A (2:19)

That's exactly right. He's. He can't do anything for.

C (2:21)

No, it's the one time that he has no control and cannot see her. And that's when she sends. I think that's also.

A (2:27)

That's a key right there so that you're gonna have the visual all day. And he can't or she can't capitalize on it right there. There's gonna be a couple of hours. So he says. Then a couple of weeks later, they are at a restaurant with a whole bunch of their friends. And it's about an hour long dinner and about halfway through, she skips out and she goes to the bathroom. It's a private bathroom, so not one of those nasty stall type deals. And she does the same thing. She takes just a real quick picture on her phone, sends it to him on his. And the caption just says, when dinner is over, dessert is waiting for you at home. So now he goes back to the table, she's right next to him again. He's constantly reminded of what's gonna. He can't capitalize on it right now, so he's getting more and more fired up. As dinner goes on, they get home, the hotness occurs again.

D (3:14)

Does this work the other way?

A (3:15)

I don't know. I think as guys we would say no, but I'd have to. I don't know. Does it.

B (3:19)

Yeah, I think so. Yeah, I think it definitely does.

D (3:22)

Well then I'll be right back. One of you ladies is about to get.

B (3:28)

I think for women though, I think for women we wouldn't need pictures. It would just be craftier words.

A (3:34)

Okay. Because the guys are visual, guys are more visual.

B (3:37)

But if you say things to us like what you're gonna do later, right? Just in a written out text message, I think that's just as exciting.

A (3:43)

She's done it a couple of more times than that. At Thanksgiving dinner at his parents house, she did it also saying basically, you know, like, when Thanksgiving dinner is over and we get home, man, are you gonna get it? She did at a formal event a couple of weeks ago also awesome. Where she pretends to go to the bathroom or whatever. And just a little sneaky kind of sexy photo and says, after the event tonight, I'm all yours. But like Melissa said, he can't capitalize on it right now. And all he can do is think of her and that picture for the next couple of hours. So when he gets home, it's a chase.

C (4:15)

There's a mental chase going on.

D (4:16)

But now there's a great opportunity for her to start jacking with him. Like, take a picture of her topless wearing those bright yellow dishwashing gloves, holding a turkey baster, and send the same thing.

C (4:28)

Now, that would be hot to you.

D (4:29)

This is weird. And then just write, like, 9:30 tonight, because he's gonna spend the rest of the day wondering if he should go into hiding or should go home.

E (4:36)

He needs to hold one of those kashi meals.

A (4:40)

So the bottom line, he says for him, is that he tried a couple of times in between these to where she would be at a different place. And she sent a sexy picture also, which was cool because those are always cool to get as a guy. But he said there's just something different when she's in another room and he's forced to be around her for 45 minutes, an hour and a half, three hours before the actual action takes place. Does that make sense?

B (5:04)

Yeah, absolutely.

A (5:06)

Hey, angel. Good Morning. You're on Q100. Hi.

E (5:09)

I do this for my husband. We've been together for 17 years.

A (5:12)

Wow.

B (5:14)

Congratulations.

E (5:17)

But, you know, you get to a point where things can get a little stale or whatever. And he was working days, I was working nights. And when I was at home, I would take pictures and send them to him at work or on occasion, make a video for him. And then I would send him a text message or a phone call and say, hey, you've got a prize when you come home kind of thing. And it's always, always on when that happens. He just loves it.

A (5:40)

Guys are visual, so if you do this anytime, it's gonna be a win. But his key for him was being next to her, not only sending the picture, but she was gonna be next to him. And there was nothing he could do about it for a couple of hours. So there's a little bit of a difference there, you know?

B (5:54)

Mm.

A (5:56)

Hey, Kerry, you're on Q100.

E (5:57)

Hey, guys. How are you?

A (5:59)

Good. How are you?

E (6:00)

Wonderful, actually. I'm sitting in my car laughing, because I actually work with my boyfriend, and we do this quite a bit. And it's as awesome for me as it is for him. And I'm telling you, for any couple, whether you're dating or you're married, it can spark anything.

C (6:21)

Can I ask a question? Is that how your relationship started?

E (6:24)

No.

A (6:25)

Okay. Yeah.

E (6:28)

Not at all. It actually, we only started this, I'd say, a couple of months ago, and he just randomly sent me something. And we don't do it all the time because obviously you don't want to just make that. Yeah, exactly. But, you know, he was on his way to a very, very important meeting and I ran into the bathroom real quick and took a cute little picture and sent it to him and said, good luck on your meeting. And it was just. It was. It's just fun. You just gotta keep a relationship fun and exciting and it's just a great thing to do.

A (7:07)

Sure. As I said, it's always gonna be welcomed. But the extra kicker here is the picture that you. That is delivered to him while he's still around you, you're in the other room or you're stuck at dinner together.

C (7:20)

Jeff's leaving the studio. That makes me nervous.

B (7:22)

But you wanna take a picture?

C (7:25)

I don't mean to interrupt. I'm just saying.

A (7:27)

Warning.

C (7:27)

Warning.

A (7:28)

I'm turning my phone off. Hey, the bird show.