Vault: Listeners Give Their Remedies For Women With A Low Sex Drive

Summary

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The Bert Show Vault Episode: Listeners Give Their Remedies For Women With A Low Sex Drive

Date: March 31, 2026
Cast: Bert, Kristin, Abby, Cassie, Tommy, and the Bert Show Crew
Theme: An open discussion between hosts and listeners about challenges women face with low sex drive—exploring causes, societal stigma, and listener-suggested remedies, both humorous and earnest.

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Episode Overview

This lively, candid episode tackles a rarely discussed but common issue: what remedies exist for women experiencing a low sex drive? The Bert Show team invites listeners to share their first-hand suggestions, insights, and humor, while also breaking down medical and societal perspectives on female sexuality. The conversation is punctuated by laughter, memorable quotes, and genuine curiosity about what might actually work, offering a mix of practical advice and real-life listener testimonials.

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Key Discussion Points and Insights

1. Understanding Low Sex Drive in Women

[01:05 – 06:13]

• The stigma around discussing women’s sex drive is addressed, especially compared to male equivalents like Viagra and Cialis.

• Quote – Kristin:
  “I think for guy, I mean, in society, I think guys have a pill…But a lot of times for women, they may not talk about it because there’s really not anything for them…anything when it comes to intimacy you’re embarrassed to talk about if there’s a problem.” (01:20–01:37)

• The crew reviews self-assessment questions to gauge whether a woman’s sex drive is genuinely “low” or just different than in the past, referencing a list from “Seduction Labs.”

  • Questions probe satisfaction, desire, change over time, and whether these changes are bothersome—with a clear note that if concerns exist, it might be worth digging deeper.

• Medical and situational contributors listed: medications (especially birth control), injuries, alcohol or drugs, recent childbirth, and menopausal symptoms.

  • Quote – Abby:
    “It depends on which [birth control] you use and which hormones they have…and how those hormones and those levels of estrogen affect your body. …What the pill does is it tricks your body into thinking it’s pregnant so it doesn’t get pregnant.” (05:37–05:50)

2. Listeners Call in with Remedies

a. Herbal Supplement: VEDOX

[07:04 – 09:18]

• Caller (Becky) shares her enthusiastic endorsement of a product called Vidox/VeDox.
  • “It increases dopamine levels in about 20 minutes after you take it. So you just don’t really care about anything. Your kids don’t bother you. Your job doesn’t bother you. You have no stress issues.” (07:39–07:47)
  • Reports heightened sensations, increased desire (“I was looking at my fiancé and said, ‘Bedroom, now.’”), and lasting effects (“It lasts till the next day.”).
  • Stresses it’s herbal, no known interaction with birth control, available at “the herb shop in Smyrna.”
  • Panel is amused and impressed by her energy and detailed knowledge.

b. Convenience Store Shot: Stimula XR

[09:45 – 10:43]

• Caller: Describes using a small orange and black bottle—a liquid called “Stimula XR.”
  • “Oh my God, your men would not know what hit him.” (09:58)
  • States it works within 20 minutes and lasts “a long time.”
  • Unclear about ingredients; doesn’t care as long as it works.
  • Available at most convenience stores (“It’s got a man and a woman on the front.”).

c. Weight Loss / Energy Pill: xplc (Contains Yohimbine)

[10:47 – 12:49]

• Caller (Charity), a personal trainer: Accidentally discovered xplc (a weight loss/fat burning pill with yohimbine) heightened her sex drive, leading to unexpected urgency during workouts.

  • “...if you’re not doing anything and you don’t have someone there with you, you have erotic dreams.” (11:31–11:40)
  • Yohimbine explained as an energizing herbal ingredient; also available standalone at supplement shops.
  • The panel draws a parallel to Viagra’s origin as a heart medicine that became famous for its “side effect.”

• Quote – Bert:
  “Well, we gave you four solid ones right there.” (13:20)

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On the lack of marketed products for women:
  “Because men have Viagra and Cialis and women don’t seem to have anything. At least that’s marketed.” (06:54–06:59)

• On describing herbal supplements:
  Becky (caller): “By the time I’m home, I’m looking at my fiancé. I said, bedroom, now.” (07:47–08:15)

• On self-awareness and the humor of it all:
  “Are y’all seeing the theme?” (10:33)

• Birth control discussion leading to laughter:
  “I know with my friends we talk about different forms of birth control…Why am I asking you?”
  “She looked at me also, she’s looking at me and I’m like, I can’t help you, Jen.” (05:14–05:19)

• On Georgia laws for herbal helpers:
  “That’s Georgia for you. No beer on Sunday. No sex ever.” (13:35–13:38)

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Timestamps for Key Segments

• Understanding and Assessing Low Sex Drive – 01:05–06:13
• Medical factors, Birth Control, and Hormonal Impacts – 05:14–06:13
• Listener Endorsement for VEDOX – 07:04–09:18
• Stimula XR Shot for Desire – 09:45–10:43
• Exercise and Yohimbine Discovery (xplc) – 10:47–12:49
• Panel Reactions and Recap – 12:49–13:44

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Takeaways

• There’s No One-Size-Fits-All Fix: The show highlights psychosocial, medical, and lifestyle factors, and listeners testify to diverse remedies—some herbal, some commercial.
• Humor, Honesty, and Community: The tone is open, relatable, and peppered with laughter, reinforcing that these conversations shouldn’t be taboo.
• Practical Resources: All listener-suggested products are to be posted on the show’s website for women interested in exploring options.

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Useful for:

• Women questioning their own desire and seeking non-judgmental advice.
• Partners wanting to understand and support their significant other.
• Anyone curious about non-pharmaceutical libido boosters.

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“I am curious, once we put that online, how many times that gets hit as opposed to everything else? …the phone line's lit up with women who tried something different because they had low sex drives. And I think that's probably an issue that is just not talked about.” – (13:02–13:20)

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For more listener suggestions and detailed product names, visit the show’s website.

Transcript

[A]

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[C]

The Bird Show.

[D]

All right, so maybe you're not sure if you have a low sex drive or not. Like some doesn't feel quite right, but you're not comfortable asking other women about it. So you're sort of just sitting there with your own thoughts, like, is it normal that I want to have sex this many times and not that many times or what's been going on?

[E]

And I think for guy, I mean, in society, I think guys, I mean, guys have a pill. So you know what, guys need some help or guys need some whatever. Then there's something for a guy to do. But a lot of times for women, they may not talk about it because there's really not anything for them. And then, you know, it's like you said anything when it comes to intimacy you're embarrassed to talk about if there's a problem.

[D]

I wasn't gonna go down this avenue, but I wonder if there are women that do. If there's like an herb or something that you take. And I don't mean that kind of herb. I mean like a vitamin or supplement. Like, that's a great point. Like, what are, what do women use as their quote unquote aphrodisiac. You know, we've got Viagra. If we need the help, we got Cialis. What do women have consistent thing?

[F]

I don't know, there's things you can use once you get started. That help?

[D]

I understand. I'm talking about like getting in. Yeah.

[C]

What about vodka? How does that help?

[F]

Tequila?

[C]

Does that work pretty well.

[F]

Meet my friend, Patron.

[D]

I wonder if women have any kind of like just something to obviously physically that stirs them up.

[E]

I have no idea. Obviously it's not something that is as known as like a Viagra or whatever. I forgot the name of the other pill, but with the smiley dude.

[D]

C. Alice.

[E]

Is that the dude?

[D]

I don't know, I'm just.

[C]

You mean the guy?

[E]

You mean the quick response? The 1950s smiley guy in the commercial?

[C]

Are you referring to the commercial of the guy who is promoting the commercial that's promoting Cialis? And the guy spends the rest of the commercial doing the least sexy things ever, like fishing and mowing the lawn and cleaning his.

[E]

That guy?

[G]

Yeah.

[E]

He's smiling.

[C]

Cialis works so well that I can completely distract myself scaling and gutting a fish that I just caught. And then I would go to my wife with stinky fish hands and she will still love me because I am so seatticed up.

[D]

Maybe there are some. Because the phone lines. There's a couple phone lines right now. So maybe it's women calling up to say, look, there is something you could take for that.

[E]

Okay.

[D]

404-7401. Q100. Okay, here's the list that was provided by Seduction Labs. Four quick questions.

[E]

I just imagine them in pink. I don't know. Seduction Labs in red or pink.

[F]

The Clinique makeup counter, but it's pink.

[E]

I don't know when you said that.

[D]

It sounds like a porn production company to me from Seduction Labs.

[E]

And they're only Jenna Jameson and they're only wearing those lab coats and really, really high stilettos.

[D]

Some of these must have been written because they're like so obvious that maybe you're just so into your head that you haven't like done a cross check on them. Okay, so here are some questions to determine whether you have a low sex drive or not compared to other women. All right. In the past, was your level of sexual desire interest satisfying to you? So have you ever been satisfied with

[F]

your own interest level?

[D]

Yes.

[C]

Okay.

[D]

Has there been a decrease in your level of sexual desire or interest? That seems pretty easy. Are you bothered by your decreased level of sexual desire or interest? Like, I think that there are some women that are married and they're just not into having sex with their husbands anymore. They're totally okay with it. Would you like your level of sexual desire interest to Increase. If the answer to any of these questions is no, then you don't have what's technically considered a low sex drive. If the answer to all of the questions is yes, then answer these.

[E]

Oh, I gotta go to page two.

[D]

Yeah, and any one of these can contribute to it. So maybe you have one or all of them in operation, injuries or other medical condition, any kind of medication you're on, drugs or alcohol. If you're taking more of that, then your sex drive goes down. Recent childbirth, menopausal symptoms. Don't they seem pretty obvious?

[E]

I guess. I mean, I don't know if a woman is feeling self conscious about it though. Maybe like you said, she's in her own head. She doesn't see that there may be reasons for it.

[F]

And back to the medication thing, I don't think that has to be post surgery because I know with my friends we talk about different forms of birth control, whether you're on pill or whether you use an IUD or whether you use. What are the other ones that people you put in right before, like a couple hours before. Why am I asking?

[E]

Yeah, she looked at me also, she's looking at me and I'm like, I can't help you, Jen. I'm sorry, are you talking about just

[C]

like a handful of stuff like a diaphragm.

[F]

A diaphragm, Diaphragm. Or women that use the.

[E]

Sounds like an SOS pad.

[F]

I'm trying to think of them all off the top of my head. But anyway, you get the point. Depending on which ones you use.

[D]

Coffee filter.

[F]

But seriously though, it depends on which ones you use and which hormones they have in them and how those hormones and those levels of estrogen affect your body. Because I mean, really what the pill does is it tricks your body into thinking it's pregnant so it doesn't get pregnant.

[E]

So it's a lot of women on birth control pills that have a lower sex drive because of it.

[F]

Yeah, yeah. And so if you're feeling like you have a low sex drive, it may be something you can talk to your doctor about, about changing up your birth control pill without, you know, without lapsing in protection and without lapsing and being covered, but to try something else, like a much more lower hormone. Because I found, like with different ones, it's very different.

[E]

Me too.

[D]

Right after, when I'm done with this list.

[F]

I know.

[E]

Why was I looking at you for birth control health? You've ever had to worry about sperm?

[D]

I say that.

[E]

Just say that. Just isolated.

[C]

Just so you know that Sentence is gonna bounce around inside my head for three.

[E]

Don't say bounce and sperm in the same.

[C]

Well, she just said the word sperm with such anger.

[E]

And, like, I know.

[C]

Oh, Melissa, like, you've never had to worry about sperm because it's something that's on Jen's mind.

[E]

Constantly worried about it 247

[D]

the way more. I think intriguing part of this whole thing is the initial question that you asked, like, what can women take?

[E]

Because men have via grand cialis and women don't seem to have anything. At least that's marketed if you have a low sex drive.

[D]

Okay, there are a couple of things here that might work out. Good morning, Becky, you're on Q100.

[G]

Hi.

[E]

Hey.

[G]

Good morning. Good morning. Here is an herb, and it's called Vidox for women. And it's at the herb shop in Smyrna. I know you can get it there for sure. It is absolutely amazing. It blew my mind. I'm still freaked out. I can't even believe it works as well as it does. And the funny thing is, I didn't need it. One of my friends gave it to me and I tried it and I was so freaked out over it, I said, oh, my God, this stuff's amazing.

[D]

All right, now, what is it called? Spell it very.

[E]

Yes, you better say that again. If women are like, oh, my God,

[G]

yes, it's V Dox. It's V, E, D, O, X. And I can even tell you a little bit about it because I did research on it.

[D]

Indeed. The floor is yours.

[G]

It increases dopamine levels in about 20 minutes after you take it. So you just don't really care about anything. Your kids don't bother you. Your job doesn't bother you. You have no stress issues.

[E]

Ever say that off the shelves today.

[G]

It increases blood flow, so you feel an immediate tingling sensation. Sensations heighten. All of a sudden, your desire goes through the roof. And the time I took it, I was about two hours before. And it was funny because it only takes about 30 minutes to work. And this is over an hour from my house. So by the time I'm home, I'm looking at my fiance. I said, bedroom, now. And he said, oh, my God, how

[D]

long did it last for you?

[G]

It lasts till the next day. Because it's an herb, it's in the system. It doesn't have chemicals in it whatsoever. So it really can be taken with any medication. I'm on birth control, so it doesn't even affect her birth control. It's quite remarkable. And they also just so, you know,

[E]

they actually should be their endorser.

[G]

That same line has some for men as well, but that stuff is unreal.

[C]

Are you on it right now?

[G]

No, I never had any today. But you know what? Today is my off day, so it's very likely I'm gonna go get some and play around with it. So, yeah, it's fun. All right, so it's fantastic.

[D]

V E D O X. V O X.

[G]

Yes.

[E]

And where do you find it again?

[G]

The only place I know right now for sure is the Herb Shop in Smyrna. It's on the corner of Concord and South Cobb Drive. In fact, I think their address is 3209. I can't believe that.

[E]

Lord.

[C]

You know what? Just drive to Smyrna and look for the traffic jam.

[D]

We will put these suggestions up online because a couple of them are coming in right now. So if you can't remember them in the car, then we'll get them up online right after the show. But that one is V DOX V E D O X. Thank you, Becky.

[G]

Thank you. Have a great day.

[E]

You, too.

[F]

That was a glowing endorsement, I know, from a very happy, perky woman I might welcome.

[D]

Look at the renewed energy in the show all of a sudden. Thank you. Wow.

[C]

Thanks for showing that with us.

[E]

I'm sure that, you know, I mean, it doesn't affect any of us in the room because I'm sure none of us are going to go get some V dogs today just to play around with this drive.

[C]

Own it, Kathy.

[D]

Good Morning. You're on Q100. Hi.

[G]

Good morning. How are y'?

[H]

All?

[D]

Good.

[G]

Okay. Women has got to try Stimula XR stimulants.

[F]

It's a liquid?

[G]

Yes.

[H]

It comes in just a little shot bottle.

[G]

Oh, my God. Your men would not know what hit him.

[D]

Really? Okay. Where did you get this?

[G]

Any convenience store sells it.

[D]

And what's it made out of?

[G]

I have no idea.

[D]

You don't even care.

[F]

How fast did it work?

[G]

I don't even care.

[F]

How fast did it work for you?

[H]

About 20 minutes.

[D]

And how long did it last?

[H]

A long time.

[D]

And is it the same type deal get all tingly. Tingly. Once you take it and it's time, yes. Really?

[E]

Okay.

[G]

You better be ready to go.

[H]

Really?

[E]

Dang.

[D]

These things are just loaded with, like, ginseng or something like that.

[G]

I don't know and don't really care.

[C]

Are y' all seeing the theme?

[D]

Yes. Okay, so it's Stimula xr.

[H]

Yes.

[D]

It's a little itty bitty Shot?

[G]

Yeah.

[D]

And what is the color of the bottle?

[G]

It's orange and black.

[D]

Okay, thank you.

[G]

It's got a man and a woman on the front of it.

[D]

And one last one here. Good morning, charity. You're on Q100.

[G]

Hi.

[H]

Hey. Good morning. I'm a personal trainer, and, you know, I train myself and I've been put on different type of weight loss pills or fat burning pills. But when I would take the pills, I thought it was. Oh, the workout was getting me all pumped up till my trainer put me on xplc. And during the workout, I had to run to the bathroom. That's how wrong it was.

[E]

Now, what is it again?

[G]

I was doing some leg extensions. I was like, hold up, hold up.

[H]

Okay.

[G]

I was like, okay.

[H]

And I called him about it, and I stopped taking them because it was really extreme. I told my sister, and she's a freak.

[G]

She was like, what's it called again?

[H]

I told my friend, she took them at night and it gives you. If you're not doing anything and you don't have someone there with you, you have erotic dreams.

[E]

What's it called again?

[D]

Yeah, let's go.

[E]

Let's.

[F]

Let's talk.

[D]

Let's go very slowly. Yeah, rewind.

[C]

Melissa doesn't really like the gym, but she's interested in the daylight.

[G]

Yeah.

[E]

Wait a second. If that's what happens when I work

[H]

out, the thing that's in it that builds your sex drive is called yohimbaline.

[D]

Okay.

[H]

For that xplc, I looked it up too, because it's made by Stacker. And, you know, Stacker always makes those little pills that's in the front of the convenience store. So I was like, you know what? You know how sometimes they have a medication, they realize it does more than one thing, so they market it in two different ways. Yeah, I think that's what they did with this xpl.

[C]

I think that's what Viagra. Didn't Viagra start out as a heart medicine?

[E]

It did. It did to increase blood flow, and they found that the side effect on their patients was that. So that's why they marketed it to the guys.

[C]

So guys started using them for the other thing, which would give them a heart attack, which would send them back to the hospital where they'd have to find a different pill for them.

[D]

So this again is xplc?

[H]

Yeah.

[D]

And the ingredient in it that you're looking for is yohimboline.

[H]

Yohimbine. Y o h, I m B I N e. It might say yohimbi. But if you see the yohim on there. That's what it is.

[D]

Can you take that directly? Like, is there a yohimba that you could just take without the other stuff?

[H]

Sure. If you go to a herb shop, they might have some.

[D]

Okay, that might work for you also.

[H]

You might not want to take it just by itself.

[D]

That was a productive 10 minutes.

[E]

I am curious, once we put that online, how many times that gets hit as opposed to everything else? Because I do think that this is probably, probably something because the phone line's lit up with women who tried something different because they had low sex drives. And I think that that's probably an issue that is just not talked about. You know what I mean?

[D]

Well, we gave you four solid ones right there. Hey, Becca.

[H]

There's actually a root. It's an herb that you buy straight out. You can buy it at any nutrition store. Gnc. The plant has actually been made illegal in the state of Georgia because it's so strong.

[C]

That's Georgia for you. No beer on Sunday. No sex ever.

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