1533 - Mrs. Maverick & Her Husband Went from Hotwifing to Couple Swapping & Couldn’t be Happier

Summary

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
Episode 1533: Mrs. Maverick & Her Husband Went from Hotwifing to Couple Swapping & Couldn’t be Happier
Host: Kathy Kay
Date: July 27, 2026

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Episode Overview

In this candid and engaging episode, Mrs. Maverick joins Kathy to share the evolution of her and her husband’s sex life as they journeyed from hotwifing (where she played solo with other men) to full-on couple swapping—including orgies. Building on her husband Maverick’s previous appearance (Episode 1211), Mrs. Maverick gives her perspective, detailing how their dynamic shifted, the emotional challenges and revelations along the way, and why they’re now happier than ever in the swinger lifestyle. The conversation is open, judgement-free, and filled with both steamy details and thoughtful reflections on trust, consent, and navigating jealousy.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. The Backstory: Long-Term Monogamy & Early Fantasies

[07:13]

• Married 19 years, together 24, Mrs. Maverick describes a strong, loving relationship with a vibrant sex life—even before exploring non-monogamy.
• Early in college, they had a spontaneous FFM threesome with a female friend, but it wasn't a recurring theme until much later.
• Maverick first introduced the idea of hotwifing through porn, sharing fantasies involving MFM (male-female-male) threesomes.

“He introduced MFM play and porn... I was like, oh, okay, like that's super hot right now.” —Mrs. Maverick [08:54]

2. Discovering the Lifestyle & Taking the First Steps

[12:49]

• The couple visited Exotic Dreams Resort (EDR) in Palm Springs after hearing about it on lifestyle podcasts, creating their first exposure to swinger communities. Their first experience was limited to voyeurism (“people watching” while being together in public settings) but made them realize how welcoming and friendly the community was.

“Right away, a couple of couples come up to us and just start chatting. And they were so kind... just the kindest people and definitely made me feel more comfortable right away.” —Mrs. Maverick [15:28]

• Around this time, Maverick began posting faceless, anonymous pictures of Mrs. Maverick on Reddit and Telegram, something she was okay with after making sure her privacy and anonymity were protected.

“Once he was like, kind of laid that out, I felt fine and safe with that idea.” —Mrs. Maverick [20:45]

3. First Encounters with Bulls (Single Males)

[22:30 – 33:44]

• Maverick, as the “driver” of new sexual adventures, handled the initial vetting and conversations with potential bulls via Cassidy and Telegram before involving Mrs. Maverick for consent and comfort.
• The first bull was a photographer—easing things with a boudoir shoot before any play. The initial chemistry and professionalism made her feel secure.

“He was so sweet... he made me feel pretty comfortable right away. And so... I gotta just do it, because I will overthink it like crazy.” —Mrs. Maverick [25:07]

First Threesome:

• Taking place in a desert Airbnb, the play was filmed for their OnlyFans (“Lake Lovers 1”), which initially was just sexy content between the couple.
• Mrs. Maverick describes her nerves (“I just kept checking on him”), but the experience was positive, respectful, and set a good precedent.
• They debriefed after, making sure both were fulfilled and comfortable.

“That was super fun. ...It's not like it changed either of our worlds. ...But it was super hot, and definitely a great memory.” —Mrs. Maverick [29:46]

Second Threesome:

• Happened on a boat with a local bull, again documented. The comfort and arousal for both continued to grow with these “spit roast” and double blowjob fantasies.
• A solo session with the second bull led to a revelation: Maverick enjoyed being present, but found being alone at home during her play “kind of boring” instead of arousing.

“Later in our debrief, I realized that he was kind of like, I was kind of bored...it wasn't in his mind; he wasn't super turned on while I was away.” —Mrs. Maverick [37:06]

4. Transitioning from Hotwifing to Couple Swapping

[37:47 – 45:08]

• Maverick realized watching or participating together was more fulfilling than sitting out—leading him to suggest couple swapping (MF-MF play).
• Mrs. Maverick admits she historically was the more jealous partner and was initially nervous, but found having some control (“I got to pick the person...I got to pick the woman”) made her more comfortable.

“There’s always that little part of me where it’s like, what if you find something else... But I was so proud of my find. She's so hot...I think that was actually a big part of why I was okay with it.” —Mrs. Maverick [39:52]

• After connecting with a couple via Telegram, their first swap was smooth and exciting. The women were “bi-comfortable” rather than fully bi-curious, focusing more on the guys but open to some girl-girl contact in a supportive, non-pressured way.
• The following day included separate room play and more comfort with full-swapping.

5. Group Play & Orgies

[45:08 – 52:05]

• They attended a local pool party advertised on Telegram, quickly realizing it would be a true play party with orgy potential.
• Despite nerves, Mrs. Maverick embraced the experience, enjoying the spontaneity and communal, accepting atmosphere.
• She describes playful and raunchy scenes: dancing, lingerie, group oral, and multiple partners in one night.

“We were on, like, a euphoric state for weeks after... It was just an amazing experience. Everybody was so fantastic.” —Mrs. Maverick [51:21]

• These bonds led to new, lasting friendships with other couples and continued playdates.

6. Evolving Desires: Variety, Consistency & New Experiences

[52:05 – 56:10]

• Moving forward, couple swapping became their “sweet spot”: a mix of established play partners and new connections.
• Mrs. Maverick prefers some consistency (“I like more consistent couples and hubby is into variety”), but they strike a balance.
• For the first time, she experienced strong chemistry with a woman, enjoying more intense girl-girl play, and even considering “strap-on play” in future dates.

“That one was actually the first very much more female-female play driven one we've had...and it was insanely sexy.” —Mrs. Maverick [54:32]

7. Role Reversal: Husband’s Solo Play

[57:55 – 59:24]

• Mrs. Maverick describes a reverse hotwife scenario where Maverick plays solo with another couple while she stays behind—something she encouraged and unexpectedly enjoyed.

“I actually really enjoyed... we kind of did like the reverse hot wife thing... I loved it, I was like, I'm into it. That was fun.” —Mrs. Maverick [58:57]

8. Reflections on Jealousy, Growth, and Trust

[59:24 – 60:14]

• Throughout the journey, Mrs. Maverick overcame her own fears of jealousy and found joy in her husband’s pleasure as well as her own. Clear communication, trust, and regular “debriefs” are key to staying connected, ensuring mutual comfort, and growing together.

“You've come a long way from the girl who thought you'd be jealous. Right... you're actually more open than he is.” —Kathy [59:40]

9. OnlyFans, Community & Next Steps

[57:05–60:14]

• The couple operates an OnlyFans (“Lake Lovers 1”) and participates in Discord and other online groups, sharing content and building a wider circle of supportive, like-minded friends.
• Mrs. Maverick welcomes listeners to follow their journey and emphasizes the strong friendships and authentic community spirit they’ve found.

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• “It felt amazing... but it's amazing how much you're very concerned about the other person. Like, I kind of just kept waiting for him to be like, okay, we're done.” —Mrs. Maverick [29:46]
• “I think it was because I got to pick the person... and that just fed into feeling like, okay, I have some control.” —Mrs. Maverick [39:52]
• “It was a standout of our experiences because it was just amazing... we were on a euphoric state for weeks after that.” —Mrs. Maverick [51:21]
• “I was so nervous about, you know, it's a very vulnerable setting—you're just like, here we are.” —Mrs. Maverick [15:24]
• “I actually really enjoyed... we kind of did like the reverse hot wife thing... I loved it, I was like, I'm into it. That was fun.” —Mrs. Maverick [58:57]

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Important Timestamps

• 07:13 — Relationship background & early monogamy
• 12:49 — First visit to Exotic Dreams Resort & the welcoming lifestyle community
• 19:59 — Discovering husband’s anonymous photo sharing hobby on Reddit & Telegram
• 22:30 – 33:44 — First and second threesome with single males, including first solo play
• 37:47 — Transition away from hotwifing to couple swapping
• 45:08 — First experiences with group play/orgies and lasting lifestyle friendships
• 54:32 — First in-depth experience with girl-girl play
• 57:55 — Husband’s solo play (reverse hotwifing)
• 59:24 — Reflections on jealousy, personal growth, and the couple’s evolving boundaries

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Connect with Mrs. Maverick

• OnlyFans: Lake Lovers 1 (handle: Lake Lovers 1)
• Exclusive pictures available via the Strictly Anonymous Patreon and Discord.

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Summary

This episode offers a genuine, no-holds-barred look at how a committed couple rediscovered their sexuality, navigated complicated emotions like jealousy, and found new joy both in personal pleasure and in connecting with others. Mrs. Maverick’s story demystifies the swinger lifestyle, revealing it as a path full of fun, trust, and unexpected growth. This is a must-listen for anyone curious about hotwifing, open relationships, or the real dynamics of modern swinging.

Transcript

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[Kathy]

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[Mrs. Maverick]

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[Mrs. Maverick]

He has no idea. And anything goes.

[Kathy]

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[Mrs. Maverick]

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[Kathy]

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It's only $7 a month and you get every single episode. I do seven episodes a week. You get every single them early before anyone gets them. As well as intro and ad free. You also get all the confessions and you also get Q&As that I do like every other month where I answer a lot of questions. As well as you get anonymous pics of probably every single girl that has called into my show. Every single female guest. I got pictures of them over on my Patreon. Like I said, It's $7 a month. The link to Patreon is in the description. If you do sign up for my Patreon or buy my book. I wrote a book. It's strictly anonymous. Confession, Secret sex lives of total strangers. It's all stories from my show told in the third person. They're super fun. And the audiobook is coming out in August. So if you buy my book, either in paperback or ebook or audiobook version, the links are all in description. I will also give you access to my private Discord. Like I said, if you join my Patreon or if you call into my show or if you buy my book, I will give complimentary access to my private Discord. My Private Discord is not a paid site. It is free, but it is private and you can only get in if I send you the link. I promise you, you will not be disappointed. My Discord is full of great effing people. Okay? So if you buy my book, send me a screenshot of your purchase and I will send you the link to my Discord. Last thing I'm going to tell you about is if you want to sign up for SDC.com I do have a free trial for my listeners. SDC is like the world's largest online dating website. And it's not just a place where you hook up with people. You could learn all about the lifestyle. You could find out about all the lifestyle events and meetups and all kinds of things going on in your neighborhood as well as if you're going to travel and you want to have a little fun, you're going to find it all on SDC.com Like I said, you get a free trial if you use my code 37712 or just go to the description and click on the link. That's 37712 or just go to the description and click on the link. Okay, today I have on Mrs. Maverick, her hubby called in husb. She calls him Hobby the whole time. It's cute. Called in a while ago. His episode was 12:11. Maverick got his wife into High Wife, I think, but now he wants to change things up. This is a super interesting story because a lot of guys that wind up realizing they're into hot wifing, they never look back. But this guy, they kind of, this couple kind of started off with that in mind and it turned out that they're much more into couple swapping and orgies and all that kind of good stuff. And their story is super interesting getting it from her side of things, because when I spoke to Maverick, they had just started started with the hot wifing thing. She talks about how he brought it up to her, how she got into it, what, you know, how they went to their first resort, then they had their first two bulls and the threesomes that they had. And then she played solo and her husband wasn't really that into it. And that's when they started couple swapping. And she's got all the couple swap stories. She talks about all the bulls she was with and all that kind of good stuff. It's a super interesting story because like I said, the progression's a little bit different a lot of times, like I said, when the guy gets into the hot wifing, that's all they're into. But this guy, turns out after she played Sil, he wasn't that into it. So they switched things up. And they've done a lot of couple swaps. Like I said, orgies, you name it, they've done that. She's into it. So anyway, I'm going to get right to and be right back on with Ms. Oh, and by the way, they're super hot. He. I have pictures over them on my Patreon. They do have an only fans where they just do content of just the two of them, all the couple stuff and all the orgies they have that's like, you know, side life that they do. But they do have an only fans. I'll put the name of her on only fans in the description. But anyway, I'm gonna get right to it. Be right back on Mrs. Maverick.

[Mrs. Maverick]

This is the Strictly Anonymous podcast. Strictly Anonymous podcast.

[Kathy]

Hi, Mrs. Maverick. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today?

[Mrs. Maverick]

I'm great. Thanks for having me.

[Kathy]

You're the Mrs. Of the Maverick that I spoke to. Actually, I think I spoke to him like in September of last year. Your hubby's episode is 12:11. Mr. It's, it's Maverick got his wife into hot wifing, but now he wants to change things up. I don't know what that meant. What did he want to change up? I don't remember. But like, you could tell me, you know, I'm gonna get your guys whole story from your side of things, right. And it's kind of good that it happened so long ago and I forgot his whole story. I have another guy on my show, Mr. Maverick, who's like a professional bull, but that's not who we're talking about. We're talking about maverick. You're just Mrs. Maverick. He's not Mr. Maverick, he's Maverick. But why don't you tell me like how long you missed. How are you and Maverick been married?

[Mrs. Maverick]

So we've been married, it'll be 19 years this year. And we've been together for 24 years.

[Kathy]

Oh, okay. So when?

[Mrs. Maverick]

Long time.

[Kathy]

So when he said to me, when he called in before and, and then we're going to go all the way back, but real quick, when he called in before and wanted to change things up, what was he trying to change things up? Do you remember

[Mrs. Maverick]

when, when was he,

[Kathy]

what, what was he trying to change? He got you into hot wifing. What did he want to change?

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yeah, he was ready to do mf. MF play. So more couple swaps.

[Kathy]

Oh, okay, cool. So we'll talk about that. We'll get into that in the, in the, in the situation. Oh, look, I'm looking at your pictures now. I remember he sent in that great picture of you. He's like a good photographer. Wasn't something happened like with that one photo of him on the, in the waterfalls and that kind of stirred everything up? Wasn't there a photo that he took? Right, There was a photo shoot.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yeah.

[Kathy]

Yeah. Okay, now I remember. Okay, all right, so let's go all the way back because like a lot of times I'm getting the whole hot wiping story from the guys are so horny for it, you know, and it's always super interesting to hear from the women, you know, because like, how did you feel when your husband sort of first came to and reveal this is that I'm assuming that's how this all started.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yes. Yep. He definitely brought it to me and I, I really didn't have any clue what it was. And I was just. So I just need to kind of start from the basics and just go from there. So probably the biggest thing was you introduced MFM play and porn and that was probably the first time I really saw It. And I was like, oh, okay, like, that's super hot right now.

[Kathy]

How was your sex life be like before that? Had you guys always had great sex, but it was just like regular sex? Had you guys been very kinky? Have you ever talked about, like, threesomes or anything like that before?

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yes, yes. So we were definitely always super sexy. Lots of. Lots of play time. We're both very sexually active and super. Just definitely very sexy, but just us. But one thing he did forget to mention is we actually did do a threesome in our college years with another woman that I was going to school with. And I was like, I think he forgot. Forgot totally all about that.

[Kathy]

That's so funny. I, like, did a poll on my Patreon recently. Like, what are guys more into them having a threesome with a woman girl or having a threesome with a guy in the girl. Look, now that he's having threesomes with men, he doesn't even remember that Threesome with a girl.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yeah, yeah. So that one was a long time ago. I think he totally forgot about. Was just one of those very spontaneous, like, you know, we didn't. I don't think we probably didn't talk about it much leading up to it. We never really talked about it afterwards. It was just kind of something fun we had done. Right.

[Kathy]

But it never came back up in your marriage, like when you guys got married. Married and stuff to go do something like that again until the hot wifing thing came into play.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Exactly. Right, Exactly.

[Kathy]

Okay, so how does it. So he comes to you one day and how does he. What? Like, do you remember the words that he said? Or, I mean, or did he just throw on a porn and say, like, oh, look, this is like, super hot. Do you remember?

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yes. I don't. I definitely don't remember the words. I think it was just. He was always kind of the driver of fantasies and things anyways. Like, I remember really early on he would, you know, he would turn on porn and it would be a threesome with a female. And so I was like, oh, yeah, you know, if that makes sense to me. Guys think, yeah, two women are hot. Of course they are. And then, yeah, definitely more recently, probably. I don't even know when he first brought up the idea of just a male, but probably, yeah, just turned on the porn and was like, what about this situation? And I was like, yeah, that's super hot. Like, I'm into it at all. It's all amazing. But I think a lot of me thought it was just always fantasy Talk. I never really, definitely didn't dwell on it or think it was even a possibility. So I never really got super attached to the idea.

[Kathy]

Yeah, because as a woman, isn't it like. Like, don't we all think, like, the, the thing that would make our guys the most jealous is that you, like, we can't even look at another guy, let alone another guy in front of him. That's what you think, right? Like, that your guy would be so possessive and would never want that. Yet it turns out that it got a lot of guys are into it.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Absolutely.

[Kathy]

Yeah.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yeah.

[Kathy]

So you're watching the porn and you're turned on by the thought of two guys, but it's like just in fantasy. Right. But it's making your guy sex life even better. Like watching that porn and stuff. Did you start role playing it?

[Mrs. Maverick]

We didn't really role play much until very. He mentioned it too. It wasn't until we were actually talking to a bull in real life, just via the telegram app and things like that, that I started thinking like, oh, he might surprise me with someone. But leading up to that, we never really role played it or anything either.

[Kathy]

Okay, but you were watching the porn. It was like, you know, you knew that he was like kind of into this and you were into it too. How does it be? How does it. How do you guys get to the point where you're talking to a bull?

[Mrs. Maverick]

Oh, man. He. Again, kind of the driver of the. The whole thing. I don't remember exactly that. I don't exactly remember. I remember he brought me into it. It was January of last year, but

[Kathy]

what do you mean he brought you into it?

[Mrs. Maverick]

Like, like, like he was already in communications, like had opened up or started communications. I think he said he found him originally on, like, on Cassidy, because we learned about the Cassidy website when we were at edr. So we had done this.

[Kathy]

What's edr?

[Mrs. Maverick]

Okay. So we go to an exotic. It's called Exotic Dreams Resort and it's in Palm Springs, and we're there on a couple's vacation that was very rare for us to get to do. This is one of our first times ever away after having, you know, the kids and family life. And so we were listening to podcasts and they've mentioned that resort. And he brought it up, you know, probably a couple weeks before our visit, saying, hey, you know, he had me listen to that podcast and I thought it was really sexy. And he goes, we could actually go there. I booked it. You know, I could book it for where we just go for the day. And I was like, okay, like, that sounds. That sounds fun. I was on board with that idea. And we were staying at a different resort off site, but we were just gonna go visit and do kind of like pool party stuff during the day and then just check out all the playrooms and things in the evening.

[Kathy]

Did you ever discuss at this point, like, whether you guys are going to engage with other people? Are you looking to open up your relationship? Like, what are going there for? Just to be warriors?

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yes, definitely. The first step of just kind of being in the community and getting an opportunity to talk to people about it. And I mean, things were on the table, but we just didn't really know what to expect.

[Kathy]

Now how are you going in there? Are you going in there with the thoughts that we're going to other people, or are you going in there? Like, let's just see what it's about. Do you remember?

[Mrs. Maverick]

Just see what it's about.

[Kathy]

Okay.

[Mrs. Maverick]

So we get there that day, and we walk into this courtyard and there's a pool. And everybody's just naked, of course, and enjoying themselves out in the sun. And so we're like, okay, like that. That looks great. And so we kind of just find a spot, lay down our things, and hubby fully undresses and hops right in the pool. And I'm kind of a little bit more hesitant, like, okay, here we go. And so I. I start off just taking off my top, and I get in the pool, and him and I are sitting together, and I'm pretty socially awkward. So I was so nervous about, you know, it's a very vulnerable setting. You're just like, here, here we are. So I get brave enough and I take off my top and I get in the pool and we're chatting together. And right away, a couple of couples come up to us and just start chatting. And they were so kind and. And welcoming. And we were teasing that we must have had newbies stamped across our head, because they. They just flocked to us, and I think they could tell. And so they were asking us various questions and through that process, definitely listening to them and their stories of. Of trips that they take or other experiences they've had there at edr. And that was a really fun afternoon, just visiting with. With people. And again, they were just the. The. The kindest people and definitely made me feel more comfortable right away, which was. Which was really cool.

[Kathy]

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[Mrs. Maverick]

anything when you were there, so we didn't play. We ended up once it turned into the night, everybody kind of, you know, scattered to their rooms or the playroom and there's a maze and all the things. So we kind of start walking around and checking out the different spaces. And there was a bed, a room with a couple of beds, and there was a. An open bed. So him and I go in there, we just kind of start playing together. And there were other couples in there and other people kind of walking in and out, but him and I just kind of never. I never felt like I was ready to join someone or have someone join us. So we just kind of did our own thing. But it had a lot of fun with people watching.

[Kathy]

Yeah, I think that's a big step. Of course. Yeah. Why not? You know what I mean?

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yeah.

[Kathy]

Because that's like a totally new thing, you know, Most people don't in front of other people. You know what I mean? On my show they do, but not normally. Right. So I think that that's a big first step. And did it, like. Were you into that?

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yes, it was a huge turn on for sure.

[Kathy]

Right.

[Mrs. Maverick]

We really enjoyed it.

[Kathy]

Now, I hate to bring this up and throw you off course and I'm gonna get right back to like, right after the. The resort, because I know then you meet a bull who's like a. He's the photographer or someone's the photographer. Right. And that's where you get those pictures. But, like, wasn't your husband, like, secretly posting pics of you online? And did you find out, like, wasn't he doing that before all this happened?

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yes, that was probably our very first. I'll say the very beginning of everything is he was sharing pictures with. I think he said he was sharing faceless ones on Reddit and then in smaller telegram groups. It kind of has like a wife swapping picture thread.

[Kathy]

Yeah.

[Mrs. Maverick]

And then. Yep. And I think. I can't remember when he brought that up. It was probably. I mean, it must have been a couple years ago. And I, you know, I think I asked just the basic questions of, okay, who can see them? You know, just making sure it doesn't overlap with people. I don't want seeing stuff like that. And once he was like, kind of laid that out, I felt fine and safe with that idea.

[Kathy]

Okay, so did he ask you first or did you do it and. Or was he doing it and he told you about it? Like, did.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yeah, he. He had started before he told me about it and.

[Kathy]

Oh, my God, guys are so.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Remember him? Yeah, I mean, I remember him, you know, starting to be a little more active in taking pictures of me. And I was just like, wait, like, you know, what are we doing?

[Kathy]

I mean, someone. Some women would get really pissed. But you weren't pissed.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yeah, no, I was just like, okay. Like, once I knew we have mostly people, I didn't want to see it. Were seeing it. I was like, okay, then. Yeah, like, I'm fine with that.

[Kathy]

Because they were anonymous.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yeah. And exactly. Yeah. There wasn't. There weren't faces and kids, you know, no tattoos or things like that. So I was like, okay, like, whatever, do your thing, you know, And I never really inquired much more about it.

[Kathy]

Okay, so that was like his thing that he was doing. So now he goes on to these apps because you found out, you said about Cassidy while you were at that resort. Is that where you meet the bull that takes the pictures and stuff?

[Mrs. Maverick]

He ended up meeting him on Cassidy. Yeah.

[Kathy]

Okay. Okay. So. And so what was his deal?

[Mrs. Maverick]

He was just a single male. And I think what happened is Maverick put out Rendezvous in Cassidy, saying we were going to be down in Palm Springs area. And you kind of say when? And then you'll start getting messages from the people you're looking for on whether, you know, they would want to meet up. And so through that process, he got messages from various single males. Bulls. And I think, you know, once he kind of vetted a couple, he started sending me them this. Sending them my way.

[Kathy]

So, I mean, just because your husband does things behind your back, I need to ask. Like, he asked you whether you want to. Another guy for him yet, or did he just go on there and start looking for a guy and then came and told you after the fact?

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yeah, he kind of got. Gets the ball rolling, right? It's the ball rolling first. It's kind of just the way we've always operated. So I didn't.

[Kathy]

It sounds like you don't mind. It sounds like you're fine with it. Right? And so he knows that he can.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yes, exactly. I trust him. He. He knows me sometimes better than I know myself. You can tell I'm. I can be quite indecisive. So when he just is like, okay, she's listened to these couple of podcasts. She did this with me, right? Yeah. She knows, you know, we. We chatted that whole night with people with real life experience. She knows that, you know, this is something I kind of want to move forward with, and I was on board with it. So when he started putting out feelers and then he sends me somebody that, you know, is vetted, and he was. He was comfortable with. So by then I was like, okay, like, this is great. And. And I am definitely more of the. I like to have a little bit of a connection. So he brought me into the chat. And so I was able to kind of just chat a little bit, introduce ourselves, you know, and. And I was like, yeah, this, this one's good. I. I feel comfortable there.

[Kathy]

And, well, you do wind up having a threesome with this guy. So, like, did you find him attractive? Like, what was his deal? I could see pics of you because your husband sent him. You're super hot, right? So, like, is the guy, like, was the gu to you and what did he have? Good game. Because I'm a woman too. I totally need a connection as well as just like the physical, Right?

[Mrs. Maverick]

Definitely. Yeah. So he was. Yeah, he was very good looking. He was very clean cut. He had a really great photography background, which is ended up being a big thing is we've always wanted to do boudoir pictures. And so he was like. And he's, you know, wants to do some boudoir pictures to start. And I was like, that sounds like a great way to kind of ease into things and at that point get a better, better gauge if I'm a go or not, you know? Yeah, I can feel I could actually do this.

[Kathy]

Does the boudoir shoot turn into a threesome or did you do that first and then have a threesome after?

[Mrs. Maverick]

We did boudoir shoot first started, there he was. He was so sweet. He, you know, walks through the door, we introduce ourselves. And he had already seen some pictures and things. And he was just so kind and so complimentative. And it's like, oh, he's very sweet.

[Kathy]

Yeah.

[Mrs. Maverick]

And he made me feel pretty comfortable right away. And so. And he's a professional. So he was able to get me into poses and things. And I was just. I'm kind of that I gotta just do it because I will overthink it like crazy. So if I'm doing it, I'm just like, okay, like top soft. And I'm just doing it because. Yeah, I'll talk myself out of it.

[Kathy]

You're like one end of the spectrum or not. It sounds like you don't think about anything, but then you do think about stuff too much. So you're both right.

[Mrs. Maverick]

I got it somehow. Both.

[Kathy]

Yeah, I got it. Okay. So the, the. So the photo shoot was great. You were relaxed. You got some hot pics. How do you wind up in a threesome with the guy?

[Mrs. Maverick]

So then we. It actually got kind of chilly. We were in the desert, but it actually got a little bit breezy. And so we were like, let's go sit in the Jacuzzi and warm up a little bit. I think the intention originally was to do more pictures, but we were just kind of like, let's just relax for a little bit. And so we got in the Jacuzzi, and we were chatting about just various things. And then I. Hubby got up to get, like, a glass of water or something, and I could tell he was like, ready for go time. I was like, okay. And it's funny because I always ask, like, I let the men know that I need them to make the first move because I'm so shy, but I'm like, I want it. I promise I do. But you got to make the first move. Right? And one thing I quickly learned in the lifestyle is the men will not make the first move. And I think it's out of. Of the utmost respect for hubby and Elf, so. Which is so sweet, but it's like, oh, man, you don't understand. Like, you need that first move. But so. So I could tell hubby was like, start something while I go get a glass of water. And so I ended up straddling him, and we were making out, and that's when the hubby. Hubby came back and he was just like, oh, okay. Like, I like this, you know? Which he later told me he was a little uncomfortable with the makeout session, and he was just watching. Right. But that was the first time we've ever done anything like that, so I totally get that. And I will say, during that experience, it was so fun. We had a. We had an amazing. An amazing time. It just, you know, after the makeout session, it just progressed from there. We went into. It was like one of those geodesic domes, and they had the cameras set up because he was gonna do. That was part of it.

[Kathy]

Wait, where are you? In the middle of the fucking desert?

[Mrs. Maverick]

We were in the middle of the desert.

[Kathy]

Okay.

[Mrs. Maverick]

It's amazing. Yes. We were at an Airbnb, and there's geodesic domes. And part. Part of the story is that he said he would do. He wanted to do content with us for our only fans.

[Kathy]

You already had an only fans. You haven't even done anything in the lifestyle. What were you doing on your only fans? And how does the only fans come into play? I don't get it.

[Mrs. Maverick]

It was basically just like a sexy Instagram at that point. Hubby was just like, I'm already sharing pictures I want to share.

[Kathy]

So it was my hot. It was like a hot wife thing. He's just posting pics of you. Like, he was on Reddit.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yes. Yeah. So it was basically Just like another. He proposed that, you know, it felt like mostly just another platform to share pictures, but he liked that it was behind a paywall and things like that. And I was like, that sounds like, sure, that sounds fine. And we would post some videos of, like, him and my sexy time. So I. I'd call it. Yeah, it's kind of our sexy Instagram nothing, you know, so there wasn't any.

[Kathy]

Okay. So that was going on all this time.

[Mrs. Maverick]

That started right around the EDR trip. Yeah.

[Kathy]

Okay. Okay.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Early on in the fall.

[Kathy]

Okay. So at this point you're like, let's him. And for the. For only fans.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yeah. So they're like. And, you know, Maverick was like. And he'll, you know, he said he wants to do content with us also. And I was like, okay. Like, that sounds. That sounds fun. And so we get into the dome and yeah, it's just super sexy time. All the positions you can imagine, which was my, you know, a huge fan of spit roasting. And that was just better than I could have imagined. And then one thing I will say during the first experience, and probably a couple even after, is it's. It was so new. I was definitely very aware of my husband the whole time. I was just kind of kept checking on him and they would pick positions and move me around and I was just like, okay, sounds good. But it kind of. It felt amazing. But it's amazing how much of that is. You're very concerned about the other person. Like, I kind of just kept waiting for him to be like, okay, we're done, you know, kind of call it. So that was. That's definitely an interesting part of, you know, the firsts, for sure.

[Kathy]

Okay.

[Mrs. Maverick]

And so we just have, like a good couple hour session in there. And so that one was a great experience. We had like another day at the desert where it was just him and I, and we went hiking and things like that. And we always do our. Our a date debrief. And we kind of give it now a couple days before we do a debrief just to make sure that everything was good. Like, was there anything that was. Was, you know, that you didn't like or was too much? And. And with that one, everything was just. No, you know, that was. That was super great. It was really hot. He was so, so respectful. And. Yeah, so that one was a good debrief. But we talked about on the way home and yeah, we were just kind of like, that was super fun. Like, I don't, you know, it's not like it changed either. Of our world. It wasn't like, oh, we have to do this all the time now, you know, okay. But it was, but it was super hot and definitely a great, great, great memory. And so then we get home and kind of have a couple weeks of just normal life stuff. But of course in, during the day you're stuck, you know, keep flashbacks of sexy time. And him and I would message about it, which keeps sexy time going for sure. And then in that time he brings another bull into a telegram chat. So he, you know, has found embedded. And he told me he was going to. He was like, I, you know, I think let's do this again. There was a local guy that he had been talking to and he's like, he said he, you know, he could meet us. It'd be easier than a traveling, you know, one. He's just here in town kind of thing. So more able to do on a whim. And so kind of knew that that was kind of in the back of my head that that could happen. And him and I were doing one of our active dates on the lake and we did boat time and we wake surfed and did all this stuff. And then he's like, hey, we should message so and so and see if they want to meet us out here. I was like, that sounds super hot. So. And at that point I had been chatting with the three of us, had a telegram chat too. So it was a familiar, you know, to me it was a familiar person. There was a little bit of a connection there. So I was like, that sounds great. That sounds super fun. Let's. Let's try it. And so this was probably about, about six weeks after our first date, our first MFM date. And so we message him, he comes on the boat with us and we find their fun cove and just have some sexy time. You know, that was super hot. My husband, I love having sex with him on the boat anyway, so you added another male to it and I was just in heaven.

[Kathy]

So you had a threesome on the boat. Did you film that too as well or no?

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yes, yes, we did. Yes. He was also okay with. Because we like to film things anyways. My. What was my husband's kink of sharing photos quickly became my kink to it. So that's. I love sharing photos and videos. So we do that anyways, even if it's just for us. And we don't necessarily post on only fans because they have pretty strict guidelines and rules and. And of course a lot of people in the lifestyle enjoy, you know, their anonymity and so we're super respectful of that. We would never cross a line there without them being fully aware and wanting to participate.

[Kathy]

So how was that threesome?

[Mrs. Maverick]

It was amazing. Super hot? Yep. Kind of more of the same. I. I think it started with hubby and I just kind of started fooling around a little bit and then he came into the picture. And my favorite way to start things is by blow jobs. I love. I could hang out there for a long time, and so I wanted to start there, but he was just. He had another plan. So he started by eating me out, which was super sexy. And then from there went to both of them with their out, and I was able to go back and forth there, and it was just super hot.

[Kathy]

Now this is the guy that you wind up doing solo play with Beth.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Correct.

[Kathy]

And then isn't there something where like, your husband then figures that maybe he's not that into hot wifing after that?

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yes. Yeah. So. So again, we listen to a lot of podcasts and yeah, so hot wifing, you know, and I'm understanding hot wifiing is being. A lot of times it's more solo type play or it's husband watching stuff. So I feel like from the start, I was like, I don't really think this can. I don't know, the technicalities of everything is pretty confusing too. So I was like, I don't think this is technically hot wiking. It's more just, you know, MFM stuff, which is super hot on its own. And so that other guy and I started. We were still talking. It was a couple weeks after our first date. We were still talking a little bit. And like, I was like, oh, man, that would be. That sounds super hot. Because I'm still listening to podcasts and I'm like, man, that sounds super sexy to kind of just have that. That just have that experience. And so one night, hubby and I were fooling around, and I was just kind of trying to understand if that was still on his radar, something he would find it sexy. And he was like, yeah, like, I think if you guys want to do that, like, I'm. I'm supportive. And so it was a matter of just texting him out. And Maverick Mage, I always told him, I was like, you have to call him because he won't, you know, he's not gonna come if I say, you gotta be the one to tell him again, out of that kind of. Out utmost respect in the community.

[Kathy]

So where did you guys meet solo?

[Mrs. Maverick]

So he comes and he picks Me up just at my house, and we go a couple miles away, found a dirt, a dark spot, and we just hooked up in his truck.

[Kathy]

Oh, my God. Now, were you. Let me just ask you a question. Like, how's your guy? Because sometimes with the hot wifing thing, when the guy is at home, sometimes they don't want to know anything until get back. Sometimes they want to hear it over the phone. Sometimes they want video. I mean, how is your husband involved in this solo hookup?

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yeah, so he's kind of like, okay, just send me. Send me pictures.

[Kathy]

Okay.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Like, okay, okay. Like, I can. I can do that, you know? And. And of course, when you're in a dark car, it's. It's actually way, way more challenging to get pictures than I thought because I'm like, I don't really want to put on a big light right now. And so I was able to get in some pictures as we were getting into it. And he was like, oh, that. You know, that. That's odd. That's hot. But I. And then I think, gosh, I think I wasn't very successful at any videos, but I did get a couple of pictures. He kind of gave us a time limit too, which I totally got. Like, he was. He was spying our location, you know, and. Because he felt comfortable with the bull. But I could tell, you know, it's just different. He's not there. It's his first time ever doing anything like that. So I think I kind of felt his little bit nervousness about the whole thing. So we had about a half hour to play, so we got right to it. And then it was a super sexy time. And then he dropped me back off, and I get home, and hubby's like, he comes in a couple of minutes. It's really quick. So I thought he was really into it and he was super excited. It was just kind of revving up while I was away. And then later in our debrief, I realized that he was kind of like, I was kind of bored. Like.

[Kathy]

Oh, he was kind of what?

[Mrs. Maverick]

Bored. He was kind of bored just, like, waiting for me to get back. Like, he wasn't really. It wasn't in his mind. Like, he wasn't super turned on while I was away. Right. And I was like, oh, okay. Well, you know, that's definitely good to know, because in my head, when I walk through the door and it's like, it's quick. And he's. He seemed quite happy. So I was like, oh, I thought it was the opposite. I thought, you were super turned on and that's why you came so fast. But so that was good though, you know? So we had our debrief and he was like, yeah, I don't, you know, I don't know, I kind of think it could be fun too. And that's when he said, you know, what do you think about possibly finding another couple to play with right now?

[Kathy]

This is where it comes into play. You know, a couple means he's going to be with the woman. Now, how did you feel about that?

[Mrs. Maverick]

I was, I was pretty nervous about that idea because I would say historically, I've been the more jealous one throughout our entire relationship, and I don't really know where that comes from, but it was just. He's always been my. My person. And I think it's because we had only ever been together. It just had always been just us. So I think there's always that little part of me where it's like, what if you find something else? You know? And then, then that's it. And so I always, I don't say I hoard him, but I was like, but you're mine, you know, so that definitely took a lot of work on my point, on my part. And I listened to the podcast and I, you know, have. We had that, that friend from EDR that we had stayed in touch with, so I was able to kind of bounce just things off of her and just understand how people can get to that place where you could be turned on by watching your person with someone else. And so I was like, okay, I think I can do this. So I think it was right around, because it was about the middle of summer, we somehow got in this huge telegram chat with a whole group of people from San Diego. And so, and through that chat, I met a guy and we started having kind of our own side chat. And that's how we found our. What became our, our first couple swap. And he was just super good looking and he had this Brazilian babe. And I was just so proud of myself that I thought, I'm like, oh my gosh. Like, I, I was so proud of my find. She's so hot. And I was like, oh, this could be cool. And I think that was actually a big part of why, when I became okay with it was because. I think it was because I got to pick the person and, and I don't, I don't know what that was, but it was just, I think it just fed into like, okay, control a little bit. Yeah.

[Kathy]

I mean, because, listen, you don't sound too Jealous. If you're picking like the hottest on the planet, like you're saying she's like super hot, you're great. So you don't sound that jealous at the end of the day that you're, you know, you're not getting someone. Like, you're not insecure. Maybe, maybe that's the difference. Like, I don't think jealousy is a sign of insecurity. I think it's like a normal human being feeling that people have, you know, but it comes down to the fact that, like, when it came down to it mean once you had a little bit of control, you weren't really jealous at all because you were picking like a super hot girl for him to hook up with.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yes. Yeah, exactly. So, yeah, some. Somehow that worked out for me.

[Kathy]

Well, for him and it worked out for him.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yeah, totally, totally. But I was like, she's hot. Like, I really like them. They just had a great vibe. We were able to do kind of like a, like a FaceTime call a couple times. So we were able to, to see them because they were going to book a flight to go come see us and rent a play. You know, I'm like, this is like a big investment for play weekend, you know, so we wanted to make sure it was all a good fit. And so that was probably, I think we've been talking like maybe about six weeks. And he booked, they booked all their, the accommodations and then. Yep. So they came up here and we picked him up at the airport. And I would say him and I already had a decent amount of heat. Like the. We all four of us had a group chat that was super sexy and really spicy, but she was definitely not as much of a, a messenger. She didn't message nearly as much. So hubby was still a little bit like, I mean, she's hot, but I, I just, he just didn't really know what to expect. Like, is she interest? You know, like, oh man, I hope they're interested. Yeah, yeah, it's gonna be a fun time and not be awkward. And so he and I had had a lot of conversations, so we were feeling like, oh my gosh. So excited to have, finally get to meet. And so she. So we pick him up at the airport and we have about a 40 minute drive back up to our town and we're just chatting the whole way. It's very organic and it was just really smooth, which was fantastic. And we go straight to a restaurant and we, you know, had a cocktail and dinner and then we go back to their airbnb and we're just kind of chatting on a bonfire. And then again, hubby, I just have a way of always knowing when he's like, okay, like, let's get the. The party needs to start now. He's ready. And so.

[Kathy]

Oh, and now this is like, he could. This woman. I mean, everything's gonna go down. You're gonna completely couple swap, right?

[Mrs. Maverick]

Full swap, yes. Which is funny because just recently I learned about soft swap. And I'm like, that's a thing.

[Kathy]

Like, yeah, you're past that. You're already past that. Can't go back.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Like, I didn't, I didn't not think about that. I didn't really think that. But I'm kind of the all or nothing.

[Kathy]

Like, yeah, whatever.

[Mrs. Maverick]

If we're gonna do this, we better just jump right in because I'm gonna. I'm gonna overthink it. I'll talk myself out of it. Or, you know, or I would. With soft swaps, I don't know how people stop. That's. I'm like, oh, my gosh. Like, that takes some very good self control. I don't know how you stop, but yeah.

[Kathy]

Okay, so tell me about the couple.

[Mrs. Maverick]

So everything's. Yeah. So everything's on the table. We really didn't have any. We really have any rules or boundaries going into it because by then, you know.

[Kathy]

Yeah.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Like, he had decided, you know, we were like, yeah, kissing is fine. We were good with same room, some separate room play. Like, I just, we kind of were just winging it because I was like, I. I was pretty nervous. How. I was like, okay, like in my head right now it sounds good, but you always get nervous that in the moment it's just going to be like. It's going to not be okay.

[Kathy]

Yeah, of course. How do you know?

[Mrs. Maverick]

Okay. Yeah. So I'm like, okay, so I, you know, I'm feeling good about everything. And so we go to dinner, we get back, and we're kind of just sitting out by the bonfire chatting. And again, I can kind of tell hubby is like, okay, let's get this party started. And so he always kind of gives me like a little face or something, and I'm like, okay. He wants me to go straddle this. This guy because again, he wouldn't lead it. He wouldn't start. Okay, it's gonna be me. I gotta do it. So. So that's basically what happens, is I go and I. I'm sit on his lap and we're. We start making out. And that time Maverick and the Other and the other woman start making out. And the first night we all kind of go together into the bedroom and every. Yep. Every dynamic, every position starts happening. I. Going into this experience, I didn't have a big draw towards female play. Like, I was. Would definitely buy. Comfortable.

[Kathy]

But you weren't even bi curious. You weren't really thinking about it.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yes, correct. Not really. By. By curious. Bi comfortable. And she. And I had understood that she was kind of in the same space. Like, yeah, like, you know, we'll.

[Kathy]

Perfect.

[Mrs. Maverick]

We can make out or we'll touch in passing, but the emphasis is going to be on the men and, you know, and whichever positions they put us in. And so that's kind of what we did. We. We just. Yeah, had a little bit of a makeout session, which was really fun. And the guys. Yep, we did spit roast. And I would sit back and watch them with her. And then someone, you know, just everything you can imagine, it was super sexy. They were just a really, really great time.

[Kathy]

And then no jealousy seeing your guy with the other woman.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yeah. So I was like, okay. Like, it stayed good the whole time. I was like, this is super hot. I definitely. Yeah, that's kind of when it kicked into gear that I'm like, okay, this is really fun watching him with her and just enjoy himself. And I. Yeah, I was really into that. And so then the next day we met up again for dinner and. And playtime again that night. And it was. It was more the same. Although that night we. We started out with being in separate spaces. And so that was a. You know, obviously the first time we'd ever done anything like that. But again, I felt really comfortable with. With this situation. I was like, I'm. I'm okay with that. Right. And so we kind of started off playing separately, and then we came back together as a big group and. And yeah, just played some more. And it was. Yeah, there was no issues. Our debrief from that one was great. So after that, we got again, somehow attached to this telegram group. And it was for a local pool party. And like, so this was going to be the end of September. It was a local pool party. And I'm kind of, you know, all of a sudden I'm in this group and I'm like, so I'm trying to find out from Maverick. I'm like, how are. Who do we know from this group? Like, how. How do we tie into these people? And basically, he had made a connection with one of the guys on. On Cassidy, and they invited us to this party. So I'm getting a vibe of who all is planning to attend and about how many people. And so it's super excited and then super nervous about that idea, like, kind of in the month leading up to it, you know, kind of all the emotions going into it. Because group play was definitely never anything. I. I mean, we've watched that in porn and things, but we had never really talked about it. It was not something I ever thought I would partake in. And once we were part of this telegram group, we learned that that was very much on the table for this party, because a lot of parties will just be meet and greets, you know, or they turn, like, fun, you know, Halloween parties or some theme party into a. Into something. But a lot of times there's not really much playing involved. It's more of a meet. And greet. And we learned early on that this one was, like, playing was fully on the table. So I was like, oh, my gosh. I was pretty nervous about that idea, but hubby was super into it. He was super excited. And so I was like, okay. So I kind of had some time to let that idea marinate and found a couple people on there that I was like, oh, this. You know, this guy is super hot. And so we would kind of started having some private messages with just those individuals to kind of build that connection a little bit. And. And. But I went into the night not really knowing who or if anyone was interested in playing. Like, I. I just couldn't read any of them. I was like, I. I think they're interested, but I'm not really sure, and I overthink it. So I was. I kind of wanted to have a game plan in mind. Like, I love. I love planning, but when I'm actually, you know, in the moment, I don't want to plan any of it, but I wanted to have an idea. I didn't want to, you know, know, be sitting in a corner or just be, like, watching. I didn't know how it was gonna go down. But hubby stayed consistent that he was super into it and super excited. So I was just like, okay, like, we're going. I can do this. And so it was the. That day. We ended up having just some vanilla commitments earlier on in the day. So we knew we were going to be getting there a little bit late. And so we get there, and by then, everybody's naked, and I'm in this cute, you know, kind of a cuter sundress because I'm there for. They said they were going to do kind of a Nicer Sit down. Dinner first. And so I'm dressed and we're late. Everybody else has already been in the pool for a couple hours and they're all naked. And I kind of had met some of these people, you know, just via chats on Telegram and so they see us get there and they're all getting out of the pool and they all want to give because they're such a. The community is so fantastic. They're so amazing. And I'm like, didn't know what's okay because I'm dressed and they're naked and I didn't want to, you know, there's not, it's not even playing field. So I'm, you know, going to shake hands and they're giggling and giving me a hard time because they've already seen naked pictures of me. So they're going for a big hug and I'm like, okay. You know, that stuff is so cute. And so. And the host was super adorable. He was just, he loved my dress. And so he's like, no, you have to stay in your dress. Because he was trying to get everybody else out of the pool to get dressed for dinner. And so he was like, no, you have to stay in that dress because that dress is so hot. And so then by then everybody kind of trickles out of the pool and we have this amazing sit down dinner with wine and just super fun conversation. And then pretty quickly after that we all do, the ladies branch off and do a wardrobe change into some cute lingerie and we meet the men in this pool house that is a big playroom. And that was super, super fun. This kind of again, I just went into the mindset of this is we're doing this, this is happening. And so I just embraced the moment and yep, we were dancing and we were in lingerie and and it was just so fun. It just got. Got the party started and I think at one point there one of the other ladies and I, we get down on our knees and there's just all the men around us. So we just have all these in our face and it was just like the most fun ever. It was hilarious. And then yeah, the kind of. With that group, everyone just kind of did everyone. It happens. Yeah, it just kind of happens. And it was like, I mean, how

[Kathy]

many guys did you have sex with

[Mrs. Maverick]

that night making out so that. I know it's the craziest thing I've ever done. We I3.

[Kathy]

Okay.

[Mrs. Maverick]

And I probably had four or five in my mouth, you know, throughout the night of this like some random person would come up and I'm like, sure. Like, bring it on. So.

[Kathy]

So it's like a total orgy.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Totally. Which is. It's crazy. It's pretty crazy. I never thought I'd do anything like that. But it was a standout of our experiences because it was just amazing. And we were just. I felt like hubby and I, we were on like a state, a euphoric state for weeks after that. Like, it felt like a night of over drinking where you had to try to replay or things would come flashing into your mind of something that had happened. It was like I didn't even drink that night, but I was, I felt on such a high. It was just. It was an amazing experience. Everybody was so fantastic. So much so that we stayed in contact and connection with like two or three of the couples from that night that we've played with since then. So that was just a super, super great experience.

[Kathy]

So is couples thing? Is the couple thing? Like a couple thing, like your guys thing now you're like, like swapping with couples and that's what you guys do?

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yes. Yep. So that kind of really. After our, after our first couple swap, we were like, this is a fun space to be in and especially after the, the pool party. And again, like, we kind of, you know, had play time with those various couples at that moment. And it just felt so good. It felt, it felt great. The security of that they're a unit, you know. I think helps with jealousy things too, where I. I don't think I'd, you know, be able to ever do a single woman at why I say that. But we say yet now because everything else has happened. So I'm like, I'll say yet.

[Kathy]

Yeah, you never know with you.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yeah, yeah, exactly. I don't. Not sure I'm ready for a single woman yet. But the couples was just such a fun, such a fun thing to do.

[Kathy]

Do you have like an ongoing couples that you see now? All the time. You said there's a couple of those couples that you were in the orgy with that you see.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yep. So we did another like individual date with one of those couples we had had where it was the six of us. We all did a concert and then a play night in November and then Maverick's birthday was in January. And so I booked a mountain cabin with two of those couples. And then another couple came too. So there was four of us couples there for a full weekend fest. And that was so. That was super fun, super sexy and spicy. So. Yep, we just Kind of keep making. Making plans with them. And we've had a few kind of newer people as well. I definitely learned I like more consistent couple and hubby is definitely into the. Let's try this. Like this one is fun. This one looks fun and that's why I'm kind of trying to keep up with the that too.

[Kathy]

He likes the variety. You like the being more connected or something. Staying with the same people.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yeah.

[Kathy]

So you do a little bit of both.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Totally. Exactly. So we've kind of done a little bit of both. So. Yep. More recently we had a really great. A newer couple from local that was a really fun find and so we'll. We'll play with them again. They were super sexy. That one was actually the first very much more female female play driven one we've had and it was insanely sexy

[Kathy]

for you even though you weren't bi curious us before.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yes, I definitely said I probably crossed the line now because.

[Kathy]

Did she. Was she the aggressor? Did. Were you just turned on by her for. No. Like out of nowhere. Like how come that girl you like really hooked up with?

[Mrs. Maverick]

Kind of. Kind of both, I think. Like I. I knew going into conversations that she was more interested in female play and I. And I knew in my head that that was still something that had. Bobby was very interested in Longest time fantasy, you know, has been female play. So I always kind of have that in my head and I like to give him the show kind of going in going leading up to this date. But this one, I could tell she was more into it, but she just like. I don't know, just her Persona and the way she goes about it was so sexy and such a turn on and it didn't feel pushy and it just. She was just a really, really great time. And so it. That date we didn't.

[Kathy]

What did you do with her? What did you do with her? Everything.

[Mrs. Maverick]

We did a. Yeah. Yep, pretty much. And both of our husbands were there too. And so it was still a lot of couple swap and playtime Al as well. But just. Yeah, that one was really fun. A lot of trying to think of what we did. She. We have plans for our next date. She has. She has like a strap on that she wants to bring and try and I was just like, I'm into it. Yep, sounds great. We'll try it.

[Kathy]

But I mean, did you go down on her? Did she go down on you?

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yes. Both. Yep.

[Kathy]

Okay. And you enjoyed it?

[Mrs. Maverick]

Super sexy. Yes, it was very sexy. She was gorgeous. So that was. That Was really fun. And that kind of. I don't say it changed things, but like, in interesting, you know, so hubby's kind of like, okay, let's find another. So he's on the hunt for another.

[Kathy]

And you're down for it too. And you're now down.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yeah, yeah, definitely. Like I said, I don't think I would. I'm. I just. I love men. I'm there. It's my jam. So I. Oh, for now, I'd like to have that component there as well. But it was. It was very fun and very sexy to do to. To have the female time as well.

[Kathy]

Right. Well, why don't you give a shout out to your only fans where people could find you. They could see pics on my Patreon. You'll send me some more for my Patreon. You guys are also. You guys are on Discord. Do you know if your husband's on Discord? Piping you out over there? Okay.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yes, I think he is.

[Kathy]

Okay, cool. He can post pics on the guest channel when you. When your episode airs. And he could also put your link to your only fans in the. In, you know, in his bio there. And I have a content creator channel so you could promote over there. But why don't you give a shout out out to your Instagram if people want to go check it out.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Okay. Thank you. Yeah. Our only fans is Lake Lovers one. Just the number one. So.

[Kathy]

Yeah. Lovers one. Lake Lovers one. The number one.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yep. Yes.

[Kathy]

Okay. And they get on there stuff. Like it's pictures of you. It's also videos of you guys together and you with other bulls. Correct?

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yes.

[Kathy]

That's the content they see. Say. Yeah, okay, good.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Definitely.

[Kathy]

All right. I mean, should I have gotten the story of that January party? I don't know. You kind of like, that was like the hottest party and then you didn't see anything.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Oh, sorry. Yeah, I mean, it was super fun. They're just really great people. So the friendships there are so incredible. And hubby did his first. He did a solo date recently, actually, with one of those couples because I love, love them so much. And we were visiting their hometown and. But it was on a vanilla trip, and so I had the kids at the hotel and I kind of planted the seed with him early on in the week that I was like, we're in their town. Like, you should hit them up this weekend and maybe go over there for late night fun. He was like, no. Like, I don't. I don't think I want to do that. I I just don't know if I'd feel right leaving. And I'm like, I'm just, I think you should do it. And so I kind of work the angle with, with the other couple. I was like, okay, send them stuff. Send him stuff. Like, try to get him to come over. And then so late that night he did. He went over to their place and he played with them, which was, which was super hot. That was really fun. I actually really enjoyed. I enjoyed that more than I thought.

[Kathy]

Meaning not being there and waiting for him to come home and tell you.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Totally. Yes. We kind of did like the reverse hot wife thing. Like, I don't know what the that's called, but he went out and played and it was so fun and I loved it. I was like, I just, I enjoyed it because I mostly, I trust that couple so much that it made it seem like a total no brainer for him to just go over there and play and. Yeah, so we got to have, yeah, really fun reclaimed sex. And I really, I enjoyed it. I was like, I'm into it. That was fun.

[Kathy]

Yeah, that you've come a long way from the girl who thought you'd be jealous. Right. Played for him with another woman to letting him go and playing. And you actually like it more than he did. He actually put a stop to your hot wifing after you played solo. You're actually more open than he is.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Exactly.

[Kathy]

You know what I mean? And he is the guy that likes the girl girl thing more than the guy thing. You know, he's like reverse hot wifing. Typically, a lot of these guys find out they're into hot wifing. That's all they want to do. Your guy, like, kind of started that way, but it's interesting he progressed to you guys being much more into couple swapping and everything. And I think that that's like, that's the right thing to get into if the guy also wants variety too, which obviously your husband does. And it's great that you were able to, you know, sort of go there and try something out even though you didn't know how you were going to feel. Because it turns out you've had no jealousy whatsoever. Right. And you're kind of like really into it.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yeah, definitely.

[Kathy]

So it works for the both of you. So listen, send me pics.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Okay.

[Kathy]

Some anonymous picks from my Patreon as well as for my Discord. If you want, your husband could go in there. I'll send you the link if you need it. I will give you free access for A month for my patreon to see the comments and send me some. And send me the link to your. I'll put your name for your only fans, but send me the link and stuff so I have it. Okay.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Okay, great. Thank you so much for having me.

[Kathy]

Thanks, Mrs. Maverick. That's what we called you, right, Mrs. Maverick?

[Mrs. Maverick]

Yep.

[Kathy]

Thanks for calling in. Bye.

[Mrs. Maverick]

All right, bye.

[Kathy]

Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out till August 25, but you can pre order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a whole hot wife story, there's a cuck queen story, there's a cuck story, there's a gang bang girl story. Like I said, 17 stories and they're all told in the third person and they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person. And I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like Penthouse letters. It's more direct. It's not so over the top. Like erotica. I don't really like that kind of of vibe.

[Mrs. Maverick]

Right.

[Kathy]

But these are true stories, 17 of them. They're really short chapters, easy read. You could read, you know, one or two and then skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in eback format, paperback format. And finally the audiobook is available, coming out August 25th, but you could pre order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre order it, I will throw in a couple complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint. Okay? There's no way you get into my Discord any other way than getting the link from me. Okay? I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares content with each other and that's what you get to do there. You could post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of channels. We have lots of contests where you could win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total, total, strictly anonymous community and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord. It's private, like I said, all you gotta do is email me a screenshot of your purchase. Whether you did the audiobook, the ebook, or the paperback, send it to me at strictly anonymous podcast gmail.com that's strictly anonymous podcast gmail.com and I will will send you the link to Discord. So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in.

[Mrs. Maverick]

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