The Bert Show: Vault – Interview Cher (Part 2)

Date: October 28, 2025
Host: The Bert Show Cast
Guest: Cher
Summary by: Podcast Summarizer

Episode Overview

This episode features the second part of The Bert Show’s interview with the iconic singer and actress, Cher. The conversation dives deep into her personal life, her relationship with her child Chaz (formerly Chastity), her experiences with parenthood, thoughts on LGBTQ+ issues, reflections on her career, and candid answers to rapid-fire questions. The mood is open, honest, and witty, capturing Cher’s unique perspective and humor.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Cher’s Relationship with Chaz & Coming Out Narrative

(00:00 – 02:04)

• Open, Honest Family Dialogue:
  Cher discusses being interviewed by Chaz (then Chastity) for The Advocate, describing the experience as profoundly honest because “there’s no way you can lie” to your own child.

  • Cher: “She knew the right questions and...she has been there for the whole time.” (00:48)

• Cher’s Initial Reaction:
  Cher admits her reaction upon learning that Chaz was a lesbian was surprisingly difficult, despite having many gay friends.

  • Cher: “I had a very un-Cher like reaction...It took me a while, you know, to really get to that point, honestly.” (01:18)
    She underscores the importance of honesty for other parents and why sharing this journey openly mattered.

2. Advice to Families on Coming Out

(02:04 – 03:01)

• For Kids:
  Cher recommends coming out first to the most receptive family member to build support and confidence.

  • Cher: “If you have an uncle or a brother or a sister...who’s going to be the most receptive...pick someone who’s going to at least be the most on your side.” (02:08)

• For Parents:
  She urges parents to remember their love, to avoid overreacting, and to give themselves and their children time.

  • Cher: “You have to remember you really love your children...they are basically the same people...They need your support.” (02:27)
    She reflects personally on feeling “out of the loop” when her family knew before she did.

3. Cher’s Relationship with the LGBTQ+ Community

(03:01 – 03:27)

• Cultural Icon Status:
  The host asks why the gay community is so drawn to Cher.
  • Cher: “Gay guys either like you or they don’t...They just either bond with you or they don’t.” (03:04)
    While the host jokes it’s her “fabulous clothes, fabulous attitude and fabulous songs” (03:12), Cher insists it’s more than that.

4. Rapid-Fire Q&A with Cher

(03:27 – 04:52)

• Turning Down Thelma and Louise:

  • Cher: “Yeah, I actually turned it down because I didn’t like the ending. That was really stupid.” (03:30)

• Living with Dyslexia:

  • Cher: “True.” (03:42, on having dyslexia)
  • She describes managing scripts by relying on a photographic memory but struggling with numbers:
    • “I get confused when I’m dialing long distance because I always transpose the numbers...But once I read something, I pretty much can commit it to memory.” (03:47)

• Napster’s Impact on Music:

  • Cher: “It was a bad thing...other people get paid for their work...Napster kind of just pulled the rug right out from under you.” (04:04)

• Hearing Herself on the Radio:
  Cher shares she’s still excited every time her songs play, perhaps even more so as she gets older.

  • Cher: “Especially after your sell-by date, you know, it gets more amazing to you. I’m always thrilled...” (04:28)

Memorable Quotes & Moments

• On Parenting and Coming Out:
  “You have to take a deep breath and kind of sit back and go slowly and try not to overreact...The rough thing for me was that everyone in my family had known about it and I was the last person.” – Cher (02:27–02:54)

• On Being a Gay Icon:
  “I’m not so sure that’s enough. You know, there’s something else that happens...” – Cher (03:16)

• On Regret and Career Decisions:
  “If they belong to you, they come to you. And if not, they don’t...” – Cher on turning down Thelma and Louise (03:35)

• On Lifelong Excitement:
  “I always get excited when I hear a song on the radio.” – Cher (04:28)

Timestamps for Key Segments

• Cher discusses interview with Chaz: 00:00–00:48
• Her reaction to Chaz coming out: 01:15–01:51
• Advice for kids and parents: 02:04–03:01
• The LGBTQ+ community connection: 03:01–03:27
• Turning down Thelma and Louise: 03:27–03:41
• Living with dyslexia: 03:41–04:02
• Napster’s effect on music: 04:02–04:17
• Hearing herself on the radio: 04:17–04:41
• Farewells & closing thoughts: 04:41–04:52

Tone & Style

Cher’s responses are candid, humorous, and reflective. The hosts keep the energy light yet sincere, blending thoughtful discussion with playful banter.

For New Listeners

This episode offers an insightful, heartfelt conversation with Cher—revealing her vulnerabilities as a mother, her wisdom from decades in show business, and her inimitable sense of humor. Whether you’re a fan or curious about Cher’s personal journey, this episode provides both entertainment and thought-provoking moments.