me instead of that? Because I mean, we didn't even really tap into that. I mean, I've been breastfeeding on my wife for the past, past, like four months and, but yeah, and, and just releasing content and stuff like that. But I mean, first kind of just started with pictures and then just started putting out videos as I'm going.

[D]

Right.

[B]

And you love that that's a part of your kink. You're down for people seeing you. I assume because you're a little bit of an exhibitionist, you might not want to watch yourself, but I'm assuming you dig that other guys are watching you. Right? As well.

[D]

Absolutely. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[B]

And give out your shout out like your name on only fans as well as on X. Right. Because they could see clips over there too.

[C]

Yeah, absolutely. The only fans is at Nicole at Home.

[B]

Okay. At Nicole at Home. I'll put that in the. And is that the same for only. Is that the same for X and only fans? The both same thing, yes.

[C]

And for exits, Nicole at home 86.

[B]

Oh, okay. So it's not the same. So Nicole at home, 86 for acts and the other. Okay, it's okay. I'll put both those in the description. So how is, I mean, you've been together for a year, you're about to have a baby. Will you continue hot wifing? Are you going to continue going to the, the clubs? Do you do like, are you into all of what you've been doing for this past year and you're just going to continue with it all?

[D]

Yes, you know, as long as time permits. And that's one good thing with him. Am filming a lot and having the backlog because I am due, you know, to have a baby in less than next month.

[B]

Yeah.

[D]

So then, you know, there is that postpartum time too. But then I also learned that men like lactating boobs, so that's coming up too.

[B]

John, you like it, right?

[C]

Oh, I love it. I love it. I love it. Trust me. There's. There's a video I've been trying to get up on. Our freaking only fans and of. Of that. And for whatever reason, they don't like. They don't like me in the video. So I'm dealing with that on the back end right now.

[B]

Oh, my God. I remember having a woman on that was into that, and she was, like, breastfeeding all these guys. I was like, what the. And I gotta tell you, got a lot of downloads. I realized a lot of people are into this. For sure. It's a kid.

[D]

I'm like, I'll take. I'll take advantage of it. And like I said, it does. It makes me feel sexy, it makes me feel hot, it makes me feel desired, and it's fun.

[B]

Right?

[D]

And that's what we realized going into this, is we get to have this fun together and be open about it and honest. And I feel like a lot of people aren't.

[C]

Right.

[B]

Yeah, for sure. And be for you, Nicole. Like, is there anything still on your bucket list? I mean, I know you have a goal, a lofty goal, but you're gonna work towards it. You're into, you know, banging a lot of guys. Like, is there anything else? Like a DP or DVP or like, two guys in one day or something? Like, is anything kind of like, I

[D]

was like, I think I've done most of those.

[B]

O have.

[D]

That's why, like, when stuff comes up, I can tell him, like, hey, let's maybe do this, or. And same with him. And we're still. We're learning as we go and still learning what we might want to try out in the future. And there's nothing stopping us.

[C]

I will say that when before we started the only fans, there was a day where we had seven guys come over throughout the day.

[B]

Oh, my God. Getting a story now.

[C]

I have. Yeah. There's just one day when I had guys coming over, like, every other hour through the entire day.

[B]

Wow.

[C]

To the point where she was so sore that she could barely take me. And, yeah, it was one of the funnest days I needed.

[B]

Oh, my God. And so every hour there was somebody. Someone would come in, you do your thing, and then you leave. And were you in there watching the whole time?

[C]

I was in there watching some of it. I would film. And then I got to a point I was like, I was tired of filming it. And then it just got to a point to where at the end of the day, I was the last one to go and it was, it was great. She was so sore and I loved every bit of it.

[B]

Oh my God. You must have a lot of guys in your roster to get seven guys to come over in one day.

[C]

Yeah, that was at the beginning of Reddit.

[B]

Why we're still learning.

[D]

Learning stuff.

[C]

Yeah, we were ripping the band aid off really quick with that one.

[B]

Oh my God. I mean it's, and even it's hard to, I've heard it's very hard to coordinate a gang bang that you were able to get the four guys over to. I mean, you know, you gotta, you got a good vetter there for you. Nicole. John.

[C]

Yes, I, I think I vetted a total of 16 guys for this gang bang and I knew that people were going to flake, things weren't going to work out, all that kind of stuff. She said she wanted eight guys. I only got her four, you know, so then I felt like I let her down.

[D]

Good starting point. We can work our way up.

[B]

Oh my God, that's hilarious. That's awesome. Listen, you guys, I mean, I feel like you could give me another episode in a year from now about lactation, lactating.

[C]

Oh, we totally could and we totally love to you.

[B]

Yeah, it's a, it's a good topic when you just focus on that. Like I said, I've had, I had like one girl who, who had a whole gray great story and then she also was. Got into that and that was a part of her story. And then I had one episode that was like full fledged. That was the whole thing and so many people were like loving it that I would totally do a whole episode on that too. But I'm so glad that you guys called in and shared this story. It sounds like there's. We didn't even talk about the DP dvp. The next time you call in we could talk about all that. But do me a favor and send me some like R rated picks if you want for Patreon. I can't do anything, any kind of like real naughty stuff over there. But if you want to send some anonymous pics from my Patreon, you will get free access for a month to see the comments there. And then when we hang up you're going to get access to my discord and in there there's a content creator section. So you could totally put your link to your only fans and stuff in your bio on there, your profile. You can't do links in the post, but you could do it on your profile and you could like post clips and stuff or pictures over on content creators, but you're also going to get access to the guest channel channel to post whatever you want over there as well when your episode airs.

[D]

Okay, awesome.

[C]

Thank you.

[B]

No problem. Listen, I love your whole story, guys. We're super fun. Your episode will be up very soon, so get me your your pick sooner than later.

[C]

I think that you, you should be fine because I, I did email you back in our email thread at your strictly anonymous at gmail. I did send you some pics there and I sent you those links to the X and oh perfect, I saw the links.

[B]

I don't know why I didn't see the pics, but sometimes like I just get hundreds of emails a day so maybe I just knew you were coming on. I have the pics. Okay, so I know I have pics already is what you're saying, right?

[C]

Yes.

[B]

Okay. Awesome. All right. You guys are the best. Thanks so much for calling in and thanks for being such a loyal listener of my show, John.

[D]

Absolutely. Have a great day.

[C]

Have a great day, Kathy.

[B]

You too. Bye.

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