Host 1 (1:38)

Yeah.

Host 2 (1:38)

Not talking about it with each other, just trying to avoid it and because you just don't want it to ruin relationships.

Erica (1:45)

Aren't your parents in that situation where,

Host 2 (1:47)

I mean, the mom's not really talking to my dad about who she's watching going for?

Erica (1:52)

Is she not talking or is she completely lying?

Host 2 (1:54)

She's just not talking about it.

Erica (1:57)

Does your dad think she's voting one way? Is he sure she's voting one way?

Host 2 (2:01)

I don't know. I just know that she's not really telling him.

Host 1 (2:06)

It's not really lying if you don't say anything.

Erica (2:11)

Hey, Erica.

Erica (Caller) (2:13)

Hello.

Erica (2:14)

Good morning. How are you?

Erica (Caller) (2:16)

I'm finding yourself.

Erica (2:17)

Good.

Host 2 (2:18)

Now, I had it mixed up this morning earlier when we talked about you. Your parents are the McCain supporters.

Erica (Caller) (2:23)

Right.

Host 2 (2:24)

And then boyfriend's parents are the Barack Obama supporters.

Erica (Caller) (2:28)

Right.

Host 2 (2:28)

Got it.

Host 1 (2:29)

I'm trying to figure out if your voice is sarcastic and like, oh, I'm fine, how are you? Or if you really had a good weekend. That doesn't sound good. So what happened?

Erica (Caller) (2:44)

Well, let me tell you what happened.

Host 1 (2:45)

Okay.

Erica (Caller) (2:47)

His parents came and picked me and him up from his apartment. We drove over to my parents house. They saw the sign on the yard and they totally blew it off. You know, so we ate dinner, got in the house, we ate dinner and everything went fine. During the dinner we had really good conversation until the end. My dad is like, oh, so I hear you guys are Obama supporters.

Erica (3:21)

So you did have the talk with your dad before? The first time he knew this was when he saw the sign.

Erica (Caller) (3:27)

Say that again.

Erica (3:28)

We had said on Friday. We had sort of like gave you the advice to have the talk with your dad before he got to the house to see the Obama sign. So did you do that or was the first.

Erica (Caller) (3:38)

No, I did, I did. And my mom knew and they were, they acted as if they weren't gonna say anything.

Host 1 (3:48)

Okay.

Erica (Caller) (3:48)

So my dad starts this conversation and my boyfriend's parents are like, yeah, we are, but you know, we're not gonna talk about that right now. Okay, you know, whatever. And then my dad goes on and is like, well, why don't you want to talk about it? You don't know enough about it.

Erica (4:06)

All right, so let me.

Erica (Caller) (4:12)

And then he had the nerve to say, well, you know, things are going to get worse if Obama, you know, gets in, going on and on and on.

Erica (4:23)

Now, did your boyfriend have the same talk with his dad that you had with yours? That. Look, they're McCain supporters. We're just gonna avoid it during dinner. Yeah.

Host 2 (4:34)

Okay.

Host 1 (4:34)

And let me get this close. This is at your parents house, right? Okay. Because I mean, that also plays a role because since it's in their own house, they feel comfortable enough to challenge their territorial boy. But if he was the guest in doing that. Right.

Erica (4:47)

Okay. Right.

Erica (Caller) (4:50)

So I, I got up and I just ended up. I was like, we're going to catch a movie, we have to go, you know, and I just asked his parents to drop us off.

Erica (5:03)

So you cut the dinner short then?

Erica (Caller) (5:04)

I haven't talked to my dad at all.

Erica (5:06)

So you cut the dinner short and said, we're gonna go see a movie instead of finishing the dinner out?

Erica (Caller) (5:10)

No, we had finished the dinner.

Host 1 (5:12)

It was at the end of the dinner.

Erica (Caller) (5:15)

That's why I was like, you're so random. Like, why? It was just, he's just horrible. I don't even know why he did that, why he pulled that. It was almost purposeful. Because we had just finished dinner.

Host 1 (5:27)

So you said that. Now, did you ever have a conversation with your dad? Because I know you said he haven't talked to him. Did you ever have the. I don't know. Did he ever explain himself or.

Erica (Caller) (5:37)

No, I haven't talked to him since Saturday.

Host 3 (5:39)

You don't need an explanation. Like, everybody is hardcore for one person or the other thinks that they can talk to talk anyone else into voting for that. He's just one of those people, no offense, had to let it. He's just one of those passionate people.

Erica (5:52)

Couldn't let it go. Couldn't let it go. We should have said this also on Friday, too. In a dinner like this, I hope there wasn't any wine or alcohol being served at all, because normally you want to do that just to settle everybody down a little bit, but in a case like this, it just stirs up the juices.

Erica (Caller) (6:06)

Right. We did have a little wine, though.

Host 1 (6:08)

And this week's gonna be bad.

Erica (6:10)

Yeah.

Erica (Caller) (6:11)

Yeah. So.

Erica (6:13)

So now there's this lingering tension between the families now,

Erica (Caller) (6:18)

kind of sort of. His parents were just like, wow. I don't know if they have tension, but they were just like, wow, that was kind of awkward.

Erica (6:29)

So his family sort of just took the high road on the whole thing. Said, we're not gonna talk about it.

Erica (Caller) (6:33)

Right.

Host 2 (6:34)

I wonder if anything will change after the election, if it'll be more tense between them or less.

Host 1 (6:40)

Maybe you guys should have dinner on

Host 3 (6:41)

Tuesday or not, and you can all watch the results come in together

Host 1 (6:48)

now. I think they need to cool it off even after the election, because I remember the last election, people were pumping their fist, you know, at the results of the last one. And if you weren't happy with the last one, then that was a little resentful. And that happened a day after.

Erica (7:00)

There's so much at stake. I mean, if you're passionate about your candidate, you really feel like the country will be going in the right direction if your candidate is elected and it's going right into the. Into the wrong direction if it's not, you know?

Erica (Caller) (7:14)

But I think it went to a whole another level. My dad, like, totally disrespected my boyfriend's family. What do you not know enough about it? Like, that was totally disrespectful.

Host 1 (7:27)

Have you talked. I mean, if your boy. Has your boyfriend. I, like, treated you any differently after that? Because sometimes, you know, it may. I don't know. Hopefully he's. Or is he not blaming you for what your dad.

Erica (Caller) (7:38)

I want to deal with my. Was my dad. Which is understandable.

Erica (7:44)

That's why I say there's gonna be this lingering tension between the two. Because, yeah, actually, what he did was pretty disrespectful.

Host 3 (7:49)

And I would also avoid the parents between now and then. Cause the last thing you need is your dad saying to your boyfriend, so, who are you voting for? Or his parents saying that to you? Like, just stay away. It's only next Tuesday. We're a week and a day away.

Erica (8:05)

Yes. Let it go.

Host 3 (8:06)

Lay low. And on Wednesday, it doesn't matter.

Erica (8:08)

Right. All right, Erica, thanks for sharing with us.

Host 2 (8:11)

Thank you.

Erica (8:11)

Talk to you later. Bye. Bye.

Erica (Caller) (8:13)

All right. Bye.

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