The Bert Show — “Vault: Update On The Drama With His Sister-In-Law”

Pionaire Podcasting | November 10, 2025

Episode Overview

This episode revisits a unique and previously controversial storyline involving Eric, a man who began dating his former stepsister after their parents divorced. The hosts—Bert, Jeff, and others—catch up with Eric for an update on how the relationship has progressed, how their family and friends have reacted, and what the future might hold. The team promises to avoid judgment and debate this time, focusing solely on an honest update for curious listeners.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

Background Recap (01:06–03:23)

• The episode opens with a recap: Eric and his stepsister lived together from ages 10 to 18 while their parents were married for 8 years.
• After their parents’ divorce, both ended up back in Atlanta, reconnected, and eventually started dating.
• Eric and his partner are not biologically related; relationships of this nature sparked both criticism and support among listeners previously.
• Quote:

  “The only people that seem to have any problem with it are you guys and some of the listeners, which... is kind of getting a little irritating.”
  —Eric (03:15)

Eric Joins for an Update (04:30–05:36)

• Eric acknowledges some discomfort with the repeated public scrutiny but is open to providing an update.

• Eric’s partner is more “weirded out” by the ongoing public attention.

• The issue no longer feels strange to them but is made odd by outsider fascination.

• Quote:

  “I don't get the fascination with it. Like, it's not weird to us anymore.”
  —Eric (05:12)

Promises of No Judgment & Relationship Status (05:36–06:17)

• The show promises Eric this will be a “no-debate” update; just facts, no opinions.
• Listeners repeatedly ask for relationship updates despite the controversy.

How Friends and Family Have Reacted (06:17–08:03)

• Only one friend initially distanced themselves due to discomfort, but after talking with Eric and his partner, realized judgment was unwarranted.

• Both sides of the family have come around. Eric’s dad, and eventually her mom, accepted the relationship.

• Quote:

  “Even if people have been a little bit weird about it, have quickly sort of realized, like, oh, I'm being judgmental. It's not a big deal.”
  —Eric (06:41)

Listener Call: Similar Experiences (08:14–08:49)

• Jenny, a caller, shares she knows step-siblings who married and had children, validating Eric’s situation.

• Quote:

  “The stepbrother and stepsister got married. They have three beautiful children, two of whom are now married. Cool.”
  —Jenny (08:37)

Plans for the Future — Engagement? (09:04–10:20)

• Eric reveals he’s planning to propose, currently researching engagement rings.

• Both Eric and his partner have expressed their love; the relationship has grown “very, very, very serious.”

• Quote:

  “I've been actually pricing out some engagement rings… Thinking about getting engaged.”
  —Eric (09:14)

Is It Moving Too Fast? (10:20–12:14)

• The hosts question whether the relationship is progressing too quickly—but agree that, since Eric has known his partner for years, it feels more natural and less rushed than a brand-new romance.

• The analogy used: if two childhood friends dated after years of knowing each other, their speed would feel more reasonable.

• Quote:

  “I mean, I did. You know, I was in the same household with her for eight years. So I know I have a lot better sense, I guess, of who she is than I would with some stranger.”
  —Eric (11:28)

Family Dynamics and Memories (12:19–13:34)

• Discussion of how the wedding would create unique dynamics with step-parents becoming in-laws.
• Eric’s father is supportive, humorously noting he “loved her as a daughter and love her as a daughter-in-law.”
• Eric and his partner reminisce about childhood fights and inside jokes, now reframed in the light of their romantic relationship.

Episode Close — Final Status (14:37–15:12)

• Summary: an engagement is imminent; Eric and his former stepsister are still together and doing well.

• The hosts congratulate themselves for avoiding judgment and rehashing past debates.

• Quote:

  “Soon you will be marrying your former stepsister.”
  —Bert (15:01)
  “That's the plan.”
  —Eric (15:04)

Memorable Quotes & Moments with Timestamps

• “It was like, okay, there's a spark here. Is there anything wrong with this? No, there's not. And going on from there.”
  —Eric (03:51)
• “I kind of ... it's fine in a way ... but ... I don't get the fascination with it. Like, it's not weird to us anymore.”
  —Eric (05:12)
• "I've known her for so long and I know what she's all about."
  —Eric (11:34)
• “My dad actually just said, I told him I was thinking about popping the question and he said, you know, he loved her as a daughter and he'd love her as a daughter-in-law.”
  —Eric (12:27)
• “No judging. No judging. We just wanted to get an update.”
  —Bert (14:37)
• “That was to bite the tongue.”
  —Bert (15:34)

Key Segment Timestamps

• Recap & Backstory: 01:06–03:23
• Eric’s Update Begins: 04:30
• Family & Friends’ Reaction: 06:17–08:03
• Listener with Similar Story: 08:14
• Engagement Plans: 09:13
• Fast-Track Romance Questioned: 10:20–12:14
• Childhood Memories & Dynamic: 13:08–13:34
• Conclusion — Engagement Soon: 14:37–15:12

Summary

This episode provides a candid, judgment-free update on Eric’s ongoing relationship with his former stepsister. Listeners learn that, despite initial discomfort, families and most friends have accepted the couple; Eric is seriously considering an engagement. The pair reflect on their unique shared history, finding comfort and normalcy in their connection. The hosts commend themselves for resisting the urge to debate or judge, instead allowing the update to speak for itself.

For listeners new or old, the episode demonstrates The Bert Show’s blend of real-life drama, humor, and empathetic curiosity.