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Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Strictly Anonymous Podcast.
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Conversations with online strangers. We place ads online. The Craigslist is definitely like the gift that keeps on giving. Real people respond. You go to Singapore or Thailand, you can't not do it. The temptation is just too much. Your friend know that you're banging her?
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No, no, he has no idea.
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And anything goes.
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Motto of the show, let your freak flag fly.
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Probably the only good advice I'll ever give you is to re hide your whips. And ch. There is your host, Kathy. Hey, welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast with Kathy. If you want to follow the Strictly Anonymous Podcast on Instagram or Twitter, follow me at Strict Anonymous if you want to be on the show. It's called Strict Strictly Anonymous because they change everyone's voices and names. Okay, so if you have an interesting secret naughty life that you want to talk about while remaining anonymous or not anonymous, if you're out and proud, you could email me at strictly anonymous podcast gmail.com or go to my website, strictly anonymous podcast.com and click on Be on the Show. Now listen, if you have a naughty confession you want to leave on my confessions line, you could do that 24. 7. The number is 347-420-3579. That's 347-420-3579. Call from a quiet place. I can't use ones when people call where they're driving. Some of those confessions make it onto a confessions episode. The rest go on to my Patreon. Now, my Patreon is super fun and it's very inexpensive if you ask me. It's only $7 a month and you get every single episode. I do seven episodes a week. You get every single one them early before anyone gets them. As well as intro and ad free. You also get all the confessions and you also get Q&As that. I do like every other month where I answer a lot of questions as well as you get anonymous pics of probably every single girl that has called into my show. Every single female guest. I got pictures of them over on my Patreon. Like I said, It's $7 a month. The link to Patreon is in the description. If you do sign up for my Patreon or buy my book. I wrote a book. It's Strictly Anonymous Confession. Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. It's all stories from my show told in the third person. They're super fun. And the audiobook is coming out in August. So if you buy my book either in paperback or ebook or audiobook version the links are all in the description. I will also give you access to my private Discord. Like I said, if you join my Patreon or if you call into my show or if you buy my book, I will give complimentary access to my private Discord. My Private Discord is not a paid site. It is free, but it is private and you can only get in if I send you the link. I promise you, you will not be disappointed. My Discord is full of great effing people. Okay? So if you buy my book, send me a screenshot of your purchase and I will send you the link to my Discord. Last thing I'm going to tell you about is if you want to sign up for SDC.com I do have a free trial for my listeners. SDC is like the world's largest online dating website. And it's not just a place where you hook up with people. You could learn all about the lifestyle. You could find out about all the lifestyle events and meetups and all kinds of things going on in your neighborhood as well as if you're going to travel and you want to have a little fun, you're going to find it all on SDC.com Like I said, you get a free trial if you use my code 37712 or just go to the description and click on the link. That's 37712 or just go to the description and click on the link. Okay, today I'm on Alexis, but she's really Cindy Wife. Cindy with. She talks about how she got that name, Cindy wife. She's a hot wife and she's got a boyfriend that loves, not a boyfriend, husband that loves her hot wifing. And they have a really interesting start to her hot wifing experience. She talks about how they met. They were both with other people. She was in an open marriage, he wasn't. He was in a sexless marriage. They came together and, you know, things got pretty spicy over time. And she talks about how they made the leap into hot wifing. He's very into seeing her get off with other guys. She loves turning him on by doing it. We talk about all, you know, how it all started. All the first guy she was with and then what she started doing for him. She's always doing solo play. He's rarely there. Sometimes he does video for her. Eventually she started doing some content creating and he does videotape and once in a blue moon he will take part. But most of the time she's playing solo. She's Got a lot of guys. She told me at one point towards the end that her guy takes a lot of data and he realized that, like, and like. And he keeps a spreadsheet on everything. And she had like 133 guys last year. So she's got a lot of quote unquote boyfriends. She a lot of guys for her husband. They have also got into swinging and she talks about their swinger club experience and hotel takeovers. They've fooled around with couples. She talks about those experiences. And, you know, through those experiences, she has realized she's like a cuck queen. She does also love seeing her guy with other women, and she talks about that journey and how that came about for them because the first time they hooked up with a couple, she didn't like seeing her guy with a girl. And she talks about that, but that changed over time. She talks that too. She talked about how and when she started her fansly account. She has that. She's got a Twitter. She's super hot. I have like, hot pictures over on my Patreon and my Discord. She. The links to all of her stuff as well will be in the description. But you're gonna love her story, so I'm gonna get right to it and be right back on with Alexis, AKA Cindy Wife. This is the Strictly Anonymous podcast.
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Strictly Anonymous podcast.
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Hi, Cindy Wife. How you doing? Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast.
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Thank you.
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You're Cindy. Well, you're Alexis, right? That's your fake name. You're also Cindy wife on OnlyFans. Cindy with an S, right?
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That is correct. You got it.
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And there's something behind that. It's like where you're from, the Windy City, maybe. I don't know.
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Yeah. So my husband kind of came up with that. It's Cindy for South Indy. But yes, a lot of people assume my name is Cindy, so.
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Oh, it's not just this. The. In this Windy City. That would be Chicago, right? Oh, it's Cindy. I like that.
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Yeah. So we live in Indianapolis, so it is South Indie Wife.
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Yeah. Oh, okay. That makes sense. Okay. So anyway, you are a hot wife and we're gonna get your whole story. We'll eventually get to the part where you start content creating for your, you know, you know, as something that you do. Everybody does that nowadays. You know, I'm assuming you were hot wifing before you started posting, or did it all happen at the same time? Yeah, yeah, that's what I mean is typically the case. And a lot of times it's like, so weird. Like, some of my listeners or will be turned off, like, oh, it's a content creator. Like, why don't you have regular people anymore? It's like, all regular people. That's what every fucking regular person is, a content creator today.
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Okay?
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Like, welcome to the real world. That's just the way that it is. It's not like 10 years ago. I've been podcasting for over 10 years. So, yeah, years ago, nobody was doing it. But a lot of those people that were are now content creating because you can make money off of it. There's not so much of a stigma around it because, like, everybody's kind of doing it, so Even, like, celebrities, right? So everyone's, like, jumping on the bandwagon. And I don't think there's anything wrong with that, you know?
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Well, and unbeknownst to me, actually, my husband was posting photos of me before anything. That's, like, what started everything in the very beginning.
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And I was like, I love that we're gonna get there.
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Pictures of me on a. Like, and I don't even remember where it was, like, maybe Reddit or, like, some chat groups. And. Yeah, and he was like, maybe because he was getting off on guys liking my photos or saying she's hot or whatever.
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So, yeah, sorry, News flash. That's what I always say to girls. Make sure you keep your face out of it or any kind of tattoos that you got if you did. Because most guys, because I have guy friends, and if they have gotten a ping to their phone with a pic of, like, the girl they're banging, not never like, their wives or their girlfriends, a lot of times it's not that person, but they will be like, oh, look, Kathy, look what I just got. You know what I mean?
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Totally.
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Show me. So I'm sorry, you're gonna be passed around, so make sure you look good and make sure you're anonymous if you want to keep it up, because I do think guys do that. And we'll get to that part of the story where you find out. So now you are a hot wife. Now, how long have you and your guy been together? Not just married, like, the whole time. Like, how old were you when you met him and how long you've been together? And then how long ago do you get married?
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So we have been together, gosh, five and a half. Going on almost six years now. We met in a. Really. We met online, but we were both in other relationships. So not a super, like, popular thing. But at the time, I had told. No, I was. I was Not. I guess he technically was. I had told my husband at the time, you know, that we were. We were trying an open relationship, so he was very aware of everything.
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Oh, okay.
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He was in a relationship where they had had children, they had gotten pregnant right away, but there was. They hadn't had sex in a few years, and they were. Eventually started sleeping in separate bedrooms. So when I met him, it was supposed to just be for, like, for fun, for play, and it was Covid. And I remember we met at a hotel, and I left after, and he texted, and he was like, well, aren't you gonna stay? And I'm like, am I. Am I supposed to? I thought this was just see you later thing.
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Yeah.
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And so it just kind of evolved into texting and, you know, a relationship, so. And then we've been married just shy of two years.
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Yeah, that's what people don't understand. Like, they just think that, like, oh, you don't give someone sex. That's just about sex. But, you know, not having sex for many years, you know, creates a lot more problems than just no sex. You know, that guy was obviously looking not just for sex, but for a connection. Like, they were disconnected. Like, there was no more connection. No more sleeping in the same room, no more sex. Like, that's a lot more than just no sex. Right?
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Yeah. I mean, they were together five years, and he's like, I can count on two hands how many times we had sex.
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So that ruins the intimate. Where's the intimacy? Sex is. Is not. Is important not just to get you off, but to create a closeness between a couple. So if you don't have that, like, look, he got by you. He got the sex right. That he wasn't getting at home, but he wanted more because that. Yeah, that's true. Okay, so now you were like, sep. You were like, in an open marriage. Like, when did you guys. How long did you guys and bang and hang out together before you both left your part?
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I left my partner. Gosh, almost a year and a half before he left his. So mine and just was living on my own. And it was difficult. I mean, obviously my friends were like, he's never gonna leave. You're crazy. What are you doing? My family thought I was crazy, you know, and eventually he did. He left. I was kind of shocked. It wasn't easy, though. That transition was very difficult. And, you know, trying to blend things together in households and families, in real life, and it's. It was a rocky time, but we did eventually kind of figure it out. I sold My house. He got rid of his. We moved in together. And then it. That's kind of when the whole hot wifing thing started.
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Right. But let me ask you a question. You were very brave to tell all your friends and your family that you're, like, banging a married guy because, you know, they're just gonna, like, hate your guy and be anti him. Do you know what I mean?
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A lot of them, yeah. Well, he wasn't married, but, I mean, he was, Was, you know, in a committed relationship.
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Oh, right, right, right. Exactly.
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Yeah. But, yeah, no, I mean, yeah, it was not a popular opinion by any means. And I think a lot of people, like, were like, oh, yeah, you know, he says he's not banging her, but of course he is. And I'm like, no, I, I, he really isn't, you know?
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Yeah, yeah.
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It just, yeah, it was not popular, for sure. And it was, it was difficult because, like, how do you, you know, sometimes you're, you know, you want to talk to your friends about things and, or your family, and they're like, it's kind of hard to support you when you're doing that.
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Yeah. Once they get a judgment going, they don't let up. Right. Even if you're, you don't give a. And then. So how long into it did you feelings for him, do you remember?
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Oh, gosh, probably like six months, to be honest. I, I remember at one point I went back and looked at some of our text messages, even like three months in, and I was like, I'm keeping you. And he said, I'm okay with that. But of course, neither of us had any clue what it would actually turn into. So.
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Yeah. Yeah, that's interesting. But he knew you had an open relationship, so he knows you're kind of freaky. I mean, you're like the opposite of the woman he had at home, Right?
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Yes. And he always says that he does not like good girls.
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But he married one,
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Right? Exactly. Sort of. Yeah.
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Okay. So you wind up together, and you guys are together now. How does the hot wifing thing come up? Is it because you already were in a relationship? Like you guys were open like that about stuff together. I don't know. Because it's not like you started out vanilla. Yeah.
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He and I had not been open with other people.
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Oh, okay.
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Ever. And so when we were actually out at a bar one night and came home and I had sold my house and moved, and so I lived in an area where I didn't really know anybody.
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Yeah.
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And so we were out and we had come home. I was sitting on the couch, just, like, on my phone, not really paying attention. And the doorbell rings. And I was like, I had had enough to drink where I was like, that's weird. It's kind of late at night. But again, not thinking much of it. And he. We had, like, sort of a long hallway from our foyer, and this guy walks in. He's like, hey, babe, someone's here for you. I'm like, for me? I'm super confused. Like, nobody here knows me. And he was like, yeah. And this guy follows him behind him, and he's like, you're gonna suck his dick.
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And I'm like, wait, this guy that you're with now are a couple at this point? You're a couple at this point?
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Yeah, we were. We had just moved in together.
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Oh, okay. Now, had you ever discussed freaky things like roleplayed other guys? Nothing?
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Nope.
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This guy's got balls. He brings another guy there. He obviously knows somehow you're going to be into this, though, because some women might be like, what the. Because a lot of women are wired in that they would have to, like, get to know a guy before they just like him. Like, maybe that's not your thing. I don't know. You know, how does he know you're going to, like, dig this guy that just comes over?
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So, you know, it's funny, in a way, we are slightly traditional in, like, he's the man of the house. Like, I. You know, certainly, if I ever was against anything, whether it be in this life or. Or outside of it, you know, I would say, hey, I. Let's. I don't. I don't agree with that. Let's talk about it. He's open to that. But, you know, he jokingly will say, you know, I'm the man. What I say goes, or whatever. And so he was just like, it's the truth. Yeah. And. But he's like, I just knew you'd do it. And he's like. I was like, but he also knows that I get nervous about.
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Yeah.
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He's like, I'm just gonna throw your ass in the deep end. And I'm like, okay. So that's what he did. Because I look. I looked. I remember looking at him like, are you fucking serious? Am I being punked right now? Like, what's happening? And he looked back, and I was, like, just staring at him. He's like, well, what are you looking at? Get to sucking dick. And I'm like, are you serious? He's like, yes, I'm gonna watch you and I'm gonna record it. I'm like, okay. So then I just, like, started. And I mean, the guy was super sweet. To this day, he still messages my husband like, hey, you know, I can come over again or whatever. But of course, I've never seen him again. He was very sweet and. But yeah, it was. So that's what happened. So I was just like, all right, got on my knees, sucked his dick, and my husband recorded it. And I was like, that was kind of hot. He was like, that was so hot. And. And then it just, like, evolved from there.
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So then it's like I. A couple months later, he sends me a text and he's like, hey, some guys coming over to the house. I was working from home that day. And he's like, I need you to go put on some lingerie and set up the camera. And I'm like, what are you talking about? But I'm like, okay, fine. So I go upstairs, he's at work, and he. This dude comes over this, like, power lifter comes over and I'll tatt it up. And I'm like, hey, my husband wants to watch. Apparently, he's like, yep, he told me everything ahead of time. And I'm like, okay. So we go up there, and he's at work. He puts his headphones in, and he's, like, watching me from work, like, fucking this dude at the house.
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And now in between the blowjob and this time, had you guys had conversation? Like, what the fuck's going on here? Or are you just, like, the type that doesn't ask questions? Because I would have a million questions after I blew that guy if I would actually listen to somebody do what they said and blow them. Like, did after he left. Were you like, oh, I didn't know you were, like, into this. Like, I mean, were there any kind of conversations before for the next guy shows up and it's gonna bang you?
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I mean, I. I've known he's kind of freaky, and he's kind of known I'm freaky. So in that regard, no. But I was also like, you're slightly crazy. And he just, like, laughed. He's like, oh, you're fine. It was enjoyable. You enjoyed it. Like, we're fine. So I think he just. He knows my boundaries too. In all reality, I think it comes down to just knowing each other really well, because he's never put me in a situation where I was like, no, or I don't feel comfortable or anything. So we didn't have a lot of conversation. I just was like, you're crazy. But that was kind of fun. Like, maybe we'll do. I don't know.
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How old are you guys? Are you guys in your 20s?
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No, we're in our 40s.
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Oh, my God. Because, I mean, I think, like, people in their 20s don't think things through. That's, like, the fun. The funnest part of being in your 20s, you know, you don't really think a lot. You know, I mean, you just do, which is, like, the best part of being that age. But in 40s, I would be thinking way too much. Like, I can't believe, like, this is just, like, happening, and you're not even really discussing. There's no rules. You're like, he's down with this. A guy comes over, and now he's like, him. And you're like, okay.
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Questions I did have for him. I was like, doesn't it make you slightly jealous? He's like, nope, I like watching. And that was weird for me because I didn't like, in my mind at the time, I was like, I would never want to watch him with another woman. Which is not that way now. But I remember thinking like, you're crazy. There's no way. And looking back, I get it now. But I didn't at the time.
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Yeah, that's what I'm talking about. Like, it's that kind of stuff that is typically the conversations that people have like, before they get into this. Because, you know, who knows? It just sounds. That's why I was like, oh, maybe you guys are really young and you're just not thinking, but just maybe you guys are like fun 40 year olds that don't think. You know what I mean? I think that's great. I overthink everything.
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We have these busy jobs and corporate jobs, and so it's like, sometimes it's nice to just let it go and. But I remember thinking, like, the next one, I found a guy online and I was like, okay, I'm gonna hook up with this dude and I'm gonna record it and send it to him as a surprise. But I remember thinking, what if he gets pissed? Like, this was a very big, like, what if for me. And I was like, I'm sure he won't, but what if he does? And I didn't want to, like, because for me, I wasn't necessarily like. I mean, not that it wasn't in, like, fun, but it was more about doing it because it was turning my husband on, not because it was for me, per se. And so I like, find this guy online and met him in a parking lot one day, like at lunch, and blew him in his car and then sent the video to my husband. And he was like, that was so fucking hot. And I was like, oh, thank God. So it just like, like kind of just kept growing from there. And then it was like a month later, he sends me a text. He's like, hey, go to this parking lot and meet this dude. I'm like, what? And so I end up in the back of this dude's minivan and recording him, me from behind. And it just like, it was like kind of that it just kept evolving in that way.
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Let me ask you this, because I don't know, I think most women are a lot more picky than men, right? So, like, is he just like picking you, like, super hot guys and you're down with them or like, you know, I know that you picked the last guy. I mean, what are these guys, like, that are showing up? Or do you. Are you not picky? Like, what what, like. Or does he know your type or is he just sending guys that he, he knows are like, hot? Because he said the one guy was like super jacked up and everything.
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Yeah, I mean, I am picky, like to a point. He's actually way pickier than I am.
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When it comes to women or men?
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When it comes to. To women. Yeah. But like, I, he just in general, like, he's just very picky and he's like, I'd rather have no sex and not enjoy, you know, than with somebody I don't enjoy it with. But yeah, I, for me, again, it wasn't really about what I was enjoying out of, like, I was getting my enjoyment because he was enjoying it. So.
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Right. It wasn't about you enjoying the guy. It was more about, you knew, like you were hot for it because, you know you're turning your guy on kind of thing.
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Yes. And then I would go home after and then it was like, he'd be like, I'm, I'm, you know, I want to eat your. After you've had that dick in you and like it. So that was like the turn on piece of it. But he likes black eyes. For some reason, he likes watching me with black eyes. And so that one in the minivan was a black guy. And then same thing. The next one, he was like, hey, go to this dude's apartment. And he was very nice, but he had a much bigger dick than I was used to. So that was my first like, okay, we need to talk about this because I can only do so much. It can only take so much. But you know, he again, it just like the black guy thing really turns him on. So I've had a mixture of all of it, but if I let him pick somebody, he's gonna pick like a super jacked black dude with a big dick. Yeah.
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Isn't it funny how these guys want guys to have bigger dicks than them? It's like the opposite of what you would ever think. I know, it's weird, right?
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Well, and actually I'm lucky because my husband is pretty well endowed.
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Yeah.
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Like, so I'm like, thank God. But.
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But he still likes a guy to be huge. Yeah.
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Yeah. Yes.
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Yeah. Yeah. You're lucky you got that. So are you. Do you consider yourself a size queen or does it not really matter to, to you?
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It doesn't really matter to me. I mean, at the end of the day, I think, like, I like them thicker. Like, girth is probably more important to me than anything.
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But that's a typical answer. From that's how most women feel, don't you think?
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I. Yeah, I think so.
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But rather have 5 or 6 in thick than like 9 inches in thin.
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Yeah. Because I'd like to keep my insides and I just don't feel like. I think it's just a novelty thing, you know? Yeah.
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Yeah, totally. Okay, so now you're going back and forth. Now the reclaiming is like, like that. He's like really into it. You're obvious into the conversion of it. All right. That's what they call it, like when you're sort of really turned on by turning your partner on, Right?
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Yep.
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So you could get into these guys because it's like a part of the scenario for your husband. You're thinking like, oh, I'm sending this to him. Like, that's what's turning you on, right?
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Correct.
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Yeah. That's interesting. Okay, so he. You're. And you're filming a lot of stuff, like, and you're doing a lot of solo stuff. Does he ever get involved, like, and be there, like, and have threesomes with you, or is it always solo play?
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He actually doesn't really prefer to be involved. I've had him record a few times, like when we've done content stuff or I've like asked him to be. We were coming back from. I'm jumping a little bit ahead, but we were coming back from a club one weekend and he's like, I had fallen asleep in the car because it's like a five hour drive. He's like, hey, when we get home, you need to get changed and get in some lingerie because there's a dude coming over to you. And I was like, what? I was like, it is Sunday. I'm tired. He was like, I, you know what? He's like, it'll be great. And I'm like, oh, fine. But I was like, only if you're gonna like, stay in the room and join whatever. And he was like, fine. So he recorded a little, but then he also was like joined in a little bit. But he said for him he likes to record and he doesn't really pay attention in the moment because he likes to go back and he'll edit my. All my videos for me for, you know, when I do post them online.
- [24:16]
B
Yeah.
- [24:17]
A
And he's like, I like watching your face. Like when I can pick out certain pieces or I can slow the video down. He's like, that's what's hot. So me?
- [24:26]
B
Yeah. Because he's getting off on your pleasure. I mean, that's what it's always about, really, these hot wife, these guys that are into hot wifing. So, all right, so you're going back and forth. You start also going online and looking for guys, too, right? That's where you were at in the, like, chronological order, if we want to keep going from there. And is that what starts to happen? Like, you also start picking guys for yourself? Do you continue doing that?
- [24:50]
A
I only did it a couple times. I just. I honestly kind of preferred for him to pick them up. I like to sort of stay out of it, so to speak, because I think part of the hotness, I just. I did it a couple times to surprise him, but in general, I sort of let him pick him. But then he came to me. He was like, hey. I was looking online and. Well, he had been posting a lot of stuff on Reddit and just a lot.
- [25:11]
B
Oh, yeah, let's get to that part where he's showing your pics without you knowing or something or whatever.
- [25:16]
A
Well, that was actually way before any of this ever started. But he started posting more on Reddit, and. But it was like, we'd get hundreds and hundreds of messages, but it was just like dudes who just wanted to endlessly talk. And I'm like, this is exhausting. And so he ended up. And. And I actually told him, too. I was recognized in public a couple times, and because at the time, he would post my face for a little while and then take it down, I was like, you got to stop posting my face. Because I had three people recognize me in public because.
- [25:45]
B
You're kidding.
- [25:46]
A
No, I mean, we started doing Reddit because I. It was to feed my content creation at the time. And. And part of. And I always joke that my husband's kind of like a genius marketer because he's like, I think that part of what these guys think is hot is that you're local. Like, they could run into you. Yes. So they did. And. But they were actually. Everybody was very respectful. They never came up to me until after they would send me a message and say, like, hey, were you at this restaurant? Or, hey, were you at this golf course?
- [26:16]
B
And it was true. And it was.
- [26:18]
A
And it was true.
- [26:19]
B
Oh, my God.
- [26:21]
A
And they were like, you're so much hotter in person. I was like, oh, God. So I just was like, you've got to stop posting my face, because that's just. That could just get bad. So. So we stopped doing that.
- [26:31]
B
Okay, so now he's posting you on Reddit. You become. Now, are you that big on there? That or he's just posting you locally, specifically, so that. So that. That's why people found you. Right?
- [26:43]
A
Yeah. Correct. Mm.
- [26:45]
B
Right. Okay. So now people. So now you go back to being a natural. Anonymous.
- [26:49]
A
Yes. So now it's like lips down, so just, you know, there's no full face of anything. And then it was, you know, he. We just kind of had, like, hit a lull, I guess, and just nothing was really exciting anymore because it was kind of the same old, same old. And then he was like, hey, I found these clubs online. And I'm like, what are you talking about? So that was my first, like, exposure. I didn't really realize swinger clubs were a thing.
- [27:14]
B
Oh, interesting.
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A
Yeah.
- [27:15]
B
You had said, oh, we were coming home from a club. I was going to ask you if the club, quote unquote, was a swing singers club.
- [27:21]
A
Yep. And so I still remember going to the first one. And again, I was still so nervous. I remember I thought I was gonna, like, throw up. And I. I expected to walk in, there was gonna be this massive orgy, and all these women were gonna start grabbing my husband, and I was gonna freak out. And I was like, no. And I. I mean, we made it almost there, and I was like, you know, five hours away. And I was like, I think we need to turn around. He's like, are you kidding me? But of course I walked in. It was a gorgeous club. It was great. And it was not at all what I had expected. And so we've been doing that lifestyle for about two years, but we don't play with a lot of couples. To be honest, we haven't had a lot of play within the lifestyle because my husband is so picky picky. But we've met some fantastic people. We've had a lot of fun and just enjoyed it in that way. But it definitely opened my eyes to a lot more and just kind of without their different kinks and stuff like that, you know?
- [28:11]
B
So let me talk me through that swinger club experience. Like, now you guys are going there. Like, I'm assuming at this point you've never seen your guy with another girl. You did say, like, that has changed over time. So I, you know, I don't know if that's where he. Another girl or if you guys are just talking about that now. But, like, going into that first swinger club experience, did you guys have any conversations about, like, what you were gonna do, what you weren't gonna do? Were you going there to look to, like, hook up with a couple, or was he just gonna want You. To see you. You fuck other guys. Like, what was the. What was the. What was.
- [28:42]
A
I don't think he had any extra. He's the type of person that has zero expectations ever, and doesn't want to plan anything. Like, plan everything.
- [28:50]
B
Yeah.
- [28:50]
A
And it kind of ruined our first. We did hook up with a couple, and not the first time, but I'd say maybe on our, like, 10th trip. And it kind of ruined it because I, like, tried to plan everything ahead of time. And he's like, you just took all the sexy out of it. I'm like, I'm so sorry. But for me, I just felt like I was so nervous as to where my boundaries were, and I didn't want to, like, make anybody else feel bad, too. I didn't want to get in a situation that I wasn't comfortable with and then offend somebody else either. So we had a million conversations about what we're comfortable with, with, and he's pretty much go, you know, anything goes.
- [29:22]
B
But were you. Were you.
- [29:24]
A
No, I was like, no kissing, no this, no that, no, you know, and he respected every boundary. And honestly, we didn't play for probably at least 10 times, if not more going to clubs. It was just meeting people, hanging out. He likes people to watch us.
- [29:38]
B
Okay, so you would be banging there in front of people. Yeah. Okay, and how was that for you? Do you get off on that, or is it just his thing that he gets off on?
- [29:46]
A
No, I enjoy that, too. Yeah.
- [29:47]
B
And what about seeing people? Because you're obviously seeing people, too, while you're there, right?
- [29:52]
A
Yeah, it's. It's. I enjoy watching as well. Like, it's. Sometimes it's hot, sometimes it's like, take it or leave it, you know? I think it's one of those things too. Like, once you've seen something enough times, it's like, not that exciting anymore.
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A
Then we started trying other clubs and we Kind of made a weekend out of it and would like, you know, we like to golf. So we'd go golf. We'd find a good brunch place, get bloody Marys, you know, just kind of make a weekend of it. And so it was nice. It was like, for us to just get away, do something and try a new club. We've done a few out of state. We don't. We haven't done any here in Indiana because we've heard they're horrendous, so.
- [33:47]
B
Oh, really?
- [33:48]
A
Yeah. So we always, you know, get a little bit of a weekend away when
- [33:51]
B
we go now when. So what was your first experience like, when you did hook up with a couple? Do you remember that time? Because you said it took, like 10 times before you kind of did something with somebody else. Was it a couple? Was it a full swap? Was it a soft swap? Like, what went down when you finally did hook up?
- [34:05]
A
Yeah, it was a full swap. And it was. They were great. They were good looking. It was, you know, because it was one of those things getting my husband to find somebody that he's attracted to as well. But I just. It was okay. But again, I think I ruined it because I. I just thought too much about it ahead of time. And I've learned that not planning and not thinking and not really having rules, per se. Like, he knows my boundaries deep down, and he's not ever crossed the line or done anything that's made me upset. So I'm grateful for that. And I think that it's just easier to go into stuff, like, if it happens, great. If not, that's great too. And.
- [34:43]
B
But what specifically happened that time that wasn't so great? Do you remember, like, what the. What went down that made him.
- [34:50]
A
Honestly, I was pissed off that he wasn't looking at me like, he's getting a blowjob, and he had his eyes closed, and I was like, hi, I'm over here. And so afterwards, like, you didn't even look at me. You didn't include me. Like, I wanted to be a part of it. And he was like, I was focused on my blowjob.
- [35:03]
B
Yeah.
- [35:03]
A
And so. But I. Because I'm like, this is something we're doing together. And it was. Again, it was just me being not. I think I had expectations going into it. So the second time we played with a couple, it was so much, much better. And I wasn't worried about it, and I wasn't, you know, it's like, I know that my husband loves me. He's not going Anywhere I'm not. It's. It's. First time was just nerve wracking, but the second time was. Was so much better.
- [35:29]
B
Right. And that's what all those conversations are about, you know, because listen, feelings can come up and they do come up. You're a human being. Like, it's okay, you know what I mean, that you got a little pissed off. That's your first time. You know, it's very. I mean, it doesn't, like, it's. It shouldn't be a deal breaker if you're like, have a good relationship. You could talk yourself through a situation like that, like you said, you know, but the fact that you had feelings is not abnormal, you know, that that comes up. It's the difference between the successful couples is when they bring it up to their partner, their partner doesn't shut it down. They're like, okay, I totally understand. You know what I mean? Like, whatever. What happened in the next swap? Like, did you see him with another girl and it was just like a turn on. Like there was no problems that time. Time?
- [36:09]
A
Yeah, we were at a hotel takeover and we had been talking to this other couple kind of all weekend. They were both good looking, which was nice because sometimes it's like that doesn't happen where both the husband and the wife are good looking.
- [36:20]
B
Yeah. Problem.
- [36:21]
A
Yeah. And they were like. And the wife was just like, you want to go upstairs and bang. And I was like, yep. And so I just grabbed my husband. I was like, we're going upstairs. So I mean, he obviously knew, but we started like, you know, we went up to their room and we still started in the same room. We ended up kind of going to a separate. Like it was like a side by side, so going just because there wasn't a lot of space, more than anything. But we started in the same room and I. That was where it. That was the first time it clicked for me where I was like, holy shit, this is so hot to watch him.
- [36:50]
B
Oh, so that's when you like seeing him with another woman?
- [36:54]
A
Yes. And now he tells me to, like, he kind of rolls his eyes and laughs at me because now I almost would like to classify myself as like the quote unquote cut queen. Like, yeah, not being degraded by any means, but like, you know, we were with another couple recently and I was like, babe, go eat her. And he was like, yes, dear. And I was like, oh, my God. Just like watching it or like watching him stick his dick in her mouth. I was like, oh, my God, this is so hot. So It. I think that second one, though, was where it kind of clicked over for me, where my nerves were gone, so to speak, and I could actually, like, enjoy it.
- [37:30]
B
Yeah, and you did. And you're so. You kind of have the same thing that your husband has. I mean, a lot of times you can't go call a guy because they're like, oh, you know. But I use the word very, like, freely. You know, it doesn't need to be have that degradation, like, or that humiliation thing. Right. Like, I call myself a cuck queen, but I don't want to be, like, abused and be humiliated. Right. It's just a matter of, like, thinking it's hot to see your partner with another woman. Now, do you ever fool around with the women yourself? Are you into women or you don't go there at all? Like, what's your deal?
- [38:00]
A
I don't. I would not consider myself bisexual. But we always kind of joke that, like, every woman in the lifestyle claims to be. And I think some do it just because they think their man thinks it's hot.
- [38:10]
B
For sure.
- [38:11]
A
But for me, I've noticed if I'm in a situation and I'm feeling it and, you know, whatever. So the last experience we had, like, there was a little bit of play with her, but it's not something that I need to like. I definitely prefer dick more than anything else. It's not something I need. But if it's just. It feels right in the moment and like, there's, you know, then yes, I will play a little bit, but I would don't, like, seek out women specifically on my own own.
- [38:36]
B
Yeah, no, that's cool. And I. And I always think it's very interesting to. Because I think some people would just assume that, oh, you're a cuckoon or. And they also think this for the guy sometimes too. Like, oh, are you into guys? That's why you like to see your guy with other guys. And I don't think that those. I mean, listen, I think sometimes that is the case, but a lot of times it's not. One doesn't have anything to do with the other. Right, Right. Yeah. So you just like dick?
- [39:00]
A
Yeah, pretty much. And it's like I said, it's been, you know, for me, like, we had a guy reach out on Reddit, you know, kind of before I took all my Reddit stuff down, and he was like, I want to pay all your bills. And of course you're like, okay, this is a. We've got a scammer here. You know, somebody who's like, give me your bank account information, I'll transfer you money, you know, type situation. But we were kind of like joking about it. And so, like, some of my hookups, I remember my husband really likes Johnnie Walker Blue. And so I was like, getting ready to meet somebody and I was like, I was like, well, I really like generous men and I really like this Johnnie Walker Blue. And he brought me a bottle and I was like, holy shit. Like, that's an expensive bottle of scotch.
- [39:43]
B
Yeah.
- [39:44]
A
And so then again, my husband, like, hooks me up with this. Another dude did the same thing. He's like, hey, I really like Johnnie Walker Blue. And this dude brings a bottle and I'm like, oh, my God, we've got like, you know, $1,000 at this point now with Johnnie Walker Blue, like, this is. I was like, I want a gift for my son myself.
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B
Yeah.
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A
So then it started turning into that where I was like, well, I like generous men and I've gotten some great handbags. I've gotten some good stuff. And then it kind of has turned into like, okay, well, I like generous men and leaving it open ended, and the good ones have figured out that I like cash, so why not buy
- [40:23]
B
me a cup of coffee?
- [40:25]
A
You know, it's funny, sometimes I do. I'll get like, I'll get a Venmo and it's like. And it'll say Starbucks. You know, I'm like, oh, thank you.
- [40:32]
B
Yeah, yeah. But no, that. There's that website, buy me a cup of coffee, where like, that's really what it's about. Like, throw somebody like a tip just to kind of say thank you or whatever, right? For it is a place. But, oh, that's. You know, there is something. And you know, there's the extreme end of guys that like that. They're called like, pay pigs. They just like, want to give women, you know what I'm saying? So you never know that, right? And like, you said, like that one guy that you thought, it's a joke, a joke, he wants to just give you all his money. Like, it could be true. You never know. He might not be a scammer. I talked to a couple of those guys. It's like a crazy thing. I'm like, oh, my God. Some girl just hit the jackpot when she met. I had one guy, it was a private call, and he was like a really wealthy guy that was just dying to give his money away and had some really hot girl that he was giving it all to. I was like, oh, my God. So a lot of Girls would drool over this situation, you know, because she wasn't doing anything for it. I mean, are these guys that are sending you the thing now at this point because you're a content creator too, that they're just like fans or these guys you're like banging? Are these the bulls that you're both?
- [41:36]
A
I mean, I have like regular quote unquote, I guess, boyfriends that I see.
- [41:42]
B
Oh, really?
- [41:43]
A
My husband is like a data dude, so he like has spreadsheets and analytics on all this and.
- [41:48]
B
You're kidding.
- [41:48]
A
He was like, by the end of last, this past 20, 24, he's like, you had 133 dudes. I was like, holy.
- [41:54]
B
Oh, give me all the stats. I love your husband's stats. Give me all the stats. Yeah, yeah.
- [41:59]
A
And then, you know, aside from like, he just did like, you know, cash, aside from like my bags or whatever, but he's like, cash gifts. I, you know, he's like, you did 70,000? I was like, Jesus Christ. Oh my God. But it's just, you know, some of these guys, like, they like to brag, like they have all this and they want that attention and like, I really don't mind it. They're fun because they tend to be very outgoing and very just like, you know, I mean, they'll be like, hey, come to a baseball game with me or come do this or come do that. And like, I mean, I've met some very, oddly enough, some very interesting people with interesting stories. And you know, some of these people became really rich really fast for, you know, selling businesses or just invested in the right thing or, you know, it just. And having a corporate background, some of these guys I sit and literally talk business with, it's so crazy. But it's never, I mean, it's always something different. It's, it's interesting to say the least.
- [42:56]
B
Yeah. So now you say you have a couple of guys, they're like your regulars, or that you call them your quote, unquote, boyfriends.
- [43:03]
A
Uh huh.
- [43:04]
B
And what goes down with them? Like, I mean, are you seeing people like all the time solo play without your husband filming? Not filming, filming.
- [43:13]
A
Yeah, it's always solo. Sometimes I film, sometimes I don't. You know, it's funny, like, one of my regular like, boyfriends texted me last night. He's like, oh, back on the black guys again, huh? And I was like, oh my God, that's a video that's like months old. But he follows my social media, you know, and they're just. Yeah, I mean, I Travel a lot for work, so they're just, they're in like different cities. And it's also nice for me because I have somebody to grab a drink and dinner with too when I'm traveling to for work. Some of them I'm banging and some of them I'm not. Some of them just like the time and like have dinner and drinks and stuff when I travel.
- [43:47]
B
And now you call them. Are they quote unquote boyfriends or real boyfriends? Like, are there any feelings being.
- [43:52]
A
No.
- [43:52]
B
Right. These are like quote unquote boyfriends. Right? Like, you can call them your boyfriends and they're fine. Like, it's like slightly transactional or whatever, but it's fun. I mean, these. And some of these guys you're having sex with, you said?
- [44:04]
A
Yeah. I mean, they all know that I'm very, very happily married. They all know my husband knows that I spend time with people when I travel. Like, he does not care at all. And, and they. Everybody is very aware of what it is. And it is just, hey, we enjoy each other's company. And when I'm in town, let's grab, you know, dinner together. And it's, you know, and then if we have some wine, want to bang after. Fine. So.
- [44:25]
B
And now let me ask you this, because it did start out where you're doing this because, like, you like to turn your husband on. You weren't really looking for variety or anything. But, you know, like, now that you're like banging so many guys are, you just like, have a really high libido and you just like love all these guys. Like, has it changed over time for you that you're doing it also for yourself because you're so sucked up? I mean, I. Sometimes I think the more you, the more you want to. So I don't know, I'm just asking.
- [44:50]
A
It's so true. And I think too, like, I, I just as a woman, like, I'm into like hormone therapy. I take testosterone. So I can definitely tell, like once I've had my testosterone too, like, I'm even hornier. But I'm like, joke. I'm like, I'm the, I'm the woman who has a vibrator in her car. Okay, so.
- [45:06]
B
So you're always horny.
- [45:07]
A
Yes. Yes.
- [45:08]
B
So you're getting 133 dicks besides the one you have had a home.
- [45:13]
A
I know. And, and, and he's getting it, you know, when I'm home. I mean, we have sex almost every day at home. So when I'm not traveling what are
- [45:21]
B
some of the crazy things that you've done? Have you ever done more than one guy? Is it typically just you and a guy? Have you ever done a gang bang? Do you want to do that? I mean, like, how hardcore do you get?
- [45:30]
A
I've never done a gang bang. We've talked about it. We just haven't, like, I think just logistics. We haven't really done it yet.
- [45:35]
B
We.
- [45:36]
A
Yeah, well, we did a glory hole once. Like, we bought this thing on Amazon. Just like, little like. Like a changing. Like a portable changing station and like, cut a hole in. It was so funny. And we. But I mean, it was like, ridiculous trying to get these dudes to show up when they're supposed to show up and like, on time and like, you're coming to get your dick sucks. Like, what is the issue? Like, why are you, you know, so it. That became kind of complicated. But so we're just. We haven't really like. But we've talked about the gang bang thing a few times, so potentially we'll get there. But.
- [46:06]
B
So the glory. Whole thing never went through because no one showed up or did some people.
- [46:09]
A
No, we did. Yeah. I think we had like three or four people show up. And again, something different, something fun. Like, I'll. I always joke, like, I'll try anything three times. Like, right, let's try it. Let's see. And if it's terrible, we don't ever have to do it again. But it was fun, but it was just logistically annoying to deal with people sometimes.
- [46:26]
B
Yeah. Two guys at once. Ever.
- [46:28]
A
Yep. I. Yes. I always, like, I'll ask my husband, like, will you please join? Please, Please. And sometimes every once in a while he will. But it's rare. But we had somebody come over and he did join once, like, knowing that was the plan. And I enjoy it so much. I think he's kind of like. I don't know, he's just. He's like, it's okay, whatever. But, you know, we had another couple recently, and that was probably like the hottest to date for me because was. And I was actually like, on my monthly. So I was like, I can't even play, but I'll. I'll go and watch. And just watching him get his dick sucked and watching him come in her mouth was like, holy. So hot for me. So I. And. And I was able to, you know, suck her husband's dick. And so everybody had a good time. And. But for me, that's what I love to do.
- [47:16]
B
What Being with other.
- [47:18]
A
What, just to watch. To Watch him with somebody. And so we're, we're trying to explore that a little bit more. You know me, we just, we've only had three couple experiences. It hasn't been very much so for me, like, that's my next thing is I just want to keep doing that, you know, meeting couples and just kind of going from there and trying new things. But yeah.
- [47:36]
B
So now who finds these couples? Are you online someplace, like on an adult website looking for people? Or does your husband find the couples or do you meet them at the swinging clubs?
- [47:46]
A
Yeah, sometimes we've met them at clubs, sometimes we meet them online. We both have, like, our logins for any account, so we can both see, you know, any messages back and forth. So we kind of will both chime in sometimes.
- [47:58]
B
Right now, when you move to Only Fans, did you also keep your. Because, like, listen, Only Fans is locked down. So some people decide to show everything on Only Fans because they feel like, oh, who's going to find me on there? But, like, are you anonymous on Only Fans or do you show your whole face and Only Fans?
- [48:14]
A
Well, I actually got kicked out of a Get kicked off Only Fans for referencing, like, going on a date with one of my fans fans. It was really ridiculous. I was going to dinner with my husband and I snapped a photo of myself and I was like, I'm gonna go meet one of my fans, you know, and they shut me down. So that's crazy. Yeah. So I'm on Fansly. Okay. And it took a lot longer to kind of get that built back up. But that is where, like, you know, we post on X under that Cindy wife name. And then, you know, he'll post a lot of stuff on there without my face. But then if they do subscribe to My Fansly, then my face is on. On there.
- [48:48]
B
Oh, okay. Now, are you ever worried that, like, you know, your brother's friend, sister, your uncle, like, someone might wind up finding you, or do you feel safe over there?
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A
I mean, that's always in the back of my head, but at the end of the day, I'm an adult. I paid my own bills, and I don't really need anybody's permission to do anything. And if they have a problem with it, that's on them. You know, I mean, I, I. My husband and I have a fantastic marriage. We enjoy what we do. And that, to me, that's all that matters, so.
- [49:20]
B
Well, let me ask you this. As a woman. We talk to our friends a lot, you know, and I'm assuming you have a lot of Girlfriends, like, do. Does anybody know what you're doing? Or is this a total secret? Life a couple?
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A
Because, you know, honestly, some of my good girlfriends are women I've met in the lifestyle, so. Right.
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B
But I'm saying besides those people, people from your vanilla past, like, did you. Does anyone know that this is the road you went to down with this guy? Or is it totally a secret?
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A
Very few people know.
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B
Yeah, yeah, no, listen, I had. What's her name, she's from a podcast and she was a teacher and she got caught because I'm always like, you know, because I overthink things and I'm always like, oh, are you taking. You know, are you shooting videos or putting a pics even on your Twitter of like, your house? Because someone could be like, oh, I know that couch in that house. You know what I mean? And somehow, even though. Though she was anonymous, somebody found out. And I actually had her on the show to talk about how she got fired because her school, someone told her school where she worked, she was a teacher that she was on, only fans. Yeah, it's sad, you know, really sad, too, because she loved being a teacher. She was winning all these awards. She, you know, she was both things. Right. And no one needs to know the other thing. It's not their business. But someone found out and snitched on her. So, you know, that's just the thing. But you feel like if somebody found out, you. You would be okay. Like, you don't care if people find out is what you're saying.
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A
I mean, my husband's ex, like, found out and tried to use it, but, I mean, it's like, it's not. It's nothing illegal. It's nothing, Right? No, the attorneys just kind of laughed about it. They're like, do you know how many times in a week we hear about some ex being pissed off because the new woman's on, you know, fansly? Like, it's. We don't care. Nobody cares. You know?
- [50:57]
B
Wait, that is a thing that's happening nowadays, is what you're saying.
- [51:01]
A
Yeah, yeah. I mean, they said that they hear about it every single week. And it's like, you know, none of this is done in front of anybody. It's done in the privacy of our own home. You know, nobody's home besides myself and my husband.
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B
Yeah.
- [51:13]
A
You know, it's nobody's business what we do in our home. And we live in a free country, so it's like, we're not hurting anybody. You know, nobody else is seeing it. And this is for Adults only. And that's what it is. And it's like, yeah, I mean, people just don't care. I mean, jobs might care, but as far as, you know, anything else else, it's. Nobody cares. Right.
- [51:31]
B
But what about kids? Do you both. You both have kids from your previous marriages, or do you have any kids together or just from previous marriages?
- [51:37]
A
Nope, not together. Just previous. Yeah.
- [51:39]
B
Right. So I'm assuming you guys have a lot of, like, time off, right? Because the other partners are with the kids. Right. So you have that. So you have that time, too. And then. Yeah, you know, because I listen, for me, I'm not even doing what you're doing, but I have, like, a sex podcast. And like, none of my mom friends know that what I have, because I feel like maybe they wouldn't want them. Their kids to play with my kid. You know, I don't know. It's like, that's where stuff comes into play. I think with work and with kids that, you know, because people could be really judgy, you know, that's the only thing.
- [52:05]
A
Well, and it just goes back to, I think so many women are just judgy and jealous, and it's like, you know, take care of your own home, take care of your own man, and everything will be fine. And don't worry about what I do at my house with my man. And it's, you know, that if children aren't around, then it shouldn't make, you know, make a difference. So.
- [52:23]
B
Yeah, so when his wife found out, she was pissed.
- [52:27]
A
Oh, yeah, of course. But, you know, it's like, like I said, they just laugh like there's nothing you can do about it. So.
- [52:34]
B
Yeah. So do you have, like, now, like, do you. Does your husband still pick all of your guys? I mean, we still have, like, 10 minutes to talk. So, like, I don't know if you want to give me some hot stories or, like, do you have a favorite bull that you. Or a favorite way to do it? Or, like, I don't. I don't know.
- [52:49]
A
I mean, I think maybe some of the weird ones, like, you know, when I started the weird ones seeing, I saw, you know, my husband will kind of check everybody out for me or whatever. But he called me one day. He was like, I think we might have a problem. And I was like, what? He was like, one of these dudes lives in the neighborhood. And I was like, what? And so turns out we live, like, five houses away. So I see him at the gas station a lot, or. Yeah. And he's just in A kind of awake, weird situation. But. So every once in a while he'll be like, can you come sneak in the back door? I'm like, sure, sure. So like a few times at night I've gone over there and just snuck in the back door. But out of the basement and like when his wife's out of town.
- [53:26]
B
Oh, so. And then cheating.
- [53:28]
A
They're separated, but they still live together. It's, I think their situation's sort of complicated with their, with their children and whatnot. But, but it's just still one of those things where he probably doesn't want to advertise it per se. But you know, again, obviously like none of my neighbors, I always joke, I'm like the neighbors are gonna to start asking questions, you know, like when they see dudes walking up to the house, he's like, it's fine. They're not watching nor do they care. And I'm like, okay, no, he's wrong.
- [53:52]
B
I think neighbors do watch and do care and do talk. I think that's.
- [53:55]
A
I know. I think so too.
- [53:57]
B
Yeah, people are busy bodies. Especially like do you live in the suburbs or do you live in a city? Oh yeah, yeah. Oh my God. People. Word, word could be on the street because listen, I, I, I feel like there was a, someone told me a story where they did see that something going down. You know, when we're concerned that and that person that got caught was let, let that neighbor know. Listen, I just want you to know like there's no cheating going on. You know, like this is what is. Because most likely the person's going to think you're cheating. Right. If they start seeing these guys, they're not going to think you're a hot.
- [54:26]
A
That's what I said. I'm like these, they're gonna think I'm cheating on you. Like I don't give a. But the neighbor next door does know. I've told her. Well, she, she knows that we're in the lifestyle. So even because her and I will sit and have, you know, margaritas in the summertime together or whatever. And so she's aware. So it's kind of like if anyone was gonna notice, it might be her. And she already knows.
- [54:45]
B
Right?
- [54:45]
A
Right.
- [54:45]
B
Yeah. Because I don't think, listen, until I did my show and I had a lot of great guy friends that told me everything when it came to sex. But like because I was super open minded. But nobody ever told me they like their girls, other guys. So like I don't think a lot of people in the Vanilla world. Even though it seems very common and so many people love the hot wifing thing, I think think a lot of people still don't know anything about it and they don't even know it's like a thing. So I think for sure your vanilla neighbors would think you're just cheating on your guy like crazy and they don't know your husband loves it.
- [55:16]
A
They're probably confused though, because he's like six three, he's so hot. And I'm sure they're probably like, what is she doing?
- [55:23]
B
Why is she cheating on him?
- [55:25]
A
Yes.
- [55:26]
B
Oh my God. How are your guys? I mean, how do you, how do you do they compare to. Do you like, like, as far as like the guys that you choose to bang or do you have like a specific age range? Do you like, you know, is there any. I know that your guy likes you to be with a like a jacked up black guy, but like, do you have like an age limit and, you know, or something like that? Anything like that?
- [55:48]
A
Not really. I think I kind of started out with one and then I quickly realized that that sometimes is just a number and that there are guys that are, are older that do not look their age or they certainly don't act their age. And honestly I found too, some of the older guys are more interesting. Yeah, you know, they just had more life experience, they have more to talk about. They. They're just more fun. They understand pleasing a woman better. Like, I just think so. No, not really. I don't really have any specifics when it comes to that.
- [56:18]
B
What about too young? Anything too young for you?
- [56:23]
A
I'm not really into younger guys, but it all like, I just think that's especially just being a mom. I think that's weird to feel closer to my age.
- [56:34]
B
Okay, so nothing in the, like, you're not looking for 20s, people in their 20s, guys in their 20s.
- [56:39]
A
I would prefer that not to know.
- [56:41]
B
Yeah, yeah, I get it. I was just telling somebody recently, a young guy that works for me. It's like, you don't understand. Like, guys look bad to me. Like, you know, guys age really well. Like, I think they get hotter as they get older. Right.
- [56:53]
A
Like, I always say that too.
- [56:54]
B
Yeah. Like they're little baby faces in their 20s is not really that hot, you know, but when they get like older, more chiseled, like, I think men look more attractive as they get older, you know, too bad it's not the same for women. But thank God we have a lot of things we could do about it. Now.
- [57:09]
A
I know, right. I always say the salt and pepper on a man is so sexy to me. And I'm like not so much on us, but on a man it is.
- [57:15]
B
Yeah, totally. Yeah. And that baby like that young face, it's like it's not as hot I think too, you know, until they get a little bit older. So I guess why you don't go to the 20 year old and you're so your guys typically bringing you older guys and stuff for you. Okay.
- [57:30]
A
So.
- [57:30]
B
So where can people find you? Like why don't you give a shout out to everything. You're gonna send me some super hot picks for my Patreon, like R rated for my Patreon and then I'll give you free access to my Discord too. I have over 2500 people on my Patreon, so I'll also give you free access to my Discord. And you could post stuff there and promote your stuff and you could post X rated stuff there. So if you want to post a video like a teaser thing or anything, anything, you could do that there. But give your shout outs to everything.
- [57:56]
A
Yeah. So on X it is a pretty much a Cindy wife across the board. So that, you know, south indie wife. So I'm on X and then fansly of course and I've got two different like tiers. So if you do the higher tier, my fansly, you get my cell phone number and you can chat with me and text and whatever. Yep. And then otherwise just the, you know, the regular membership is just all the good videos and pictures and all that stuff.
- [58:20]
B
So you have a lot of guys blowing up your, your phone.
- [58:24]
A
You know, it's funny, they're fairly respectful of that. I mean I, you know, I enjoy chatting, you know, but I sometimes like hey, I'm working or whatever. And most, I would say most of the time they're mostly respectful of that. I've had a few people I've had to boot because they don't like understand that concept. But, but for the most part, yeah, everybody's super respectful of that and they, you know, we'll just send messages every once in a while like to send pictures, you know, or I'll send them a picture. And so it's, it's just a nicer to have a little bit of that like personal connection I think sometimes too for them to like they're talking, you know, they're talking to a real person that's actually on their, you know, behind those pictures and videos.
- [58:58]
B
Yeah. And they get that one on one interaction for you so that's the higher tier. Someone's looking for that. And you just gotta be fucking cool. And trust me, most content creators will always say, like, my audience is like, really cool. And they don't get any douchebags for my audience when you get people. So I don't think any of my listeners are gonna harass you. But I think that's a great deal if somebody joined that tier. Right. Because they can sort of talk with you and send pics and you're. And it's really you chatting with them.
- [59:22]
A
It is. Yep. It's really me. Yeah.
- [59:24]
B
That's cool. So send me links to everything, because Cindy is an S. Right. I just want to spell it out for people, but no one has to remember because I'll put the link. It's S I n D Y. Right?
- [59:33]
A
Correct.
- [59:33]
B
Right. And then wife, and that's on Twitter. And then the fansly account I will put in the description. Send me your picture sooner than later. Most likely this. I already have my one for Monday already up and edited. So probably the following Monday it'll be up and it'll be up on my Patreon on Friday. Friday. So send me everything ASAP so I have it. Thanks so much for calling in. I love your story.
- [59:53]
A
Thank you. I appreciate your time.
- [59:54]
B
Bye.
- [59:55]
A
Okay, bye.
- [59:56]
B
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A
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