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Billy
You go to Singapore or Thailand, you can't not do it. The temptation is just too much.
Kathy
Real problem. Your friend know that you're banging her?
Billy
No, no, he has no idea.
Kathy
And anything goes.
Billy
Motto of the show. Let your freak flag fly.
Kathy
Probably the only good advice I'll ever give you is to rehide your whips and shame. Here is your host, Kathy. Hey, welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast with Kathy. If you want to follow the Strictly Anonymous podcast on Instagram or Twitter, follow the show. Strict Anonymous. Okay, this is a Sunday episode, so I don't get into everything that I normally get into. I'm just gonna get into my guests. It's a Q A with Billy from the Man Whore podcast. I like to do Q and A's with people that are my friends that I really know because the chemistry is there. I mean, you know that I really know Billy because literally the minute he gets on with me, we start going off on each other. Billy is cool. Like, he could do the hang. Like, we could, like, yell at each other, like for five minutes and then just go back to being buddies. He's cool like that. That's the way I roll. Doesn't mean anything to me. He starts talking about something that I think is, like, really gross in the we first get on, I'm like, shut the up. So we have that little thing. But literally after two minutes of that back and forth, we. He gives me such a good Q A. He just answered questions and, like, really well. I don't know. I was like, wow, Billy gives really good answers. Okay, let me tell you. I ask him all different questions. I'll list most of them in the description, but it's like oral, anal, or penetrative sex. How long does he like to pound somebody? What kind of bodies are his favorite? If he likes younger women, older women, if he's ever snowballed, if he's into water sports. I asked him if his nipples are sensitive. We. I asked if he ever played with himself anally. I mean, I really. How many times he masturbates and what he uses and let me tell you what his favorite sex position. There's a lot of answers that you're going to get, like, like, interesting ideas from him. Like, because sometimes he answered questions with very interesting answers that I was like, oh, I feel like you're going to give people, like, really good ideas about something to try. Right? And that's why, like I said, he gives really good answers and you're going to enjoy episode. I had so much fun doing The Q. And as with him, his answers were good. He's very hardcore. So, like, at the end, I do, you know, it's snowballing. Has he ever done cream pies? What, how many people he's gang banged and. Or how many people he banged in a day. And then he talks of all about his gang banging. So he's been there, done that, and you get a lot of great stories from him. It's a super fun episode. So I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with Billy. This is the Strictly Anonymous podcast. Strictly Anonymous podcast. Hey, Billy. From the Man Horror Podcast. Welcome back to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today?
Billy
You know, this legionnaires thing is everyone's got diarrhea in this town these days.
Kathy
Oh, my God. First of all, I hate that word, the D word. I call it the D word. Oh, my God. Let's not start off talking about. Yeah, I'm not into what.
Billy
There's a crisis going on for the anal community right now in New York City.
Kathy
Listen, we're doing a Q and A. People are suffering. I don't care.
Billy
People are suffering.
Kathy
First of all, these podcasts live forever. We don't need to remind people of time period that happened at some point. Like, just so you know, none of
Billy
us could have anal sex.
Kathy
No, it's not about anal sex. You're talking about gross bodily functions. Like, if this was a Q A for me and someone said, do you care if your guy, like, does bodily functions in front of you and shits in front. Like, I am not into any of that stuff. Like, I would prefer a bathroom down the hall from somebody. I don't want to hear a guy burp or chew loud. I am so anti any of that. I don't even say the D word. Okay, but if I'm not dick.
Billy
If I'm. If I'm having the. If. If I'm having the D word, I can't get fingered in the ass.
Kathy
Okay, but we're not. But there's. We're not you. But you don't. Right.
Billy
And liking. No. What. We talked about this. I like ass play.
Kathy
Great. That's going to be one of the questions.
Billy
But if I've got the word, I can't indulge.
Kathy
Billy, please don't ever start one of my podcasts off talking about disgusting things. I'm.
Billy
It's just current events.
Kathy
I'm. I'm giving people mild woodies here on my show. I am not grossing them out. Okay, Do a Q and a where I'm gonna ask you questions. Now, I've done Q and A's with my podcaster friends and my friends. That's what I like to do because we have chemistry. Right. Like, I. I'm very comfortable talking to you and these. So it's always my favorite people to do Q and A's with are people that I know. You know, me. We talk off air plenty of times. Right. We've been done a lot of podcasts together. I have done a lot of Q and A's with Adam. You know, Adam from, you know, New York. We, we all. We kind of all live around the same place. Right. So you know him, but he's so much older than you that I love to get some of the same questions, but I'm going to do a lot of new ones with you. But, you know, listen, I could ask the same, you know, different people, the same questions, and I'm going to get totally different answers. And I, I can't wait to get your answers to some of the questions I have for you. So we're gonna do a Q A, you're gonna answer them. And you're pretty hardcore, so I'm assuming you're gonna have some funny stories to go with this. I mean, you do have your own podcast man, who are podcast. It was all about all the people. You. I remember once you told me that you, like, set up some sort of weird thing where you were, like, getting blowjobs by strangers in a park or some like that, or you signed up to show up with a girl. Yes. You've. You did a makes story hole during COVID I mean, if people want to know about Billy, go listen to his podcast. He's been there, done that. So, you know, these might be really tame questions for you. I don't know, but let's start. Okay. My first question that I always love to ask people is like, you know, if you're gonna pound a girl, like, by the time you get to sex, and I'm assuming that sex is at the end. Okay. Like, we're ready. You've been doing tons of oral. You've been like, making out. You're doing everything with this girl that you're with. Right. And you're get to the point where you're gonna pound her to, you know, orgasm. Do you like to pound somebody? How long do you want that to last?
Billy
As long as I can.
Kathy
Right. But how long is long? 20 minutes. Like, what do you think?
Billy
Well, you know, something I noticed with myself is I tend to last a consistent amount of time with specific people. So with some chicks, like I'm a solid 5 to 10. Some chicks, I can go a half hour. There's like I remember dating a few women or hooking up with some women where like no matter what I just. Every time I was in them it would be a minute or less and there was just like nothing I could do about.
Kathy
Why was it, do you think? Were they super wet? Were their pussies tighter? Like was like, were they.
Billy
I mean, my therapist. Yeah, with, with one woman. My therapist had the. Had the theory that because this woman would fudge me, but she wouldn't date me and I was falling in love with her. It was my body's way of saying fudge you. I'm going to come quickly because you won't give me the intimacy that I'm looking for. That was, that was my. That was what a psychoanalyst thought.
Kathy
Oh my. I love. You know, I love the psychoanalyst like view of things always. That's so interesting. I was thinking it was the opposite. That you were so like maybe commitment phobic that because she wasn't interested in you, you got even more horny for her because she was completely unavailable. But no, your girl was saying because you were unavailable, you're like, you, I'm gonna come and be done.
Billy
Commitment phobic. Have you met me? I love love. Women will not. They don't love me back.
Kathy
Well, you know, listen, everyone has that friend that's always like, oh my God, I can't wait to date someone. They never do and they talk about how much they like it. If you've never had any long term relationships, then your commitment.
Billy
I've had a couple. I've had some long term relationships. I can't get them to go past two years.
Kathy
Okay, well that's enough. That's plan.
Billy
That's what I'm trying to do.
Kathy
Yeah, that's cool. Okay, so if you could only have one tonight with the girl of your dreams, like you're. You're interested in this girl in every way. She's you her in every way possible. Right. But tonight there is a rule and I'm creating it. You could only get oral from her her anally or have penetrative sex with her. Which would you choose? In all. We're all are on the menu. You know, she's down for any of it.
Billy
Yeah, I'd her in the vagina hole penetration. No brainer. It's. It's the number one. Yeah.
Kathy
Oh, okay. I don't think it's the number one for everyone, by the way.
Billy
Yeah. Because my favorite hole. I think the blow. I think the guys who pick blow jobs don't actually like women. And the guys who pick analysis want women to hurt.
Kathy
This is why I love.
Billy
They also don't like women.
Kathy
Yeah. This is why I love asking different people different questions. Because I just. I just hear so many different things. Like, it's fascinating. So you think, you know, because listen, I used to think that guys that like to jizz on. I used to have like this Q A that I used to do. And I would meet people or even my friends. I'd be like, do you like to jizz on girls faces and stuff? And I'd always feel like they. They like hated women guys that did that. But I was completely wrong. You know, being degraded has nothing to do with that. But you think that if a guy wants to only a girl anally, he like secretly hates them or. Which is the guy that hates the women?
Billy
I think, I think the guy who takes the only blow jobs.
Kathy
Yeah.
Billy
Is that he doesn't actually like.
Kathy
Oh, okay.
Billy
Right. But it doesn't mean he hates them. He just means he doesn't like them. And then the guy who only wants to ass. I think he doesn't like women.
Kathy
Oh my God.
Billy
And the guy who fix like me is just, you know, I like the cuddle, but I don't know. That's just my favorite of the holes. It's pretty great. Yeah, I would, I would, you know. Yeah, it's pretty awesome. You know, maybe the. If the self lubricated like a vagina, maybe we could start to have a debate and discussion. But you know, head is. Head only lasts for so long.
Kathy
Yeah.
Billy
Jaws only can endure for so long.
Kathy
Yeah, yeah, yeah, you're good. That's why you have a podcast because you could talk and that was a great answer. I love it. Okay, what's your favorite position?
Billy
Oh, oh, I'm gonna. This is up there.
Kathy
Okay.
Billy
I'm gonna throw one that no one's talking about. I don't know what it's called. I think someone called it the Amazonian. But like. Okay, it's kind of like missionary. But I'm. It's missionary with the genders reversed. He's on top of me. And what the way it works is like she lowers herself onto the dick. She gets the dick in her. Right. She's got my legs up in the air and then she's thrusting as if she's thrusting into me. But really.
Kathy
No, no, no, wait. Start that over again. Are you on your. Your back? You're on your back, right?
Billy
You're on the. I'm on my back. I'm on my back missionary, but gender's reversed.
Kathy
Okay.
Billy
It's not like cowgirl. It's like. It's like missionary. If I'm getting.
Kathy
That's, like, the thing you're laying.
Billy
So my legs are in. Yeah. My legs are up in the air. She then, like, gets it. She gets my. Into her.
Kathy
Okay. Where are her legs? In front of your legs or behind your legs?
Billy
He's like. She can either be standing, like, on front, like, on next to the bed, or she can be, like, on her knees.
Kathy
Okay.
Billy
In front of me, but she's got my legs up.
Kathy
Okay.
Billy
She's got me in her, but in such an angle as if when she's thrusting, it looks like she's fucking me, but she's not. She's. She's fucking me into her. Does that make sense?
Kathy
Yeah, totally. I think you're gonna make. I think you're giving people, like, a great idea to go home and try this position. It sounds kind of fun.
Billy
Yeah. Once you get it in, then she can. And she's pretty much in charge of the whole thing. And. And so unlike, you know, cowgirl, where she's on top and, like, all on her, like, knee joints.
Kathy
Yeah.
Billy
This is, like, her thrusting with hit.
Kathy
Yeah. Who. Who brought this up to you? Did you figure this out? Did one girl do it for you? Like, how did you even figure out this position?
Billy
It saw, like, a video clip I scrolled by on Reddit once. I was like, that looks hot.
Kathy
Yeah.
Billy
And then I brought it up with a woman I was madly in love with. And now I don't know if I can ever do that position again. But, like, you know, that was amazing. I have, like, a video of her doing it to me. Like, I feel like I have. Like, I think she's holding the camera, and then, like, at some point, then she hands me the camera. So I've got both angles of her. Me in this position. And, like, if you told me I could only, like, watch one sex video for the rest of my life, I'd probably pick that one.
Kathy
Oh, my God, I love it. You've got great. You're a great answer. Is that a word? I don't know. But you. You give good answers. Okay, let me ask you this. How many times I would say a. Do you jerk off? And when you jerk off, do you use your mind or do you use porn?
Billy
Oh, I think it Partially depends on how busy I am because I definitely get busy enough that like, I'll go four or five days a week and a half. But that's, you know, if.
Kathy
Let's pretend. A regular week. Yeah, a regular week. Not too busy.
Billy
Yeah, I mean, like, I get busy pretty frequently. I don't know if you know this, but I'm kind of mogul out here, so, you know, but. But if, if I'm not like super busy, stressed out, don't have the time to, you know. For example, I was just out of town, like on the road. I can't really jerk off in the accommodations I was given. But typically I'd say like, I probably jerk off about like five to seven out of the seven days. Like, I'm not gonna be jerking off all day. One day, but I probably about once every day or two.
Kathy
Do you use lube or. No lube or spit? Like, does every guy use lube? I don't really know.
Billy
I'm not really a spit guy. I'm an adult. I have a. I have a credit card. Right. Spit and shampoo. That is for teenagers.
Kathy
Oh, really?
Billy
I don't make a lot of money, but I make enough money that I can buy some lube. I go back and forth between either coconut oil or Uber lube. I really like Uber or any sort of like a silicone based lube. I like a silicone based lube. Uber lube just happens to be really slick. My promo code does not work anymore. But then also coconut oil is pretty bomb. I think that's honestly the best. And you can use my Trader Joe's promo code that. Come on yourself. Trader Joe's organic virgin coconut oil, Highly recommend.
Kathy
You're funny. Okay, Spank bank or porn?
Billy
Most of the time I'm just scrolling through Reddit. It's not like I'm not like clicking through a couple of things like porn, everything.
Kathy
What?
Billy
You can have porn next to conspiracy theories, next to updates about what that big explosion was in your neighborhood. Like.
Kathy
No, I know, listen. No, no, I know what Reddit is, but when you're scrolling for porn, why Reddit and not pornhub if it's the same? It's videos, right?
Billy
Well, I gotta go. Keep picking videos. No, I'm just scrolling through a feed of all the, like the various foreign subreddits I'm like subscribed to on there and it'll just give me a bunch of things and sometimes I might cl. Click through and read this text post. Sometimes I might click through and like, see some more or enlarge it, but most of the time I'm just kind of like scrolling through all these like gifs and you know, videos that are on silent and pictures and every once in a while you know, a text post about like, oh my God, I made out with my cousin. Ah. You know, and it's. You just go through it and okay, I got it on there. Reddit's a freaky place and it's all free and it also gives me a place where I like sometimes we'll discover new creators. So if you want someone new to subscribe to on OnlyFans but like it's very rare that I actually like go to pornhub.
Kathy
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Billy
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Kathy
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Billy
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Kathy
Tax extra. Yeah, I love that. I feel like you're giving people so many new ideas because, like, you know, I'm, I'm. And I'm projecting as if I'm the listener, you know, me listening to you. Like, you're telling me a lot of things that I would never know. Like, I've never gone to Reddit to jerk off. You know what I mean? I always use porn. So maybe, of course.
Billy
Kathy, how often do you jerk off? You know, we've known each other all these years and I don't know this about you.
Kathy
Yeah, I'll tell you. Like, it could be. It depends. Like, in. Because I'm on hormones, right? So sometimes I feel like I get horny. Like I got horny when I was younger, like, or sometimes it's like, oh my God, for no reason the wind blows and I'm horny. And that day I could do three times a day or I could go two weeks without doing it. If I'm dealing with massive stress. Like, you know, lately there's, you know, there's like fires in my life at times, you know, there have been. And when stuff like that happens, I could go two weeks without even thinking about sex. Like, that really affects me. But, you know, because I'm on hormones and when everything is fine, you know, maybe sometimes, maybe three times a week, I'll always use porn. I used to use my brain a lot more when I was younger and I always felt like when I would use my mind, it was always better. But you know, we are like, I would always be just like lazy and just use porn because it's easier and faster and I think I just don't have the time at the end of the day, being a mom and everything to, you know, use my mind. So I always use porn. It's quicker.
Billy
If I'm in my bed, I, I almost always am, like at my desk. But if I'm in my bed, like, if I'm like, I know, like I just woke up and I haven't got out of bed yet and for some reason I Need I want to. Or if I'm going to bed and for some reason I'm like, you know, then it's, then it's my mind because I'm not going to get up and walk across to my laptop. And again, I don't watch porn on my phone. I'm an adult. Like, what? It's a tiny ass screen. So. So if I'm in my bed lying horizontal, I'm using my mind. If I'm at my Desk, then like 95 of the time it's okay.
Kathy
So now listen, this is a question not about a girl that you just met. This is a question of any of these girls you've been with for a year or something. Like eventually, over time, after you've been with someone for a long time, do you think of other people when you're having sex. Sex with them?
Billy
No.
Kathy
Or other scenarios? I mean, you're just thinking about them always. Even if you're dating them for two years, a year, it's not even about,
Billy
like thinking about them. It's like, I'm just, I'm. I'm looking at, I'm in the moment. Like, what? I don't need to think of something else. I've got the hot thing right in front of me. Right, right there. Okay. Now there was after that one big breakup that like sometimes we've talked about after her for like probably a year or so. Yeah, like for a couple of years I sometimes would think about her. But most of the time, like, I don't. I tend to not fuck people I don't want to be fucking, so I don't need to. Usually, like, sometimes I think people will start thinking about somebody else because they realize they're not actually into the person they're in bed with at that moment. But I just try to forego that by not being in bed with people I don't want to be in at that moment.
Kathy
Right.
Billy
Like if I'm. If I'm at a gang bang and it turns out I'm not really into that chick, I don't know, maybe I'll think of something else. But also I look around, I'm like, oh, I'm at a gang bang, think this is already pretty hot.
Kathy
Yeah, right. I get it. I'm talking about more if it's like you're with someone maybe five or six or seven years. I think a lot of people do start to tend to think about different scenarios. Or maybe it's not so much, oh, I'm thinking about Brad Pitt, but I have long term Booty calls, I like to the same person a long, long time. You know, it's like easy, like kind of just have that on set. I've had a lot of long term booty calls and after time I can't be thinking about them. You know what I mean? It's like is I've been with them,
Billy
but it's not thinking about how. It's like just being in the moment. It's not thinking about I'm in the
Kathy
moment sometimes you're making up naughty scenario. I'm just telling you about other people. Okay, I get you. I'm just saying this is what other people do because I've asked other people this question. This is how I am.
Billy
People can do is in hot scenarios. Like put themselves in a hot, you know, like instead of thinking about wouldn't it be hotter if we were doing this like this, then go do the thing this like that. You know what I mean?
Kathy
Okay.
Billy
I think you don't have to fantasize because like you're doing the fantasy.
Kathy
Yeah, most people aren't lone wolves being able to gang bangs and are, you know, single, still at their eight. You know, a lot of people are in long term relationships where they're banging the same person for, you know, 30 years. We're talking about the majority of people, not you. You're like the exception. That's why you have a home.
Billy
Advising people to not do that. I'm advising them to stop banging the same person for 30 years.
Kathy
Okay. Okay, that's good. I love that you have that. You're giving them that angle. I, I typically am talking to people like in reality. You know what I mean? You're giving them a different way. Like leave your partner and go, go get, do some gang bangs. Okay, what are the bases according to you and your generation? First base, second base, third base, home run. What are they in now? Like I know what they were in my day. I want to know what they are in your day.
Billy
Hey, I don't, I can't speak for everyone because as you clearly made out to me, I'm a total freak and individual. So man whore. My own individual basis, I guess. No, I would say first one is like making out. You know, like as soon as someone's tongue is in, someone's in house. We're playing baseball. Right. So first one, first base, make it out. Second base, sceney pry or. Yeah, that's probably it. And then third base is oral. Fourth base is. And you know.
Kathy
Okay, do you want to know what
Billy
the base is in baseball? Right.
Kathy
No, I know, but you want to know what the bases were when I was growing up? First base was makeout. Second base was going up the shirt, third base was going down the pants. So it's fingering or hand job. And fourth base is like you fucking.
Billy
Somewhere in between you and me, there was that Meatloaf song. And then up the shirt thing got blended into first base.
Kathy
You're right. Oh, my God, you got that reference. I love that song.
Billy
What a great song. Really teaches you about baseball.
Kathy
I've been. I turn. My son has the best taste of music for a 10 year old. And I don't think I've ever turned him on to meatloaf. But he knows everybody else. It's a great album.
Billy
The whole album's great. The whole album we're talking about. Oh, is it bad out of Hell? Yeah, it's. It's all about, like, teenage sexual angst.
Kathy
Oh, my God. Yeah.
Billy
Yeah, like, that's the whole thing.
Kathy
Yeah, you're right. It was so good. I have to. He knows all the greats and he loves it. He's literally at his, like a guitar lesson right now, and I have to teach him about. I haven't never turned around to Meatloaf. And you just reminded me, okay, what does, like, sex mean to you? Like, if you said, yeah, I had sex with that person last night, like, does that mean you them? Or like, with 60? If you 69 them, you'd say sex. Like, because I feel like people, a lot of people feel something different about this.
Billy
I'm trying to be more expansive. So if I say sex, and I'm talking about, you know, vaginal penetration, I try to say IV to normalize that. More things.
Kathy
No, but if you told me, Kathy, I had sex last night, what does that mean?
Billy
What I would do? This is like, this is what I would say. Like, I would say, oh, I had like, PIV last night or IPV sex. Like, I try not to say sex to mean only this one thing. It's very heteronormative. And there's like, look, oral sex. Sex is in the name. So why am I not considering that sex? So if I say sex, it means we've, like, done something where someone could get an std, right?
Kathy
So that could be oral and. Or penetration. Right?
Billy
Totally. Can mean oral.
Kathy
Right?
Billy
Yeah, it's like, it's inclusive for the queers and all that. Right. But yeah, that, yeah, sex used to be just Viv. I encourage everyone to be a little more specific because if you tell me you had Sex last night. Come on, give me a visual. I want to know what.
Kathy
What do you mean?
Billy
Let me fantasize about this with you?
Kathy
Yeah, yeah, I get it. Okay, good. Yeah. Because I feel like people get that everyone. It means, you know, says it means something different. So I think it is smart to be a little bit more specific, right? Because it does mean something different to so many people. So. And so many people just use it, you know, and like, people will be like, oh, yeah, like they have had sex and they didn't, you know, and you didn't call me or you know, like, whatever. What do you people on the first date do you like to wait? Do you care?
Billy
Hey, I ebb and flow with this. I most importantly, I try to just like stay in touch with like how I'm feeling. And am I about to. Am I about to escalate the PIV because it just feels like what we're doing next or am I like, yeah, I definitely want to do this. I try not to somebody unless I'm A, at a sex party or B, or like some kind of like, you know, pre worked out sex event or B, if I, like, I know I want to have sex with this person a second time. If I go eat someone out and I'm like, I don't know, I'm feeling it. I'm like, I don't need to go back, I'm good. But I. If I fuck somebody, I'd like to know that I was gonna probably fuck them a second time even if it doesn't work out, you know, whatever. So I generally try not to the first time I go home with somebody. But like, sometimes I do because I just. I know I'm really into it, right. So it depends. It depends, right? So I don't do it like automatically. No.
Kathy
And like, are you. Because, like, girls are typically right a lot of times, like, if we really like someone, we might not them on purpose because we like, like them. But you meet a guy and you're like, oh, he's like, hot. And I know I'll never date him. You might be. Be more likely. A woman might be more likely to that guy the first night because they don't care. You know what I mean? Do you feel that way at all? Like, if you meet a girl that you think is like, you know, relationship material versus one that you know for sure, I'm never gonna.
Billy
No, that doesn't. That doesn't. That doesn't play. The only factor that could play in is if I like him on a first date. And it's like one of those things where the sparks are so strong. There's a very good chance that, like. Like, I. I would be more open to fucking that first time.
Kathy
Yeah. Yeah.
Billy
But, like, no, no, it's. I don't. I don't parse that out. I really just try to, like, stay in touch with my body. Like, what am I actually comfortable doing in that moment? Sometimes I don't want to fuck that first time because, like, I'm. I'm. Maybe I'm nervous. Maybe I'm really pent up. Maybe we've been making out and, like, half sucking each other for like, three, four hours. Well, if. Then she says she wants me to fuck her after three hours of buildup, I don't know how long I'm gonna last. I don't want the first time I fuck you to be like. Like, really quick. So that's a. That would be a reason why I wouldn't want to. Even though maybe I do want to. I would choose not to.
Kathy
Yeah.
Billy
So I really. It's. It's. For me, personally, I try to stay in touch with a lot of those factors.
Kathy
Yeah, I like that, because that gives girls, like, an inside to maybe why a guy wouldn't, you know, but a little bit more insight that she would never think, you know, I mean, a girl might never think that a guy is thinking that way. You know what I mean? Which I think is super interesting. Okay. Do you prefer hand jobs or blow jobs? Jobs.
Billy
Depends how they are at each of those.
Kathy
I know it's because a hand job could be good, right?
Billy
The best hand job, the best flow job is better than the best hand job. However, a great hand job, I think is easier to come by than a great blow job.
Kathy
I'm obsessed with your answer.
Billy
Does that make sense? Does that make sense?
Kathy
Yeah, duh. I just said I'm obsessed.
Billy
I'm more likely to come across a great hand job. But if you gave me the best hand job and the best flow job. The best blow job.
Kathy
Yeah.
Billy
Wins. Because the best blow job involves in that. In part a hand job. Right?
Kathy
Yeah, you're right. You're right. It would. There would be. There's no great blowjob that doesn't involve the hand. Right. That's the key.
Billy
Yeah, man. My landlord upstairs is hearing all this because it might. So, like, you know, there's two sides of the building. Those are all fine and, like, secretive, but if you're in the middle, if you're in the kitchen, all three kitchens for all three floors. Like you hear literally any conversation happening. So it's just like, like direct. It's almost as if like I was talking into a microphone into.
Kathy
That's good. So they don't have to listen to your episode because you're giving great answers. I'm obsessed with them.
Billy
I hope they're learning something.
Kathy
Yeah, they should be. Yeah, they should be. And I think what you said was like perfection. Like, seriously, what you just said about the hand job, blow drop that I feel like so, so many guys are listening to be like, oh my God, I wish I said that. You know, I mean that would be the. Exactly. You express like what so many guys feel. Okay. Do you give a about deep throating? Like, is a deep throat blowjob better than a great blow job job?
Billy
Not.
Kathy
Right. And how come,
Billy
hey, if, look, I, I tend to, on a first time getting a blow job from someone, I tend to not give too many notes unless something hurts. Right. Or if something is like, you know, hey, please don't stop that thing. But generally speaking, I want to see, you know, you ever like, go to a restaurant? Like, I don't want to give a lot of notes. I want to see what you do on your own, naturally speaking. I just want to see what your natural speaker, natural style is with the blow job. And then the next time I come back, I know, be like, oh, I wish he had used a little more hand. I wish I could have some cilantro. Right. And I'm gonna start giving some feedback.
Kathy
Yeah.
Billy
But you know, first time I'm, I kind of want to let you do your thing. I wanna, I wanna see what kind of art you do. So deep throating, I mean, look, if you throw that in there as part of your, your style, your rhythm, your playlist, not going to stop you. But if you're like relying on gagging on me to get me off, that's not going to do it. Because like, you know, the most sensitive part of my penis is not the actual top of the head of my penis.
Kathy
Right.
Billy
You know, it's on the underside. I need some suction, I need some hand. But yeah, so deep learning can be good. It can also be neutral. But also I know some people might be deep throwing because it's hot for them to choke on a dick. Right? So who am I to stop her? Maybe that's how she's, she's getting off. Yeah, I'm like, let me first see how she does it then, mate. And then let's have the conversation afterwards and be like, hey, so like so tell me about it. Let's deconstruct this blow job till it's not sexy anymore. Let's talk.
Kathy
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Kathy
I love it. Okay. Do you does anal sex feel better than like sex? Like I, I, I always thought you know it's a it's supposed to do but it doesn't.
Billy
No.
Kathy
How come?
Billy
No. Yeah for you I think you're such
Kathy
so good at explaining.
Billy
Explain alluding to earlier right. Like the vagina, it's self lubricating. I also find look I don't not like anal sex but like I don't people in the ass unless they have told me they like well let's pretend
Kathy
a girl loves being in her ass.
Billy
I know, I know, I know. But that's what I'm getting at is like I don't go for it. It's naturally because it's like my third favorite hole. It's the most complicated. There's more work has to be done. Honestly, if I put my cock in someone's ass, you know we can't just simply go to other holes. We got like wash up first.
Kathy
Of course.
Billy
Right. Bacteria is a whole thing. So and there's a lot of prep work. I don't really like eating ass unless like I really am into this person and they're very clean shaved back there. Like I'm not that into ass. I want to Eat ass. So there's just so much prep work. So mo. Almost. Almost every chick I have fucked in the ass has been the type who not only likes being fucked in the ass, but likes it so much or has done it so much that, like, they don't really need the prep. They're like, you can kind of just do it.
Kathy
Yeah.
Billy
I mean, like, grab lube and just do it. Those are. That's who I fucked in the ass the most, is the ones who are the simplest. As soon as they're like, I really like it, but we have to work it up. And I. I go like, ah. You know, there's someone in my life right now who she hasn't done anal in a long time, but, like, liked it back then and wants to do it more. So I know that, like, when we do that, I'm gonna have to do work and, like, prep her and get her and really, like, it's gonna be like, a half hour of anal only foreplay when I. And that's. And all that half hour of foreplay on her asshole is time I'm spending away from, like, my favorite place. Right. Which is so close by. It's like just all that time I'm spending at the neighbors is time I'm not spending, you know, at her place.
Kathy
Yeah.
Billy
So I got it where I was, where I want to be. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. Feels way better.
Kathy
All right. But can I. Can you explain to me. And this is. I love everything else that you just talked about that was super interesting. That's all I want to know.
Billy
I like that when I'm inside, I can feel different parts inside you. Just like when I have fingers. Like, I can feel when I'm rubbing against your G spot versus when I'm just going deep. And. And so just even what it feels like inside, it's a little bit more. I like the ribbing inside better. I like, again, that it's slick and smooth. Like it has its own lubricant as opposed to Aztecs. Like, it's tight, but it almost feels like I'm trying to think of, like, what I could compare it to where, like, you're in and. And you're locked in and then you're just kind of moving. So sometimes it doesn't even feel like there's grip on the inside.
Kathy
Yeah. Interesting.
Billy
You know, so the grip is just around the sphincter as opposed to, like, insidewards. And when I'm in pussy, the tightness is inside.
Kathy
Interesting. I would have thought it was opposite.
Billy
No. Like, if someone's really, really tight. Yeah. Like, you can be gripped from the outside with pussy, too. But, like, most of the grip with pussy is the muscles of the. Whereas in the muscular. And someone's gonna listen and correct my language on this, and that's fine. But just like the thing that's gripping you during anal for the most part is the actual anus, whereas in. What's gripping you in vaginal sex is the. The vagina muscle.
Kathy
Yeah. The pelvic floor, probably. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, for sure. Yeah. I love it. Okay. Do you. Have you ever played with college?
Billy
Everyone, I have a degree. It's hanging, it's framed. I'm looking at nyu. Spent a lot of money for this.
Kathy
I should do the Q A I did with Adam the other day where we answered questions and we didn't know the answers. Like, we both had to answer them. Them. They were like scientific questions. Questions that. We had a competition. It was fun. I'll do one with you in the future. Okay. Have you ever played with yourself analy? Like, have you gone to that area with yourself ever? On you?
Billy
Yeah. What kind of question is that?
Kathy
What do you mean?
Billy
That's why you're being like, oh, have you ever.
Kathy
You know, because so many guys would say, no, no, stop it. For you.
Billy
They're lying to you, Kathy. They're lying to you.
Kathy
I. I know.
Billy
Expand.
Kathy
Expand. I love when you expand.
Billy
They don't like it. They don't. They've done it. Whether they were a child or an adult. They. They. They've explored.
Kathy
Don't you think? I think so.
Billy
100. Yeah. Yeah. The only thing that's changed over the decades is I've figured out how to be better at it. I've got some toys.
Kathy
So you have, right? And you like it and you enjoy it, right?
Billy
Yeah. Yeah. And I've had women put. I've had women put fingers and toys in me. I put fingers in toys in myself. Yeah.
Kathy
So you. It's amazing, let's say, because, you know, I never know how to break it down. Out of a hundred percent of guys out there. 50 of guys. And wait till I finish this and then answer, because I can't wait for your answer. So, you know, I always say, like, 50 of the guys, like, totally cop to it. And then you have 50 that say no way. How many out of that 50 that say no way are lying? Do you say 5%? I used to always be, like, 50 of those are. Are lying.
Billy
90 of the 50.
Kathy
Okay. Okay, good. Right. And 10 have never really gone there
Billy
because of the 5% of the whole probably actually haven't played around.
Kathy
Yeah, I love it. Yeah, I think you're probably right. Don't you think? And they just don't want to cop to it because like there's still that stupid stigma around it. It's so crazy. Right. Okay. Do you like younger or older women? Which do you prefer?
Billy
Older.
Kathy
Okay.
Billy
How come it's just always been older? It's been older since I was in college. I would bring home chicks in their late 20s when I was 19 and I was hooking up with women in their 30s and even 40s when I was in college in my early 20s. And the only thing that's changing now is like at some point it's going to not be older. It's going to be like my age. Right. At some point that line's going to cross.
Kathy
Right.
Billy
You know, I'm 37. I'm in a sweet spot where like I, I like someone who knows how to commute. When I hook up with someone in their 20s, I usually, it's better when it's just someone who already knows their body and they can communicate about their body, communicate about their wants and needs. Oftentimes, not all the time. Plenty of women who are older than me or at my age still have their hangups. But oftentimes the older you are as a woman, if you are someone who enjoys sex or wants to enjoy sex, you are figuring out or have figured out how to communicate how your body works.
Kathy
Right.
Billy
What you like, what you don't like. And beyond the don't like that you can communicate no's. A 22 year old might nervously not say no when they want to say no.
Kathy
Right.
Billy
More so than a 42 year old who's like, yeah, I've told men no plenty by this time.
Kathy
Right. For sure, they already found their voice. Yeah.
Billy
Yeah. If someone can't say no in bed to me, that's not a single safe person.
Kathy
No.
Billy
For me to have sex with.
Kathy
I know.
Billy
You know?
Kathy
Yeah, of course. Yeah, yeah, I get it. Especially if you're gonna try older.
Billy
But like I'm not exclusive. But like I would, I would choose the 45 year old version of any of a 25 year old any day.
Kathy
Okay. When it comes to body, skinny, sporty, curvy, BBW face.
Billy
It's all face. It's like I got. You have a face. I can't. You, it's.
Kathy
Oh, interesting.
Billy
You see, look at the people I hook up with. It's, it's all over the place. It's really just kind of like, do I like your face? Do I like your smile? Do you tolerate me? You know, these are really important.
Kathy
But it's the face that turns you on the most, not the body.
Billy
Absolutely, absolutely. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Kathy
Do you think that's the case for most guys?
Billy
I. I don't know. I don't speak for most men. They don't like me very.
Kathy
But what do you think? Just give your opinion.
Billy
I don't know. I. I make fun of men.
Kathy
Guys don't like you.
Billy
I think men are, are some. I think there are a lot of men who are cosplaying what they think a man is supposed to be and they like what they're supposed to like. So I remember being 22 years old, Chick I match with on this app, on this like dating site or whatever. We meet up. She's like a dom and that's like her thing. It's the only way she was gonna have casual sex. And so, okay, I meet up. I'm only like a couple years older than her, but really cute face, great smile, but like big girl, you know, BBW sized kind of girl. And she's been on the podcast a couple times and we've talked about it. I remember being nervous being out on the dates with her because I was worried what other people were going to think about me because I was in my early twenties. Stupid. Right?
Kathy
Right.
Billy
But like now, like, who gives? I mean, Jesus. One of my ex girlfriends is like a, you know, a big time, like fat model, fat activist type, somewhat insufferable, but like, she makes a lot of women feel more beautiful by being out there because she's a babe. Like, if you tell me, if I show you a picture of that ex and you think she's ugly, I think you're gay. Like, right? You don't. You could be like, she's not my type. I see why. She's beautiful. If you're like, I saw her and she's fat, therefore ugly, I'd be like, you're gay, right? You don't like women because like, she got huge pits, huge ass, pretty face.
Kathy
Right.
Billy
And just come on, man, you know?
Kathy
Yeah.
Billy
A lot to grab.
Kathy
Right? So you're super open, caught up.
Billy
Yeah, yeah. But I was also far more caught up when I was in my early 20s and in high school, in college about, actually in high school, even though I wasn't getting in high school. But like, I still thought about this. I was sometimes worried about who I had a crush on or who people would know I liked, of course. What do they think about who I like as opposed to why do I give a. I like who I like.
Kathy
Yeah, yeah, of course. Yeah, I totally.
Billy
I think a lot of men are still. I think a lot of men especially like men with money in their 50s, I think are still caught up with an element of that that they want the model who's 24 and has like the size 2 and big tits and like few opinions. And I go like that woman sounds like a nightmare. That woman sounds like like what are you gonna talk about? The only thing she knows.
Kathy
Well, listen, just because she. No, that's not true. But that's not true. But that's not true either. But I see where what your point is. But that doesn't.
Billy
Just because a 22 year old just because. Had to be anything but hot. And also, and like I said, I also slipped in there didn't have like opinions on stuff.
Kathy
Okay.
Billy
She's like, she likes to read the paper or books. That's great. I think these guys in the finance, you know, they don't want someone to talk to. They want someone who's on their arm. They want an accessory. Like she's a watch.
Kathy
Yeah.
Billy
As opposed to like who are they actually getting hard for?
Kathy
Yeah.
Billy
That's why you see these like affairs like Arnold Schwarzenegger. What would that. I mean this is my bed. A reference that's a little too old for me. But like wasn't the maid like not that going on for.
Kathy
No, no. I have my whole opinion about that. Like listen, I mean come on, I was not surprised. Like that guy could. First of all, Arnold Schwarzenegger in his prime was the best looking, hottest guy top to bottom, 100 on a scale of 1 to 10, gorgeous. Like any girl would him. And he as many women as he wanted, whoever he wanted at all times. Times he saw her tits and he was like, I need to see those tits. She had humongous tits.
Billy
Yeah.
Kathy
Yes. That what? That's what it was. She had the biggest tits you've ever seen. He just wanted to see those.
Billy
I just looked up a picture and I'm like, he could have gotten a different maid with the same tits.
Kathy
It doesn't matter. He obviously didn't care about the face. Okay. He wanted to see those tits and that just shows that guys are just down. I remember finding BBW porn in one of my guys drawers and he was like so horrified. It was almost like he was hiding it. And I was like, dude, I know
Billy
that because I know, but how we treat Women.
Kathy
Yes, but that, but, but the whole point is like, it, that's. There is that stigma. I think for people to really cop what isn't. BBW porn is like one of the most downloaded porn. I'm super open, so I was like, I, I, I don't give a. That you're looking at, like, I totally understand that. I have, have been there, done that with all kinds of things. Like, I don't judge people, but I do believe that people do hide what they're into because of what other people would think, 1,000%. So I think, you know, it's very honest of you to cop to that way that you were like that younger. It's great that you're not anymore because I do believe, like you, that men hold on to that forever. They never let go of that. You know what I mean?
Billy
Yeah, yeah. You know, Arnold could have gone a hotter maid first, you know?
Kathy
Doesn't matter. He probably had hotter maids. Okay? He had whoever he wanted, wanted, whenever he wanted his whole life. Okay? So why not go there? He didn't want to see those big tits. Okay? So let's say. Oh, okay, here's some. Here's my last regular question. I have a little hardcore questions because you've done a lot of hardcore things to have. Do you have sensitive nipples? I did this on my Patreon recently to see, like, how many guys really have sensitive nipples and like them to be like, you know, played with.
Billy
Does the sensitive mean likes them to be played with or do you mean sensitive?
Kathy
No, sensitive means like, it's a sexual turn on. It's sensitive to me.
Billy
It's very neutral and can be negative if you go too hard. So I tell a chick, hey, if playing with my nipples turns you on, go for it. But for me it's a neutral. So, like, don't do it for me.
Kathy
Right.
Billy
If you do it, like, do it because you want to. Yeah, it does nothing for me.
Kathy
Yeah. All right, cool. Have you ever engaged in water sports? And if so, details like, do you. Were you the one peeing on them? Were they peeing on you?
Billy
Yeah, the first. I have not been peed on yet. We still, I'm only 37. We need to keep a few things
Kathy
on the bucket list, but it's okay. But you're down is the point.
Billy
I get diagnosed with cancer tomorrow. You know, I might, I might move up the timeline on this. Knock on exposed brick. Okay, so I. Okay. Or real wood. I, I've peed on two women. The first time I was at a sex Party and a woman I'm talking to this chicken. And it was like an afternoon sex party. I was at Hacienda and she brings up that she's into water sports. And I go like, okay, I think I could do that. And I actually had to go to one of the guardians. You don't know a guardian is someone with like an armband at a sex party. There's someone like a resource. Like if you have to make a report about somebody or if you have a question about something, or if you're just like nervous and kind of want to talk to somebody, you can go to a guardian. So I went to the guardian to check on a rule. I was like, hey, hey, what's. Because Hacienda, there was like three bathrooms on the first floor. There's four bathrooms on the first floor with showers. So I. Plus the three bathrooms in the basement. So I asked when I was like, hey, what's the rule about doing water sports in one of the showers? And she said, huh, never been asked that before. Let me go check.
Kathy
Okay, interesting.
Billy
You know, and you know, we had both been going to Hacienda for a very long time, for many years at that point, yet somehow that never came came up. And she was like, yeah, I think that's fine because you just turn the water on and it washes away. So yeah, I took this chick into the. We made out, then I took her to the shower and you know, we stripped her down. She sucked my dick for a while and then at some point, you know, when I was getting close to coming, I stopped and then, you know, peed on her all over her body and she really liked it and tried to pee a bit in her mouth and on her face and on her tits. And she's like rubbing it all over herself. And then after I was done peeing, you know, she went back to finish following me and then I came on her and then we just turned the shower on. It all rinsed right off. This is going to be an extremely busy month. I have to watch 104 soccer games, follow the pre game, the post game, yell useless opinions at the tv.
Kathy
It's a lot. So I knew that when it comes
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Kathy
interesting. Okay. And you. And you're down for the.
Billy
Went back in the party. Yeah, I just went to the abnormal part. I just talked to other women. Like, I didn't just pee on one.
Kathy
Yeah, yeah, yeah. But did you, like, I know she was down for it. Were you into it?
Billy
I wasn't not into it. Like, it was a. It was like a neutral. Like, I didn't.
Kathy
Yeah, it's honest.
Billy
I didn't. Is. I. I don't know what, like, I don't know what you call a pissing top, but I don't know what the piss tops, you know, get out of. I don't know if there's, like, a sense of power or anything.
Kathy
Yeah, I think it's, like, degraded.
Billy
I just felt like I'm giving this chick what she wants.
Kathy
Right.
Billy
And that's fun and hot.
Kathy
Yeah, I get it. And you're down for it to be the opposite. For someone to pee on you eventually.
Billy
Yeah, I can see scenarios for it.
Kathy
Okay.
Billy
Yeah.
Kathy
Have you ever snowballed with a girl? And explain what snowballing is. Just. I just learned what this was recently. Do you know what snowballing is? You have. You must.
Billy
Of course. It's a. It's a key Clerks reference.
Kathy
Okay, good. Okay, good.
Billy
Anyone's seen the 1994 black and white classic comedy Clerks?
Kathy
Yeah.
Billy
By Kevin Smith.
Kathy
Explain what it is.
Billy
Snowballing is when you come in someone's mouth and then you have it spit back into your own mouth during kissing. No, it's called snowballing. Or, like, you could pass it back and forth while making out. I don't know if I have. I can't remember. I just. I can't remember if we've done it or if it just hasn't happened. I mean, I have tasted my own gum. I just can't remember if I've, like, technically snowballed.
Kathy
Okay. What about cream pies?
Billy
Well, that's just coming in someone, so.
Kathy
Yeah. No, no, no, no, no. It's going down on them after you came in them. And, like.
Billy
Yeah, I've gone down on chicks. I'm her. She hasn't come yet.
Kathy
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. Be. I'm. I have to be specific. Hold on here. Okay. You come in her. Okay. And then you go down on her because you're into, like, you're calm. Then going in your mouth. It's like reverse snowball from the. That's.
Billy
Yeah. I, I not. That's not why I go down after. So. No. Yeah, but I have gone down and like, while my come is there and gone down on someone with my come like honor.
Kathy
Right, right. Okay. But you're. But you're not in. Some guys are into cream. Somebody else's come that they're into, like, sort of, you know, I mean, they're into sloppy seconds kind of thing. You know what I'm saying? But, like, it doesn't sound like you're into that. How many people. How many are. Are like, what's the most amount of people that you've ever had sex with in one day?
Billy
In one day?
Kathy
Not together. Because that'll. That's gonna be my second one. Not like, together in a. Like, it used to be.
Billy
It used to be three for a long time. And then I went to a sex party.
Kathy
Okay.
Billy
It was a gang bang themed sex party. Oh, no, you know what? It is still three, because I didn't. I, you know, I was in line for that fourth chick, and I just. I didn't get the. I didn't get in before the. The timer went off.
Kathy
Oh, that's a good point.
Billy
Well, because, like, so the party was gang bang themed with, like a sports motif. And I thought, wow, you're telling me I can wear my Geno Smith jersey and it's cool.
Kathy
You're kidding me.
Billy
Nice. Not kidding. I was like, kind of sold it for me. I was like, I can wear it. Yeah. Like, when else am I gonna, like, wear a Jets jersey and feel like a winner?
Kathy
Where was this? What. What sex club is that?
Billy
Is that Hacienda? This is maybe two months ago. This was right after. It was during whenever the. The. That Knick series with the 76ers. I think that was like the quarterfinals of the playoffs. Yeah, yeah, it was during that. And yeah, it was a gang bang theme party. So the party, it was gonna be become a normal sex party. But the first hour, there was like a competition. It was basically like there were like seven women who all signed up to get gang bang. They all have their own fluffer, their own person to like, you know, look out for them. And they were. We were trying to see who could get the most individual penetrators in the one hour.
Kathy
Wow. And there was a timer. They set the timer.
Billy
Yeah, one hour timer. And then the winner got like a trophy that got made. It was like a big penis trophy. And so. Yeah, yeah. So I, I now a friend of mine, I. I was different. I got special rules. But a friend of mine, she was kind of cheating. She only let People do. I think it was like five thrusts because she was trying. She didn't want anyone to take up too much time. She wanted to get as many as possible. So you got five thrusts. I was allowed to do what I want to because like you know, she. Before. Yeah, yeah. So like I had sex with her and that was only the second time I fucked her. I threw her her first gang bang like like six years ago. And she, she was blindfolded and I didn't her but I let her think that I her.
Kathy
Oh really? And she didn't know because she, she had multiple. How many guys were at that gangbang that you set up for her?
Billy
I think I had eight. Seven or eight. And there's one chick with a strap on but I think there were seven or eight and basically like I, I had her jerk me off a little bit but she, she, I allowed her because you can't that someone who doesn't know you're them. I don't think that's ethical. I don't think there's any ethical in letting someone think you them when you did it.
Kathy
Right. But to this day she still doesn't know.
Billy
Well then about a year or so ago we were at a party and she's. She. This is how she introduces me to everyone. If we're an orgy or some sort of event, she will introduce me. Oh this is my friend Billy. He threw me my first gang bang. Every time.
Kathy
Can I have her on my show?
Billy
I. I'll see if. I'll see what we can do. Yeah, she's in the community.
Kathy
Okay.
Billy
So she, she, she. And so then I did say haha. I did. I didn't you. But then we finally consummated our friendship like on Halloween. So that was.
Kathy
Oh, so you had never even her before that? I was just thinking.
Billy
No, no, we never even. We never fooled around. She just asked me to throw her a gang that interesting.
Kathy
And she said she just assumed you were going to be one of the people that part like was taking.
Billy
I think she just was like Billy knows how to do logistics. Yeah, I think it was just that. Oh so so, so I her at this, at this party and I didn't come because I wanted to save it. Right. Because I want to other women at the party. And so I kind of like waited in line and then like there was this one chick and then like I started having sex with her and then I came and so whatever. Okay. And then I kind of hung around, did a lap around the house and then I started Coming back down and fluffed so I could try to get another, another shot in. And I started getting hard again. So I was ready to like go again. And I was like waiting in line for the chick who was next to her. And just, it was, it was kind of odd. You know, the guys are very well behaved. You think a party that's catering to a lot of solo men is going to be a lot of guys jostling for position and throwing elbows and be like, it's my turn. No, no, no, no, it's my turn. No. Everyone was so cooperative. Everyone was trying to be friendly and help out. Everyone's like, oh, no, dude, do you want to go next? It's, it's cool. You could go, it's fine. Or you use, you, you mime to a guy. But hey, can you toss me a condom? Or like, there's a guy fluffing himself and I'm just trying to reach underneath and around him without my dick getting too close to his face. I'm just trying to get the lube, you know, Just like, hey, I'm just getting the lube. Just watch out. Like, I saw better teamwork from this group with like 50 dudes that night that I saw from the Philadelphia 76ers that entire series. It was incredible. But then I just ended up never really getting to get in with that chick. Actually fucked the second woman a second time. And then later in the night, there's a woman I've already, you know, I've had sex with several times in the past. And before I left, I was getting sleepy, but we were making out and he got me all hard, so it's still just three, but gosh, it was almost four that night. It really was. It was.
Kathy
Well, you're living the dream. Okay? That story didn't disappoint. And that's just one night in your life. Okay, do you take. This isn't my. I have my one last question, but this isn't my last question. But when you were talking about all this, I was just wanting to know a 37 year old guy, can he go to a club at one night and just be able to perform and do everything that you did without any kind of blue pill? Or do you take something? Something? Because that's, that's what most guys do at an event like that. I don't know. You tell me.
Billy
It depends, you know, you have to, you have to know your own body, right? Like all these, like, guys in their 20s who are getting the boner pills, they don't need boner. They do not have erectile dysfunction.
Kathy
No, I know they're using it to.
Billy
They're nervous. Yeah, they are nervous and they are. Why I'm asking, you know, kind of freaking out. And so that's why they're getting that when really they just need to learn how to regulate their, you know, sympathetic nervous system system. They need to just do some deep breathing. They need to relax, you know.
Kathy
But if, you know, you're going to a gang bang, are you going to take a pill just to make sure that you're not going to have any issues at your. Or.
Billy
I think it depends. And I think it depends how I'm feeling. But like, yeah, sometimes. Sometimes I'll. I'll take a pill sometimes not for that gang bang party I did. But like, I've gone three times in a night at a sex party without any sort of, like, medical intervention. It just depends on, like, am I going with a date? Like, if I'm going with a date who, like, I have seen this awesome fun sex with, especially if we're not using condoms. Like, I use. I don't need to take a pill because that's just going to be a lot simpler, smoother, easier when I'm going to a gang bang party where literally my function is to help out these women because they just all want to get by as many.
Kathy
Oh, yeah, no, no, you better have a hard on. You better have a hard on. I know from gang bang girls, they get really big pissed if you show up and you can't get it up. Last question. Billy, have you ever been with a guy? I don't think I've ever asked you this question.
Billy
I'm not attracted to the men, Kathy. That's just, you know, I mean, never
Kathy
got a blow job, never blew a guy. I'm just asking.
Billy
I'm just, I'm just. It's not my bag. It's.
Kathy
Okay.
Billy
It's all that facial hair and masculinity I'm far more into. I'm more easily able to get attracted to a trans woman than a trans man.
Kathy
Okay.
Billy
You know, because even though it's. It's like the hairiest pussy, that's like.
Kathy
I go, but, but what?
Billy
Okay.
Kathy
Yeah. Okay, so you, but you would be with a trans woman with a, With a penis. Would you blow her?
Billy
I. I've been with some trans women.
Kathy
Okay, good. That's an interesting answer. I'm gonna. I don't need you to expand on that because I gotta wrap it up. But it's. I love doing Q and A's with you. I think you give really good answers, by the way, like for real, you know, and very different than I. That I get from somebody else, but really super interesting. So I, I had so much fun doing this Q and A with you, Billy. It was fun. Why don't you give a shout out to everything that you do. Your podcast. I'll put a link to it in the description. You also do comedy and you do it naked. So give shout out to all your stuff.
Billy
I even do comedy clothes a lot of times, but I've been doing this a long time. No, I. I've been running, running a weekly sex podcast called the Man Whore Podcast. Wherever you listen to audio. So Spotify, wherever you're listening to Kathy off of YouTube, you can find me. Just search Man Horror. That's me. I tell my own stories. I sit down with people and, you know, I get their stories out there. And then I also run the Naked Comedy show, which is exactly what it sounds like. It's me and a bunch of comedians and we tell our jokes. Just. We tell our jokes without any clothes on. Billy, what about underwear? Well, then it would be an underwear show. This is a naked comedy show. We do it every month in New York City. The next one is July 23rd. We do in Philadelphia a lot. The Next one's on August 1st. And I just launched Chicago last week. Sold out crowds. So stay tuned for more. And. And I am searching for more cities to expand to. So if you're following me on Instagram, that's probably the best place to stay. Updated. I'm on Instagram.
Kathy
Do you want to put your website doesn't have all the dates there too.
Billy
Website under construction.
Kathy
Oh, okay, cool. So, all right, so I'll put that. You just send me what you whatever link you want there.
Billy
Absolutely.
Kathy
Okay, awesome. Thanks, Billy. Thanks so much for calling in. This was super fun. We'll do another one soon. Great, bye. Hey, it's Ryan Reynolds here for Mint Mobile. Now I was looking for fun ways
Billy
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Kathy
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Billy
So there goes my big idea for the commercial.
Kathy
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Billy
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Kathy
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Billy
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Kathy
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In this lively, unscripted Q&A, host Kathy Kay welcomes her friend and fellow podcaster Billy (from The Man Whore Podcast), diving deep into explicit terrain. With their no-holds-barred chemistry, Kathy peppers Billy with taboo and titillating questions—sex preferences, masturbation habits, sexual adventures, kink boundaries, and more—giving listeners an honest, insightful, and often humorous look inside a sexually adventurous man’s mind. The conversation is candid and judgment-free, breaking down stigmas and sharing stories intended to spark both curiosity and new ideas.
On quick orgasms and emotion:
“My therapist had the theory... it was my body’s way of saying, ‘F*** you, I’m going to come quickly because you won’t give me the intimacy I’m looking for.’”
—Billy, 08:40
On sexual definitions:
“Sex used to be just PIV. I encourage everyone: be more specific, because if you tell me you had sex last night—come on, give me a visual!”
—Billy, 27:01
On masturbation rituals:
“Not a spit guy. I’m an adult, I have a credit card... Spit and shampoo, that is for teenagers.”
—Billy, 15:16
On anal play stigma:
“They’re lying to you, Kathy. 90% of [the men who say no] have done it—whether as a child or adult.”
—Billy, 41:45
On water sports at sex parties:
“I had to ask one of the guardians... ‘What’s the rule about doing water sports in one of the showers?’ She said, ‘Never been asked that before, let me check.’”
—Billy, 51:17
Gangbang sportsmanship:
“I saw better teamwork from this group with like 50 dudes that night than I saw from the Philadelphia 76ers that entire series.”
—Billy, 61:18
With honest confessions, in-depth answers, and wild stories, this episode gives listeners a window into diverse sexual experiences—including the mechanics, motivations, and psychology behind them—delivered with both wit and remarkable candor by Billy and Kathy. Essential for anyone curious about real life sex adventures, overcoming stigmas, and getting fresh inspiration for the bedroom (or beyond).