B&T Extra: Alli Breen with SEXY TIME

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Episode Information

• Title: B&T Extra: Alli Breen with SEXY TIME
• Hosts: The BOB & TOM Show | Cumulus Podcast Network
• Guest: Alli Breen, Creator of Sexy Time
• Release Date: January 7, 2025
• Description: In this episode of B&T Extra, Alli Breen joins Bob, Tom, Chick, Josh, and Ace to address listener letters related to relationship challenges. Combining humor with practical advice, the hosts and Alli delve into topics ranging from porn consumption in relationships to dealing with infidelity and stalking.

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Introduction to Alli Breen and Sexy Time

At the outset, Christopher introduces the segment and introduces Alli Breen, the host of Sexy Time, highlighting her presence from New York City and her connection to the OnlyFans platform. The hosts greet Alli warmly, setting a lighthearted and engaging tone for the discussion.

Notable Quote:

• Christopher [00:02]: "In case you missed anything on the big show today, Ally Breen with Sexy Time. It's coming up in just a minute."

Letter 1: Concerns About Partner’s Porn Consumption

The first letter addresses a woman worried that her husband watches a significant amount of porn featuring women who don't resemble her. She expresses concern over their infrequent sexual activity and questions whether she should confront him about his viewing habits.

Main Points:

• Frequency of Sex: The husband engages in sex two to three times a month.
• Porn Preferences: He watches porn featuring women who do not look like his partner.
• Potential Addiction: Concerns about whether this behavior indicates a porn addiction.

Discussion and Advice:

• Chick [03:35]: "I think he does have a slight porn addiction."
• Ace [04:27]: Suggests that the woman might need to entice him more into their sexual relationship.
• Chick [04:52]: Emphasizes that watching porn is a common way for individuals to imagine sex with others, not necessarily a reflection of their satisfaction in the relationship.
• Tom [05:04]: Proposes creative solutions like surprising him with a wig to add variety to their sexual life.

Notable Quotes:

• Chick [03:50]: "He does have a slight porn addiction."
• Tom [05:41]: "One of the best episodes ever of a sitcom was when Gloria put the wig on and all in the Family."

Letter 2: Ex-Stalking and Partner Support

The second letter involves a woman whose boyfriend's ex-girlfriend is stalking her through unwanted phone calls and texts. The boyfriend is unaware or dismissive of the situation, attributing the ex’s actions to a desire for him to reach out.

Main Points:

• Ex’s Behavior: Prank calls and mysterious texts from unknown numbers.
• Boyfriend’s Response: Claims ignorance and downplays the situation.
• Woman’s Concern: Feels her boyfriend should take action to protect her.

Discussion and Advice:

• Chick [09:54]: "I think he should absolutely tell her to knock it the hell off."
• Ace [09:59]: Suggests making her Instagram account private as a potential solution.
• Tom [10:03]: Humorously advises the woman to grow up and live her own life.
• Chick [10:20]: Stresses that the woman has the right to be upset and that her boyfriend should stand up for her.

Notable Quotes:

• Chick [09:54]: "He should absolutely tell her to knock it the hell off."
• Ace [10:00]: "You can make yourself private if it's that big of a deal."

Letter 3: Jealousy Over Boyfriend’s New Gym Trainer

The third letter discusses a woman’s frustration that her boyfriend, previously uninterested in fitness, has become enamored with a new, attractive gym trainer. His increased gym sessions are causing her to feel insecure and question his motives.

Main Points:

• Increased Fitness Activity: Boyfriend now trains twice a week with a new trainer.
• Financial Concerns: He doesn’t have much money to spend on additional gym sessions.
• Partner’s Reaction: Feels he’s prioritizing his appearance over their relationship and seeks advice on addressing her feelings without sounding jealous.

Discussion and Advice:

• Ace [14:16]: Recommends that the woman find her own trainer to foster self-improvement.
• Chick [15:10]: Labels the boyfriend as insecure.
• Josh [15:55]: Suggests that working out simultaneously with the boyfriend can mitigate jealousy.
• Tom [15:19]: Comments humorously on the nature of their workout routines.

Notable Quotes:

• Ace [14:16]: "Find the hottest trainer at that gym and you go to him and you work on yourself."
• Chick [15:10]: "She's being insecure."

Letter 4: Husband’s Affair and Potential Paternity Issues

The final letter is from a woman whose husband confessed to an affair with another woman. Additionally, a 15-year-old girl claims the man is the father of her child. The husband suspects extortion but admits to the affair, leaving the woman grappling with betrayal and the possibility of other infidelities.

Main Points:

• Affair Admission: Husband had a six-month affair with another woman.
• Paternity Claim: A teenage girl alleges he is the father of her child.
• Emotional Turmoil: The woman feels betrayed but wants to support her husband while also fearing the affair could have involved others.

Discussion and Advice:

• Chick [16:36]: Highlights the seriousness of the issue and the need for maturity in handling it.
• Bob [16:40]: Points out the conflict in the husband's timing of the revelation.
• Ace [17:23]: Questions the motivations behind the ex's paternity claim.
• Chick [17:35]: Encourages the woman to confront her husband about potential other affairs and acknowledges her right to be upset.

Notable Quotes:

• Chick [16:43]: "This is a legitimate issue."
• Bob [17:03]: "You didn’t come forward till you knew you were going to get caught."
• Chick [17:35]: "You have every right to be upset."

Additional Discussions and Anecdotes

Throughout the episode, the hosts infuse humor into their discussions, sharing personal anecdotes and playful banter. For instance, Tom reminisces about a sitcom episode from "All in the Family," and the hosts joke about handling unexpected discoveries like pornographic films from a deceased relative. These light moments balance the serious nature of the letters, making the content both engaging and relatable.

Notable Quotes:

• Tom [07:08]: "How does she know the nature of the specific videos that he's watching?"
• Ally Breen [08:06]: "Oh, dear. You gotta takes it about five minutes."
• Tom [16:34]: "This is serious issue."

Conclusion

The episode wraps up with Christopher signing off, reminding listeners where to catch future shows and additional content. The interaction between the hosts and Alli Breen underscores the show's blend of humor and genuine advice, providing listeners with both entertainment and thoughtful solutions to real-life relationship challenges.

Notable Quote:

• Christopher [17:59]: "That's it for another Bob and Tom show. Extra. Catch us on iTunes, Google Play and Stitcher."

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Episode Highlights:

• Alli Breen’s expertise in addressing sensitive relationship issues with a comedic twist.
• Insightful discussions on handling pornography in relationships, dealing with stalking exes, managing jealousy over new trainers, and navigating the fallout of infidelity.
• Memorable quotes and humorous exchanges that add levity to serious topics.

This episode of B&T Extra blends humor with heartfelt advice, making it a valuable listen for anyone navigating the complexities of modern relationships.

Transcript

[Christopher]

Welcome back. It's another Bob and Tom Extra. This is Christopher. Not only is the Bob and Tom show live every weekday morning, but every afternoon we'll give you a little extra. In case you missed anything on the big show today, Ally Breen with Sexy Time. It's coming up in just a minute.

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[Chick]

Five. Myself, no friends.

[Tom]

Now some more Bob and Tom.

[Chick]

You want it, you need it, you.

[Ally Breen]

Can'T live without it.

[Tom]

This is Bob and Tom. Extra.

[Bob]

Hi. Welcome back to the Bob and Tom show and Hernando's Hideaway.

[Tom]

Is this a bossa nova?

[Bob]

A salsa basa something?

[Tom]

Well, it's nice to be here. Thank you.

[Bob]

Don't they call women who are in charge boss?

[Chick]

Right. They will say that she's a real.

[Bob]

She's a real boss, I believe.

[Chick]

Dr. Jill Biden.

[Bob]

I'm a real boss.

[Chick]

Can you imagine? Like some classy lady was like, well, I'm a very boss.

[Tom]

No, Mother Teresa.

[Bob]

I'm a boss.

[Tom]

She's a nice lady. She's a comedian. She's Ally. Oh, and there she is. She joins us from New York City. The name of the program, of course, is Sexy Time. And Ally can be found in the the world of only fans. A L L, I B. That's all you need?

[Ally Breen]

Yep.

[Tom]

Do you have a Thanksgiving special?

[Ally Breen]

Oh, I'll have to do a Thanksgiving special. I hadn't thought about it yet. It's in New York. They're skipping right past Thanksgiving. It's all Christmas here already.

[Josh]

Everywhere.

[Bob]

Here's what you do, Ally. You take a turkey leg.

[Josh]

Jobless turkey day Gravy.

[Bob]

Go. I'll gobble. I'll gobble this.

[Tom]

Our. Our, our. Wait a minute. Oh, there's two cats behind you.

[Bob]

Oh, it's hot. Josh.

[Ally Breen]

It's a cat fight.

[Bob]

Cat fight.

[Ace]

They're best friends.

[Ally Breen]

They do this all day. They're so funny.

[Tom]

They're. They're battling one. Ally has two kittens. There they are. Ally can be reached also. A L, L, I B R E E N. Send your letters about your Love troubles. We'll try to fix them here on sexy time. Yes, and Ally, of course, is on your favorite social media platform. Let's get to our letters. What have you got?

[Ally Breen]

Dear Ally, I looked up my husband's history on the computer the other day and he watches a ton of porn. The problem is that none of the girls he's looking at look like me. We have sex two or three times a month, but he clearly takes care of himself daily. Is this not good? Should I try to say something to him about it?

[Bob]

Two or three times a month maybe.

[Josh]

Step up your game.

[Tom]

But the first part of the letter is what I think is intriguing.

[Josh]

Yeah.

[Tom]

So would she be happier if the ladies he was looking at looked like her?

[Ace]

Whatever.

[Tom]

She might be brunette, blah, blah, blah.

[Chick]

It sounds like it, but yeah, because.

[Ally Breen]

Then she'd think he was like, fawning for her, but she just wasn't like, accessible, I guess. Maybe.

[Ace]

You know what? No, you wouldn't. You wouldn't think that if you saw it wouldn't matter.

[Josh]

No, you'd still be upset. You're looking at his history. That right there says.

[Tom]

Yeah, but an argument could be made that she is not coming across often enough for him.

[Josh]

That's what I said. Step up is gay.

[Chick]

Boy, you guys might be surprised to hear this. I think she does have some. My concern isn't that what he's looking at is porn that features women that don't look like her. That's why you look at porn. To imagine having sex with people that you aren't already having sex with.

[Ally Breen]

Right, but good point.

[Chick]

Two to three times a month seems low to me. Yeah, so I think he is. He does have a slight porn addiction.

[Tom]

No, but does she want to do it? Is she willing to do it more often?

[Chick]

It sounds like it. I don't think she'd be concerned if she wasn't. I think she'd be going, oh, thank goodness. He's looking at porn and taking care of himself.

[Ally Breen]

He want to do it more often. Do you think guys prefer porn to the real thing? Sometimes.

[Chick]

That's when it becomes an addiction, I believe, Ellie, are the ages mentioned in there?

[Ally Breen]

No. No. That's why you think it's more of a concern if they're older, in their 50s or something?

[Bob]

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Ally Breen]

Right, yeah.

[Tom]

Are you asking this question, Ace? In other words, is. Is she, say, 50 years old and he's looking at porno when it's all 20 year olds?

[Chick]

Well, that and as you get older, your drive goes down a bit.

[Josh]

Yeah.

[Ally Breen]

Right.

[Tom]

I'LL let you know when that happens.

[Ally Breen]

Every comic sex stops after marriage, so maybe.

[Ace]

So she should just try to like entice him, maybe instigate it. And if he turns you down, then. Well, then you might have a problem.

[Tom]

I've mentioned this before, right? One of the best episodes ever of a sitcom was when Gloria put the wig on and all in the Family. So if this guy's watching the pornographic videos featuring say, brunettes and she's a blonde. Surprise him with a wig. Surprise him with a wig one night.

[Ally Breen]

You get some costumes going.

[Chick]

That is funny. You aren't doing anything wrong. I don't want this lady to think that this is her fault at all. It's not. The guy likes porn and he's probably addicted.

[Ally Breen]

Yeah, well, there's.

[Bob]

We run into these letters, it seems like every week that one of them snooping on the other. There is a. There are relationships that exist that you don't snoop.

[Chick]

I agree with you. I do agree with you. Yeah.

[Ally Breen]

What people did before computers and cell phones. How are they snooping before? Because. Yeah, you're right. It's all the time now.

[Bob]

Just wild accusations.

[Ace]

Credit card receipts.

[Josh]

So does the looking under the mattress to magazine.

[Tom]

But help me here. How does she know the nature of the specific videos that he's watching?

[Chick]

The search history is a series of links so she could click.

[Tom]

So she gets to see that the ladies don't look like her.

[Chick]

Yeah. Yeah.

[Tom]

Okay. This would have been a much better letter if he had been starring in the. In the pornographic films.

[Chick]

Well, that would have really been something. Yeah.

[Bob]

Realize we realize you control everything here, but you can't start controlling Ally's letters. Okay. Okay. You need to let the people write them in. Okay.

[Tom]

Wouldn't that be great?

[Ally Breen]

Trying to direct it? Yeah, well, I think too. What about a little clear history? I mean, people should.

[Chick]

How does this guy not.

[Josh]

Right.

[Tom]

Yeah.

[Ace]

See, he's not trying to hide it then because you didn't delete it care.

[Tom]

Years ago. I'm. I'm not sure if I've ever told you this story, but years ago I remember this letter. It was a. It was a guy from Cincinnati cleaning out the attic of his late mother in law.

[Ally Breen]

Oh boy.

[Tom]

And they found a. In those days, a canister of film. I believe it was 16 millimeter. I forget the details, but they. They went out and got a. Got a projector and you know, whatever you do to get it going and threaded it through the thing and it was this guy's former mother in law in a pornographic film.

[Ace]

Oh, wow.

[Ally Breen]

Oh, so then I hope you watched it al alone or did he have a whole viewing with the family?

[Tom]

Well, see then. Then the question is how. How long do you watch it before you go?

[Ally Breen]

Oh, dear. You gotta takes it about five minutes.

[Bob]

Until you have an orgasm, right?

[Chick]

Yeah, you save the rest naturally.

[Tom]

So then you fall asleep. But I imagine in today's world with a lot of people doing whatever you'd call a pornographic selfie, I would imagine that there are people that when someone passes, they get their phone and find things they really don't want to see.

[Chick]

Yeah, probably.

[Tom]

That would be my guess. And perhaps.

[Ally Breen]

I don't know what happens when someone passes. Does. Can you just get their phone code or. If someone has no access to a phone, it just dies with them, right?

[Chick]

You'd just throw it away.

[Tom]

We talked about that once.

[Ally Breen]

It's not gonna be good.

[Tom]

We got several letters from guys that said, any phone, I can get it in 30 seconds.

[Bob]

That's. Remember, didn't the FBI have some sort of issue with Apple at some point? But. So I think they've got an actual secret super way to get into an iPhone that never fail. I don't know.

[Chick]

Unless they were murdered. Don't look at the phone. Just go, well, this is unnecessary, and throw it out.

[Ally Breen]

Yeah, or if you have to look, just avoid the pictures. Avoid that folder of photos and videos. Oh, my God.

[Tom]

I see. Okay, let's move on. Ally Breen is our guest. The show is sexy time, and once again, it's a L, L, I, B, R, E, E, N. I spell it out for you so you can find her on social media to send her a letter. What have you got?

[Ally Breen]

Dear Allie, my boyfriend's ex is stalking me. She doesn't follow me on Insta, but she's the first person to watch all of my stories. I get prank phone calls and weird texts from unknown numbers that I know are her. My boyfriend says he doesn't know that that's true, and even if it is, it's no big deal. But I think he should be doing something to protect me. He said she probably wants him to reach out to her if she's doing all this stuff. What do you guys think?

[Chick]

I think he should absolutely tell her to knock it the hell off.

[Ace]

If she just watching you, though, like on Instagram, you can't do anything about watching stories.

[Ally Breen]

That's a good point.

[Ace]

You can make yourself private if it's that big of a deal.

[Tom]

Or maybe you can just. Maybe you can grow up and stop spewing all of your stories out there and just live your own life.

[Chick]

That's a whole lot.

[Ally Breen]

Or start pointedly making stories for her. Oh, yeah.

[Tom]

Tell her to go watch the movie Fatal Attraction and get back to me.

[Chick]

That guy should stand up for you. I'm with you.

[Ally Breen]

Yeah, yeah.

[Tom]

No, but she wants. She wants the guy to contact.

[Chick]

Who cares? Just go. I'm never contacting you again. You knock this crap off. That's what I do. Because I'm a real man.

[Ace]

Do what Josh's friend did, Just start calling her and say, hey, I'm going to kill you. There you go.

[Chick]

Oh, well, that's context. A very odd callback.

[Tom]

You didn't hear the setup on that?

[Ace]

Like what? It's a prank. That's what we're doing. Right?

[Tom]

Okay, let's move on. What else have you got?

[Ally Breen]

Dear Allie, my fiance went on a trip to Thailand with friends way before I knew him. And I know that they had a wild time, but I just found out that he's actually hooked up with ladyboys while he was there. They joked that they tricked him into it, but when he found out, he still followed through and then actually hooked up with another one. I'm not mad that it happened, but I'm mad he didn't tell me about it. Shouldn't he have?

[Ace]

How do you tell someone about that?

[Chick]

All right, first.

[Ally Breen]

Yeah, that's something you don't tell anyone about.

[Chick]

The number one reason people go to Thailand, lady boys.

[Ally Breen]

That's the number.

[Chick]

Not the pad thai. Yeah. Yeah. You can get that anywhere.

[Tom]

Yeah.

[Bob]

Oh, but that pad Thai is good.

[Tom]

It is good.

[Bob]

I gotta tell you.

[Ally Breen]

It is delicious. Yeah. And the satay.

[Chick]

Why would he tell you?

[Bob]

Chicken.

[Ally Breen]

Yeah.

[Josh]

Why would he tell you?

[Ally Breen]

I think the friends must have told him. Possibly because it doesn't.

[Bob]

Thanks, fellas.

[Tom]

Yeah. I'm not as concerned about whether or not he told her is the fact that he was into it.

[Chick]

Yeah. But, you know, you try. You try everything once to see if you like.

[Ally Breen]

Yeah. May twice in this case.

[Tom]

I'm old school.

[Ally Breen]

Oh, man.

[Ace]

Yeah.

[Ally Breen]

You can't expect someone to tell you about that. I would think that's a dark secret that you keep for a while.

[Tom]

Yes.

[Chick]

I mean, would she want him to come up and be like, all right, here's everybody I've ever had sex with and tell her about every experience? This is just one of those things.

[Tom]

You might want to. In the Venn diagram, those of a different gender would be problematic for me.

[Bob]

I misunderstood. Is this something that happened before he met?

[Chick]

Yes.

[Josh]

Yes.

[Bob]

Oh, well, that I think all deals off. And he doesn't have to say anything.

[Chick]

No, he does not have to tell me.

[Ace]

Now you guys can have kinky sex. Maybe you can peg him or something. And it's something you guys can share.

[Chick]

Finally, the voice of Franks.

[Tom]

Of course.

[Chick]

Chick.

[Tom]

Why didn't you think of that?

[Ally Breen]

Relive the glory.

[Bob]

A couple guesses.

[Tom]

Which is the. Which is the back. Don't they go to Thailand in one of those? Bachelor hangover?

[Bob]

Yeah, well, Thailand.

[Ally Breen]

Oh, yeah. Well, because it's also. It's. It's also women who do, like, crazy things. It's like they show you a list of, you know, shooting ping pong balls. Oh, God, yeah.

[Bob]

Oh, you say crazy, I say art. Okay.

[Chick]

They found all kinds of things in Thailand in Hangover 2. Except comedy. Yeah, severe lack of humor. Another classic.

[Bob]

The second one, look up a writer.

[Tom]

Shoot him with the taser. Again, that was funny. Okay, the show is Sexy Time. Our guest is Ali Breen here in the Bob and Tom program. What else have you got?

[Ally Breen]

Dear Allie, my boyfriend has a trainer at the gym that he used to go to once a month, but they changed trainers and now he has a very hot trainer. He signed up for more sessions with her and now he's up to twice a week. I don't love it. He's never been into fitness before. He also doesn't have that much money to spend. When I brought it up, he said I should be investing also in my health. So he just flipped the script. I want to tell him everyone sees through what he's doing and it looks pathetic, but I don't want to sound jealous. What should I do?

[Bob]

I love her. All right, leave us alone. Leave us alone.

[Tom]

So wait a minute.

[Ally Breen]

I love that his comeback was like, listen, fatty, you should be at the gym more.

[Tom]

But he had a trainer, so he was already paying for a trainer. Right now it switched up, but then he doubled his.

[Josh]

Doubled his investment, so to speak.

[Ace]

So you find the hottest trainer at that gym and you go to him and you work on yourself.

[Tom]

But I mean to say the problem.

[Ally Breen]

Is a lot of them are very gay.

[Tom]

These trainers have to deal with this. Wait a minute. Hang on a second. What'd you say?

[Bob]

Gay trainers are a problem.

[Tom]

What did you say, Alan?

[Ally Breen]

I said a lot of the straight. The hot trainers at gyms are gay.

[Bob]

Yeah.

[Ally Breen]

So for the woman to find one to make him jealous might be tough.

[Tom]

Is that both male and female trainers? Is that a thing?

[Ally Breen]

No, I think just for the male. I mean, here, like equinox is the big gym and most of the trainers, they're like.

[Tom]

You're in New York. We all know that. 90 of them in there.

[Ally Breen]

Okay, yeah, that might be.

[Tom]

That's a fact. I went to college, so you can't. You can't walk down the street without running into a gay judge from here.

[Ally Breen]

Good point.

[Josh]

I know a lot of trainers and none of them are good.

[Tom]

Yeah, and they. A lot of them.

[Josh]

A lot of them are married and.

[Tom]

A lot of them have to deal with this. Yeah, all the time.

[Ally Breen]

So.

[Chick]

I don't know.

[Tom]

I. Who knows? This guy's not going to end up with his trainer.

[Josh]

No, she's being insecure.

[Ace]

Yep. Go work out the same time he's at the gym. You could be on the treadmill. He just happens to be on the floor working out with her. No big deal. You're working on yourself.

[Tom]

That's an unusual exercise you're doing. It looks a lot like pelvic thrusts into her hips.

[Bob]

I'll just tell her, tell his girlfriend to go have a sandwich and maybe a pie and leave me alone. Chunkles.

[Tom]

I'll tell you what, that shooting ping pong balls thing.

[Josh]

Yeah?

[Tom]

That would jazz up those TV lottery shows.

[Ally Breen]

That would be great.

[Tom]

Well, Janice, come on out here. Let's get those numbers.

[Bob]

Let's roll that first number. It's.

[Josh]

She has how many Pink.

[Chick]

It's a zero. Oh, no, wait, let me wipe that off.

[Josh]

Like 60 numbers.

[Tom]

Wow.

[Bob]

You draw them beforehand backstage and then you shoot.

[Ace]

Oh, okay.

[Tom]

Oh, so that would be.

[Bob]

You have six.

[Tom]

Yeah. So we've solved. We've solved the problem. We have time to solve one more problem. Ali Breen. Go ahead.

[Ally Breen]

Dear Ally, me and my husband are high school sweethearts with three kids, 14, 16 and 18. My husband just sat me down to tell me he had a girl tell him that her 15 year old daughter was his. He doesn't think it's the case. He thinks he's being extorted. But he did want to tell me he did have an affair for six months with the mom. I want to support him against them, but I'm so mad at the betrayal. Also, if he had this affair, don't you think there were others?

[Bob]

Oh, geez.

[Ally Breen]

Okay, yeah.

[Chick]

The main issue here is that you wrote the wrong show.

[Ally Breen]

That is serious issue.

[Chick]

A legitimate issue.

[Bob]

This is. Requires maturity.

[Tom]

Yes, I. I'm.

[Ally Breen]

Unfortunately, I will say though, she's right. Because even if the kid doesn't end up being his, he still had the affair.

[Chick]

So I know you gotta look. Does this guy get Any credit for being so forward, coming forward, Forthcoming here.

[Bob]

Well, then the argument. You could say you didn't. You didn't come forward till you knew you were going to get caught.

[Tom]

So that's it.

[Ally Breen]

Exactly.

[Chick]

Right. But why, if it was over, why hurt your spouse like that? If you know that it's over and you're not going to cheat on your spouse again, why put them through the pain?

[Ace]

And why did that woman wait till the kid was 15 to try to go after some money?

[Tom]

Yeah, I'm guessing college fund.

[Ally Breen]

Or maybe she had already told someone else it was his and then they discovered it wasn't, so she moved on to the next.

[Chick]

The guy's been pretty honest, besides lying to you for six months. But what I'm trying to say is ask him if there were other and maybe you'll get a straight answer from him. And you have every right to be upset.

[Tom]

Sure.

[Chick]

And you can still support him. You can still support him and be mad that he cheated on you. That's totally fine.

[Josh]

And you might get a bonus kid out of it. You don't know.

[Ally Breen]

Yeah, exactly. Nice little addition to the family.

[Christopher]

That's it for another Bob and Tom show. Extra. Catch us on itunes, Google play and Stitcher. For Bob and Tom. Extra, this is Christopher. Take care, everybody.

[Joe Salsihai]

Hi, I'm Joe Salsihai, host of the Stacking Benjamin's podcast. Every week we talk to experts about saving, investing, personal finance, trends, crypto. Can't do it.

[Chick]

You could have done all that research, all the breadcrumbs and thought, this company's never going bankrupt.

[Joe Salsihai]

Foiled again. You never knew personal finance could be this fun.

[Progressive Insurance Voice]

Throwing down the gauntlet.

[Joe Salsihai]

I'm bringing it today. I'm only going to be off by six figures instead of seven. Every boy has a dream, doc.

[Tom]

Every boy has a dream for sure.

[Joe Salsihai]

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