B&T Extra: Alli Breen with Sexy Time

Summary

Episode Summary: B&T Extra – Alli Breen with Sexy Time

Release Date: June 27, 2025

In this engaging episode of B&T Extra, hosted by Christopher and Tom from The BOB & TOM Show, comedian and relationship advisor Allie Breen joins the conversation to offer her insights on various love life dilemmas submitted by listeners. The episode delves into four distinct relationship challenges, each providing a platform for humor, candid discussions, and practical advice.

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1. Suspected Infidelity and Stepchildren Complications

Timestamp: [04:36]

Letter Highlight:
A listener expresses concern about her husband’s fidelity after their stepdaughter claims to have witnessed her parents making out. Faced with conflicting accounts, she seeks guidance on whom to believe and how to navigate the situation.

Discussion & Advice:
Allie and the hosts suggest giving the husband the benefit of the doubt, interpreting the daughter’s behavior as a bid for attention rather than evidence of infidelity. They emphasize the importance of trust and open communication within the marriage.

Notable Quote:
"I say, yeah, yeah. Give your husband the benefit of the doubt this." – [05:01] Host

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2. Sugar Daddy/Sugar Baby Relationship Concerns

Timestamp: [06:07]

Letter Highlight:
A recently divorced individual involved in a sugar daddy/sugar baby arrangement worries that the sugar baby is frequently claiming to have her period, leading him to reconsider his financial commitments.

Discussion & Advice:
The panel discusses the plausibility of the sugar baby’s claims, questioning whether she might be fabricating reasons to reduce financial support. They advise maintaining respectful communication and evaluating the sincerity of the relationship dynamics.

Notable Quote:
"Yeah, she's trying to get out of the whole thing. Find somebody who really wants to have sex with you." – [08:29] Host

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3. Overbearing Mother and Forced Matchmaking

Timestamp: [09:18]

Letter Highlight:
A listener shares her frustration with her boyfriend’s mother, who persistently tries to set him up with one of her friend's sons. Concerned that this behavior indicates her mother-in-law's disapproval of their relationship, she seeks advice on how to handle the situation.

Discussion & Advice:
Allie and the hosts interpret the mother’s actions as a lack of approval rather than genuine matchmaking. They recommend setting boundaries and communicating openly with both the boyfriend and his mother to address the underlying tensions.

Notable Quote:
"You don't have to pretend to be somebody else in order to make mom happy." – [10:37] Host

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4. Living with an Irresponsible Boyfriend

Timestamp: [16:58]

Letter Highlight:
A dedicated partner is troubled by her boyfriend’s irresponsibility, including frequent traffic tickets and recent eviction from his apartment. She contemplates whether moving in together is a wise decision or if it would lead to further chaos.

Discussion & Advice:
The conversation revolves around the challenges of cohabiting with someone who exhibits irresponsible behavior. The hosts emphasize the importance of assessing the boyfriend’s willingness to change and the potential impact on their relationship stability.

Notable Quote:
"You can fix him. 1, 2, 3." – [17:34] Host
"There's a certain charm to being irresponsible and incapable of doing adult things as an adult. It wears off. Very quickly." – [17:53] Host

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Overall Insights and Themes

Throughout the episode, Allie Breen brings a blend of humor and heartfelt advice to each situation, prompting the hosts to engage in lighthearted banter while addressing serious relationship concerns. The recurring theme centers on trust, communication, and the complexities of blended families and unconventional relationships.

Notable Interactions:

• Humorous Banter: The hosts frequently engage in playful exchanges, adding levity to the discussions. For example, during the sugar daddy segment, one host jokes, "She may be dying. I'm not qual. Maybe I wasn't paying enough." – [08:40]

• Practical Advice: Despite the humor, the advice remains grounded and practical, encouraging listeners to prioritize honesty and self-respect in their relationships.

Closing Remarks: The episode wraps up with Christopher thanking Allie Breen for her valuable contributions and reminding listeners where they can find more episodes of Bob and Tom Extra. The conversation concludes on a positive note, reinforcing the importance of seeking and providing support in matters of the heart.

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Key Takeaways:

• Trust and open communication are vital in addressing suspicions and misunderstandings within relationships.
• Recognizing and respecting personal boundaries can help navigate family-induced relationship pressures.
• Assessing a partner’s responsibility and willingness to change is crucial before making significant commitments like cohabitation.

This episode serves as a relatable and entertaining guide for listeners facing similar relationship dilemmas, blending humor with actionable advice to foster healthier and happier relationships.

Transcript

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[Christopher]

Welcome back. It's another Bob and Tom extra. This is Christopher. Not only is the Bob and Tom show live every weekday morning, but every afternoon. We'll give you a little extra. In case you missed anything on the big show today, Ally Breen with Sexy Time. She's coming up in just a minute.

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[Unknown]

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[Christopher]

A great way to get your morning started.

[Unknown]

This is Bob and Tom. Extra.

[Tom]

Welcome back, Tom.

[Unknown]

I was conferring with one of the bright people on our staff.

Those are hard to come by.

Yeah, yeah. So it was so engaging. I thought, oh, I've got to go back in there.

[Tom]

You have cut me to the quick.

[Unknown]

I don't know how I believe it's now time to. Oh, look at how gorgeous she looks today. And she's not at her normal. Are you in Florida?

[Allie Breen]

No, I'm actually down at Fox studios today. I have to tape something for them in a little bit, so I came.

[Unknown]

Down early because you look tan.

[Allie Breen]

I am tan. Yeah. That's actually from New York a little bit. It's been really warm.

[Unknown]

Nice Florida.

[Allie Breen]

Probably a combination.

[Unknown]

We're talking with Allie Breen, comedian, and Ms. Breen can be reached at your favorite social media platform and location. A L L I B R E E N what's this all about? It's about helping people with their love lives. Let us begin. Allie, do you have any good letters?

[Allie Breen]

Oh, yes. Dear Allie, I have been married to my husband for three years. We're both divorced and he has two kids who we have on the weekends. One of his kids told me that she walked in on her mom and dad making out. I confronted my husband and he said, oh, she's just trying to cause trouble because she's been trying to get out of coming to our house on the weekends. I have no idea who to believe or what to do. Any idea.

[Unknown]

I. I say, yeah, yeah. Give your husband the benefit of the doubt this.

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She's a smart girl. She knows how to stir it up.

[Unknown]

She does know how to stir it up.

[Allie Breen]

Yeah. That's a whole new level of playing your parents against each other.

[Unknown]

My God, the anti parent trap, isn't it?

Right?

The opposite. Trying to.

Yeah, yeah. She wants her parents to be making out. That's what she's seeing in her head. But that's not happening. I don't believe that's happening.

Yeah. What's. What's so unpleasant about being at his place?

Apparently she doesn't like her new mom or bonus mom or.

[Allie Breen]

Yeah, you just want to hang out with your friends at that age and getting shuffled to your parents probably. Yeah, that's a way to Go for that.

[Unknown]

The stepmom probably makes her scrub the floors. You know how today's kids are more.

Chores out the fireplace. Yes.

This is the stepmom who wrote us the letter.

Which was the letter. Oh, sorry. Yeah, we can't fix this one. Next.

[Allie Breen]

Dear Allie, I'm recently divorced and I've been in a sugar daddy, sugar baby relationship. I'm loving it. We meet once a week for some fun and I help pay her rent and buy her some fun stuff. It's been really great, but recently it seems that she always has her period and I've been giving her the same, but I feel like in this situation I should be able to pay her less since I'm not getting the same in these circumstances.

[Unknown]

How do I do this?

[Allie Breen]

Oh, that's sounding like a jerk.

[Unknown]

I don't think you bring it up. I think you just start giving less.

Yeah.

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Wait, every week she's having her period now?

[Unknown]

That's wrong.

She may be dying.

This could be just. Just your regular internal bleeding. These could be organs on the way out. I'm not. I'm not qual. I. Maybe I wasn't paying enough.

This is the sugar daddy writing the letter he's talking about.

He doesn't want to pay her because.

She'S not giving up. She's not giving up.

I would recommend towels.

Yeah.

[Tom]

I mean, hang on a second here. I think we were in some new.

[Unknown]

Territory, but I don't. He may be fine with that. She's saying, hey, I'm on my period, I don't want to have sex.

And I know exact editor of the presentation.

Go to.

Go to a costume shop.

[Tom]

Well, this is going to be good.

[Unknown]

The key.

The key is Japanese flag.

Knew it.

[Allie Breen]

Yeah.

[Unknown]

No.

[Tom]

So you're convinced they have a Japanese flag at a costume show?

[Unknown]

No, no, no, no, no. You're going to need a World War II era. Never mind.

[Allie Breen]

I think you can pay her with every Japanese flag, Right?

[Unknown]

Yeah, yeah. Just. You don't have to bring it up. Just. First off, it's a little weird to be telling this guy, hey, the amount of money you give her is in. Directly related to the amount of sex she's.

[Tom]

You might be in a prostitute, John.

[Unknown]

I mean.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. This. Everything about this is really unpleasant.

Yeah. Is this blood money? Now?

She can't be on her period every week. That's physically impossible.

No, I mean, at the very least, she'd be dizzy.

Yeah, yeah.

[Allie Breen]

You bring it up out of pretend concern, like, are you sure you weren't shocked? Go to the hospital? Yeah.

[Unknown]

All right, so maybe she's trying to get out of the deal.

Of course she is. I mean, no, she wants the money. She just don't want to have sex with the guy.

Right?

[Allie Breen]

Yeah, she wants to get out of that.

[Unknown]

I say get out of the whole thing. Find somebody who really wants to have sex with you.

There'll be others, believe me.

Yeah, or.

[Tom]

Oh, God.

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[Unknown]

You get a calendar from her. And I. I think I'm correct. Isn't. Is there not an app?

[Tom]

Of course there's an app.

[Unknown]

There's an app for this. So she could. She could log on and then you'd go. You'd look at your thing and go, oh, hey, sorry. It's Zelda this week. You're off duty, Candace.

Oh, so now he's got more than one?

[Allie Breen]

Yeah, he's already got a rotation going.

[Unknown]

On, but it's not going to affect the payments.

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I guarantee she has a rotation. Like, I bet she has a couple of sugar daddies.

[Unknown]

Maybe.

I don't know.

Doesn't sound like this guy cares.

Oh, yeah.

He only sees her once a week.

I've stopped caring. What's the next level?

I agree.

[Allie Breen]

Dear Ali, I've been dating my boyfriend for six months. I met his family, and I really thought everything was great. His mom, however, keeps trying to set him up with one of her friend's sons. I'm obviously upset, and he says his mom is just overbearing, but clearly this means she doesn't like me and doesn't want me to be with her son. And this is the guy I think I want to marry. What do I do? Do I kiss up to this? To the mom? Do I get mad at her? Do I make my boyfriend intervene? Any ideas?

[Unknown]

Are we in a gay relationship here?

Oh, what made you think that?

Because she said, son. He's. She's trying to fix her boyfriend up with a son. He said my boyfriend. And his mom kept. Keeps wanting to fix him up with a friend of her son.

[Allie Breen]

Oh, that's weird. Yeah.

[Unknown]

Isn't that what it says?

[Allie Breen]

Think so, though.

[Unknown]

Yeah, but what if a friend of her son is a woman? A woman?

No, I thought she said.

I thought she meant one of her friends.

One of her friends.

The son of one.

Okay, I gotcha. Yeah, well, maybe it is.

[Allie Breen]

Make her.

[Unknown]

I mean, if.

Maybe.

But, I mean, if you think we're unqualified to discuss heterosexual relationships. Yeah, now we can go into territory we really know nothing about and give even more bad advice. I just, in general hear that.

[Allie Breen]

Wrong. I feel like it's a typo. Like I.

[Unknown]

Well, either way, I think the same. The same answer. You just go about your business and do what you have to do.

Yeah.

You don't have to pretend to be somebody else in order to make mom happy.

Exactly. I. I would kind of not worry about.

Yeah, she's probably never going to be happy.

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[Unknown]

Yeah, I have it every once in a while.

[Allie Breen]

From the heart.

[Unknown]

Yeah. Although there wouldn't be a period problem or to gay relief.

No, no, no.

You got that going.

There could still be bleeding.

Yeah, well, maybe. Maybe in the beginning.

You thought it.

Was safe to go back in the water. You didn't think I could have a comeback. Well, aren't you fancy. Ali, what are you doing on TV today?

[Allie Breen]

Oh, they do these, do you remember, shows where it's like talking head things? It'll be like, do you remember, you know, 2009? And they, you know, give you a bunch of things to comment on? So, yeah, it'll be like me and Kennedy and. Yeah, a bunch of talking heads that go in and do their stuff.

[Unknown]

Kennedy, the. The newscaster? Not. Not Robert F. Jr. No, Robert F. Kennedy.

I love Kennedy.

[Allie Breen]

It would be the news.

[Unknown]

Kennedy, are you wearing a bathing suit?

[Allie Breen]

No, I'm wearing a tank top.

[Unknown]

Okay.

Yeah, one of those 1930s ones that Curly used to wear.

[Allie Breen]

I do all my Fox appearances in a bathing suit.

[Unknown]

Right. You know, they got good ratings. Now I know why.

[Allie Breen]

Trying to make my mark.

[Unknown]

Ally, what do you got over there?

[Allie Breen]

There, dear Ally. Well, here we go. This is a apropos. My girlfriend wears a thong bikini that I always thought was incredibly sexy, but she's gotten pretty out of shape and now it's actually kind of embarrassing. There's a lot of cellulite back there and it's not very cute.

[Unknown]

Oh, my God.

[Allie Breen]

Should I buy her one of those skirt bikini bottoms or is that too obvious? What do I do here? Wow.

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[Unknown]

Yeah.

What? What are you doing, sir?

Oh, God, no.

[Tom]

Just stop going swimming. That's fine. Right? We're going to do something else.

[Unknown]

Go move to Nebraska.

[Tom]

Horseback riding.

[Unknown]

Move up to Canada instead, perhaps.

I'm not interested even talking to you.

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He wants to get her the big old moo moo skirt to hide her.

[Tom]

Butt or carry a towel with him.

[Allie Breen]

That's horrible.

[Unknown]

Wrap her.

[Tom]

Wrap her up in a towel.

[Unknown]

Probably be easier to do seesaw.

To do what?

What? Beyond the seesaw Seesaw. If, unless you're afraid of heights, you're gonna be up top for a while. Is that what you're suggesting?

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[Unknown]

Teeter totter. Okay.

[Tom]

What are you talking about? You have any.

[Unknown]

He just thinks it's funny that a fat person would be on a season.

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She has dimples on her butt.

[Unknown]

Yeah, exactly.

All women have cellular.

[Tom]

And you say you're implying that she's heavier than he is?

[Unknown]

Yeah.

[Tom]

Huh.

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[Unknown]

I want to tell all the women out there, most guys, I don't think, are bothered by cellulite.

No, I really don't.

Yeah, look at God. One over there.

[Allie Breen]

And most guys love the flowers, no matter who's wearing it. I would think it's funny.

[Unknown]

Cellulite? That's the name of my phone company.

You can't comment.

[Allie Breen]

Tom's cut off.

[Unknown]

Are you.

[Tom]

I asked you this earlier, and I don't think I got an answer. Are you drinking?

[Unknown]

I know I've been drunk for two hours. I have. I've had very little sleep.

I. I don't think any of us want to give you any advice, sir. We. None of us like your premise.

Yeah. If you don't love her, get out. Give her a break.

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[Unknown]

No, not at all.

[Allie Breen]

I hope she wears a smaller thong bikini.

[Tom]

Yeah, well, unless it's really awful.

[Unknown]

Yeah, I guess so.

New from Muffin Top the bikini. Let's move on to our next letter. Ali Breen.

[Allie Breen]

Dear Allie, my husband went on a work trip, and he came back with what he said were bug bites all around his junk. I demanded that he get an STD test, and he flipped out on me and said, how can I not trust him? We're in a huge fight. I don't know what to do.

[Unknown]

Well.

Well, what kind of STD would give you bug bites?

Maybe they look like bug whites. So maybe crabs or genital warts or.

Yeah, herpes.

I'm not sure.

That's like a.

Does it look like. Does it look like bug bites?

[Tom]

And how would it manifest just being gone that quickly? Right.

[Unknown]

Yeah.

And why would it just be located in the genital area? Exactly.

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Would it be razor rash? Like.

[Allie Breen]

That's what it sounds like. It's more razor rash.

[Unknown]

But to me, if he doesn't have anything to hide, why would he.

Not exactly. That's what I. Just go, get the test. Get the T. But she's, you know, she's saying common STDs. That may resemble bug bites. Here we go. Herpes, scabies, syphilis, something called Shankroid.

Doesn't Shankroid sound like a character?

Yes. Yeah. I am Shankroid. I'm from the Jetsons. Something called molluscum contagiosum.

[Tom]

Oh, yeah.

[Unknown]

That's a big one.

[Tom]

You know what? That's really contagious.

[Unknown]

So, ma' am, you have good reason to suggest maybe.

Yes.

He should get tested.

[Allie Breen]

Are those like, medieval sex diseases? I've never.

[Unknown]

No, I mean, the herpes is number one. They say that can. That causes small, red, itchy bumps that might be mistaken for bug bites.

Oh, does he shave down there?

[Allie Breen]

Well, if he hadn't before.

[Unknown]

Because, I mean, it could be razor burn or whatever.

Yeah, baby, but.

Right. But I don't know.

[Christopher]

Get.

[Unknown]

Yeah, I keep. Stick your ground.

He's cheating.

Just don't put out until.

Yeah.

He gets tested.

Touch him.

[Allie Breen]

Yeah.

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A work trip is getting mosquito bites around his junk.

[Unknown]

Yeah. What was he doing?

Yeah. Unless you work for off, that's probably not happening.

[Tom]

I'm just making s' mores with the boy.

[Christopher]

Yeah.

[Unknown]

Yeah. And Mondor said, why you spread honey down there?

[Christopher]

It'll keep the bugs away.

[Unknown]

No joke.

Well, the new honey flavored off. Don't work.

[Tom]

I told you.

[Unknown]

Smells good. But don't worry.

Oh, my gosh.

We're speaking with Ali Breen, comedian. We have time for one more letter. Ally. And again. Oh, sorry. You can reach Ali. A L, L, I B R, E, E, N. Sorry, Ali. Go ahead.

[Allie Breen]

Dear Ally, I really love my boyfriend, but he's very irresponsible. He has a child from a previous girlfriend and whenever he borrows my car, I'll get a ticket in the mail.

[Unknown]

Or is it signed Pat Godwin? Sorry. I'm sorry. Go ahead. He does what happens.

He gets tickets in the mail. Or she does.

[Allie Breen]

Yeah, from him. Or he'll get into some kind of accident. He just got kicked out of his apartment, so he's staying with me.

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[Allie Breen]

And I would actually like to live together. But am I inviting in a total disaster? Or maybe can I change him with a stable environment?

[Unknown]

Oh, yeah. You can fix him.

[Allie Breen]

You can fix him.

[Tom]

Fix him. 1, 2, 3.

[Unknown]

How many have tried and failed, Pat?

They've all failed, baby.

[Tom]

He's a fixer upper.

[Unknown]

Can I change him? Really? That came out of her mouth?

[Allie Breen]

Yep. Honey, everyone thinks they can.

[Unknown]

Oh, yeah.

There's a certain charm to being irresponsible and incapable of doing adult things as an adult. It wears off. Very quickly.

Yeah, yeah.

What's it. What's the average? About three years.

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[Unknown]

It's down to about eight months now.

[Christopher]

That's it for another Bob and Tom show. Extra. Catch us on itunes, Google play and Stitcher. For Bob and Tom. Extra. This is Christopher. Take care, everyone. Everybody.

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[Allie Breen]

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[Allie Breen]

Form.