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Episode: Vault: How Did The Bert Show Do After Giving Up Their Vices?
Air Date: March 9, 2026

Episode Overview

This episode centers on The Bert Show team reflecting on “Vice Week,” during which each member gave up a personal vice. The segment dives deep into their physical, emotional, and psychological experiences as they attempted—and occasionally struggled—to abstain from things like diet pills, sleeping aids, cigarettes, sugar, and smartphone dependency. Each cast member candidly shares their challenges, temptations, and emotional revelations, offering a raw glimpse into dependency and self-control.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Host’s (Burt) Struggle with Sleep Medication (Lunesta)

• Initial Ease, Growing Difficulty: The host recounts starting the week with manageable sleep, but his anxiety about not using sleep medication increased as the week progressed, causing more severe insomnia.
  • “Like I was really prepared for it on Monday and I slept okay...Since I haven't been taking those Lunesta pills, it has been worse and worse the rest of the week.” (01:01)
• Psychological Challenge: He highlights the mental component of sleep issues—fear and anxiety about not sleeping become self-fulfilling.
  • “A lot of it is just in your head. It's the fear that you have that you're not gonna sleep that is actually keeping you up.” (01:36)
• Commitment to Quit: Despite the difficulties, he resolves not to return to using Lunesta, even asking Melissa to hold onto his prescription to remove temptation.
  • “I'm not planning on going back...I'm going to ask you to keep the Lunesta through the weekend.” (02:14)

2. Wendy’s Struggle with Diet Pills and Underlying Depression

• Physical and Emotional Withdrawal: Wendy describes experiencing illness, night sweats, and a pronounced emotional crash without her diet pills.
  • “I haven't been sick for two and a half years since I've been on diet pills...I woke up burning up and sweating. I've had that this week.” (02:58)
• Pills as Emotional Crutch: She openly acknowledges that the pills serve as an antidepressant for her.
  • “They give you that feeling of...happiness, you know what I mean?” (04:51)
• Self-Awareness and Resistance: Wendy is torn between understanding her dependency and the powerful comfort the pills provide.
  • Host: “So you're almost using this pill like an antidepressant, almost.”
  • Wendy: “Yeah...it makes me feel better.” (04:00)
• Comparison to Listener Stories: She mentions being impacted by another segment about painkiller dependency, drawing parallels to her own situation.
  • “I'm like these pills are doing the exact same thing for me that those pain pills did for Stacy.” (07:05)
• Trust and Therapy Issues: Wendy shares her distrust of therapists, citing past betrayals and difficulty opening up, which deepens her struggles.
  • “I don't even trust a therapist at this point...I don't trust people with certain information.” (08:54)
• Notable Emotional Moment: Wendy gets tearful, describing the loneliness and the effort to keep up a positive front.
  • “It's hard to admit as a person because I'm always trying to be a good person, be happy...But there's a period when you go home and you're just not happy. It's tough to deal with.” (08:22)

3. Melissa’s Battle with Sugar

• Temptation Everywhere: Melissa deals with constant exposure to sugar at work and praises her own self-discipline for resisting temptation.
  • “I have not had a breakdown...watching everybody eat pastries this morning in front of me, did not break down and have one, even though I'm starving.” (10:28)
• Personal Responsibility: She emphasizes that fighting a vice depends on self-control, not expecting others to accommodate you.
  • “A lot of times with some of these vices, you have to...have incredible self discipline...it's up to you.” (11:13)

4. Jen’s Attempt to Quit Smoking

• Admitting Defeat: Jen candidly shares she only managed to abstain from smoking for one day, and acknowledges lacking the willpower to quit in this context.
  • “I don't have the self discipline that Melissa does...I've still been smoking.” (11:54)
• Not Ready to Quit: She admits she wasn’t mentally prepared for the challenge and participated more out of group momentum than personal readiness.
  • “I wasn't really ready in my head...it wasn't really my decision.” (12:43)

5. Jeff’s BlackBerry Dependency

• Giving In: Jeff confesses that his attempt to forgo his BlackBerry, used for business and organization, was unsustainable.
  • “I've got too much going on to not have it.” (13:16)
• Not a True Vice?: The cast debates whether this constitutes a real “vice” or just a modern necessity.
  • “I think yours isn't really a vice.” (13:10)

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• Host: “It's the fear that you have that you're not gonna sleep that is actually keeping you up.” (01:36)
• Wendy: “I need this pill to make me feel better. I was begging my friend to find me one because I don't have them in my house.” (03:51)
• Wendy: “I just sat here and listened to Stacy all day yesterday, and it really hit home. I'm like these pills are doing the exact same thing for me that those pain pills did for Stacy.” (07:05)
• Wendy: “It's tough to deal with, and nobody will get it. No one understands the feeling. So it's really hard to explain, and it's hard to admit.” (08:22)
• Host: “Something about this may be part of your depression right here is that you...don't have the ability to trust anybody.” (09:23)
• Melissa: “You have to have incredible self discipline because you see people around you doing it...it's up to you.” (11:13)
• Jen: “I don't have the self discipline that Melissa does and I just don't.” (11:54)
• Jeff: “I've got too much going on to not have [the BlackBerry].” (13:16)

Timestamps for Important Segments

• 00:45–02:18: Host discusses sleep medication withdrawal, anxiety, and commitment to stay off Lunesta
• 02:39–07:24: Wendy’s account of life without diet pills, emotional impact, and parallels to addiction stories
• 07:27–08:39: Listener Brandy’s similar struggles with energy pills and discussion of emotional dependency
• 08:52–09:53: Wendy’s issues with trust and therapy; raw emotional admission
• 10:28–11:23: Melissa’s sugar withdrawal journey and the challenge of resisting temptation
• 11:45–12:43: Jen openly discusses her failed attempt to quit smoking and readiness to change
• 13:01–13:53: Jeff’s failure to stay off his smartphone and discussion about whether it’s truly a vice

Overall Tone and Takeaways

The episode is strikingly open and honest, with cast members—especially Wendy and the Host—laying bare emotional vulnerabilities and ongoing struggles. The tone is supportive, sometimes humorous, but not shying away from the darker aspects of dependency and self-medication. Listeners get a real sense of the personal stakes involved in giving up vices, from the physical withdrawal to the deeper psychological roots of these habits.

In Summary

This “Vault” episode offers an intimate, sometimes raw look at the process of giving up personal vices. Each cast member approaches the challenge with varying degrees of success, honesty, and introspection. Listeners are left with the takeaway that addressing a vice requires more than just willpower; it involves understanding the deeper needs these behaviors serve—and facing those truths, sometimes in the company of friends, sometimes with the help of professionals.