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Mercedes Coffman, LMFT, is a seasoned Marriage and Family Therapist known for her insightful, compassionate approach to emotional healing and relational growth. Today on the show we discuss how inconsistency can make relationships feel addictive, why chemistry is not always the same as compatibility, how love bombing and emotional highs can dysregulate your nervous system, the difference between emotional unavailability and manipulation, why childhood wounds can cause people to chase the wrong partners, how trauma bonds actually work, why safe love can feel boring at first, and how to rebuild self-trust so you can choose healthier relationships. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shaka Senghor is a bestselling author, speaker, and leading voice on redemption, transformation, and criminal justice reform. After being sentenced to prison at 19 for taking a life, Shaka spent 19 years incarcerated, including seven years in solitary confinement. During that time, he began the hard work of self-reflection, accountability, journaling, and healing, ultimately transforming his life from the inside out.Since his release, Shaka has dedicated his work to helping people escape both physical and mental prisons. He is the author of Writing My Wrongs and How to Be Free: A Proven Guide to Escaping Life’s Hidden Prisons, and his story has inspired audiences around the world. Through his writing, speaking, and mentorship, Shaka challenges people to confront trauma, take responsibility for their lives, and believe that redemption is possible no matter how far they’ve fallen. Today on the show we discuss his powerful journey from taking a life at 19 to rebuilding his life after 19 years in prison, the untreated trauma that fuels cycles of violence, why solitary confinement can destroy the human mind, how journaling became his “write or die” practice, the hidden mental prisons that keep people trapped long after the bars are gone, and why proximity, mentorship, self-forgiveness, and doing hard things are essential for real transformation and much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Paul Conti is a board-certified psychiatrist, author, and educator known for his work on trauma, addiction, self-understanding, and mental health. Today on the show we discuss why your mind creates limiting beliefs to protect you, how childhood lessons become subconscious patterns, why your inner critic is actually trying to keep you safe, how addiction becomes short-term relief for deeper pain, why labels like “addict” can keep people trapped, and how to rebuild your life one small empowered step at a time and much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Connor Beaton is a men’s life and relationship coach, the founder of ManTalks and is one of the leading voices regarding helping men become the healthiest and best version of themselves. Today on the show we discuss why so many men feel lost right now, how the pressure to provide can distort a man’s sense of worth, why self-leadership is the real foundation of confidence, how porn, weed, alcohol, and impulse-chasing become substitutes for deeper pain and connection, why men need challenge, fitness, and depth-oriented friendships to grow, and how to stop living in the golden handcuffs of comfort and start moving toward what you’re actually capable of and much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Rena Malik is a board-certified urologist, pelvic surgeon and content creator. Today on the show, we discuss why people are having less sex and feeling more disconnected, how porn, dating apps, and OnlyFans are reshaping intimacy, why erectile dysfunction can be an early warning sign for deeper health issues, the role of testosterone, sleep, stress, and exercise in sexual health, how couples can build better intimacy through honest communication and novelty, and why sexual health is really a reflection of your overall health and much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Peter Salerno is a licensed psychotherapist, author, and internationally recognized expert in personality science and pathological relationship dynamics. He specializes in the assessment of personality pathology and recovery from manipulative and coercive relationship abuse. He is the author of Cruelty by Nature, Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance, and The Nature and Nurture of Narcissism and was featured as an expert in the Hulu series Ted Bundy: Dialogue with the Devil. His work integrates cutting-edge personality science with practical, trauma-informed education for survivors and clinicians. Today on the show we discuss how manipulation starts long before most people recognize it, the first internal signs that someone is distorting your reality, the difference between normal conflict and intentional abuse, why love bombing can become a psychological trap, how predators use speed, guilt, empathy and confusion to keep people stuck, why smart and successful people are not immune to being manipulated, and the first steps to rebuild your nervous system, self-trust and identity after a toxic relationship and much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Light Watkins is a bestselling author, speaker, podcast host, and mindfulness expert who’s all about helping people find presence and fulfillment from the inside out. He’s the author of five books, including Bliss More, Travel Light, and his newest, The Year You Transform. Today on the show we discuss why real transformation doesn’t come from blowing up your life, how small daily actions create lasting change, why success won’t fix what’s broken inside, how discomfort builds resilience, and why presence, authenticity, and falling in love with the process are the real keys to becoming who you’re meant to be and much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Stan Efferding is an IFBB pro bodybuilder and has his bachelor of science in psychology and exercise science from the University of Oregon. Stan is a multiple all -time world record holding powerlifter and has been training high school, Collegiate, and Professional athletes for over 25 years. He has conducted over 200 seminars in 14 countries and in all 50 states. Today on the show we discuss the biggest lies people believe about cardio and fat loss, the simple habits that quietly transform long-term health, and why most people are making weight loss way harder than it needs to be. We also get into the hidden behaviors wrecking sleep, the surprising connection between stress, blood pressure, and social media algorithms, plus the health markers almost nobody pays attention to until it’s too late. Stan explains the difference between looking healthy and actually being healthy, challenges some of the internet’s most popular nutrition narratives, and shares the practical strategies he uses with elite athletes and everyday clients to improve energy, body composition, and longevity and much more Today’s sponsor: Fatty15: Get an additional 15% off their 90-day subscription Starter Kit by going to https://www.fatty15.com/DOUG and using code DOUG at checkout. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Doug Ellin is the creator, writer, director and executive producer behind HBO’s Entourage, the hit series that ran for eight seasons and later became a feature film. Today on the show we discuss the untold story behind Entourage, why the show became so much bigger than Hollywood, the friendship dynamic that made people feel like they were part of the crew, the cultural shift that changed how people look back on the series, the hidden pressure that comes with fame and success, what it really takes to survive rejection in Hollywood and much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Catherine Price is an award-winning health and science journalist, speaker, and #1 New York Times bestselling author best known for her work on screen/life balance and phone addiction. She's the founder of Screen/Life Balance® and has written several major books including How to Break Up With Your Phone®, The Power of Fun, Vitamania, and The Amazing Generation (co-authored with Jonathan Haidt). She also writes the Substack newsletter "How to Feel Alive" and her TED talk on fun has surpassed 5 million views. Her work has been featured in outlets like NPR, The New York Times, Good Morning America, CNN, The Today Show, TIME Magazine, and The Wall Street Journal, among many others. Today on the show we discuss: how social media apps are engineered to keep us hooked, why your phone can feel so hard to put down even when it’s hurting your life, how dopamine triggers like novelty, likes, comments, streaks, and endless scrolling hijack attention, why Snapchat may be especially dangerous for kids, how excessive phone use impacts anxiety, focus, sleep, relationships, and real-life connection, and the simple steps Catherine Price recommends to break the cycle and build a healthier relationship with your phone. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices