Podcast Summary: The BOB & TOM Show Free Podcast – B&T Extra: Alli Breen - Sexy Time

Episode Information

• Title: B&T Extra: Alli Breen - Sexy Time
• Host/Author: The BOB & TOM Show | Cumulus Podcast Network
• Release Date: April 30, 2025
• Description: A blend of comedy, talk, news, and sports, the BOB & TOM Show airs nationwide from 6 to 10 AM EST on-air and online. This episode features an extra segment, "Sexy Time," hosted by comedian Alli Breen, providing advice on love and relationships.

Introduction to B&T Extra and Guest Appearance

The episode kicks off with Christopher introducing the special segment, "B&T Extra," designed to offer listeners additional content they might have missed during the main show. Alli Breen, a stand-up comedian and host of "Sexy Time," is featured as the guest host for this segment.

Christopher [01:14]:
"Welcome back. It's another Bob and Tom extra. This is Christopher. ... it's Allie Breen with Sexy Time. It's on the way in just a minute."

Listener Letters and Relationship Advice

1. Living with Parents After Dating The first letter addresses the discomfort of dating a 50-year-old man who still lives with his parents, despite having a seemingly successful life.

Allie Breen [05:33]:
"Dear Ally, I met a guy at a bar the other day, super hot, about 50 years old... he lived with his parents. Isn't it weird that he didn't prepare me for this? Or am I being crazy?"

Discussion Highlights:

• Chick McGee [06:10]: Suggests it might be a transitional period, perhaps due to a recent divorce.
• Jessica Halsman [06:27]: Validates the listener's feelings of surprise and awkwardness.
• Dave Cooperman [07:04]: Reflects on personal priorities, humorously noting a preference for a nice car over an apartment.

Notable Quote: Jessica Halsman [06:27]:
"You have every right to be surprised by that."

2. Boyfriend Obsessed with Video Games The next letter discusses a relationship strained by a boyfriend's excessive video game playing, even during dinner.

Allie Breen [08:37]:
"Dear Ally, my boyfriend plays videos in every free second that he has... How do I bring that back without sounding like his mom yelling at him about playing video games all day?"

Advice Given:

• Dave Cooperman [09:02]: Suggests a digital detox weekend getaway.
• Pat Godwin [08:55]: Humorously recommends moving out as a solution.
• Jessica Halsman [09:02]: Emphasizes the importance of communication.

Notable Quote: Pat Godwin [08:55]:
"Move out."

3. Garlic Breath Issues in a Relationship A listener shares frustration over her boyfriend's love for garlic, which affects their intimacy.

Allie Breen [09:36]:
"My boyfriend loves food with garlic in it... Even when he brushes his teeth, it still stinks."

Discussion Highlights:

• Jessica Halsman [10:03]: Questions why the listener hasn't addressed the issue directly.
• Chick McGee [10:11]: Suggests bluntly expressing discomfort: "Have some gum, mouthwash..."
• Pat Godwin [10:14]: Offers a humorous take: "I give her the old garlic press, buddy. It's a sex move."

Notable Quote: Dave Cooperman [09:02]:
"Unplug them. ... rent a cabin in the woods. And if things don't work out, bring a small shovel."

4. Suspicion of Girlfriend's Infidelity The fourth letter involves suspicions that the listener's girlfriend may have slept with an old college friend, leading to trust issues.

Allie Breen [11:23]:
"Dear Ally, my girlfriend chatted with an old college friend who I believe may have slept with her. She denies it, but I'm not convinced."

Discussion Highlights:

• Pat Godwin [11:51]: Expresses shock and disbelief.
• Dave Cooperman [12:17]: Points out the potential loss of trust in the relationship.
• Jessica Halsman [12:26]: Labels the listener as "impossible," indicating strong disapproval of the girlfriend's behavior.

Notable Quote: Pat Godwin [11:51]:
"Oh, my God."

5. Revealing Swimwear During Family Vacation A letter describes discomfort with the listener's girlfriend wearing a tiny string bikini on a family vacation, attracting unwanted attention.

Allie Breen [12:37]:
"Dear Ally, my girlfriend wore the tiniest string bikini during our Bahamas vacation with my whole family. I don't need my family ogling her."

Discussion Highlights:

• Jessica Halsman [13:02]: Advises the listener to communicate directly with the girlfriend or even "Uncle Joe."
• Pat Godwin [13:36]: Humorously suggests avoiding such situations by not wearing revealing attire.

Notable Quote: Chick McGee [13:12]:
"I don't think you have problems with. You don't say something to her. You say something to Uncle Joe."

6. Girlfriend Strip Tease at a Club The final letter addresses discomfort when the listener's girlfriend removes her top at a strip club, contrasting with his expectations of behavior in such venues.

Allie Breen [14:45]:
"Dear Ally, my girlfriend wanted to come to a strip club with me and my friends. She ended up popping her top off, which upset me."

Discussion Highlights:

• Jessica Halsman [15:04]: Minimizes the issue, suggesting it's not unusual in certain states.
• Chick McGee [15:28]: Points out that patrons don't typically remove their tops.
• Pat Godwin [17:02]: Questions the necessity of such behavior in maintaining the relationship.

Notable Quote: Chick McGee [15:28]:
"Yes, a patron can take their top off."

7. Threesome Request The closing letter involves a listener contemplating suggesting a threesome with his boyfriend and his boyfriend's best friend, fearing it might end the relationship.

Allie Breen [17:22]:
"Dear Allie, I want to have a threesome with my boyfriend and his best friend. Will he think I just want to have sex with his best friend?"

Discussion Highlights:

• Chick McGee [17:43]: Encourages the listener to express his desires: "If you don't ask for it, you don't get it."
• Pat Godwin [18:05]: Warns about potential relationship fallout: "Be prepared to have your relationship be over."
• Jessica Halsman [18:21]: Supports the idea of seeking relationships that align with one's desires: "There's plenty of guys out there that'll be happy to do. No judgment from me, lady."

Notable Quote: Chick McGee [17:43]:
"If you don't ask for it, you don't get it."

Conclusion and Final Remarks

The episode wraps up with humorous exchanges among the hosts, referencing pop culture icons like Lala Kent from Bravo TV, and light-hearted banter about workplace etiquette and social media presence.

Christopher [19:23]:
"That's it for another Bob and Tom show. Extra. Catch us on iTunes, Google Play and Stitcher for Bob and Tom. Extra."

Final Quote: Chick McGee [19:58]:
"See, you've never had a real job. Give them Lala."

Key Takeaways

• Effective Communication: Many relationship issues discussed stem from a lack of open and honest communication between partners.
• Balancing Personal Desires and Relationships: Addressing personal needs and boundaries is crucial for maintaining healthy relationships.
• Humor as a Coping Mechanism: The hosts use humor to navigate and lighten the gravity of relationship problems, making the advice more relatable and engaging.

Notable Quotes with Timestamps:

• Jessica Halsman [06:27]: "You have every right to be surprised by that."
• Pat Godwin [08:55]: "Move out."
• Dave Cooperman [09:02]: "Unplug them. ... rent a cabin in the woods."
• Pat Godwin [15:28]: "Yes, a patron can take their top off."
• Chick McGee [17:43]: "If you don't ask for it, you don't get it."

This episode of the BOB & TOM Show's "Sexy Time" segment, hosted by Allie Breen, delves into various relationship dilemmas submitted by listeners. Through a mix of humor and candid discussion, the hosts offer advice and perspectives on navigating complex personal dynamics, emphasizing the importance of communication and mutual respect in relationships.