Bob Kevoian (6:14)

Can'T live without it.

Tom Griswold (6:15)

This is Bob and Tom. Extra. Hello, Tom. We're all here to help. The love. Lauren, we'll Help young lovers and old lovers, wherever you are. That's right. And we're going to do that with the assistance of comedian Ally Breen. There she is on the big screen. Hi, Ally. Hey, guys, I got a warning for you.

Bob Kevoian (6:35)

There we go.

Tom Griswold (6:36)

We've lost one of our cast members due to a cat. I know. You have. You have two kitties. And Ace tripped over his cat, severely breaking his leg. Oh.

Bob Kevoian (6:48)

Oh, wow.

Tom Griswold (6:51)

He's got pins and a rod. And his tibia. Oh, yeah, Rotting it.

Bob Kevoian (6:57)

That's brutal.

Tom Griswold (6:58)

Rod on his tibia. Okay, so be careful with your little kitties.

Bob Kevoian (7:03)

Yeah, I will be. Is this cat okay?

Tom Griswold (7:06)

Yeah, the cat's fine. People keep asking about the cat. Now, the way the show works, you can write letters to Ali Breen A L, L, I B R E E N. You'll find her on your favorite social media platform. You'll also find her on OnlyFans@A L, L, I B. And Ally, help us out. What kind of letter do you have to start?

Bob Kevoian (7:25)

Dear Ally, my husband still talks to his ex girlfriend really regularly. I don't think he's cheating on me, but he was hiding his interactions with her. He said he knew I'd be upset if I found out they were still friends because they hadn't been for years and I guess just started chatting about six months ago. He said they spent 10 years together and he doesn't think they should hate each other. I agree, but I also don't think that means to talk to each other all the time. Right. What should I do?

Tom Griswold (7:49)

Well, I mean, it's a reasonable letter. Yeah, yeah, yeah. If he. If you're not comfortable with it, I think he should stop. He should, shouldn't he? But. Or do a better job hiding it.

Bob Kevoian (8:07)

Right. How'd she find out what was happening? Good point.

Tom Griswold (8:10)

But to come out of the woodwork after 10 years, it's like. Or whatever it was. They had 10 years together and they're still friends. That's cool. But like, I don't know if she's weird with it. Does he address her in some. With some kind of, you know, fond.

Bob Kevoian (8:25)

Oh, like, hey, pickle. Yes, I'm old.

Tom Griswold (8:30)

What's the content of these communications? It sounds like it's fairly innocent. Yeah, it does sound innocent. We could still be friends. Sure. I was at the jewelry shop the other day and I saw some nipple rings that reminded me of you. Stuff like that. Oh, yes, that would be problematic. Yeah, I think that would be okay. All right, well, we. We' obviously failed here. Let's move on what's our next letter say? Ally.

Bob Kevoian (8:52)

Dear Ally, I'm dating a guy who always wants to split the check. I don't mind paying for half of stuff, but I'd rather do it in a way where he buys one dinner than I buy the next one, then he buys one, et cetera. So I picked up the last check to set that in motion, but then he still just wanted to split the next one.

Tom Griswold (9:08)

Well, you didn't tell him.

Bob Kevoian (9:09)

Do you think this means he just doesn't like me that much or is he just being cheap?

Tom Griswold (9:14)

Josh is right. Just tell him. Yeah, that's. That's a lot smarter doing. Why do you have to play games, people? Yeah, I like the way she's doing it. The every other woman, like pay for it every other time. Yeah, I know, but she didn't tell him that. She tried to. She wanted him to read her mind and that's. And guys are dumb. Yeah. You can't read mind. I know. I many don't understand that.

Bob Kevoian (9:37)

Yeah, no, I'm with the girl on this one. I think the guy should be able to take that someone bought one. Wouldn't you just automatically the next time be like, I got you?

Tom Griswold (9:44)

Why not just tell guys? Don't think that way. Just tell them.

Bob Kevoian (9:47)

That's hilarious.

Tom Griswold (9:47)

Then if you notice a pattern in which when you go out, you're at a super fancy place and when he's paying, oh, well, oh, look, we got a coupon for Taco Bell.

Bob Kevoian (10:00)

Yeah.

Tom Griswold (10:00)

By the way, I think he should be paying every time, but maybe he's not in a position to do so. So.

Bob Kevoian (10:06)

Right.

Tom Griswold (10:08)

Yeah. Tell him we're dumb. We need to be told. Do you like the thing when you go out with a bunch of people and everybody throws their credit card in and then they divide it by the number of cards and that's kind of fun. Yeah. Especially if it's a business thing and everybody's kind of on an expense account. So you're not. You know what I'm saying? I kind of get concerned that the other people aren't going to necessarily tip properly. Oh, really? Why do you care? Because I don't want the waiter or waitress to get stiffed. Because. Yeah, but you'll see.

Bob Kevoian (10:35)

I always assume, I assume people over tip in that situation.

Tom Griswold (10:39)

Yeah.

Bob Kevoian (10:39)

Yeah. I hope that I would.

Tom Griswold (10:41)

Maybe I should talk to some servers and see if when that happens, if they typically get over tip. Because everyone has the same concern that I do.

Bob Kevoian (10:47)

Right.

Tom Griswold (10:47)

You look across thing go, this guy's not going to give her A dime. Well, let me ask you something. Why are you having any sort of meal with these people that you obviously are hate? Look at this. Cards in a bowl. He's not gonna. He's not gonna tip anything. This. This loser, Right? I rarely do it. I'm sorry. Let's get back to Ali. What else have you got?

Bob Kevoian (11:09)

Dear Allie, my ex boyfriend used to be obsessed with me. He treated me like a queen. And I stupidly cheated. We broke up and did other people. I think it means dated other people. Yeah, exactly. Probably both. And then I reached out to try to apologize and get back together. We were together for about three months and he was so mean to me and treated me worse than anyone I've ever been with. So we broke up again. Now I'm obsessed with him. We still look up occasionally, but the last time we were supposed to see each other, he changed his mind at the last minute. I still showed up and he ended up calling the police. Oh, my God. And he's. No. That original obsession he had for me is still there somewhere. But all my friends are telling me I have to give up. What do you guys think?

Tom Griswold (11:51)

Yeah, but your friends are right.

Bob Kevoian (11:53)

Oh, my God.

Tom Griswold (11:54)

Leave. Yes, that. My God.

Bob Kevoian (11:57)

Once the cops are involved.

Tom Griswold (11:58)

Let's be real. Even if he cared about you all of a sudden again and became obsessed with you, you would be over it. You just want the chase. Yeah. I mean, if he calls.

Bob Kevoian (12:06)

Except she doesn't know it in the moment, right? Yeah.

Tom Griswold (12:09)

And for him to call the cops a little. Yeah. Move on. For sure. You guys are toxic for each other. Just get out. I can't think of the last time I called the cops. Yeah. Can you?

Bob Kevoian (12:19)

Anything?

Tom Griswold (12:20)

Never. Never in a situation like that. That's crazy.

Bob Kevoian (12:24)

Yeah, yeah. Yeah.

Tom Griswold (12:27)

And I had. I had enough chances to call the cops. Let me tell. Let me underscore that you had enough reasons. Oh, yeah. Oh, wow. Yeah. Take her away.

Bob Kevoian (12:35)

What was happening, chick? Were you being stalked?

Tom Griswold (12:37)

As soon as I get divorced, you're going to get arrested is what I said. Let's move on. Once again, I love her. We're speaking with Ali Breen, though.

Bob Kevoian (12:47)

When people. If someone's obsessed with you to begin with, that doesn't mean they'll get re. Obsessed with you. Like to think that that's coming back after someone calls the cops on them. Like feelings just change.

Tom Griswold (12:56)

Obsession is not healthy. Yes, that is not a good thing. Yeah, I think maybe. Why won't you call me back from the get go? Maybe this was bad, right?

Bob Kevoian (13:09)

Okay. Dear Ally, my girlfriend Just got on Ozempic recently and she lost a ton of weight and looks great. She now goes to the gym after work. She's become kind of obsessed with being fit. I love it, but I'm still pretty bulky and I'm starting to get worried she's thinking of leaving me. Am I gonna have to now lose weight to keep her? I don't think that would be easy for me. But I don't want to lose her. What should I do?

Tom Griswold (13:29)

Your feelings. Understandable, but they are just yours. She probably isn't considering any of that, so just relax. No. No. Chunkles. I'd say she's moving on. Another hottie just like her body. Don't you dare die with abs. Don't listen. Give me a guy with abs. Don't listen to any of that. Sir. It'll only be any. A matter of time for your homeless. Because nothing's worthless like a fat guy. I can tell you that. She's still with you, man. She loves you. Lose the weight. Tubby, you're giving mixed signals here that I. Okay, yeah. No, you're good, man. You're good. Just. Just relax. Don't, don't. Don't entertain any of those thoughts. Maybe go to the gym with her.

Bob Kevoian (14:13)

The stereotype that when someone starts getting really fit in a relationship that there's a. Another person other than.

Tom Griswold (14:19)

Yeah, I don't believe that's a stereotype. I don't. In reality, I don't think that's. That happens usually a guy getting divorced or very ill. She's doing this for her man and to make other women jealous of her. No, she's not. Oh, my God. Susie's jelly. I gotta keep this up. There's a lot of jaded, unhealthy people in here. Don't listen. Yes. You gotta live a little. Keep eating the potatoes. There you go. You're saying that I'm a ladle of butter, right? Tom put some ghee on there.

Bob Kevoian (14:58)

He could start sabotaging our meals.

Tom Griswold (15:00)

Just whatever you want to do. Wide load. Okay, let's move on. Oh, wait a minute. I just gotta point something out here. If you're just joining us, she is Ally Breen. We are the Bob and Tom Show. And now we get back to the action. Ally.

Bob Kevoian (15:13)

Dear Ally, my husband and I played around with some butt stuff for the first time. On me first and then on him.

Tom Griswold (15:20)

All right, last a letter we can get into. What is going on?

Bob Kevoian (15:26)

I wasn't into it, but he really took to it pretty quickly. Now he wants to try all kinds of stuff. And basically wants to incorporate it into our sex life pretty much all the time.

Tom Griswold (15:36)

But as long as it ends. As long as it ends with butt.

Bob Kevoian (15:38)

Stuff, there's nothing fun about it for me. In fact, I get pretty grossed out by it. How do I fix this? I think I created a monster.

Tom Griswold (15:48)

Well, butt stuff. Monster Asenstein. What would the name of the monster be? Crapula. No. Frankenbot.

Bob Kevoian (16:00)

Frankenbot Crack. Boy. This is.

Tom Griswold (16:03)

Oh, boy. I need more details on who's receiving and giving and what. She's not saying that she's uncomfortable. She's saying she's grossed out. That tells me it's him. He. He. He wants his butt played with, right?

Bob Kevoian (16:16)

That's what she says. She was into it. He was.

Tom Griswold (16:19)

There's a sensitive area back there, isn't there? So it's wonderful. It's a bundle of nerves that's meant to be played with. And here's, like, a cat toy. I have a bundle of nerves just thinking about it. And by. By the way, after this morning song. Do not Google Urban Dictionary. Velvet Elvis. So trust me on this, boy. Yeah. What do you do? She doesn't like it. He needs it. Now this is the old song. How are you gonna keep him down on the farm after they've had butt play in Paris? Yeah, he's gonna. He's gonna find butt play whether you do it or not. Now, here's the. Here's what I say. Incorporate some toys so he can have, you know, something going on back there, but you don't have to. And it doesn't have to be part of your body. Right. Ah. Look for a look on the box for dishwasher. Safe. Yes. Yeah, so try that. They call. They call this one the golden retriever. Is it a dog toy? Not really. Try that. Yeah. Okay, let's move on. If you use butter Tom, what do you need to give him a tip? Yes. Unsalted. Unsalted. Yeah. There you go. Keep him.

Bob Kevoian (17:33)

Or you could get a toy so big that he does not like butt stuff anymore.

Tom Griswold (17:40)

I see.

Bob Kevoian (17:40)

Exactly.

Tom Griswold (17:42)

Yes. Yes. You could physically hurt him. Yeah. You never know. Yes. Yes. Well, best of luck to both of you. Yes. Let him know he's not alone. He's got a pal in Josh.

Bob Kevoian (17:59)

Dear Allie, I started to catch feelings for my friends with benefits guy, and when we hook up, we always talk about other people we're dating. I know. I started to get jealous when he talked about this last one. So I definitely think that I want to turn this hookup situation into the Real thing. How do I go about doing that?

Tom Griswold (18:15)

Oh, you just say, hey, you know, I think you do it. You tell them exactly what you just told us. That's very reasonable. Except use the word butt stuff. Watch any Ryan Reynolds movie. Just go, hey, you know what? I gotta be honest with you. I have started to have some feelings for you and I would like to maybe try a relationship, a one on one thing. How do you feel about that? Don't do it. As Woody Allen as I just did, I really got into. I was like. It was like it was me. You couldn't relax. Okay, I'm gonna walk to the curb.

Bob Kevoian (18:55)

That was pretty good. That was pretty good.

Tom Griswold (18:58)

Yeah. Let them know. Let him know. Okay, we got time for one more.

Bob Kevoian (19:01)

That hookups become real. I think that that's. I think.

Tom Griswold (19:04)

I think it can happen, but maybe romantic. 0% 0%.

Bob Kevoian (19:10)

Yeah. I think that's tough.

Tom Griswold (19:11)

Once you're in the friend zone, you're in the friend zone.

Bob Kevoian (19:14)

Good luck, people. Compartmentalize. All right. Dear Ally, my girlfriend went on a girls trip for five days and mysteriously stopped posting in her stories after day two. Her friends kept posting lots of stories, but she was never in them. Do you think it seems like maybe she met someone and was doing her own thing? I don't know if I should ask her or ask her friends or how to investigate this, but it's very sus.

Tom Griswold (19:36)

Sus. We no longer want to talk to you. Yeah, say the whole word in this sitch is very sus.

Bob Kevoian (19:47)

Yes.

Tom Griswold (19:47)

Yeah, I think she was getting yes to stick with the. The grammar of this particular letter. By. By else. Okay. Well, thank you. Ali Breen is a stand up comedian. We didn't answer that at all. No, we didn't. He's a stand up comedian. You'll find her prowling the streets of New York. Yep. She's probably won't find her doing that. You'll find her. Hey, mister, you want me to. Joe. That's it for another Bob and Tom show. Extra. Catch us on itunes, Google play and stitcher for Bob and Tom. Extra. This is Christopher. Take care, everybody. Former MLB all star Sean Casey, AKA the Mayor, keeps hitting it out of the park. Take my 30 years of experience. Take the wisdom and knowledge I've learned from the failures when I got sent down my rookie year, all the injuries I had to overcome. Your mind is the most important tool you have in life. Be relentless. Keep charging. It matters how you talk to yourself, how you look at the world. That matters. We talk about that. I don't know. I'm fired up. Baseball's back and it's going to be incredible. I love it. The mayor's office with Sean Casey from Believe. Follow and listen on your favorite platform.