Why is it so hard to parent differently than how you were raised—even when you want to?

In this episode of Art of Raising Humans, Kyle and Sara Wester explore how generational parenting patterns form, why they’re so difficult to break, and what it actually takes to create lasting change.

These patterns aren’t character flaws, they’re wired into the nervous system through repeated experiences. When stress rises, many parents find themselves reacting in ways they swore they wouldn’t.

Drawing on insights from Tina Payne Bryson and Dan Siegel, this episode explains what’s happening in your brain during those moments and how to interrupt old patterns in real time.

You’ll learn practical, everyday strategies to regulate your nervous system, repair when things go wrong, and build new patterns that shape a healthier family legacy.

Because lasting change doesn’t come from trying harder, it comes from understanding what’s driving your reactions and practicing something new.

In this episode:

Why generational patterns are stored in the nervous system
How stress and emotional flooding trigger old reactions
What “repair” actually does to rewire the brain
Practical steps to build new parenting habits over time

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How to Break Generational Parenting Patterns Without Repeating What You Grew Up With