Loading summary
Ally Breen
This episode is brought to you by State Farm. Knowing you could be saving money for the things you really want is a great feeling. Talk to a State Farm agent today to learn how you can choose to bundle and save with the personal price plan. Like a good neighbor, State Farm is there. Prices are based on rating plans that vary by state. Coverage options are selected by the customer. Availability, amount of discounts and savings and eligibility vary by state.
Christopher
Kick off summer with Memorial Day savings at Lowe's right now get five Scott's Naturescapes 1.5 cubic foot mulch bags for just $10 plus get up to 40% off. Select major appliances and save an extra $50 on every $500 you spend on select major appliances. $396 or more Lowes we help you save valid through 528 mold shopper excludes Alaska and Hawaii. Selection varies by location while supplies last. See Lowes.com for more details. Welcome back. It's another Bob and Tom Extra. This is Christopher. Not only is the Bob and Tom show live every weekday morning, but every afternoon we'll give you a little extra. In case you missed anything on today's big show, it's more with Ally Breen and Sexy Time. It's coming up in just a minute.
Ally Breen
If you're shopping while working, eating or even listening to this podcast, then you know and love the thrill of the hunt. But are you getting the thrill of the best deals? Rakuten shoppers do. They get the brands they love with the most savings and cash back and you can get it too. Start getting cash back at your favorite stores and even stack sales on top of cash back. It's easy to use and you get your cash back through PayPal or Chef. The idea is simple. Stores pay Rakuten for sending them shoppers and Rakuten shares the money with you as cash back. Download the free Rakuten app and never miss a deal or go to rakuten.com to start getting the most bang for your buck. That's R A K U T E N.
Christopher
Station Hot damn way to sit the mood girl I got big plan for you Hot tub, incense and candles long list of what we're gonna do Hit that, hit that you and me on the couch hit that, hit that, get it. Room in the house Bed bath and beyond Bey Bed bath and behind the army song Bedroom on a brand new duvet Bunch up on the runner in the hallway bathroom hanging from the towel rack firm grip on a non slip mat Hit that, hit that in the hump just going to town Hit that, hit that on the olivet get it down, Hit that. Bad bathroom beyond beyond Bad bathroom behind beyond beyond Like Donkey Kong it's called the Brimming door. Too much space to go down.
Ally Breen
Beyond, beyond.
Christopher
Beyond, beyond beyond. It's all, it's all, it's all. Yeah, we know it's a repeat, but things are always better the second time around. This is Bob and Tom Extra. Now it's time to switch gears and get into the world of romance with our correspondent from New York City. She is the lovely Ally Breen. Hi, Allie.
Ally Breen
Hey, guys. How's it going?
Christopher
Good. I've got a news story for you before we get to the sexy part.
Ally Breen
Oh, yeah? Let's hear it.
Christopher
Chris, did you have the story about the lawsuit involving only fans?
Tom
Oh, I do, yes.
Christopher
Have you heard about this? This is really interesting.
Tom
Two people are suing only fans, claiming they were talking to a chat service rather than actual models on the site.
Christopher
Yeah.
Tom
According to 404 Media, the plaintiffs and M. Brunner and Jay Fry claim they were defrauded after believing the creators they subscribed to were talking to them in direct messages and video clips. Eventually they realized they were likely not interacting with the creators directly, but so called agency chatters. The former subscribers said that they would not have subscribed had they known they were not speaking directly to the creators themselves. The complaint states, quote, plaintiff Fry created an account primarily in order to engage in friendly conversations with models and share photographs of his cooking creations.
Christopher
That's the key here.
Tom
But he became suspicious of who he was actually communicating when he started getting contradicting information and errors in messages.
Christopher
Don't you love the fact that this guy goes, hey, look, I want to see your boobs and I'll show you my new quiche. He's exchanging.
Ally Breen
Yay. He's upset about the reactions he's getting on his food. That's great.
Christopher
He's upset because he's not actually interacting with the models. Ali, have you.
Ally Breen
That's how he could tell.
Christopher
Do you use an agency or do you actually do the communication?
Ally Breen
I do the communication, but it is hard. Like I don't. It takes a while to return messages, so I get it. And I thought everyone knew that there were people using services and stuff like that was happening.
Christopher
Oh, it's got to be the majority now. I haven't been on OnlyFans in a long, long time. Because it became what?
Ally Breen
Oh, that's why. Yeah, yeah.
Christopher
Because it was like, oh, I don't need to talk to a chatbot yeah. Yeah. It could be a robot. Yeah, exactly.
Ally Breen
I just saw the. The documentary on Ashley Madison, though, and remember there was a big scandal where they said none of the women were real, that it was a ton of chatbots, essentially, and their subscriber base just, like, kept going up. People didn't seem to care as long as they could pretend that they were in some sort of interest interaction with the girl.
Christopher
These are the same guys that think the strippers actually love them.
Ally Breen
Yeah, exactly. I know.
Tom
Maybe they do.
Christopher
Yeah. Yeah, that's it. That's always a chance. All right.
Ally Breen
Okay, good.
Christopher
Well, no, I just thought that was fascinating because you are Ali Breen, comedian. Also, you are on only fans at A L L I B. Yeah.
Ally Breen
You have to really spend some time on there if you want to get good results. Like, I get why people. Yeah. Have help.
Christopher
I just thought that was an interesting inside note. Well, let's get moving forward here. The way this show works is Ali gets letters and we try to help with people's romantic issues. What have you got, Ally?
Ally Breen
Dear Ally, I took my girlfriend to a family party and she really hit it off with everybody. Three months later, I saw that she's still texting one of my cousins. I flipped out and I told her that's inappropriate and that she should have at least told me. And she said, I'm acting crazy. They were definitely flirty. So what do I do about this?
Christopher
Oh, I think you're acting crazy.
Tom
I think you're acting crazy, too. What? Wait, why is she texting his cousin?
Christopher
Oh, so you're also crazy?
Ally Breen
Like, randomly?
Christopher
Like, you just figured. Hang on, you're just figuring that out? Why do you think we have her in here? We have to have something to work against.
Tom
There's a balance.
Ally Breen
Like, why would someone randomly be texting.
Christopher
Someone in my family and I don't know about it?
Tom
That's why. Would you tell them, hey, I met your cousin.
Christopher
Why would you tell.
Tom
No, I tell people who I talk to.
Christopher
I don't know. This is that. I can see why she's a little concerned.
Tom
Oh. Welcome to this side, Tom. Join me.
Christopher
As I said earlier, a stop clock is right twice an hour. I know it's supposed to be twice a day. I go, ally, what do you think? Do you think this friend should have told our writer?
Ally Breen
Yeah, I think just the fact that she didn't tell him makes it seem like it's nefarious.
Tom
Do you tell your boyfriend?
Ally Breen
Yeah. If I was at a event with my boyfriend and then one of his family members And I hit it off, and we kept texting. I would be like, oh, I'm like friends with your cousin.
Christopher
You tell him. As opposed to what she's doing, which is she's got a plan B. Yeah.
Ally Breen
Or plan A, eventually.
Christopher
I am so sorry. This is a boyfriend writing us, and his girlfriend was flirting with the cousin or is talking to the cousin. I thought this was a woman whose friend met her cousin and didn't, so.
Tom
Oh, no.
Ally Breen
Oh, no.
Christopher
This is odd.
Ally Breen
Yeah.
Christopher
Yeah, I think. Yeah. She's looking at this guy as a plan B. Yeah.
Tom
Why would you do that? You don't want to stay in the same family.
Ally Breen
Yeah.
Christopher
You don't.
Tom
If you broke up with somebody, you don't want to start dating his cousin.
Christopher
No. You want to date her sister. Have you. Have you seen her?
Tom
How awkward is that?
Christopher
Even if the sister. Even if the sister isn't as attractive, you still kind of want to bang the sister. That's every guy's secret. I had a letter I did not read on the air. I think it was about a month ago in which this guy married his brother's ex wife.
Ally Breen
No.
Christopher
Yeah. Wow. I chose not to read it. It was. There was a lot more. Well, you hope they're all getting along okay. That's got to be a rough Thanksgiving. I bet that happens a lot more than maybe it does believe.
Tom
Well, it happened with Shania Twain. Remember that? She and her husband got divorced and they. And she married his brother. No, she married. Okay, so they got divorced because he was having an affair, and she ended up marrying the guy the lady was having. Okay, that's hard to explain.
Ally Breen
Wow.
Tom
Okay, so he was having an affair with this woman. She was married. They got divorced. Shania Twain and her husband got divorced. He ended up marrying the woman that he was having the affair with. Shania Twain married her ex husband.
Christopher
Did they write. Did they write a song about this? It seems pretty much, yeah.
Tom
It's like a country.
Christopher
Did you guys know Shania Twain's real name? Samuel Clemens. A lot of people don't know that. Well, actually. And Shania is not her first name. Jane. Jane Twain. Jane Twain. That's right. We had a way wrong. You say, hey, Jane. She knows. You know her from way back when they grew up. They called her Choo Choo Choo Choo Choo Choo Twain. Choo Choo. Hey, Ally, what happened to our show? Let's get back to the action. You got it on a letter for us, Train.
Tom
Sounds good. This is the way we've been doing it all day.
Ally Breen
Quit. All right. Dear Ally, I met a girl online. We went on two dates and she immediately started sexting me, including nudes. I was thinking maybe we'd be a serious couple, but is this a giant red flag and does it mean that we should only hook up?
Christopher
Including, oh, this means you're gay again. That's fine with us. Yeah, that's totally fine. Whatever you're into is fine. You should know and you should. Did you share? Please share. All these folks.
Ally Breen
Yeah.
Christopher
Now this is a guy who doesn't know how life works. Okay.
Ally Breen
Yep.
Christopher
I can't believe I got a.
Ally Breen
There it is. This is probably what she was living in the 90s.
Christopher
Yeah, she's probably used to doing this.
Tom
Like, this is how. And that's why he's a little upset because he doesn't really want to be in a serious relationship with a woman who just sends pictures.
Christopher
Well, not everybody wants to be. That's the problem with this show. Not everybody wants to be in a serious relationship.
Tom
He just said he wants to be in a serious relationship.
Ally Breen
He did? Yep.
Christopher
Hey, hit and run, buddy. Ideally over the hood of a Corvette, right, Tom? Camaro. Camaro, Camaro, whatever. There's a difference. His comment was, yuck, boobies. What do you think the record is for one girl sending nudes to how many guys? How many you think? Oh, like in a day? Let's say, like. No. Yeah, like 50, 60 guys over. That is a lot over in a non professional manner. Right, right. In other words, someone who's not a. Exactly.
Ally Breen
I think there's way more guys that are sending the.
Christopher
Oh, yeah, no kidding.
Ally Breen
To multiple girls.
Tom
Yeah.
Christopher
That is always.
Ally Breen
Yeah.
Christopher
Shocking, Right? I have sent a D pick, but only when it was requested.
Tom
Never, not as a move.
Christopher
Never. Would I thank you for that, by the way. Every morning I pray to it. Never would.
Ally Breen
I just assume Pat's Day.
Christopher
Wait a minute. You told me you always thought that uncle was gay. And what about the. Was that Josh that you sent me your picture of or was that you? You said it was you. I sent both pictures. Oh.
Ally Breen
I found a phone back years ago before people all locked their screens. So I had to go through the messages to find out, like, who to text to get it back to. The first like 12 to 15 messages were all the same picture that he sent to multiple girls. Like, just thinking of you. Oh, my gosh. Yeah.
Christopher
Wow. Nothing says Merry Christmas like my penis. Happy Holidays. And we are speaking with comedian. Oh, she's so nice. It's Allie Breen and Ally Presents, letters on a show we call Sexy Time. What do you got, Ally?
Ally Breen
Dear Ally, I was totally in love with someone who I dated for three years and we broke up. She ended it by sleeping with my best friend. Oh, she ended up sleeping with my best friend. That's not how she ended it. Well, I stopped talking to both of them. Fast forward to now, five years later, she starts messaging me, telling a huge mistake she made and that she really wants to try again. She said she also stopped talking to my best friend after what he did. Lol. What he did. I would actually love to get back together, but how can I possibly get past this?
Tom
Well, that's your deal.
Christopher
Well, if you can. Yeah. I mean, if you can't. Yeah.
Tom
It's all up to you. There's no way to get past it. You just got to do it.
Christopher
Is he still not talking to the friend? Right? The friend is still.
Ally Breen
Yeah, the friend is out both parties on both counts. Yep. Sounds like she's just lonely and is going back to an easy.
Tom
You know, she's right.
Christopher
No, she could have real regrets. That happens.
Ally Breen
But you, like, romanticize the thing in your head, you know? So if it already wasn't good, I bet that it'll be the same.
Christopher
If nothing else, he should go back and check it out and find out how he stands up compared to his buddy. And then if he's the winner, call him up and gloat.
Ally Breen
There you go.
Christopher
So take the high road.
Ally Breen
Yep.
Christopher
Take the long road. Specifically, just scream in your face over the phone. Hey, Bill, I know we haven't talked in five years, but guess what? You know what our nickname for you is? Tiny. Take that.
Tom
Ally, I think you had the answer there.
Ally Breen
Yeah. I said I became Jess for this one. I said, or date her for a little while, then sleep with her best friend.
Tom
Oh, revenge.
Ally Breen
Sweet.
Christopher
I'm inclined to say. Don't go back.
Tom
Me, too.
Christopher
There's somebody better out there in the future. Yeah, it depends. I mean, how good was it?
Tom
There's more to just this.
Christopher
Will you stop appealing to the worst parts of me? You're gonna get a gun stuck in your face. You know, not every one of these. Who's tiny now, pal? I mean, these letters don't all have to end in happily ever after. Sometimes it can be a hot, sweaty evening on a golf course. With a walk of shame. What? Of course. Remember, ladies, no such thing as a walk of shame.
Tom
Thank you, John.
Christopher
Good.
Tom
You had fun. Enjoy it.
Christopher
Yes.
Tom
Yes.
Ally Breen
Yep.
Tom
Don't ever be ashamed. Don't let these Guys make you be ashamed.
Christopher
No way.
Ally Breen
Yeah, get those steps in.
Christopher
Oh, there are some things you should be ashamed. We don't think less of you.
Ally Breen
Never mind who's sleeping with animals in New York. The walk of shame is like a subway and two bus rides.
Christopher
The commute of shame.
Ally Breen
Yeah, an Uber, if you're lucky.
Christopher
Allie, do we have another letter?
Ally Breen
Dear Allie, my husband loves lingerie in the bedroom. Hot twist on him. He bought me a ton and I only have ever worn it on the day he's gotten it for me. So the other day he said he has a surprise and was waiting for me in the bedroom and was wearing it under his clothes.
Christopher
All right.
Ally Breen
I laughed and thought he was kidding, but he talked me into taking him seriously and it was kind of fine. I can probably get used to it, but I don't know what to do. I need to vent. I can't tell my friends or family because they'll never see him the same. Is this. How weird is this?
Christopher
Very, very weird.
Tom
Well, the fact that you can wear the same lingerie is kind of weird.
Ally Breen
But it must be really stretchy.
Christopher
Something.
Ally Breen
Yeah, it's got to be.
Christopher
It's only weird if you want it to be. It's weird and wrong. No, no, it is objectively weird. Thank you, Tom. Thank you very much.
Tom
It's not.
Christopher
You said it's kind of fine. You can get used to it. He needs it. Clearly. You should wear the right underwear for your sex and or gender at all times. Yeah, well, you never. You never switch. Except with another right buddy? I say good for you. Yeah, well, when he has to have it locked off and changes his name to Shirley, get back to me. That does not have to go with that. And don't call me Shirley. That doesn't necessarily happen. But again, if it does get back to us, I. Yeah, Josh kind of hit the nail on that this is what he needs. Not my thing, but same. And you sound like you're kind of okay with it. And if that. If that stays, my gosh, good for you guys. If he starts talking baby talk or pretends that certain things are puppets. All right, don't worry about any of that. Get out. I don't know. Certain things are puppets.
Ally Breen
That's a general for any situation.
Christopher
Look, are you the one they call Clam Chop? Hi, Clam Chop. I like your beard.
Tom
Is this why you made puppets out of all of us?
Christopher
Wait a minute. You may have a good point. By the way, Ali Breen is a very fine stand up comedian. We gotta get you out here. Ali, we haven't seen you in person in a long time. We gotta do a show.
Ally Breen
It's been a long time.
Christopher
We gotta do a show with you. Can you get in an airplane and come see us?
Ally Breen
I'd love to.
Christopher
Allie is spelled A L, L I B R E E N. I emphasize that. Cause you can find her on social media platforms and send us your correspondence. We'd love to hear from you. She's also on OnlyFans. A l l I B. We always enjoy the segment, Ali. Thank you very much. Everything okay in your world? I don't see your kitty cats. Are they okay?
Ally Breen
Yeah, they're obsessed. There's pigeons in the window right now. They are fully obsessed with them. So they're leaving my wires alone.
Christopher
Ah, okay, good.
Ally Breen
Yeah.
Christopher
What are the names of your cats again?
Ally Breen
Welly and Huxley. What's Willy Welly? It's Orwell and Huxley.
Christopher
Oh. Oh.
Ally Breen
Oh, yeah.
Christopher
Very literary.
Ally Breen
Very literary. Yeah. Two of my mom's favorite authors, so they're named after her even though she's related cats. But yeah.
Christopher
Okay, that's it for another Bob and Tom show. Extra. Catch us on itunes, Google play and stitcher for Bob and Tom. Extra. This is Christopher. Take care, everybody.
Tom
Former MLB all star Sean Casey, AKA the Mayor, keeps hitting it out of the park.
Christopher
Take my 30 years of experience. Take the wisdom and knowledge I've learned from the failures when I got sent down my rookie year, all the injuries I had to overcome. Your mind is the most important tool you have in life. Be relentless. Keep charging. It matters how you talk to yourself, how you look at the world. That matters. We talk about that.
Ally Breen
I don't know.
Christopher
I'm fired up, basically. Baseball's back and it's going to be incredible. I love it.
Tom
The mayor's office with Sean Casey from.
Ally Breen
Believe, Follow and Listen on your favorite platform.
Podcast Summary: B&T Extra – Alli Breen with Sexy Time
The BOB & TOM Show Free Podcast | Cumulus Podcast Network
Episode: B&T Extra: Alli Breen with Sexy Time
Release Date: May 21, 2025
In this episode of B&T Extra, host Christopher and co-host Tom engage with the charming comedian and relationship correspondent, Alli Breen, to explore intriguing topics in the realm of romance and modern relationships. The conversation seamlessly blends humor with insightful advice, making it both entertaining and valuable for listeners navigating the complexities of love and dating.
Timestamp: 05:24
The episode kicks off with a compelling discussion about a recent lawsuit involving the popular content platform, OnlyFans. Two plaintiffs, M. Brunner and Jay Fry, have filed a lawsuit alleging that they were deceived into believing they were interacting directly with content creators when, in reality, they were communicating with agency-operated chatbots.
Tom highlights the essence of the lawsuit:
"According to 404 Media, the plaintiffs... claim they were defrauded after believing the creators they subscribed to were talking to them in direct messages and video clips." (06:21)
Christopher adds a humorous angle, illustrating the frustration of the subscribers:
"Don't you love the fact that this guy goes, hey, look, I want to see your boobs and I'll show you my new quiche." (06:31)
Alli Breen provides her professional insight into the situation:
"I do the communication, but it is hard. It takes a while to return messages, so I get it... there were people using services and stuff like that was happening." (06:52)
The conversation delves into the broader implications of automated interactions in online platforms, drawing parallels with scandals like Ashley Madison, where users were similarly deceived by fake profiles, yet subscriber numbers continued to rise despite the deception.
Timestamp: 08:19 – 19:58
The heart of the episode revolves around Alli Breen's segment, Sexy Time, where she addresses listeners' letters seeking advice on various romantic dilemmas. Below are the key letters discussed:
Letter Content:
"I took my girlfriend to a family party and she really hit it off with everybody. Three months later, I saw that she's still texting one of my cousins. I flipped out and I told her that's inappropriate and that she should have at least told me. And she said, I'm acting crazy. They were definitely flirty. So what do I do about this?" (08:19)
Advisory Response:
Christopher and Tom humorously suggest the complainant might be overreacting:
"Oh, I think you're acting crazy." (08:36)
Alli Breen emphasizes the importance of communication, stating:
"I think just the fact that she didn't tell him makes it seem like it's nefarious." (09:25)
The trio encourages honesty and transparency in relationships, suggesting that the boyfriend should address his concerns directly with his girlfriend.
Letter Content:
"I met a girl online. We went on two dates and she immediately started sexting me, including nudes. I was thinking maybe we'd be a serious couple, but is this a giant red flag and does it mean that we should only hook up?" (11:54)
Advisory Response:
Christopher offers a candid perspective:
"He's a guy who doesn't know how life works... she was sending pictures without professional intent." (12:09)
Alli Breen critiques the imbalance in the relationship dynamics, implying that such early sexting might indicate differing relationship goals.
The hosts discuss the potential for such behavior to signal that the relationship might not be headed towards seriousness, advising caution and clear communication.
Letter Content:
"I was totally in love with someone who I dated for three years and we broke up. She ended it by sleeping with my best friend. Fast forward to now, five years later, she starts messaging me, telling a huge mistake she made and that she really wants to try again. She said she also stopped talking to my best friend after what he did. I'd actually love to get back together, but how can I possibly get past this?" (14:28)
Advisory Response:
Alli Breen straightforwardly advises against rekindling the relationship:
"I said, or date her for a little while, then sleep with her best friend." (15:37)
The hosts humorously suggest embracing the breakup and avoiding further entanglements:
"Don't go back... Somebody better out there in the future." (16:02)
The consensus is to prioritize self-respect and move forward rather than return to a painful past.
Letter Content:
"My husband loves lingerie in the bedroom. He bought me a ton and I have only ever worn it on the day he's gotten it for me. So the other day he said he has a surprise and was waiting for me in the bedroom and was wearing it under his clothes. I laughed and thought he was kidding, but he talked me into taking him seriously. It's kind of fine, but I don't know what to do. I need to vent. I can't tell my friends or family because they'll never see him the same. Is this... How weird is this?" (17:12)
Advisory Response:
Christopher and Tom express bewilderment and provide playful banter:
"It's only weird if you want it to be... You should wear the right underwear for your sex and/or gender at all times." (17:50)
Alli Breen suggests open communication is key, though the hosts inject humor into the scenario, acknowledging the unusual nature of the situation.
Throughout the episode, Christopher and Tom intersperse their serious discussions with lighthearted humor, playful teasing, and witty remarks that keep the atmosphere lively. Whether mocking the repetitiveness of certain conversations or engaging in banter about the letters, their chemistry adds a delightful dynamic to the show.
For example, when discussing the husband’s lingerie, Tom jokes about puppet behavior:
"Don’t let these Guys make you be ashamed." (16:45)
Additionally, Christopher highlights the possibility of staging a live show with Alli Breen:
"Ali Breen is a very fine stand-up comedian. We gotta get you out here. Can you get in an airplane and come see us?" (19:03)
The episode wraps up with a light-hearted sign-off, thanking Alli Breen for her insightful and entertaining contributions. The hosts encourage listeners to connect with Alli on social media and her OnlyFans platform, fostering a sense of community and ongoing support for relationship advice.
Final Remarks from Hosts:
Listeners are left with a blend of laughter, relatable relationship scenarios, and practical advice, making this episode a quintessential example of The BOB & TOM Show's unique blend of humor and heartfelt guidance.
Notable Quotes:
This comprehensive summary captures the essence of the episode, highlighting key discussions, memorable quotes, and the engaging interplay between the hosts and Alli Breen. Whether you're tuning in for laughter or seeking relationship insights, this episode offers a valuable and entertaining experience.