Transcript
Amy Porterfield (0:01)
Hey there.
Jay Schwedelson (0:02)
Welcome to the Amy Porterfield Show.
Amy Porterfield (0:11)
People get nervous about unsubscribes, and then we react to the loudest voice in the room, which is a horrible thing to do. So here's a stat that you want to plant in your mind. Over 90% of unsubscribes people say, take me off your list. Are from people who have not opened or clicked on one of your emails in over six months. These are not your people. People are allowed to move on. People allowed to change their lives.
Jay Schwedelson (0:35)
First, I want you to know that I just recorded this entire intro with no audio. Yeah, I did the whole seven minute intro. I was on a roll and then I went to Riverside to make sure it was saved correctly and there's no audio. So I just tell you this to say if that's ever happened to you. Tech issues are a nightmare and I'm really frustrated. But, you know, second time's a charm. So here we are. I want to take you back to 17 years ago. Yeah, 17 years ago, I was still at my corporate job, living in San Diego. I was already planning to leave. I was already starting to think of, how can I be my own boss? What could I create? What am I going to do? I had already started my exit plan, but I wasn't exactly sure when it was all going to come together. And so around that time, I signed up for my very first online marketing event. Frank Kern was the host of this event. And I didn't know Frank at the time, but I was so excited. I paid for the ticket with my own money because I was going there to learn how to start my own business. And I thought, you know what? I got to get in the room. I got to get in the room, meet some new people, figure out, like, who I need to know in order to get the kind of education that I needed in order to start this online business. And I just knew I needed to be in proximity. So even though I'm an introvert, I found myself in a massive hallway that opened up to this ballroom for this event. But in this massive hallway, all the doors were closed because I was the first one to arrive to this event. No one was there yet. Now, the Amy today is not the first person to arrive at an event. The Amy, 17 years ago. Oh, heck, yeah, she was. Someone recently called me a teacher's pet, which I thought was a compliment. Like, yeah, I always sat at the front of the room. I tried to get good grades, I raised my hand, asked all the questions, cringe. But that's not really who I am today. However, back in the day, I was the first one there. I found myself in this big empty hallway, super nervous about my first Internet marketing event. And a woman came in, and she was early as well. And we started to chat. We instantly connected, and we were chatting about our businesses. And she was asking me all these questions. And so I told her, I'm thinking about starting my own business. I don't know what I'm going to do yet, but I wanted to be at this event. I wanted to learn from the best. And so she kept asking me all these questions. And then finally she said, okay, hold on. And she grabbed her notebook, scribbled down her website, ripped it out of the notebook, and kind of shoved it into my face. And she said, go to my website after this event. You'll see. I have a free guide all about how to start doing. I think it was video at the time. She was teaching people how to make your videos great or something with starting a business. So she's like, go there, download my free guide. You're going to love it. It's just what you need. I remember this moment so vividly in my mind. I remember it one because it was Marie Forleo, and we have been friends for 17 years now. My very first mastermind I ever paid for was Marie's Mastermind. I became a B school affiliate for many, many years. Love that program. So it's kind of fun to think where we met and where I was in my life when we met. But also, I loved how personal she made growing her business. And really, to this day, if you were in a hallway with Marie, she'd probably do the same thing. She's still that same girl, which I love. But I love that she made it so personal. She asked me all these questions about me. She knew exactly what I needed, and then, boom, she gave me a solution. And the reason I was thinking of this story today is because today's episode is about personalizing your marketing, specifically your email marketing. Even more specific, your email newsletter. And I want to talk about the difference between a brand newsletter and a personalized newsletter and what that looks like and why personalization has become so incredibly important in today's landscape. And I'll just tell you one reason. AI I love AI I support it. I use it every day. My team uses it. But it also makes people cynical. Am I talking to a bot or am I talking to a human? Is that really you dming me, Amy, or is it manychat? I mean, people are very, very cynical and they don't trust like they used to. And so really understanding what needs to happen for your audience to trust you is an important conversation we need to continue to have. But I can promise you personalizing your marketing, and it goes both ways. Making people feel seen and heard and allowing people to see and hear you as the mentor, the guide, the coach, the trainer. I think both ways are really important. So having a personalized newsletter, allowing people into your world is one way to build that trust and create real relationships with your audience. So here's the deal. I don't yet have a personalized newsletter. You can bet that I want to have one. And it's. It's in the works, down the pipeline. And because I don't teach anything that I don't do, I wanted to bring in an expert. And this expert happens to be a very good friend of mine. His name is Jay Schwedelson. And every time I get on a call with him, he just makes me laugh. I think he's one of the funniest guys I know. But he's also incredibly talented. So you might have heard me talk about one of his websites that is insanely popular. It's called Subject line dot com. If you're not using it, then thank me later. You're going to be addicted. I will never, ever send an email out that I haven't ran through subjectline.com. it has actually helped over 15 million people test subject lines. Okay, I actually said that wrong and I should edit it out, but I'm not going to. It's had 15 million tested subject lines ran through it. I might have been 10,000 of those, but 15 million. Yeah. So they tool. It knows what it's doing. It's so good. So he's the creator of Subject Line.com and he's also the founder of Guru Media Hub, which hosts the world's largest email marketing conference, which is totally free, by the way. It's had over 50,000 people attend annually. And here's the cool thing. If you're looking for a brand new online marketing podcast, don't you dare go anywhere from this one. But if you want another, another one, he has a podcast called do this. Not that. It's one of the top five marketing podcasts in the US and it's known for blending pop culture, humor, and then data driven marketing. So one of the things that I love about Jay is he loves reality tv, he loves pop culture. So every time I talk to him, that is essentially what we are talking about. So I Love his podcast. Highly recommended. And Jay lives in Boca Raton, Florida. Okay, listen, I had to look this up because I thought that's where the Golden Girls lived. And so when I think of Boca, I think of, like, a big, really cool retirement community with, what do they call them? Snowbirds that go to Florida in the winter. So I feel like Jay lives among, like, the Golden Girls. But I looked it up. Do you know where the Golden Girls really lived? Can you guess? Like, say it out loud. Where do you think the Golden Girls lived? They lived in Miami, Florida. So also, did you know that they were in their 40s when they were recording that? Which really blows my mind. I thought they were much, much older, so I don't know. Anyway, Boca Raton is not where the Golden Girls lived. But guess what? It is where Jay lives. So it won't make you wait any longer. Let's welcome my very good friend, Jay Schwedelson. Listen, I've got to tell on myself because for the last 15 minutes, you have seen me stumble through this technology. I couldn't get my camera to work, and then I couldn't get my mic to work. Then I got up and down, up and down. And then Scout started barking so loud we had to stop three times. So thank you for being so patient.
