Tall Blonde Podcast Episode Summary: "He Applied for The Bachelor… While Dating Me"
Host: Sarah Lauren
Guest: Nicole Cervenus
Release Date: June 27, 2025
Presented by MBHTV
1. Introduction of the Guest
The episode kicks off with Sarah Lauren introducing Nicole Cervenus, affectionately referred to as "Sir Venus." Nicole is lauded as the "queen of messy love stories, relatable chaos, and professional glow ups." With a multifaceted career as a TV host, producer, and podcaster, Nicole brings a wealth of personal experiences and industry insights to the conversation.
Sarah Lauren [00:04]: "Today's guest is the queen of messy love stories, relatable chaos, and professional glow ups. She's a TV host, producer, podcaster, and your new obsession, Nicole."
Nicole Cervenus [00:26]: "That's like the sweetest intro ever."
2. Openness and Sharing Personal Stories
Nicole discusses her initial fears about being open on her new podcast, contrasting her professional comfort with personal vulnerability.
Nicole Cervenus [01:20]: "No, I'm terrified."
She explains that despite her occupation involving frequent communication, sharing personal aspects of her life is a new and liberating challenge.
3. Nicole’s Early Views on Love
Nicole delves into her childhood influences, highlighting how her upbringing in a sheltered, Disney-inspired environment shaped her romantic ideals.
Nicole Cervenus [04:04]: "I say like I was cursed the day I was born."
Growing up observing her parents' nearly four-decade-long relationship, Nicole idealized the concept of finding a "Prince Charming."
Sarah Lauren [05:13]: "We have kids names. We know what we're gonna do when we're getting married."
4. First Relationship and Breakup in High School
Nicole recounts her first significant relationship during high school, emphasizing her conservative stance on intimacy and the eventual breakup due to mismatched expectations.
Nicole Cervenus [07:15]: "We didn't even do sex. Like, nothing."
The relationship ended when Nicole refused to succumb to the pressure of becoming intimate at prom, leading to a mutual breakup.
Sarah Lauren [09:01]: "It's crazy to think about it, like, putting myself back into high school."
5. Avoiding Rebounds and Moving on Successfully
After enduring painful breakups, Nicole discusses her approach to moving forward without falling into rebound relationships, emphasizing self-awareness and readiness.
Nicole Cervenus [12:30]: "I have no regrets."
She shares her successful transition into a healthy relationship post-breakup, highlighting the importance of personal growth and timing.
6. Cheating and Betrayal Experiences
Both hosts share their experiences with infidelity, exploring the deep emotional impact and lessons learned from such betrayals.
Sarah Lauren [17:23]: "You go to your best friend when your boyfriend cheats on you, the best friend was the one that did it."
Nicole adds that overcoming such experiences builds strength and character, turning pain into wisdom.
Nicole Cervenus [18:34]: "It builds strength and character."
7. Career Path in Television
Nicole provides an in-depth look into her career journey, starting as a producer at Entertainment Tonight Canada and transitioning to on-camera roles. She details the demanding nature of live television and the challenges she faced, including being let go post-COVID.
Nicole Cervenus [41:15]: "I was on BT for about two and a half years... it was the most unhealthy I've ever been in my life."
Despite setbacks, Nicole navigates her career with resilience, securing roles at CP24 and launching her podcast.
8. Starting "Mismatch" Podcast
Nicole introduces her new podcast, "Mismatch," which explores love in all its forms. She emphasizes the importance of self-love and the complexities of romantic relationships as one matures.
Nicole Cervenus [48:56]: "To find love in all its forms."
The podcast aims to dissect layers of relationships, parenthood, and evolving friendships, offering listeners a comprehensive view of love's dynamics.
9. Insights on Dating Red Flags
In an interactive segment, Sarah and Nicole discuss various dating scenarios to identify red flags versus fixable issues in relationships.
Scenario 1: He's still friends with his exes, but he swears it's chill.
Nicole Cervenus [52:35]: "Fixable. I would make it my mission to get to know these friends and set boundaries."
Scenario 2: Emotional Intelligence – He claims to be emotionally intelligent but has never cried in three years of dating.
Nicole Cervenus [54:27]: "That's a red flag. Emotional expression is crucial for a healthy relationship."
Scenario 3: He has a podcast.
Nicole Cervenus [56:09]: "Not a red flag, but personalities in TV can be egotistical, so it's important to distinguish confidence from arrogance."
Scenario 4: Texts you every three weeks like you're on a payment plan.
Nicole Cervenus [58:12]: "Red flag. Consistent communication is key in maintaining connections."
10. Conclusion
The episode wraps up with mutual appreciation between Sarah and Nicole, highlighting the courage it takes to share personal stories publicly. Nicole encourages listeners to embrace their journeys and remain open to love in its many forms.
Sarah Lauren [60:05]: "You might find me on hers."
Nicole Cervenus [60:27]: "You can find me on all the socials. My name is Nicole Cervenus."
Notable Quotes:
- Nicole Cervenus [01:22]: "I often just shut my mouth and say nothing. But if I mean something, then I say it."
- Nicole Cervenus [06:29]: "I love attention in the best way."
- Sarah Lauren [35:31]: "You might be in that dark place, but there are people out there."
- Nicole Cervenus [36:30]: "I felt ready to receive it, too."
This episode of Tall Blonde offers a candid exploration of Nicole's personal and professional life, blending heartfelt stories with valuable insights on dating and career resilience. Whether you're navigating the complexities of relationships or chasing your dreams in a demanding industry, Nicole's experiences provide relatable lessons and inspiration.