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Tracy V. Wilson
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Holly Fry
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Tracy V. Wilson
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Holly Fry
You better listen.
Tracy V. Wilson
Speaking of tanning, I was sunning my nether regions cause I read that you're supposed to like get sun not only in your mouth but also in your other orifices.
Holly Fry
Wait, are you talking about you put.
Tracy V. Wilson
Your hole into the sun?
Holly Fry
I did.
Tracy V. Wilson
That's crazy. Downward dog mooning the sun. I was gonna say. Is it cheeks open? It's cheeks open all the way wide. Is your cheeks open? Uh huh. Who's holding them? Enough of that nonsense.
Holly Fry
Now listen to High key on the.
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Iheartrad app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
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Holly Fry
Welcome to Stuff youf Missed in History Class, a production of iHeartradio.
Tracy V. Wilson
Hello and happy Friday. I'm Tracy V. Wilson. And I'm Holly Fry. We talked about soap this week. Yeah, we did. Here's a little backstory for why I had it on my list. When Holly and I first joined the podcast, we were moving from another podcast that we'd worked on together, had a totally different focus. And I tried to line myself up some initial starting episodes that I already had more background familiarity with to make this transitional process, hopefully, easier so that I could have a sort of learning by doing of how to research and write these episodes with some stuff that I already had some foundational knowledge in to make it a little easier. And one of those topics was soap. Because one of my previous jobs was writing for a company that sold cleaning and sanitation products. And I wrote, like, product literature. I wrote newsletters for the businesses that we did business with. So I already had knowledge of various things related to soap and saponification and how soap was made and that story about the animal sacrifices being burned and washed down the mountain, all of that. And then part of it was like, is anybody else interested in this, in the aspects of it that I find interesting? I don't really know. And then part of it was just, you know, over time, I didn't feel like I quite needed the training wheel of things. I already felt like I could almost write off the top of my head, and I never got around to it. But then we got a request for it, so. Great. Bring it back. Relearn stuff that I have forgotten in the. At this point, more than 20. Well, more than 20 years since I had that job.
Holly Fry
Yeah.
Tracy V. Wilson
I have.
Holly Fry
We talked about saponification a lot in.
Tracy V. Wilson
The episode we did on the lady.
Holly Fry
Who Turned to Soap.
Tracy V. Wilson
Oh, yeah. Which I forgot. I have not re. Listened to that. And I remember doing the episode, but, like, the details of it are not in my brain.
Holly Fry
Yeah. And I, of course, can't think about soap without thinking about Fight Club a lot.
Tracy V. Wilson
Oh, yeah. I also thought about Fight Club a lot. And about how to make soap, we must first render fat.
Holly Fry
Yeah. Which is.
Tracy V. Wilson
I mean.
Holly Fry
Right. Like in Chuck Palahniuk's book and in the subsequent film. Right. It's referencing all of the dirty things that have to happen to make soap.
Tracy V. Wilson
Right.
Holly Fry
And how that compares to our modern society, which looks very sanitized in many ways, but is ignoring all of the dirty things that have to happen to give you that sanitized experience.
Tracy V. Wilson
Uh huh.
Holly Fry
I really love that book.
Tracy V. Wilson
I really hate that a lot of.
Holly Fry
People'S takeaway was like, violence is cool. And it's like you have missed the point entirely.
Tracy V. Wilson
Yeah.
Holly Fry
And I really love that movie as well.
Tracy V. Wilson
One of the things that I noticed while doing this research is that a whole bunch of articles about soap were written in 2020 because of COVID Yeah. A lot of discussion of where soap came from. This is one of the things that I have found weird about the beginning of COVID is that it feels like to a segment of people, the idea that you should wash your hands for 30 seconds was new information. Yeah. And stretching back to that job that I had where we sold cleaning and sanitation products to restaurants and grocery stores. Like, I had been washing my hands. I had always been washing my hands regularly, but specifically washing my hands for 30 seconds with a little thing playing in my brain to make sure that I washed it for long enough. Like that goes back to doing that job more than 20 years ago. And so the seemingly surprise information that it seemed like about, yes, you should wash your hands and you should use soap, I was like, we should have all been doing this already all of the time. And another thing that happened around that time was that there was kind of a little bit of freakout about whether it was okay to use the Dove beauty bar, marketed as one quarter moisturizing cream, to wash your hands during the time of COVID Yeah. Because it's not actually soap. The answer, yes, it's fine. It's fine to do that. It's not technically soap. It does include surfactants. And the surfactants are the important part to cleaning your hands sufficiently by washing them. Yeah. Every time I came across another article that I was like, oh, and this is also from 2020, when everyone was thinking about soap. I'm still thinking about soap. Still washing my hands.
Holly Fry
I mean, listen, take away all of the cleanliness specific needs. Not entirely, but like, I'm always thinking about soap. Cause it smells good. I'm a sucker, man. Put pumpkin scent in a soap. I'm buying it.
Tracy V. Wilson
Yeah.
Holly Fry
This is the first year that I've seen and I know there are people that are gonna groan at what I'm about to say. And yes, I am the most basic woman alive. But this year, for the first time, I found pumpkin scented laundry detergent. I bought like a case of it. I love that business. I want pumpkin everything, so. And I want it year round. So yeah, I'm all about that. Every marketer that makes Frou Frou Radonka Doodle soap that smells like cake, candy and pumpkins. They're like, what's Holly Fry's email address? We're a little short this quarter.
Tracy V. Wilson
We gotta just send them directly to.
Holly Fry
Holly marketing her way. Cause we know this will pan out.
Tracy V. Wilson
Yeah, yeah, yeah. The fragrances are also like, almost a whole separate history from the soap and something that I did not get into here. I read an article that was not exactly, like, debunking the. The whole thing about using ash on wool and it would combine with lanolin to make soap.
Holly Fry
Oh, right.
Tracy V. Wilson
It didn't feel like it had been written specifically to debunk that idea. It was more like, here is an experimental approach to this historical fact of how people might have discovered soap. And this experiment was like, yeah, with the wool and the lanolin that did not actually make soap. But one thing that they found that did make soap was cleaning the, like, cheesecloth type of cloths that would have been used in perfume making, where the. The perfume making would have involved. Involved, like, an oil and the fragrance, and then repeatedly cycling through the oil and the fragrance to, like, make the perfume that would stick on your body. And then you would have these cloths left over, and you would need to wash the cloths, and they would be embedded at that point, fats that had been used in the perfume making process. And that really did yield more soap, but is not what was mentioned in those Sumerian tablets. I found that very interesting. I also found it very interesting about how some of the marketing of soap as soap became like a real commercial industrial product, invented some concepts related to things like body odor as a product that needed to. Or as an issue that needed to be resolved through the use of soap. And it reminded me a little bit of the coining of the term halitosis to sell mouthwash. Yeah.
Holly Fry
I do have a question.
Tracy V. Wilson
Okay.
Holly Fry
Because those things existed.
Tracy V. Wilson
Yeah, sure, sure.
Holly Fry
Bad breath and body odor did exist.
Tracy V. Wilson
Yes.
Holly Fry
So there is, like, a fine line of, we've solved this problem versus any amount of this makes you wrong. Sure. Right. And did you find in any of your research, like, that tipping point where it started to be like, nothing that tips off the robots that you're human should be allowed.
Tracy V. Wilson
I found kind of oblique references to that and to, like, the differing standards around the world.
Holly Fry
Right.
Tracy V. Wilson
Like, when I was in college, I had a girlfriend who spent a summer or a year abroad in France. And when she got back, she was like, I am so mad that now I have to spend all this time every Single day showering and washing my hair. Because while I was in France, it was socially acceptable to, like, have a couple of days pass. Like, I still felt like I was okay to be out in public if it had been a day or two since taking a shower.
Holly Fry
Right.
Tracy V. Wilson
But here in the US it has to be every day. And it has to be, like, the amount of time it's taking me to wash my hair, every day really sucks. And I'm mad that this is, like, what I have to spend my time on. And I have no concept of, like, whether she felt like she had a perceptible difference in her level of hygiene with an American versus a French standard. But she definitely felt like in the United States, if she wasn't going out and, like, if she wasn't showering before going out, that she was doing something wrong. Does that make sense? Yeah. I'm sure there's probably anthropological and sociological study onto those questions. Yeah. And like, more specifically, how those standards are determined and then socially maintained.
Holly Fry
Yeah.
Tracy V. Wilson
Yeah.
Holly Fry
It's super fascinating. I mean, there are also just like. The other element of it is that there are also just personal preferences within that spectrum. Right. Of, like.
Tracy V. Wilson
Yeah. Yeah.
Holly Fry
I do not like when my hair is not freshly washed.
Tracy V. Wilson
Me too.
Holly Fry
But I know a lot of people who actually think their hair looks better on, like, the second or third day, and they don't wash even every time they shower, which is totally fine. But, like, everybody has, like, a different space in there where they feel comfortable, so it becomes a weird.
Tracy V. Wilson
Yeah.
Holly Fry
The sort of, like, homogenization of, like, ultimate cleanliness as the goal.
Tracy V. Wilson
Oh, sure.
Holly Fry
Is always a little bit silly and weird to me.
Tracy V. Wilson
Sometimes an algorithm will take me onto. I will, like, wind up in curly hair maintenance videos.
Holly Fry
Oh, I get so many of those.
Tracy V. Wilson
Which is, like, a very different. Very different kind of care than my hair, which is very straight and less now that I'm older, but from my teens through age 40, was also very oily. And if I did not wash it every day, it felt gross. And while, like, natural skin and body care companies would be like, if you're doing it every day, you're stripping the oils, and if you just stop, then it will regulate itself. I did not find that to be true ever. But, like, a lot of people whose hair is really curly or people of different races and ethnic. Ethnicities.
Holly Fry
Oh, for sure.
Tracy V. Wilson
Daily shampooing. A hundred percent bad idea.
Holly Fry
Yeah.
Tracy V. Wilson
I would wager that the couple of books that are more focused on cleanliness than on soap, which came up in my research But I did not get, I did not try to check them out or anything because I thought that they would probably just take me down rabbit holes that were not going to help.
Holly Fry
Yeah.
Tracy V. Wilson
Probably have a lot more of stuff about that like when, like how cultures develop their idea of what clean is and how often showering needs to happen to be considered clean.
Holly Fry
Yeah, yeah. And then there are cats that don't bathe at all. It's fine. They're fine.
Tracy V. Wilson
They bathe with their mouths.
Holly Fry
Yeah, yeah. Listen, we're in prime soap season so I'm excited right now anyway.
Tracy V. Wilson
Yeah.
Holly Fry
Getting all the hand soaps stocking up for the year. I have a, you know, personal everyday is Halloween soap rule. So there are always things that smell like autumnal stuff for the most part with occasional bubble gums and roses thrown in.
Tracy V. Wilson
Yeah.
Holly Fry
I am that person that has a stockpile of every scent you could possibly wish for.
Tracy V. Wilson
Yeah.
Holly Fry
It's a storage problem. It's not a problem in my heart, just a problem of space.
Tracy V. Wilson
Right. There are definitely like a number of soaps and lotions and things that smell particularly good to me that I especially like using and they make me feel a little happier. There have been times that I have like been on a vacation and whatever product line was being used in the hotel or like the spa, if I had a spa visit has just made me feel so happy that I've been like, I'm buying that and taking it home with me.
Holly Fry
Yeah. All the time.
Tracy V. Wilson
So. Yeah. Yeah. Currently I have a lotion that I'm using that is came directly. It's a vacation lotion that is making my lotioning process happens like a little luxury every single day.
Holly Fry
Vacation lotion.
Tracy V. Wilson
Aw.
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Tracy V. Wilson
We talked about William Firth Wells and Mildred Weeks Wells. Inspired by an episode of 99% invisible that made me real mad. I re listened to our Max Von Pettenkofer episode, which is one of the things that was discussed in that 99% invisible episode. They were sort of focused on how Max Von Pettenkofer was one of the last people to like really hype up the idea that miasmas were spreading disease when the rest of the scientific and medical community was almost entirely at that point accepting the germ theory of disease and how he was wrong about a lot of stuff, but he was right about some things. Like he was right about indoor ventilation being really important to help reduce the spread of indoor diseases. And so it was very funny to me when I like listened to this episode of 99% invisible and got progressively more frustrated. And then I re listened to that episode and was like, oh, I didn't find this extreme. I didn't find this frustrating at all when we recorded it, which I think was in early 2020 if I'm remembering correctly, because like the following five years had not happened yet. Right. But I. One of the things that I have found frustrating over the last five years is that the COVID pandemic made it so crystal clear that illnesses that spread through the respiratory system can be spread very easily in indoor environments with bad ventilation, especially if they are crowded. And like, even back in the 2020 into 2021 time period, I was like, man, we just sort of accepted the fact that if you go to a con, you're probably going to come home with concret. We could have been living in a world where there was enough ventilation and enough indoor air sanitation that maybe that would not have just been viewed as like the probable inevitable likelihood of going to a convention. And this is the same kind of stuff that Mildred and Richard were talking about like a hundred years ago. I feel you. Uh huh.
Holly Fry
But the way I con, that wouldn't have mattered.
Tracy V. Wilson
Yeah.
Holly Fry
Like I think if you're a person that goes to panels and maybe does other stuff, but if you're like going somewhere like Dragon Con, where it's like huge drink ups, like people, you know what I mean? Like, I don't know that any amount of air fix it can counter a bunch of drunk people singing in each other's faces is what I'm saying.
Tracy V. Wilson
Right. Yeah.
Holly Fry
So I think some of that is situational for sure. And I mean some cons probably have a different vibe than that. But I think so much of the con experience is about connecting with the people you don't get to see all the time. And it does tend to devolve into a little bit of, you know, nerdy gras bacchanalia that it may not have helped that much. That may or may not make you feel any better about it. It still sucks nobody was doing it.
Tracy V. Wilson
But yeah, yeah, I feel like we.
Holly Fry
Would have all had to do Dexter's Lab style personal lamination to actually prevent Kon Crud.
Tracy V. Wilson
Well, and I'm, I'm not saying it would have possibly eliminated Kon Crud entirely, but like, reduced it. Fewer illnesses. And then, you know, I also sort of thought about their work with measles, which, you know, was then not that long after, I think after. I don't remember the exact timeline. Even though we've done an episode on measles, like measles became preventable through a vaccine. But at the time that they were doing this work, it was not. And so it was seen as inevitable that children would get measles at some point during their childhood, most likely. And if not, they would get measles at some point eventually. And so it just sort of was accepted as inevitable that kids going to school would get measles and their work seemed promising, at least as far as slowing down the spread of a measles outbreak. So it wasn't a sudden, intense crisis. Could that have been built on to, like, more stop the spread of measles instead of slowing it down? Maybe things that are not quite as aggressively contagious as measles. Because measles is incredibly contagious. It's like one of the most contagious illnesses that we know about. Could that have dropped way down the amount of disease, the amount of disease risk? I also have frustrations in part because in the last three years or so, I think the 5ish, like respiratory illnesses that I have gotten, three were contracted almost certainly at the doctor or dentist office. Yeah. And where, you know, I was not having face to face contact with anyone other than the doctor or the dental hygienist, but was in a facility where the air had been breathed into by lots of other people for a very long time, which is the kind of stuff that their research seemed the most. The most likely of, like slowing down.
Holly Fry
Yeah.
Tracy V. Wilson
And then I also just have the general question of, like, if we had been living in a world where there was already a focus, like a very strong focus on indoor ventilation and indoor air sanitation, if that would have meant less transmission of COVID less need for as many long term interventions against Covid, and if that might have meant less of a backlash to the idea of public health than what we are living through in this moment, who knows? That's all very speculative. Yeah.
Holly Fry
This is unfortunately, Milan Kundera's unbearable likeness of being.
Tracy V. Wilson
Right.
Holly Fry
You can only have one life experience.
Tracy V. Wilson
Sure.
Holly Fry
You can't know what the other possibilities would have been.
Tracy V. Wilson
It is a Good point. It's also normal to kind of wonder about this stuff and speculate.
Holly Fry
Oh, of course, of course.
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Tracy V. Wilson
So, yeah, I am also interested and glad to know that there was that Mildred Weeks Wells was like, working at the capacity that she was working at during the time that she was. Even though she was paid way less or not paid at all. Because we don't hear nearly as much about women doing that kind of work during that period, for sure.
Holly Fry
Do you, like me, wanna know all of the dirt on what happened with their marriage?
Tracy V. Wilson
I want so much more personal information about each of them. That's why I said at the top of the episode that I have not read this book, Airborne by Carl Zimmer. I did get it. I got it the last thing in research. Like, I had already read all of these other papers and all of these other article. I had already, like, I had gotten William's entire book. Like, I had done all of this stuff. And I was like, man, not only is. Not only do I have almost no biographical information about either of them, some of the information that I do have, I am confused by. Like, I was, for example, very confused by what was going on with Mildred's father's embezzlement thing, right? And I was having a really hard time finding any reporting about it. So I finally got this book to, like, just sort of try to confirm details about the two of them, which is one portion of that book. The biggest thing that helped me there was learning that her father's. The reporting around her father's accusation, accusations and trial. And all of that had been reported with his first and middle initial and not his whole first name. Which that finally led me to newspaper articles that I could read about it. Whereas before that I was finding basically nothing. And I was like, what is this financial mismanagement thing in Texas that I can't seem to find anything about that.
Holly Fry
Seems to be a big secret?
Tracy V. Wilson
Seems. Yeah. And like, all of the brief write ups of her grandfather are almost glowing in how they talk about him. And I was like, but it seems like there was an embezzlement thing. Like what? Having a really hard time. So, yeah, the fact that so much of that is just, like, a total mystery. I wish we knew more, and I definitely wish we knew more about some of the more gossipy stuff, like, what specifically happened in their marriage. Was it really that the two of them were just difficult to work with that led to their losing their jobs? Like.
Holly Fry
Yeah. I also, you know, it seems like you did this research, so you might have insight that I wouldn't. But as we get to the end of their story where they just kind of, like, are working on their own things, I'm like, is this one of those instances where they were living at a time where it was a little more stigmatized to get divorced and so they essentially were separated in behavior, but maybe not in declaration.
Tracy V. Wilson
Yeah. They were still legally married until the end of their lives, as far as I know, but just not.
Holly Fry
Didn't seem to be living a life together at all.
Tracy V. Wilson
No. Mildred did move to another city with Bud, and even then, it still seems like he was spending some of his time with them, but not, like, living with them full time.
Holly Fry
Right.
Tracy V. Wilson
I'm imagining to, like, maintain a relationship with his son in some way could be a reason for that. But, yeah, it seems like for all practical purposes, they were not married, even though they were legally still married. And they were definitely not really research partners anymore in the last few years of their career after approximately 1944.
Holly Fry
And then I think about married couples who work together.
Tracy V. Wilson
Oh, yeah.
Holly Fry
And how often that creates really toxic situations. And I'm like, yeah, I could maybe see where people would want to be around. You know, I used to work for a married couple, and it was a nightmare because I realized that they would argue through their employees.
Tracy V. Wilson
Right.
Holly Fry
And, like, just. It just created havoc, and it sucked. And I know people do it.
Tracy V. Wilson
Yeah. Well, in so many companies today have rules about, like, if married couples are both employed here, they cannot work in the same department. They cannot.
Holly Fry
Right.
Tracy V. Wilson
They, like, they, especially one of them, cannot supervise the other one.
Holly Fry
Yeah.
Tracy V. Wilson
And then in academia, there's this whole idea of, like, the, quote, trailing spouse, where, like, one spouse is the spouse that the college or university wants to hire, but they are married, and they can only afford to move if the spouse can also find work. And, like, that's a whole thing. Yeah. But the two of them were, like, they were in a situation where they were. They were both working in the same department. I don't think he was technically her supervisor, but, like, yeah, they were working together on all of these things. Together and he was paid more than she was, if she was paid at all. Yeah. And that does seem just like a dynamic that would be difficult to deal with.
Holly Fry
I feel compelled to say I have worked with other married couples that were amazing.
Tracy V. Wilson
Sure.
Holly Fry
And did not have toxic garbage. In fact, one married couple that I started working at this company and I didn't know they were married for a long time because they were so hyper professional about like not in any way being in each other's business at work.
Tracy V. Wilson
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Holly Fry
Oh, oh. I wonder all of the secret I do too meanderings of the Welles's.
Tracy V. Wilson
I also wonder about their son because like everything that was written about him was. Was pretty general. And also some of the ways that people described him contradicted each other. Like there was one paper, the paper that was sort of about the tuberculosis experiments that was written after his death. Use a word that we do not use today to describe him as intellectually disabled. But there was also a doctor who examined him when he was being institutionalized that was like, I don't think he has an intellectual disability based on his vocabulary and like what we can tell about his cognition. And his assessment was that it was a mental illness that involved psychosis and was possibly schizophrenia. Incredibly different from how another account had described him. So I don't really know.
Holly Fry
I think that's a good example of why it is important that there has been and it's changing now. And I hope it continues to like that thing where people are reticent when it comes to speaking about any such things. And as a consequence there is a big gap in understanding.
Tracy V. Wilson
Yeah.
Holly Fry
So people's situations get described incorrectly all the time.
Tracy V. Wilson
Right.
Holly Fry
And I think it's getting better. But that is a problem. Right. Like, yeah, I understand for some people it is uncomfortable or they don't want to discuss such things or they're worried they will say the wrong thing.
Tracy V. Wilson
Right.
Holly Fry
But yeah, it's a. It's tricky. And yeah, we need more information, not less correct. Not necessarily about any one given person, but about the possible various things that a person can. Can be and have and do.
Tracy V. Wilson
Yeah, I agree.
Holly Fry
Anyway, that's my nerdy hippie moment today.
Tracy V. Wilson
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Tracy V. Wilson
This is an iHeart podcast.
Release Date: September 12, 2025
Hosts: Tracy V. Wilson and Holly Fry
Podcast Network: iHeartPodcasts
In this "Behind the Scenes Minis" segment, Tracy and Holly reflect on their recent main episode focused on soap, saponification, cleanliness, and the historical and social evolution of hygiene. The conversation also delves into related topics raised by listener questions and their own research, ranging from the impact of the COVID-19 pandemic on public perceptions of cleanliness, to the roles of notable historical figures in the science of disease transmission, and even personal anecdotes about scents and soap preferences.
“I can’t think about soap without thinking about Fight Club a lot.”
— Holly Fry (05:10)
“It feels like to a segment of people, the idea that you should wash your hands for 30 seconds was new information.”
— Tracy V. Wilson (06:06)
"Every marketer that makes Frou Frou Radonka Doodle soap that smells like cake, candy and pumpkins... they're like, what's Holly Fry's email address?"
— Holly Fry (08:48)
“…in the US it has to be every day… if she wasn’t showering before going out, she was doing something wrong.”
— Tracy V. Wilson (12:20)
“We could have been living in a world where there was enough ventilation and enough indoor air sanitation that maybe [illness at conventions] would not have just been viewed as probable [and] inevitable...”
— Tracy V. Wilson (21:36)
Limited Personal Information: Tracy laments the lack of biographical depth on the Wellses, especially Mildred, whose career and family background (including her father’s embezzlement scandal) are obscure and sometimes conflicting. She describes using Carl Zimmer’s book "Airborne" to chase down elusive details (30:43).
Marital Dynamics: The end of William and Mildred’s partnership—both personal and professional—is discussed. They remained married but lived mostly separate lives for years, a situation reflective of social norms about divorce at the time (33:26).
“For all practical purposes, they were not married, even though they were legally still married.”
— Tracy V. Wilson (33:51)
Working Couples: Holly and Tracy discuss the potential stress of married couples working together, recalling both negative and positive cases, and noting how modern workplaces often try to manage such dynamics with strict policies (34:14).
Son’s Life and Discrepancies: There’s confusion over inconsistent historical descriptions of the Wellses’ son, with some sources labeling him as intellectually disabled, others citing mental illness. Tracy stresses the ongoing need for more accurate and respectful discussions of mental health (36:16).
On pandemic handwashing awareness:
"It feels like to a segment of people, the idea that you should wash your hands for 30 seconds was new information."
— Tracy V. Wilson (06:06)
On soap marketing:
"Some of the marketing of soap invented some concepts related to things like body odor as a product that needed to...be resolved through the use of soap."
— Tracy V. Wilson (09:25)
On international hygiene norms:
“...now I have to spend all this time every single day showering and washing my hair. Because while I was in France, it was socially acceptable to, like, have a couple of days pass.”
— Tracy V. Wilson (12:20)
On conventions and airborne disease:
"We could have been living in a world where there was enough ventilation and...air sanitation that maybe [con crud] would not have just been viewed as probable, inevitable..."
— Tracy V. Wilson (21:36)
On documentation gaps and mental health:
“People’s situations get described incorrectly all the time…we need more information, not less.”
— Holly Fry (37:33)
Tracy and Holly maintain their signature blend of intellectual curiosity, humor, and empathy. They strike a thoughtful balance between historical research, personal anecdote, and social critique, often poking gentle fun at themselves (especially in matters of soap scent obsession) while maintaining respect for serious historical and societal issues.
This episode offers:
While not a stand-alone narrative, this relaxed and reflective episode enriches the core historical research by offering personal context and broader musings on the complexities of being human—in all things clean and messy.