Vault: Guys Panel Part 2: Woman ask men dating questions

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Episode Title: Vault: Guys Panel Part 2: Women Ask Men Dating Questions
Date: June 17, 2026
Host: The Bert Show
Panelists: Bert, Dolvett, Brian, Dutch, Jesse, Lauren, Kiana

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Episode Overview

In this lively and candid episode of The Bert Show, the cast hosts a "Single Guys Panel" featuring several single men (and a few women) fielding pressing dating questions from female callers and in-studio co-hosts. The honest, humorous, sometimes blunt responses from the male panel demystify "guy logic" around texting after a date, clarity around exclusivity, handling mixed signals, and what really attracts men. The conversation maintains a playful yet real tone, providing practical takeaways for anyone navigating modern dating.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Texting After a Great Date

Timestamps: 02:07 – 04:06

• Question: Should a woman always wait for the guy to call/text after a date?
• Panel Takes:
  • Dolvett: "If a guy wants to see you, he will drag himself through a nuclear holocaust to want to be with you." (02:28)
  • General Consensus: Sending a brief text saying "had a good time" is fine; it’s classy and shows you’re cool—don’t overdo it.
  • Avoid Games? Panel is split—some argue "Everybody plays games," (03:10, Dolvett & Jesse), while Brian insists on genuine communication.
• Notable Moment: Friendly debate on whether constant game-playing is inherent in dating culture.

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2. Dating Exclusivity: Should Women Disclose If They’re Dating Multiple People?

Timestamps: 04:07 – 07:11

• Do Guys Assume Women Are Also Dating Around?
  • Brian: "Girls, you need to be dating more than one person in the beginning." (04:46)
  • Dolvett: “Don’t say anything,” (05:19) about seeing other people—wait until the topic naturally arises, typically after several dates.
• On When to Discuss Exclusivity:
  • Wait for the man to bring it up, or bring it up yourself after the relationship feels more serious.
  • Dutch: “With some guys, though, some guys will not ever say anything as long as they have to.” (06:36)

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3. When You Know It’s Not Going to Work

Timestamps: 07:14 – 08:28

• Bert’s Advice (from married perspective): "When you know it's not going to work anymore, get the hell out quick..." (07:56)
  • Don’t stay in relationships out of comfort or habit; there’s a huge dating pool—move on if you’re not feeling it.

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4. Dating Virgins—Men’s Honest Reactions

Timestamps: 08:33 – 10:23

• Caller Question: Are experienced guys turned off by dating a virgin?
  • Brian: "No way in hell would I take the virginity away from any girl... If you do, you are a tool bag douche from the word go." (08:39)
  • Dolvett: Men feel guilt if they don’t intend to stay long-term; fear of emotional attachment from the woman is a concern.
  • Lauren: Wishes the “virgin bomb” wasn’t dropped early—only bring it up when things actually get physical.

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5. Why Did He Ghost Me? (Suddenly Stops Texting/Calling)

Timestamps: 10:53 – 12:53

• Caller’s Dilemma: All is going well, then he disappears.
  • Dolvett & Dutch: He found someone else or sees you as a backup/booty call (11:08).
  • Bert: "At the end of the day, does it matter? ... If he's not calling and he's not texting, he just stopped. Why do you need an answer? It’s over." (11:12)
  • Men admit to occasionally circling back for "round two" but say if someone stops communication, move on.
• "Women need closure," which men typically don’t require.

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6. When Do You Owe an Explanation for Breaking Things Off?

Timestamps: 13:02 – 14:07

• Lauren & Bert: If it’s early and you haven’t gotten serious (just a couple dates, no big intimacy), no explanation needed.
• If there’s been emotional intimacy or more than a handful of dates, a simple, honest message is best.

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7. Trust Issues: Give Trust Upfront

Timestamps: 14:10 – 14:29

• Brian: "Give 100% trust up front. Don’t make it something somebody has to earn... Give. It's theirs to destroy." (14:10)
  • Don't go into new situations guarded because you'll never find connection.

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8. Do You Have to Dress Like a ‘Whore’ to Get Attention?

Timestamps: 14:33 – 15:58

• Panel: Looks play a role, but "if you’re hot, you’re hot" (Jesse, 14:50). Men will talk to women regardless of attire, but more revealing clothes do attract more attention—sometimes the wrong kind.
  • Brian: “Pretty face goes a long way.” (14:57)
  • "Don't mask insecurity by dressing up; just be yourself," advises Dolvett (15:37).
• Bert: Some men become insecure about provocative dressing after getting together; don't tolerate that.

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9. Women Going Out Alone—What Do Guys Think?

Timestamps: 16:22 – 18:26

• Caller: Newly single, feels awkward going out alone.
  • Brian: “She’s a huntress... She's trying to get hers too. If you're by yourself, that means you’re prepared to hook up.” (17:16)
  • Dolvett/Dutch: It's perceived as being open to meeting men. Doesn’t always mean she wants to hook up, but that’s the impression.
• Dutch's Gentle Advice: Start slow, find friends to go out with first.

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Notable Quotes / Memorable Moments

• Dolvett: "If a guy wants to see you, he will drag himself through a nuclear holocaust to want to be with you." (02:28)
• Brian: “Girls, you need to be dating more than one person in the beginning.” (04:46)
• Bert: "When you know it's not going to work anymore, get the hell out quick." (07:56)
• Brian: “No way in hell would I take the virginity away from any girl... If you do, you are a tool bag douche from the word go.” (08:39)
• Bert: "At the end of the day, does it matter?... If he's not calling and he's not texting, he just stopped. Why do you need an answer? It's over." (11:12)
• Brian: "Give 100% trust up front. Don’t make it something somebody has to earn... Give. It's theirs to destroy." (14:10)

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Useful Timestamps for Key Segments

| Segment | Timestamp | | ------------------------------------------------ | ----------- | | Texting After a Date | 02:07–04:06 | | Dating Exclusivity / Disclosure | 04:07–07:11 | | Breaking Things Off / Moving On | 07:14–08:28 | | Dating Virgins – Honesty from Guys | 08:33–10:23 | | Sudden Ghosting Explained | 10:53–12:53 | | When Explanations are Owed | 13:02–14:07 | | Give Trust Upfront | 14:10–14:29 | | Does Dressing Sexy Matter? | 14:33–15:58 | | Going Out Alone as a Woman | 16:22–18:26 |

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Tone and Style

• The panel is direct, candid, occasionally irreverent, and funny.
• Answers are often unvarnished but delivered with good humor and a sense of wanting to help.
• Women on the panel and callers push back, opening up real conversations about expectations and double standards.

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Takeaways

• Be authentic in your interactions. One polite, genuine text after a date is fine—don’t stress or strategize.
• Don’t rush exclusivity or overshare. Let relationships develop naturally; only discuss serious topics when the relationship itself feels serious.
• Don’t stick around "just in case": If you know someone’s not right, move on for your own sake.
• You don’t have to dress provocatively to be noticed; confidence is more attractive than clothing.
• Going out alone signals to some men that you’re open to meeting someone, but do what feels right for you.
• Trust up front, but be prepared to walk away if someone violates it.

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Overall, the episode offers a frank, valuable look into how men approach dating, why they do what they do, and how women can best navigate the mixed signals and sometimes confusing behaviors of early romance.

Transcript

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[Brian]

Listen, it's the Vert show.

[Bert]

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[Brian]

Yeah, come on.

[Bert]

Dolvett is here. Brian Duke and we have. Okay, Dutch.

[Dutch]

Hey,

[Bert]

that's no statement about you, dude. Than so if you have a question for our single guy panel then give us a call right now. 404-741-Q100. Although the lines are pretty jammed right now. Hey Jesse, what's up?

[Caller]

Hey, I was just wondering after a date, you guys have a great time, everything goes good. Should you always wait on the guy to call you or text you or like always.

[Heather]

Always.

[Caller]

Not even like, hey, had a good time? What are you doing tonight? I'm not talking about like 100 creepy

[Dolvett]

texts or anything, Mikey. From swingers.

[Jesse]

Yeah, don't do that.

[Dolvett]

If you want to. After the date, if you have a good time, sure. Send a note. Hey, had a great time. Good to see you. Let's leave it at that. At the very most, if a guy wants to see you, he will drag himself through a nuclear holocaust to want to be with you and to want to see you.

[Jesse]

I already know what that is.

[Dolvett]

I mean, he will absolutely do anything and go to the end of the earth if he wants to hang out with you.

[Bert]

Like, does it do you any good? Because what she's saying is, I mean, what you just said was even just a one liner saying, hey, thanks a lot, that's fine. Why even do it then?

[Dolvett]

Well, I mean, that's fine. Just acknowledging that, you know, you had a good time. Or you can if you want to leave the guy guessing. I mean, go completely radio silent.

[Jesse]

No, don't play games.

[Brian]

You had a good time. Say you had a good time.

[Dolvett]

But you say, don't play games. Everybody plays games.

[Brian]

No, no, no.

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[Dolvett]

Yes, they do.

[Unknown Male Panelist]

Yes, you do.

[Dolvett]

Yes, they do.

[Jesse]

Everybody.

[Dolvett]

Everybody.

[Kiana]

Everybody.

[Jesse]

Do you play games?

[Unknown Male Panelist]

Everything's a game. Do you play games?

[Dolvett]

Absolutely.

[Jesse]

Do you play games?

[Kiana]

Absolutely.

[Unknown Male Panelist]

It is.

[Dolvett]

And girls in this town are smart. Girls know what they're doing. I mean, they've been exposed to so much BS from guys like me. They know, they know where it's going.

[Brian]

But that's because you are the, no offense, you are the gamer. You're thinking, we're all gamers. But I don't think that you're not a gamer. Totally not.

[Jesse]

There's a guy who's completely committed when he's in a relationship.

[Dutch]

Thank you.

[Brian]

I'm about to work out at your gym. $4. No, I, I, I disagree with that. I think that you should text after I've had two dates in probably the past two weeks where girls did hit me with the text. Had a really good time. It was good. Seeing this was a lot of fun. And all it tells me is, okay, she's cool, she had a good time. That's checking in, but leave it at that.

[Dolvett]

Yeah, absolutely had a good time.

[Jesse]

I loved you. Soon. I love the conversation. Don't give me all that. Just, I had a good time. That's enough.

[Bert]

That's all you need.

[Brian]

That's all you gotta do. And that's classy and it's cool.

[Bert]

A little dude bait, that's all that is.

[Dolvett]

Yep.

[Bert]

Okay, Jeff.

[Caller]

All right.

[Lauren]

I've got a question about the full disclosure on dating. Like, you guys say, girls should assume that if you guys are dating that they're dating other people. Do you guys also assume that about women?

[Dolvett]

I do, yep.

[Lauren]

That they're dating other people. And what is that? Is that a good thing or is that a bad thing?

[Brian]

I love it.

[Dolvett]

It's a great thing.

[Jesse]

It's a good thing. It says that, you know what, you're in the hunt, so to speak, as opposed to hun. So it, you know, you, it qualifies you or not. It qualifies you, but it puts you at a certain. Okay.

[Dutch]

Makes it more attractive.

[Dolvett]

Quarterback controversy.

[Dutch]

If they have options. Because if they have options, it makes them more attractive. Like, well, I'm not the only game in town.

[Jesse]

You already think she's attractive. That's why you approached her in the first place.

[Brian]

It takes, you know what it does? It takes the pressure off. Because if I'm going out with you and I know you're dating other guys and I'm like, she's not going to go heavy at me at first. It gives me time to figure out if I even like you. If I decide I do like you, then I'm confident in who I am, that you're going to figure out that I'm the better guy for you and you're going to let the others go. But until I figure it out, it allows this thing to be very relaxed. Girls, you need to be dating more than one person in the beginning.

[Lauren]

And I think women have a hard time with that because they feel like if they don't say something about it, then they're doing something sort of disloyal or dishonest or whatever. What, what does a woman say or not say in that situation?

[Dolvett]

Don't say anything.

[Lauren]

Don't say anything.

[Bert]

It depends on the situation. At some point it's going to have to come out, though. I mean, if you, I mean, I don't know if it's seven dates or eight dates. Yeah. But eventually you're going to have to have that.

[Narrator/Advertiser]

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[Jesse]

I mean, you wait for him to

[Bert]

bring it up though, right?

[Lauren]

You wait for him to bring up

[Jesse]

what it comes, it comes on interest. You know, you, as you, as you get more and more interested in a person, you're on date number five. You're on date number seven.

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[Jesse]

You know, as you're on these dates and you're finding that you're kind of brushing the other guys off. You'll probably say to him, you know what? Just to let you know, I have been or was dating someone. But I like where we are right now. Be honest, be classy, be yourself.

[Bert]

But we are. We all agree. Are you guys all agreeing that let the guy bring it up?

[Dolvett]

Yeah, but we're talking seven, eight dates down the road. That's a couple weeks. This isn't after we had drinks after work during happy hour the first time and you're all of a sudden, I dated seven guys.

[Brian]

This has been the best hour of my life. I've been on the phone, in the bathroom. I've gotten rid of everybody. This is awesome.

[Bert]

So the advice really that listen to this single women, is that it doesn't ever hurt for you to wait to define the relationship. Let him do it. He'll eventually come to you and say,

[Lauren]

are we going to eventually bring it up?

[Bert]

Yes.

[Dolvett]

If it's going to work and you're cool, it will define itself. You're not going to have to worry about that. It'll just let it happen.

[Brian]

Let it breathe. Say it again.

[Dutch]

I would say with some guys, though, some guys will not ever say anything for as long as they have to.

[Unknown Male Panelist]

How long are we supposed to wait for that?

[Bert]

Enjoy that time.

[Dutch]

And there is no right time with Dovette. Saying is that you kind of have to feel it if you're feeling if the girls. If she is at a point where she's letting the other guys go and she stopped calling him back and is starting spending more time with this with you as one person, then that's about the time she says, by the way, we're not super exclusive, but I've stopped sleeping with other people. So they go, you can still go out on a date as long as you don't sleep with them.

[Brian]

And then, you know, you still feel it. Right.

[Dolvett]

Well, my best. My best friend is a girl. Her name's Jennifer. And we actually just had this conversation this week. And she's got this guy. She really likes him, you know, but he's not the one. I mean, he just isn't the one. She likes a lot of things about him.

[Bert]

But did he know that until just now?

[Dolvett]

Well, he may know it now. We won't say her last name.

[Jesse]

We met Lucy.

[Dolvett]

Yeah. So, you know, the thing is, she's asking me. She's like, you know, I don't know. I mean, what do I do? Do I continue seeing the guy? She was like, you know, we're having sex together. But I don't know if this is going to make it long term. But I don't really want him sleeping with other people. And so I'm like, well, you don't have that right. I mean, you just don't.

[Bert]

Please, let me give this advice. As a guy that's been married for 13 years, let me give this advice to the single population of Atlanta. When you know it's not going to work anymore, get the hell out quick, because there is no, there is no use in staying in a relationship that's not going to be long term for you. This is a city filled with 5 million people, hundreds of thousands of single people. You're gonna be married eventually. Go out and date now. Now do it. Don't stay in a relationship. That's not gonna work. No, absolutely.

[Jesse]

That's true.

[Brian]

No, you don't wanna waste any time.

[Caller]

If you'd like to make a call.

[Brian]

That person hung up.

[Kiana]

Yes, I would.

[Bert]

That's gonna be a good one right there. She wanted to know if an experienced guy is turned off by dating a virgin.

[Brian]

Ooh, good question. I'll take this one. Absolutely. And no way in hell would I take the virginity away from any girl. No guy should. No guy should do that. Unless. And I'm saying that to any guy. If you do, you are a tool bag douche from the word go. Because she's going to have that awkward look on her face. She might even cry. She might scream, I don't know what. But you know why I don't know? Because I've never done it and I won't do it. If you want to date me, you better be with me.

[Lauren]

Why does that even have to be a topic of conversation?

[Brian]

It's going to come up because it's going to be awkward and something that's going to be.

[Lauren]

So she doesn't want to sleep with you. Like girls that aren't virgins aren't going to want to sleep with you.

[Dolvett]

There's a.

[Brian]

No, that's not true.

[Lauren]

Like, why does. But why does virgin have to bring that in conversation? That is a frustration. Frustration for me. Women who have either very little experience or are virgins, like, wear that like some sort of badge of honor. Just shut your mouth about it.

[Heather]

Right?

[Lauren]

Then it's never an issue.

[Dolvett]

Right? Don't, don't.

[Lauren]

I mean, until you get to the point where maybe you want to get physical or whatever. But like you said, that's seven or eight dates down the road and then you're talking about a completely different thing. I don't think you need to drop the virgin bomb until you've been dating

[Dolvett]

for a couple months. In men's eyes, if you're dating someone that's, you know, between the ages of 25, 35, whatever it may be, and she comes at you and says, I'm a virgin, I've never had sex, you're automatically going to be like, whoa, no way.

[Bert]

Why? What does it say to you?

[Dolvett]

Says that, you know, if you do wind up having sex with this person, first of all, you're gonna feel guilty for stealing her virginity if you don't have intentions of carrying it through, you know, to the finale.

[Brian]

True.

[Dolvett]

Of getting married. And secondly, if you do have sex with her, then she's gonna be very clingy. She's gonna be emotionally attached to you forever. That's just the guy's mentality.

[Lauren]

That's honest.

[Brian]

Crying in the bedroom.

[Lauren]

Thank you for being honest.

[Brian]

Crying in the bedroom. Never cool. Girls don't do it. If you cry in the bedroom, you're done.

[Dolvett]

I always cry.

[Brian]

I don't care what. She won't hold till you start crying.

[Dolvett]

I cry.

[Caller]

I crawl out.

[Lauren]

I guess it's never been that good for her.

[Brian]

You know, there's been about 40.

[Jesse]

Wow.

[Brian]

I know there's been about y'.

[Caller]

All.

[Brian]

I know it's happened. Everybody in this room. Cuz I can spot players. I've had probably about 30 or 40 girls that have gotten emotional and I'm like, I'm getting out of this eject tomorrow. It has happened to all of us. And that's when we eject. We're gone. We are plotting our escape right there.

[Dolvett]

Absolutely.

[Bert]

Here is Lauren. Good morning, Lauren. You are on with the Single guys panel.

[Caller]

Hey, Bert. Show and friends, what's going on?

[Jesse]

Hey, Laura.

[Caller]

I actually just wanted to know, like, if you're really into a guy and you guys are dating for around like three months and everything's really great, and all of a sudden he just stops calling, stops texting. What does that mean?

[Dolvett]

He found up something. He found a better opportunity.

[Brian]

There you go. Yeah, that's a simple.

[Dutch]

He's with somebody else.

[Jesse]

No call.

[Bert]

At the end of the day, does it matter? I mean, if he's not calling and he's not texting, he just stopped. Why do you need an answer? It's over.

[Unknown Male Panelist]

Women need closing.

[Caller]

Well, I mean, because like, he keeps popping up, you know, like when you start forgetting them, they come back around and they'll text and see what you're doing. If you want to Out. But it never comes around to that.

[Dolvett]

That's a little game we like to call push pull. You know, it's. He can look at it. You. You're probably a booty call to the guy. He's got other options that he views as better than you. And he's. I mean, that's just the way it is. I mean, it's tough love. But he. On a Sunday night, when he wants a Sunday girlfriend, that's when he calls you. I mean, he'll probably send you or a text late night when he's out.

[Bert]

Isn't it weird to you guys to listen to a call like that and say, and she legitimately didn't know the answer to that?

[Dolvett]

Yeah.

[Bert]

Like, it seems so obvious.

[Unknown Male Panelist]

Women need closure. If it was opposite and a girl stopped texting, you wouldn't. You want to know why?

[Jesse]

No.

[Dolvett]

We know she's not digging. We know she's not into you. Essentially, that just happened to me.

[Dutch]

These guys are like. That never happens to me.

[Dolvett]

They always just keep bothering me.

[Lauren]

I don't know,

[Dutch]

what is this? Not calling me, Kidding me?

[Brian]

But, you know, if you're cool, stupid question. If you're nice guys, a lot of times play it. And I think these guys do the same thing. I'm gonna be nice to every girl. There's not one girl I haven't gone out with that I can't go back out with because I didn't do anything stupid. I didn't yell at her. I didn't. I wasn't mean to her. I was cool. And what I did is I just quit calling. And when you do that, it freaks you girls out, and it allows us to come back for round two when we want to keep in the door. How many girls have you run into six months later in bucket or something like, God, you know, I lost your number. I was going through something. I'll be honest with you. Next girlfriend call back, or my father was sick, and the next thing you know, bam, you're right back, and three days later, you're not calling her again.

[Dolvett]

Right, Exactly. And that's.

[Jesse]

That's just disrespectful.

[Bert]

Look at you.

[Dolvett]

The combination of chivalry over here for you guys.

[Lauren]

How many dates do you have to go on before there's, like, an explanation required? Like, if you're like, if a girl's dating a guy for a little while, and then all of a sudden she's kind of, like, not really feeling it, do you just stop calling? At what point does it deserve an explanation?

[Bert]

Because that's not working for you.

[Lauren]

It's not working. This was a debate because Wendy had a date with a single dad.

[Bert]

Yeah. And I think that's a differ. I think that's a different category because

[Lauren]

Bert was saying that she needed to tell him she wasn't interested anymore. And I said just stop texting her.

[Bert]

Because for me, like, when you're a single dude, I mean, your time is just so compacted, you know? So rather than you can play games more with guys that don't have kids cause they've got the time to play with it. With a single guy, you just tell him. Cause he just doesn't have time for it.

[Dolvett]

Right.

[Brian]

Yeah, I agree.

[Jesse]

It depends on how much you disclose in every date. You know what I mean? The more you expose how intimate, you know, you can kind of judge it on that too, you know, I don't know how many dates you've been on with him or something like that.

[Unknown Male Panelist]

Just one.

[Jesse]

Just one.

[Dolvett]

Well then, yeah, you don't know the explanation.

[Jesse]

There is no, it's not necessary.

[Bert]

Has he text back or called or anything?

[Unknown Male Panelist]

Nope.

[Bert]

Yeah, you don't.

[Jesse]

So it's a wrap. Wrap it up.

[Brian]

I think the best advice for girls, period. And I think in any relationship, give 100% trust up front. Don't make it something somebody has to earn. Life's too short. Give. It's theirs to destroy. But trust him in the beginning because the guy may not be a player. You got to give somebody a shot. If you're going in there and you got your defense up, it's. You're not going to find it.

[Jesse]

Or he may be done with being a player.

[Brian]

True.

[Bert]

Here is your life, Anna. Good morning, Anna. You're on the Birch Show. Q100.

[Caller]

Hey, guys, my question is, do you have to dress like a whore to get attention?

[Bert]

You don't have to, but it helps.

[Unknown Male Panelist]

That's a great question because I mean, you can go out in jeans and a T shirt and guys won't hit on you, but if you go out with your boobs out, guys will hit on you.

[Jesse]

I don't necessarily treat you. I think jeans and T shirt girls can go out with that as well. I think if you're hot, you're hot. You know what I mean?

[Brian]

Pretty face. Pretty face goes a long way.

[Jesse]

A guy will talk to a girl that works at McDonald's like, we don't care.

[Dutch]

You could be wearing sweatpants and a flannel shirt.

[Jesse]

Uniform.

[Dolvett]

Seriously, it always makes me laugh. Like if we'll go to dinner at Genki or something, which, you know, is always a scene. You get all these younger girls that come in there, and they're all geared up like they're going to some, like, banquet or something. And they've got the Get It Girl gear on, you know, their butt and their boobs hanging out.

[Jesse]

Get it girl gear?

[Dolvett]

Yeah, the Get It Girl gear.

[Brian]

You mean the BP uniform?

[Dolvett]

Yes, exactly.

[Brian]

I date a lot of those. The BB girls.

[Dolvett]

Yeah. And so everything's bb. And my girlfriends that I'm with, they're just chilling. Like, jeans and just outside of prayer, a shirt. And it's like, I love my.

[Jesse]

What do you.

[Dolvett]

What are you doing getting all dressed up? You're trying to make a. Trying to put on a show here. And you don't need to do that. I mean, you're a pretty girl. Don't try and mask whatever insecurity you got by trying to dress up. You're going to eat sushi at some dive bar.

[Bert]

I've heard this before also, like, when I first met him, I was dressing provocatively, right? I was showing everything. And then we started going out, and then he was annoyed by the way I was dressing.

[Brian]

That's an insecure guy. You don't have time for that. Insecurity and jealousy don't put up with those two qualities in any man.

[Jesse]

Straight up.

[Brian]

Straight up. That is. That is going to be destructive. If a guy's going through your cell phone, who are you talking to? Any of that? And so many guys do it, man. You're a piece of property. And that guy's insecure. Let him go.

[Dolvett]

That's bad news.

[Bert]

We got time for one more. We could do this for the next three hours. Hey, Heather. Good morning. You're on Q100.

[Heather]

Hey, good morning. I love your show.

[Bert]

Thank you.

[Heather]

I am newly single. I was married for many years and actually started dating the guy when I was 13. So I never dated. I've never dated. And I'm, you know, I'm so new.

[Caller]

Excuse me.

[Heather]

To all of this. And I don't have any single friends, really. All my friends are married. So my only option is to go to a bar or, you know, just someplace after work and hang out at the bar by myself. And I just feel like that screams insecurity or that I'm, you know, desperate.

[Jesse]

I'm gonna give you Brian's number.

[Unknown Male Panelist]

That's a great question. No, I'd like to go out by myself, too.

[Bert]

All right, so what. What is your impression of women that go out by themselves?

[Jesse]

I don't. I'VE gone out by myself. I don't know if it's.

[Unknown Male Panelist]

I don't, I don't know.

[Dutch]

I don't know.

[Bert]

What are you thinking of a woman that's sitting at a bar by herself though?

[Jesse]

I don't, I don't know.

[Brian]

She's a huntress.

[Dolvett]

Yeah.

[Brian]

Yeah. She's trying to get hers too. I mean, if you're by yourself, that means you're. You're prepared to hook up.

[Unknown Male Panelist]

Yeah, that's not necessarily true.

[Dolvett]

That's what we perceive it as.

[Dutch]

Maybe not hook up, but definitely.

[Bert]

The question is, Wendy, the question is for the guys, like, what is their impression? Not really what your intention is, but what do these guys think if they see a woman in a bar?

[Dolvett]

If I see some cougar with, you know, bolt on sitting at the bar by herself, I'm like, oh, she's in it. In it to win it, son.

[Brian]

He's talking about fake boobs. Fake boobs, yeah.

[Jesse]

You know what? He has many disease.

[Dolvett]

No, he has many terms.

[Bert]

So it's a sign that she is ready to roll.

[Dutch]

She's ready to meet a guy. Whether or not she's gonna sleep with you, that's whatever. But if she's alone at a bar, she's meeting a guy. That is her prime goal. The girls don't go out to a bars to hang out and watch a game. They go out to meet.

[Jesse]

So why do we, how do we solve this person's issue though?

[Bert]

Well, she's just so.

[Brian]

You can't fix everybody.

[Jesse]

Yes, sir.

[Dutch]

Here's what I would say. I would say, you know, start slow. Start slow. Meet some friends at work. Meet some friends at work. Go out just after work and hang out with them. And start slow. Build some friends to go out with. That's the hard part.

[Bert]

Thanks, Dutch. You've been great, man.

[Brian]

Appreciate it.

[Caller]

Thanks.

[Brian]

Really good.

[Bert]

Thanks, Brian. Appreciate it, man.

[Dolvett]

Yep. Dolvett, my pleasure.

[Bert]

Where you work, dude?

[Jesse]

Bodyscorping.com $5.

[Bert]

And Southside. Thanks for coming over, man.

[Brian]

And I'm gonna give you from Boltons. I call it man made.

[Dolvett]

There you go. Dealer add ons, whatever you want to say.

[Brian]

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