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Narrator/Advertiser (0:02)
Tetragrammaton.
Adam Neumann (0:24)
I was born in Israel. I moved 13 times. By moving from place to place, I always found myself in a new community. Being the new kid in every community means you have no friends on the first day. I would always be attracted to the other kids who had no friends. And my goal in life used to be to make the uncool kids cool. Would take about a few months, then we would all become friends and we would move to the next destination. And I did that literally 13 times in my childhood. The place I lived the most was in a kibbutz. For people who don't know what the kibbutz is, there used to be hundreds of them in Israel. It was a version of a community where every person had a different job, but everybody earned the same amount of money and had access to the same amount of resources. Everybody had the same house. I happened to have just gotten a chance to go to the house. I lived in the kibbutz. I didn't remember how small it was. The entire house, bedroom, kitchen and children's room. My sister and I shared a room was 450 square feet and I don't fit in the door, so I was shorter there. But when I went to kibbutz, I was like, oh wow, the door doesn't
Interviewer (1:28)
fit Your sister older or younger?
Adam Neumann (1:29)
Younger sister. Three years younger.
Interviewer (1:31)
And what was your relationship like?
Adam Neumann (1:33)
So growing up separate from moving from place to place, which means we always had to be very close. When I was about 8, my parents got a divorce and after my parents got a divorce, we moved to the U.S. my parents are both doctors and we moved to the US for two years because my mother had to fellow. She's an oncologist. She fellowed in Indiana. Indianapolis. So I was a Hoosier for two years. I went to Pacers games in Indy 500 and that's where I learned how to speak English because I'm very dyslexic. And for very dyslexic people, one of the toughest thing is a new language. And I remember all those people said, how dyslexic are you? And I would say, when we moved to Indiana, I asked my mom when I went to school the first day, I said, what am I going to do? How am I going to order food? There's a cafeteria. I don't know any words in English. She said, say peanut butter and jelly. So I learned peanut butter and jelly. And for the next two months, every day I wait in line and everybody gets there and they order the hamburgers. And their fries and their chicken nuggets. And all I can say is peanut butter and jelly. And one day, after two months, I was like, I can't eat one more peanut butter and jelly. And I had the courage, and I said the word hot dog. And from there, I started learning. And that was the two years. So at this stage, my parents are divorced. It's my mom, my sister and I, we're living alone in the US and as we go back to Israel, my mother wanted us to have a special experience. And that's how we got to the kibbutz and in the kibbutz, because everybody has a job. She was the doctor at night, and in return for her being the doctor at night, we got a place to live. So she worked the whole day in the hospital, and then at night, she was a doctor. The reason the kibbutz for me is so relevant caused my life with a lot of ups and downs and a lot of different challenges. The first time that I felt safe was in that community. My mother, who many years after was diagnosed as bipolar. And growing up, the patients were always the most important. And I think it taught me a lot because she always took care of all of her patients so beautifully. When she would come home, there was less patience for us. And there would be a lot of fighting and screaming and hitting and things flying and a lot of things would occur. And I remember that no matter how bad the night was, there was always three neighbors checking on me. There were always friends that I could go to. No one ever judged me. Everything was always open. I always felt like I was part of it. And that feeling of safety is something that not only stayed with me wherever I went in the world, I sort of find myself bringing people together. And when I moved to the US which was actually following my sister. So my sister left Israel when she was 16. She was Miss Teenage Israel. She moved to the U.S. she became a very successful model. And when I finished the army, I moved to the US four days later, and I lived with my sister. And from the first day that we're sharing an apartment together, this was right after September 11th, a month later. And we lived very close to where it happened, because that's where you got the money from the government, that that was the most affordable thing we could do. I remember going up and down that elevator and was so surprised that in America, people don't introduce themselves. So I would see the same neighbors every day. No one says hello until after a month. My sister's name's Adi. She was like what do we do? Experiment. Let's introduce ourselves to everybody, and in a month, we're going to throw a party on the roof. There was a shared roof and that party. We'll see who comes. And we did it and we threw the party. And half the building came. And the energy in that building changed. It was very obvious for me that this thing that I cherish, this kibbutz energy, is something that we could bring to the United States in a form of a business. So this is now 2007. I've had three failed businesses by this point. Two fashion businesses and a baby closing business called Crawlers. Baby brands with knee pads on them to protect the baby's knees. Good idea. At the time, I thought today, being the father of six kids, no one ever complained about the knees. I actually think they have extra skin and they're built for it. But. But the universe thought of that one. But by this stage, I'm already after my third business and I meet Rebecca. And when I meet Rebecca, the first date, first time we met, I don't even remember what we ate. But I was waiting for her to put out her credit card so I can put out my credit card so we could split the bill. And we do that twice. And the third time she goes, adam, you know, in America it is okay. You could offer to pay for the meal. I don't have to say yes, but you could offer. And I said, no, I'm a. I'm an entrepreneur and my money's in the business. She goes, I don't know what kind of entrepreneur you are, but if your money's in the business that you can't invite someone for a meal, you might not be a great one. And it's interesting because I think it was the first time someone talked to me that way. And I found it not only intriguing, I was like, wow. And I said, no, you don't understand how business works. And she was like, maybe you don't understand how business works. And that kind of discussion very quickly became a very passionate relationship. Three months from the moment we met that I proposed.
